So, last year I got divorced and entered back into the game. I had discovered trp well before getting divorced and was a lucky fellow and got through the family courts mostly unharmed. I had also started the process of swallowing the pill, I had already been lifting but I kicked it up a notch. I worked on myself in every aspect. And by the time my ex and I spoke I was ready to rock so to speak.

Over the past year, I’ve been promoted, and I make more money and am I basically my own boss now. I’m happy, have tons of new hobbies and friends etc.

I’ve played the field pretty amazingly, hooking up with more women this past year than the rest of my life. Including an actress, and a few very wealthy women. I've been successful. I’ve posted before about having between 1 and 3 plates most of this past year. I had one plate that we were essentially in an LTR, with her understanding that I may or may not date outside of it.

It had been reduced to one plate not too long ago, about 2 months ago. When I met this girl... let’s call her L. Anyways, I was stricken right from the start. But I maintained my composure and continued with my LTR plate. Things were great, then I potentially got a third plate. Slept with her a few times, but by about now, I had fallen for L. I basically stopped talking to the new potential plate and completely blew her off, even though she’s pretty awesome. Over the past few weeks I have become more and more distant from my LTR plate, and basically started completely ignoring her this past week.

Well, I had known of L's ex. And things were complicated right. He was trying to make things work again and she had spent some time with him over the past few months but only on a friends basis. She said, she owed him because she felt responsible for some trouble he'd gotten into. So she was helping him with blah blah blah.

She tells me she wants to be with just me, so I tell her if that's the case she needs to cut off her ex. This past week, we spent a ton of time together but then she disappeared Friday until she came over later Friday. I asked her if she had gone to his house and she said she had to break up with him. But that it was done now, it was something she wanted to do in face. Tonight, she’s sitting here at my house sleeping and her phone goes off and it’s a text from him asking if she’s coming over tonight. So I let the curiosity get the better of me and looked at her phone.

I kinda hate myself for it but I got a big fat fucking dose of the red pill. Not only did she not break it off with him, but was planning on going to go to his place tonight and it appears as though she spent the night there Thursday night. After spending Monday through Thursday with me.

I am kinda dumbfounded but I am sure glad I have the red pill at this point. I mean, I’ve met her family, she tells me she loves me and wants to be with me for good, get married etc. We’ve planned stuff for the future, trips, etc.

I guess my question is, I really should cut things off 100% right? I obviously have the feels and trying to turn her into a plate will fail miserably. If I cut things off, how do I go about it? Just stop responding to her? Do I owe her any explanation?

We were supposed to do a concert on Friday and another at the end of the month. I am obviously not going to take her to these. Shit, I almost bought her and myself plane tickets and a vacation for December.

Follow up question. Think there’s any chance of resuscitation of the potential plate or my LTR plate?

Man, really guys reading this, let this be a fucking lesson. AWALT goddamn AWALT.