Hey guys i got a question. It's not specific for this situation but also in general when it happens.

So basically there is a girl i fucked a few times, after fucking her she is the one messaging trying to set another day etc. but after not seeing her for 2weeks+ she flakes alot and it takes effort to fuck her again. So it takes along time again to set a day because flakes and other bullshit

So i soft next her, and she messages me again. I try to set a day and she flakes again. At this time i haven't seen her in 1 month so i told her ''Nevermind, i don't have time for this shit'' and she immediately tried to plan a day.

But the question is does this seem needy? Is it better to ignore and not text the girls or was my message good?