About 3 months ago I had a brutal unplugging. I dated a girl who was hypergamous and I beta buxed myself out. Luckily I met a couple guys who were really good at girls.
After hanging out with them for a few weeks I noticed that most of the girls go up to them. They don't exactly game. All they do is stand there and girls come up and say hi. They try to "teach me" but no luck.
Other times I am the initiator and start talking to girls but they are usually interested in my wing
This is destroying my self esteem. I know I can talk and "game" girls to my advantage and have good solid rapport, but all these guys do is stand there and rake in the girls. They get all the numbers while I stand on the sidelines. It's as if they throw a fishnet and pull all the fish in while I'm waiting here fishing guppies one at a time. What is wrong with me?!
This may come off as bitter but I really want to improve my game. I have come a long way thanks to TRP and I need to keep moving forward.
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