GF Has a Bad day

henteithepokemon · 2018-04-23T10:46:25+00:00

Why dont yall just communicate

My idea: Since youre giving something, your support, ask for some positive reinforcement to make you happier with each other

U can either address what you said or ignore it

rad_dynamic · 2018-04-23T09:36:24+00:00

Why would you tell her of your motives? She now knows you're being cold to her problems on purpose and she isn't going to like the change. Best to just keep quiet about it in future and let her hamster spin.

JinSantosAndria · 2018-04-23T12:05:32+00:00

Well, it's your GF, not a plate. Listen whats up, decide for yourself if its worthy of your time and if she needs help or just wants to vent. Sometimes people need to vent and turn to the one they spend their life with, can happen. You can either listen or ignore it and proceed. Sometimes they need help and you might have the correct tools to help with that.

As with a plate, just fucking ignore this shit.

301niko · 2018-04-23T09:35:24+00:00

Never respond. Learn to ignore, she's like a little kid testing you, checking how much she can get from you. You already failed but it's repairable.

Never react to stuff like 'I'm sad",' cheer me up '. It's typical for attention whores.

Zech4riah · 2018-04-23T09:39:31+00:00

Except some resistance if you try to shift away from being her cheer-her-up-o-matic.

You have schooled her in a bad way. Re-training takes time and you may not want to go cold turkey right away.

McVaghunter · 2018-04-23T12:40:18+00:00

When ~~your girlfriend~~ one of your harem has a bad day, you don't fucking tell her verbally that you're not her emotional tampon, you just ignore her and call one of your other harem to spend time with. But hey, I understand, having multiple plates is hard work and requires a very good looking man with a tight game, and you're too lazy to do the hard work or even bother improving yourself.

Try the relationships sub, maybe buying your one and only some flowers will help brighten her mood.

[deleted] · 2018-04-23T13:20:43+00:00

Shit in a basic brown bag, put the bag on her porch, light the top of the bag on fire, ring the doorbell, and run. Maintain radio silence for 2-3 days as her hamster spins over who and why. Then re-engage like nothing happened and just say you've been busy.

Title	GF Has a Bad day
Author	mrfaku
Upvotes	1
Comments	12
Date	April 23, 2018 8:55 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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