I've been with this girl for a year and a half and about to be 2 years . She's 20 and I'm 23 . She in still school for art history . While I'm in nursing school but I'm going transitioning to respiratory therapy.

Girlfriend : She's depress and smoke a lot of marijuana to come in term with it. She had a tough childhood . She lack of motivation and ambition even though she's very creative and bright . To me if she finds a job after graduation she will work hard but she's not the type to look for more in life.

I'm not very emotionally available. She very emotional and want all that cuddle, lovey dove and shit. She wants a lot of attention. I haven't been a simp in years , so it hard to do shit like that all the time .My problem with her is that she lack motivation and ambition and I'm very focus on trying to make a career for myself and build passive income . I want her to be on the same timing as me. However, If i try to tell her anything she's on defense. Her " I'm not going to listen to no man". Relationship is not all about sex, dates, flowers and daises. I want more..

I don't think I can be with someone who is not goal oriented and deflect me with feminist values. This isn't the first time either. Should I give up or keep going until I graduate ? Honestly at the moment I just want to focus on myself and build myself.