Is it a good idea to give a girl your attention, be responsive but never validate her. After a week or so of deep and flirty texts and even calls, disappear. I'm thinking to disappear for 5 days and she will be obsessed to the point of submission. She will miss me, be lost without me, crave another replyyy!

I say this because it's happened to me before where I've been digging a girl and suddenly she would disappear (and never return) but I plan to return but give that horrible feeling of worthlessness and wasted efforts...