Going on dates without paying

yomo86 · 2016-12-31T18:23:45+00:00

Never ever pay. I saw and I experienced that girls will invite you if your SMV is high enough in her eyes. Not losing Chad over some lousy drink; so to speak. Nowadays Betas pay to spend time with her, and a man of some standing should not pay for a strange girl.

MattyAnon · 2016-12-31T18:50:46+00:00

Ok, this is tough because it's a universal female shit test to try and make men pay.

You're right not to. Don't pay for her, but expect you'll pay for a round or two that she won't. Get the odd incidental here and there (taxi fare, coffee). Don't pay for her evening.

Primarily plan for it. Don't go for a meal out - that's just going to be difficult.

You buy a round, she buys a round. If she looks expectantly at you, you lean back, smirk at her, and say "it's your round".

She says "no", then no more drinks.

She says "I don't have my wallet with me, can I borrow some money?" you say no. She says "I realllllllllly wanna suck your dick, won't you pleeeeeeeeeeease pay for this poor girl's drinks?" you say no.

NO EXPLANATIONS.

"but I don't want to have to pay for some girl's drinks" / "TRP told me not to pay".... no no no. No explanations, no justifications. The only word is "no" and then don't cave.

"You're not a prostitute and I'm not a punter" is actually one line you might use. But primarily the word you want is "no".

Expect to be shit tested on it. Be prepared to lose the girl over it.

Bizarrely women respect selfish men.

Willow-girl · 2016-12-31T22:26:50+00:00

Etiquette generally requires the person issuing the invitation to pay, so just wait until a woman asks you out. Easy-peasy!

Retspihi · 2016-12-31T16:51:55+00:00

To be fair not paying at all won't work unless you're attractive enough.

Generally I pay for 1 of her drinks and tell her "next round on you"

dothingsright_ · 2016-12-31T22:47:57+00:00

If she respects you enough she will not care

If she makes a stink about it, it means she doesn't perceive your value to be high enough for her, and therefore she was only spending time with you because she expected something free in return. AKA using you for your resources, like a beta.

Tyler_Gatsby · 2016-12-31T17:14:20+00:00

Plus in addition to what he said, if you think her expecting you to pay for everything is a cunt move, you're just swapping it for a dick move.

jeezydasnowman · 2016-12-31T18:33:17+00:00

You must be a blast at parties!

If you go on dates you pay. If you meet in a group or at your place you don't.

If you don't want to pay don't take 'em out - group dates or your place only.

Title	Going on dates without paying
Author	OneWonder
Upvotes	2
Comments	9
Date	December 31, 2016 3:45 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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