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She doesn't know, but they're her closest friends. They're 4 girls and 4 boys and there has been a lot of messing around in the group. One of her ex fuck buddies is dating one of her friends now. Whole the situation is pretty weird if you ask me.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 09:15 PM
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Dunno, probably 20+
/r/askTRP21/06/21 09:13 PM
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Yes, I'm 24 and she's 25. I don't need to know the n-count of my plates. They always ask me if I want to know, and I just say 'no'. Not gonna lie, she fits my lifestyle and most of my expectations. Just the fact that she still hangs out with male friends who she has made out/fucked with is enough reason for me not to promote her as LTR material. But I see where you're coming from, the present definitely matters more. And if she adds to your lifestyle, definitely go for it. But, personally, this …
/r/askTRP21/06/21 03:35 PM
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She does everything you have written above. Is submissive, initiates a lot, low effort, even pays for my drinks/food, has her shit together, etc... But she has social media and a few male friends she had sex or made out with (they're still close). Her n-count is probably above 20. Why would I LTR a girl who's so easy? Even if she ticks a lot of boxes, some things are a dealbreaker to me. There are plenty of girls out there who are like this one but with a lower N-count.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 02:36 PM
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I've done this many times, who cares.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 11:02 AM
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Had been thinking of upgrading one of my plates to LTR material. But last week she was laying next to me and hit me with the classic shit test 'How many girls have you slept with?'. Passed all her shit tests, and then she said "I think you don't want to know my number". She has hinted a few times that she has had some wild periods. This has always been in the back of my mind. You can have fun with girls like this, but I could never LTR a girl with a high n-count.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 08:14 AM
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I'm going through the same thing. Have been hanging out with my FWB for months now. She's everything I look for in a girl, but she has hinted a few times that she has had 'wild periods' in the past and has a relatively high n-count. She also has 2 close male friends who she has made out with and one whom she fucked prior to meeting me. She said it didn't mean anything and is pushing for a relationship, but I will never commit to a girl who gives it up so easily. If it bothers you, good choice to…
/r/askTRP20/06/21 08:39 AM
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Don't give up, I was in your position two years ago at the age of 23. Decided to join the army, got out, and now I'm back in school and killing all of my exams. You're 25, still young, don't give up.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 10:27 AM
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I always lie that I just came out of a long term relationship, and I'm not looking for anything serious. They never make a big deal out of it.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 08:05 AM
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I'm in the same situation. Been spinning plates for years now, and it just feels... empty. Most girls have loads of red flags and are plate material at best. Fucking them is boring, and I want them to leave asap after we're done. I met one girl who stood out from the rest. I thought I'd give her a shot until the red flags started stacking up. I was laying next to her, thinking to myself, "Fucking hell, not again." Last week I was driving around at night to empty my head and was thinking about al…
/r/askTRP15/06/21 09:49 AM
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This has started to bother me over the years as well. I see so many 'friends' who meet a girl and suddenly become flaky or boring in general. Seems like TRP journey is a lonely one. All of my friends are rushing into relationships with (trashy) girls, and eventually they stop hanging out, and I have to cut them off. My social circle is slowly getting smaller and smaller.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 09:11 AM
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Just be glad that she's doing this 3 months in. It's still early and you need to think about what just happened. Nonetheless it's a red flag and shouldn't be ignored. It's up to you to choose your next step. It clearly bothers you, so..
/r/askTRP09/06/21 10:49 AM
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crypto.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 10:38 AM
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Hmm probably every friday or saturday.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 09:15 AM
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I just ignore his tantrums.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 07:30 AM
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Same, so I make it my mission to make as dumb faces as possible on pictures, so she stops. Always cracks me up when she gets pissed.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 07:45 PM
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Exactly, I did nothing wrong, but she found it disrespectful because I was flirting with both of them and then walked in holding her friends' hand.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 05:47 PM
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Treat her like any other girl. She's wasting your time, just next her and don't pay attention to her. Who cares if she's friends with your friend's girlfriend?
/r/askTRP07/06/21 05:45 PM
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What are your hobbies? What do you do in your free time? What are you passionate about? Find friends through those things. I met most of my friends through school, hobbies, my social circle, ...
/r/askTRP06/06/21 10:30 AM
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Yes, go out by yourself or with other friends who don't ruin your night. I have one friend, he's a really cool dude but when I'm out with him, he drinks way too much and has actually ruined my night a couple of times. Once he got mad at me for 'ditching' him because I was flirting with a girl near the bar for like 10 minutes. I like to talk to new people, do my own thing and dance. He's the kind of guy who can't have fun sober, so he drinks (too much) to get comfortable, and we've had many argum…
/r/askTRP06/06/21 08:40 AM
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I tried it but it was kind of meh. Deleting dating apps was one of the best decisions I've made dating wise though. I don't go out of my way to cold approach either. I just talk to people I meet during my day.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 07:48 AM
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Exactly, personally I don't like tattoo's on a girl. Shows a lack of long term planning and impulsivity.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 03:44 PM
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Damn, these are horrible. Shows you how many trash girls are out there nowadays.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 03:43 PM
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I'm not confused. Just not really attractive when the girl you've been vetting for months turns out to have lied to you and posts revealing pictures on Tinder.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 03:42 PM
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I'm talking about the vetting phase.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 01:54 PM
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I quit the military last year and went back to school, one of the best decisions I've ever made. Good luck!
/r/askTRP04/06/21 09:14 AM
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Expand your social circle. I meet new people all the time. I go out by myself and talk to people and this way I meet more people. Be fun, outgoing, and before you know it your social circle will be huge. Even through hobbies it's easy. It's obvious that with a bigger social circle, you'll meet more girls. Fuck online dating apps. Cold approaching is great too, but social circle gaming is where it's at. The prettiest girls I've fucked were through my social circle. Last week I was walking around …
/r/askTRP04/06/21 09:11 AM
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Practice makes perfect.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 07:32 AM
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This is the only right answer.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 07:30 AM
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It's the opposite for me, doing better than ever with cold approaching.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 06:32 AM
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Back when I had Tinder my bio was "Not boyfriend material" - Ex girlfriend Many girls replied this: Her: How come you're not boyfriend material? Me: Might tell you over a drink. Her: Hahah sure, when? Me: Give me your number. I'll let you know when I'm free. Her: Sure 0123456789 That's it.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 06:25 PM
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I'm in the same situation. One of my plates has been the best plate I could think of. Not a single red flag, except one... at the start she told me how she used to have a 'wild' period back in her college days (she's 24 now). This has been in the back of my mind for a while now. I had been thinking of upgrading her to LTR material but for some reason I can't. Exactly the same reason you mentioned... I know how you feel, man. I doubt the feeling will ever go away. That's why I've decided not to u…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 06:15 PM
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When your boss starts avoiding you.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 11:55 AM
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I either go for a walk or grab a drink first, then head over to my or her place.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 09:53 PM
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I know right, seems like a lot of red pillers are running into 'supermodels'.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 06:55 PM
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Damn, thanks for telling me, I didn't know it was that bad to mix it.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 06:21 PM
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The best thing I've ever done, and I would advise this to anyone, is going out solo. You're forced to talk to people and socialize. If you only go out with friends, and they do their own thing, you'll feel awkward. You should travel by yourself somewhere. Even if it's just a weekend. I did this last year, and it definitely helped me grow as a person. Now I go out alone all the time and meet loads of people because I've learned to socialize and have fun by myself. What's holding you back from tal…
/r/askTRP01/06/21 08:32 AM
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I mix it with alcohol and haven't had any bad experiences. I heard a lot of people don't recommend it but why is it considered bad?
/r/askTRP31/05/21 07:40 PM
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It seems like you take bodybuilding seriously and want to work on your body, that's great. But a club will 90% be filled with drunk people. It sounds like you're not having a good time in clubs and that's fine. But there are plenty of other places where you can pick up girls. Why bother going to clubs when you're not having fun? It also sounds you tend to overthink a lot of things. Stop worrying about random stuff and just live in the moment and have some fun. Also, you need to work on your game…
/r/askTRP31/05/21 02:27 PM
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I'm not trying to sound like an asshole, but I've seen many guys like you at clubs. Those guys who just stay at the side, don't even look like they're having fun and only care about pulling girls while they're not getting anything. It's obvious you're not having a good time, girls can see this too. Your first mistake is going to the club at 10:30 pm. Most people pre-drink at home or bars and head to the clubs around 00:30-1:00 am. Second mistake, don't just go to clubs to get laid, go there to h…
/r/askTRP31/05/21 10:10 AM
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This could be it. How about you find a plate who's at least attractive in your eyes and more than 'average'. Might solve it. At least, that's what I'm going to do
/r/askTRP28/05/21 01:04 PM
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That's exactly what my friend is doing. Shutting up, telling them what they want to hear, so he can pass the classes, get that degree and then do whatever he wants. Kind of sad when you think about it. I wonder how it will be like, 50 years from here on.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 09:30 AM
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Definitely not. The post-nut clarity is brutal. I've been there and let me tell you, it's never worth it. Stop putting women on a pedestal and only approach the ones you find attractive. Fucking girls below your standards doesn't make you grow as a man. If anything, it makes you more desperate and will harm your confidence in the long run. Fucking women below your standards is NOT a good strategy. I'm talking from experience, everyone is free to do what he wants. But, trust me, fucking girls bel…
/r/askTRP28/05/21 09:21 AM
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I'm experiencing the same thing. With my ex I could get rock hard boners in an instant. Even when she was just hugging me I was ready to go to pound town. The past months/years I've been messing around with other girls. Sometimes I would be fucking them and think 'Man, this is boring', made an excuse and left. I thought something was wrong with my test levels, so I got them checked, but my doctor said they're above average. Asked him what the problem was, and he told me it's mentally. It could b…
/r/askTRP28/05/21 09:18 AM
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Why would you go to a wedding with the intentions of getting laid? Just go there, make sure the one hosting the wedding has a good time, have some fun, dance and everything will fall in place.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 09:01 AM
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Yes, they claim you're free to do whatever you want, but the opposite is true. I'm studying real estate and the other day my teacher mentioned an article about discrimination in our sector. It was an article that stated that there's too much discrimination going around in the real estate world. People had been rejecting 'lower class people' or people with a different skin color from renting their apartments. What the fuck are we doing, if you can't even choose whoever you rent your place to. Thi…
/r/askTRP27/05/21 02:10 PM
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Definitely, I have one friend who is naturally red pilled. He reminds me a little of Jordan Peterson. Very smart, likes to discuss certain topics and hear what the other person has to say about it. The other day we were talking, and he's studying psychology. The thing that frustrated him the most were the teachers. He said that they had to discuss certain topics. Topics like feminism, racism, whether trans people should be allowed to have kids, ... They had to make pro and contra arguments. My f…
/r/askTRP27/05/21 10:50 AM
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Used to be both. But the plates whom I met online were always uglier than the ones I approached in real life.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 12:09 PM
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I would HARD next her.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 12:08 PM
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I was waiting in line to get a drink at a club. Next to me, there was this cute girl, all alone, and we started flirting. She ended up giving me her number and told me to hit her up later. So, I go to the toilet and bump into a girl who remembered me from another party. She comes on to me and starts making out heavily. She tells me to come with her and was holding my hand. She was guiding me to her friends and next thing I know. The girl who I flirted with in line was part of her group of friend…
/r/askTRP26/05/21 10:02 AM
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Never ask “Can you..” “Let’s grab some drinks at x place, 5pm” What you said is good.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 08:09 PM
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This is exactly why online dating is shit. Women have way too many options.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 05:47 PM
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You're making a big deal out of nothing. Just fuck her when you come back from your work trip. Anyways, it sounds like she's your only plate. If you had 5 plates, would you care? You would withdraw attention from this one and fuck others. Focus on work, nothing special happened from what I've read. Don't stress it too much.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 09:33 AM
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Nope, like Batman-von-pepe said, act like it never happened and set up a date. You'll know if she's interested or not by her response. Good luck.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 09:15 AM
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I just answered your question.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 08:36 AM
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Drink less or have cialis as a backup
/r/askTRP25/05/21 08:26 AM
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Getting married has no benefits. Why would you get married? People only fuck each other over during a divorce. I'm in real estate and the amount of people fucking each other over is unreal. NEVER get married.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 03:04 PM
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Any chance you’re familiar with Aqua di Gio Profume and Aqua di Gio Absolu? Just looked them up and they both look great
/r/askTRP22/05/21 09:19 PM
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Same, I like fresh scents. Sauvage is not that bad but I think it’s a little bit overrated. The Aqua di Gio is good but the scent goes away quickly. Gonna try out Tom Ford. One of my best friends has Calvin Klein, I think it’s called ‘Free’. It smells pretty good too.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 08:47 PM
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Good taste. I have Bleu de chanel, Aqua di Gio and Sauvage too! Might try out the Tom Ford one you mentioned.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 07:28 PM
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I had several times where I was out for 6+ months. Muscle memory is a thing. At the start you’ll feel weak but just build it up slowly and before you know it, you’ll be golden.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 11:46 AM
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Yes.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 07:15 AM
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For your clothes, google ‘casual outfits for men’. Just wear basic light blue/white/black shirts. Start lifting so your outfits fit better. You’re low body fat, your jaw looks really good. For your hair... get something like Bradley Cooper.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 12:03 AM
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Your haircut and clothing style are shit
/r/askTRP21/05/21 10:30 PM
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I was on a dry streak during the lockdown. Decided to download Tinder and lower my standards. It was easy as fuck. 5/6/10's are so fucking easy. But after a while I got bored with it and deleted that shitty app, definitely not worth my time. Would rather fuck 3 good looking girls than 20 average girls from Tinder.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 03:43 PM
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I was on a dry streak during the lockdown. Decided to download Tinder and lower my standards. It was easy as fuck. 5/6/10's are so fucking easy. But after a while I got bored with it and deleted that shitty app, definitely not worth my time. Would rather fuck 3 good looking girls than 20 average girls from Tinder.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 03:43 PM
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What I understood from this is that you and your friend are both retarded. Your friend is a dumb ass for orbiting her, and you're an even bigger idiot for even considering going after a girl in your social circle who's had 'history' with a close friend of yours. There are thousands of girls, why mess around with this one? Even if you get a fuck out of it, was it really worth it to lose a 'close friend' who stated he's not comfortable with it. This shows that you have a lack of abundance mentalit…
/r/askTRP21/05/21 09:22 AM
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Not sure why you're getting down voted. Seems like this sub is full of simps who value pussy more than friendships.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 09:14 AM
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I agree. This sub used to be great, now it's filled with retarded posts and shitty advice.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 09:11 AM
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I thought it was a good read.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 09:08 AM
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Personally I live by it.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 06:50 AM
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No, I do the same thing.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 06:47 AM
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In the past I used social media to get girls through Tinder and Instagram. But was only getting trashy girls, was fed up with girls showing up and looking ugly compared to their pictures. So, I deleted everything. I just cold approach now. If I can get girls this way, why would I need social media?
/r/askTRP20/05/21 10:41 AM
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To each their own. I look at the bigger picture. She’s clearly just doing it for attention which is unattractive. Besides, if you’re really the prize, why bother wasting your time on some Insta sloot? Maybe we both have different opinions, that’s cool. But for me, a quality woman doesn’t have bikini pictures fishing for attention.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 10:25 AM
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I’ve fucked only one 9 in my life. I was at a summer bar, 2 years ago. I bumped into some girl from work and she was there with friends. One of them was legit a 9, in my eyes. So, I started flirting with her. Night went on and we had a small after party and it just happened.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 10:22 AM
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Love it when a girl has bikini or tight legging pictures on Instagram. Saves me a lot of time. Basic attention seeking behavior, plate material at best.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 09:31 AM
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Yes, dump him. Sounds like a snake. Who knows what else does he do behind your back? I had ‘friends’ like this. Dumped them and never looked back. Real friends wouldn’t do that.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 08:21 AM
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Haven’t met a single funny woman so far. Most women are insecure and take everything personally, they can’t even comprehend basic sarcasm.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 11:12 PM
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Good luck, the next time you see her, she’s yours.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 03:22 PM
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You’ll be the guy who doesn’t have the balls to make a move in real life
/r/askTRP19/05/21 07:31 AM
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Stop worrying about things out of your control. Just do your own things, make a move and escalate. If she likes your friends more, so be it. Enough girls.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 06:54 AM
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Holy shit I’m so glad I don’t have social media so I don’t need to worry about dumb shit like this.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 09:58 PM
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When a girl says this to me I assume it’s a sign of low interest and soft next her
/r/askTRP18/05/21 05:25 PM
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Same... I'm doing better than ever. Quit social media 6 months ago, eating more healthy, found a new hobby, passing all of my exams, making a lot of money with crypto, meeting loads of new people, ... But I still feel empty, every morning, I wake up, workout/play sports, take a shower, make breakfast, study, read and go to bed. It is starting to get so boring... maybe it's because of COVID, I don't know...
/r/askTRP18/05/21 11:18 AM
5

Out of all the dates/plates I've had the past years, not a single one caught my attention. At the start I was genuinely interested. Asking them questions about their hobbies, passions, goals in life, ... But literally 90% of the girls I've met have no hobbies, are addicted to social media, can't even cook a proper meal and only want to party. It's one of the reasons why I'm staying single. Enough options, but I'm not desperate enough to fake it with a woman. If they're boring, I just use them fo…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 03:32 PM
2

It sounds good, but once you walk outside there's this feeling of disgust. You wasted your hard-earned money on some dumb slut.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 07:46 PM
1

Nope, she's still overweight, actually made a bet with her where she has to run 10 km every week for 2 months straight.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 07:45 PM
2

I wish I never would have started with prostitutes.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 06:24 PM
2

I'm in the same situation. Early 20s, live in a small town and lately my social circle makes me cringe. They want to go to the same shitty bar every weekend, it's impossible to get them out of this small town to do something exciting. When I go out with them, their goals is to get as wasted as possible. All of them are getting fat, look unhealthy and have nothing in common with me anymore. The only reason why I'm hanging out with them is because I'm stuck in this small town for the next 2 years.…
/r/askTRP16/05/21 01:42 PM
2

My parents didn’t teach me anything. If anything, it’s that I will NEVER get married (they’re divorced). They’re the kind of parents with nothing going on in their lives. Every day they complain about their jobs to me. I learned everything I know by myself. Will probably cut both of my parents out of my life once I move out. For many different reasons.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 08:30 AM
2

I live at home and logistics are a pain in the ass! Will definitely move out asap. Until then I’m just focusing on school.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 08:15 AM
6

This reminds me of my cousin. Rushed into a LTR with a sweet girl. Everything going great, 2 kids later she weighs 120kg. He has asked me many times what he should do. That he doesn’t want sex with her anymore, etc... Also, I was in a LTR with a girl and suddenly she was living unhealthy. She was getting fatter, just broke it off. I bumped into her a few months ago and she had gotten so fat. Just dump and move on.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 08:06 AM
-1

Rich dad, poor dad
/r/askTRP15/05/21 10:31 AM
1

Same, I can't bond with women anymore. I feel zero emotions when I'm on a date with a girl. Just thinking about fucking her and doing my own thing or hanging out with friends.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 06:08 PM
2

When I say no I feel guilty Models by Mark Manson
/r/askTRP13/05/21 06:07 PM
9

Cold approached a girl last week, got her number, set up a date and during the date she showed me something on her phone. I noticed she had Tinder and I made a small neg about it. Then she said she's only using it to get followers on Instagram. Fucking lol, never ghosted a girl so quickly.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 06:03 PM
3

I had dropped out of college when I was 20 years old. Worked night shifts at a dead-end job for nearly 2 years. Genuinely hated it there. Every day I was getting more depressed and thought to myself "What the fuck am I doing with my life?". Until I decided to quit this job around the age of 23 and head back to school. Now, one year later, I'm doing great. So far, I've passed 6/6 exams and have invested most of my money. So basically I'm letting my money work for me and meanwhile I'm working hard…
/r/askTRP13/05/21 11:15 AM
1

Both. You can get ED from death grip. Or PIED from fucking up your brain with porn
/r/askTRP11/05/21 08:39 PM
3

I went back to school last year, and I'm 23. Going to be studying until I'm nearly 28. Best decision I've ever made.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 05:14 PM
8

You'll get ED if you continue this.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 11:26 AM
3

Read your third paragraph. You clearly cringe to yourself while browsing Instagram. Just by reading your post I can tell that you’ve never cold approached a girl. Grow some balls and stop wasting your time on this shit app.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 05:20 AM
4

Before the lockdown I was around 17-18% BF. I weighed like 80 kg, pretty muscled for my height. But looking back at pictures, my face was more 'chubby' than it is now. Now I'm around 14% BF and 70 kg. I've lost a lot of muscles/fat. The difference in my face though... My face looks way better now, much leaner. I thought getting girls would be harder, but it's the opposite. Literally never had it so easy with girls, even though I look way smaller now. Can't imagine what it's like around 10% BF an…
/r/askTRP10/05/21 04:49 PM
2

Sounds like a gem.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 04:00 PM
40

Guys who do this are low value. I don't care about girls in general but if my 'friends' are desperate enough to leech off my plates, I'll next them. I've had countless opportunities to hook up with friends their exes/flings, but I've ALWAYS turned it down. Like you said, there are thousands of girls, I can approach any girl, why take the one my friend messed around with? I value friendships more than some pussy. Anyone who is desperate enough to do this is low value, and you can't change my mind…
/r/askTRP10/05/21 03:57 PM
123

The Best thing I've done so far, dating wise, is deleting all of my apps and approaching girls in real life.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 01:55 PM
2

I know how you feel, OP. I used to be like you. Likewise, I was always the one coming up with new ideas, but they would rather do the same boring stuff every weekend. It's exhausting, it has come up to the point where I'm just going out solo, so I can do my own thing. Just find new friends. Don't ditch these guys, but just have a different group of friends you can hang out with.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 08:40 PM
1

Invest your money Read books Workout Travel
/r/askTRP07/05/21 11:32 AM
1

Delete social media Work out Eat clean/healthy Have enough sleep Don't fap or watch porn Cold showers Take a multivitamin Drink enough water
/r/askTRP07/05/21 08:50 AM
3

I used to, but I can't do it anymore. Won't waste my time on at least a 7/10 anymore.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 07:10 AM
1

Yes, I live in a small town with around 15k people. All people my age know each other, you barely see new people here, it's boring. Every weekend I go to the big city, meet loads of hot girls and things are going great. When they ask where I'm from and see that I live 1 hour away they always lose interest. Can't blame them, I wouldn't drive 1 hour either for a boy if I was a girl. All my friends who moved away from this small town, to the big city say the same thing. Once you move to the big cit…
/r/askTRP05/05/21 10:31 AM
2

I have the worst text game ever. Just approach girls in real life and use your phone to set up a date. This works for me, it should work for you too.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 03:37 PM
1

I saw a cute girl with two of her female friends. Told my friend she's cute, and he told me I should approach her. We were coming up with a funny thing to say, and eventually we said fuck it and went somewhere else. 1 Hour later we come back, and they're still sitting there, so I'm like, fuck it. Just walked up to the girl and said she's cute and introduced myself. I ended up chatting with them for nearly 30 minutes. It doesn't matter what you say, just approach.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 11:12 AM
1

It's all about dopamine.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 10:23 AM
1

My best friend had really shitty teeth. He paid 5k for new teeth, and it's one of the best decisions he's ever made.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 10:22 AM
1

Same thing happened to me, usually happens with average girls.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 10:06 AM
1

Not trying to take a dig at you, but you're posting stories for the whole purpose of seeking attention and highlighting your social status when you're looking fresh. It sounds like you're trying way too hard to be honest. I'm your age, so I know how everyone is on Snapchat these days but to me, it just seems so pointless. Chasing external validation just for the sake of looking 'cool' and getting pussy.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 09:35 AM
1

30 is still young. A good friend of me is 34 years old and has a cooler life than me.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 09:27 AM
1

This is what happens when you try to act cool around your 'mates' and show off the nudes you're getting. Nonetheless, it's definitely a bitch move by your other 'friends'.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 10:12 AM
1

I have a friend who's exactly like this. I don't go to parties with him anymore. Still hang out together though when it's just with guys.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 09:29 AM
10

Dating apps are a pile of shit. I had been using them from January until March and then deleted it after experiencing the same thing you mentioned, it's just not worth it. Also, the girls I met up with always looked uglier than on their profile. Now I only cold approach and I've been having great results. Do yourself a favor and delete all of your dating apps. Approach girls in real life.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 08:13 AM
3

I've experienced the same thing. It's not worth it if so many girls flake. Would rather cold approach.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 05:29 PM
5

Personally I don't use dating apps anymore. The last 3 girls I met up with looked ugly compared to their pictures. Don't get me started on all the flakes and attention whores. A lot of girls thought I was a catfish because I didn't have Facebook or Instagram. Once you start cold approaching and having success, that's when the fun starts. Girls on apps are boring. In real life they're way more open, and you can instantly see if they're interested or look cute. So glad I quit online dating.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 05:27 PM
7

There's no point in mate guarding. Don't give a fuck about her friend.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 05:18 PM
40

Thanks for the insight, really appreciate it, uncle Vasya. Cracked up at the "Basic fat bitch game". The cute girl actually called me today, and wants to hang out tomorrow. What you said about addressing the blow up on the ugly fat bitch is exactly what I did. The hot girl told me I should apologize to her friend and I just said 'No, I won't.' I said I shouldn't have insulted her and overreacted but that the fat bitch had been annoying me and had to be put in her place. She didn't make a big dea…
/r/askTRP25/04/21 07:41 PM
3

I was the youngest one (23). I think they were between 25-30 years old.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 07:27 PM
8

Trust me, I'm not sure why I went with them. Right from the start I knew I wouldn't click with them. Tried my best but in the end I exploded.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 07:21 PM
55

Fat chicks will do anything for attention, that's why I can't stand them. Literally 90% of good-looking girls have better personalities than fat chicks from my own experience.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 01:16 PM
24

Even though the girl I was flirting with didn't do anything wrong, I don't feel like fucking her anymore. It's indeed not worth the trouble and if she hangs out with trashy people like that it's a red flag.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 01:14 PM
14

I used to suck at having conversations. Now I can talk with anyone. Read the book "How to make friends and influence people". It's really simple, people love talking about themselves. If you want to have a good conversation with someone you have to ask them questions to gauge for their interests and pick up on that. The best way to have a good conversation is by listening. How many times I see people talking and not listening to the other person, interrupting, ... If you find something you have …
/r/askTRP24/04/21 08:54 AM
1

Thanks man, good to hear you're beating your addiction, it's really hard... I started visiting prostitutes after starting NoFap 4 years ago, I was horny all day long and that made me get addicted to prostitutes. I've been reading about semen retention the past week, might give it a shot as well. Thanks for your input. Good luck in the future, man, hope you can beat it for good.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 08:40 AM
21

How did you quit? Because I’m not addicted to porn, but I’m addicted to prostitutes..
/r/askTRP23/04/21 06:12 AM
1

Same, all my classes are online, haven't met anyone through school. Right now I'm rotting in my room, bored as hell.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 06:19 PM
2

I know how you feel. Where I live everything is closed. People are getting tired of it. Now that it’s getting hotter everyone is going to parks, sit together with some music and chill. And what my go to is? Anything. When I walk by a group of girls and they have music playing I ask them what the name of the song is and that I like it. Usually start a conversation from there. Other times I’m more direct, walk up to a girl and tell her she looks cute and ask her what she’s up to. Even last sunday …
/r/askTRP21/04/21 07:49 AM
4

I deleted that shit app 3 weeks ago. Literally every girl I met up with looked worse than on their pictures. Uglier, fatter, even one girl turned out to be a hill giant. Lately I’ve just been cold approaching at parks. This way I can’t get surprised by fat or ugly girls anymore. It’s also way more fun and they can’t trick you with online filters. It’s one of the reasons why I have no social media anymore. Everything is so fake and it’s always a let down.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 06:50 AM
3

Play with her imagination.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 06:41 AM
6

We all know that the HB10’s most guys are talking about are a 7/10 at best. When someone mentions sleeping with a HB10 it’s a clear sign that they don’t know what they’re talking about and have put her on a pedestal. HB10’s are super models. I doubt anyone on this sub is bagging them. 9/10’s are like a young Pamela Anderson. Then you have the really pretty girls you see on the streets who are probably an 8/10 with model like looks, those kind of girls who you see at the mall and everyone’s looki…
/r/askTRP21/04/21 06:06 AM
3

I have the same ‘problem’. As soon as you have them, the fun is over, idk what the problem is
/r/askTRP20/04/21 07:44 PM
13

Stopped reading at 43 years old and having TikTok.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 06:35 AM
1

Every aspect of my life improved. The moment I quit videogames I had so much more time for other stuff. Suddenly I’m passing all of my exams. Have met so many new people and picked up a new hobby. It’s crazy how much time u have for other stuff if u quit playing videogames. Honorable mention: I’m in a better mood overall. I used to play LoL a lot and would tilt hard. I have way more energy too.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 07:29 AM
1

Seems like it. Anyways you can’t meet her until summer anyways so you’re better off finding other girls
/r/askTRP18/04/21 01:35 PM
2

If a girl wants you, she will make it easy.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 01:31 PM
1

Nothing wrong with that. Nowadays it’s hard to find a quality woman. During the vetting process they always fuck up somehow. Better to stay single and work on your goals.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 07:12 AM
4

Getting married? Never. In fact I think getting married is one of the dumbest things a man can do. I’ve had countless of discussions about this topic with friends and plates. All the stories I’ve heard about men getting screwed over after a divorce is enough evidence to never get married. I always ask them why I should get married. The only thing they can come up with is ‘you get to call you girlfriend wife’. That’s it? Never get married. You have nothing to gain from getting married, only to lo…
/r/askTRP17/04/21 06:45 AM
2

Dude are you me? I’m exactly the same. It’s one of the reasons why I’ve never had a relationship longer than 3 months.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 06:13 PM
3

It's lame when you think about it. Being a young male who takes care of himself shouldn't have to pay for hookers. All this money could be used for things you truly enjoy.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 06:08 PM
4

I want to let you know that you're not alone. I'm 24 and struggling with this hooker problem for the past 4 years, I've been addicted.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 08:31 AM
3

Honestly, my father doesn't have anything. Financially wise it's a disaster for him. She is super rich and he is pretty poor. What you said about being a target for scammers is true though, in the past he made stupid decisions and people took advantage of his kindness.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 08:25 AM
1

I don’t know why. What you said sounds logical though. That the sex gets better the more you see her. I just get bored fast easily and I hate it.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 08:07 AM
12

I like the hunt more than the actual sex. Once I’ve fucked a girl I lose all my interest in her.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 05:15 AM
17

Always have a dog, social media addicted, want you to text them all the time, clingy,.. Oh yeah, don’t forget the overportective mom.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 03:17 PM
1

Through your social circle, hobby's, sporting events, ... It's hard to find a quality woman these days, that's why I've been spinning plates for years now, I just can't seem to find a girl who fits my criteria. Places to avoid for quality girls: Clubs or online apps, be it Tinder, Instagram or whatever.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 11:40 AM
2

Deleted all of my social media a few months ago. One of the best decisions I’ve made.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 06:47 AM
20

I block girls all the time, zero fucks given. Girls who blow up my phone, crazy girls, girls who flake on me or waste my time in general, girls who look fatter in real life than on their pictures, ... Who cares if it makes you look insecure? I don’t. I’ve blocked loads of girls, will keep doing it in the future.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 06:44 AM
2

Probably around 30%. In online dating its probably below 5%.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 05:38 AM
1

Yes, but be careful, I went to Krakow last October for 10 days. First time ever travelling solo. I got drugged at a strip club and almost got robbed. Other than that it was alright. 10 Days was a bit too long in one city, especially Krakow since it's pretty small. The timing with the lockdown made it pretty boring in the evening, no night life, spent most of my evenings at my airbnb. The moment I landed there everything closed because of COVID, sadly, so there wasn't much to do. Nevertheless it …
/r/askTRP12/04/21 07:28 PM
7

Yes
/r/askTRP12/04/21 04:16 PM
6

I have the same experience. Have been addicted to prostitutes for years now after trying out NoFap. The sex is not even fun. Even with plates. I’m just fucking them, not even enjoying the experience, yet I keep doing it... We both have to quit. It will probably take months for the brain to turn back to normal... that’s what years of fucking it up does to you. Stay strong and good luck. Try it for at least 3 months. Might take longer.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 07:18 AM
17

Goodluck escalating with a dog nearby
/r/askTRP11/04/21 09:19 PM
18

I’m experiencing the same stuff. I live in a small town and there’s nothing to do here. All of my friends want to do the same shit every weekend, drinking alcohol and sitting at someone’s house. I like to do new things, meet people, go to places I’ve never been to before. I am pretty open minded. I love spontaneous things. Just going to another city and doing whatever you want. My friends always are autistic about planning stuff. It takes them hours to decide what to eat or to which bar to go. O…
/r/askTRP10/04/21 10:37 PM
2

Stop crying, gyms have been closed here since September.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 03:48 PM
1

I did this twice, meeting girls from tinder and them bringing one friend to the bar. Not gonna lie, it was fun, they paid for my drinks and both nights were great. Just have to game both of them. But it's nearly impossible to escalate. The first date I was out with a hot girl. Her friend was fat but fun to hang out with. The hot one wanted to hang out at my airbnb. It was their last night there and she was DTF. But her fat friend cockblocked me soooo hard. Second date I went to a bar with two cu…
/r/askTRP10/04/21 03:45 PM
1

Probably around 10-20 matches a week. But not with girls I would consider hot, average at best.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 10:39 PM
3

I live in a small town and only match with average girls. If I match with a cute girl she lives almost one hour away. When I’m in the big city I match with hot girls. Point of the story. Dont use dating apps in small towns
/r/askTRP09/04/21 10:35 PM
2

Good to hear that you’re doing great. Goodluck in the future!
/r/askTRP09/04/21 10:31 PM
7

I'm experiencing the same thing. On dating apps I can only fuck 6-7's. At this point it's getting boring. The only way where I could get hot women was in real life. But that's hard now that's everything's closed..
/r/askTRP08/04/21 06:14 PM
1

What helped a lot for me is going out solo. Just talk to everyone. Old guys on a bench, a girl who’s working at a store. Ask her for advice on what to wear on a date. Make it fun. Just talk to anyone. Once it becomes a habit you can approach girls for exemple. Tell her she’s cute and ask her what she’s up to. Don’t overthink it.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 04:52 PM
1

The goal is to have fun. I only advise this approach at the start to overcome your fear of approaching. But yeah, we have the same mindset. The IDGAF attitude definitely works too. Goodluck man.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 04:49 PM
1

I feel you man.. Honestly, the government is a joke in most countries. All we can do is sit around and wait until everything gets normal again. Yes, take a break from Tinder. Focus on your studies like you said. Start reading books, get a new hobby, try out new healthy food. We’re all gonna make it.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 06:10 AM
1

Why do you keep comparing yourself to other dudes? This is not a contest. And it sounds like you’re not even approaching girls yet so what makes you think you’re better than other guys? My point is that you shouldn’t fear getting rejected. If you get rejected a few times you’ll realize that the worst that can happen is a girl saying she isn’t interested, which is a good thing because this way you won’t waste time and can approach a new girl.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 06:02 AM
1

Why not wait until summer? You can go work there for 2 months. Focus on your grades.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 05:55 AM
2

Tinder sucks ass. Downloaded it 2 months ago because of the lockdown. I get relatively hot matches but most girls think I’m a catfish because I don’t have social media. When I ask them for their number and they ask me for my insta I just next them. I miss approaching girls in real life.. everything’s been closed here since September.... Don’t get demoralized. Tinder is a shit app but sadly one of the few ways to get laid nowadays. Best thing you can do now is work on yourself. But again... the g…
/r/askTRP08/04/21 05:50 AM
14

Go out with the goal of getting rejected, just have fun. Once you realize that getting rejected is not that bad. That’s when the fun starts.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 08:48 PM
11

I’m 24 and have the same problem. I got my test checked and that wasn’t the problem either. I think for me personally it’s because; - Condoms suck - I’m fucking girls I don’t give a fuck about - Fucking average girls. Not hot ones Don’t know what your problem is. Since you have a girlfriend. Maybe you got bored of her?
/r/askTRP07/04/21 08:33 PM
3

This reminds me of my beta 22 year old cousin and my brothers’ friend who both started dating single mothers and got them pregnant 6 months later. Always when I see them with their girlfriends and kids who aren’t theirs I cringe because they’re so desperate and are perfectly fine with this. To me this is just a sign of no self respect.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 08:24 PM
13

Sounds like the perfect plate.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 04:55 PM
3

He has 1600 matches though
/r/askTRP05/04/21 05:49 AM
1

Hobbies, how long she has been single for, trips she made, how she likes to spend her free time, her studies, ... anything where she can talk about herself. Just listen, make her laugh and escalate
/r/askTRP04/04/21 12:04 PM
1

I worked in a factory for 2 years. Worst 2 years of my life. Soul draining job. I hated everything there. The work, the people who complained about their boring life everyday. So I quit and started studying again. One of the best decisions I have ever made.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 07:40 AM
2

She’s talking shit about him to you, yet she hangs out with him. That says a lot about her. Judge her by her actions, not her words.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 07:22 AM
2

Let her show her true self. Then you judge if shes worthy of your commitment based on her actions. Dont try to change her, she is compatible with what you are looking for in a LTR or she isnt. If really needed, no more than a "I wont be in a relationship with someone who does xxxxxx", then its up to her to do it or not. If you tell her exactly what you are looking for and shes smart enough, she can trick you and will emulate being LTR material until she has your commitment secured, and then you …
/r/askTRP04/04/21 07:18 AM
1

Honestly I think no one should ever have to set verbal boundaries. The girl has to be this way naturally. You should never be the possessive boyfriend who tells her what she can or can’t do. I’m talking about quality girls, not the trash girls you meet on online dating apps. Girls are not stupid. They know exactly how to behave like a good girlfriend. I expect her to be mature enough to make up for herself how she should behave in a relationship. That’s why so many quality girls have a good bond…
/r/askTRP04/04/21 07:08 AM
1

I agree. Everything has been closed here. Literally everyone is sitting in Parks now. They’re packed as hell and heaven for approaching girls nowadays. Most girls drink there with their friends. But I know where you’re coming from, OP. Compared to the times before COVID, it’s 10 times harder now. Loads of girls are scared of the virus, the masks don’t help either.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 06:13 AM
24

What you need to do is go out with the goal of getting rejected. Once you realize it’s not as bad as you think it is. That’s when the fun starts.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 10:38 PM
6

The only woman ever who was close to a perfect girl for me personally was polish. Western women are so fucked.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 10:21 PM
14

The only reason I downloaded it is because of the lockdown. You’re right though. It seems like Tinder is full of whales and 5/10’s. I occasionally fuck girls off it. Will delete it after the lockdown. For now it’s alright.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 08:29 PM
4

I was in the military for a short while and all the girls there were sluts and so fucking easy
/r/askTRP03/04/21 08:00 PM
20

Post nut clarity is so brutal sometimes. When you just fucked a chubby and then realize that you’re a disgusting pig.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 02:43 PM
1

Yeah exactly. I’m talking about friends here
/r/askTRP03/04/21 01:57 PM
1

I understand what you mean but the only people who I’ve seen who do this are people who can’t get girls of their own. Basically simps.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 11:36 AM
3

Honestly. Personally I think that people who go after friends their exes are desperate for pussy. I mean... there are thousand of girls available. Why pick the one your friend had sex with? To me it just screams desperation and lack of options. I’ve had countless of times where I could have fucked friends their exes but I didn’t. I value my friendships more than sex. Even if they’re fine with it, I don’t do it. I guess people will do anything for pussy nowadays.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 11:35 AM
6

Even here on TRP I see a lot of guys doing it. One of their friends brings a girl he's trying to make a move on to a social gathering. Then the girl 'flirts' with them and they try to steal the girl from the friend, no fucks given. Or when a friend introduces his new LTR to his friends. They instantly add her on all social media platforms and I always ask myself 'Why?'. In my opinion it's just weird. And going after exes.. There around thousands of girls who your friends don't have a past with. …
/r/askTRP03/04/21 08:12 AM
3

I have one dude like this in my social circle. He's good friends with 2 of my buddies, everyone else doesn't like him. He's good looking but you just can't trust him. Whole his life is about women. He doesn't talk about anything else. There have been a few times where he has hit on friends their girls or ex girlfriends. We called him out on it a lot of times but he doesn't care I guess. Nobody trusts him. It has come up to the point where he doesn't get invited to social gatherings anymore. But …
/r/askTRP03/04/21 08:03 AM
23

Yes, sex is overrated. I’m at this point where I don’t enjoy sex anymore. Whole my life I’ve fucked girls I don’t give a fuck about. Girls from bars, Tinder, .... Maybe it’s better with someone you care about. But I’ve never been in love or had feelings for a girl so sex is boring as hell at this point. Would rather fap than fuck an average girl.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 07:36 AM
149

I avoid these guys: Simps Bad with money (lend money but takes ages to pay back) Offended easily Guys who are addicted to their phone Those guys who tune their cars or whole life is about cars Friends who go after other friends their exes Social justice warriors Lazy guys who want to do the same shit every weekend My best friends are guys who can take a joke. Who like to get out of their comfort zone and enjoy life. Those who have their own opinion but don't force it down your throat. I just can…
/r/askTRP02/04/21 10:42 AM
1

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/r/askTRP02/04/21 08:58 AM
7

I feel the same way at the moment. Mainly because of the lockdown. Gyms have been closed here since September. Haven’t met anyone from my classes. All I can do is sit at home, behind my computer to watch my classes and study. Literally everything is closed here. I miss the gym so hard... it feels like there’s no end to this shit. But it will be fine, man. We’re all gonna make it. It’s gonna get better and achieve all of our goals, don’t give up.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 09:12 PM
1

I was a toy boy for a few months back when I was 21. Wanted to fuck a MILF back then and figured, why not let her pay me for it? So I wrote an ad on some website and I got a lot of messages from couples. Most of the people messaging me were men. They wanted to pay me to fuck their wife and watch. At first I said no because it was fucking weird but one time I was bored/horny and figured, why not? So, they paid me like 250 euros for 1 hour and I was basically free to do anything I want. Usually I …
/r/askTRP01/04/21 04:02 PM
2

I do this every weekend since everything has been closed here since September. Just going for a walk with a girl and bringing a bottle of wine. Drink and talk along the way and usually end up at my place.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 11:11 AM
3

Trying to play hard to get.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 10:51 AM
14

Mate, she literally wrote she has feelings for him.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 02:48 PM
18

You're not overthinking this, always follow your gut. The fact that she has been talking to a guy who likes her behind your back is a HUGE red flag. Yes, she's doing the right thing by blocking him. But what I mean by vetting her better is getting yourself a girl who doesn't allow guys to get close to her in the first place. How did it even come to this point? The fact that she cares enough to let him know is a red flag. I mean, it's your choice, but as soon as I find out my girl has been textin…
/r/askTRP31/03/21 01:57 PM
18

How long you been dating for? Sounds like you need to vet better.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 01:36 PM
1

Same. Been single for ages now but sometimes I just need to fuck so I lower my standards after a dry streak.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 07:25 PM
2

Same... I thought with hotter escorts it would be better, but it was still the same. What I've noticed is that during summer I'm more horny though, compared to this time of the year.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 06:11 PM
9

I'm struggling with the same shit. I'm 23, healthy live style but I'm never horny. I went to a doctor and got my test levels checked, above average. Went on NoFap and NoPorn and it was slightly better. I sometimes force myself to talk to women and even when I have sex, after one round I'm done for whole the night. I've been visiting escorts for 3 years now though. And the worst thing is. I wasted so much money on it while I'm not even horny, just because I'm bored. Sometimes I can't even cum. I …
/r/askTRP29/03/21 04:48 PM
6

I had no social media before the lockdown and was doing fine. But since the lockdown I tried out Tinder. Might monk mode and just stick to cold approaching.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 01:26 PM
6

Around the age of 18 I tried out steroids. I was pretty shredded for my age and I was getting IOI's left and right. When I was at a bar or club I had girls approaching me. Literally had girls dancing next to me, up to the point where their ass was basically grinding against my dick and they knew it. All I had to do was grab them by the hips, start dancing and escalating. I kid you not, it was literally life on easy mode. Then I broke my hand and couldn't work out properly for nearly 1-2 years. I…
/r/askTRP26/03/21 02:10 PM
3

This. A few years ago this sub was great, now it's filled with retards.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 09:41 AM
19

lol i know you in real life
/r/askTRP26/03/21 09:12 AM
2

That's the worst, when you make plans but they change their mind and just want to do the same boring stuff. Then they get surprised when you make plans without them.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 04:35 PM
3

I'm an asshole but I'm doing this to one of my friends. My friend used to be cool but now he's a beta phaggot. All he cares about is eating junk food, playing video games and drinking alcohol every day. He gained like 60 pounds in 1 year and he's borderline obese now. I've tried taking him to the gym with me many times but he doesn't care about improving himself. I love him as a friend but over the past years he has become so boring. We have nothing in common anymore. At social gatherings it alw…
/r/askTRP25/03/21 04:23 PM
23

I'm struggling with the same thing. Meeting a new girl is always fun. We start flirting, making out, fucking but as soon as I finish I want her gone. Out of all the girls I've messed around with, there hasn't been a single one who kept me hooked. Right now I have like 5 girls who I can call up and will come over for sex, but it just feels so empty. Most of them are average looking though. The hotter ones last longer but it still ends up the same. I don't get how people can spin multiple plates a…
/r/askTRP25/03/21 03:59 PM
1

I get bored of girls extremely quick. That's why I prefer meeting new girls, fucking them and moving on to the next one. I'm also 24 years old and love it this way. Couldn't imagine fucking the same pussy for the rest of my life, let alone at this point in life.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 10:13 AM
29

The medium is the message. If she wanted to meet you, she would make time. This is just an excuse on her part, I would next her.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 10:09 AM
0

You can't win in this situation. You can either call her out on it, but then you're mate guarding and looking like the insecure boyfriend. Or you don't say anything about it and she will think it's okay to hang out with other guys 1 on 1. This is why so many guys on the red pill advise you to find a girl without male friends who only want to fuck her. If she's naïve enough to hang around guys 1 on 1 and expect it to be platonic, I have some bad news for you. If I were you, I'd start vetting girl…
/r/askTRP25/03/21 08:51 AM
3

I joined when I was 23. Had been thinking about joining the military for years. So, I signed up and got accepted. Months in, I realized it was not what I expected it to be like, so I quit. I don't regret joining though. If I wouldn't have done that, I would still be thinking about it to this day. I'm glad it's over though.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 07:10 PM
1

I always use the same routine and it works for me. Flirt Put your arm around her so she's close to you Make her laugh Stop talking and stare into her eyes while both of you are smiling Go in for the kiss That's it. Don't wait for the perfect moment, create it yourself. Since you've never kissed before, do NOT use too much tongue. After you've kissed her, tell her she's a good kisser. Also, yes, you can salvage it by kissing her on the second date. In the future, make sure to make a move on her a…
/r/askTRP23/03/21 05:56 PM
3

I was addicted to videogames until the age of 20. It almost ruined my life. I would come home and rush to my computer. I played up to 8-10 hours a day, not even kidding. I dropped out of college, played video games for 2 months straight during summer, was working a dead end job, barely saw my friends, stopped working out and was not getting out of my comfort zone. I was a lazy piece of shit, all because of my video game addiction. There was a moment where I was getting depressed. I felt like a l…
/r/askTRP23/03/21 11:56 AM
3

Love this. Shows that you have a sense of humor.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 06:32 PM
45

Hahaha, man, I had a date last week with a girl and we were watching a movie. I kept getting notifications and she asked me why I was not checking my phone. I said I never check my phone when I'm around people as a matter of respect. Then she kept getting messages and I could see that she wanted to rush to her phone. I noticed it and said "Its fine if u want to check your phone, I don't mind". It didn't even take her one second to get up and grab her phone. It's crazy how girls are obsessed with…
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:02 PM
8

For real, this reminds me of two of my best friends. One of them is always bragging about the 'hot' girls he's fucking. The other day I saw him walking with a fat 3/10 whale in the park. I instantly texted him 'What you doing?'. And he replied 'I'm on a date". The next time I saw him, I wanted to troll him a bit and asked if she was hot and if he fucked her. To which he ALWAYS replies "Yeah, man, I fucked her like 6 times and she was smoking hot". Funny, because I saw her and she was a whale. I …
/r/askTRP19/03/21 09:31 AM
8

To each their own. If she's always been a good plate, I would tell her the truth. This is what I would personally say. "Hey x, I'm gonna be honest with you. I started dating a girl so it's best if we don't meet anymore. It's always been fun with you though. Hope you understand" If she's cool, she'll understand and wish you the best. This way, if you ever decide to break up with your LTR, you can always text your old plate since you're cool with each other. I only would advice this approach since…
/r/askTRP19/03/21 08:36 AM
1

Simple. Get the girl her number and go have fun with your friends. You can invite her over for a drink another time.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 08:26 AM
17

From my experience, the girls I fuck from online dating apps are always below my usual standards. Mainly because I have shitty pictures, but don't care. In real life, that's where I meet hot women. The hottest women I've fucked were through cold approaching or my social circle.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 08:21 AM
15

Stop lying to yourself. You made a thread about it, it's obviously a big deal to you.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 05:07 PM
15

I laughed when you said that she claimed not to have had any ONS apart from that threesome. And it were her 'friends'. She definitely did more than that, open your eyes. Next time, vet better before you step into a relationship with a girl like this.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 05:03 PM
10

I got you. ​ Do you live on a chicken farm? 'Cause you sure know how to raise a cock. Are you a drill sergeant? Because you have my privates standing at attention. You're just like my little toe, because I'm going to bang you on every piece of furniture in my home. Do you mix concrete for a living? Because you're making me hard. If you're feeling down, I can feel you up. My dick just died. Would you mind if I buried it in your ass? Are your legs made of Nutella? Because I'd love to spread them! …
/r/askTRP18/03/21 04:58 PM
8

Please read your own post and realize how pathetic you sound. You're literally insecure because girls aren't liking your pictures. Just approach girls in real life and stop being insecure about stuff you can't control.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 09:24 AM
-1

Oh man, shut the fuck up.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 07:04 PM
4

I know how you feel. Exact same situation with one of my plates, sometimes she blows up over the most stupid stuff. This week she was telling me about one of her classes and that she met a lot of nice girls. I replied 'Cool. Where do I sign up?' She got pissed as hell and told me I'm childish. I like pushing her buttons and making jokes but sometimes it indeed feels like walking on eggs. Is it a red flag? Yes. It shows she has no sense of humor and can't control her emotions.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 07:01 PM
3

All of her male 'friends' want to fuck her. If she's too dumb to realize that, it's automatically a red flag.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 06:40 PM
1

I'm soon to be 24 and have never had a serious LTR, never been crazy in love either. It's not weird, I guess we're just picky when it comes to relationships. Most girls are trash nowadays and only worth plating.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 06:38 PM
1

Stop fapping/watching porn. You're likely suffering from death grip and your brain is fucked up from the porn. Quit it completely. I understand if you can't get it up because of the alcohol but if you can't with cobra in your body you should quit porn and fapping NOW.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 01:44 PM
2

Why are you talking with a girl you like about other dudes? The first one is just a basic shit test. Are you fucking her? I assume you are since you're sleeping together. The second one is kind of weird though. She's flirting with your friend. But if he's really your friend, why is he not telling you everything? Sorry to break it to you but she doesn't sound like dating material. At least vet her for 4-6 months before even considering her as dating material but I doubt she is if she's already hi…
/r/askTRP15/03/21 01:01 PM
1

I agree, travelling solo is underrated. I prefer going with friends but there's something so fun about going to a different country by yourself and doing whatever you want.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 10:06 AM
1

Definitely when I'm single. My happiest times were when I made city trips with my best friend, partying and going out with foreign girls, fucking them and not giving a single fuck. When I had a girlfriend I felt trapped. I'm only 23, no way I'm gonna spend my best years in a LTR.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 10:01 AM
1

read 'rich dad poor dad'
/r/askTRP13/03/21 11:53 AM
2

My personal fav's TRM (obvious) Models (for game/women) Rich dad Poor dad (for your personal finances) How to make friends and influence people (this is good for interacting with people in general. For work/friends/family) I've read No more mr nice guy and 48 laws of power too, but they didn't do much for me personally.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 10:53 AM
1

Wait until you're 30-35
/r/askTRP13/03/21 10:52 AM
1

Imagine caring what people think about you and your stupid social media page. In reality nobody gives a fuck about your dumb Snapchat/Instagram profile. Meanwhile you're one of those pathetic losers who's at a rave filming everything so everyone can see it in hope for some validation. Sounds like you don't have better things to spend your time on. I'm young too and just approach girls in real life while you're drooling over Stacy's new bikini picture. Keep coping you pathetic loser. It's not abo…
/r/askTRP13/03/21 10:48 AM
5

Redpill is not only about getting pussy
/r/askTRP12/03/21 06:56 PM
5

Depends on the plate. Usually it's just Netflix and fuck. Some plates are more fun to be around and wouldn't mind going out for a walk/drink with them. Pros: You get to do something you would do anyways. Grab a drink or go for a walk. Cons: They might get boyfriend vibes
/r/askTRP12/03/21 06:26 PM
0

Why would it be weird if a masculine male teacher spends time with kids? I think it's more weird if some beta teacher is supposed to be a role model to kids. And if you're a masculine teacher, no way females would try that, maybe if you're a simp who can't say no to a female then yes.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 12:37 PM
1

This. OP, don't you have more important things to spend your time on?
/r/askTRP12/03/21 08:58 AM
6

Sounds like plate material at best.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 04:40 PM
1

I've been in your position, still am, actually. Growing out of my social group as well. I think you're doing great. Been working on yourself a lot but you feel lonely, that's fine. What I have done and highly recommend is going out solo. You have to realize it's perfectly fine to go out by yourself. You get to do whatever you want, meet loads of new people and rely on your own happiness instead of trying hard to maintain friendships. I'm not saying you should drop your friends. Definitely not. E…
/r/askTRP11/03/21 03:16 PM
3

Who cares if she finds out, it's over in your eyes, if you have some dignity. Don't tell her anything. Keep fucking her but be less available. Start meeting other girls and once you've found new plates you can do what you want with this one. Either ghost her or keep fucking her, it's up to you.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 02:53 PM
5

Well, you recognized 4 names which were former guys she had sex with. She probably had sex with the other 10 too. Always listen to your gut.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 05:52 PM
6

So this girl has a list of 14 guys she has fucked and you're asking us what to do? Keep her as a plate, but that's it. What do you expect?
/r/askTRP10/03/21 05:43 PM
3

She sounds immature as hell. Why even bother wasting time on her?
/r/askTRP10/03/21 02:01 PM
1

Good, you're on for saturday. But it sounds like she'll flake so make sure you have other options lined up.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 01:57 PM
1

I'm in the exact same situation. Gonna delete Tinder soon and either go monk mode again until everything opens up.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 06:28 PM
1

There was one dude on this sub who got a handjob in a condom while the girl was complaining about Chad to him.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 06:19 PM
1

My text game is horrible. That's why I keep texting to a minimum, you should do the same.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 06:14 PM
4

I'm 23 right now and will finish by the age of 27 too. The thought of living at home for another 4 years is killing me. I'm either gonna rent my own place soon or live together with a friend.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 06:09 PM
2

12% is what you should aim for all year round. Everybody looks better with lower % BF
/r/askTRP09/03/21 11:06 AM
2

I know a dude who was in your situation. He said fuck it, quit his dead end job and travelled through Asia for at least one year. Mainly Thailand, Vietnam and Bali. He was 20 years old with around 30k saved up. Told me it was the best thing he had ever done.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 10:59 AM
1

If he really was your 'boy' you wouldn't ask this question.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 01:32 PM
1

Do you live in a small town by any chance? What I've noticed is that most of my friends who live in small towns ONLY fuck below average girls. Out of all my friends who live in this town, I think 90% are fucking girls below what they are capable of getting. I'm talking about ugly/chubby girls. Meanwhile my friends who live in the big cities are fucking hot girls like it's nothing. Every time I go out with them I'm meeting lots of hot girls. It's funny, because my best friend who lives in a small…
/r/askTRP08/03/21 01:17 PM
2

I read a lot off stuff about Phenibut, it's that good? As for your ED. I've experienced it too when I was your age. Mostly it was because of alcohol but sometimes while being sober I couldn't get it up with RANDOM girls. I struggled with ED too but back then I was watching a lot of porn and fapping which was the cause. But when I had a girlfriend I could get my dick hard all the time, it's all in your head. Solutions that worked for me: Lift/Eat healthy Quit porn/fapping Cut down on alcohol Get …
/r/askTRP08/03/21 12:45 PM
0

How about becoming a real estate agent?
/r/askTRP05/03/21 03:10 PM
2

Stop overthinking. Just go and have fun. Just do all the things YOU want to do. Flirt a little bit with her. The whole point is to have fun, not to entertain her. Good luck!
/r/askTRP05/03/21 03:02 PM
4

Don't do it, gather new girls.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 12:08 PM
2

Who cares, just message her and see if she's interested.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 12:06 PM
1

You made a big mistake.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 06:14 PM
1

Read 'rich dad, poor dad'. Book was eye opening for me.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 06:05 PM
1

Flirting with hot girls is way more fun than flirting average looking girls.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 05:08 PM
6

Just look at this video, it's a concert from ACDC where almost no one is on their phone (2009). Look at how everyone is having the time of their life, probably a concert they will never forget. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gEPmA3USJdI I personally dislike social media. The amount of times where I was at a social gathering and it was ruined by people who were glued to their phones is insane. When I'm with friends/family or at social gatherings in general, it's so frustrating to see everyone no…
/r/askTRP03/03/21 04:50 PM
1

Once had a plate throw a shoe with high heels to my face after I nutted on her fresh covers on purpose because she was being a bitch.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 09:11 AM
1

The medium is the message.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 02:55 PM
3

By being genuinely interested. On a first date I always like to get to know them a little bit at the start. I ask them about their passions, music they like, countries they have visited or want to visit, ... I only ask questions at the start of the date. After that I'll just pick up on what she tells me and lead the conversation from there. What I've said about genuinely being interested is real. Most guys only think about getting in her pants, I understand, I'm like that too. But if you're out …
/r/askTRP01/03/21 02:53 PM
12

Yes, before the lockdown I met most of my girls at bars. But now they've been closed for nearly 6 months here. So, that's why I tried out Tinder. It's time for you to take a break from Tinder/online dating. It's taking its toll on you. You might start thinking it's you, but it's not. Online dating apps are just catered towards women. That's why you can never win at these apps, unless you're a mega chad. Just stick to your mission, meet girls through different social circles. Maybe even through o…
/r/askTRP28/02/21 07:48 PM
54

I downloaded Tinder due to the lockdown and what you said is true. I live in a small town so Tinder is shit here anyways. But after a few weeks of swiping I looked at my matches and thought to myself 'Why the fuck am I wasting my time on this shit app?'. Most of my matches were girls I wouldn't even bother looking at in real life. Decided, enough is enough. So yesterday I went to a market where loads of HBB's were drinking and decided to cold approach a few. These women were easily 7-8/10's and …
/r/askTRP28/02/21 07:34 PM
2

Thanks for the recommendation. I recently bought the book ‘the intelligent investor’ but it’s quite difficult to understand if you’re new to this. Apparently ‘the richest man in babylon’ or something is really good too. I have another 40-50k on my bank account. But I’m a bit scared to invest all of that in an s&p 500 fund. Yes, meet like minded people. If you like mma and bjj, you’ll definitely meet nice people there Goodluck man!
/r/askTRP26/02/21 03:11 PM
3

It’s like we’re the same person. I’ve been learning about the stock market too after reading ‘rich dad poor dad’. I’ve been working for 3 years and had a lot of cash stacked up in my bank account. But after reading that book I realized I should invest it and let my money work for me. Right now I’ve invested in different kind of crypto currencies. I have a lot more to invest. Might invest it in a s&p 500 ETF for long term. Right now I’m studying real estate, really interesting as well. As for you…
/r/askTRP26/02/21 02:53 PM
21

I'm 23 and currently focusing on this. My studies Building a social circle Investing in my assets/passive income Lift/eat healthy
/r/askTRP26/02/21 01:12 PM
1

I was in Budapest, Krakow and Prague. It was unreal how many beautiful women were walking on the streets. Literally everywhere I went, I was surrounded by HBB 8's, not even exaggerating. Most of them were skinny, feminine, well dressed, had manners and were just friendly in general. Here in the West there are beautiful women too but most of the females are overweight, wear those big/baggy pants, can't handle their alcohol, don't know how to make a decent meal and have no personality.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 05:18 PM
1

Make memories together or have common hobbies/interests.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 03:39 PM
3

This. I live in a small town and it's so boring, you barely meet new people and there's nothing to do. Lately every weekend I've been going to the big city and it's crazy how much different it is there. People everywhere, you go to a market at 11am and there are loads of young people drinking/eating, hundreds of them. When the market closes at around 2pm, people head to the nearest park/squares and continue drinking/socializing there. I'm not kidding when I say there are thousands of young HBB's…
/r/askTRP25/02/21 08:29 AM
1

Personally I've fucked girls under my standards and NEVER enjoyed it. Sometimes couldn't even keep my dick up because they didn't turn me on in any way. I'd rather have no sex than sex with a girl who doesn't even turn me on.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 10:25 AM
2

You should read 'Models' by Mark Manson.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 10:34 AM
2

At least 50%. Mainly because I don't give a shit and invite them over to my place straight away. Don't care about girls online.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 07:06 PM
3

Stories. Girls react to your stories or you can start a conversation by reacting to theirs. It's way easier.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 06:54 PM
1

You should ALWAYS make your intentions clear from the start.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 09:19 AM
1

How the fuck do I move out while I'm in college fucking idiot
/r/askTRP17/02/21 07:59 PM
2

THIS. You wouldn't be making a thread about this girl if you had plenty of other options.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 06:12 PM
1

When this happens to me, I act interested and pretend to give them my number. But actually I give one of my single friends their number. Just for the laughs.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 07:25 AM
26

Making you wait for sex. She will tell Timothy that she's not ready and wants to feel more comfortable first. Meanwhile she'd be first in line to fuck Chad. Also, never judge a woman by her words, but her actions, the medium is the message.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 07:13 PM
2

That's the wrong mindset.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 04:58 PM
2

Ask yourself. Would you have made this post if you had 5 other plates lined up?
/r/askTRP14/02/21 01:10 PM
5

I think he hears voices in his head
/r/askTRP10/02/21 10:51 AM
0

Wish you were right, tbh.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 12:24 PM
5

I'm 23 and have never had a serious relationship either. Not a virgin, actually doing fine with girls, but when it comes to a LTR I'm extremely picky. Would rather be single and mess around than be tied down to someone just for the sake of not being alone.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 10:24 AM
5

This. The fact that you would have paid for her dinner wouldn't have changed a thing. Don't listen to these idiots who tell you that you should have paid for her food.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 06:59 PM
2

Yes, you've made a lot of mistakes but who cares, hopefully you learned something from this experience. The first date should always be something cheap/light, that's why everyone goes for drinks or a walk the first time. This way you won't waste too much time/money. Also, don't listen to these idiots who are telling you that you should have paid for her food. She's a grown ass woman, who's perfectly capable of paying for her own food. The fact that she got pissed says enough about her. I've gone…
/r/askTRP08/02/21 06:55 PM
10

Ayee another Belgian redpiller
/r/askTRP07/02/21 07:09 PM
1

This is one of the reasons why I've deleted all of my social media.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 09:30 PM
1

Hmmm, right now I'm doing monk mode so might save Sex God method for later then. I ordered The Rational Male and Models so I'll start with those I guess. I also want to read about game. I've heard mixed opinions about Roosh V. Some say it's a must read and other says it's just a cash grab so I dunno.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 07:16 PM
1

Downloaded it because of the lockdown. The feature where you swipe right on a 'popular' user is straight garbage. I'm talking about the message you get 'This is a popular user, use a super like to stand out'. This gives girls an even bigger ego when they get flooded with super likes. Other than that it's still shit. If you live in a small town like me, don't even bother using it.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 04:42 PM
1

I always say 'Not really looking for anything. With the right girl anything's possible'. Always works.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 01:25 PM
2

I'd tell her you're busy Saturday and propose another day when you're free. She flaked on your once, shit happens. But now you put her on the backburner. She fucked up so she is the one who has to make an effort. If she can't do that, next her.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 11:21 AM
3

Just imagine how she's at the club without you around
/r/askTRP31/01/21 01:47 PM
1

Yes Netherlands is pretty cool, especially Amsterdam. But so expensive to live there.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 11:08 AM
1

Whatever you do, don't come to Belgium. It's like the UK here.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 12:23 PM
9

Game anyone, not only 5's and 6's. From my experience the 7-9's are way more open for flirting IRL, it's like the average/ugly ones have a bitch shield up.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 12:21 PM
2

Women are just weird. Had an 8/10 act like a bitch online and I nexted her. Then I saw her at a party and she was all over me. Can't be arsed to put in much effort online.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 06:08 PM
2

Yes, noticed
/r/askTRP28/01/21 03:43 PM
4

It sounds like you're the girl in this relationship
/r/askTRP28/01/21 01:16 PM
4

Thanks. I never noticed she was crazy. She was always this shy girl. Guess it's true what they say about shy girls..
/r/askTRP28/01/21 01:00 PM
6

Fuck man... Now I can't escape to Panama with the lockdown everywhere..
/r/askTRP28/01/21 12:13 PM
2

Yes, the puppy eyes are okay. They're probably just thinking about something 'cute'. But this girl was literally staring at me with no emotion, several times.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 12:11 PM
1

And I creampied her. babynames.com
/r/askTRP28/01/21 12:10 PM
1

This happened to me last night. Girl came over at around 10pm and around 11pm we're not allowed to go outside because of this stupid lockdown shit. So we fuck and I want to sleep but she wont stop annoying me. I said I can't sleep while cuddling and she said okay. Then in the morning I fucked her again around 9am and expected her to leave after this. But this bitch was too clingy and got back in my bed. I literally had to kick her out and make up an excuse. OP, be careful when you invite a girl …
/r/askTRP27/01/21 10:43 AM
1

Renting is shit man.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 04:23 PM
2

It seems like your profile only gets shown after you pay for the app, sadly. I remember going to Poland and I bought Tinder pro for like 5 euros so I could put my location in Poland 1-2 weeks before I went there. I kid you not, I was getting hundreds of matches, not only in Poland but in my country too. Even my friend, who's not good looking at all, bought Tinder platinum and he literally got 80 matches, if not more, in one day.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 05:44 PM
4

I have the same shit. Always make plans with girls and as soon as the moment comes I feel like cancelling on them for some reason. I literally have to talk myself into not cancelling it. Then, when she shows up, it's pretty fun, we fuck, but as soon as I cum I want her gone ASAP. I guess it means the girl is just not hot enough or boring.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 05:42 PM
5

I had this at my previous dead end job. There was this woman, 55 years old, lazy as hell, mad everyone's life a living hell but she kissed the boss' asses. Everyone knew and hated her. But the boss was too beta to tell her to fuck off. So glad I quit that workplace, it's such a toxic environment.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 05:35 PM
1

I've had 6 dates in one year. Doesn't sound bad, but sometimes I've had 3 months dry streaks which was unbearable.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 09:41 AM
1

I live in a town with 20k people, can't wait to get out of this shit hole in 2 years.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 06:56 PM
3

Can confirm. I live in a small town with 20k people, can't wait to get out.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 05:10 PM
1

I have this too. Just means the girl is boring or not hot enough for you to stick around.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 05:08 PM
1

Quit my dead end job and now I'm in university passing all of my exams Picked up a new hobby Made a solo trip back in November. Crazy how much it makes you grow. Cut down on alcohol Deactivated all social media The gyms have been closed here since September though... And I need to work on cold approaching since it's the only way to get girls without social media. But literally everything's closed here..
/r/askTRP24/01/21 05:06 PM
2

I like the weekend girlfriend line. It's all about having fun and not giving a shit.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 04:57 PM
18

I know how you feel. I live in a small town too, been in monk mode for months. Gyms are closed here. But if they were open I'd be there everyday for at least 2 hours and work on my body. Do that and slay pussy once everything opens up again.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 07:24 PM
11

Definitely cut. I guess you're around 25% bodyfat and pretty fat now...
/r/askTRP23/01/21 06:32 PM
1

What you said about temporary boyfriends is so true. This is the reason why most of my plates broke too, they suddenly got boyfriends out of nowhere. Wonder how it's gonna be like when everything opens up again. I think it's gonna be wild
/r/askTRP22/01/21 06:50 PM
1

You are a loser and so is your friend. Fucking each others' exes means a lack of abundance. There's thousands of girls out there, imagine choosing the ex of your best friend that's just asking for trouble. I'd never fuck one of my friends their exes. And if they went after my exes, so be it, but I'd cut them off. No need for people like that in my life.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 06:42 PM
1

I literally never had a first date where the girl didn't propose to split the bill. Can't imagine sitting there with a girl and her not even reaching out to her wallet. Like, I don't care paying for the bill if it's cheap, but for me, personally, it's a sign of respect if she at least reaches grabs her wallet.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 01:43 PM
4

Okay, drinks on you tonight to celebrate, my place, 8pm Your two answers are good too though
/r/askTRP22/01/21 01:30 PM
2

I have a friend who's 33 and he's pulling more girls than me. He said 27-33 have been his best years and he's always been redpilled and in shape.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 01:26 PM
1

Did you even fuck/hooked up with her? Let alone seen her in real life? From what I've read it looks like you're giving all your attention with nothing in return.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 10:29 AM
2

It's a numbers game. Girls have hundreds of thirsty guys messaging them every day. They don't even have to put in effort. Many girls don't have a personality for this reason. Don't try to be a clown and entertain her. If she's interested, it will be obvious, if she isn't, who cares? Move on to a girl who shows interest. It's because some girls are hotter and you're willing to spend more time on them. Imagine an ugly girl giving you dry replies, you'd next her in no time.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 10:25 AM
32

Tell her to suck your dick while you grab the condom.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 10:23 AM
0

Maybe give an example? What do you consider acting shitty? Saying something offensive or...? Because it depends on the context. From my personal experience apologizing is never in your favor. Either you did something so fucked up like cheating on her but at this point it's too late to apologize. What is there to apologize for? It's over, just walk away. If you argue with her about something stupid, that's your first mistake. Never argue with a woman, just walk away and don't give her attention. …
/r/askTRP21/01/21 10:19 AM
2

My current hobbies are Padel and fitness. The gyms are closed right now though so I only play Padel at the moment. You need 4 people to play it though, but it's fun and I've met so many people this way already. It's also easy to game women through it, a lot of women play it. You can play with a mate against 2 girls, but it's not the reason why I play it, though. If I lived in a country with more interesting nature I'd pick up Kayaking , snowboarding/skiing and hiking.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 10:06 AM
2

I'd have fucked the shit out of her one last time. Then when she went home I'd consider her a plate and just use her for sex. Find other plates and just add your ex to the bunch.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 06:00 PM
1

Thanks, man. Gyms have been closed here since September and will most likely stay closed for another few months.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 08:44 AM
1

How long does it last? 19 days on NoFap and I'm not feeling horny
/r/askTRP19/01/21 05:33 PM
2

Don't need to cut, just eat clean/healthy and only drink water/tea. Track your macro's, that's the most important thing. You're 3 months in, you can't expect things to go too fast. It'll take time and dedication, but you're on the right path. If I was you, I'd eat CLEAN at maintenance (2000kcal) and keep working out.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 01:01 PM
2

I'm 23 and all of my plates are in the range of 18-25. Occasionally I fuck women in the 26-40 range though. Don't really care about age.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 12:54 PM
3

Used to give them one more chance. But now, if a chick flakes, it's an instant next.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 10:38 AM
1

Damn, a couple of months.. I never have morning wood either and I'm 23... On 18 days of NoFap/NoPorn now, gonna try it until I get morning wood frequently, otherwise I'm not convinced. Thanks for the info.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 10:36 AM
1

Zodiac shit The way she reacts to situations she can't control Being bad with money Not being able to keep things to herself Dog moms ​ Like, I love dogs too, but I don't want to talk about your dog every day.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 10:25 AM
1

How long did it take you to get back to normal? I am suffering from ED. Literally had death grip syndrome or however u call it. When I had sex I used Kamagra. But I literally fucked for 30-40 minutes sometimes and I just couldn't cum.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 03:14 PM
1

Yeah this pandemic is ass. Gyms have been closed here since September. Personally I'm not working out at the moment. But once the gyms open, I know where I'm gonna be at. Goodluck man.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 01:17 PM
2

Start going out by yourself. Meet new people. I used to have a main group of friends but everyone gets busy. That's why you need different groups of friends.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 04:05 PM
1

I agree, big arms and broad shoulders definitely are important. But having abs means you have a lower % bodyfat. You'll have a leaner face. In my opinion, everyone looks better around 10-12% bodyfat. I'd choose the physique of Christian Bale in American Psycho over Vin Diesel's physique any day.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 03:54 PM
2

Yes, it helps you loads. Get shredded and go see it for yourself. Back when I was 17-18 years old I was ripped as hell. I was around 180 lbs, 10% body fat. When I went out, girls were literally throwing themselves at me. It's literally life on easy mode women-wise. Now I'm 23 years old, around 165 lbs and 15% body fat. I can still pull girls, but it's harder compared to when I was shredded. Trust me, it helps a lot.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 03:51 PM
1

Because they are paranoid because of the news.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 03:43 PM
1

Nice 'best friend'
/r/askTRP16/01/21 03:40 PM
3

Did I read that right? Watching Netflix together through an app??
/r/askTRP16/01/21 03:37 PM
3

Have some self respect and block her.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 03:36 PM
2

Yes, definitely, means she has no self control. I like having a glass of wine with a girl or drinking cocktails together, but drinking a lot on a regular base is just a huge turn off.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 01:47 PM
1

Apply dread.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 09:54 PM
1

I'm 23 and I've never been in love, I don't know how it feels, which sucks sometimes.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 03:16 PM
4

I have the same thing. Not sure if you can do anything about it. Sometimes I have these days where I barely talk to anyone. Other times I'm the life of the party. NoFap and taking a multivitamin are the bare minimum. Also try to talk to people when you go outside. Someone who works at the store, an old man sitting by himself. I feel like, once you talk to some people the barrier is broken and you feel better/more outgoing. As for NoFap, I always feel lazy after I fap, up to 2 days after I do it,…
/r/askTRP15/01/21 03:14 PM
2

What the hell are virtual dates?
/r/askTRP15/01/21 10:52 AM
7

Fucking weirdo.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 07:14 PM
2

Asktrp used to be golden, there were quality posts everyday. Now it's filled with people who ask the most retarded questions. The advice here too, sometimes it's so dumb and it gets a lot of upvotes. Where are all these people coming from all of a sudden?
/r/askTRP14/01/21 07:11 PM
1

hahahahahhahahahahahahahhahahahahah
/r/askTRP14/01/21 04:31 PM
10

I have this too but don't give a fuck. Nothing more funny than some girl getting frustrated because she has told you the same thing 3 times and you still won't remember it. Don't take it too seriously. They probably know what's up, but who cares? Abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 04:27 PM
39

Don't give a shit. If she goes, consider your relationship over.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 04:09 PM
2

Who cares, move on to another girl who makes time to meet you
/r/askTRP14/01/21 10:00 AM
-3

Cope
/r/askTRP14/01/21 09:56 AM
1

Always strive to become the best version of yourself.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 06:45 PM
1

Yeah, I remember being on NoFap and I literally finished in 20 seconds, not even funny. Normally it takes way longer, sometimes too long. Just fap when you really can't take it anymore, but do it with lube. Not watching porn is the biggest deal so cut that out, you'll ED will get fixed, but it'll take some time, goodluck.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 02:31 PM
1

If all you care about is slaying then getting ripped will bring u far. I did one steroid cycle back when I was 17 and I was pretty shredded. Getting girls was way easier. I remember being at clubs and girls were literally throwing themselves at me, even the hot ones. Had some good times back then. I know one dude from the gym and he used to be a skinny nerd with a bad haircut. Then he started doing steroids, got a new haircut and he's literally slaying girls left and right now. I'm not telling y…
/r/askTRP13/01/21 02:18 PM
2

No social media account > Shit profile You're better off having no social media, your profile is shit. Just don't waste your time on it.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 02:07 PM
0

Tell me about it. I live in a small town and don't have social media. I'm not allowed to go to university because it's a red zone so whole the day I have to study in my room. Only thing I'm doing now is studying and playing sports. Girls-wise it's terrible. I fuck maybe one girl every 2 months now which fucking sucks.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 02:02 PM
3

I've tried it in the past because I was experiencing ED as well. Fapping is one thing but porn and dead grip is another. Porn had fucked up my brain so much, I could only get hard to porn. When I was with a girl I sometimes couldn't get it up, which absolutely sucked, I started too, 1 January and so far I'm not seeing any chances, in the past I've made it to 80 days without fapping. I think my brain needs to reset from the porn. It'll take some time though. And about the NoFap sub, it's a joke. …
/r/askTRP13/01/21 01:51 PM
1

London seems like a really cool city. But I heard it's expensive as hell. I feel like career wise it's a way better move as well. More job opportunities
/r/askTRP11/01/21 08:43 PM
1

I know how you feel, I live in a small town too (20k people) and it's fucking shit. Like you said, everyone knows each other and you barely meet new people. Once I'm done studying, I'll move out of this shit town. The big city is where it's at. I don't understand people who want to live in a small town whole their life. In the city, everything's close, HBB's everywhere, always something to do, ... Move out of the small town if you can. Dating wise small towns are the worst.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 08:02 PM
1

I guess she's your only plate
/r/askTRP11/01/21 05:04 PM
17

Don't do it. Just delete all of your social media so she can't bother you with this shit. Win-win situation.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 05:02 PM
2

You find a girl who doesn't waste your time.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 09:52 AM
1

Yes, it's a HUGE red flag. Had this girl, I was spooning her and suddenly I noticed that she had cuts on her forearm. I didn't even say anything about it. She noticed that I saw it and started crying and telling me how she cut herself in the past because of trauma's. Noped the fuck out of there. Then had a plate in the past. I was watching a movie with her, she was maybe my plate for 1 month. She got a message on her phone and got all quiet. Things were starting to become awkward and suddenly sh…
/r/askTRP11/01/21 09:47 AM
4

It will get better. But stop being autistic and get a grip. You need to start working hard. If you want to change your life, it's you who has to put in the work, no on else is gonna do it for you. Everyday you should work hard, to become the best version of yourself. Get a healthy lifestyle (Clean diet/workout) Cut out alcohol/drugs/cigarettes. Stop watching porn/fapping Get hobbies Find goals in life Find something you're passionate about and work hard every day. I know how you feel, around you…
/r/askTRP09/01/21 04:13 PM
15

This reminds me of one of my plates. I can do anything I want with her. Grab her ass, tits, pussy but she just lays there like a dead fish. She never initiates but when I tell her to suck my dick or get on top off me she does everything I want. At first I thought she wasn't interested. I think girls like this are just extremely boring or shy to make a move. As for you, did you fuck her yet? If she's a hoe and wants to be celibate, just make a move. I think she's just boring like my plate. Make a…
/r/askTRP09/01/21 04:04 PM
1

I'm 23 and don't have social media. Women don't care.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 03:43 PM
1

Yeah, I remember having an argument with one of my blue pilled friends. One week later there was a BBQ, he shook everyone's hand but mine because he was still salty. Talking about passive-aggressiveness..
/r/askTRP08/01/21 04:45 PM
6

Cheating is one thing, her finding out is another thing. Even if she takes you back or ignores this, it will forever put a stain on your relationship. She will forever be insecure and the shit tests will get out of hand. Do yourself a favor and don't bother fixing this.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 02:23 PM
1

I have both blue and red pilled friends. What I've noticed is that the blue pilled friends are the most toxic ones. I hang out way more with my red pilled friends because we have so much more in common. With my blue pilled friends I have nothing in common anymore, except past memories. I made a few city trips with my best friend who's red pilled. Each time we had a blast. Mainly we did things together but sometimes we did our own thing. This is something I could never do with my blue pilled frie…
/r/askTRP08/01/21 12:41 PM
8

I understand what you want to say and I believe that it has worked for you. But at the same time the girl could misunderstand it and think you're jealous or insecure.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 05:04 PM
10

Yeah... don't say this.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 04:51 PM
1

To each their own, I won't judge people who play videogames, I've done it when I was 14-20 years old. But for me personally, it's a huge waste of time. Now that I've quit videogames I get so much more done. Get to spend more time on my studies, hobbies, friends, girls, cooking healthy meals, ...
/r/askTRP04/01/21 05:09 PM
3

Makes you realize how many trashy women are out there. Literally only saw these type of women on dating apps. Attention whores fishing for Instagram followers Fat whales Shemales Stuck up 6/10's who I wouldn't even look at irl. Those fucking weird girls with blurry pictures who color their hair and do something with art
/r/askTRP04/01/21 04:57 PM
3

I have experienced it a little bit different than you. I started going out solo sometimes. My friends were never eager to try out something new. They just wanted to do the same thing every weekend. I thought it would suck hard, but there's something about being by yourself that is so peaceful. You can do whatever you want, whenever you want. I also deleted ALL of my social media. Literally everything except Whatsapp. I thought I would miss out on so many things. I'm not missing out on anything. …
/r/askTRP03/01/21 01:52 PM
4

And because they don't want to see someone else do better than them.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 12:32 PM
4

Reminds me of one of those girls I met at a party. I was like 17 and we set up a date to watch a movie at her place. I thought she was home alone so I rang the doorbell and she opened the door. I went inside and her dad was watching football. He was like one of those typical bald hooligans who only drink beer. His t-shirt was too small so I could see his fat belly come under his t-shirt. The girl actually left me alone for 5 minutes with her dad because one of her friends called her. So I introd…
/r/askTRP03/01/21 12:24 PM
1

Depends on your friends. When I'm out with my best friend, we each do our own thing and get girls left and right. When I'm out with my blue pilled friends they always make it awkward.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 04:46 PM
1

Same. A lot of people on this sub are cool with fucking each others' left overs. They act like they don't care and that it's just pussy. But in reality they're so desperate for pussy that they can't even get anything else than their buddies' left overs.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 04:43 PM
22

I don't have social media and meeting girls is nearly impossible now due to COVID. Needless to say I'm experiencing really long dry streaks, but don't care for now. I have exams in January so I use this time to focus on my hobbies/studying. It'll be over in a few months.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 04:36 PM
1

It's your choice, you don't owe him anything.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 12:52 PM
1

Yes, I wonder what will happen once I move out. Do you and your brother live in the same house? If no, do you see each other often? I'm asking because me and my brother have a good bond, but I think, once we both move out of my parents' house, he will lock himself in his house.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 10:28 AM
6

Are you kidding me? Society and expectations are brutal to women? You sound like a fucking feminist. There's a reason why there are almost 4 times as many male suicides than female suicides. For example, imagine a woman who is smart, funny, and successful. Would you want to date her? Well, obviously you can’t answer that until you know how old she is and what she looks like. Please tell me how this is brutal? All women have to do is not be fat and take care of themselves, how the fuck is this br…
/r/askTRP31/12/20 10:13 AM
3

The pussy is never yours, it's just your turn.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 09:52 AM
1

Go out solo Don't stick to one group of friends. I have like 4 different groups of friends. Guys I know from hobbies, guys I know from school, guys I grew up with, close friends who I've met over the years through other friends. Number 2 is really important. Through your social circle you meet the most new people.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 09:40 AM
1

Reminds me of my brother who's 2 years older than me, he's 25 years old. All he does is play videogames, watch anime and locks himself in his room, I only see him downstairs when he's eating. He barely goes outside, to this day he hasn't even kissed a girl, he's still a virgin and doesn't even have a driving license. He doesn't even do groceries because he doesn't have a car. He found himself a job though, one year ago and since then he has been slowly becoming more confident. He still sits in h…
/r/askTRP31/12/20 09:22 AM
8

Reminds me of this time when I was chatting with a girl on Tinder, set up a date and I said I'll pick her up. When she was walking towards the door of my car she legit was 20kg heavier than on her pictures. So as she started walking to my car I locked my doors. She was standing in front of my door asking me to open it, I looked at her for like 3seconds and was like "Nah fuck this" and drove off. She tried running to my door and looked like she was walking in slow motion. Fucking whales man.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 10:13 AM
0

Always fap once a week, on Sunday without porn crew.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 11:09 AM
3

I hate both UK and the US. But if I had to choose, I'd pick US because you have to pay less taxes.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 11:08 AM
1

I'm going crazy too. All my classes are online, haven't even seen one person from my classes. Gyms have been closed here for the past 4 months. All I can do is study and go for a run. I haven't fucked a girl in over 2 months. This shit is lame as hell, I feel like a prisoner stuck in my room 24/7, it's depressing as fuck.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 02:34 PM
76

"Ughh I'm so busy lately" Stop lying, the only thing you do is scroll on your phone all day long. I don't care about getting rejected, it happens, but this always makes me cringe.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 06:02 PM
1

Honestly everything's closed here but I'd say Parks are a good place.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 05:21 PM
1

Everything's closed here, absolutely everything, bars, shops, gyms, ... I'm studying all day long. Other than that I play sports, go for a run or hang out with friends. I have zero plates right now (I don't have social media) and on my longest dry streak ever which sucks. I barely drink anymore either. So I'm working towards my goals and improving my cardio, other than that it's pretty lame.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 05:07 PM
1

I remember this girl who brought a stand up camera to the gym and was filming her workouts. Other than that, barely saw the same girls at gym chains. Would see other girls every time. I switched to a smaller gym and everyone knows each other here, almost no girls though, which kinda sucks, but I'm here to workout anyways. I miss the gym..
/r/askTRP16/12/20 03:16 PM
20

That you can only count on yourself.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 09:53 AM
2

You really didn't know, before discovering the TRP that men with a higher SMV get treated better and that EVEN ugly girls have tons of orbiters?? I'm glad you know, though, just makes me wonder, do most people not realize this?
/r/askTRP16/12/20 09:52 AM
4

Reminds me of my blue pilled best friend who met a girl and LTR'ed her after seeing her 2 times. He introduced her to us and I was talking to her while he was doing something else. I let her do the talking. First she was talking about her studies and normal stuff, but the conversation took a weird turn when she told me she had been enjoying the student life before she met my friend. I asked her what she meant and she said "Well... you know what happens at student parties.." and laughed it off. I…
/r/askTRP16/12/20 09:48 AM
1

My plate does this too..
/r/askTRP16/12/20 09:28 AM
2

I had this plate and she would tell me EVERYTHING about her orbiters. I told her I didn't care, yet she kept telling me everything to make me jealous I guess. She worked at a restaurant and always told me guys were hitting on her and were buying her drinks, etc.. Even had a 'friend' who she didn't see in a long time and he tried cuddling her during a movie and she said it was weird and she told him to go home. This is kind of a turn off, she's shit testing, hold frame and don't give a shit.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 04:38 PM
1

I used to drink a lot during the weekends when I was a teenager and it fucked up so much honestly. Now, I still drink, but only on special occasions and not too much. Once I get tipsy, I start drinking water. This has been working great for me. I won't completely quit alcohol, it's all about moderation. I like it when I'm out with a girl and drink cocktails or when I'm playing poker with friends and have a cuba libre next to me, but it's all about balance.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 04:33 PM
1

Too long, didn't read. Get a grip and stop making excuses.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 06:33 PM
1

I'm tired of black people pulling the race card. I know plenty of white guys who don't get any matches on Tinder either. Stop being a fucking loser, stop making excuses and work on yourself, nobody cares if you're white/black. Just aim to become the best version of yourself.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 04:14 PM
2

She'll brand your reputation more when she tells everyone what an orbiter you are.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 04:11 PM
1

Same, I live in a small city with nothing to do, still live at home, everything closed with the lockdown. This period just sucks, but don't expect anything out of a long distance plate.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 04:10 PM
2

For me it's exactly the opposite. Back in the day I was a needy bitch who cared about everyone's opinion. Now I'm working towards my goals and future and that's the only thing that counts. If someone disrespects me? Who cares. My goals are the only thing that matter now. Anything that's outside my control, I don't care about.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 04:05 PM
1

Right now it's not the time for it, but for me personally, going out alone has improved my life so much.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 03:57 PM
3

Let me tell you something. Two months ago I met a girl when I was on a trip in Poland, spent one week with her together. She has been texting me for two months straight. So far she has 0 red flags, absolutely 0, I've never seen this before. The only thing that bothers me is that she lives 900km away from me. There's no such thing as a long distance plate, even when this girl, for me personally, is the closest I'll ever get to an unicorn. There is no way I can see this working out. How the hell c…
/r/askTRP10/12/20 03:53 PM
2

It's not worth it. We're putting these girls on a pedestal because they're 'hot' and they can feel it. Imagine if some ugly chick did this, we'd have no problem nexting them. Abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 02:01 PM
1

I live at home, still a student, but what I like the most about my room is my Sonos speaker and cocktail set. I use the Sonos speaker all the time to play music, bonus points when a girl is over and I can put some good music on. My cocktail set, I love making cocktails during the evening in the weekend, it's also really cool when friends or girls come over, they always ask me to make something. I always leave condoms and Durex massage oil next to my bed, don't care if a girl sees that it's half …
/r/askTRP03/12/20 01:59 PM
1

I have the same with a girl, she's pretty hot, keeps asking me to meet up, when I propose something, she always has to work and doesn't offer another date. She's just fishing for attention, deleted her number.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 01:50 PM
1

Okay, I was wrong, actually true lol.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 05:13 PM
1

Making sarcastic comments to see how she reacts. If she's smart enough to understand it and jokes along, that shows me she is smart and has a sense of humor. When I'm at a bar with a girl, I always put my phone on the table facing upwards. This to show her that I'm not gonna use my phone while taking to her and that I have nothing to hide. Usually girls will guard their phone because they have something to hide. Girls who have something to hide, always put their phone face down. When the bill co…
/r/askTRP02/12/20 04:17 PM
1

How the fuck is this a cutting diet? You literally eat carbs 3 times a day.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 04:03 PM
1

There's no 'exact moment'. Make your own moment, look in her eyes, don't say anything, smile and go in for the kiss, this literally always works for me.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 04:01 PM
1

I dated one of those, back when I was 20 years old, she was 18. If I didn't reply for 1 hour she would ask me why I was mad. She was really insecure and social media was everything for her. Had like 3k followers and is now an 'influencer'. Best decision ever, breaking up with her, saved me so many head-aches.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 03:57 PM
1

Could be a million reasons. Who cares?
/r/askTRP02/12/20 03:54 PM
1

I've had girls ask for me Instagram too and when I said I didn't have it, they thought I was a catfish. There's no point in worrying about it. They just want followers. If a girl is really interested, she won't make it hard.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 12:15 PM
1

I can't believe what you just wrote, no wonder he cucked you 3 times. Get some fucking self respect and stop coping. Jeez, you're pathetic.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 12:12 PM
1

I would HARD next her.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 06:46 PM
2

yes, give them coke
/r/askTRP30/11/20 06:43 PM
10

If it's not a hell yes, it's a no from me.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 06:41 PM
6

Women don't care about the amount of follows you have. They only care about their own followers count.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 06:40 PM
2

Where did you meet most of your friends?
/r/askTRP27/11/20 03:22 PM
1

I only have 2 friends who are naturally redpilled.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 01:20 PM
23

If you had options, you wouldn't ask this question. Either fuck her and meet other girls or straight up ditch her.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 01:19 PM
2

Girls I meet through dating apps : Around 60% flakes. Girls I meet in real life: Like only 10% flake.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 05:25 PM
2

Can confirm, went through basic training and it was lame as hell. Obviously it's gonna suck but it felt like a summer camp.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 04:45 PM
1

She ended up contacting me 5 days later. Asking how I'm during the lockdown but just ignored her. She's on WhatsApp all the time, so I don't get why it took her 5 days to answer. Just nexted her.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 05:41 PM
1

Honestly, I've been there. Like you, I was getting matches, numbers easily and then they would flake and ghost me. I was wondering what I was doing wrong, they seemed interested at first. Everyone was telling me to say something funny, get their number within 3 messages and invite them out for a date as soon as possible. But this approach had a low success rate. The girl doesn't know you at all and girls are autistic so they will feel uncomfortable and flake. To most girls, you're just a strange…
/r/askTRP12/11/20 12:35 PM
17

I'm 23 and I've been without social media for 1.5 years now. The only thing I have is messenger to chat with my group of friends. Trust me, life without social media is WAY better. Now it's just a shitty time with COVID around. I am at my longest dry streak ever, but no way I'm gonna download Instagram. When the lockdown is over, it's time to shine. When everything opens, it's gonna get wild.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 04:43 PM
3

I've dated a girl who was easily an 8. But she was so fucking annoying so I had to break up with her, at first it's fun to mess around, but the juice is never worth the squeeze. Now I'm hanging out with a girl who's a 7. She's less pretty than previous girls I've dated but has a way better personality, wants to workout with me, has an n-count of 2 (including me), goes to church on Sunday. I'm way more attracted to this girl than I could have ever been to my good looking ex. I'm only 23 but this …
/r/askTRP10/11/20 09:23 AM
1

Hmm, I've never had problems setting up a rotation. It's just that I live at home and in a small town where everyone knows each other. When I go to the big cities it's better to meet girls, but logistics are always a problem because I don't have my own place and girls are not eager to drive 30 minutes away from the city when they're partying there. That's why I never tried to set up a rotation. Most girls my age still live at home so couldn't invite me over and they weren't really eager to drive…
/r/askTRP05/11/20 08:59 PM
4

Haha hey man. Honestly, shit's going alright even though the lockdown is making me crazy, how about you? Hooker wise, I'm still addicted to be honest. The past months I've been making city trips to Prague, Budapest and Krakow and have been fucking prostitutes there, but it still fucked with my consciousness and made me feel like a loser. It was in Krakow where I travelled solo for the first time ever and had to step out of my comfort zone and approach people. It's honestly the best thing I've ev…
/r/askTRP05/11/20 10:12 AM
5

Don't do it, I've been down that road for 3 years. Was gaming/plating prostitutes and they're ALL crazy. Don't do it, man.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 08:23 PM
1

What hormones
/r/askTRP03/11/20 04:03 PM
22

You're just looking for a reason to talk to your ex again, don't do it.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 04:02 PM
2

Definitely, you have more time for other stuff. Imagine the general dude at the gym. Claiming he trains for 2 hours, while he maybe trains for 1 hour and is on his phone for another hour. I use that other hour to cook myself a nice meal and shower after the gym for example. Before corona having no social media was no problem at all. I was getting girls through night game and my social circle. But now, with COVID around, I have never felt more disconnected with reality. The only thing I miss abou…
/r/askTRP03/11/20 09:09 AM
3

Probably around 1 year or more.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 10:29 PM
4

I deleted all my social media, but my country is in the heaviest lockdown ever. Bars, restaurants, clubs, anything social is closed, so the only app I have at the moment is Tinder.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 10:06 PM
1

In my eyes you didn't do anything wrong. Maybe you lost frame when you blew up but deep down you know you made the right call. Don't let a girl disrespect you like that, good job.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 04:49 PM
7

If you have to believe everyone on this sub, everyone is banging 10's.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 02:55 PM
1

The worst are those stuck up whales on Tinder who dare to write 'I dont message first'
/r/askTRP01/11/20 01:24 PM
1

Just ask her what she's up to, how her day is going etc. Just some dumb bullshit so you're more than a stranger she met 1 minute ago. She'll start to feel more comfortable and the flake rate is lower that way, from my experience.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 09:22 AM
1

I've come to the point where getting matches and numbers is not a problem, but them not flaking is a problem. I'm just so bored by acting interested in girls, always starting a conversation and putting in effort. It's so much effort just for some average pussy. You need to build rapport, but I suck at it, I'm usually too bored by the girl. Now I've been trying out new stuff. I just text girls in between my call of duty games to talk a little bit and build rapport, it's pretty cringe but it works…
/r/askTRP31/10/20 01:03 PM
7

This happened to me too. Girl came to me at a bar, basically giving me hard iOi's. So I get her number but I had to go, she keeps texting me, wants to hang out, etc.. She told me to call her sometime to set up a date. So we're texting and it's going great, I call her because I wanted to set up a date for this weekend and she declined the call. I was like, whatever, she'll be back, but it has been 2-3 days radio silence now. I don't care, but girls are so fucking autistic. Glad I'm not the only o…
/r/askTRP30/10/20 08:41 AM
1

I'm not from America, but for me, personally, no matter how hot a girl is, if she talks/types like that, it's a major turn off for me. But I get where you and OP are coming from.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 02:50 PM
2

I see where you're coming from, but I feel like you're wasting your time on some stupid thot and can do better. But if you want to get your dick wet, go for it.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 02:49 PM
1

Social media is a waste of time. The only thing I use now is Tinder due to COVID being around but it's shit too. Girls keep asking for my Instagram and are always surprised if I don't have it and think I'm a catfish. It's pretty sad that some girls think you're a catfish if you don't have Instagram as a 23 year old.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 10:44 AM
3

Sorry man but this is so fucking cringe, you and her both talk like autists.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 10:41 AM
1

Honestly I'm thinking the same thing. I live in a small town and bringing chicks here from the city is hell. 23 now and by the time I'll finish my studies I'll be 25-26. It's driving me crazy sometimes. Right now i'm just inviting them to my parents place but it's way harder this way.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 09:47 PM
3

Lockdown is the easiest excuse ever to invite a girl over to your place.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 09:41 PM
2

Man I feel so much like you in your 20's right now. Dropped out of college, have been working shit jobs since I was 20. I'm 23 now, quit those shit jobs and gonna follow my dream to have my own real estate company. For the following years it'll be shit, until I get my degree, but after that I'll work towards my goals. Would rather have two years where I make less money than spending my whole life doing shit jobs and being depressed. Thank you for posting this, makes me feel motivated.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 03:08 PM
5

Yeah, I've had two awful dates. First one was back when I was pretty blue pilled with an 8/10. Agreed to grab some drinks at this nice cocktail bar 2 hours before she had to work, she worked as a photographer in a night club. So I'm in the city early, walking around a bit and she's having dinner with her family and she said she's gonna be late. I said it was fine since I was a little bit late myself (obvious lie, I was just waiting for her like a simp). So one hour passes and I'm having fun by m…
/r/askTRP28/10/20 10:07 AM
1

3-5 plates is already enough head-ache and time consuming, let alone 10 plates. You come over as really desperate. (Not trying to insult you)
/r/askTRP27/10/20 10:06 AM
2

Personally my goal is 80-85 kg at 5'11 and around 10-12% bodyfat, don't want to be big and slow.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 08:10 PM
5

I have the same issue. Test level 770, never fap, don't watch porn, yet I have zero sex drive. I work out, do cardio, eat clean, not sure what's the issue, typing this comment because I want to know too.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 06:47 PM
1

I had student job at a moving company and your body will get used to it.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 12:58 PM
2

I'm hypocrite as fuck for saying this, since I love going out to festivals and have done molly in the past. But, NEVER date a rave girl. Even if it was in the past. Do you even know what goes on at festivals, raves, afterparties, ...? They're NOT LTR material. I mean, you can date her, but in the back of your head, you will always know she used to be a rave girl and probably a giant slut during those times.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 08:06 PM
2

This must be a troll post. She's seeing another guy or her ex behind your back. Obviously you should HARD next her.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 06:48 PM
9

No, I just leave a bill of 5 euros on their pillow.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 06:46 PM
10

I knew this kid in my class, back when I was 16. He was cringe and annoying as hell, nobody liked him. He was new at school and had trouble making friends. But over the years he started working on himself and stepped out of his comfort zone. He went to every social gathering, didn't skip anything. Started to be less awkward, he got himself some hobbies, lost weight and made like 2 friends. Slowly he was expanding his social circle. Now instead of 2 friends he had 5 close friends. Started doing s…
/r/askTRP12/10/20 11:04 AM
3

I know how you feel. Been fucking around and vetting girls for the past years and it's starting to become boring. I'm extremely picky but it's the only way. No way I'm gonna date some social media or club slut.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 08:33 AM
2

Yeah if you have a good profile it definitely works. But for me, personally, deleting Instagram was the better option. You'd be surprised how much time the average person spends on that app, would rather spend that time on something else. But I get what you mean, if you show that you have a cool life it works wonders.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 03:30 PM
1

On a night out I usually scan the place and position myself around the HBB's. No way I'm gonna stand near a group of dudes or some fat chicks. Then I do my own thing. Talking to bro's, dancing, whatever... Then I make eye contact with the HBB's around me. I usually avoid the ones who are on their phone all the time or the ones who are way too drunk. The best ones are the ones just dancing next to you, enjoying the moment. Then I lock eyes with them and smile, if they show interest, I move closer…
/r/askTRP11/10/20 02:42 PM
8

Social media game is real. Back when I had Instagram I would comment on girls their stories or they would comment on mine and start a conversation from there, it was easy. But the amount of flakes on social media is unreal. Most girls just want orbiters and attention, in real life I have way more success, even though lately it's been shit with everything closed with Corona.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 01:39 PM
1

Talk to your boss or find a new job.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 01:36 PM
2

Covid making me depressed af. Literally nothing to do here in my country. Nothing to look forward to.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 12:49 PM
2

Why would you watch a sports match with a girl? Especially if you don't want to miss anything. She'll either get bored or talk through whole the thing. When you put on a movie, it doesn't matter what it is, I thought everyone knew that.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 08:11 AM
7

Dude if she's at your place it's easy as fuck. Literally put on a movie and ask her if she wants to drink something. Then give her the drink, watch the movie and put your arm around her. Cuddle her for a few minutes and then make a move.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 09:53 PM
1

I'm in the military and let me tell you, it sucks.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 09:47 PM
1

Yeah, might look for a new hobby, right now my only hobby is fitness. And nice to see someone who's in real estate. Right now I'm in the military, but gonna quit and start studying. Any advice on studying real estate?
/r/askTRP10/10/20 04:06 PM
2

Currently in the army, gonna quit soon. 23 Years old, have saved like 65k.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 04:05 PM
1

How do you spend your weekends then?
/r/askTRP10/10/20 03:45 PM
1

Same, night game was so easy and fun. Just having a fun night and going home with a cute chick afterwards. Haven't gone out in 7 months either because of corona, everything closes here at around 11pm. Right now at my longest dry streak ever.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 03:44 PM
1

Stop making excuses and grow some balls
/r/askTRP10/10/20 02:12 PM
1

I live close to you, the perfect store for me is called Massimo Dutti. Also, google 'Casual fashion style men'. That's how I dress. Get a pair of boots, jeans, chinos, nice coat, and some shirts (white, light blue, dark blue black, denim, whatever).
/r/askTRP09/10/20 05:12 PM
26

i'm 23 and never had a serious relationship either, whole my life I've been with girls who were plates or one night stands. Sex is starting to become boring with girls you don't care about, so i kinda understand what you mean. But, crying? Never cry for a bitch. It may feel lonely sometimes, but get used to it.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 05:13 PM
2

Apparently people be fucking top tier models left and right on this sub.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 02:04 PM
10

My grandmother died when I was like 10 years old. Never saw her much and I didn't care either. You don't have a connection with them so it's not abnormal.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 06:31 PM
28

Get to know the nice places in your neighborhood, lose weight, lift hard, improve your style/game, join a club, get a new hobby, go out solo, you can do anything.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 03:42 PM
3

I agree. It's hard to meet quality girls nowadays. Most women are obese/ugly, don't care about improving their selves. Why would they? They have so many beta guys showering them with compliments. Online dating is horrible, it's full of attention whores and stuck up whales. To be honest, living in a small town (I live in one too) absolutely sucks for your dating life, everyone knows each other. The city is where it's at. Gonna move out soon.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 07:24 PM
3

It's easy to get someone laid. All it takes is just one guy to talk to a group of females.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 09:40 AM
1

I got banned from Tinder because I used to troll girls all the time and they kept reporting me. Getting a new phone number does work.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 09:38 AM
1

Dude you live in a big European capital, you have no excuse..
/r/askTRP30/09/20 05:38 PM
2

You can't win at online dating as a guy. Online dating is trash. You either match with : - Stuck up whales (I don't text first in bio) - Attention whores (Instagram linked in bio) - Average girls (Will forget about u in 10 mins because she has 100+ guys messaging her) Ever since COVID started I've been on Tinder and it's fucking horrible. I've had some dates but most of them were socially awkward in real life or fatter/uglier than on their pictures.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 05:09 PM
1

This post reminded me of my dad.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 03:49 PM
1

W H I T E K N I G H T H A S E N T E R E D T H E C O M M E N T S
/r/askTRP29/09/20 05:27 PM
3

Be careful with hookers. I've been visiting hookers for the past 3 years and my brain is fucked now.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 03:27 PM
1

5 is lowest for me.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 01:32 PM
1

Yes, had the exact same thing happen to me. Plate is broken.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 07:58 PM
1

If you live in a big city, a nice house/apartment is gonna get you laid WAY more. Can literally walk to the bar and then to your place, if you have a nice place she's gonna put out way easier. Don't even need ur car for that.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 12:00 PM
1

People want you to do good, but never better than them. This dude is dragging you down. Only cares about drinking, hanging out, partying and girls probably. He sounds toxic, cut him off.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 07:48 AM
6

For me, going out solo has helped me a LOT. I've never had social anxiety or shyness but I just wasn't interested in talking to random people. I started going out solo during summer. It's all about stepping out of your comfort zone. I remember walking through the city near a river and there were like 20 girls working out and doing yoga. There was some old dude, probably 75 years old, sitting on a bench by himself, watching the ladies doing yoga. I was walking past him and smiled at him, he smile…
/r/askTRP19/09/20 07:34 AM
9

Nice profile but you have too many pictures. If I was you, I'd keep like 4 pictures, 7 is too much. Remember, less is more. Remove the picture where you're sky diving, the one on the horse and one of the pictures where you're topless (one is enough). 1st, 3rd and 4th picture are really good. Shows off your body, one with friends where you're social and the 4th is just a really cool picture with the background. Maybe switch out the last picture with one where you're around girls and having a good…
/r/askTRP19/09/20 07:03 AM
4

HB10... Tinder.... You already put her on a pedestal. And yes, don't do dinner date. Just go for a drink, then kino on the way to mini golf and while you're playing. You can fuck her anywhere if she's horny, once saw two teenagers having sex in public toilets.
/r/askTRP13/09/20 09:45 AM
0

Don't listen to this fool, OP. Stop putting this 'hotter' girl on a pedestal, she's just a girl like the other one. If you feel comfortable around this coffee shop, just do it. Assuming you're gonna fail and make it awkward before you even went on the date, like this dude above me said, is just a loser mentality. Just do whatever the fuck you want and make the most of it.
/r/askTRP13/09/20 08:46 AM
1

Not sure why this is a fuckup, just do your thing, OP.
/r/askTRP13/09/20 01:12 AM
1

Nice pictures/profile, just a bit too many pictures IMO.
/r/askTRP12/09/20 03:15 PM
1

I've fucked maybe 1 fat chick in my whole life and was so disgusted by it, I couldn't sleep after I had sex with her because I kept thinking about it. Now, years later, I can laugh about it. Who cares, at the moment you're overthinking but in a few days/weeks you won't care, trust me.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 09:05 PM
1

Peanut butter for me
/r/askTRP11/09/20 09:02 PM
7

My personal red flags list (almost same as yours): - Horse girls - Has Instagram linked in her bio - Those 6/10 girls who compete in model competitions, ugly and stuck up. - Trash girls who are smoking and drinking beer in their pictures (wine and cocktails are ok) - Fat chicks - Has kids - "I dont message first" - Looking for friends.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 11:07 AM
10

Whatever you do, don't share ANY personal info with women or anyone there, women gossip so much, stay out of drama and NEVER argue with them, just walk away if you can. I remember working at a shitty job while I was doing my tests for the military, I had no intention of staying there and told ONE woman I was joining the military anyways. She told everyone and even my boss knew, I didn't care but it shows how fast something can spread.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 10:54 AM
11

All my friends, who completely turned their backs on me and ghosted me for a while, told me “they knew in their hearts I would never do something like that”. Sounds like you have some really SHITTY friends. You'd be better off without them.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 10:50 AM
3

Don't take it personal, most dating apps are shit and flakes happen 90% of the time. You're a stranger to her until you've met.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 08:59 PM
3

Hey fellow dutch guy here. Moving to a big city will increase your ability to get laid by a 100 times. You'll have a place to fuck girls, privacy, girls CLOSE to you, new hot girls every week, a lot of stuff to do, can drink and just walk home. But first, make sure you've saved up enough money, you're 22 and need to save up money. Amsterdam is expensive as hell. I often see guys our age moving out of their house #1 priority, it's cool but make sure you've saved up enough money first.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 08:56 PM
6

What's the point of chatting with Tinder girls if you can't meet? A LOT of girls still meet during COVID. Either set up a date and fuck her or become a beta orbiter who texts her 2 hours before she goes to bed.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 12:50 PM
2

I was dating this girl who was around 120 pounds, slim with a fat ass. Some months into the relationship she started eating like a pig. She would eat Domino's 3 times a week, eat a lot of chocolate. Every time we watched a movie she would have 3 different kind of snacks (chips, chocolate, cookies, ...). I told her she's gaining weight and she said she would watch what she ate. One month later nothing changed, I wasn't feeling attracted to her anymore. Now, 2 years later she gained like 20 pounds…
/r/askTRP09/09/20 12:43 PM
1

Trust me, I'm 23 and the dating scene is fucked. Your friends/strangers on this sub always exaggerate about the girls they've banged or how how they are. In reality they're banging 6's with the exceptions of some 8-9's once in a while. But what they don't tell you is the countless of times they got flaked on, trashy girls, sluts, head-aches, games, ... Keep her, I don't believe in unicorns but you'll have more fun with your current LTR than dating around, the grass is greener..
/r/askTRP09/09/20 10:25 AM
1

Girls have no shame nowadays, smh.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 10:54 AM
9

The girl you were flirting with either had a boyfriend or the other girl was just a cock blocking cunt. When this happens to me I just ignore the cockblock and proceed to act like nothing has happened.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 10:38 AM
1

Nope, not any wars, I've got many friends in the military and they say you can pull out if you want. And the branch I'd choose has nothing I could use in real life sadly. I love the branch but there's nothing I can use in the civilian world. I'd have to be abroad a lot and I think I'd like it, don't like Belgium at all. And I could save a lot of money. But yeah, I could study or pick up a skill that translates into the civilian world and make money that way but not sure what..
/r/askTRP07/09/20 10:09 AM
7

I did the same thing when I was 17 years old. The thrill of finding a girl, flirting with her, seeing her naked, it was fun, but after a while it got boring. The real fun starts when you have some plates. Focus on finding a cute girl and lose your virginity to her, don't catch oneitis though.
/r/askTRP06/09/20 07:11 PM
8

Worst feeling ever when the bitch stops sucking the moment you cum. Fucking ruins the orgasm.
/r/askTRP06/09/20 07:09 PM
59

Just start moaning like an autistic ape before you cum, she'll know what's up
/r/askTRP06/09/20 06:04 PM
2

You mean something like Omegle?
/r/askTRP06/09/20 06:03 PM
17

Lol at thinking of going to the gym alone with your friends' girlfriend and workout together.
/r/askTRP06/09/20 03:40 PM
1

Through friends?
/r/askTRP06/09/20 03:06 PM
7

I don't have Instagram but I have this friend who's good at it. He likes EVERY picture from guys/girls so they like his pictures back I guess. He follows everyone he knows so they follow him back and he gets more followers. Then he unfollows the people he doesn't care about, just basic attention whore shit. He will post stories all the time when we're out and it's honestly fucking annoying but I guess it looks good on his Instagram. He has good pictures, a good Insta story everyday about his gym…
/r/askTRP06/09/20 09:43 AM
2

Best way to respond to a flake like that is by showing that you're a busy man with other girls waiting for you. If she flakes, who cares, just say 'Alright', soft next her and game other girls.
/r/askTRP06/09/20 09:20 AM
11

Yes, it's gonna get way worse. Just look around at restaurants, bars, events, social gatherings, on the street, etc... EVERYONE is glued to their phones, people don't know how to be social anymore. Most guys and girls go on a date and they already know everything about each other because they text 24/7. Your potential girlfriend could be a whore on OnlyFans. The innocent girl on her phone could have an N-count over 50. It's gonna get way way worse. Just look at the divorce rate now compared to 3…
/r/askTRP06/09/20 08:56 AM
3

'It's only an invite for aggression from strangers if you're ugly' crew
/r/askTRP05/09/20 03:49 PM
8

The west is honestly fucked. In the east girls are submissive and feminine, here it's fucked.
/r/askTRP05/09/20 03:29 PM
31

This is the exact reason why I've deleted social media. Every time I logged in there was some dumb bitch talking about politics or supporting BLM. I was getting sick of seeing brainwashed sloots sharing posts from left extremists. Literally getting brainwashed and sharing the posts so they come over as 'good girls'. "Justice for x name'. While they don't even know the backstory. Praising someone who got killed by cops while 9/10 they had a history of committing HEAVY crimes. It always made me cr…
/r/askTRP05/09/20 02:54 PM
21

No way... she gave him a HIGH FIVE? IN FRONT OF YOU? Dude... that's so disrespectful. I mean, he probably touched his dick that day and touched your girls hand. So basically your girlfriend gave her coworker a hand job in front of you and you're asking us what this means? It means you're a phaggot because you touched your LTR's hands... So basically you gave her coworker a handjob. Break up with your LTR, you have to set boundaries... This girl just cheating in front of you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! De…
/r/askTRP05/09/20 11:09 AM
12

Stare into their eyes until they look away first crew.
/r/askTRP05/09/20 11:01 AM
1

A lot of girls have almost no idea to hold a conversation.
/r/askTRP05/09/20 11:01 AM
4

Yeah, not trying to take a dig at you. But yeah, when she's sitting on top of you should put your hands on her hips and move your way up to her boobs and start touching them. Meanwhile kiss her in the neck so she gets even more horny and before you know it her bra is off and you're both naked while she is sucking your dick. Don't be afraid to escalate. You should ALWAYS lead.
/r/askTRP05/09/20 10:58 AM
1

???
/r/askTRP04/09/20 11:40 AM
6

She was laughing at you for not making a move. You were at her place, with wine, Netflix on. You finished a WHOLE MOVIE which is a minimum of 90 minutes. You only put your tongue in her mouth during those 90 minutes? You need to make a move, ESCALATE, she should have been sucking your dick 20 minutes into the movie and 30 minutes into the movie you should've been fucking the shit out of here. Stop overthinking, she was all over you, just make a move.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 11:38 AM
3

Is your account set on private? If so, it could be that your ex is using her friend to look at your profile.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 11:31 AM
21

Just lol at her saying she has enough fuckbuddies already, sounds like a trash girl. Would have nexted her HARD when she said that to me.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 11:29 AM
7

What causes oneitis? Lack of options, abundance mentality. Also, this is definitely a troll post. How the fuck can you have oneitis for a girl you even haven't met yet? You just... matched on Tinder and you can't stop thinking about her? That's sad man. Make a move and go for her number, try to set up a date instead of dwelling over her.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 07:04 AM
6

It's weird because I want to experience being truly in love but I actually have never been in love. I've had LTR's but I didn't love any of them and broke up after months of being together. I feel like I need to experience this to become truly redpill but it's so hard to fall in love. I know it sounds bluepill but I've been thinking about it sometimes.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 11:08 PM
1

Some girls have no intention of meeting up. They use Tinder for validation, attention and followers. That's why so many people here tell people to cold approach so you stand out and that way she's more eager to see you. What works for me online though, is calling them when I get their number. Not instantly and not out of nowhere but just tell them you'd rather call than text. Once she hears your voice it's way easier. Don't know why but once I've called with girls whom I met online, they are mor…
/r/askTRP02/09/20 07:05 PM
3

Same is happening to me. Women are autistic and in the moment they feel good and give you their number to chat through Whatsapp. Next thing you know, she's chatting 10 other chads on Tinder. Trust me when I say that an average girl has over 1000 matches, everyday 50+ guys messaging her, why would you stand out? Don't take it personal. Girls have hundreds of thirsty guys messaging them. Imagine if you had that many girls texting you, wouldn't you care less and only pick out the hottest? You're ju…
/r/askTRP02/09/20 04:42 PM
4

Yeah.. he's not your bro.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 04:35 PM
5

+1. Got a head-ache by just looking at this.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 02:10 PM
3

I'm your age and want to move out too. But gonna stay 1-2 more years to save up money to buy a nice apartment, I suggest you to do the same.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 01:43 PM
9

Yes, it's my mission in life to make as many women pregnant as possible. I need to spread my super genes all across the world. So far I've made 35 women pregnant and I'm only 23 years old, there are no limits to my semen.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 10:32 AM
1

Where are you gonna solo travel to?
/r/askTRP01/09/20 10:51 AM
3

I've fucked like two 5's and I felt disgusted afterwards. I'd rather have no sex than fuck some ugly bitch.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 10:14 AM
2

Fuck this girl, honestly. You made out twice, then goes home at 9pm, claiming she's tired? She's just not interested or playing a massive shit test, either way, find a girl who doesn't give you head-ache like this one.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 09:35 AM
2

I have the exact same problem. Have this plate who I've known for 2 months and she keeps pushing for a date... Drinks, movies or dinner. I just want to fuck her but she keeps being annoying about a date... She's always annoyed saying she's second choice to my friends (obviously) and that she hates being last choice and that she wants to be a priority for once. If she does that I ignore her and we don't talk for 4 days, then I invite her over and just fuck, this plate gonna break real soon. Just …
/r/askTRP01/09/20 08:50 AM
1

You haven't blown anything. Just flirt with her the next time you see her.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 11:18 AM
1

I don't, not worth the head-ache.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 11:15 AM
17

Definitely bartender. Can get good money, will increase your social progress by a ton, a lot of women, you get to meet a crap load of people which can help you in the future.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 11:12 AM
2

Guess I got unlucky then, the women at the stripclubs there were unbelievably hot though. Literally 80 HBB 9's walking around there, I had never seen so many beautiful women in such a small place before. Might have to go back to Prague and ask taxi drivers what you said.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 08:41 AM
2

I've been to many countries and Prague was the only country where it was so hard to meet hookers. Well, I did talk to some dudes outside a stripclub and they told me to join them. We arrive at this sketchy house with a big gate in the middle of the center of Prague. We arrive there and we have to take some stairs below and there were like 10 hookers but they were all disgusting, all of them max 5/10.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 09:03 PM
1

Which website did you use in Prague? I was there and felt like it was impossible to meet hookers. But I didn't search for too long on the web.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 11:26 AM
2

Would like to know as well. I'm 5'11 and right now around 75kg. I was thinking about bulking or cutting to 10%... Right now I'm around 15%.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 10:55 AM
1

50$ is a lot for in thailand lol
/r/askTRP29/08/20 12:54 PM
2

Sex vacations, interesting. Any chance you've been on a sex vacation in Eastern/Middle Europe?
/r/askTRP29/08/20 12:27 PM
6

This is the only thing I hate about hookers. You fuck some hot chick but afterwards you feel like shit. Think to yourself 'Did I really waste money on that dumb bitch?". When you pull a girl it feels way better. There's a feeling of satisfaction, knowing you seduced her and fucked the shit out of her and sending her home.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 12:02 PM
6

Yes, I've fucked many hookers. Some experiences were shit, others were amazing. But it fucked me up mentally. Where I live it's 40 euros for a hooker for 15 minutes. I've fucked dozen of 9's and 10's but it fucked me up mentally so hard. Don't go down this path, I got addicted and it ruined me with normal girls.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 11:58 AM
2

+1. Work on your fashion, OP.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 09:16 PM
0

I've never understood frugal people. I mean, you don't have to throw your money out of the window like wasting it on expensive cars/clothes, ... But if you've got a lot of money, why not buy a nice place? Spend your money on travelling or other experiences, doesn't have to be materialistic. I've got friends who are frugal and going out with them sucks. Always checking the price of everything, wanting to eat out at the cheapest place possible, doesn't want to pay 20 euros extra so we have to fly …
/r/askTRP28/08/20 11:30 AM
6

I guess you didn't escalate, flirt...
/r/askTRP26/08/20 10:14 PM
1

Sounds really lame.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 06:47 PM
2

I never lie, but I never tell the truth either.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 06:44 PM
7

Ass by far
/r/askTRP26/08/20 06:43 PM
7

Found an used condom in my LTR's bed and we never have sex with a condom on. Is this a shit test?????
/r/askTRP26/08/20 06:42 PM
2

It's true. I'm going to Krakow in September and I've been there before and let me tell you, it's like arriving in another world. Beautiful girls everywhere, submissive, know how to hold a conversation, lower social media presence. Don't get me wrong, there are girls like this in Western Europe too, but in average, the girls in Eastern Europe are 10 times better than where we live, this is no cope, but talking from my own experience.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 06:38 PM
5

Dude, I live close to you, in Belgium. And let me tell you, Western women suck. I've traveled through Eastern Europe and girls there are way more submissive/feminine/beautiful. Girls here are boring and ugly. When I met chicks from the US they seemed so fucking slutty, it was unreal. All they wanted to do was get wasted and suck cock.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 03:51 PM
6

Honestly, I would tell her I'm in. Make her videotape how I jizz on her face/in her mouth, fucking her in different positions, make her suck my dick for 30 min on video, choking her, basically treating her like a whore, just for the lulz. Ofcourse with my face nowhere visible in the video's. Then I would keep her as a plate but NEVER date her.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 03:48 PM
19

Make her feel like she's having sex with a man, not a boy. What I mean by that is, don't be scared to touch her hard, make her feel submissive, lead, ... Often guys think most girls are made of glass and are scared to hurt them. What I mean by touching hard - Don't be scared you're gonna break/hurt her. Look in her eyes while you put it in the first time, choke her, pull her hair, bite her lip gently while making out, slap her ass, thrust DEEP from time to time, suck her tits, tease, throw her a…
/r/askTRP26/08/20 03:33 PM
2

Can confirm this. Clubs are open almost EVERYWHERE in Europe. COVID is blown up.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 05:38 PM
6

I'm still learning cold approaching myself and you did great but made some mistakes too. I'm not an expert at all but i'll tell you what I think. It was good that you noticed them checking you out, throwing yourself out there and approaching them. Was good when you asked them how their night went, etc.. But you asking to join them when they were meeting someone was kind of needy/awkward. Don't know if you sitting there for 30-40 minutes was a good thing either. Remember, you're a busy man with s…
/r/askTRP25/08/20 05:35 PM
11

I think having no social media is better than having a shitty profile. But social media does work if you're active on it and have cool pictures. The only social media I use right now is Tinder, because it's harder to meet girls because of COVID. I've gotten a few girls who thought I was a catfish because I didn't have Instagram. Those chicks were easily nexted. In real life I've had some girls asks for my Instagram but they didn't seem to care when I said I didn't use it. But yeah, having no soc…
/r/askTRP25/08/20 05:27 PM
1

Good. Now, get out there and go slay!
/r/askTRP25/08/20 05:16 PM
2

Stopped reading at tattoos.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 12:36 PM
1

Depends on how good a bro he is. If he's close to you, don't. Don't listen to the horn dogs on this sub who's only goal in life is to bang chicks. There are thousands of girls out there, if there's a possibility that he likes her and I repeat is a GOOD friend of you, then it's not worth it. This could backfire massively, just for some random slut, it's not really worth it in my eyes, but your choice.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 12:26 PM
3

Lost it at over the boxer HJ's.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 12:22 PM
4

IMO best reponse.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 12:17 PM
2

You create no mistery when you talk all day long on your phone. Seems like she's shit testing you. You didn't pick her up from work, she feels rejected and now unfollowed you to see if you're beta and will chase her. You should start texting other girls and soft next this one. If she's interested, she'll be back. If she doesn't reach out to you, who cares, you dodged an attention whore.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 12:14 PM
6

No dairy, drink at least 3 liters of water a day, cut down on sugar, consume less salt. Pretty sure you've got to cut more than 6-7 pounds of fat to cut down from 20%. And yes, cutting down to 15% will increase your face and you will get more IOI rate but being around 10-12% is where your face looks the best IMO.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 12:08 PM
3

It's because both of you are not a 7.5/10, you just think you are, no hate.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 11:52 AM
1

Alright, thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 01:58 PM
3

Why did she sound full of guilt? And why do you feel the need to text her? Only text her for logistics or when you have something interesting to say. Just texting for the sake of texting comes over as needy.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 08:45 AM
3

I see loads of lean guys where I live. 60% Of the guys who go to the gym in my town use steroids.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 07:46 AM
2

I always try to stay away from gossip/drama at work. But sometimes it's nearly impossible.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 09:19 PM
6

Next her if you have any self respect.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 09:04 PM
4

Maybe if I was 14 years old. Thanks for the advice though.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 06:42 PM
2

If I lived in the right environment I would pick up diving, mountain biking, kayaking, snowboarding/skiing, ... Too bad I live in a small country where everything's flat.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 05:21 PM
1

When did you go to Prague? And where did you go in Poland? I'm asking because I'm gonna travel solo to Krakow/Kiev/Prague and was wondering if clubs etc are open there?
/r/askTRP23/08/20 05:18 PM
1

Whatever you do, don't take it personal, it's not your fault, she's just a whore.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 03:49 PM
2

It's crazy how cheap prostitutes are in Eastern Europe. You can literally get sex in Poland and Ukraine for 40-50 euros/hour. Even knew a girl who would stay whole the night for 100 euros and you could literally do anything with her. But to be honest, I've been to Prague and the girls you see there on the street are all gorgeous, I think the average girl there was a 7/10.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 09:24 PM
1

My household is toxic too. I just get out of the house as much as possible and barely interact with my mother and father.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 09:21 PM
3

Most women who are average or higher are naturally redpilled, literally have life on easy mode and have every guy chasing them. They just have to upload a story on Instagram and have 10+ guys DM'ing them. In real life it's the same, imagine a 8/10 walking on the street and the amount of guys staring at her while she has done literally nothing, just look good. Girls have life on easy mode.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 08:18 AM
1

I think going out solo/having fun by yourself is one of the key factors to becoming the best version of yourself. You become more confident because you don't need other people. In a way it also creates abundance. Why would I need someone else when I'm perfectly capable of having fun on my own.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 09:49 PM
1

No, they drag you down.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 09:44 PM
1

5 years platonic friendship? Forget about it man, there are plenty of girls out there, sounds like you've got oneitis.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 09:41 PM
2

I've had this happen to me with 2 friends. I'm still cool with them when I see them at social gatherings but I'd never hangout with them anymore.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 09:38 PM
2

I've started going out solo a lot lately and it's surprisingly fun. My friends are autistic when it comes to trying out new things. Even when we go out for food/drinks it literally takes 1 hour to decide which bar/restaurant to go to. When you go out solo, you can do whatever the fuck you want. Chat up girls, walk to wherever the fuck you want/explore, talk with the old lonely man who's drunk by himself. Try out new cocktail bars, watch people, go shopping, you can do ANYTHING. Don't get me wron…
/r/askTRP21/08/20 12:42 PM
6

I know how you feel. I live in a small town too (20k people). Most of my friends here want to spend their weekends inside, playing videogames or just sitting at home which is fucking boring. I ditched literally 90% of them. I found new people who go to the big cities with me and it's way more fun. Pulling girls is easier, more fun stuff to do during the weekends. Just find other friends you can go out with, one guy is all you need. Or move to the big city, that's what I'm gonna do next year.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 01:46 AM
1

The only time where you can date virgin women is when you're 14-17 years old.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 02:38 PM
1

Online dating has always been trash. Literally saw a fat chick at work, a 3/10 at most and she had hundreds of guys messaging her, imagine an average girl or HB 8-9... You live in London, there are hot chicks everywhere. This pandemic fucking sucks, I know, but you can still cold approach. I live in Belgium and we are in the heaviest lockdown I have seen all over Europe, we even have a fucking night clock, yet it's still possible to daygame here.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 01:52 PM
7

You need to work on your game. I know, because I'm exactly in the same situation as you are. Are you sexualizing the conversations? Are you escalating? Using push and pull? Could be that you're doing all of these. But you need to perfect it, that's what I'm gonna try to do anyways.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 09:36 AM
1

- Co-workers - Ex girlfriends/plates of close friends That's it. Co-workers is obvious, but I see a lot of guys going after friends their exes and it's just something I don't see myself doing.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 09:31 AM
1

Nice. Where do you meet these locals? Bars? On the street? My plan would be to walk up to people and ask them if they know nice places. And if they’re cool, hang out with them
/r/askTRP19/08/20 08:27 PM
2

Belgium
/r/askTRP19/08/20 08:26 PM
2

Fat chicks are the worst.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 06:10 PM
2

This is exactly why my longest relationship was a solid 3 months.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 08:31 AM
2

I am like you. I only approached during night game, when I was drunk, with a lot of success. But this fucking pandemic made me realize that I need to work on sober approaching.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 09:21 PM
0

I've only tried Kamagra.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 03:26 PM
1

I get where you're coming from and it makes sense, but for me personally, I don't use Instagram so there's no point in her giving me.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 02:55 PM
1

Personally I'm turned off the moment she offers for her Instagram instead of her number. I either say I don't have Instagram (which I don't) and get the number or take it as a rejection, if she's interested she'll have no problem giving her number.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 12:28 PM
9

What's your question?
/r/askTRP17/08/20 09:30 PM
1

Just go for it man.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 09:29 PM
2

Exactly, the expensive gym here costs 50 euros/month and the cheap one 25 euros/month. Better to switch, it's basically the same, i'm not in the gym to make friends, just to work out
/r/askTRP17/08/20 06:53 PM
1

You travelling solo?
/r/askTRP17/08/20 06:50 PM
1

- Lift - Get enough sleep - Get a good job - Always have a nice haircut - Improve your wardrobe - Get a hobby/passion - Eat clean/track your macro's
/r/askTRP17/08/20 06:30 PM
2

Your friend is autistic, he should be a bro and invite you on a double date or let you smash her friends.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 06:28 PM
6

I attend the expensive kind of gym. It's true what he said, a lot of events, smaller circle, everyone knows each other, more like a family feeling. But I'm gonna switch to a cheaper gym.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 06:24 PM
1

There are hundreds of girls out there who will put out by the first date. If you want to waste time on this girl, so be it, I wouldn't.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 03:17 PM
1

Don't listen to him.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 12:50 PM
5

Pretty much. Just whipped it out and she started playing with it, then she hit me with the classic 'I'm not the kind of girl to have sex on the first date'. I cringed so hard, got up and just left.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 09:48 AM
2

I know how you feel, living in a small city absolutely sucks for your dating life.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 09:44 AM
1

apply dread
/r/askTRP17/08/20 09:43 AM
-1

WHO CARES, NEXT.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 09:40 AM
36

By getting out of your comfort zone. Go out solo, make new friends, find new hobbies.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 09:22 AM
7

Don't have autistic plates. By the way, you're a phaggot.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 05:46 PM
1

I'm the same, that's why I never let them sleep over.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 05:45 PM
117

I actually drove away from a fat chick once. She was walking towards my car and I was thinking to myself 'Damn, that can't be her'. The moment she wants to open my door, I drive away and she was, I kid you not, running towards the door off my car while I was driving off. It looked like she was walking in slow motion. At first I felt a little bit bad. She called me like 20 times, but I blocked her and spent time with my friends instead. I think karma will come for me someday, but the look on her …
/r/askTRP16/08/20 05:36 PM
30

I cracked up so hard when you mentioned that she looked like a German ww2 tank. I know how you feel. I met up with a girl from Tinder as well. In real life she was so fucking socially awkward and fatter than in her pictures. My mind was telling me to leave. She smelled so bad but I whipped my cock out while we were watching a movie. She started giving me a handjob and then I started feeling disgusted with myself. I told her I had to go, got up and left her place. I was sitting in my car for 15 m…
/r/askTRP16/08/20 05:31 PM
1

It can only go better from here on out. You have a stable job, good family. Get a hobby, goals, your own place. That's what should be next.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 03:31 PM
1

I used to hang out with this friend. He quickly became one of my better friends. We would go out every weekend, get girls together, eat out, etc... But the moment he started doing drugs, ketamine in general, the nights always went downhill. He wasn't being himself, we had to babysit him. I even introduced him to my other friends and they didn't want to hangout with him. Don't do drugs, especially not ketamine. I ignore his messages too, can't be bothered with hanging out with people who can't ha…
/r/askTRP16/08/20 03:27 PM
1

Why don't you sell the place?
/r/askTRP16/08/20 03:18 PM
108

I fucking hate whiteknights.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 03:11 PM
2

I get the point, but a child needs a mother growing up, how can you intentionally take that away?
/r/askTRP16/08/20 10:18 AM
2

Joining the special forces.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 10:16 AM
6

Why the fuck do you care where your money goes? You will be fucking dead, it's not like it matters. Is that the reason why you want kids? Just so your money doesn't go to your brother? And a fucking test tube baby? Maybe it's better if you don't have kids, you sound really autistic.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 09:51 AM
1

I thought about quitting alcohol several times. Instead I'll just become a social drinker. Have one cocktail when I'm on a date or out with friends at a restaurant and then switch to water or something else.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 09:42 AM
1

Me too! What field are you gonna go in the army?
/r/askTRP15/08/20 06:16 PM
1

This is why I've never had a serious relationship. There are good girls out there, I know, but 90% of girls in my age range (18-25) are trash. Social media has ruined so many girls, combine that with girls who only want to sloot around at parties/clubs and it's hard to find a decent girl. Just use girls for sex and focus on your goals in life.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 12:29 PM
4

Get tested as soon as possible. Rubbing a girls' clit can give you aids and you will possibly die within 6 months if you don't get it checked. Oh, did I read that right? She rubbed it for 10 seconds??? Without a condom? Your life is over. And she got tested for HIV? Things aren't looking good for you, damn.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 09:27 AM
2

You, the man always leads.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 07:13 PM
1

I absolutely suck at texting. But calling does work from my experience. Literally all of the girls who I've called with were more keen to meet and never flaked on me. Through texting I get flaked way more.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 06:29 PM
2

+1 For Budapest/Prague. Girls are so fucking easy there. Went to Budapest last week, was great. Prague last year, might visit again soon.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 11:23 PM
1

Sounds great, man! Never heard about someone visiting Costa Rica, sounds dope. And for solo travelling to Hong Kong, Tokyo and Thailand, I don't know, it's far so I would have to at least stay there for 3 weeks and solo that seems a little bit long IMO. Maybe in the future. I've heard the best stuff about Thailand, amazing country, cheap, they love foreigners and indeed easy to get ladies. Gonna go there with 4 friends next year actually!
/r/askTRP13/08/20 10:01 AM
6

Oh God, shut the fuck up.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 09:59 AM
1

You can, she's coming straight to a stranger his place so she doesn't know you, try to make her feel a little comfortable but don't be a text buddy, just a line inbetween.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 10:01 PM
1

I usually say something about their bio or profile pictures and starts a small convo from there, no more than 5 messages and get their number. Then I ask them what their plans for the weekend are and if they don't have any I tell them they can join me for a movie if they're bored. That's it.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 09:15 PM
1

I've heard a lot of stuff about hostels, both good and bad ones. Well, I went to Budapest last week and it seemed like there was no corona there or they didn't care.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 09:12 PM
1

You mean the process from Match to meeting up? Or you mean the process from the moment she's at my place?
/r/askTRP12/08/20 08:51 PM
1

I don't bother going on dates with Tinder girls to be honest. I used to do that and it was a waste of time, now I invite them straight to my place. They find it weird the first 5 minutes but I've been having more success this way.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 08:18 PM
3

You're a phaggot.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 08:08 PM
1

Let me tell you, I dated a girl like your ex. Clingy, insecure and bipolar and breaking up with her was the best decision I've ever made. If you can't stop thinking about her just block her on all social media and her number so you can't see her anymore. You'll forget about her in no time. And hooking up with new girls or having fun with friends always makes me forget my exes easily. I was never the type to be sad over an ex though.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 08:00 PM
12

Okay date an insta hoe then. You sound really insecure by the way.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 01:16 PM
10

Why are you complaining? Social media is one of the biggest turns off for me. If your girlfriend doesn't use it, why aren't you happy about it? Insecure?
/r/askTRP12/08/20 10:30 AM
5

Been working out since I was 16. Around the age of 17 I was getting so much attention from girls, it was unreal. Then I broke my hand and couldn't workout for 1 year. I had lost nearly all my gains and was still pulling girls but it was so much harder. Now I've been working out for 1 year again and it's getting easier but I'm nowhere near my goal yet. I wonder, once I hit my goal, how easy it will be.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 10:23 AM
1

Maybe give us an exemple of a conversation where you screw it up?
/r/askTRP11/08/20 01:29 PM
2

Did you really write a book about a Tinder girl you haven't even met yet?
/r/askTRP11/08/20 10:29 AM
1

Heavenly Beauty
/r/askTRP11/08/20 01:19 AM
2

I know this feeling. You ruined it at this point. It only goes downhill from here. Next.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 02:23 PM
1

I'm not American so I don't know, my man. But I was surprised how bad girls speak English over there, which kind of sucked.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 02:22 PM
9

This, he's obviously lying.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 11:14 AM
1

Because paying for sex is a waste of money, even though it's fun.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 11:11 AM
1

Pontoon was the best place. Huge summer bar near the river with loads of hot girls.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 11:09 AM
2

I live in Belgium, Antwerp, we are in the heaviest lock down I have ever seen. We literally have to wear masks, everywhere we go, everything's closed around 11 pm and if you walk on the street after that you get fined. Such a fucking joke to be honest. It's near impossible to approach when both of you have a mask on during the day and 35 degrees C. I went to Germany and Hungary (Budapest) and it's crazy how much different it is. Literally parties in Budapest, every night, STACKED places with ove…
/r/askTRP06/08/20 09:14 PM
1

Where do you live?
/r/askTRP06/08/20 09:04 PM
9

The names of the massages are different, Nuru, Lingam, etc are erotic massages.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 08:38 PM
28

Dude, listen to me, I'm 23 and just like you. My life's all good but I fuck prostitutes too. Honestly have been addicted to it for 2 years now and spent maybe more than 10k on it. Do I regret it? No. Do I enjoy spending money on whores? Hell no. All that money, I could have used it to spend it on my future or myself. Invest in yourself, try to become the best version of yourself. I'm still trying to quit, it's hard, I don't enjoy sex anymore. It's just the thrill of finding an escort and the adr…
/r/askTRP06/08/20 08:37 PM
3

I know how you feel, I'm 23 too, no degree, worked a dead end job job for 2 years. You feel like a loser, I know the feeling, it's hard to feel confident. I'm applying for the military right now, looking forward to it. My ultimate goal is joining the special forces. As for you, stop procrastinating.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 07:30 PM
2

I'm slowly cutting off my 'close' friends. I've known them for years, but once I move out of this small town into the big city they will still hear from me, but they won't be a priority anymore. For now, I spend less time with friends who bring me down and my life is way more exciting than it was before.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 06:43 PM
14

Only read the title, but personally for me a good modern woman is someone who: - Doesn't have social media or low activity. - Has good bond with her dad/family - Works out or has any kind of hobby (don't care what) - Submissive and feminine - Doesn't have male friends - Isn't a party girl - Isn't a social justice warrior/feminist There are more but this is a quick list for me.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 06:40 PM
1

I used to let them sleep over. But I would always sleep fucking bad, I can't sleep with a girl next to me, it's way too hot. Now I send them home after sex and it's way better this way.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 06:36 PM
1

How do I make it less thirsty/needy? I want to learn.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 08:06 PM
14

Was watching a movie with 2 different girls last week, on different days and they both used the same shit test. "I bet you bring a lot of girls over here". ---> "Nah, you're only the third one today". Should have seen their faces when I said that.. Too funny. Still got laid by both of them.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 07:46 AM
9

I'm applying for the military, I have many friends there, none of them have a girlfriend. They all get laid a lot, but sometimes they're deployed for 4-8 months a year, it's impossible to have a relationship like this.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 07:40 AM
3

The nosebleeds, God, I forgot how many I had.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 09:45 AM
2

I had accutane, when I was like 15 years old. That stuff is strong, your acne will definitely go away but the side effects are crazy. Your lips and eyes are literally dried out all the time, tiredness, you feel depressed, dropped my libido by a crapload. I remember being horny all day long, after roaccutane my libido went down a lot, I'm 23 now and still suffer from this. Not sure if it lowers your testorone but I feel like it does.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 09:41 AM
1

I have this plate and I literally cancelled on her last minute 3 times in a row. She never got mad at me. Last night she was asking me to come over and I said she could. Then last minute she cancelled, saying she was in her bed and was sleepy. I honestly didn't care, it happens. Instead I didn't answer and now she has been blowing u my phone asking if I'm mad at her etc..
/r/askTRP25/07/20 06:05 PM
2

Sometimes I troll my plates, by making them think they did something bad, even though they didn't. Their hamster starts spinning, they blow up my phone and I ignore them for some time. It's funny, you should try it sometime.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 12:44 PM
7

I had two friends with low SMV. One of them was straight up skinny, he's tall, like 6'2. He didn't get ANY girls but he raised his SMV massively. Got shredded, got a clean haircut, bought new clothes, got a good job and he's getting a lot of pussy. The other one is 6' but chubby. All he cares about is drinking and eating junkfood. Back when he was skinny he was slaying, he's not bad looking. But now that he's fat, he's been on a 5+ month dry streak. He's confident but doesn't pull. I don't care …
/r/askTRP24/07/20 02:11 PM
2

Definitely city for me.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 02:06 PM
1

+1.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 02:01 PM
8

"No fat chicks". Had a feminist match me and write me a message just to report me. Tinder is just for trolling tbh.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 02:00 PM
6

True. Why the fuck am I putting 'hot' ones on a pedestal..
/r/askTRP22/07/20 10:00 PM
7

It's definitely not a magic pill like you said, but it does help a ton.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 10:00 PM
1

I live in the suburbs and it sucks, moving to a big city within the next year.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 12:00 PM
1

Right now I'm going through the hardest time in my life. Everything is going wrong. Got fired from my job, 2 plates broke, got a lawsuit against me, corona lock down making me depressed. But hey, I'm 23. I know if I work hard towards my goals, everything will fall in its place and one day I will smile and say 'I made it'. For now, I will have to get up, have been knocked down a lot of times the past weeks. But the only way now is forward.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 10:28 PM
2

Where are you meeting those girls? Online?
/r/askTRP20/07/20 08:45 PM
1

I have a bad reputation in my town. I live in small town and most of the girls think I'm a fuckboy, I still get action, but the shit tests are getting unreal. When I pull girls from the big city, where no one knows me, it's way more fun.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 08:44 PM
1

Solely because of female manipulation? No. Because of female manipulation on top of other things going on in my life? Yes.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 11:45 AM
1

I know.. I told them I can prove that my phone was broken, I still had the bill. But they didn't care, seems like they decided already. Fighting it or quitting is not an option. If I quit now I don't get welfare until I find a new job. And if I fight it, they won't give me a positive reference if I apply for another job and they decide to call my now ex boss.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 01:51 PM
1

Pharmacy field.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 06:52 PM
1

You're right, I replied to it, the post above.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 06:51 PM
1

Sadly, the job didn't give me any skills at all, nothing I can use that's valuable.. If I'd join the military I'd try to make a career out of it and aim for special forces. I have many friends in the military who made a career out of it. But yeah... I feel like I should learn a trade, I'm still young, but honestly don't know what interests me... I should look into this.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 06:51 PM
1

I've been thinking for months about aiming for special forces within the Belgian army.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 06:48 PM
1

I had been in contact with someone who had tested positive for corona. I told my boss and I had to be in lockdown for two weeks. So the company doctor calls me, I explain the situation to her and she tells me to stay home for two weeks and check in with her from time to time, I said okay. One day later my phone crashed and I brought it to the store to get it fixed, it took 2 days to fix it. During the time when I was unavailable the company doctor tried to call me 10 times a day, but my phone di…
/r/askTRP16/07/20 06:45 PM
1

Because they expect me to be professional about it and pass on my knowledge to the new guy. I wasn't fired for something work related.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 02:46 PM
1

Through cold approaching, friends, dating apps. Me and my friend have been approaching so many girls lately it's unreal.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 07:28 PM
1

I always drink rum. For the girls I have wine or martini Bellini.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 07:26 PM
6

I have a friend who doesn't lift and only cares about doing drugs and going out. The reason why he fucks so many model tier looking girls is because they get cheap/free cocaine from him. You'd be surprised how many model looking like girls use cocaine. They literally hook up with him for free coke.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 12:39 PM
5

A flake like this is a HARD next. I mean, it was 15 minutes before the date and she didn't let you know anything about her cancelling. Imagine you, waiting for her there and she never shows up, that's disrespectful. If a girl flakes a couple of hours/ a day before the date, it's a soft next, stuff can happen, don't give her attention for two weeks. But this one straight up forgot about your date, disrespectful.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 12:36 PM
3

He'll learn. Had a pussy whipped friend and his girlfriend went to study in another country for 4 months. She cheated on him when she was there. It never ends well.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 02:17 PM
2

Dude, you're 21, you have plenty of time left. Start now and stop making excuses.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 06:53 PM
1

I never go below a 6/10. Why would you bang a girl you're not even slightly attracted to? You'll just feel disgusted afterwards.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 04:18 PM
4

I've deleted every social media app, except for Facebook, I use it to check out events. Mental clarity wise it has done a lot for me. I refuse to be one of those zombies who's on their phone all the time. When I'm outside and look around, all I see are people glued to their phones. I see people at social gatherings, sitting with their friends, everyone on their phones. Saw a teen sitting with her grandmother at a restaurant, all she did was browse Instagram while her grandmother was just staring…
/r/askTRP07/07/20 03:14 PM
1

Most girls don't care about COVID. Been cold approaching in the Netherlands, Belgium and Germany. It's honestly the same as before.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 04:15 PM
2

I'm currently cutting off a lot of my friends. I've been 'avoiding' them for the past 4 weeks and those have been the best weeks of 2020 so far. They're good guys, but so fucking boring. All they want to do is hang out at the same bar every weekend where nothing exciting happens. They only want to drink beer and eat junk food. They're mad and jealous that I don't do stuff with them anymore. Honestly, I feel kind of bad for them, but cutting them off has improved my life so much in just 4 weeks, …
/r/askTRP06/07/20 04:07 PM
2

In the past I met them at a bar or in public first. Now I don't feel like doing that anymore, just invite them straight over to my place and put on a movie, highest success rate so far.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 04:01 PM
1

Two months ago my friend told me about this girl he met online. They had been texting and talking about sex. She's fat, a 4 at best and her Instagram is full of bikini pictures. He told me how she's looking for something serious and that she didn't have sex in 8 months. I started laughing. I actually looked at him in disbelief and said 'You really believe that bullshit?'. And he said yes and we got into a small argument. An average girl can have sex with 10 different dudes on the same day if she…
/r/askTRP04/07/20 03:55 PM
4

I'm from Belgium and have approached girls in my country, the Netherlands and Germany in one week. It's still easy and most young people don't care much about the virus, they just want to have fun.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 07:49 PM
2

Any tips? Delete that shit app.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 11:03 AM
3

A couple of close friends is all you need. I used to have groups of friends everywhere. Groups up to 20 people but only 5 of them I'd consider close friends. I saw many of them going after each others' girls and it was a shit fest. Now I only hang out with those friends when I go to a social gathering and see them there. But if I really want to do something cool I just hit up my close friends.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 01:59 PM
6

Dude at your apartment it's easy as fuck. Just flirt, pour her some alcohol, sit close to her and start kino, pull her close to you and just go in for the kiss when she keeps looking into your eyes.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 01:56 PM
1

I experienced the same thing. Ugly girls are socially retarded. It's like they can't even hold a conversation and they are straight up boring. I actually met up with an ugly girl from Tinder and holy shit she was boring, left her place within 10 minutes. Pretty girls atleast know how to flirt and have fun.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 09:23 PM
2

When you're giving her too much attention.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 10:43 AM
1

Tinder is only good if you live in a big city, have good pictures and if you're cheeky. Needless to say it's a huge waste of time. On Tinder you gotta aim lower. Aim for 6/10's, they're the easiest. On Tinder I pull 5-6's with the occasional hottie, but that's rare. In real life it's way easier to bang HBB 7-9's.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 05:47 PM
1

Find a job where you can work from home.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 05:35 PM
1

"So we're together right?" ----> RUN. I've had this happen a few times and a girl asking you that question is a HUGE red flag. She's insecure and nothing good will come out of it.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 05:31 PM
7

Getting flaked on sucks, that's why you need to set up multiple dates on the same day. If a girl flakes around 6 pm, no problem, you have another girl waiting for you at 8 pm. It's one of the reasons why I always keep first dates short. And if the first girl shows up and you're having fun, you can flake on the second one.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 04:35 PM
5

It's the fault of social media and men. Imagine you, a guy, a 6-7/10 at best and you hop online and have hundreds of hot chicks messaging you. Asking you to come over, pick you up, pay for your drinks/meals, etc... That's literally how the life of an AVERAGE woman is nowadays. It's so fucking easy for them. That's why TRP advises you to find a goal, something you're passionate about. Invest your time into that, instead of those stupid bitches. Girls will come and go, raise your SMV, not for girl…
/r/askTRP16/06/20 06:46 PM
1

Whatever you do, make sure the kids don't see you fighting.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 04:33 PM
1

Actually made me crack up how much I can relate. So did you ditch him or? We're actually gonna hit some bars this weekend and the beta is coming along somehow, curious how it's gonna go.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 01:53 PM
1

I know that feeling. Finally getting that HBB to suck your dick and you feel hear teeth against your dick, worst feeling ever. Nothing you can do about it, they can practice, but takes long. Some girls are better at it than others.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 01:49 PM
1

Stop making excuses and watch what you eat and start counting it. I've been doing it for two weeks now and it's easy as hell, I know most of the macro's out of my head already.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 01:45 PM
1

If you hang out with people who only play League of Legends then your life will be boring and dull, this is the best time of your life. So get out there and start living. Make new friends, go out solo.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 01:41 PM
1

23, Europe. During summer I wear black/white v-necks/t-shirts, all kind of different color linen shirts (looks dope during summer and can wear it in any color tbh blue-red-white, etc..), a light blue denim shirt and some short sleeved shirts. For pants I wear black/light brown chino's, light/dark jeans, light brown/white/black shorts. Shoes - White sneakers - light brown moccasins or boat shoes. During winter my style is totally different though.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 01:36 PM
1

Damn, sucks... examples of missing out on a ONS because of a beta friend?
/r/askTRP16/06/20 01:19 PM
1

Wish it was that easy.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 04:52 PM
2

Many times. We actually took him to the gym with us and he was making progress but quit out of nowhere. Took him shopping a few times but he always buys the weirdest skater outfits. Told him he should start watching what he eats because he's getting fat. He says he knows but eats chips/fast food almost every other day. Told him to stop hitting up girls online and hit up girls in real life. Tried a lot of things tbh but he always goes back to his old roots.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 04:49 PM
2

Yeah, that's what I meant, not gonna ditch him completely. We've tried it in the past but it's hard. He always finds out we ditched him and he gets pissed off, which is normal.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 04:44 PM
1

You'll have an amazing physique, can pull girls, high test, agressive, etc... But you'll get bald quicker, erection problems earlier, bad for your body in general, it's not really worth the trade off. The only people who take steroids are the ones who want to pull girls.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 07:10 PM
1

Make sure you find a new one before you quit.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 05:49 PM
1

Thanks, I'll check it out as well, don't care about the taste, just chug it in, just whey is really bad for me.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 05:39 PM
2

I'll check it out, thanks.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 05:39 PM
1

Sounds disgusting haha.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 05:38 PM
1

I just did, at first it was hard, but now I go weeks without porn without even realizing it.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 05:36 PM
2

Ikr, he's skinny as fuck.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 07:37 PM
4

Yeah, between 8-11 pm is the best time from my experience
/r/askTRP07/06/20 07:35 PM
1

Same. I stopped using whey protein shakes, you know better protein shakes without whey?
/r/askTRP07/06/20 07:34 PM
1

You mean ex-LTR?
/r/askTRP07/06/20 01:44 PM
1

Dude I'm 23. I never feel horny either, no morning wood ever. My diet is good,sleep 7-8hours, got my test levels checked and they're above average. Yet, I barely crave for sex, I'm satisfied with sex once a week??? You're not the only one, I'm gonna get an expert to check my hormone levels.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 06:53 PM
1

I'm in your age bracket and I've deleted Insta/Social media last year, haven't regretted if for a minute. You'll make it again and realize how shitty it is.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 10:18 AM
9

Nice, use a condom.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 07:30 PM
2

I've lived in a small town whole my life (+/- 20 000 people) and women wise it's absolutely terrible. A lot of ugly girls, everyone knows each other (which sucks). Basically every time you make out with a girl, everyone will know about it. It can work in your favor (pre-selection) but usually it's fucking annoying. Constant shit tests. Can't wait to move out of this town. The big city is women wise way better. Way better looking girls, nexting girls is so much easier because you have a low chanc…
/r/askTRP03/06/20 06:18 PM
1

This.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 06:13 PM
1

+1. Just soft next her. Meet/chat with other girls and set up dates. You'll forget about her in no time. The chances of her being interested after a few weeks of not talking is rather low.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 06:11 PM
4

The difference is huge. Started lifting when I was 17 and during that time I was more muscled than I am now. Pulling girls was so fucking easy, it was unreal. Then I broke my arm and couldn't lift seriously for 1-2 years due injuries. Getting girls became a lot harder, still possible but not like before. Now I'm slowly getting back to my old point and getting girls now has become way easier thanks to lifting, but I'm no wear yet to my goal. So from my experience, it makes a huge difference.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 06:08 PM
1

Get a hobby. You need something to be passionate about. To me it seems like you don't like living in the city. People love going out with someone with common interests. You have no hobbies or no interests in general, how do you expect to meet women when you don't go outside and have a boring life in general?
/r/askTRP01/06/20 12:02 PM
1

They don't really add value to my life. But they're really kind guys, they're the kind of guys I could call at 2 am and they would pick me up if anything happened. It's rare to find good friends these days, that's why I don't want to ditch them, but they indeed are holding me back in some kind of way. And if I want to become the best version of myself I'd have to basically ditch them because of lack of time/common interests.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 09:56 PM
2

I actually had a discussion with one of my beta friends today about the first thing you mentioned. He met this one girl on Tinder and met her once in real life, last week. He said he stopped talking to all other girls for her and when I asked if he made a move on the first date he said 'No, she's special, this is the kind of girl you need to take time with'. I tried to convince him to keep his options open but he's totally brainwashed. And the second thing is true too. I hang out with my other b…
/r/askTRP31/05/20 09:54 PM
1

They don't 'benefit' me in any way. But they're good people and I would feel like an asshole by just cutting them off.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 09:49 PM
1

Minions? Care to explain?
/r/askTRP31/05/20 09:19 PM
1

Yeah, I've never had a serious LTR. Many hookups but it makes me feel empty sometimes, not gonna lie. But, still, I love being single most of the time.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 07:05 PM
2

Hate to be one of those guys, but: Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 06:59 PM
3

Tell her she should start worrying the moment you don't want sex with her anymore.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 06:57 PM
16

They're trying to turn you into an orbiter. She isn't interested, move on.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 11:59 AM
8

Yeah, I was texting this 8/10 on Instagram. Literally did not know her but she was smoking hot so I DM'ed her and we started talking. That same day me and two friends head to a summer bar. The place was perfect, until 10pm it's a summer bar and after that it turns into a huge outdoor club. So it's 1 am and everyone's dancing, having a good time. The place was packed with hot chicks. Two chicks were checking the three of us out. You could tell they were interested, 10 minutes later two of my frie…
/r/askTRP24/05/20 11:01 AM
4

I fucking hate sex with condoms. But wrapping it up is 100% of the time the best choice.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 05:38 PM
2

One of my friends almost got no matches. He's not really goodlooking so I thought it was that. So he tried out Tinder Gold and he got up to 10 matches a day. It's rigged. Seems like you're in the lower queue if you don't pay for ti.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 09:58 AM
2

Just tell her she's cute and that you're new in the city, go from there.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 10:44 PM
28

I ignore them and focus on my job.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 05:18 PM
2

I smoked weed when I was young but now I don't do it anymore, makes me lazy.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 12:15 PM
3

Had a girl over last week and she said stupid stuff like 'Damn, I bet you bring a lot of girls over to your room'. Then I smirked and said 'Nah, you're only the third one this week'. She was offended. 30 minutes later she was sucking my dick though. Funny.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 12:13 PM
1

Tell her you love her so she will ignore you.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 05:38 PM
1

I usually tell them some dumb ass shit like "I'm waiting until marriage" with a smirk and then change the topic.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 02:43 PM
7

"Come over tonight at 9pm"
/r/askTRP18/05/20 02:41 PM
3

Dread. Or stop giving her attention so her hamster starts spinning.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 10:35 AM
1

I dated two girls with daddy issues. Both were really needy and insecure. Addicted to social media and make drama out of nowhere.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 10:34 AM
21

Showing them that you have options and willing to walk away.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 12:36 PM
1

Germany by far.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 09:13 PM
2

Quarantaine is driving me insane to be honest. Had so many plans for the summer, so many cool things I was gonna do. But now I'm stuck inside. Can't even go to the gym. What I miss the most is the social interaction. Can't believe how much I miss going outside my house during the weekend. I was literally never home but now I'm stuck inside.. I'm working on my SMV, reading, etc.. But after 2 months it's getting boring as fuck.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 06:51 PM
4

My current plate wants to cook for me, work out with me, do anything I want sexually, even wants to make me a bulk/cut schedule, etc.. Honestly the best girl I've spent my time with but no way I'm gonna date her.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 06:36 PM
3

Before corona my first dates would always be at bars. I love trying out new cocktails and it takes off the tension when both of you are tipsy. You can switch between bars and kino on the way to another bar. Now I take them to nice places close to my house. Made a walk through a forest with a girl and brought a bottle of wine. We drank it near a lake and made out there. Then took her home. Just go to a nice place you enjoy and get her tipsy. That's first dates on easy mode.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 02:51 PM
1

Yes, scars are forever, my back is full of scars.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 02:35 PM
4

Happened to me once too. Literally finished within 1 minute after a long dry streak. It was embarrassing and it went nowhere. But thinking back about it, makes me laugh.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 03:46 PM
1

Nope, I never get into the friendzone. I either get rejected or succeed, there's no inbetween.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 12:43 PM
1

Join the military.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 12:32 PM
5

run behind her and breath really loud
/r/askTRP10/05/20 06:22 PM
1

Don't worry she has 10 other guys lined up.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 02:16 PM
1

For me; Hell no. Call me shallow but being sexually attracted to your LTR is one of the key factors.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 02:07 PM
14

It's crazy how they can lie to your face, even when you know the truth. They're so good at lying, they would almost start believing they actually didn't cheat.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 02:05 PM
1

Yup, had a few good friends who I cut off. Mainly because they started hanging out with losers who only cared about doing drugs and taking steroids. Other one just smokes weed all day. Even had to cute one 'friend' off because he'd hit on any ex girlfriend I had.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 01:48 PM
1

2 years
/r/askTRP07/05/20 01:44 PM
3

I had the same thing. Was dating a pretty girl but she got too comfortable and started eating a lot of chocolate and unhealthy stuff in general. She was gaining weight fast and I told her a few times that it's not attractive when a girl eats candy all the time. She was getting heavier and I broke up with her (not the only reason). Now, 1 year forward she has gained even more weight. She has a boyfriend but still. They 90% of the time won't change their eating habits.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 02:10 PM
1

This is why I hate online stuff. One of my new plates was texting me but I was celebrating my friends' birthday and we were pretty drunk. So we called her and said she should come over and bring a cute friend for my friend. She said she didn't know anyone. I jokingly said, well, it will be a threesome then. I was obviously kidding but she blew up, saying I was childish and disrespectful. She said we shouldn't see each other anymore. I said it's fine and she sent me like 2-3 messages afterwards b…
/r/askTRP03/05/20 06:08 PM
5

I'm on a 7 week dry streak. It's driving me insane from time to time since I don't fap but I use that energy for my workouts. Will get girls once the lockdown is over, online dating is a waste of time IMO
/r/askTRP03/05/20 02:40 PM
3

Same.. I only hang out with girls who I want to fuck. I got my boys to do stuff with I actually enjoy.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 12:05 PM
5

Get a weekend job as a bartender, that's what I'm gonna do after the lockdown.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 01:43 PM
3

Work on your cardio, start how to make cocktails, delete social media. That's the stuff I'm doing in my free time during quarantaine.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 03:43 PM
1

The worst is when you have a blue pilled boss. I have female coworkers who suck up to my boss and he can't even see through their bullshit. Luckily I'm not staying here for too long.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 10:00 AM
13

I have a friend who thinks he's alpha. Lies about girls and as soon as he has one fuckbuddy he spends his time 24/7 with her.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 04:21 PM
1

Been there. I've once fucked a MILF while her husband was in the next room and it was so fucking weird.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 07:04 PM
1

I get where you're coming from. During the week I work night shifts though so it wouldn't really mess up my schedule.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 02:39 PM
1

Every bartender says the same thing, a lot of free ass. I have around 5 friends who have experience with working in hospitality and they all got massive pussy during that time. I always thought they over exaggerated but thinking about it, it's possible. Lots of booze, hot chicks, everyone in a good mood. A lot of stuff can happen. And about your resume. That's actually a really good idea, lying about experience, because it's the only barrier. Never thought about it, it's all about confidence. Th…
/r/askTRP21/04/20 02:28 PM
1

Yeah, he said the same thing. But apparently it's the step to becoming a bartender.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 02:21 PM
1

This is the exact reason why I deleted my social media.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 03:28 PM
1

This sounds perfect. My ex LTR would text me non stop, it would drive me crazy.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 03:25 PM
1

Gonna get a side job as a bartender. One of my friend's a bartender and he has been teaching me a lot of stuff. You get to make cocktails, go to a lot of cool events, make money and meet cute chicks. Work my ass off in the gym
/r/askTRP19/04/20 03:23 PM
1

- Started learning how to make cocktails like the bartenders do - Been working on my cardio - Quitting my prostitute addiction
/r/askTRP19/04/20 03:22 PM
1

2 Days to respond? It's over, buddy.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 03:20 PM
3

Damn, sucks to hear. You handled it really well, on to the next one.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 10:13 PM
13

Only way to find out is by escalating.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 07:40 AM
1

Dude, I'm 22 too and I feel the exact same way.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 07:03 AM
1

Been there.. they were both psycho.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 07:40 PM
1

Ignored the daddy issues two times, never again...
/r/askTRP13/04/20 07:38 PM
1

Sometimes I want to move away. All the things that I like to do are nearly impossible in my country. If I was living in another country my life would look so much different tbh.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 07:31 PM
1

I have zero plates right now. There's one girl from work though who wants to bang but not gonna shit where I eat.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 07:29 PM
1

Yeah, women already had a crapload of orbiters before the corona breakout. Now everyone's stuck inside and they get even more validation. Even more thirsty guys around now so it's normal I guess.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 02:27 PM
3

Apply strong dread.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 02:25 PM
1

Just go to events where you like the music lol.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 08:18 AM
2

Unacceptable behavior for a 'GF'.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 06:36 PM
1

I only have Whatsapp too and it has never been an issue.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 08:29 AM
1

The stuff people write on there ..
/r/askTRP10/04/20 08:47 PM
2

Never date social media sluts crew checking in.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 08:45 PM
1

Thanks for the answer, congrats on ur progress by the way. How much % bodyfat are you now?
/r/askTRP07/04/20 11:42 PM
2

Haven't met a women yet who isn't addicted to social media in my age range (18-25).
/r/askTRP06/04/20 03:18 PM
1

What do you mean, what should you do here? Ignore and move on with your life, this bitch is wasting your time.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 05:05 PM
1

I never was someone who used social media a lot. Had all the apps but they were pretty empty, didn't have many pictures on Instagram so I was better off without it. My friends are on it all the time but it makes me cringe when I'm at a social gathering and everyone's glued to their phone.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 04:55 PM
0

Lame
/r/askTRP30/03/20 07:25 PM
2

For me it's Sweden and Russia/Eastern Europe.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 12:55 AM
3

I live in a small town and it's the worst, gonna move out of here in 1-2 years.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 12:53 AM
1

I'm 22 and horny all day long, can't go out to have sex and I don't fap, it's driving me crazy. Pornhub premium is free now and I had urges to fap and bust some loads but I haven't yet, porn ruined so many great nights for me where I couldn't get it up because of PIED, stay strong.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 04:46 PM
1

Me and my best friend are falling apart too. I want to move to the big city, socialize and work towards my future. All he wants to do is play videogames, eat, drink alcohol and buy the house next to his parents' house, he's scared of stepping out of his comfort zone. He gained like 20kg fat as well.. Not taking care of himself. I love him but we barely hang out anymore, haven't seen him in months, feels bad man.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 04:18 PM
8

you're a faggot
/r/askTRP22/03/20 02:30 PM
2

+1. Experienced the same thing with my ex LTR and her mom, was a huge pain in the ass.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 01:48 AM
1

I have the same problem but with me it's not because of a breakup since I'm not even interested in a LTR. I'm 22, got my test levels checked and they're above average. Yet I don't feel horny, never have morning wood, I barely fap, maybe once a month and don't feel like having sex. I did steroids when i was 17 so my hormones could be fucked, not suree. I had an appointment with an endo but it got cancelled due the corona shit..
/r/askTRP21/03/20 12:23 PM
3

Same issue here... gonna go monk mode.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 08:21 PM
0

Quitting cold turkey isn't gonna happen. You need to build it off, trust me, I've been there.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 08:18 PM
2

I was like you. Started going out when I was 15/16. Drank myself until I embarrassed myself. Quitting cold turkey won't work for you. When I go out I just limit my drinks.. I'll have 2-3 cocktails or whatever u like to drink and then I stick to water. You'll have to get used to it at the beginning but I like this way more. I get a solid buzz and the water prevents me a hangover or getting too drunk, try it man.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 09:18 AM
1

Same man.. I live in Belgium and everything's in lockdown until 3rd of april.. Sucks so hard.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 05:06 PM
1

I'm 22 and I experienced the same shit as you. Few short relationships and never been into a romantic relationship. Sometimes I wonder how it would feel like to be head over heels for a girl and actually enjoying hanging out with her. I get bored with women really easily and not a single one has caught my interest yet. I've never had that feeling where I wanted to be with a girl 24/7. It's weird sometimes but I guess it's a good thing.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 05:17 PM
1

Dude, I experienced the same thing with this 58 year old women who had the same rank as me. Best thing to do is to call her out on her bullshit. Women like her are not used to people calling her out on their annoying behaviour. Ignoring her is one option, but I know how much it can make you rage. She'll keep doing it since you let her walk over you. Call her out on her shit.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 05:58 PM
2

During the weekends, when I'm socializing, at a bar, sport event or festival/club, ... etc, I'll look around and notice that everyone is glued to their phones. Makes me sad how people are out with all of their friends and are STILL browsing social media apps, I mean... your friends are right next to you. Then they wonder why so many people are depressed nowadays. Sometimes I wish I was in my 20's in the 70's. Just so I could experience how life would be like without phones, almost sounds like a …
/r/askTRP11/03/20 05:52 PM
1

Yeah, just soft next her for now. Focus on other girls and call her 2 weeks later.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 04:07 PM
5

I love techno too, just let the XTC kick in and dance until 8am.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 04:05 PM
5

Dude, getting them to your room is the hard part. If they're in your room, just put a movie on, put your arm around her and start kissing her, escalate from there.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 10:31 PM
1

She has your number, she flaked twice and just got cheated on by her boyfriend. If she's interested, she'll text you, just delete her number so you can't text her anymore. If she texts you first, good, make her chase a bit, but I doubt she will.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 10:30 PM
16

Whatever you do, don't do it through social media. Best way is to bump into one of your ex's friends at a social gathering when they're drunk and when your ex is not around. Just tell them bullshit that you always thought they were cute but that you couldn't say it because you were dating her friend. See how she responds and go on from there. I've used this technique in the past lol.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 10:23 PM
2

Depends how many times a week you see each other. It's actually good for a LTR if there's time to miss each other. Otherwise both of you will get bored.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 10:19 PM
5

Depends on the shit test tbh. Best results for me are AA'ing. It can be fun but in general shit test turn me off too.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 05:44 PM
1

Don't do it.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 05:42 PM
6

+1, everything this guy said was spot on, couldn't have said it any better.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 07:41 PM
2

Was exactly thinking this. Op, you have oneitis. What you should do is hard next and block her.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 12:10 PM
2

Reading this was eye opening. I'm experiencing the exact same thing. 22 Years old and I've been visiting prostitutes for the past 2 years now, up to 1-2 hookers a week. It's honestly unhealthy and I've been trying to quit but it's so hard, I live 15 minutes away from the Red Lights District here in my city and the money is not an issue. I find myself browsing the redlights website as well and it's fucking up my brain like porn does. I have no desire to chase girls, I fuck a hooker every week, wh…
/r/askTRP04/03/20 12:00 PM
2

Dump her if it really bothers you that much. She's testing your limits. Girls only get boobjobs for attention/validation from other guys.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 01:02 PM
-15

Don't follow this trash advice.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 09:11 PM
1

Delete social meida. And judging from your name you take steroids, cut that shit out IF you are using them, they make you feel depressed.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 05:38 PM
1

It's definitely possible. Look up your macro's. Train hard, eat healthy, rest enough, stay away from alcohol. You can definitely add 1.5kg of muscle a month if you work hard for it. If you want to put in the work that is.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 01:41 PM
2

I don't recall saying anything about 10% bodyfat in my comment. So I don't know why these guys are talking about it in their comments. And no, not saying ripped is 10% BF no matter what, but you're 68kg. Someone who weighs 90kg can be ripped at 15% for exemple but you're too skinny right now. Your goal for now should be 75-80kg and 10-12% bodyfat (if you want to look ripped before summer). Don't listen to these losers who tell you that you look good at 68kg and 15% bodyfat. You're average right …
/r/askTRP02/03/20 01:35 PM
9

Good job on losing so much weight and training so hard. But you're 68kg and 15% bodyfat, you're no way near ripped. As for social media, don't. You're better off without social media. You're on the road to succes, don't waste your time on social media.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 12:52 PM
1

I had to consciously remember the feeling after seeing escorts, which was one of emptiness and regret. Man, I know this feeling. Been trying to quit but I work nightshifts and can't sleep before 6 am during the weekends, so I find myself getting bored and then I just fuck an escort..
/r/askTRP01/03/20 05:39 PM
1

Good it can only go better from here on out.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 05:36 PM
3

Why the fuck are you posting this in ASKTRP?
/r/askTRP01/03/20 05:34 PM
1

You're trying too hard. Asking if she didn't like your picture came over as insecure and beta. Don't send pictures in the first place.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 05:33 PM
2

Whey protein and milk make me bloat hard. I cut them out of my diet. Gonna cut down on carbs around may as well.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 12:38 AM
6

I have the same shit, and it's annoying as fuck, had to sneak some girls out of my house the next morning while my mom was in the room next to me. Now I just sneak them in at night or fuck them in my car.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 12:34 AM
1

Whatever you do, don't give her a second chance. Hard next.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 05:30 PM
1

Same thing happened to me. Went on a date and we didn't click. Wished each other the best and just went NC on each other. Just move on to the next one.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 05:28 PM
1

i'm addicted too, I visit one too every week. Money is not an issue but it makes me feel empty and lonely like you said. I'm trying to quit but it's so hard.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 05:22 PM
2

How did you quit?
/r/askTRP29/02/20 05:21 PM
1

It's very addicting like other said. I've done it for 2 years now, spent a lot of money on it. Had fun times, but it's definitely not worth it in the long run.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 05:21 PM
6

Would like to know it as well. I'm experiencing the same thing. Genuinely don't care what they have to say. It's mainly because most girls talk about a lot of stupid stuff. I've maybe met 1-2 girls who could talk about interesting stuff (other than my family members).
/r/askTRP28/02/20 03:49 PM
2

In a few months you'll think back about the time you broke up with her and smile because it was the right choice.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 10:51 PM
4

How the fuck is this wife material?
/r/askTRP27/02/20 08:29 PM
1

Big red flag. I remember dating a girl like that and she was so fucking childish. Asking her to do something? brb, had to ask mom for permission.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 08:28 PM
1

I work in industry A. Been working here for 2 years now. The pay is amazing, I've been saving a crapload of money and when I make plans I don't have to worry about money. There is no challenge at all, I have zero motivation for the job. Drama all the time here and a lot of retarded people who are just here for the money. It pays a lot because it's located in the pharmacy industry. I feel so trapped here, the reason why I haven't quit is because I will go down another road in September and won't …
/r/askTRP26/02/20 10:58 PM
0

I remember making out (just kissing) with this girl who works in a night club. The day after the make out I woke up with a huge cold sore (probably from her). Recently she went to Thailand for 3 weeks. She kept texting, telling me how much she wanted sex. And once she gets back that I should come right over to her place. Asking me to fuck her raw etc. I tell her to get tested and she said she would. She got back last weekend, I saw her at a party and she kept asking for sex. We made out for mayb…
/r/askTRP26/02/20 01:51 AM
1

My only theory is that she can tell I’m desperate to have sex This made me cringe and laugh at the same time. You said awkward stuff happened AND she pulled away quickly when you went for the next kiss. At the hot tub, did you make a move?? Seems like you just talked and maybe tried to kiss her 2 times.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 08:45 PM
1

I used to invite them over to my place for the first date. But my succes rate was so low. Now I get a drink with them at a new bar which I wanted to try out, she's just tagging along, works great. I get to chill at a new bar and get sex out of it, win win.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 05:29 PM
1

+1
/r/askTRP19/02/20 05:27 PM
1

If she flakes = not interested, just move on.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 05:26 PM
2

Thereapy won't do shit.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 05:24 PM
1

I have the same issue so I know how you feel. 22 years old, work out, good diet, test level is above average, sleep 7 hours a night, never have morning wood/random erections. I don't fap/watch porn so I don't know what's wrong. I know your feeling, it's so frustrating. I actually visited a doctor yesterday and he's gonna take a look at my blood. Hopefully he'll find something so it gets fixed.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 07:57 PM
1

No social media is better than having a boring and empty one. I see plenty of people pulling from social media. It's good if you have a cool page, full of pictures where you're doing cool shit. But if your IG page is empty you will look like a loser with a boring life. I've never been someone who takes a lot of pictures, so that's why I don't use social media. It's funny when I go out to events and everyone is glued to their phones instead of enjoying the moment. Hiking for the sake of getting a…
/r/askTRP17/02/20 03:35 PM
2

I used to binge drink with my friends every weekend. I still go out with my friends, to events, but I just drink less (like 2 beers then water), been feeling great.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 08:21 PM
1

Dude, you're overthinking. Just go on the date, do something you like, have fun, flirt a bit with her and see how it goes. If the vibe is good, go in for the kiss. It's just a fucking kiss dude. You need to stop planning shit like texting them 2 days later. Just text her whenever you want to fuck. Watching a movie? Invite her over. Having a drink at a bar? Invite her to join. Just do stuff you like and make her tag along. it's simple.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 08:17 PM
2

There's hundreds of girls in your city, if this one flakes, just find another one.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 07:22 PM
2

The average in my country is 1400 euros/month and I earn 2700 euros/month here. So almost double.
/r/askTRP13/02/20 05:46 PM
1

Thanks might look into that. It's Java, C+++ etc?
/r/askTRP13/02/20 05:45 PM
1

Get a prepaid phone card/new sim number.
/r/askTRP13/02/20 04:30 PM
4

I've dated a couple of girls who were addicted to social media and posted pictures like that before I discovered TRP. Now I would never LTR a girl who's hungry for attention on Instagram. Why else would she post an almost naked picture on the beach? Scan better before you LTR them, this is basic shit.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 04:36 PM
2

Why's bartender not an option for you?
/r/askTRP08/02/20 10:41 PM
1

I started going out with two new friends. One is female and the other is male. Both of them know a lot of hot women. So right now I meet women through them or by going out during the weekend.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 01:57 PM
4

The online dating game has changed. Tinder used to be fun back in the day. Loads of matches, constantly trolling girls and actually getting something out of it. Nowadays every girl has her Instagram in their bio. They just want followers. Best way to get girls online now is through Instagram tbh. You can just comment on their story and start a conversation from there. But I don't have social media anymore. My succes rate in real life is massive compared to online.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 03:53 PM
1

I feel the exact same way. I live in a small town too, Tinder is fucking shit here. Girls on there are boring as fuck so I ended up deleting it. Gonna move out of the small town so I can approach more girls irl.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 03:48 AM
46

I live in a small town and it's fucking boring here.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 03:41 AM
0

I work night shifts. It's alright, but gonna switch to the military in September.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 08:15 PM
1

There's no point in asking. Why bother trying to be friends with someone like him?
/r/askTRP29/01/20 08:17 PM
2

I had been friends with this one dude for 8 years. We'd do anything together... get girls, workout, travel, study, party, ... But last two years he has been a giant bitch so I decided to cut him off.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 08:15 PM
1

Same but it made me feel depressed and my lips dried out
/r/askTRP29/01/20 06:37 PM
2

I am 22 too. I've always had social media, met people through it, went on dates, etc... But not one of them is close to me to this day. My closest friends, ex girlfriends, gym buddies, etc... Everyone close to me, I've met them in real life. Social media is alright if you can make money off it. I only use Facebook for the messenger and to check out events during the weekend. Instagram is a massive ego contest and I deleted it. I've never had Twitter and Snapchat is dead. Tinder... still shit. So…
/r/askTRP26/01/20 02:53 PM
1

Things I do with my boys: - Bar hopping and trying out new drinks (good to meet girls as well) - Hiking - Poker night - Videogames or a LAN party - Go to Techno events - Restaurant and discover new places to eat - Play sports (football, basketball, gym, ...) - Drive to the nearest big city - Fishing - etc
/r/askTRP09/01/20 06:02 PM
2

Same, on monk mode, goodluck man. And for Tinder plus, I've tried it. But I hate using online apps, I have much more success in real life, but for now it's a good time killer, might get it again.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 06:24 PM
4

I wish I could but I want to buy a place in 1-2 years, it's the best move for me. I don't want to waste money on rent. So it's best for me to save up for a house.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 06:22 PM
2

Yup.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 06:20 PM
8

You live in a small town too? I get laid here but I have more succes in bigger cities.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 03:48 PM
1

Maybe. However, I think oneitis is less likely in a bigger city = more options.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 03:47 PM
1

I have shitty pictures on Tinder, maybe banged 4-5 girls on it over all the years which is like a 1% bang rate compared to all the matches I've had. In real life it's so fucking easy to pull girls during night game/social circle. Haven't tried day game, might move to a bigger city, everyone knows each other here... So... on Tinder I have a 1% bang rate, in real life I'd say around 20%.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 05:04 PM
1

Yes, one of them is probably into her and will whiteknight her. Or you can bet money that she has hooked up with atleast one of them in the past.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 03:28 PM
3

Good, it can only go better from here on out.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 04:34 PM
1

Fucking savage, made me spit out my drink from laughing too hard.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 04:31 PM
29

You should write her a letter and sing a love song outside of her house and propose to her.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 05:54 PM
3

Yes, I got into prostitutes after starting NoFap/NoPorn two years ago. It started with once a month and now I almost visit 2 hookers a week for 50 EURO's each. I'm addicted to prostitutes, not gonna lie. I've had sex with up to 70 hookers in two years... My real N-count is 10 (I'm 22), I pull girls but I hate going out on dates. However, I feel terrible. I've been trying to quit but I can't. I've had sex with girls who literally look like photomodels/pornstars but it doesn't feel rewarding at al…
/r/askTRP05/11/19 05:45 PM
2

Ikr, it looks so autistic, no way I'm gonna read that.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 11:27 PM
1

On a first date you should ask the girl to meet your parents and talk about marriage and mention you want 3 kids, a daughter and two sons.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 11:17 PM
1

I've lost trust in my best friend yes. Right now, there's only 3 people I trust for 99%
/r/askTRP31/10/19 04:28 PM
1

You should. Last city trip was Prague. It's cheap as fuck there, a lot of stuff to do and beautiful girls everywhere.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 03:34 PM
1

I'm 22 and getting a 1k bonus too, congrats! I was gonna spend it on hookers but got bored of that. Probably gonna make city trips through Europe. From my city it's cheap as fuck.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 04:53 PM
0

Why are you talking about getting cockblocked when you don't even want this girl? This girl is obviously playing games and your beta friend is too dumb to notice it, she's trying to make him jealous, she loves the attention. So far you've been a good friend. If you don't consider him a close friend, fuck this girl. But if he's a close friend, ignore her and spend your time on better things...
/r/askTRP29/10/19 04:36 PM
1

Just say 'no worries' or 'alright'. Nothing else... soft next her for two weeks and try again. Game other girls for now.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 06:10 PM
15

I've dated one girl and three months into the LTR I could not deal with her annoying shit anymore. It were small things but they ruined the vibe so many times. Had a good date with my LTR, it's 2 am and we had sex and cuddled. I said I was gonna sleep and she kept talking. I asked her to be quiet since I was tired and couldn't sleep. She kept fucking talking and I was ignoring her, hoping she would shut up. Suddenly she started asking if I was mad and I said that I just wanted to sleep. She kept…
/r/askTRP21/10/19 07:01 PM
1

Back when I had Tinder my bio said 'I have good taste in women'. Worked like a charm.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 07:11 PM
2

I had the exact same date and afterwards I realized how much I screwed up. We were sitting across each other too, she had to work in 1 hour so couldn't switch bars. She was talking a lot, it was going alright but it was nearly impossible to escalate like this. I tried to set up another date a week later and she said we didn't vibe. I'm not mad/sad about it. I gained a lot of experience from this one screw up. It felt like we were out as friends and not on a date.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 02:36 AM
1

One of my close friends started doing it. We have the same social circle but he lies and flakes all the time. I've called him out on it, he starts acting overly kind as well but I can see through his bullshit. I started expanding my social circle and I'm doing fine without him. Meanwhile he's bored at home while I'm having fun. So pathetic to see him texting 5 times in a row nearly begging to hang out after flaking on me 5+ times. The best way to act is to stop making plans with him. When you se…
/r/askTRP17/10/19 01:32 PM
0

Yes
/r/askTRP15/10/19 07:20 PM
1

stfu nofap autist
/r/askTRP15/10/19 04:34 PM
1

avoid them
/r/askTRP05/10/19 12:36 AM
3

Depends on the music. If it's Techno, I can dance all night long and enjoy the music. If it's shitty RnB I just grind with girls and move on from there. But my main objective is never to go to clubs for girls.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 04:49 PM
10

I remember making out at clubs for hours back when I was 16-18. What I noticed back then is that most girls were drunk as hell and would kiss agressive as fuck. They would literally put their tongue in my mouth and my friends said it looked like the girl was eating me, but I was too drunk too care. Now that I look back at it, sounds pretty disgusting haha. Now that I'm 22 I feel like I've improved a lot and the trick to being a good kisser is using less tongue. Make sure you're the one who's lea…
/r/askTRP30/09/19 05:03 PM
5

You are asking the wrong questions. The only thing that mattered is that she invited you back to her room and you keep complaining about shit that doesn't matter. You sound like a giant cry baby. Just enjoy the night.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 01:40 PM
10

Recover what? You were a cuck who paid for her drinks and she was making out with someone else... in front of you. Look at this the positive way, you failed, but you know what you did wrong, so next time, you won't make the stupid mistake of paying for a girl her drinks. And how to move on quickly? She disrespected you big time, just do your own thing and flirt other girls, simple.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 03:10 AM
1

You can't be serious, are you really this retarded?
/r/askTRP28/09/19 05:19 PM
6

You raised your SMV, just use her for sex.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 07:17 PM
1

In my opinion they're fine to plate, but definitely not for a LTR. Dated one for a few months, before I discovered TRP. Social media was her life, would post selfies everyday on Instagram and wanted to go clubbin' every weekend. She was addicted to attention since her father didn't give it to her. When I was busy with stuff she would triple text me, asking if I'm mad at her and when I said I was busy she would act butthurt and like a child, it was so damn exhausting. Since her father was such a …
/r/askTRP24/09/19 02:10 PM
1

I live in Antwerpen but not sure what you want to talk about?
/r/askTRP24/09/19 01:27 PM
3

She's just not interested. Same thing happened to me last saturday. Made plans on wednesday. On friday I confirm the date, she does too and I tell her where to meet me, I wake up saturday morning and this bitch gave me some bullshit excuse. Instead of calling her out on it I just said 'Okay'. And made other plans. I have zero tolerance for flaky attention whores. Deleted her number and she won't hear from me again. My time is valuable and if she wastes it = hard next. But I understand your 2 str…
/r/askTRP23/09/19 03:06 PM
1

In my opinion he's redpilled. Told his wife to shut the fuck up in the later seasons and worked hard to achieve all of his goals. He developed that IDGAF attitude. He didn't quit because in the end he loved doing what he did, he felt alive. He had never felt this good and basically became a badass motherfucker. In my eyes that's redpilled, who cares about having a mistress.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 03:00 PM
3

Thomas Shelby, Walter White (later seasons), Ragnar from Vikings, ...
/r/askTRP22/09/19 02:03 PM
0

This sub is literally called 'ask the red pill'. This sub is made to ask questions, you can just ignore the thread and move on with your life. Some people man.. they complain about anything, why the fuck do you care? Stop crying little bitch.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 01:56 PM
11

Tinder is shite, I recommend you to delete it. But if you want advice... stop inviting them over to your place right away, it does work on some girls if your SMV is high enough but I doubt it is right now, since you can't pull off Tinder. Get the number, invite them over to X place, lets say drinks around 8 pm at a bar near your or her place and then build some rapport. Then use plausible deniability and fuck them.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 06:30 PM
1

I've actually been thinking about joining the army too and aim for special forces... I work night shifts now, the pay is good, it's close to home and I'll never have money problems. But there's no fucking challenge and it bothers me sometimes. What I love about the army is the friendship, seeing the world, be in shape, have a challenge (special forces). The pay is shit though, but that's not why you should join the army in the first place. It all sounds so cool, but I live in Belgium, and this c…
/r/askTRP26/08/19 06:58 PM
5

LOL, the stuff about the beta dudes is real. Had a group of 5 beta's stand next to us and they kept getting rejected. They kept asking me how I did it and said other cringy shit. One guy started telling me how he was texting a girl non stop but she was ignoring him, I was like, dude look around, there are pletnty of girls, go find one. It was indeed eye opening how many blue pilled cringy weirdo's were around. The stuff you wrote was exactly the same thing I experienced.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 04:45 AM
59

honestly bro, I don't think the sluttiness is what disgusts you. I think it's the extremely unattractive way in which drunk girls act. not many ways easier to knock a girl down a few points in attractiveness than her being drunk IMO. it's the uncontrolled, unladylike, retardedness in their behavior that is stupid enough in dudes but is 10x as stupid when girls do it. I agree. But the sluttiness did disgust me. Nothing more unattractive than a girl who makes out with 7 other girls and then walks …
/r/askTRP25/08/19 03:33 PM
12

Apart from the gay club thing this sounded like the exact same scenario... My co-worker and the girl who I made out with mentioned a threesome but I don't fuck co-workers and the other girl was too fucked up. Crazy how so many girls make out with other girls, atleast 90% of the girls I know has atleast made out once with another girl, these girls started telling me stories about the stuff they've done together and with other guys and it was disgusting. And your story is crazy too. It's true they…
/r/askTRP25/08/19 03:29 PM
25

Like trunksshortsman said, mingle with other girls, talk to other people, that's what I did. You can use it to your advantage. Going out with girls solo has it's benefits, saw a lot of girls checking me out. Probably wondering why these girls were all over me, it raises your SMV I guess.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 03:26 PM
14

Yeah.. I think they took drugs on the toilet without telling me, the way they acted was too exteme.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 03:24 PM
30

Same.. when I go out with friends and pull a girl, it's different. I spend maybe 30-40 minutes dancing with her, before I take her home, so I don't notice the attention seeking as much. Now I spent 5 hours sober with these girls. It was honestly crazy.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 03:02 PM
1

Why? He's 157 lbs, he needs to bulk up, he's skinny as fuck.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 02:08 PM
-2

Eat more, around 3500 kcal a day 150g protein a day 500g carbs a day 70g fats a day
/r/askTRP23/08/19 11:54 PM
1

Back when I was a bitch I had one-itis for this girl. She played games with me until I raised my SMV. The girl was all over me, I fucked her a few times, played the same mindgames that she had used on me. Ended up making out with her best friend in front of her. They have never been friends again after that. Her best friend is one of my plates now.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 03:52 PM
46

Women become the biggest sluts when they're drunk, holy fuck. Had this new girl at work who was extremely shy. She didn't say a word to anyone at work. I bumped into her and her best friend at a party. I knew her best friend from Tinder, we had actually talked before. Both of them were really shy and it was boring so I did my own thing. I bump into them 2 hours later and they're shit faced drunk. My co-worker said she wanted to whisper something in my ear, so I lean in, she grabs my face and sta…
/r/askTRP18/08/19 06:41 PM
1

Facebook: to check out events. Bumped into a lot of cool events thanks to Facebook, it's the only reason why I'm keeping it. Messenger; Basically for the group chat with my friends. It's fun. Instagram: Deleted this app countless of times. I use it to weed out attention whores, will probably delete it again. I think you're a bit paranoid about the whole government thing though.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 02:56 PM
1

Ragnar Lothbrock and Walter White.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 11:00 AM
2

lol at being 41 and dating 22 years old
/r/askTRP23/07/19 04:00 PM
2

My go to outfit when I'm at a hot festival is: Short sleeve shirt (preferably white), shorts and espadrilles. You can open up all the buttons of the short sleeve shirt. If you're in good shape, chicks love it.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 03:51 PM
2

Hey, well.. we didn't talk for like 2 weeks after the text conversation. Last thursday I called her, had some inside jokes about what happened during that one night. I said she should meet me for drinks the next day at 8pm. She told me she had to work saturday morning at 6am so she wanted to stay home and head to bed early. She has to work every other saturday which is a pain in the ass, since I 'm only available during the weekend, so I said 'Alright, no problem' and basically ended it there. H…
/r/askTRP22/07/19 04:17 PM
1

I'm kinda new to cold approaching myself but usually I ask them out on Wednesday for that friday or saturday. Just call them, say i'm going to X place at X time and ask her if she wants to tag along. For exemple, if I meet a girl on Monday and I get her number, I'll call her up on Wednesday and say something like 'Hey, this is AuberyBitoni from the other day, I'm going to X city this Friday. let's grab drinks at 8pm afterwards.' That's how I'd do it, call her, give her a time and place, that's i…
/r/askTRP21/07/19 07:11 PM
1

You're right but commuting is not only sitting on an empty train, being able to do school work.. Could be driving, walking to school and back took 30 minutes, sometimes I had train rides where the train was so overpopulated that people literally had to squeeze into each other. So, I get your point, but it has nothing to do with being lazy, sometimes it's just not possible, unless you always travel on an empty train, which was not the case most of the time.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 12:05 PM
1

I commuted 3 years to school (2-3 hours total a day) and I absolutely hated it. Wasted 10-15 hours a week commuting to fucking school and back, that's a crapload of time you could have spent on something else. I'd just call my roommate out on his bullshit.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 05:16 PM
2

Sounds like you described one of my toxic friends. He turned into a social justice warrior and needs to comment on everything. Always ruins the vibe for everyone by being a toxic cunt. I started making plans without him and the past few weeks have been amazing, just cut him off.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 07:08 PM
8

Video game addiction, it wastes so much fucking time.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 07:05 PM
7

Fap once every 7-10 days without porn, that's it.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 07:04 PM
3

It does matter because you have no abundance mentality and write a big ass thread about an ex who dumped you for Chad. Now she's back and you're too big of a cuck to reject her and move on with your life. If you had options you wouldn't even care about your ex. But since you're a little bitch, go for it.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 01:38 PM
1

What is the point of this thread? She's an ex for a reason , got engaged twice and left you for a chad, yet you're giving her another chance. Are you hoping we will tell you to go and fuck her? The only answer is to block her and go NC but I doubt you will do that, enjoy getting cucked.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 01:02 PM
1

Thanks, 6 days have passed so far, will take my time.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 06:51 PM
2

nice
/r/askTRP03/07/19 12:04 PM
2

Had over hundreds of matches, probably only hooked up with like 5-10 girls from that app, that's why I deleted it.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 05:30 PM
3

I'm 22 too and girls our age are fucking boring. They have no hobbies, only talk about themselves, are addicted to social media. There are fun girls out there though.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 05:05 PM
2

Atleast 50. I live in a small town and every girl is atleast 20 miles away. Glad I quit online dating.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 05:03 PM
7

Most fun I've had while approaching/flirting is not giving a fuck. Going in with the goal of being rejected. Doesn't matter what you say, just have a cheeky smile, dress well, be confident and lift. The dumbest pickup line that worked for me was during night game. I walked up to a girl and said 'Help me!'. She was like 'Whats wrong?'. I said 'Help, someone put viagra in my drink'. This is honestly the most retarded line I've ever used but she laughed and we made out that night. Always makes me c…
/r/askTRP01/07/19 04:55 PM
6

He's obviously lying. Imagine counting your lays.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 12:18 PM
32

For me it's all about holding frame and having your own life, she is just an addition to it, not whole my world is about her. If I'm out with friends or am at the gym, I will not check my phone. It does not mean I'm ignoring her, I'm just busy and she should have her own life. If she decides to throw a cold shoulder at me for that, I won't care. She will be mad at me and call me an asshole but who cares, I've done nothing wrong and soon after she realizes I won't pull up with her bullshit she wi…
/r/askTRP01/07/19 12:13 PM
1

Make sure to eat plenty of beans.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 04:08 PM
2

I'm not a virgin. I was getting laid before NoFap but it definitely helped me. NoFap cured my ED and death grip. When I would fap atleast once a day my dick would feel numb. Quitting masturbation fixed that problem, so yeah NoFap worked in some way. Don't go to the NoFap sub though. They will try to brainwash you and there are plenty of posts where guys are depressed since they ruined their streak. Just fap in moderation, like I said, once every 7-10 days WITHOUT PORN. Goodluck
/r/askTRP28/06/19 03:26 PM
1

Same... nothing more embarrassing than pulling a girl from the club and not being able to get it up... Was probably because of the alcohol too though.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 01:43 PM
3

I started watching porn when I was 11-12. My peak was 3-4 times a day, would have multiple tabs open and wank up to 4 times a day, would feel tired all the time and couldn't get my dick up near a girl at the age of fucking 17. That's when I realized something was wrong, I had deathgrip and porn fucked up my brain. That's when I started reading into NoFap. And yes, even after short intervals I get horny af, it's normal, the first 10 days are the hardest for me, the secret is to stop counting days…
/r/askTRP28/06/19 01:40 PM
12

I'm 22 too and I had streaks up to 70 days. Honestly, rubbing one out once in a while is necessary for me. I try to do it once every 7-10 days WITHOUT PORN. I tried to quit fapping completely but sometimes I just have to. I will get so horny and can't think straight, was almost considering fucking whales when I was on a 20+ NoFap streak. Once you get plates or a LTR you should quit fapping though, but as long as you're single limit it to once every 7-10 days without porn and you'll be fine. I re…
/r/askTRP27/06/19 06:59 PM
1

LOL, this happened to me too. Was on a second date with a girl and on the date she already asked me for a LTR. Back then I was blue pilled as fuck. I didn't see this massive red flag. I told her what she wanted to hear and boy I fucked it up. She thought she was my girlfriend, would message me all day long, get angry if I didn't respond within 5 minutes and thought I was cheating on her. Asking for a LTR so soon is a MASSIVE red flag, it shows how needy and insecure she is.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 04:31 PM
1

I'm 22 too and am not attracted to 18 year olds... I find it weird how guys in their late twenties, early thirties date 18 year olds. They're indeed annoying and childish. That's why I don't date them, but each to their own I guess. I only date between 20-30 years old.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 04:23 PM
1

I'm from Belgium, it's the same as in the UK I guess. Night game at a bar is so easy. Have pulled plenty of women at night with the most retarded openings you can think of. When I go for a normal opener I say stuff like 'What are you drinking?' or ask her 'Hey there, what kind of trouble are you getting into tonight?' with a cheeky smile. Used a retarded opener last weekend but it worked. I saw a HB7 blonde girl near the bar and I walked up to her, this is how it went. Me; Damn, you remind me of…
/r/askTRP20/06/19 07:07 PM
1

I'm 22 years old and I feel exactly the same way. Made Instagram when I was 17 and messed around on it a bit, had like 10 crappy pictures. It didn't add much value to my life so I ended up deleting it when I was 20. Didn't have it for 1-2 years and I didn't miss it to be honest, full of insta sloots and attention whores. Last month I remade Instagram though. Ever since I started working, meeting girls with my work scheldue is nearly impossible (work night shifts 6 days a week). So I remade it, s…
/r/askTRP12/06/19 05:40 PM
17

In the butt
/r/askTRP10/06/19 06:32 PM
1

Same... Funny how before I didn't care and got laid more. Now I keep over analyzing shit. 'Crap, I'm breaking a redpill rule'. 'Shit, I should only text her for logistics'. Online dating is crap anyways. But if you want to succeed on Tinder it's best to flirt/have a fun convo for 2/3 days and then meet up. Texting only for logistics online doesn't work with a girl on Tinder. She doesn't know you, has hundreds of orbiters messaging her. If you text only for logistics, she will just chat another g…
/r/askTRP06/06/19 02:09 PM
54

Everything you said is true. Just makes me question. How do you compete with hundreds of obiters? I mean, you can lift, have a good job, be 'alpha'. You can offer all of this, but what does a social media slut offer? They think they are entitled to anything, have to do nothing. Have yet to meet a girl who isn't obsessed with social media. One of the reasons why I never had a serious LTR
/r/askTRP05/06/19 01:28 PM
15

Just funny how you can see a girl on social media, acting all high and mighty, but when you meet them in real life they have close to none real life skills, are boring and don't know how to hold a decent conversation, yet wonder why they get used for sex because they can't build a real connection. Dated a girl who had 3k+ followers, made it look like her life was interesting as fuck and that she was a 8/10 (good pics + make up). IRL she had a boring life, was a 6/10 at most, personality of a dea…
/r/askTRP05/06/19 01:25 PM
48

It's both the fault of women and men. Too many thirsty whiteknights out there, it's sad.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 01:21 PM
13

Damn, sounds great. I live in Western Europe and social media is a disaster here, maybe I should look for Eastern girls.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 01:20 PM
36

Where the fuck do you live if there are TONS of women not on social media? I don't have social media. Only tried out Tinder and deleted it the next day. I approach girls in real life but they're all social media sluts/attention whores.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 12:57 PM
1

I have the same fucking problem. Get numbers from girls both IRL and online but it always goes nowhere. I only text for logistics and lift. At this point it's becoming a waste of time. Not worth all the headache.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 05:00 PM
7

I find it hard to talk to bartenders. They're always busy and in a bad mood. I can't blame them, I'd get annoyed too, if drunk people kept asking me free drinks and dumb questions all night while I was working. Actually thinking about working as a bartender during the weekends. Exactly! I thought about the rape charge too. That's why it made me feel like taking 'advantage' of a drunk girl. She can just claim you 'raped' her, since she was too drunk and you were sober, it's 2019 and this shit is …
/r/askTRP26/05/19 03:06 PM
3

Your last line made me laugh, it's so true. If you party sober with the mindset 'Everyone's drunk, nobody cares what you do' and have fun, it's not too bad. What's your advice on picking up chicks in a club while being sober. When I'm drunk I'd just grind/dance, pull them to me and make out but now it feels kinda awkward, I don't know why. Having a convo is pointless because of the music, just need to make them laugh I guess.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 03:02 PM
5

Gotta get used to it I guess. I don't mind being sober at festivals, when the music is good, but yesterday the music was meh.. You're right, booze on a night out is a waste of money. The price for two shots is the price of a whole bottle in the store, it's crazy. I am by no means poor, but I would never waste my money like that. Yea, need to work on picking up chicks while being there but just need to know how to approach them sober. When I was drunk I'd just start dancing/grinding but now it fe…
/r/askTRP26/05/19 03:00 PM
1

I cut out a lot of friends from my life too. Friends who became drug addicts, started hanging around losers, who forced me into drinking, friends who became white knights, others became social justice warriors, etc.. I can count my real friends on one hand. I have a lot of acquaintances though... If I want to party, I know people who are always down. If I'm down to play sports/work out, I just hit some people up from the gym, etc. Heck, sometimes I even grab a drink with co-workers during the we…
/r/askTRP25/05/19 05:28 AM
3

I used to drink a lot on saturdays. Would pick up chicks at the bar and have sex with them, then wake up and realize how ugly they were and feel disgusted with myself. Now, I started drinking way less and became way more picky as usual. Just can't get myself to do it anymore. So.. my standard right now is HB7+... Nice legs, face, ass and straight teeth are a must.
/r/askTRP25/05/19 05:15 AM
1

I was in the exact same position... 22 years old now, dropped out of college and was addicted to videogames. Have no degree or anything but I'm thinking about joining the military and aim for special forces. Maybe you could do the same? Military is good for discipline, it will stop your video game addiction, you will have a goal, make friends and you'll be away from your negative family.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 01:18 PM
38

Matched a girl on Tinder and on pictures she was a 7/10. Solid squat ass, nice face, ... etc. She got my number and out of nowhere around 10pm she started calling me non stop. Apparently she got into a fight with her parents and they kicked her out so she had no place to sleep for the night. I wanted some nice sex so I told her that she could sleep over at my place. It's 11pm and she shows up at my house. Parked her car in the middle of the fucking road. So I told her she can't park there, she t…
/r/askTRP19/05/19 03:49 PM
1

I agree with everything you've said. Spinning plates is good for picking out a good girl. Modern type of women are indeed at an all time low. The story about your friend sucks.. Atleast you're a good friend but it's in the woman her nature I guess. I've never had a serious LTR but getting cheated on sucks, I guess that's how you become truly redpilled. But still, I don't know why I crave it so much.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 07:37 PM
2

I have Tinder but my pictures suck ass. Advice? I live in a small town and don't have Tinder Gold.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 02:48 PM
5

You're clearly not comfortable with your LTR attention whoring online. You can try to talk about it, but she will 99% chance keep doing it. It's up to you. You want to stay in a LTR with a retarded social media whore or demote her to a plate and find a decent girl?
/r/askTRP10/05/19 11:48 AM
22

I quit social media 8 months ago. One of the best decisions I've made in the last year. Couldn't stand the ego contest, everyone fishing for likes, the retarded political debates, people posting about their kids which nobody cares about, etc.. I deleted everything except Facebook/Messenger. I use Facebook to check out events and Messenger for the group chat with my friends, other than that.. No Instagram, Twitter, Snapchat, Tinder, ... I have so much more free time and I can actually observe wha…
/r/askTRP10/05/19 11:44 AM
3

Most recent one was 26 april. I live in Amsterdam, so she was a girl from the redlights district. There are multiple doctors in those streets where they get tested every other week.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 01:27 PM
5

Yeah.. been 12 hours now, maybe I just feel paranoid.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 01:26 PM
2

Yeah, I will get tested tonight at 6pm
/r/askTRP06/05/19 01:26 PM
3

I laughed way harder than I should have.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 11:38 AM
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