I recently hung out with a girl. Had a good time, K-closed. During the interaction she asked if she could see my phone. I told her for what, she told me for snapchat. I knew she was gonna end up taking a selfie with the both of us and posting it on 'my story', basically everyone I have on snapchat can see my story (the pic/video) for 24 hours.

Before I gave her my phone, I realized this would deploy dread game & social proof towards the girls and guys on my snapchat. Now my question is, if I kept that story up for the 24 hours wouldn't that give her validation to a full extent? Wouldn't it be that if I deleted the story after some period of time, the validation would be gone and have her hamster spinning "omg why did he delete that storY?"