Girl doesn't shit test at all

mordanus · 2016-12-05T20:20:40+00:00

Shit testing is a form of bullying to test your confidence. Confidence is a sign of a man who has accomplished things in his life. He is sure of himself because of the things he has done and the more concrete his confidence the less a shit test will phase him.

So they use a shit test to see if your confidence is fake or not and to see if you cave under attack. It's also used as a value check later on in the relationship in that if you let her trash you then she knows she is more valuable than you.

Anyways, if your girl isn't shit testing you then you haven't given her a reason to doubt your confidence or self perceived value.

walkingthelinux · 2016-12-05T20:22:06+00:00

She views you as superior to her in SMV. Shit tests are partially for getting you to tell/show her what you think your SMV is.

In this situation, you displaying your SMV through dread and etc will actually make her extremely insecure and she will start comfort testing you.

blackedoutfast · 2016-12-06T00:16:12+00:00

it means there is no incongruence between how you act and the type of man she thinks you are. this could be good or bad. if she thinks you are a straight up alpha male bad ass player and she's not shit testing you, it's because everything about you fits the stereotype of Chad Thundercock so she has no reason to question it. it could also be because you are totally congruent with her idea of a pushover beta male provider type and potential boyfriend/husband material and right now she is very interested in settling down with a nice safe guy.

Overzealous_BlackGuy · 2016-12-06T00:46:56+00:00

How do you feel about this woman d? Usually this is common with women who have lower SMV than you. They will submit quicker than someone who has some "leverage"

MattyAnon · 2016-12-05T23:13:35+00:00

Either not interested or extremely interested.

MeatCurtainRod · 2016-12-05T21:29:00+00:00

Shit tests only happen if she thinks you are a higher SMV than her.

Title	Girl doesn't shit test at all
Author	fritzthekids
Upvotes	3
Comments	16
Date	December 5, 2016 8:04 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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