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Are you still bodybuilding?
/r/TheRedPill05/07/22 12:26 AM
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How’s life at that age single? I’m turning 40 in the next couple years and have thought about if it’s worth it to get into a relationship
/r/TheRedPill05/07/22 12:20 AM
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It all depends on how jacked you’re willing to get. How rich are you willing to get? 5’10 is enough in the US. Try to stay either East or west coast where the population is shorter. Avoid Chicago as most guys are over 6 feet
/r/askTRP26/09/21 06:41 PM
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Stop focusing on women so much. Find a goal. Put 100% towards it. You’ll be surprised. Give it 1 year . Trust me.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 06:37 PM
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You in a house? Staying long term?
/r/askTRP20/01/21 04:15 AM
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To be clear I grew up in a conservative state and I would never vote for a liberal politician
/r/askTRP18/01/21 08:00 PM
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Navalmanack. THINK BIG - Donald Trump. Antifragle.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 02:50 AM
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Correct. She thinks you’re ok. Probably has low or medium self esteem. You do too. Why else would you settle for someone who can’t say they love you. Raise your self esteem. Dump her. Ironically, only then at that exact point will you hear her say those words more earnestly than ever before. “I love you” Women are sick. Blame the man upstairs. I’m just the messenger.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 11:36 PM
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Read books on dinosaurs, history, japanese samurai, mindset, war, navy seals , fighting etc. Just keep reading dawg
/r/askTRP10/05/20 10:30 PM
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Relax dude. You will get more handsome as you age. Get jacked. Become as dangerous as you possibly can. Do you think most UFC fighters or boxers or NFL players are handsome? No. Get good style, haircut etc.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 09:19 PM
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Mods can you ban this guy
/r/askTRP08/05/20 10:13 PM
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Excellent thank you
/r/askTRP08/05/20 08:48 PM
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Never LTR a single mother . Unless you hate yourself
/r/askTRP08/05/20 05:27 PM
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Thank you. This is excellent. But what if you’ve done the work? I get it for those who aren’t lifting, making money etc. But here I am. Making money, lifting, style is good , yet because I want a family I get excited when I meet a girl that could possibly fit the bill. That excitement makes me subconsciously chase which ruins attraction. How the fuck can I get better?
/r/askTRP08/05/20 03:44 PM
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I hear you bro. I thought I was redpilled... then I met my unicorn oneitis lol. Everything I wanted and by far the best I had ever had. I fell in love and she played me. Still not completely over it 6 months later. But pain is god or the universe pushing you to get stronger. To become more than you once were. Imagine if you used the pain to really push you to become a stronger man in every way. Someone you can look at and admire. Then wouldn’t getting played be a blessing? That’s what I tell mys…
/r/askTRP08/05/20 03:41 PM
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Juice not worth the squeeze man. Trust me.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 03:03 AM
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Here is your issue. You are trying to game her still. The gaming stops once disrespect begins. She disrespected you by leaving you on read. Cut your losses and move on. If she gets aggressive about getting together when this ends, fuck her. She isn’t LTR material though
/r/askTRP08/05/20 01:09 AM
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Love it!
/r/askTRP07/05/20 09:32 PM
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Lol why? What I the rationale?
/r/askTRP07/05/20 05:00 PM
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Please do a post on it.
/r/seduction07/05/20 02:19 AM
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Thank you so much. This makes so much sense. So much of this gaming shit is about “making the right moves” But where does self respect come in? Isn’t half this shit about respecting yourself and loving yourself? And I’m not talking about some new age shit where you “love yourself” and say it in the mirror. But where you actually have your own fucking back and negotiate for yourself like you’re the most important person in the world.
/r/seduction07/05/20 02:07 AM
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Do you do this at every point in the relationship?
/r/seduction07/05/20 12:55 AM
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Treat yo self
/r/askTRP06/05/20 10:47 PM
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Yes
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/20 04:44 PM
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Do you know how to fight? Are you lifting and I’m really good shape?
/r/askTRP05/05/20 07:34 PM
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She is low value. Why are you wasting time on someone like this? Are you this low value?
/r/askTRP05/05/20 07:24 PM
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Is it possible to have this all squared away and still not have as many options with women as you would like? I’m mainly worried about losing my hair by 40 and losing options as a result.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 06:18 PM
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Can you expand? What would you suggest I do do make myself epic? I make great money with a good career, I lift , but no other hobbies. Prob will sign up for BJJ when this quarantine ends
/r/askTRP05/05/20 04:58 PM
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Is this actually true?
/r/askTRP05/05/20 04:49 PM
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I appreciate that but sometimes I have trouble with boundaries. I was ran over consistently by my mom, dad, relatives when I was a kid over and over again. Standing up for myself makes me feel uneasy.. I’m much better than I was since I started lifting 5 years ago. I can now incline bench 315, and squat 405 for reps but still have trouble at times.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 08:29 PM
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Follow wes Watson on YouTube. You don’t fucking love yourself and that’s why a feminine woman doesn’t want you. Wake up at 330 am , workout , eat right , read. That will teach you some toughnesss
/r/askTRP27/03/20 12:01 AM
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Thanks my dude. That’s pretty savage but also necessary. You wouldn’t need to do that if the bitch wasn’t so dumb. They all act out. Were you always like this? Or did you learn to be this way? I ask because I had to learn. Sometimes I still struggle because I was bred to be a nice guy. I alway tell myself better to lose by being an asshole than by being too nice .
/r/askTRP26/03/20 10:22 PM
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Unbannable... treat us to a story so the boys can use it as an example
/r/askTRP26/03/20 02:02 PM
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100%. This is all you need
/r/askTRP23/03/20 01:56 AM
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4 am wake up time Count macros Resistance band training
/r/askTRP21/03/20 08:14 PM
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Look up James grange on YouTube. He posts resistance band workouts. They are great for your core and getting a pump while giving connective tissue a break. I’ve been enjoying them and the added bonus is I’ll be able to use them while traveling or injury recovery/mobility in the future. And dude grocery stores are still open.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 08:12 PM
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Look up James grange on YouTube. He posts resistance band workouts. They are great for your core and getting a pump while giving connective tissue a break. I’ve been enjoying them and the added bonus is I’ll be able to use them while traveling or injury recovery/mobility in the future. And dude grocery stores are still open.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 08:12 PM
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How is this trumps fault? These problems all existed before he got there. Your criticism of our system is fair but i think you’re misplacing the blame. Trump is imperfect but overall he’s given up his life of luxury to try and fix things in this country.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 09:10 PM
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Yes good advice. All the 18 year old kids can turn on their TV and watch how khan or Caesar deals with women, shit tests and the media. Trump is a model for our world.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 07:12 PM
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I’ve mentioned this before and I know you agree with me. WWDJTD is always the best way to handle women. What would Donald j trump do
/r/askTRP20/03/20 04:37 PM
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Yes avoid at all costs. If you work in a big corporation understand that middle managers are usually very weak and feminine even if they are male. Getting a good one is an exception, not the rule. Female bosses are the worst. This is why you must always be building skills, on your grind and smart. Right now I have a good male boss. I’m prepared to leave tomorrow if he gets replaced with a woman. Always be nimble. God bless.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 08:29 PM
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Yes and no. Eventually you will get a curveball because that’s what women do and that’s what life does. That’s when you find out how strong you are
/r/askTRP14/03/20 03:18 PM
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Bad idea. Yes you will meet more girls but it will also create problems. Dog might get sick. Can’t go out tonight. Forget about anything spontaneous. Traveling can become an issue. It’s expensive af. Trust me when you eventually get a dog you wanna do it right. It’s so rewarding when you can train the dog well and spend time with it. My favorites are German Shepherds and Dobermans.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 01:03 AM
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Question for you guys - how do you go about killing all weaknesses? I’ve shown weakness to women and never never never againj Edit - I’m asking this question specifically about women. For example - you fall in love or get oneitis, there are men that keep frame and there are men that CANT. how do you become a man that can keep frame even with strong emotions for a woman?
/r/TheRedPill13/03/20 05:32 PM
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Lol hes just trying to scam and is a phony. He needs to watch some wes Watson videos
/r/TheRedPill13/03/20 04:17 PM
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Where can I read extensively on frame?
/r/askTRP12/03/20 11:01 PM
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Manson is a buffoon
/r/seduction12/03/20 11:00 PM
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If you become a better version of yourself you will give yourself a better chance of landing someone as good as her. Nothing in life is guaranteed. Take your best shot
/r/askTRP12/03/20 06:16 PM
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10000% agree It’s so easy to bear yourself up from mistakes. Pain = growth if you push yourself.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/20 03:44 PM
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Good for you dude. I met an nfl cheerleader. So hot. Oh she has a kid? Who cares look at how pretty her face is ! And her hair? She smells nice too. Anywyss she had a coke addiction and was an evil person. Glad we broke up. Never ever ever touch a single mother. They are in that position for a reason. They all say the ex was abusive
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/20 01:50 AM
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Please tell us your story. Mine had a fun little cocaine addiction.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/20 11:41 PM
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Yes and let’s be honest the ones that are relatively attractive will still find someone respectable
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/20 09:10 PM
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If you get a conservative girl maybe . But she may fuck Tyrone behind your back. Just keep improving in all aspects is your best answer
/r/askTRP07/03/20 03:53 AM
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1 point . This is the correct answer
/r/askTRP07/03/20 03:52 AM
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Lmao world is getting crazy y’all
/r/askTRP06/03/20 12:25 AM
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You are mostly right. But let’s not pretend this chick hasn’t sucked some random D off tinder 20x+. She made plans with him then her friends came up with a better option so she decided to see if she could toy with him. Most betas would have allowed it and met up. He stood his ground - she may feel more attraction or she may have her ego hurt and move on to the next dick. When I was in college and 18 years old - a future nfl 1st round pick looked me straight in the eyes at a random house party an…
/r/askTRP05/03/20 05:20 PM
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Thanks bud. Also what do you do if she misbehaves? And is disrespectful? I’ve found some of these women are so broken they only get in line when you kick them out of your place, tell them they are worthless and will never be loved. I’ve never felt comfortable doing that. Sadly I’ve tried to communicate and some women are so feral they take that as weakness
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/20 03:00 PM
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Get outside. Go for a bike ride, hike, ride your motorcycle, or even take a walk. Movement helps.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 05:06 AM
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Damn. So right. So sad
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/20 04:46 AM
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More examples please. This is excellent. Here is a common situation. Many women plan social events way far out. Then they ask you to commit to dumb shit like baby showers or brunches or whatever. Because I don’t plan my social calendar 3 fucking weeks in advance I’m technically free. When she asks you just say “nah I don’t want to go to that shit”? How about if she wants you to hang with her shitty friends on a Friday night? How about if she wants to watch a dumb chick flick? Or reality tv and w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/20 04:36 AM
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I learned this the hard way recently. Still beat myself up time to time but it was necessary for me to fully truly digest the fucking red pill.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 04:08 AM
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AMS is prob the best. For whatever reason black dudes understand how slutty these hoes are much better.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 12:09 AM
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Never double text. She will text back. At which point you wait at least a week to respond.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 10:17 PM
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Dude you have really low self esteem. What are you talking about? You’re 32 and think the best you can do is a single mom? You should just be hitting your stride. Get in the gym.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/20 04:54 PM
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Hahha so true. It’s making me more mischievous
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/20 04:00 PM
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I once dated a single mother. She was a former cheerleader for an NFL team. Very attractive. Prob the 5th time I hung out with her she had friends come over - started doing lines of coke. Charming. Other major problems. Smoked pot all the time. Drank excessively. Lots of male orbiters. Would cause fights over pointless shit. I was blue pilled back then and she was so hot so I put up with it. For awhile. After about 4 months I smartened up and dumped her and she went nuclear. Avoid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/20 03:51 PM
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Tell her you want to get crabs on your mustache
/r/askTRP04/03/20 03:08 PM
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There are no exceptions to this. ZERO EXCEPTIONS.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 05:10 AM
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How old are you? Breakup. Break lease Create game plan for what you will do once you move in with parents Move back to DC. Important to do step 2 before step 3. You cannot waste any time Build yourself from the ashes and become the person youre meant to be. I would suggest you spend the next year really focusing on your career and getting your focus right. Women will be there waiting on the other side. When you move to DC - look towards that house that’s white for inspiration. The man that lives…
/r/askTRP04/03/20 05:08 AM
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its crazy man. Women love sabotaging each other. FDS is a perfect place to do just that!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/20 04:54 AM
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Realizing that they respect you less once you care about them.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 04:08 AM
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The art of the deal - Donald J Trump. President of the United States of America
/r/askTRP04/03/20 03:13 AM
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Adderall is dangerous man. Fucks your sleep and diet. Raises cortisol levels. For me - it made me numb to my emotions. Use sparingly.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 03:06 AM
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Proceed with plan as normal. Run tight game. She will follow you home. And if she doesn’t fuck it you don’t care you have other hoes. You have other hoes right?
/r/askTRP04/03/20 03:02 AM
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Suggest a date. She will take days to respond. Do this. I would still like to see you but I made other plans for xyz day. See what she says If she suggests another day, she’s interested. If not , you have your answer
/r/askTRP04/03/20 02:58 AM
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Lol come on dude
/r/askTRP04/03/20 02:55 AM
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You should be chatting up other girls. Open the relationship up without telling her. Do not invest your emotions you will be heartbroken
/r/askTRP04/03/20 02:14 AM
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I agree leave the door open.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 01:44 AM
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This is absurd. Stop watching so much porn
/r/askTRP04/03/20 01:01 AM
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This is the dumbest post in awhile
/r/seduction03/03/20 11:57 PM
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Learned this lesson the hard way sadly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/20 10:20 PM
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So many men are hurt by this too. What happens to avg joe who was willing to be her boyfriend and go do fun things with her when she was 31-32? He gets rejected harshly. Maybe he smartens up and finds someone , or maybe he goes mgtow and is equally as bitter. Sad!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/20 09:05 PM
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Pump and dump baby
/r/askTRP03/03/20 07:06 PM
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There is literally no downside to being jacked. Changed my life.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 06:00 PM
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He does a good job with tactics but doesn’t focus on nexting that much. If she disrespects , ghost
/r/askTRP03/03/20 05:42 PM
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2 things worked for me. Affirmations every morning. Example - Today i will treat myself with respect. I will also not tolerate disrespect from anyone. I am not a pushover Practice speaking in front of a mirror or on camera. Your confidence will increase from doing the right thing in the right moment.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 03:06 AM
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So true man. I ended up with a case of oneitis for one of these girls. Talk about a fucking punishment. Erratic behavior, She would chase and semi ghost, super sweet one day and disrespectful the next. Some of these girls can be super hot, with great personalities and good careers but a romantic relationship will be a nightmare
/r/askTRP03/03/20 02:35 AM
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Sadly... what percentage of people in their 20s do this? 80%? More women than men for sure but fuck
/r/askTRP02/03/20 04:37 PM
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Try to be like Donald J trump everyday
/r/askTRP02/03/20 12:52 AM
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Older women will never RESPECT a younger man. He’s just a toy to her.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 12:35 AM
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Wait so how can you get her to submit? Dread and lifting isn’t going to do it... so how? Also is blackdragon worth reading?
/r/askTRP01/03/20 12:25 AM
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Haha what ? You can’t be serious
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 12:01 AM
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28-30 hot chicks are usually the most manipulative.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 10:57 PM
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This. In critical moments doing the difficult but right thing can transform you into a new person.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 09:04 PM
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This
/r/askTRP29/02/20 08:50 PM
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If she’s raised by a single mother. Avoid. These are typically the most manipulative and dangerous women. They know how to act like quality women on the surface but will destroy you. They cant respect men.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 08:01 PM
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When you’re frustrated - it means you’re close. Keep circulating. You’re going to have to be selfish and do a very hard thing - cut off your friends and family. I’m assuming they are all negative and toxic as you say. This will be 1000x easier if you physically remove yourself. Being a man is not easy. You must make hard decisions. But just because you were born into a weak family does that mean you must continue to be weak? I say bullshit. You determine how strong or weak you are. You determine…
/r/askTRP29/02/20 05:03 AM
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To the guys giving him heat - lets be fair about this. These bitches hear shit in the news or read it on their phone and spew it out word for word. They have no sense. Kanye West song comes on at the bar? Oh let me tell you how I dont like his politics. These bitches have no sense. My suggestion is to listen and just register. Oh they say words like “patriarchy” or “toxic masculinity” ? No chance she gets an LTR or even an FWB. If they try to engage in a discussion with you? Playfully deflect an…
/r/askTRP29/02/20 04:57 AM
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Can you move? Sorry bro but you’re going to need to cut the toxic people out of your life. Even if they are family. You have 1 life to live. Your dad fucked his life up. You gonna let him fuck yours up too? Can you move to a different country? A different state? Start fresh -everything. You wont be reminded by the past because only the future will be in front of you. Be proud of making the change in your life when you did. Most people are set in their ways by their mid 30s.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 04:51 AM
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Miami. NYC you’re going to have problems living in Harlem. Logistically it’s not the easiest. Plus 100k is shit here. I make 300-400 and still feel poor. Let that sink in.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 07:36 PM
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Hang on though. A woman can flat out be mean. They often do this in public. You can say ok I don’t let this into my world but if other men and women see your girl acting feral in public this is unacceptable and you must call it out or punish her.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 06:08 PM
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Elaborate?
/r/askTRP28/02/20 06:05 PM
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Shit tests I find are playful. Disrespect is bad manners. It can be subtle with women. You must call out disrespect when it happens Too many guys on here are former nice guys. Most of them would be better off blowing up a situation for being an “insecure asshole” than a “nice guy”
/r/askTRP28/02/20 06:00 PM
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Read Corey Wayne 3 % man again. You are prob showing too much interest and not being enough of a mystery
/r/seduction27/02/20 02:27 AM
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How do you do this? Gotta fail a few times?
/r/seduction27/02/20 02:24 AM
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Smh u got mommy issues dawg
/r/askTRP27/02/20 02:22 AM
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Not worth it for me
/r/askTRP27/02/20 02:19 AM
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I'll agree that many women and men do this. Advice for any human: do not attach your self-worth to your dating situation, your work situation, how many friends you have or do not have. Simply be the best you that you can, and you'll have a greater chance at happiness Very important
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/20 02:16 AM
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Pullback a bit - this might confuse her When you see her again expect her to be bitchy and possibly rude. She will be testing you like crazy. Put her in her place if she disrespects you.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 07:59 PM
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12% is 6 pack and 17% is fat. Get to a true 10-12 and you’ve upped your SMV by at least 1 maybe 2
/r/seduction22/02/20 06:15 AM
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I didn’t find Models particularly helpful. TBH i think Manson is a snakeoil salesman. Total dweeb. What’s your body fat %? Do you have aesthetics? - Are you doing incline press? Side delt work? Do you have back thickness? Corey Wayne YouTube videos are very very good. Mindset stuff. A bit blue pill but I suspect you just want a gf and a healthy relationship. Don’t be afraid of failing. You’ll fuck up along the way. Source - at 25 I could barely get a date. I’m 36 now and have a harem. It can be …
/r/seduction22/02/20 04:39 AM
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How to do I join
/r/seduction22/02/20 04:07 AM
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It is very good. I suggest taking the key concepts and putting them on flash cards.
/r/seduction22/02/20 04:05 AM
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I suggest you read Corey Wayne how be a 3% man . He has TONs of YouTube videos as well. He does consultations but they are too expensive and def not worth it. The book is good because it gives you some tactics and mindset advice. But also shows you how you can transform from being a chump to having tons of choice - more than you probably can even imagine. Also - you need to take seriously looksmaxxing. Lift, Diet right, good style, haircut. This will alone get you to being at least avg looking. …
/r/seduction22/02/20 04:03 AM
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Wait I’m trying to understand you better here. Open up about liking Trump? When? In NYC or SF? Where can i read more about breaking rapport, push/pull, strategic disclosure of vulnerability?
/r/askTRP21/02/20 11:24 PM
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Girls dont shit test on apps generally. It’s a fast paced world and if she’s interested she will give you her number. Any girl who talks endlessly on apps wants attention and validation. Unmatch and move on.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 02:18 AM
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Look man. Fucked up women like this are charismatic, good looking and know how to be seductive. I have actually found that they are attracted to guys of high value who are a bit “innocent”. Maybe a blue pill alpha. It’s an easy mark. Don’t beat yourself up too much . Learn the red flags and be ruthless about enforcing boundaries. Learn from the side bar, YouTube videos - AMS, Coach Red Pill, Entrepenuers in Cars, read the Rational Male etc. Or learn from experience and deal with needless heartbr…
/r/askTRP21/02/20 01:38 AM
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Here is what you do. Back off. When she contacts you - ask her to come over , next week. Make her wait to see you. If she texts you in between- say “hey it’s good to hear from you. Looking forward to seeing you next Tuesday” and get off the phone. She will behave when she sees you next . It’s probably just a simple case of her taking you for granted.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 04:27 AM
1

Do you do them by yourself or with friends?
/r/askTRP20/02/20 04:02 AM
1

Ping pong, workout class, live jazz, hookah, food festival
/r/askTRP19/02/20 11:54 PM
1

I agree with your advice. Also day game gets better results. All you need is 1 hot chick
/r/seduction19/02/20 11:52 PM
2

How so? I last did them 15 years ago.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 11:45 PM
1

Really scary when you fast forward another 10 years. As it is so many girls are being trained - “men ain’t shit” , growing up in single mother homes. How do you think these girls are going to end up?
/r/askTRP19/02/20 07:29 PM
1

Very important
/r/askTRP19/02/20 07:28 PM
2

What’s your bodyfat %? Get that down to 12-14% Sleep is very important. Hydration Eat very healthy.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 09:06 PM
1

So you suggest cold approaching 5s and 6s to start? To build confidence? Or only girls you’re attracted to
/r/askTRP18/02/20 06:57 PM
5

I would agree. Reading all this theory is great and necessary, but to be able to go out and apply it and take it seriously you must experience it firsthand
/r/askTRP18/02/20 02:03 AM
8

Makes sense. My recent experience with one is she kept pulling me in , with high levels of attraction, chasing, looking for validation. Once Reciprocated she sabotaged everything. Looking back the only thing I could have done to gain her respect was treat her like trash. Does this sound accurate?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/20 11:38 PM
6

Ok so what about daughters raised by single mothers? Do they never learn to submit?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/20 11:13 PM
6

Tease a bit, flirt a little. Be positive, but not excitable. Kiss in the Middle of the date if opportunity is there. It’s bold. Text/call 5 days later to ask out again if you don’t hear from her. If she texts you in between, use as an opportunity to set the next date.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 08:19 PM
0

At 35-40 can your still go hard 5-6 days a week if on TRT
/r/askTRP16/02/20 07:55 PM
1

It’s unreal to me how many of these women are damaged like this. They get butthurt you don’t hit them up after sex to validate them. But the guys that do hit them up afterwards are “needy” Can’t win with damaged women, nor should you try.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 07:47 PM
11

I’ve learned this the hard way. I used to think women were evil for this , but biology is biology. They must feel slightly lower than you. It’s the only way. Once you open up... now you are “annoying”. That is how she will describe it to her friends. He was really cool but then he started to annoy me.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 07:39 PM
1

Treat em like shit they love it
/r/askTRP16/02/20 06:23 PM
1

I’ve had full salt and pepper since 25. It was incredible .
/r/askTRP16/02/20 01:02 AM
1

They love being treated poorly. If you don’t like that simple fact, talk to the man upstairs
/r/seduction16/02/20 12:19 AM
0

You did the right thing. She will try to get you back. Resist.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 11:55 PM
2

Being too nice. Best to just treat women like they don’t matter. They love it.
/r/seduction15/02/20 09:53 PM
3

How should he have handled it? 1 just dumped her? 2. Started a fight? 3. Remove himself, start fight next day?
/r/TheRedPill15/02/20 06:41 PM
1

You guys are weird
/r/askTRP14/02/20 01:59 AM
2

Lol you guys are crazy with this BPD shit. Need more experience with women
/r/askTRP14/02/20 01:57 AM
4

Get a rubber band. Write WWDJTD on it. Put on wrist. What would Donald j trump do? Vinegar is far more effective than honey. Remember that. Accept that you will lose at times in the future. But it will never be from being a nice guy again. Better to go down being an asshole than a pushover
/r/askTRP12/02/20 11:25 PM
6

This is very very true. I work in investment banking and it also helps socially. Wives get together at functions etc. That being said the hot housewives live in Greenwich prob getting fucked by their personal trainer and the MDs are getting their dicks sucked by secretaries. It’s just for show
/r/askTRP12/02/20 10:27 PM
29

There are very very few NON-needy men.
/r/seduction12/02/20 09:33 PM
1

Smh. It’s done bro drop it
/r/askTRP12/02/20 09:30 PM
1

Use this as an opportunity to practice. Can you toy with these women’s minds? Can you get them to support Trump? Can you get them to change religions? Jobs? Useful skills long term
/r/askTRP12/02/20 08:23 PM
1

Keep making mistakes. Eventually you succeed.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 08:05 PM
0

Hmmm ... pretty obvious why no one wants to go on a 2nd date with you. You sound so fun !
/r/seduction10/02/20 11:08 PM
7

Can you talk about some of the nuance here? I see a lot of men blaming BPD as well. My sense is BPD or NPD women will pursue you and once they “have” you, they devalue you, play with you like a toy, and once toy is mostly broke, they discard. Where as a typical woman will like being pursued a bit, may lose interest and bail, but won’t devalue or discard. They will just break up or offer a “let’s just be friends rejection”. The BPD woman will ghost, maybe even months into a relationship. Is my as…
/r/askTRP10/02/20 09:42 PM
2

Please talk about investment game
/r/askTRP10/02/20 04:39 AM
13

Women decide SMV. Not you. Their actions show you that your SMV is not as high as you think it is. Men like to think - okay i make X amount of money, I’m tall, I have muscles - my SMV is high. Not necessarily. Maybe you have approval seeking beta male behavior? Maybe you text too much and don’t initiate direction on your dates? Maybe you aren’t enough of a mystery? Or maybe the girls you’re dating are in fact trash.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 02:00 AM
116

You want approval from them desperately. They can tell and their biology is telling them to treat you like garbage. Approval seeking behavior is beta male behavior. Beta males get treated like trash.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 06:32 PM
1

Read No more mr nice guy
/r/askTRP09/02/20 05:45 AM
5

I was in a fraternity at a Big Ten school. Yes I had fun, and hooked up with some hot chicks for sure. But - it was a waste of time long term and didn’t improve my SMV at all coming out of school. Lift like an animal now, improve your skills and you will be better off long term. All my old frat buddies married party chicks and are now getting divorce raped. dont envy them.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 05:30 AM
18

Dude you should be so proud of yourself. It’s hard to make the right decision when emotions are involved. But that’s what separates a man from every other species on the planet. You do the right thing for your self respect, even when it may cause you short term emotional pain. This decision will help you become the person you are meant to be. Now spend the time self improving . Don’t let that pain go to waste.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 05:26 AM
58

I dont know if i would say anything man. Don’t lie but dont proactively say anything
/r/seduction08/02/20 12:41 AM
2

Happens all the time. You never know what’s going on in the background. Both women and men treat each other like disposable objects when they meet online .
/r/askTRP07/02/20 09:04 PM
1

Sounds like she is crazy . Not sure if BPD though. Either way sounds like you dodged a bullet
/r/askTRP07/02/20 08:41 PM
2

Is there a guide that I can read on this?
/r/seduction07/02/20 08:12 PM
1

Haha no man... thank god.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 03:47 AM
2

This is great thank you
/r/askTRP07/02/20 03:03 AM
1

Dude I’ve fucked so Many girls this way. Nba dancer and nfl cheerleader. Helps to have a nice car. I’m tall but I bet this would help short guys too
/r/seduction07/02/20 12:08 AM
1

Hit on girls in traffic. Last gf was an NFL cheerleader who I met by just asking for her number when we were in traffic one day.
/r/seduction06/02/20 10:26 PM
0

Don’t confirm. Just show up. I promise you she will text you first
/r/askTRP06/02/20 10:23 PM
-3

You’re weird
/r/seduction06/02/20 09:16 PM
1

“Lot of these girls look good and are horrible people. The faster you pickup on it, the faster you know how to deal with them”. Great insight. Is experience the best and only way? Would love it if you did a list of all your personal red flags.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 08:55 PM
1

I hear you man. I’m not posting to complain. In fact I’ve built myself up from nothing to become something in this world. But I don’t have as much experience as a lot of you guys. My sample size is small. Tell me more about the treating dog like a child?
/r/askTRP06/02/20 08:39 PM
1

What about raised by single mother? Abort immediately?
/r/askTRP06/02/20 08:29 PM
3

Hinge, Whole Foods, equinox
/r/askTRP06/02/20 08:23 PM
1

How did she love bomb you?
/r/askTRP05/02/20 07:00 PM
2

Are you in a better spot now? Sorry you went through that
/r/askTRP05/02/20 03:00 PM
1

What have you done? How many books time and years have you spent on this?
/r/seduction05/02/20 02:37 AM
1

How to get the book? He stopped selling it
/r/askTRP05/02/20 02:17 AM
2

Example? You never do 1:1 drink dates?
/r/askTRP02/02/20 02:30 AM
1

I don’t confirm. If you are willing to risk the no show it gives the girl equal anxiety. She will 99% of the time crack and say “we still on” Risk it
/r/askTRP02/02/20 02:14 AM
3

If she wants to cuddle after she will. Don’t overthink
/r/askTRP02/02/20 01:23 AM
10

If you’re banging these girls really quickly after meeting, they are probably just looking for quick ONS themselves. They are all sluts.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 10:11 PM
1

How did you like the laws of human nature? Helpful?
/r/askTRP01/02/20 05:52 PM
1

There are always simps waiting. Why are you worrying about this
/r/askTRP01/02/20 05:52 PM
1

The girls I’ve dated with broken home situations typically are more erratic. They go from high attraction to low attraction instantaneously. Either super clingy or super avoidant. Avoid.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 03:55 PM
1

Same thing happened to me relatively recently. Let this be a lesson. Be careful about getting attached.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 02:40 AM
1

Take risks. Dont be afraid to fuck up and fail. It will make you stronger. Or go through life scared. You will wake up at 36 with a shit life i promise you that.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 02:37 AM
8

I find online dating so boring now. Went through a stage a couple years ago where i ran through over 100 bumble/hinge sluts
/r/askTRP31/01/20 10:42 PM
1

Invite her over to fuck
/r/askTRP31/01/20 04:43 PM
3

Does she come from a broken home?
/r/askTRP31/01/20 04:42 PM
11

You have 2 options. Chase , get rejected and hate yourself, lose your dignity and feel like shit Back waaay the fuck off. Be willing to lose her and walk away forever. She might come back, but even if she doesn’t you will keep your self respect and that will make you stronger for the next girl. Your only chance is option 2 .
/r/askTRP30/01/20 05:38 AM
1

Is the the badmouthing ex thing that makes her nuts? To be clear no bad behavior yet . YET
/r/askTRP29/01/20 07:31 PM
1

Just a plate man. I’m trying to understand what level of crazy I’m getting myself into
/r/askTRP29/01/20 04:03 PM
1

Can you give me an example
/r/askTRP29/01/20 04:02 PM
1

Back off to 1x per week. Remember they are all sluts man. Watch as many AMS videos as possible
/r/askTRP29/01/20 03:26 PM
1

Isn’t adderall just for ADHD? Does it cause erratic behavior ?
/r/askTRP29/01/20 02:27 PM
5

I have twice but one time she was pretty sick and the other we were drunk as hell. Sex was okay but not insane yet.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 05:35 AM
1

What’s full on monk mode? No socializing?
/r/askTRP27/01/20 11:23 PM
1

https://youtu.be/sLZBvgWVlOc
/r/askTRP27/01/20 11:20 PM
12

AMS is all you need. They all sluts https://youtu.be/sLZBvgWVlOc
/r/askTRP27/01/20 09:48 PM
3

Interesting. Has this helped you? Where did you learn this
/r/askTRP27/01/20 09:30 PM
1

Couple months
/r/askTRP27/01/20 04:20 AM
1

Yes where are you located
/r/askTRP27/01/20 04:10 AM
1

Haha sent a girl flowers after she dumped me. So cringe but during my BP days 6 years ago. Sometimes it takes getting embarrassed to learn your lesson
/r/askTRP27/01/20 04:10 AM
19

Lots of people take waaaay more than that . Chill out and stop stresssing. Your body will recover. Meditate and relax. Can you do anything on a stationary bike to help blood flow? Cold showers? Stressing won’t help. Follow doctors orders
/r/askTRP27/01/20 12:22 AM
2

I think it’s a bad move. Speaking from previous experience. The older milfs will value you more - okay that’s nice. The sex probably will be better - that’s good too They will also naturally want to nurture you more- another nice thing But long term you’re wasting your time. You’re playing on easy mode when you can be building skills on hard mode. The older women will always be there for you. Game the younger ones .
/r/askTRP26/01/20 10:20 PM
1

John Elliott for nice t shirts, best for tall guys
/r/askTRP26/01/20 10:17 PM
9

Who cares
/r/askTRP26/01/20 10:17 PM
1

Good advice here. Don’t worry about and maintain frame always. Girls also get insecure when this happens - they think they can’t turn you on. So don’t think they are going to go around telling their friends
/r/askTRP26/01/20 04:53 AM
2

Get cialis from your doctor Relax, maybe alcohol or weed could help you in this case depending on how you react to it Supplement with citruline
/r/askTRP25/01/20 06:51 PM
3

Same age as you - hasn’t happened to me. Keep swiping
/r/askTRP25/01/20 04:53 AM
19

Go to a mall and cold approach Rock climbing indoor Cooking class
/r/askTRP25/01/20 12:05 AM
3

Send him AMS videos
/r/askTRP24/01/20 11:26 PM
1

We need an update
/r/askTRP24/01/20 07:28 PM
1

Situation specific. I once had to wait til the 5th date because of bad logistics. Didn’t matter in the long run.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 05:53 PM
3

Careful. Side effects are really bad
/r/askTRP23/01/20 05:31 PM
1

Dude. Calm the fuck down. If she hits you up. Invite her over. Fuck her. Then when she leaves say call me later. Maybe she does, maybe she doesn’t. If she calls, set up another date. But you need to accept that she may or may not choose you. She doesn’t owe you anything. Be a rock. If not her, someone else
/r/askTRP23/01/20 05:31 AM
12

Life brings the exact people and circumstances that we NEED to help us become who we were meant to be. She exposed a chink in your armor. Look at this failure as an opportunity for you to grow stronger. I went through the EXACT same shit and have a similar mindset to you man. I basically hate my old plates now and have no interest in anything other than a 8+. But the bright side of this situation is when you get the next opportunity- you won’t make the same mistakes. As for this girl- if she hit…
/r/askTRP22/01/20 11:28 PM
10

I’ve done this. Ghosted a girl after 6 months. She didn’t cheat, she was being bitchy and I had enough. To be honest I felt bad and still do. If I could have gone back I would have just dumped her in person, given her closure and moved on. If she had cheated - ghosting would have been justified though.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 11:20 PM
7

You put the idea in her head . Smh
/r/askTRP22/01/20 01:34 AM
1

Re: daddy issues girls Do some of them bail if they start to catch feelings? Last girl i dated genuinely sabotaged things for no reason 1 month in - and i know i was doing everything right.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/20 09:32 PM
1

Surgery. Do it
/r/askTRP21/01/20 12:56 PM
1

I would do it in person. great opportunity to work on your frame.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 12:41 AM
10

I’ve bought a new M3 3 years ago. Did nothing for my SMV vs a nice Honda Accord.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 07:50 PM
3

Also see Raya dating app to get a sense of where the SMP is going
/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 06:47 PM
1

She’s a drug slut. Based on your question seems like you’re attached. Hit her up in a few weeks if you want.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 06:17 PM
0

Are you on TRT? Might need to just give this time
/r/askTRP20/01/20 03:10 AM
23

Don’t reply. Bringing her into your life will equal pain. Walk and never look back
/r/askTRP19/01/20 11:48 PM
2

Take this advice seriously. Once you catch oneitis it’s over. Don’t be foolish
/r/askTRP19/01/20 11:32 PM
2

Just don’t listen to his dating advice. BP as fuck
/r/askTRP18/01/20 11:30 PM
2

I think he should download the apps once he approaches 100 girls. Incentive
/r/askTRP18/01/20 11:29 PM
1

I’m going to go a different direction here. This has been successful for me . Disappear for 5 or so days for no reason. Pop back and if she asks where you been, say “seemed like you needed space” Should help.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 05:48 PM
5

Please give me an example. Are you saying a girl has ghosted you and then you get her back?
/r/seduction18/01/20 01:53 AM
3

Bad way to go dude. Trust me. These older women will try to trap you and control you, have your baby. Then what in 10 years? You’re mid 30s and she’s 50? Lol
/r/seduction18/01/20 01:42 AM
4

I’m sure you are annoyed by her behavior. But this is a good thing. You are young with your peak years ahead of you. This is a great opportunity for you to level up . Take the strongest most ruthless path. I promise you you won’t regret it. I’m 36 and can tell you from my experience the things I regret the most was trying to be “reasonable” and “fair”. No. Go scorched earth. My personal suggestion would be to calmly dump her tomorrow morning. This will destroy her but that’s not the important pa…
/r/askTRP18/01/20 12:35 AM
7

You are uneducated. TRT is not steroids.
/r/seduction18/01/20 12:16 AM
-3

Bad idea man. Women are playthings . They enjoy reality tv, gossip and consumables.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 11:31 PM
1

Yes
/r/askTRP17/01/20 10:26 PM
1

Drink 8 oz of pomegranate juice and take 6 grams of l citrulline. Don’t mix with viagra or cialis
/r/askTRP17/01/20 10:11 PM
1

I suggest back squat 1x a week and front squat 1x a week. Less overall stress on your CNS and same gains. I also believe front squats to be superior for aesthetics. Do traditional deadlift 1x a week and Romanian 1x a week.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 01:41 AM
1

That’s actually not that bad. Sad yes. But most 27 year olds are 100+
/r/askTRP17/01/20 01:21 AM
1

Depends on how she lives her life. Is she buying designer handbags? Fancy trips with the girls to Greece? Shopping at Bloomingdales or Neiman? That’s a red flag. She’s putting her fashion and looks over paying her debt. If she’s shopping at gap/Uniqlo/Zara then probably has a bit more sense .
/r/askTRP16/01/20 11:49 PM
1

Get down to 10-12% bf . Get a modern haircut. Learn how to dress . You will be fine.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 07:55 PM
1

Haha so true. Last girl I was with had a bulldog which was so clearly replacing a child she wanted deep down but wouldn’t admit she wants .
/r/askTRP16/01/20 02:05 PM
1

Fine do psychological leeches for good measure now haha
/r/askTRP14/01/20 03:57 PM
1

My god. Women are fucking sick. How many young women today have narcissistic personalities? Trying to get you hooked and then once successful they discard? I’ve seen it myself and that’s straight up psychotic behavior
/r/askTRP14/01/20 03:37 PM
1

I’m more interested in understanding emotional leeches
/r/askTRP14/01/20 03:04 PM
1

“What do you think” with a smirk. “You are the first girl I’ve ever talked to in my life. How am I doing so far?” Smirk and smile Then change to other topics.
/r/seduction11/01/20 11:52 PM
13

They are typically spinning lots of plates. And get more followers if the orbiters think they are single and “have a chance”
/r/askTRP11/01/20 08:29 PM
7

I like you more and more Trump getting elected was a start but look at the resistance he gets for pretty basic shit. We got a long way to go
/r/askTRP11/01/20 07:22 PM
0

You should read Corey Wayne. Seems like you’re looking for a relationship and that’s OK! Either way my guess is you’re too available and not creating enough mystery.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 04:42 PM
1

Thanks for the advice my friend. For whatever reason - I’ve banged the rap video chicks, models, yoga teachers, hot milfs etc. it’s the dumb soul cycle bitches that always slip from my grasp.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 03:41 PM
2

What membership clubs?
/r/askTRP09/01/20 03:44 AM
2

I live right by Astor place. Perfect location. Where to go find the blond sorority/brunch/soul cycle type hoes at night?
/r/askTRP09/01/20 03:27 AM
13

You’re going to raise other people’s kids to other people’s standards. Why would you willingly enter this arrangement
/r/askTRP09/01/20 03:01 AM
2

I’m in investment banking. I have done lots of online dating and want better quality girls. I grew up very blue pill and this forum is helping me rewire my brain. I don’t think it’s lame at all
/r/askTRP09/01/20 03:00 AM
1

Haha def not a transplant. I moved to nyc a couple years ago. I’m in finance and all my clients and coworkers are old and married. Very annoying. Sure I’ve banged plenty of girls but I don’t stay friends with them. Do you? I’m going to check out some gallery openings and museums. I won’t plan on stopping girls on the street but more out and about - coffee shops, etc. Do people go out by themselves here?
/r/askTRP09/01/20 02:26 AM
1

Good. Fuck deez bitches to sleep
/r/askTRP09/01/20 02:03 AM
3

She is a basic bitch. But she’s also a billionaire now. Good idea even though she is contributing to the downfall of women . So is day game the way to go? Or night game ?
/r/askTRP09/01/20 01:11 AM
1

What about people that ghost on relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 11:11 PM
1

Thank you I just ordered the book. Please tell me what you did to help you recover and get stronger?
/r/askTRP08/01/20 05:27 AM
3

I can keep frame and detached normally but... this being by far the best girl I’ve ever had, some of my bad beta behaviors probably resurfaced. I remember on one date I told her “I’m glad I met you” and almost feeling her get repulsed by me. Didn’t think that would be the deal breaker because I saw her a few times after but there was definitely a shift.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 05:24 AM
1

Thank you brother. How do you know? What did you do when it happened? How are you better from it?
/r/askTRP08/01/20 05:21 AM
1

Low body fat 10-12% will massively increase male facial attractiveness. Assuming you have a little bit of muscle. 10% is 6 pack territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:27 AM
1

Interesting. How to get to secure though
/r/askTRP07/01/20 05:14 AM
0

So true. I’m 36 and exactly my reasoning
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 11:45 PM
1

For real?
/r/askTRP06/01/20 04:35 PM
1

What pills? Damn
/r/askTRP05/01/20 09:56 PM
2

Read the 6 pillars of self esteem. Do things that you fear. Other people won’t respect you until you respect yourself. Figure out the things that will make you respect yourself and do them. You’re young but do the work now. When you’re in the prime of your life you will be way ahead of everyone else
/r/askTRP04/01/20 07:44 PM
3

This is gold. Thank you
/r/askTRP04/01/20 02:09 AM
2

This is great insight. What should I expect as I deal with her? Flakiness? Lack of emotions? Hot and cold behavior?
/r/askTRP04/01/20 01:42 AM
2

I’m 36 she’s 29. Based on personality and looks maybe I would vet for LTR but it’s way too early for that. I just want to get an understanding of daddy issues and be prepared
/r/askTRP03/01/20 09:20 PM
1

Have you done a blast n cruise? Thinking about doing it myself
/r/askTRP03/01/20 09:14 PM
3

What’s your body fat percentage? Get down to 12%, your dick will work better
/r/askTRP01/01/20 01:29 AM
1

Really? Anything happen? I’m in nyc and about to start cold approaching
/r/askTRP31/12/19 10:41 PM
2

Drop her. I know you don’t want to hear it but The work you will have to put into her is too much. Better to focus on yourself given your age. You can and will do better.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 09:37 PM
1

Do you cold approach in nyc a lot? Daygame or night? Where do you do it?
/r/askTRP31/12/19 09:24 PM
1

So true. You got 35 year old women running around like they 25 still.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 09:24 PM
19

I am spending the night alone mapping out my 2020. The last 3 years I’ve allowed women to get me distracted. I need to focus on myself first
/r/askTRP31/12/19 07:41 PM
2

Too many options. Easy to ghost and disappear. Lots of chicks on the CC. Lots of delusional women in mid 30s still thinking they deserve a Chad that makes 1mm+
/r/askTRP31/12/19 05:41 PM
2

I’ve done well, however it’s easy for flings, not so much for relationships
/r/askTRP31/12/19 04:10 PM
1

Please elaborate. What made you go postal? Anything good come out of monk mode? I feel like I’m in the same place. I’ve increased my smv, so now I’m getting better quality girls, but I’m addicted to the validation. I just want to be indifferent. I want the girls but the level of focus I’m putting into them is way too much. Totally out of balance
/r/askTRP31/12/19 11:33 AM
1

I think the handbook is version 2. Someone else can chime in though
/r/askTRP23/12/19 12:26 AM
2

Belfry
/r/askTRP22/12/19 03:15 AM
3

She did give a reason for flaking and was very apologetic about it. Said she was upset about not getting a job she really wanted. I replied with words of encouragement and haven’t heard back since. It’s quite possible she didn’t see me as a challenge anymore. The reality is I’ve built my SMV up from a 5 to a 8. over the past few years and dating/banging HB9s is completely uncharted territory for me. This is easily the best I’ve done for myself by a long shot. Very frustrating because at the begi…
/r/askTRP21/12/19 03:30 AM
1

How does game mess up high SMV guys
/r/askTRP21/12/19 03:18 AM
1

This makes no sense. I’ve been fucking her
/r/askTRP21/12/19 02:09 AM
2

That’s absurd. Hoes come back after a couple weeks all the time
/r/askTRP20/12/19 11:58 PM
1

Any resources to get better at tension?
/r/askTRP20/12/19 10:54 PM
12

Thanks man. Fucking hurts. I’m on my grind with a good career, side biz, lifting 5x week and meal prep. Even a concussion a month ago barely stopped me. I just don’t have a ton of free time so it’s hard to have an abundance of plates.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 08:43 PM
3

Yes always
/r/askTRP20/12/19 08:40 PM
11

Thanks for this. For a variety of reasons I haven’t been. I had a bad concussion recently which has affected my energy levels. Combined with working 70 hours on my job and side biz and gym, I haven’t been gaming Much. I have 1 other plate that’s an HB7. So I guess I do have Oneitis because she’s the only HB9 I’ve ever had.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 08:20 PM
5

We went on a group dinner for her friends birthday. Probably like 6 couples and a few others. A few of them sent her texts after that they liked me. Apparently I had matched with one of her friends on a dating app at some point in the past(we never met) so she brought that up.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 08:09 PM
0

Does this ever happen though?
/r/askTRP20/12/19 07:29 PM
16

The problem is I’m already doing everything to max out my SMV. Have never and will never stop. She’s a HB9 so will be very hard get hotter women but I’m going to have to try.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 06:22 PM
1

How old are you? How did you set up your macros I’m on TRT
/r/askTRP18/12/19 04:20 AM
1

What body fat % were you when you started your cut? How did your face change? Also what body fat % are you now? You look great
/r/askTRP18/12/19 03:21 AM
5

Get jacked. Approach 100 women. Done
/r/askTRP18/12/19 12:29 AM
2

Watch DJT speeches
/r/askTRP17/12/19 11:52 PM
9

Girls just want to have fun bro. Plus women dont save their money. They spend most of it.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 11:51 PM
10

The only solution is to raise your SMV and self esteem to the point that if she acts up, you can drop her in an instant.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 01:36 AM
1

I believe in god.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 07:23 PM
1

Well I want to go but dont want to lose control of the date/interaction. I’m still trying to build attraction.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 05:07 AM
16

This is great insight. Thank you. She is very emotional and can be very dramatic. I ghosted her mainly as a way to hammer red pill teachings into my head. I’ve really could care less about her, perhaps I just want relieve the guilt I have.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 02:41 AM
3

Work your legs like a monster . Get world class wheels. Maybe do light bicep/back work to get the blood moving. You can still probably do deadlifts/cable lat straight arm push downs for back and not overly involve biceps
/r/askTRP19/09/19 03:33 PM
1

Mike Cernovich podcast for sure. Lewis Howes. Naval. Stefan molyneaux
/r/askTRP29/08/19 01:19 AM
1

This was nice of you... but you really think he will do this? Lol. 35 and in medicine and still thinks genetics are holding him back. SAD!
/r/askTRP24/08/19 06:26 PM
3

Don’t get into a relationship for a long while. Here is what is happening. You are climbing up a mountain. You get higher than you’ve been before and the views are great. You decide to relax and take pictures etc. Instead keep climbing and building value. Don’t cash in your chips. Then when you get to the top ... you will be unflappable.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 11:20 PM
2

I like this post. I’m mid 30s and have amassed a lot of money and a great income- 350k+. But it’s not enough. I don’t have my freedom, because I work at a corporation. The tough thing when you get to the level I’m at is the job is demanding. I’m thinking about cutting social life to zero for 6-12 months to see what I can do with it. Where to start though?
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 12:23 AM
1

Loser talk. Get jacked and wealthy man.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 12:14 AM
1

Let her go. Afraid to lose her? Come on man.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 04:29 PM
17

An easy method I use is this. Would President Donald J Trump allow this behavior? Always leads to the correct answer. Good job bro.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 03:54 PM
14

Haha so true. For Natty guys there is no such thing as TOO big. Most Hollywood types that girls go crazy for are running test/winstrol.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 12:35 PM
2

Get a job in some type of sales. Retail... cell phones whatever. You will get comfortable talking to people. Just like the gym... you make improvements over time by consistency and following basic principles. Apply that to your social life
/r/askTRP19/08/19 01:37 PM
2

For 10 reps If he weighs 180 he should incline press 180 for 10 reps
/r/askTRP19/08/19 04:41 AM
2

Lifting isn’t enough to get you into the top 10%. That is recommended just to get you started on the journey. Get down to 10% bodyfat while still being able to incline bench your body weight x10. Want good prizes? Chase hard goals.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 11:31 PM
3

Would Donald J Trump put up with this behavior? Dump her and kick her out.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 11:58 PM
24

Also he gets to make her feel terrible . Which is sweet justice for rejecting him all those years back. In general you don’t want to plan out a revenge... it’s a waste of time. But if revenge falls into your lap... well why not
/r/askTRP17/08/19 11:43 PM
27

Don’t go down this road. You will hate yourself. Block her and move on with your life. This is a good thing. Proof that you are above her. Her life will only go downhill from here. She thinks she can get you back? She thinks she will get attention and validation from you? Lol. Nope . Her life will be a series of disappointments going forward... hoping to catch an alpha that she will never be able to. You on the other hand my friend. You must get bigger. Your incline bench must go up. Body fat mu…
/r/askTRP17/08/19 10:19 PM
5

Sounds like you’re addicted to music. Cut back if for nothing else other than to prove you have discipline and self restraint. I would also recommend you program front squats into your routine. If you’re struggling with back squat it probably means you have some weaknesses that will be exposed by the front squat. Start listening to audiobooks or reading books over the music thing. Start with “how to win friends and influence people” by Dale Carnegie and “THINK BIG” - by President Donald J Trump.…
/r/askTRP17/08/19 09:17 PM
5

I would be careful around this person. People who torture animals... not good.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 07:35 PM
25

Hmm this isn’t good. I’ll wait for some of the experienced members to chime in. Women are very corrupt in ways like this. You def aren’t getting the whole story. That much I can guarantee you.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 02:17 AM
11

Getting jacked
/r/askTRP16/08/19 02:34 PM
2

Would Donald J Trump put up with this behavior? No way. Have some self respect
/r/askTRP16/08/19 01:39 PM
1

Interesting. What was the fallout years later? Did they ever take responsibility and “regret” it?
/r/askTRP16/08/19 04:06 AM
2

That’s from No more mr nice guy right? Forgot about that but great reminder. Well that’s what I did I guess right. I told her to cut the shit - snapping at me for small things, nagging etc. Then she gets drunk on date night and as I’m paying the expensive bill she decides to throw a grenade on the night. So she got dumped. The next day she claimed to not remember but what’s next - she fucks some dude and doesn’t remember so that’s okay? Nah.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 04:49 PM
1

Haha well one of them was a golds gym Venice beach hoodie man. So dope
/r/askTRP15/08/19 04:47 PM
1

Thanks man. I’m def not going back. I’m 35 and need to grow my business and can’t have drama or a woman that pulls me down. I just feel bad . Grew up pretty blue pill and beta , always getting dumped , and after years of bodybuilding, sales and building wealth I am now the one with lots of options and doing the dumping and I feel bad because I know how it feels to be dumped
/r/askTRP15/08/19 04:46 PM
1

What are some examples? Tbh I struggle with the establishing boundaries vs instilling dread. I tried both at various times with her. This last time I tried to just communicate boundaries and she still crossed them so I had enough. It’s annoying how in a woman’s mind a relationship can only be over when SHE wants it to be over
/r/askTRP15/08/19 04:43 PM
2

What’s funny is after reading the responses I started to remember stories she told me about how her previous relationships ended. She discarded previous bfs casually and without regard. Anyways I don’t think she saw getting dumped coming at all.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 04:39 PM
1

Guilt for sure. This really isn’t a matter of abundance because I really need to get on my purpose and start building my business up. I really don’t have time for drama . I broke up with her and don’t want to get back together. I just feel guilty and don’t want to give a girl a complex.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 04:32 PM
5

Same. Last LTR hated trump. So edgy. She would see the trump books I had in my study and start shit. On a separate note - sad state of society where women are so easily controlled by the fake news media. But as men we must navigate it appropriately.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 03:06 PM
1

This is very very good. Thanks.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 02:56 PM
2

I’m down to the last bit of hair after 2 years on TRT. Maybe I’ll jump on Tren then who knows
/r/askTRP08/08/19 02:28 PM
5

My German Shepherd confirms this
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 02:15 PM
1

Get a normal haircut man. Too old for these designs. Graying hair isn’t an issue. Ive had salt and pepper since 27. Nothing changes
/r/askTRP08/08/19 02:35 AM
5

This is very troubling. Maybe you are damaged in some way? Perhaps take a break from women for a few months. Recalibrate your mind. These women you like have very poor quality genes and low fertility. This is unnatural. Improve yourself and I think this will fix itself
/r/askTRP08/08/19 01:15 AM
3

Amazing
/r/askTRP07/08/19 02:01 AM
5

Move on. Not your fault. She will make you think it’s your fault. But no. Take some time to process, figure out new goals and grow into the strongest version of yourself. And never chase after being dumped!
/r/askTRP07/08/19 01:57 AM
2

You seem like a nice guy. Watch this https://youtu.be/7vaX3MdTRa4
/r/askTRP05/08/19 01:55 PM
7

I grew up in a town with a minor league baseball team. Young girls see these guys as chads because - well they are typically in great shape ,pursuing their mission and gives them a slight* amount of status. Now in the big picture 90% of those guys won’t even sniff MLB.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 01:48 PM
2

Eh I don’t think it’s worth it. Older chicks know how to put up an act, she will try to trap you. Don’t contact her again. I suggest going after girls in their 20s. This will save you lots of drama
/r/askTRP05/08/19 01:43 PM
12

I think you are looking into him with a basic mainstream media lens. I’m not necessarily disagreeing with what you’re saying. But look deeper. I’m not suggesting he become President Donald J Trump. That’s absurd. But what can he learn? Trump was greatly influenced by his pastor growing up - Dr. Norman Vincent Peale. The author of “the power of positive thinking”. He doesn’t give up. He doesn’t get discouraged. He is always working another angle.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 04:37 PM
14

3 things. 1. Start reading up on President Donald J Trump. He creates his own reality by thinking BIG. His attitude is one that will never ever give up. Thus why he is so successful despite being attacked by losers all the time. You need mental toughness 2. Read gorilla mindset by mike cernovich. 3. You need to enjoy life and be happy. Your toxic attitude and negativity is very unattractive. You need to be happy with yourself and be proud of yourself. Best way to gain pride is to do things that …
/r/askTRP04/08/19 04:23 PM
2

Weed use a problem? Just got out of an LTR. She would drink 2-3 drinks every night and get drunk on weekends (at dinner with me) while i stuck to 1-2. She used coke in the past and weed every week. Lessons learned
/r/askTRP02/08/19 03:11 AM
3

Get on a proper bodybuilding routine. Google push pull legs. Read books. Lots. Life will work itself out.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 02:55 AM
3

Focus on yourself man. Stop fucking this chick. Build your career, read books. And keep enjoying the gym
/r/askTRP27/07/19 12:29 AM
12

Mix it up
/r/askTRP30/05/19 01:14 AM
2

Fair enough. If he makes these changes and she’s still a nightmare he can drop her though.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 12:28 AM
2

I agree with everything you said here ... BUT he should still leave He will may way better strides improving himself without this woman spending all his money and btw he’s still going to have to commit SOME time doing family commitments etc.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 11:30 PM
11

She’s brainwashed into thinking because she’s educated and works at a major company that she’s got high SMV. Lol. OP needs to get jacked, be playful and learn a martial art. She’s not giving him respect because he’s not worthy of it right now. I don’t say this to be mean but let’s be honest. He lifted for 3 years and gives it up for some girl that’s a 5 that he’s known for 6 months. Never do this Read some personal finance books. Become so fucking smart that any shit she throws at you , you know…
/r/askTRP28/05/19 11:21 PM
3

You have only 1 option. You will sit her down. Tell her you don’t think you guys are compatible and that you want to break it off. Block and never speak to her again. I’m sorry and it sucks, but be grateful you’re learning this lesson now. You will respect yourself tenfold if you take this plan of action. You could say oh no biggie and stay and fuck but you will lose respect for yourself. Good luck.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 01:51 AM
148

Sounds like you did things right. She acted on impulse like all women do. You punished her swiftly by giving her the gift of missing you. Never talk to her again. She doesn’t love you. If she did she wouldn’t have lied and betrayed you. Be grateful. Now you can spend more time improving yourself and attracting someone better .
/r/askTRP23/05/19 07:47 PM
1

Watch a lot of trump speeches Get iPhone and record yourself speaking with trump terms and mannerisms Repeat. You willl be good. Yes I’m serious
/r/askTRP23/05/19 01:22 PM
1

Here’s what you do. Next time you’re with her start foreplay. Get her worked up and wet. Finger her. Then say “get on your knees and blow me like a good girl”. She will do it. If not... just say no big deal and that you’re not in the mood anymore. Then leave. Don’t show that you’re butthurt at all. You’re just not in the mood... it’s no big deal. She will either break up with you , or start doing it. Win win.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 03:16 PM
172

Stop with the negative mindset. Maybe the game is harder for you... maybe it isn’t. Worry about yourself. Get jacked. Build confidence and speaking skills. Become the best version of yourself.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 11:48 AM
0

Your best bet is to dump her . Focus on yourself and unfuck yourself. No LTR distractions. Understand you’re never allowed to cry in front of a woman again. Even if family dies. It’s very sad, but it is what it is. Be happy this happened. You will grow stronger from it.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 01:20 AM
1

How do you take steps to protect from backlash?
/r/askTRP21/05/19 08:32 PM
1

Pretty disrespectful. I wouldn’t text. If she reaches out invite her over for sex. No dates for a girl like this. Sex buddy only
/r/askTRP21/05/19 03:14 AM
1

Do it. Just make sure you use condoms and always flush them.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 04:15 PM
2

Dump her coldly and without remorse. It will be hard but necessary. It will be then you who she comes back to for dick 9 months from now.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 03:07 PM
20

Go full dark triad bro. You dodged a bullet. You might want kids someday but wait til you’ve vetted a girl for at least 2 years .
/r/askTRP16/05/19 07:52 PM
39

Stand your ground. She tried to manipulate you. How old are you guys?
/r/askTRP16/05/19 06:52 PM
1

If you’re new to TRP ... good to f w these hoes to build frame?
/r/askTRP15/05/19 11:52 PM
21

Same as you always would. Be confident, persuasive and happy. Get that money
/r/askTRP13/05/19 05:40 PM
1

Ok here is an example. A couple months into our relationship we were out to dinner with some friends. Somehow a short comment was made by me about trump and Tom Brady being friends. She snapped and said how could you even bring up his(trumps) name. Embarrassing me in front of friends She would tend to get emotional about that. Don’t think it was intentional but still crossed a line looking back. I kind of just shrugged it off as if it was her problem not mine. Btw yes lesson learned don’t date a…
/r/askTRP13/05/19 03:09 AM
3

This is helpful. Could you give an example?
/r/askTRP13/05/19 02:49 AM
1

How would you determine her intentions? Just seeming like an honest emotional reaction vs planned in advance?
/r/askTRP13/05/19 02:49 AM
2

Could you give an example? How can you catch yourself becoming betaized and turn it around
/r/askTRP13/05/19 02:48 AM
1

Okay so let’s say this happens. How do you handle it and check her appropriately? Also what if you let it slide in the moment? Is it too late to address it a few days or week later? Thanks
/r/askTRP13/05/19 02:47 AM
2

35 and thinning here ever since starting TRT. Just get jacked and be done with it
/r/askTRP12/05/19 01:37 AM
3

I would soft next for at least 3-4 days. Next time you meet up with her she goes to your house for sex. Do not spend any money or effort on her
/r/askTRP10/05/19 09:10 PM
11

Definitely not. Dump her is the better choice. Fuck her for even asking
/r/askTRP09/05/19 05:40 PM
35

The writer is obviously a buffoon. The one thing we all need to understand here is that you cannot rely on a woman for emotional support. You are supposed to be the rock, a mountain. A mountain doesn’t lean on the wind(woman’s emotions) for support. It’s just the way it is. These men that do rely on women for emotional support are not doing either themselves or their wives/gfs any favors.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/19 07:35 PM
0

Really? Because I live my life with honor? I’m 6’2” , an investment banker and played college basketball in the big ten. My SMV is doing just fine. I’m pretty sure I’m good enough to retain a valuable woman. I understand hypergamy just fine. I just prefer not to steal another dudes gf and then wonder “hmm will she just dump me once she levels up” OP would do well by leveling up himself And actually you would too.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 07:31 PM
4

So she wasn’t loyal to her ex bf , by talking to you while she was with him. Yet you expect her to be loyal to you? Lol. You’re getting exactly what you deserve . You stole another guys gf... yet you expect good karma and loyalty? Sounds like you guys deserve each other. Maybe focus on being a better person and the right people will enter your life.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 05:56 PM
1

You’re in the wrong forum. Better to ask this in the steroids forums. A lot of women fitness models, bikini and figure do take anavar at low doses. Do what you want to do man. Certainly not my preference
/r/askTRP03/05/19 11:32 PM
5

Don’t be stupid bro. Get new condoms
/r/askTRP03/05/19 01:01 AM
1

Get on TRT. It’s really that simple. You’re doing the right things, your natural levels haven’t improved. Your HPTA is prob broken.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 12:56 AM
39

Delete Facebook bro. Comeon
/r/TheRedPill02/05/19 12:15 AM
3

I’ve also seen betas cheat. They lose control of the relationship and get beaten down... then cheat with someone else as a way of acting out. I prefer not to cheat.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 12:23 AM
5

Lol no
/r/askTRP27/04/19 11:13 PM
3

Never. Never ever ever ever give up man. Never. God wants you to go through trials and tribulations to get what you want. You will look back and appreciate it all
/r/askTRP27/04/19 05:53 PM
6

Great job
/r/askTRP26/04/19 01:43 AM
6

She is going on a date with another man, while being in a relationship with you. It’s pretty clear. Just tell her you’re finished and find someone else. You will get stronger by leaving a bad woman. You will become weaker by staying with a bad woman.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 02:46 AM
2

What about the cats on TRT. When do they bring it up?
/r/askTRP25/04/19 02:16 AM
2

YouTube is your friend. Athlean X , Scott Herman fitness. Immerse yourself. Tell yourself right now that you will never give up and you will find a way no matter what. Magic will happen
/r/askTRP24/04/19 01:50 AM
1

What about someone she hooked up with once but put in friend zone after. Is that still a orbiter you should pay no mind to
/r/askTRP23/04/19 06:11 PM
88

Just next man. You’re inviting negative toxic energy into your life. Just find someone new
/r/askTRP21/04/19 10:43 PM
1

I really think feminism has hurt women just as much as men. Pretending to be someone you’re not is a slow gradual death that destroys the soul.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 12:54 AM
2

Gorilla mindset man
/r/askTRP14/04/19 03:00 PM
1

Thank you for your very reasoned response. To be honest I don't think she is interested in him. She has a large group of friends, and some of them are beta males. I don't think she is going planning on cheating. I do think she really cares about me and is very happy with things. She cooks, fucks me constantly and is very pleasant. I should also say my SMV is pretty high - I'm 6'2" , played college basketball, muscular with 10% bodyfat, work as an investment banker. Ultimately I agree with you. W…
/r/askTRP11/04/19 11:42 PM
1

I’m not. The only reason I posted this is because of how shocked I was . Clearly I have a lot to learn. And thank you for your advice.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 08:03 PM
2

Sadly it isn’t.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 07:34 PM
1

Wow. So true man. I’ve made this mistake in the past. Just trying to be better man everyday
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 07:27 PM
1

How do you suggest doing this? Some of her stuff is at my place. Just mail it back to her?
/r/askTRP11/04/19 07:20 PM
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