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| 2 | What to do about animosity over young women?You sound like the women you supposedly spend so much time with. Like you’ve adopted their way of thinking, their hate of other men, their feminine competitive nature. Red Pill exists for men to work together. You might be male in stature but your mind is twisted by the shitty human beings you fuck. 48 Laws of Power: Law 48: Mirror your enemy. You’ve mirrored women so well, I think you’ve become like them. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/20 09:10 AM |
| 1 | What to do about animosity over young women?Yeah, well, you guys have already put all of your important knowledge and experience into a PDF version of the sidebar. When I post once in a blue moon, it’s usually because the world is SO fucked that no one in my social circle of 10-20 people can talk about red pill perspectives when it comes to dating. You would understand if you weren’t just playing the audience, which is clearly not in my reddit persona’s favor. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 01:41 PM |
| -4 | What to do about animosity over young women?You really understand, I’m missing one piece of the puzzle before figuring it out and slaying pussy like a warlord. I’m shy, and to my own detriment. I put up nice guy walls in order to keep people from getting too personal. In all other aspects: Statement: I have strong facial genetics. Proof: women called me handsome before I even lifted. Statement: I make a lot of money. Proof: I have no debt, a lot of investments, and a lot of professional mobility. Statement: I am well invested in myself. P… | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 01:18 PM |
| -15 | What to do about animosity over young women?I was going to be an asshole to you but your just a name on a screen. Goodnight. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 04:58 AM |
| -17 | What to do about animosity over young women?This isn’t my first rodeo on asktrp. I’ve been on and off here for over a year. I have a copy of the pdf sidebar. I’ve read through almost all of the suggested books. I’ve taken the advice of Redditors and read The Mystery Method. I know exactly what I want, I’ve described it above. It’s not that I’m out of shape. I’m not a lean mean six pack machine, but I’ve made a lot of gains and I can hold my own. My game is mediocre and my friend group sucks. That explains the issues with women 20-25 in th… | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 04:41 AM |
| -22 | What to do about animosity over young women?If it’s creepy it’s due to nice guy syndrome and the challenges in overcoming it. If you didn’t grow up as a nice guy then you won’t understand it. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 04:22 AM |
| -3 | What to do about animosity over young women?I would say most men who come to RP are thirsty. The art is making it so that thirst is hidden. No one becomes a sex lord who has no thirst or desire for sex. That wouldn’t make any sense. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 04:20 AM |
| -1 | What to do about animosity over young women?I have classic nice guy syndrome | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 04:18 AM |
| 1 | How much competition is there age 30-40 really?In whose eyes is he too old by 30? In his own eyes or in the eyes of others? | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Single moms already face consequences for their life choices, why do you want them to suffer more consequences?That may depend on where you live. Relocating to the east or west coast of the US will usually result in a higher number of high quality men 33-38+. It’s sexual selection at work, you must understand. If you try to tie down a man before his sex drive has declined, you’re opening yourself and your child up to disappointment and hurt. Men have every right to naturally progress through life in a sexual/relationship manner as I have described. Very recent social norms pushed by a radical form of con… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/20 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Single moms already face consequences for their life choices, why do you want them to suffer more consequences?There is a time and place for everything. That may sound like a vague platitude but I promise to explain. Men and women go through sexual phases as they age and mature. Men 18-24: good looking but poor, obsessed with childish and adolescent things, mentally not stable or grounded, constant flight risk to women due to their need to get their careers started, no matter where that is. Majority love going out and partying. Women 18-24: extremely good looking but poor, want to discover their power an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/20 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Why is getting the sex I want the biggest challenge of my lifetime?I focus on HIIT and cardiovascular endurance. There’s a lot of squatting and lunging with body weight and with dumbbells in there. Speed is not usually my friend but I’m working on it. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/20 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Why is getting the sex I want the biggest challenge of my lifetime?It seems almost unhealthy how much effort needs to be put in specifically to approaching. I understand it’s part of the game and what needs to be done. But I’m sure as you’ll understand, you’re already busting your ass to be fit, to have a house, to keep up with your career. To then subject yourself to a random woman’s judgment in order to get her to sleep with you seems like a diminishing return on investment. It’s as if they’re doing all of the taking, down to the biological level. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/20 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Why is getting the sex I want the biggest challenge of my lifetime?If I keep going at the current rate of working out for 30-75 minutes per day at least 6 days a week, I’m sure I’ll continue to get leaner over time. This point for me is just a shitty phase where I obviously take care of my shape and fitness. But the last 10-20 lbs of clearly visible fat is clinging to me for dear life. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/20 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Why is getting the sex I want the biggest challenge of my lifetime?Not enough. Fewer than ten prior to March. Game was my weak point coming into covid and it did not improve while stuck mostly indoors. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/20 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Why is getting the sex I want the biggest challenge of my lifetime?What would you recommend reading before getting out and gaming? | /r/askTRP | 28/05/20 02:28 PM |
| 6 | Why is getting the sex I want the biggest challenge of my lifetime?No good friends, that’s more like it. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/20 01:32 PM |
| 2 | Why is getting the sex I want the biggest challenge of my lifetime?Breaking this down by category is the only thing that makes sense to me for answering your question about my SMV. Fitness: I’m a 7 Diet: I’m a 8 Day game: I’m a 4 Style/clothing: I’m a 7 Masculine frame: I’m a 5 Mental health: I’m a 10 (thanks to being a 1 early on in life) Knowledge self-investment: I’m a 7 or 8 | /r/askTRP | 28/05/20 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Why is getting the sex I want the biggest challenge of my lifetime?As much effort as I can afford while still remaining in control of my lifestyle and internal game. One of the workout studios I used weekly for almost a year prior to the coronavirus shutdown was predominantly women. I used it intentionally for this reason to 1) filter out women who I don’t find attractive and 2) to get comfortable being around women in a non-sexual setting. For almost all of my life there were very few women even as friends - think 1-2. I met up with friends each weekend prior … | /r/askTRP | 28/05/20 01:21 PM |
| 2 | Do ‘good guys’ truly exist or just guys without options?Good is a product of nature and nurture. If a man was raised with good values by parents who exhibited those values, and he is surrounded by people with good values, then a “good guy” truly exists. If a man was raised with good values by parents who exhibited those values, but he surrounds himself with people who have bad values, then a “good guy” truly does not exist. A “good guy” does not go to a “bad guy” in a vacuum. If that guy has a lot of options for women and is overwhelmed, the default … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Distinguishing the Alt-right and the Red Pill for outsidersYou have done your research and are clearly committed to a more philosophical view of RP. I respect that. What I do not respect is the askTRP community as a whole. It has its bright members who, like you, have contributed with actual research and analysis. Then there are those who indulge their caveman tendencies and do not provide any meaningful responses, only those which which polarize the reader. It is difficult to have meaningful conversations with smart people when trolls run amuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/20 02:26 PM |
| 3 | Distinguishing the Alt-right and the Red Pill for outsidersFuck TRP man, that sub has declined faster than the world around us. Especially during social distancing. If you read the TRP sidebar, most of the intel is good. Rollo Tomassi has made insights that are inarguably valuable to a sexless man who is frustrated with his life condition at any age. But lately it’s all roid monkeys and trolls leaving comments. And then their like-minded friends giving them undeserved upvotes. If you do go to asktrp, download the PDF copy of the sidebar then leave the s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/20 01:36 PM |
| 3 | Are most men really attracted to everything?No. Most men struggle to get anything. So often they end up broadening their horizons. Otherwise known as lowering the bar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/20 01:24 AM |
| 2 | Why do people use online dating to look for LTR partners?I second this one. Men and women my age are mostly antisocial and are skeptical of people trying to make new friends. Then again, I live in Boston, where everyone you meet is like that. A blessing and a curse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/20 07:54 PM |
| 5 | Have any of you genuinely tried to become a HVM? (by the FDS definition)All I get out from reading these comments is that both sexes want the end results they’re looking for before they’ve earned them. FDS, RP, whatever. I’m a man. I want sex. But there are a whole number of hoops that any man needs to jump through - whether internal or external - before getting to that end goal. In other words, there’s a solid metric shit ton of work that I need to do before landing at my finish line. Women want a man who’s going to treat them better than gold. Thoughtful dates, gi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/20 07:56 PM |
| 1 | TIL that men make up 78% of Tinder. What are the implications of this?They are just as much interested, but they need to feel the spark first. Not going to lie, I read this as “spank” not “spark” the first time through. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/20 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Assholes of asktrp: were you born that way or did experience teach you?This is how I ended up here. One day half way through my 20s, women my age just became more standoffish and self-obsessed assholes. Getting laid suddenly felt like asking a stranger to lend a hundred dollar bill. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/20 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Assholes of asktrp: were you born that way or did experience teach you?Maybe that depends on your age? I had a friend who used to totally screw all his buddies whenever he had an opportunity to have sex with a woman. He’s not around anymore, not by his own choice. Closer to 30 years old I thought that type of male mindset would recede. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/20 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Assholes of asktrp: were you born that way or did experience teach you?The story makes sense to me. I was similar, and I also picked a fight with a bully at that age. Fourteen year old me decided enough was enough, no more watching him pick on smaller people. He was a black belt in karate or some shit. I got my head pounded into the gymnasium floor. The system stood up for me at that point though. Even though I threw the first punch, he got landed with a week-long suspension and me, only an in-school detention. Ultimately he won in the end. He went on to become a C… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/20 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Assholes of asktrp: were you born that way or did experience teach you?Death is just such a big deal to me. I thought everyone else saw it exactly the same. A coworker dies, it’s not just a coworker, it’s conscious life, a stream of endless thought, a piece of the bigger whole. I say that because, with the mortality rates in the US right now for COVID-19, one would think all efforts are to avoid contagion. But most of my countrymen do not appear to be thinking on that scale. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/20 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Assholes of asktrp: were you born that way or did experience teach you?Is it weird too that words like yours have the opposite effect on me? Like I must feed off the hate or something. It just makes me see through your eyes, which is that your life is probably a load of shit if your soul assigns such an attitude to you. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/20 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Assholes of asktrp: were you born that way or did experience teach you?Still better than everyone with a 0 nice score. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/20 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Assholes of asktrp: were you born that way or did experience teach you?Nice | /r/askTRP | 09/04/20 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Assholes of asktrp: were you born that way or did experience teach you?Job is to be a chemical engineer. But company leadership’s opinion is that every chemical engineer must also be a mechanical engineer, an electrical engineer, a computer engineer and a mechanic as needed. I’ve been force fed all of these disciplines over the course of 4 years with this employer. We’ll see where this goes but it’s 100% on me right now to figure out who’s going to do the work, which is also not usually the case. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/20 03:47 PM |
| 1 | What's the most important book you have ever read?I like that you stepped away from making personal attacks. If this quarantine lasts another month I’ll add finishing “The Prince” to my list. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 12:42 AM |
| 1 | What's the most important book you have ever read?If it is not a satire then what is it? “The Prince” was written over 500 years ago by Machiavelli. The term Machiavellian has been known for almost an equal amount of time. One would think that if the whole of “The Prince” was useful to men to obtain and maintain power that the world would be full of Machiavellian tyrants by now, 500 years later. Whether it was written intentionally or as satire or as deceit, it will only lead men astray. Machiavellian regimes do not stand up against the test of… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else here on gear?LMAO | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 03:17 PM |
| 1 | What's the most important book you have ever read?The Prince is a satire. How many Acolytes of the The Prince are currently in power? How many dictators who killed their peasants and acted with impunity in the court still rule? Hitler? Dead. His progeny? Who gives a fuck about them. Stalin? Lenin? Dead. Their progeny? Who gives a fuck. Saddam Hussein? Dead. Progeny? Who cares. My ancestor, a great general and leader who valued Liberty. Dead. His progeny? People still will buy me drinks at the bar when they catch my family name. Moral of the sto… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/20 12:11 PM |
| 1 | What perspective has changed during the quarantine time for you?Probably a coincidence. I want to watch it now so this comment makes sense. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/20 10:26 PM |
| 2 | What perspective has changed during the quarantine time for you?The book says early on that complaining is a major turn off and will not win you friends or influence amongst many people. It does allow for complaining when the recipients of your words are trusted confidantes. My best friend was my brother through high school. I slept on his family’s couch on weekdays, ate his family’s food, went to church with his family. There was little reason to believe he was not my confidante. We went to different colleges on opposite ends of the US. We did not talk much… | /r/askTRP | 03/04/20 09:09 PM |
| 1 | What perspective has changed during the quarantine time for you?I want to reflect on the question longer before giving an answer. Five minutes... 24 hours... one week... has not been enough to dissipate the high level anger that’s resulted from my realizations. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/20 07:03 PM |
| 2 | What perspective has changed during the quarantine time for you?It’s a good thing that I realized. It will allow me to change my course from here. But I wish I could have back all of the times where I complained to this dude expecting him to be my confidante. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/20 06:27 PM |
| 5 | What perspective has changed during the quarantine time for you?I just read Dale Carnegie’s “How to Win Friends and Influence People.” My best friend from high school had read it when he was 15. I’m 29 and I just read it for the first time. I now see why our relationship is the way that it is. Some people, including men, just want to keep appearances so they can derive utility from you and others whenever they so please to do it. And the uneducated bunch, being me in my scenario, are completely clueless to it until we also read the same book. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/20 06:24 PM |
| 7 | Why Did She Smell So Good?You could just fucking read the link No, you misunderstood. When some people see the word “read” they think it’s synonymous with “close your eyes and imagine.” | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 05:52 PM |
| 1 | What are some things that an idiot would do during this quarantine?Why would call yourself an idiot? | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 07:54 PM |
| 2 | What are some things that an idiot would do during this quarantine?One of my buddies who I FaceTimed yesterday was proud of his new double chin. But don’t worry, he’s an idiot. It’s a known known. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 02:20 PM |
| 1 | What are some things that an idiot would do during this quarantine?Media in general has destroyed men. How many mass shootings were there before social media? Before mass media? How many fucked up ways of killing people did lonely, mentally deranged individuals plan out before the existence of the CNN, Facebook and blogging? You’re onto something here, but Pandora’s box has already been opened. Only a denouement could change things now. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 12:12 PM |
| 1 | What are some things that an idiot would do during this quarantine?One step ahead of you. Deleted Facebook yesterday when they accused me of posting Fascist propaganda... 11 fucking years ago. Morons. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 02:27 AM |
| 7 | Don'tYou know those posts? The ones where OP says “I don’t know who, but someone reading this right now needs to see this.” Congrats. | /r/seduction | 25/03/20 04:48 PM |
| -4 | “I’m leaving town with my family to get away from the coronavirus panic.”Gaslighting technique is overplayed and not going to disturb me. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/20 12:55 AM |
| 1 | “I’m leaving town with my family to get away from the coronavirus panic.”I really hope this one ages well. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/20 12:54 AM |
| 1 | “I’m leaving town with my family to get away from the coronavirus panic.”I appreciate this advice. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/20 12:15 AM |
| 1 | “I’m leaving town with my family to get away from the coronavirus panic.”This coronavirus. My only goal at this point needs to be coming out of this global fear storm with integrity and high SMV. If I’m not panicked like every woman I’ve met, and nearly half of all men, then there’s no reason why I should let them get to me now. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/20 12:14 AM |
| -8 | “I’m leaving town with my family to get away from the coronavirus panic.”You’re pushing the female imperative. Blaming the guy for his “defective” male behaviors. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/20 12:01 AM |
| -2 | “I’m leaving town with my family to get away from the coronavirus panic.”Scarcity mindset (me). | /r/askTRP | 17/03/20 11:58 PM |
| 2 | Invest.Anyone new to investing in general should read this book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B007NXQHWW/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_awdb_t1_yiwCEbMQMPRGC It will Red Pill you on how not to be stupid in the markets. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/20 11:50 PM |
| 1 | “I’m leaving town with my family to get away from the coronavirus panic.”No. I don’t understand this flake business and how to judge women with regards to changing plans. I’ve nexted a dozen women so far for flaking once. Maybe I’m not ready to see women. Seems fucked that it is this challenging though. I check half of the boxes for high SMV male: own place, decent job, well groomed, fit. Not going to focus on the things I lack in this comment. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/20 11:37 PM |
| 1 | “I’m leaving town with my family to get away from the coronavirus panic.”Acceptable answers in this sub are from a RP viewpoint. Read the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/20 11:36 PM |
| 2 | How are teenagers able to get laid and find relationships so easily!That has been the strategy. It’s a good one. I’ll get laid when I get laid. Not yet. Let’s just get this coronavirus shit over with, though. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 11:08 PM |
| 0 | How are teenagers able to get laid and find relationships so easily!Every woman in my state has the same plausible deniability right now. Every single one can swipe you on the apps, talk to you for an hour or two, then say they’re not going out. Because coronavirus. Completely different than normal life where they have fewer excuses to flake or ghost. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 11:03 PM |
| -5 | How are teenagers able to get laid and find relationships so easily!The exception to this rule is of course when the country is enforcing social isolation. If you can’t spit game and pull women when times are good then... Fuck off. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 10:53 PM |
| 1 | /r/askTRP RPEC Advice AMA Megathread - Ask Away!Last week I commented somewhere in the sub that I should play the field right now with the coronavirus in the background by plating more women. I was wrong. If you, reader, have not figured out your game in normal life conditions, when there is no pandemic, then you have no business trying to be a hero. I took my friends out to town a couple nights this past weekend. Half of them are nagging me for being so irresponsible. That doesn’t matter, they’re just being bitches. But nobody plated anyone … | /r/askTRP | 17/03/20 10:32 PM |
| 30 | What're you guys doing to stay in-shape during this "lockdown"?Run outside, bike, push ups, sit ups. HIIT YouTube videos. Never quite planned on ever being shut out of every gym in the nation. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/20 12:59 AM |
| 1 | How are you guys dealing with the virus Financially?Learn from my mistakes during the good times. Create preparedness for the next downturn 10 years from now. Reorganize where my money is going this next decade. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/20 05:44 PM |
| 0 | Do lower SMV girls know that they don’t got any chance with higher SMV guys?Bro, just ignore them. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/20 05:38 PM |
| -2 | TRP feels so natural nowThe fuck is with all these feels. Everyone stays indoors due to coronavirus and suddenly this becomes the most heartwarming sub. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/20 07:46 PM |
| 16 | Still banging plates during Coronavirus?Option 1 is to work on your self. Sleep, read, lift, stay away from crowded places. Be ready for the end of this year and the start of 2021. I’ve done this without the coronavirus in the background for the last few years so frankly I’m over it. Option 2 is to get on apps like Hinge, talk to your social circle and extended social circle, keep adding plates this year. I can think of a few openers that will get women warmed up quickly. All of them involve coronavirus and being quarantined with me. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Burning question: do I need to distance myself from my friend?I know. It’s one of those things - my instinct has the right answer, which you’ve all sounded out as well. I just haven’t been in the habit of making new buddies in my area for the past few years. Bad habit, I know. But easier to fix than trying to stick to a friend who refuses to control his own thoughts. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 06:42 PM |
| 1 | How reliable is clarity after an accident?Thanks for your service. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 12:09 PM |
| 3 | /r/askTRP RPEC Advice AMA Megathread - Ask Away!What about women? Most adult women I know between 23 - 40 still see dating the same way they experienced it in college. - if they want a ONS, they go to bars and clubs and get drunk (like at house parties in college) - the men they date are either their own age or at most 3 years older (like freshmen women dating senior men) - if they want an LTR, they look no further than their work circle (similar to dating people in your classes) You say the American male is a defective European and a man chi… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 10:58 AM |
| 1 | How reliable is clarity after an accident?I’m 29 right now and soon to be 30. I may have had a profound impact because of everything else going on in my life, Re: sex, career, education, finances, mission. But I agree, strange things in life that occurred for 17 year-old me were just observations, not deep events. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 11:17 PM |
| 1 | How reliable is clarity after an accident?Do you consider it life-changing since it happened? Like you unlocked the next level? Or, rather was it committed to memory for the sake of telling a good story? | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 10:54 PM |
| 8 | What's a new habit for you that you wished you started sooner?Lifting, as often as possible | /r/askTRP | 01/03/20 02:09 PM |
| 5 | What's a new habit for you that you wished you started sooner?Don’t invest until you have 6 months of emergency savings in a high-yield savings account. Wealthfront, Ally and American Express Personal Savings all offer 1.5% interest and up. If you’ve managed to save 6 months of living expenses in a high-yield savings account, then you can consider throwing your money away at the stock market. But don’t forget real estate is a better investment when analyzed over medium-long periods of time. The stock market is a tool to transfer money from the hands of the… | /r/askTRP | 01/03/20 02:08 PM |
| 3 | I did 27 approaches in 367 minutes of daygame infield. Here are my resultsA man without a mission is not a man but a machine. | /r/seduction | 25/02/20 12:32 AM |
| 2 | I did 27 approaches in 367 minutes of daygame infield. Here are my resultsYou could probably keep this up for a few months. Heck, maybe even a year. But there will come a point where you realize your self worth is a lot greater than pretending to be an approach machine - mostly for women who clearly aren’t worth it. | /r/seduction | 25/02/20 12:01 AM |
| 1 | What are some good self improvement booksSomeone will mention Models by Mark Manson. Only read this if you want to be convinced that Oneitis is better than spinning plates. I would recommend The Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck by the same author. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/20 04:19 PM |
| 3 | Going down on your platesLoving it and not doing it out of fear is worse than taking on the risk of developing throat cancer as some dudes here are saying. If you want to do it and skip out, you’re calling your own dominance into question. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/20 03:13 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when a woman at your bootcamp singles you out to take photos of her and her friend?I’ve never been Chad so I don’t have any reference points to work off of besides what I read here. Dad was the opposite of Chad. Friends all dreamed of LTRs and finding the one. I’m trying to break out of a heavily cucked reality. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/20 07:37 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when a woman at your bootcamp singles you out to take photos of her and her friend?If you said something nice about me, I wouldn’t interpret it as flirting | /r/askTRP | 20/02/20 07:05 PM |
| 2 | What does it mean when a woman at your bootcamp singles you out to take photos of her and her friend?Yes and no. If she only asked for a photo then you’re completely right, I could’ve misinterpreted it. But because she then started up a convo by saying she thought I worked really hard and did well in class, it seems much more likely that she was digging for a reason to talk. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/20 06:31 PM |
| 1 | What do you(men) hate that women do often?Complain that they have no money and their boyfriends are broke. But then expect that I, Mr. Moneybags, am going to approach them and offer them the keys to my mansion. | /r/seduction | 20/02/20 06:19 PM |
| 3 | What does it mean when a woman at your bootcamp singles you out to take photos of her and her friend?u/TRPcops put out some guidelines for guys coming in here to ask questions. I’m trying to fix a legitimate real world problem and not in here fucking around. Some contributors appreciate some background so they calibrate their answers. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/20 04:19 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when a woman at your bootcamp singles you out to take photos of her and her friend?So agreeing to take a photo was the wrong move? You would have ignored her advance and avoided doing what she asked? | /r/askTRP | 20/02/20 02:49 PM |
| 2 | What to do when nothing is going right in life?Why Chemical Engineering? | /r/askTRP | 18/02/20 10:35 AM |
| 1 | This was in Bloomberg this week. I thought same of you might find it interestingWhat should I tell my friend who says Coffee Meet Bagel is the only dating app he’ll ever use and that I’m stoopid for using Hinge? | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 10:47 PM |
| 3 | Calling out a flakeI know this retarded monkey comment was not meant to be funny. But that shit is golden. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/20 08:58 PM |
| 10 | This was in Bloomberg this week. I thought same of you might find it interestingFail. | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 07:27 PM |
| 1 | To what extent is Models by Mark Manson obsoleted by dating apps and age range 18-30’s excessive texting and social media habits?I agree with that. | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 03:12 PM |
| 1 | To what extent is Models by Mark Manson obsoleted by dating apps and age range 18-30’s excessive texting and social media habits?Ok, asking her out through Hinge or Bumble after a few hours THEN asking her for her number is polarizing. It is exactly what I’m doing. Yet a lot of women lose interest when I give them a week before contacting again just to clear the air and make sure I’m not over-investing and appearing needy. Because over-investing and appearing needy has been my number one ability for the last 10 years before I started making a real effort towards improving. But, maybe that’s just a red flag to me against t… | /r/seduction | 14/02/20 03:34 PM |
| 1 | To what extent is Models by Mark Manson obsoleted by dating apps and age range 18-30’s excessive texting and social media habits?Asking a woman for her number is a very polarizing act. If you’re saying that polarizing takes more than one successful attempt or that a woman can become unpolarized, then I’m intrigued. But as I wrote somewhere else in this comment thread, asking for their number is always my go-to polarizing move. | /r/seduction | 13/02/20 10:20 PM |
| 1 | To what extent is Models by Mark Manson obsoleted by dating apps and age range 18-30’s excessive texting and social media habits?Thinking brains don’t have an off switch. And if they did, would shutting it off even make any sense? | /r/seduction | 13/02/20 04:12 PM |
| 1 | To what extent is Models by Mark Manson obsoleted by dating apps and age range 18-30’s excessive texting and social media habits?Plant engineers with only their bachelor’s in my area (Boston) are considered the salt of the earth. Paid well but also expected to carry the weight no matter the cost to their lifestyle. I picked the wrong major if what you’re saying is true. Seems like the only option would be to pay out my @$$ for a new degree doing something cushy. | /r/seduction | 13/02/20 01:41 PM |
| 1 | To what extent is Models by Mark Manson obsoleted by dating apps and age range 18-30’s excessive texting and social media habits?No job is 9-5 that pays 6 figures. But being a single male in that job which requires extra time almost acts as its own form of birth control. No time to get out and be social except on the weekends. But, I couldn’t sustain my mission and lifestyle without the 6 figure job. It’s almost a paradox, you can’t have a fulfilling social presence and a truly challenging career simultaneously. Kind of sucks but there must be a workaround for someone 10 years into their career already. I don’t believe in… | /r/seduction | 13/02/20 12:50 PM |
| 6 | To what extent is Models by Mark Manson obsoleted by dating apps and age range 18-30’s excessive texting and social media habits?This doesn’t really follow any of Models’ advice. Manson is correct in that some people, like myself, are not socially or emotionally well equipped from childhood to understand women’s dating preferences. Before 20 approaches in 2 minutes is even feasible for such people, the root cause for underlying emotional and social inadequacies has to be worked on extensively. Otherwise you’re a walking, talking can of repellent. | /r/seduction | 13/02/20 12:37 PM |
| 1 | To what extent is Models by Mark Manson obsoleted by dating apps and age range 18-30’s excessive texting and social media habits?The problem I see is this recurring theme: Keep in mind this is not a do-this-to-get-date formula, it’s just how every one of my interactions has gone... 1a) match girl on dating app 1b) assume attraction because you matched 2) send 8-12 messages back and forth about common interests etc 3) ask to meet for a drink/coffee/get number 4) text her on her number within a couple hours of getting number. Keep it simple, 1-2 messages at most 5) take a couple days to live life, do your thing, with no con… | /r/seduction | 12/02/20 11:26 PM |
| 3 | How to handle her changing plansAlright. I’m investing too much stock in this chick at this point. You guys tend to know best. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/20 11:54 PM |
| 1 | How to handle her changing plansNot really a second flake. The first time I tried making plans on a Friday for Sunday and she said she was busy with her birthday. Seems like a good girl. But your caution is warranted I believe. I haven’t known her long. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/20 11:06 PM |
| 1 | How to handle her changing plansText logistics only is tough advice to follow. But yeah, I’ve seen things build up and fall apart all via texting in the past. Looks like it’s a good place to build discipline now. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/20 09:06 PM |
| 1 | How to handle her changing plansShe said next week is her February break. So that’s good enough to give benefit of the doubt in my viewpoint, given she’s more enthusiastic than 90% of the other women I’ve met in person and on apps lately. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 10/02/20 08:55 PM |
| 3 | How to handle her changing plansThe problem is you guys talk about chads like they’re everywhere. Of my social circle, I’m the closest to being Chad I know. If you add in my work circle, so like 50 more people, there are 3 people who are most Chad-like. It seems like you guys assume there is a Chad for every woman. All I see is most women being lonely and disappointed that guys won’t approach them. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/20 08:42 PM |
| -5 | How to handle her changing plansThis response is about as useful as a dead testicle. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/20 08:27 PM |
| 0 | How to be your best self when you realize you are isolated and have very little in common with people you know and typically meet?Someone was a friend who’s also lashed out at me for suggesting he check out this sub. I am a thinker though. I might not think about the same things as you or many others here. Every thinker is really unique. It’s difficult knowing this information before going in to any interaction, since it’s still hard for me to quiet my mind. But I appreciate your reply. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 07:11 PM |
| 3 | What is the obsession with lifting?Women want to feel like they’re with a superior man. Getting ripped (and dressing the part) makes you stand out from all the competition. Simple. The challenge is not letting multiple months or years of no sex damage your brain. Because it takes months or years to achieve superior fitness, depending on your starting point. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/20 04:36 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts and success stories about reserving only ~Friday to Sunday to talk to women?I had probably been too narrow-minded before this realization. Too consumed by what I didn’t know, like how to maintain attraction, even if I didn’t think it was coming from a needy place within myself. It really has highlighted the importance of remaining persistent in times of change, not becoming attached to any one particular mindset. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/20 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Is a 20 minute walk from the central locale where you pick up women too far? Would a 12 minute walk be worth paying the extra rent cost?Of course I am my problem. That much I remember every day after a few decades of being with myself. Your words and the sidebar my brain does not commit to memory. Like every other TRP comment I’ve received, yours will fall off within a week like all the others. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/20 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Is a 20 minute walk from the central locale where you pick up women too far? Would a 12 minute walk be worth paying the extra rent cost?You can never see someone like me becoming someone like you. That’s your problem. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/20 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Is a 20 minute walk from the central locale where you pick up women too far? Would a 12 minute walk be worth paying the extra rent cost?Show your fucking work man. You’re the alpha here. The fuck do you care what I’ve done. You’re supposed to be the one leading the blind by example. All your fucking advice hurts down to the core. If all men are just your competition, what is to say you’re not leading your competition astray? Even the sidebar says to never talk about TRP under pain of death outside the designated forums and subs. Thus no evidence that it’s ever worked for a soul. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/20 05:22 PM |
| -1 | Is a 20 minute walk from the central locale where you pick up women too far? Would a 12 minute walk be worth paying the extra rent cost?Most dudes are like me. I’m just outnumbered here. I walked into the lion’s den willingly. Chances are your larger issues are only kept at bay. Not disappeared. It may take someone going god mode and drawing them out. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/20 05:00 PM |
| -3 | Is a 20 minute walk from the central locale where you pick up women too far? Would a 12 minute walk be worth paying the extra rent cost?Dude, if you don’t like my response, consider where it’s come from. The toxicity of this sub. A lonely, unsuccessful man wanders in here looking for answers on how to become the Chad he’s always wanted to be. He’s met with mostly bags of shit who pretend they give a fuck about helping him improve. Really all they’re doing is reinforcing their own weak egos by rubbing shit in the faces of the lost. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/20 04:46 PM |
| 0 | Is a 20 minute walk from the central locale where you pick up women too far? Would a 12 minute walk be worth paying the extra rent cost?My only mission is to lift and be my best self To weather the assault that time puts on me | /r/askTRP | 26/01/20 03:13 PM |
| -7 | Is a 20 minute walk from the central locale where you pick up women too far? Would a 12 minute walk be worth paying the extra rent cost?So you’re too alpha to give practical advice then? | /r/askTRP | 26/01/20 03:03 PM |
| 1 | How to apply red pill with managers and executives who expect you to work weekends with no pay or time off like a little bitchI’m in this salary exempt position. It’s another workaround the corporate fake alphas have invented to game the market. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 04:47 PM |
| 1 | $6k gift from a plate with a love note - wtf?Well now I know too much, thanks | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 03:48 AM |
| 2 | Why am I so hit or miss with chicks?Lesson learned | /r/askTRP | 20/01/20 08:17 PM |
| 4 | Why am I so hit or miss with chicks?For someone with a low n-count, who’s lost 20 pounds of belly fat since starting out on my TRP journey, a hot college chick approaching and making out is a hit. My bf% is still over 15% after 6 months of high intensity interval training. For you, it’s a miss. Maybe you’re a chad. I don’t know. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/20 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Why am I so hit or miss with chicks?How do you develop confident body language when going out without friends? I see all of my friends probably getting married within the next two years. They want children and a family, they see meaningless sex as a waste of their time. They don’t share my sex drive. They don’t strive to be the perfect version of themselves. I’m red pilled and likely to avoid marriage altogether. Going out alone will likely become a lifestyle in itself. It’s difficult to pretend that I’m comfortable with women. I … | /r/askTRP | 20/01/20 07:52 PM |
| 3 | $6k gift from a plate with a love note - wtf?Until you find out OP actually had a dick stuck in him. Then this sub becomes “Ask the FABULOUS Red Pill” | /r/askTRP | 20/01/20 04:20 PM |
| 2 | $6k gift from a plate with a love note - wtf?Mo money, mo problems | /r/askTRP | 20/01/20 08:02 AM |
| 41 | $6k gift from a plate with a love note - wtf?Sometimes I question whether the no home should come before or after the extremely homoerotic statement. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/20 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Guys who are into fitness - how good of a shape did you have to get into before you've noticed your SMV clearly increase?How do you start out with your mindset? Serious question not bashing your post. For me at least, being on this sub started with an external focus: I wasn’t fucking any women, it was that way for many many years, how do I change it, etc. A lot of dudes here tell others to do it for themselves and not for the external rewards. But that either means I’m mentally fucked and don’t know what a self is, or I’m having a hard time understanding what you mean. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 09:49 PM |
| 18 | Hitting on hired guns is usually a fools errand, but this one simple trick might help.I’m just sad this wasn’t about John Wick. | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Hinge in Chicago the wrong hookup app?Good shit, thanks for the pep talk | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 02:56 AM |
| 3 | Hinge in Chicago the wrong hookup app?Good to know | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Hinge in Chicago the wrong hookup app?Age range is set to 21 - 28 and I’m in River North Same profile that got me hundreds of conversations in NYC, Boston and Baltimore/DC. Just very eerie how empty my conversation box is on a Sunday night. Another comment says Chicago is a day/night game city, which is true I’ve found as well. Just can’t get out every damn night when I’m here on a business project. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Hinge in Chicago the wrong hookup app?It’s weird on Hinge in Chicago for sure. That app has been my go to as I travel to different cities for work. And this is the first place where it’s given me a big bag of nothing. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 02:31 AM |
| 11 | Can someone help me break down this Tinder interaction? Girl literally tells me that she really isn't attracted to me and a few hours later we are hooking up?No wonder TRP calls hooking up difficult for the inexperienced. I’d have bailed on that bitch and went looking for the next one the second she showed her raging self entitlement. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 05:50 PM |
| 1 | 30s in 2020s. What advice do the RP veterans here have for us?What qualifies to you as a good job? On a scale from Burger King to car mechanic to nuclear reactor mechanic to CFO to astronaut. Serious inquiry. Reason I ask is people see my degree and think I must work on some serious government or big money stuff. Then they see my actual job is far less glorious and far more undesirable than expected. And I’m almost 30. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/20 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Tinder Shadow banIt doesn’t ever hurt to initiate with your matches. If you get a lot of responses, good for you. Good luck. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/20 12:26 AM |
| 3 | Tinder Shadow banIt doesn’t care what you message, as long as you message. It’s sink or swim. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/20 12:20 AM |
| 3 | Tinder Shadow banIf you matched with 87 and did not message some of them, the algorithm doesn’t ban you but it will push your profile to the back of the metaphorical line. Start conversations with your matches and you should begin to see likes again afterward. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/20 12:13 AM |
| 3 | Tinder Shadow banHave you swiped on anyone? Matched? Unmatched? Initiated conversation? You could live somewhere that there aren’t many active users. Sunday and Monday tend to be prime time for swipers according to the statistics given by Tinder employees. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/20 12:10 AM |
| 10 | Tinder Shadow banThey don’t shadow ban on tinder. Profiles are prioritized as such by an automatic algorithm which never sleeps: 1) The most liked profiles (how many right swipes do they receive) 2) The most active profiles (how many swipes do they make daily) 3) The profiles with boosts (how much have they paid for attention) 4) The profiles which have a lower unmatch rate (how many matches have they unmatched) 5) The profiles which talk to matches (self explanatory) 6) The profiles which have a lower reported … | /r/askTRP | 04/01/20 12:05 AM |
| 2 | What are the benefits of moving alone?OP has to consider changing cities as well. When I moved out, I almost needed to go across the country to find affordable living. The desirable locations are not gameable to RPers the same way desirable vaginas are gameable. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/20 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Have you guys ever come across people IRL who have naturally high alpha traits (that TRP quantifies) that have a very bad opinion about the red pill?Yes. I have a friend who is a former marine and thinks TRP guys are all incels and womanizers. I’ve painted the best picture possible but sounds like he’s not about to try it anytime soon. He’s got a ton of problems with women though because of his aggressive nature so he would benefit from TRP knowledge. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/20 05:50 PM |
| 1 | How do you stop from being so fucking negative all the time and down on yourself?That’s what I had in mind. I used to track stocks from my phone and mark up their charts using an app. I’ve since stopped due to concerns over wasting money on amateur decisions. Until I learn better discipline with trading, there is still paper trading via the same apps. It was therapeutic in a way, and my negativity seems to have been made worse since stopping. I had not been reminded of this until now, funny enough. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/20 01:21 AM |
| 1 | How do you stop from being so fucking negative all the time and down on yourself?There I was thinking for a long time that I needed to escape all solitary activities like online games, etc. But this is solid advice for me. A brief distraction to undo some of the negative thought patterns which I’ve so far created. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/20 12:48 AM |
| 1 | How do you stop from being so fucking negative all the time and down on yourself?This seems like sound advice. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/20 12:29 AM |
| 2 | How do you stop from being so fucking negative all the time and down on yourself?You’re right, my deepest desire has always been to create my best self. And that drives the critic inside. It also explains why I have never agreed with my mentors who have challenged me to care less. To care less about my deepest desire would be to give up on creating my best self. When you put it all together, their advice was probably not that helpful, in hindsight. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/20 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Unplugged and politics.I don’t see any women here unless you’re hiding something from us. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 09:05 PM |
| 4 | Have successfully smashed a 9, now what?There are two ways to get rid of oneitis. Either smash her again and be disciplined with yourself. Because you know you are the prize and you could get with women like her in the future as you please. Or don’t smash her, and get over the addiction before it starts, improve yourself for next time so you can have better discipline. Better to keep frame, keep doing what you’ve done the last several times with her, and compartmentalize your feelings before and after you two fuck. Don’t let one 9 tak… | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 02:44 PM |
| 22 | Have successfully smashed a 9, now what?Smash more 9s. Then you will have not fucked this up. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Unplugged and politics.Until conservatives acknowledge that 1) the earth is changing, 2) the change is having a negative impact on survival odds for the species, 3) and there are a variety of ways, albeit costly, to protect ourselves from another extinction event, I cannot support them regardless of red pill. I hate liberals, but at least they’re willing to spend imaginary currencies to stop the world from ending. Unlike some people, I like being here on Earth regardless of how much other people give in to stupid choi… | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Higher SMV as a shortcut to overcoming neediness?Thinking is not the enemy, dude. You don’t think, you don’t control. Assuming muscle memory is enough to do everything is really dumb. Maybe you come from a background where you’re told to point and shoot and ask questions later. Some of us stand to make our own decisions and random shower thoughts are just a side show. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Higher SMV as a shortcut to overcoming neediness?You’re a shithead for assuming anything. Also don’t tell a man not to think. That’s anti-RP. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 08:45 PM |
| 7 | The cost of pornWhen you stop fucking yourself as OP says, it helps with gaming women for a limited amount of time. For me, it was 8 days of greater confidence. But after the 8 days, if you haven’t had sex yet, the confidence turns into frustration which can hurt your success, not to mention your career and other relationships. Abstinence from masturbation is a false lead. Moderation is possibly helpful. All in all, if you’re 1) attractive and 2) not unattractive, as tiresome as the saying is, it will work out … | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 12:29 PM |
| 4 | Higher SMV as a shortcut to overcoming neediness?Cheers | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 01:19 AM |
| 2 | How to get out of the spiral of addiction during a breakup?Controversial opinion. Capitulate after breakup. Go into monk mode. Force your self down the deepest darkest hole so you rebound out the other side instead of keeping hope. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 04:10 AM |
| 2 | Dating app statistics from past 6 months. What does this translate into?I don’t see how setting your age at 29 even when you’re not 29 helps the end result. Once she finds out your real age, it would probably put you in an untrustworthy light. Unless early/mid 20s matches are really limited over age 29, regardless of your high SMV? | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 11:27 PM |
| 0 | Do you think there are better and worse parts of the country to meet high quality women?If someone is aiming for a high n-count, I could not imagine living anywhere but the city. Dating in my home town of 10,000 people vs dating in my downtown of 2 million people does not even compare. Home town women = incest and sleeping within tight knit groups of close friends City = 30 likes per day on dating apps and countless locations to approach women you’ve never seen before Personally I’m not in this for long term relationships any longer. When she leaves me for some other character, goo… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Creating an instagram....Then go for it and good luck man. When it works out I hear it works out very well. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Creating an instagram....Then take the time to do it right. It’s going to mean creating habits, like taking photos at all opportunities, and a lot of them. As far as uploading old photos goes, this is not my expertise but you’d want it to be as chronological as possible, almost to the point of looking professionally done. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 04:32 PM |
| 8 | Creating an instagram....I do not recommend playing this game. Just a few years ago, Facebook was king and everyone was sending event invites to everybody they wanted to hook up. Then Facebook died. Now Instagram took its place and everyone is posting photos that their cuckboy boyfriends took and sending DMs to get the D. Meanwhile, new platforms are up and coming which will replace Instagram. You’re going to always be playing catch up is my point. Women excel at this because all they do between the ages of 16 - 36 is t… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Why is getting laid in the USA hard and in Sweden/Finland easy according to people?My unscientific definition would be the number of excuses she has in her arsenal. If anti-slut shaming defenses are strong, a woman usually follows a certain philosophical, moralistic path with many pitfalls for a man of average or higher SMV. A woman who has few quarrels with feeling like a slut, maybe because feeling like a slut is better than feeling like a poor bitch, has fewer excuses to not fuck a man. Edit: I left out the common thread I’ve seen across most countries which ties this toget… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Dating app statistics from past 6 months. What does this translate into?Makes sense according to the SMV curve. Only I am not seeing that play out on either app. I’m frequently upping my photo game though, so maybe in a year I’ll see something different assuming my SMV keeps climbing. I think I’m probably seeing the hamster spin its wheel in the heads of the women I’ve matched on these dating apps. Plus or minus three years seems like a strange coincidence. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Why is getting laid in the USA hard and in Sweden/Finland easy according to people?If they’re hot/good to be around and the sex is good, then I don’t see the harm, ultimately. Just keep your frame and carry on. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 05:19 PM |
| 5 | Why is getting laid in the USA hard and in Sweden/Finland easy according to people?Culture means everything. In Thailand and Colombia, if you’re a poor or middle class woman who sleeps with a well-off foreigner, the benefit to status far outweighs the loss due to slut shaming. The ASD threshold is much lower. Philippines would have same results assuming your stay was greater than 1 week. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 04:31 PM |
| 4 | Trouble dealing with reasoning behind shit tests, basically lose interest in a woman when her shit test challenges frame. Normal RP reaction or uncalibrated?A grown woman calling you a fag for no reason other than to test your frame’s strength is a straight up alcoholic train wreck. She probably still sleeps with everyone. As for the other less intense shit tests, perhaps you’re right. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 08:08 AM |
| 2 | ASD/Overgaming?Testing her pussy out... that’s such a weird fucken thought | /r/askTRP | 20/12/19 01:30 PM |
| 8 | Are your married friends happy?It sounds like the need for closure overpowered their will to live life to the fullest. Funny that some say fuckboys are needy as they pursue the royal pussy, yet the married ones only talk about how much they needed to settle down. People addicted to dopamine vs people addicted to oxytocin. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/19 12:28 PM |
| 0 | Soft nexted a married MILF who was blowing up my SnapchatRespectfully, as the title says, she was 100% not single. Married. I was reluctant to correct anyone who brought up “single mother” because it focuses on the woman in question more than the RP development. That, instead of the lack of solid defenses - at least prior to this post - against the intrusive thoughts that maybe I fucked up. Before you were a RP endorsed contributor, you probably had some degree of I-don’t-know-how-to-build-from-this fuckedness like I do. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/19 01:11 AM |
| 6 | Soft nexted a married MILF who was blowing up my SnapchatShe was very clear with me that she was waiting for her husband to come home. I don’t necessarily dislike single women with children. If she’s hot and I’m into it, I can make it happen. SMV is more important to me than parental status. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 09:38 PM |
| 22 | Soft nexted a married MILF who was blowing up my SnapchatI was thinking the same thing, how long before her secret gets out and I’m caught up in some major frame crushing BS | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 07:37 PM |
| 1 | How does a man beat the prisoner’s dilemma?For the record, it’s extremely easy to get used as 25-29 year old in the multi billion dollar industry of pharmaceuticals and medical equipment. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 08:07 PM |
| 2 | How does a man beat the prisoner’s dilemma?It’s worth a look because I have not paid attention to it yet. I’ve mostly been worried about my physical form because I’ve always slouched my shoulders. I’ve also been paying heavy attention to whether or not my actions are being needy, since neediness seems to be the clearest turnoff. Sometimes I can only focus on a few big issues like these at once. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 02:42 PM |
| 1 | How does a man beat the prisoner’s dilemma?I will work on my communication skills then. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 02:11 PM |
| 0 | How does a man beat the prisoner’s dilemma?I see what I want life to be. I see that life is not what I want it to be. I take action with what strengths I have to change life. I make some progress. Because life is dynamic and mostly out of my control, I get nuked by other people and watch as others live the lives they want to live. Never at my expense but always to my dismay. It sets me back several steps and many times I must start over again. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 01:59 PM |
| 3 | How does a man beat the prisoner’s dilemma?I’ll just flood you with some examples then. 1) Physical trainer catches feels for me. I think she’s hot as hell but I won’t fuck my physical trainer because she works at my gym. So I avoid getting too personal to protect my workout routine. After a couple weeks she gives up and starts being a dominant bitch. Prisonser’s dilemma: if we both were cooperative instead, we’d both could’ve had sex or something better. Instead, we went into a hostile standoff. 2) Shopping at the grocery store, I let a… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 01:36 PM |
| 9 | What are some popular things from TRP that you dislike or disagree with?I dislike the notion that approaching in 2019 is as easy as it was when the PUA community started in the early 2000s. A lot of the same material is carried from then to now, because things didn’t change that much in 10-20 years, right? It’s not like every woman out in public is enamored with her phone, right? Being rhetorical. But 10 years ago, men and women went outside to have fun. Not to stare at their phones all day and night. It’s made the barrier of entry for any lust-driven man that much … | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Physical or mental frame, which is more important?I’m soft as puppy shit after sex. That’s where this question about mental frame is coming from today. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Physical or mental frame, which is more important?Maybe that’s all it was then. Subtle insecurity on my behalf that I’m trying to rationalize away. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 03:00 PM |
| 3 | Physical or mental frame, which is more important?I’m a hot mess brother. Still learning how to be a man and not a 29 year old adult here. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Physical or mental frame, which is more important?Any time I stay after sex would be because I see the potential of a second round. Had I thought I’d just be getting a single round I’d have left much sooner. I have a refractory period of at least 1-2 hours. That’s fucking genetics though, I don’t know a way to fix that yet. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 12:03 PM |
| 6 | How to pull the trigger and end a relationship with someone when there isn’t any “hard next” warnings“The best way of getting over a girl is getting under another.” This sums it up. I’ve been in OP’s shoes. If you want to move on, it’s a good enough reason. Don’t waste years of your time feeling sorry you couldn’t let go sooner. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 02:23 AM |
| 1 | What else do women from me?10 days later... Your recommendation to use Hinge has been a good one. The quality of woman on that app is much better. Lots of hot babes in the 25-31 range. Hopefully as I go they’re not all looking for an LTR, since I’m not playing that game. I love that the only way I’m figuring out this stuff is by asking! Whoever told me all the answers were within was smoking something funky. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Supplements I should buy as an 18 y/o aiming to bulk up and gain muscle?Depends on what you’re willing to spend. I recently started seriously lifting and taking supplements and envy the guys who don’t who are in better shape than me. On the other hand, I’ve always thought it would be neat to live forever. So anything that has even mediocre studies behind it suggesting enhanced longevity is appealing. I have to note that no supplement will allow anyone to live forever, but you can’t if you don’t give it an honest try. For starters: 40-100g of weigh protein during the… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Why do people believe that I was supposed to live out my fuckboy dreams when I was in college?I’ve confused body fat % with BMI. I don’t have a measure on my body fat % right now. Thanks for inadvertently clearing up that misunderstanding. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 04:20 AM |
| 3 | Why do people believe that I was supposed to live out my fuckboy dreams when I was in college?you are missing the forest for the trees. I don’t get “it” and that’s why I’m here on AskTRP, trying to “get it” Creepy isn’t a genetic trait, it’s a state of mind. Part of my journey from a beta to an alpha is to figure out what’s causing this shit to haunt me wherever I go. As far as having confidence goes, even as I get into the best shape of my life (still over 15% BMI though), I’m still conditioned to being disappointed when it comes to women. 12 years of mostly rejection and sexless months… | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 06:08 PM |
| 12 | Why do people believe that I was supposed to live out my fuckboy dreams when I was in college?It blows. I’ve always been misguided about the definition of attractive. My idea of attractive was way off the mark and it explained all of the dry seasons where one chick per quarter or year would come around. Most of us are stupid and misguided in our 20s. But it doesn’t make it fucking hurt any less. I’m 29 now. 21 year old chicks look at me like I’m a creep. 24-25 year olds mostly hang out with other 24-25 year olds. And all the 27+ pussy is either taken or not attracted. As a disclaimer I h… | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 05:19 PM |
| 1 | What else do women from me?I only truly learned the meaning of attractive this year. Indifference dominated my life until I was in my late 20s. It was lead by a misguided perception that I could never run out of time. I think it’s going to take a while starting from zero to fulfill rule 1 and 2. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 11:05 PM |
| 2 | What else do women from me?My old self, who is only 6 months departed, who didn’t go to the gym with any intent, who didn’t think he needed to be more attractive to sleep with women, who preferred to spend time sobbing in a car than work on himself in a productive manner, was utterly desperate to impress women. I am trying to get to a point in my attractiveness to women where I don’t need to put in the same amount of effort just to attract. My physical trainer is my idol right now, and she’s a woman. Because I want women … | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 10:12 PM |
| 1 | What else do women from me?Which rules 1 and 2 - the subreddit rules 1 and 2 or Tomassi’s 1 and 2? | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 10:07 PM |
| 1 | What else do women from me?Thanks for the pro tip | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 05:50 PM |
| 2 | What else do women from me?I’ve been active on Tinder. My rationale was it has the most users and can be useful anywhere in the world. I’m aware of the rules of tinder, to be attractive and don’t be unattractive. My profile does not suck but I’m aware that it needs some high quality photos that I don’t yet have. Call tinder what you want, but it does provide a bit of help, particularly to people with few better angles. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 05:42 PM |
| 3 | What else do women from me?20 women, roughly of those I can remember in 6 months. 0% success rate. The hot babe I referred to was 4 years ago. By “shoot my shot” I mean cold approach. I picked something I noticed about them and used it as an opener in some cases. Other cases I went in with lines I’d heard before. Once or twice the approach was entirely natural, no lines, no forethought. My friend group is all dudes, most of whom don’t have a following of ready/DTF women. Most of them have LTRs and say that in their late 2… | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 05:07 PM |
| 3 | What else do women from me?I have not given up. Coming to asktrp to find out what’s wrong is sometimes the only solution when there isn’t anyone else to provide negative or positive feedback. No woman on earth who rejects me is going to tell me why she rejected me. The gym, fixing the boring personality, updating my wardrobe... these are all solutions found through either asking trp directly or reading it in someone else’s post. No one’s given up though. Just facing confusing amounts of rejection given my ever growing SMV… | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Taking creatine for the first time?I didn’t see a doctor about it. I don’t know what caused the excess ammonia short of WebMD’s explanation, which was liver damage. It went away within a week of quitting though so the damage was not likely serious and was reversible. Had I been less conscientious and continued regardless of the strange, new smells, the ammonia could have caused brain damage, depending on how much was present. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Taking creatine for the first time?I took creatine monohydrate for 6 months before dropping it. It made my “excrement” smell like cat urine, which I learned was excess ammonia. Excess ammonia either means you’re burning protein instead of carbs, or you’re damaging your liver or kidneys. I restarted again recently but will be paying close attention. Also as an irrelevant aside, DO NOT supplement extra iodine. I took a vitamin D + Vitamina K + “sea iodine” supplement for 2 years. The iodine was meant for thyroid regulation which is… | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 04:46 PM |
| 1 | New hot coworker actively avoids me in the office. IOI or IOD?Thats funny because you’re the only one who thinks this. You’re some white trash piece of shit with a weird childhood and fucked up values. I’ve never said this to anyone before but I hope you fuck up someday and syphilis eats your brain. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 08:41 PM |
| -2 | New hot coworker actively avoids me in the office. IOI or IOD?If we’re talking in binary, then no, I’m not a Chad and have never been a Chad. So the quest for Chad within myself must continue before I’m visible to any of them and worthy of pursuit. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 06:16 PM |
| -9 | New hot coworker actively avoids me in the office. IOI or IOD?Zero in the office I get so much shit from this community over who I am that I just want to hit someone. Or all of you. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Overall was the sexual revolution good or bad for society?Well if someone wants to pay my bills I’ll conduct a study using the scientific method to prove or disprove my point. But until then I’m using deduction. Sexual revolution started in the 1960s, and since the 1960s there has been no strife between 1st world countries. I can name the wars since then: US vs Vietnam: 1st world vs 3rd world US vs Iraq: 1st world vs 3rd world Russia vs Georgia: questionable vs questionable US vs Afghanistan: 1st world vs 3rd world Israel vs Palestine: 1st world vs que… | /r/askTRP | 08/08/19 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Overall was the sexual revolution good or bad for society?That logic is too simplistic for reality. Nothing is black or white, always a mixture. Nukes are a deterrent but speaking from a position of immense privilege in the US, no one besides a few people want war with any nation here. There’s no desire and it’s not due to what you might call white guilt, predominantly. Frankly few things in life are worth wasting your energy. I’m not the right person to argue the point or educate you guys on how women evolving into something beyond housewives and moth… | /r/askTRP | 08/08/19 11:36 AM |
| -1 | Overall was the sexual revolution good or bad for society?Completely connected. How many wars have the sexually revolutionized nations seen between each other since the 1960s? Do not count most of the Middle East, India and Eastern Europe, which are pathetically behind due to their poor choice of habitat. Frankly I don’t think anyone who argues against the sexual revolution is educated enough, and I don’t think I’m the person to educate them. I also don’t think it is a Red Pill argument, as Red Pill isn’t about taking away women’s rights or going back … | /r/askTRP | 07/08/19 08:42 PM |
| -2 | Overall was the sexual revolution good or bad for society?Some of these comments are incel as fuck. The sexual revolution was great. Now alphas can focus on becoming as alpha as can be instead of scheming ways to invade neighboring countries. The challenge created by women being more aggressively independent is a much needed distraction and a perfect deposit box for the inevitable rage induced by male testosterone. A billion men wasting their lives away chasing a gash that bleeds once per month is infinitely better than a billion men slitting throats. … | /r/askTRP | 07/08/19 07:39 PM |
| 3 | Why doesn’t ASD apply to music festivals (Burning Man, Coachella, Osheaga, Ultra, etc)?How important is game then at festivals? And I suppose travel too. It seems like game is just a tool needed to maneuver around her ASD. If ASD isn’t there, festivals should technically be a killing ground for having sex as a dude with relatively some self awareness. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/19 06:26 PM |
| 2 | How much do you guys bench?Benches and barbells put an unnatural pressure on your shoulder joint. Better to use dumbbells as they don’t put as much awkward pressure on your shoulders. Also played football for 4 years as a linebacker and defensive end. Both positions involved striking big fat linemen in the chest with both hands, often with arms extended. Same motion in both cases. Shoulders bear the brunt of the load and are the weak point. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/19 01:55 AM |
| 5 | How much do you guys bench?Honestly I wouldn’t tell a soul to focus on benching. I started benching with my gay dad when I was 14 years old and ruined my rotator cuffs for life. I made it to 225 by the time I was 21 but it was not worth the pain I experience every day. Could’ve happened if I started at 21 too. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/19 09:10 PM |
| 2 | How much do you guys bench?Enjoyed the response. Benching 315 makes you a strong man. But you’ve got to realize that dudes who are too buff skirt the edges of low BMI which is ultimately what women look for in a mate. I hit 225 and diversified after that instead of trying to go higher. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/19 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Constant Shit TestsI’m new to RP and just getting my weight down to improve BMI, so take this with a grain. But you can literally choose not to be affected by the haters. Unless they can fire you, they don’t matter. They weren’t going to give you a reference for your next job anyways. Unless you persist and they give up wasting their time on hating you, And if they can impact your employment, focus on cold logic, ignore their childish emotions. It’s their duty to keep their feelings in control. If they fail and ca… | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Soft Next'd an LTR, Whats Next?Would you classify what she’s doing as a “shit test?” Maybe she’s saying to herself “If he cares about me he’ll understand my irrational choice?” | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 10:25 AM |
| 237 | How Men Are Ruining Dating - STOP The Virtual ThirstThe problem men face in doing this is a lack of same-group mentality. Men don’t cooperate within their sex as much as women do. It’s why men struggle at all with dating, because we suck at sharing knowledge, because we suck at acknowledging each others’ humanity, as men. Maybe this stems back to our millennia of men fighting men and men killing men in wars. Just a thought. I like yours though. | /r/seduction | 23/07/19 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Are chads just high smv guys who are willing to fuck a girl and deal with her shit, even if she’s a 25 year old HB8 whose mental development never grew past high school maturity?Thank you for helping unfuck my brain | /r/askTRP | 23/07/19 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Are chads just high smv guys who are willing to fuck a girl and deal with her shit, even if she’s a 25 year old HB8 whose mental development never grew past high school maturity?Dude Define chad so I don’t need to ask anyone this stupid question anymore | /r/askTRP | 23/07/19 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Are chads just high smv guys who are willing to fuck a girl and deal with her shit, even if she’s a 25 year old HB8 whose mental development never grew past high school maturity?Thank you for your answer | /r/askTRP | 23/07/19 02:37 PM |
| 3 | Are chads just high smv guys who are willing to fuck a girl and deal with her shit, even if she’s a 25 year old HB8 whose mental development never grew past high school maturity?I don’t fault you for assuming that I think ugly girls are less insane and therefore better to date/spin. However it’s not the case, I still don’t get attracted to those women for things like sex, unless I’m really drunk. I’ve just had a very different experience than you. My smv is probably around a 7, and that’s with 20-25% BMI. I just started lifting again after a 10 year pause (stopped lifting after I was 18 and did not go on to play collegiate football. No motivation to lift because no exte… | /r/askTRP | 23/07/19 01:19 PM |
| 5 | How To Meet Women When You’re An Introvert - 7 Ideas For Shy GuysI would like to add something for introverts as well. The brain is engineered to focus on threats above anything else. You may not notice it, but your introversion in public may be linked to your brain identifying threats and taking your attention away from your goals. Train yourself to recognize when you’re focusing on threats instead of just being yourself. PS If you identify with your ability to focus on threats, it’s time for a re-vamp of your character. Not sure which point this fits under … | /r/seduction | 23/07/19 12:05 PM |
| 2 | Are chads just high smv guys who are willing to fuck a girl and deal with her shit, even if she’s a 25 year old HB8 whose mental development never grew past high school maturity?Well said. Thanks for your answer. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/19 11:44 AM |
| 3 | Are chads just high smv guys who are willing to fuck a girl and deal with her shit, even if she’s a 25 year old HB8 whose mental development never grew past high school maturity?I see a lot of 20-something women who score a 5-6 on the smv chart but who actually are not insane, enjoy having male friends, etc. In the same 10-foot radius, there are 7s, 8s, 9s and (rarely) 10s who are clearly completely unreceptive and actually annoyed by a man’s presence. I’m just wondering who this last type of 20s woman fucks. She seems to dislike everyone and is overprotective of herself in scenarios where there is no obvious threat. And I just don’t see many good definitions of a Chad.… | /r/askTRP | 23/07/19 11:19 AM |
| 60 | Good adviceI’m going to take a wild guess that Warren Buffett never said that. Just like 99% of the Albert Einstein quotes circulating on Facebook and IG. | /r/seduction | 16/07/19 10:51 AM |
| 2 | Never talk about TRP, but how to act?You don’t know how people will react if you introduce Red Pill arguments. I’m still in the process of learning all the Red Pill has to teach with regards to men and women. But go back to the TRP introduction and think about the story of the two men and the stone. One man needs to build a house and therefore has use for the stone and therefore it has value to this man. The other man has already built his house and does not need more stones in his life, therefore it has no value to this man. Even … | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 10:18 PM |
| 34 | How do I convey interest casually without being creepyDon’t go into a conversation with a girl thinking like this. If you constantly overanalyze your thoughts and words, you’ll get paralyzed and come off as creepy. Just learn what works for you, not what works for someone else. | /r/seduction | 11/07/19 11:50 AM |
| 1 | What are the best things to do that will improve your smv?Removed my previous comment as it’s too off topic. But picking up women is nothing like a job interview. For a job interview, they hire the applicant with the skills and personality which most closely match the role. If the FBI is seeking applicants and one highly qualified person scores 20 of 21 total possible points while another scores 21 of 21, they’re going to pick the one with the higher score. You can draw some comparisons for arguments sake between the above list for TRP and scores on an… | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 02:14 PM |
| 5 | Attracting women near the wall only?I’m in a similar situation, in that attracting young women is nearly impossible. Lifting, gaming, frame is all important but what’s secondary to those is one thing, which can’t be forgotten: Women 18-28 are the most sought after age group by all hetero men across the world. They’ve learned that most men will treat them as the top of the food chain. Old beta men will throw dollars at them and young beta men will kiss the earth they walk on. It’s left that demographic feeling extremely entitled, m… | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 07:40 PM |
| 5 | What are the best things to do that will improve your smv?I agree, I think guys don’t peak until they’re well into their 30s anyways, and then the way back down is much more gradual and manageable. I tried to achieve all this stuff when I was 20-23 and at a university, but I fell flat on my face because I was winging it. Now I’m 28 and found AskTRP and all of its knowledge, so by no means am I telling anyone to ignore it if they’re above age 20. Just chiming in that achieving 40% of the checklist is not-not-worth doing. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 03:40 PM |
| 13 | What are the best things to do that will improve your smv?Frankly unless your goal is to dick a different woman every night (-ish) then having 3 or more of these traits will get you by. Particularly since it’s rare to find competitive men between the ages of 20 - 30. So you’re already standing out if you possess just a few from the above list. Ultimately trying to achieve all of these if you’re starting later than the age of 20 will suck up all your time and energy, which detracts from other valuable goals such as having a stable job and finances. Depe… | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Why do women despise RedPillers yet despite men who do not understand women, when RedPillers clearly understand women at the core and use this knowledge properly?I’m trying to say I agree with the fake it til you make it idea. I don’t think enough men have natural alpha status, but this community has the potential to turn some duds into studs. I’m also trying to say it’s not their fault for being a dud given the environment in which most modern men grew up. The choice to look at TRP as an asset is the only one that matters now. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Why do women despise RedPillers yet despite men who do not understand women, when RedPillers clearly understand women at the core and use this knowledge properly?Honestly, who - of the eligible single males sitting pretty in middle class America - is really a true, natural Alpha male in 2019? I say this rhetorically. Because most of us have shit for father figures (sorry dad). That’s where knowledge is typically passed down from generation to generation, dude to dude. But trend changes in what is socially normal have completely confused the fuck out of men, old and young, such that values from 30 years ago were actually just a fad, and now there’s someth… | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 02:01 AM |
| 3 | Is social proof ever secondary to attractiveness?Is it possible to manufacture social proof then where conventional social proof is not possible? Say you’re in a gym, or a yoga class, or whatever. You look good/perform well/impress others so that at some point or another, all eyes are on you. Does this social proof count the same or is it really that shallow that it must be done with a group of other males all relatively the same age? I have buddies but we aren’t all in the same place at the same time. And I don’t like my coworkers enough to s… | /r/askTRP | 02/07/19 02:24 AM |
| 5 | why does everyone here try to talk like a drill Sgt?I’m one to mostly take advice, not to give it. But the way it strikes me is that AskTRP is about an amoral, logical strategy for attracting women. It’s like reading the how-to manual. Use the part of your brain that thinks to digest this info, not the part of your brain that feels. If you use the feeling brain to read all of this, it will immediately reject the important information being conveyed by the authors on Reddit. Instead, take it in with your thinking brain, then train your feeling bra… | /r/askTRP | 02/07/19 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Is social proof ever secondary to attractiveness?It gives me a momentary feeling of depression that I’m nothing without my social proof, unless proven otherwise. That really fucks with people who were not allowed to go out with friends when they were still living in their parents’ house. Not only are they burdened with learning the typical PUA and TRP bullshit, but they’ve also got to scrape some friends up off the street. Changing the values one grew up with is a lifelong challenge. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/19 10:44 PM |
| 3 | Whats a high income skill you should learn in your younger years?I started just by watching YouTube videos. Not of premium sites or anything but there’s a group called thechartguys.com on YouTube. They make daily videos assessing the markets and it’s free with an option for a paid class subscription as well. I’ve used the free classes for 18 months now and have propelled my knowledge further than anyone I know. I also use TradingView.com for doing my own technical analysis on live charts. Then you can choose any one of the 30 brokers out there to get started.… | /r/askTRP | 29/06/19 04:35 PM |
| 6 | Whats a high income skill you should learn in your younger years?Agree with the two other answers. Investing and social adaptability. You should learn how to read technical price charts for stocks, bitcoin, indices, ETFs and bonds. Even if you play the market conservatively, you’re ahead of most if not everyone else in your social circle and most likely their social circles. It’s a highly undervalued skill because most people don’t care about making dividends on their income. Ultimately once you learn, there are ways to automate it so you spend less time read… | /r/askTRP | 29/06/19 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Only man in a gender neutral locker and changing room a paradigm shift or mistakeI did. I didn’t really act outside of my intentions of showering and changing in my cubicle. I guess my main discomfort was locker room chat in a predominantly woman’s locker room. Probably off limits unless approached to avoid getting banned from the studio, correct? | /r/askTRP | 28/06/19 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Only man in a gender neutral locker and changing room a paradigm shift or mistakeIt’s what I did. The last thing I wanted was to approach in a locker room and get rejected. Duh. But what about etiquette? I see a woman’s ass because I let myself in, and... it’s cool? Or is this a place where you take your sexual thoughts and stuff them in a place far, far away? | /r/askTRP | 28/06/19 04:53 PM |
| 2 | How do you afford all these plates?Fair. Maybe the other guys are right then about being bought drinks instead by her. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/19 01:06 PM |
| 20 | How do you afford all these plates?First dates don’t need to be anything besides a stroll through a park or a chat at a cafe. Neither of those things cost significant amounts of money. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/19 11:53 AM |
| 9 | Have you ever found a great girl too soon?If OP spends a month or more digesting his feelings and still feels lust for other women? If OP spends a year or more? I’d like to know your opinion about what period of time it takes before it’s ok to allow uncontrollable lust to ruin a great relationship. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/19 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Tinder and I aren’t getting alongFor what it’s worth FereallyRed, I proved your point correct. Not that I truly disagreed to start. I travel for work more than most men, as in Im in 2-4 different cities in different states per week. My job sucks for establishing rapport with women. Hence the intense Tinder usage and desperation at times. Anyways, I’m in a much smaller city than usual. Still HB8-10s on Tinder. And for the first time, a HB9 in my demographic hit the like button. Most larger cities where I travel, including home, … | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 03:44 PM |
| 2 | what are the benefits of meditation?I used to meditate. I have recently found that the lack of routine meditation has caused me to suddenly start having some symptoms of ADHD. Unable to focus. Shifting from thought train to thought train without discipline. Meditation is an important practice that you must not let go. Yoga provides a solid 60-90 minutes of meditation and physical exercise. I recommend going to a yoga class at least once per week. You will also find that women do yoga. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 11:07 PM |
| 3 | Pua and models by mark MansonDon’t know if you watched Game of Thrones. Don’t know what TRP’s opinion is on it. Doesn’t matter. I’m new here. (Spoiler alert) One of the main characters dies at the end. She gets stabbed by her (definitely blue pilled) lover. Her last remaining dragon arrives at the crime scene, then burns the living shit out of the Iron Throne, the much sought after seat of kings. Then when the iron has fully melted, along with the surrounding palace, he burns the living shit out of it again. This is the kin… | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Pua and models by mark MansonThe best takeaway you can get from Mark in Models is the practice of non-needy behavior. My takeaways are 1) cut out the desire for validation from others 2) do what you do best: take care of yourself 3) be your own standard for your accomplishments as a man Im new to TRP, I’ve been a serial boyfriend all my life, and it absolutely is possible to scavenge parts of TRP and Models in order to create your own system. I personally hate PÚA because I’m a creative type. Repeating someone else’s lines … | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Give up when?With 100% self-centeredness, I won’t delete this post. Not for another hour or so. I have to feel like I’m in control. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Give up when?I just started reading TRP-anything this week. I had never met many dudes who endorsed it around me. My friends probably don’t, and if they do they’re terribly secretive about it. And to top it off I had an intellectual gf for 2 years in college who bashed TRP. So I had my reasons for not being here. On the other hand and back to my original question, is 28 too late to start caring about fixing over a decade of fuck ups and ineptitude? Dudes here are college age or younger than I am, and they’ve… | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Give up when?I don’t know. I have a degree, I’m smart, not mentally challenged in the medical sense. I’m stumped and that’s why TRP ideas are appealing to me right now. Just looking for a way to make it work. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Give up when?None of the things you mention are difficult. I spend 30-45 minutes a day working out. Three days a week workout is HIIT. I’m not enough of a meat head to put in more time than that and I build muscle quickly. I stopped eating pizza, desserts and white starches. That should cover me for weight loss. As far as adult shit goes, I’m more competent and more trusted than most 28 years olds, meaning my job opportunities are going to be many and I won’t ever struggle to pay bills. And I’ve always been … | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Give up when?Why | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 08:48 PM |
| 1 | I have big goals and a strong WHY, but I allow myself to procrastinate and do nothing for days.Abstinence to my mind means priestly abstinence. That’s how we got here. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 10:14 PM |
| 0 | I have big goals and a strong WHY, but I allow myself to procrastinate and do nothing for days.I don’t understand how TRP determined that a man who pursues a life of spinning plates cannot also pursue a life of career accomplishments. Is this saying you can either be a fuckboi and slam lots of pussy, or be an Elon Musk and take what gold diggers come your way? I’m new here and not comprehending the deterministic attitude towards success with women versus success with career. I’m 28 and have believed my whole life under my own internal assumptions that both were possible and could be done … | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 10:11 PM |
| 1 | I have big goals and a strong WHY, but I allow myself to procrastinate and do nothing for days.Abstinence or you will lose? You’re saying no man that tries to sleep with women can outperform his peers with material accomplishments? | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Tinder and I aren’t getting alongI don’t plan on leaving asktrp, I just got here and see a lot of interesting opinions. Coming from a household where I was the only male seems to have impregnated me with different viewpoints. It’s curious, though, how did humanity make it this far if having sex was so difficult and such a product of alpha fucks. To see through the eyes of ghost. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Tinder and I aren’t getting alongIt shows who has swiped right on me. So it basically gives me my options as opposed to wasting time looking at Instagram models who don’t match with anyone. Edit: to answer you question, if someone Im not attracted to swipes right, Tinder Gold shows me the list of right swipes, I just swipe right on her so I’m not chasing women I don’t want, | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Tinder and I aren’t getting alongOne point you’re making which I don’t understand is that being average is worthless. You’ve basically laid it out that there is no value to being average. For me, it’s worth $100k per year right now with a lot more upside. I’m basically losing out to the same competition today as I did in college and in high school. The fuckboys are doing all the railing now just as they did then. tl;dr Why are the dreams of an average successful career and a lot of sex conflicting? | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Tinder and I aren’t getting alongBeing able to meet women in person like that is more valuable. But women 20-30 at bars carry a lot of that same attitude from Tinder to bars and social events. Same with yoga, same with ski resorts, same with beach bars. A lot of airiness that they’re too hot for any guy and if you don’t fit their list of criteria it’s game over. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 03:32 PM |
| 3 | Tinder and I aren’t getting alongWorth a shot | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 10:51 AM |
| 2 | Tinder and I aren’t getting alongI get more likes that Tinder Gold filters out. My bottom line is if I’m not attracted to her, don’t swipe right. So half the girls who swipe right on me I swipe left anyways. My rocks don’t get off sleeping with a chick I don’t find attractive. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 10:51 AM |
| 2 | Tinder and I aren’t getting along12-22 aren’t swiping right because I don’t want to go to jail | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 10:48 AM |
| 5 | Tinder and I aren’t getting alongIf I can spend 60 minutes a day less than you focusing on hitting up pics, that’s 60 minutes I can spend on something else I care about to make myself a better human. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 10:48 AM |
| 1 | Tinder and I aren’t getting alongAll valid points. Yes, gold is paid for, I find better uses for my time by allowing Tinder to filter for me instead of brainlessly swiping all day. I probably do come off as desperate in some openers, depending on how recently I’ve had sex or how shitty my week has been. Meeting in real life has been more fruitful than Tinder, as in more often than not if I approach the woman I’m taking her home. But to put it in perspective, unless I’m on vacation and in a party town, Tinder provides far more w… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 01:50 AM |
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