Do you date your plates?

HarryDeBruyne · 2021-03-12T17:35:06+00:00

No hard and fast rules here.

We often say in TRP that a women is (ideally) a complement to your life. That can mean different things to different men.

Do you want a woman you can sleep with but that you can also do activities with? If so - that's your personal definition of a plate.

Your prospects/low-level plates might only be good for sex / staying in but your higher quality plates might be worth spending time with and doing things with. That's fine. Every woman is different. It's about what you want. You can promote/demote plates based on their quality and ability to provide you with what you're looking for from them.

Some plates, usually those closer to 30, will know their clock is ticking and won't be okay with the non-exclusivity and will see any extra time together as a signal from you that you're interested in an LTR. This is when the plate might break. That's fine. Abundance, move on.

Just be honest, be clear, be firm about what you want the relationship to be. If a woman doesn't meet those expectations, or has fallen for you too hard and you don't want to reciprocate, politely but firmly soft next her and find one who does while levelling up your own SMV.

TeddyMGTOW · 2021-03-12T17:25:16+00:00

then your dating...nothing wrong with that....but you have to be honest with yourself..

AuberyBitoni · 2021-03-12T18:26:54+00:00

Depends on the plate. Usually it's just Netflix and fuck. Some plates are more fun to be around and wouldn't mind going out for a walk/drink with them.

Pros: You get to do something you would do anyways. Grab a drink or go for a walk.

Cons: They might get boyfriend vibes

pseudomonames · 2021-03-12T19:41:31+00:00

I had a similar question about this the other day. If you enjoy taking them on a date, then do it. Otherwise don't bother yourself. I wouldn't waste my money on buying them dinner though. Do things you'd enjoy doing by yourself and just ask them to tag along.

SalporinRP · 2021-03-12T21:35:36+00:00

In an LTR at the moment but was single for 3+ years before that usually seeing 3-4 girls at a given time. It all depends on the girl to be honest.

I've had plates that I only invited over to chill and fuck and I've also had plates that I did fun things with like go out for drinks, go to concerts, concerts, fun day at the beach, etc.

The pros are that you are doing fun activities with someone whose company you enjoy. Women are supposed to be the cherry on top of life. For instance, if you like hiking and you want to go on a fun hiking day with a plate go for it.

The cons are that you have to be careful because for 99% of men, doing date activities with plates is going to make you form a stronger emotional attachment. Unless you vet and promote to LTR, all plates will break eventually. Sharing a strong emotional bond with a plate can be rewarding, but the break will be tougher.

Also to consider is the fact that if you start taking a plate out on dates she also might see it as a step towards an LTR.

To be honest if you want to try to vet a girl for LTR status you will have to do some date type things with her.

amwfhunter · 2021-03-13T13:16:31+00:00

You sound like you're coming from a place of scarcity and afraid your plate will leave you. The way you post comes off pussy whipped.

A true plate you don't have to appease her much except give her good dick.

So many guys here act tough talking about plates when in fact they are dating.

I just simply find and stack a harem of plates.

However, if I like them for more than just sex I would take them out for dinner or go on a short sex filled vacation with them. Another reason why I love fucking foreign chicks. I can meet them in another country when I travel, fuck them all week and not need to deal with their day to day bs or drama that they could potentially give me.

Title	Do you date your plates?
Author	theconnector11
Upvotes	5
Comments	12
Date	March 12, 2021 5:19 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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