I was having a fun time with my girlfriend after good sex etc. And the discussion came to Instagram so we started fooling around. To get to the point I teased her about her dm as she also does often,(when I do tease her she's never tried to hide anything and bitched to me to check it if I'm doubtful but never did) and she tried giving it to me to see. I said it's fine, I don't need to check but anyway she let it in my hands and we both looked at the messages. I only saw a few guys hitting at her and she brushed them off, the rest were girls or her friends and acquaintces from school. A guy saying to her "hello" and her saying "hi." nothing more from there on.

Next thing, she asked to see mine and I'm like OK sure babe. I had lots of messages and some from women that she saw only the person who I am talking with but didn't complain or bitch to check the whole conversations.

Now is it a mistake I gave up my phone this easily ? I didn't want to seem like I'm hiding something or like a cheating pussy. Well she showed me hers and in the end I had a few female contacts who were interested, is that good at least for preselection p