I have a few other plates on standby, but have been seeing this one for some months primarily because shes the most attractive and best in bed.

I guess the problem that I created for myself is that we'll be spending time together at least regularly instead of seeing other plates or passing (she will never decline and always want me over). Most of the time she will blow my mind and go all out in bed and cook for me, generally treating me well. Somewhat recently, I'll come and some days she won't even be interested in sex and I'll just leave, I pull back attention, and she really goes all out next time I'm over. This has been a few times the last couple months.

I'm thinking it might be time for a hard next because this keeps popping up, and I think I fucked up and lost frame permanently for hanging out regularly or something else. Although I haven't really hit her with a real soft next yet, just pulling back a bit, so I don't know what the best course of action is here.