Been plating a girl since summer, and as we slowly progress into ltr dynamics she tries to qualify her self to me and make me trust her.

I had been teasing her with amused mastery for fun and we both enjoyed it, like:

Her: I want to hug you Me: I'm not your boyfriend, I only fuck / ask him (with a smile) Her: hey! (in a slightly teasing tone)

Etc. Etc. Sometimes we had our conflicts and I showed I didn't trust her, (I know my crappy needy behavior) and she always was submissive and feeling sad and apologetic, fearing I'll leave her probably (I ran dread game also) so she qualifies and when we have some nice deep Chats she says things like "I know you might not trust me" or "I know you might think I'm a girl who does crap" but in a calm tone.

And lately she sarcastically and humorously commenting on my phone, and what I'm hiding there lol. Why the hustle? Someone said she's possessive. Another one said it could be guilt shift, as in she hides stuff and tries to shift the weight to me.