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Good shit, I read this on Tnation or something a while back. I remember thinking then that in this day and age, you have to be your own Mr. P The Mr. Ps out there ain't in education anymore, they have been forced out or toned down. Unless you have a great football coach or something, you probably didn't have someone like that. If you're in HS or even college, you have to just be that male role model that you didn't have. This is basically what TRP is; you were supposed to have someone who would …
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 08:03 AM
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It drops her ability to get commitment from ALPHAS. That is the whole point of the wall concept. No one is saying a girl can't get a sap. Any girl, old young fat ugly or pretty, chaste or slutty, white black or brown can get a beta. That is basically the definition of a beta. What the wall is harsh about - and correctly harsh about - is these postwall chicks ability to get the guys that excite them, the alphas they once got and crave. The wall does create a lot of female misery and antidepressan…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 07:56 AM
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This is the way to take the RP. Admit what you fucked up, understand why the BP compromise even from a hamstered "RP frame" is still detrimental, and give yourself enough shit for it that you never make the mistake again. Girls do not love you for your caring, your consideration, or your sweeter, nurturing instincts. Yes, men have those feminine qualities in smaller amounts, and yes they do serve a purpose. But don't ever expect her to love you for those qualities. She loves you for your strengt…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 06:38 AM
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All I can say is learn from this experience. She's won this round, your friend is likely not going to have an RP awakening or some shit, he's going to provide her with the lifestyle she wants at the cost of the lifestyle he used to want for himself. And that's the key - USED TO want for himself. Even if he sees what's going on, she's won in that she has sapped his ambition; he no longer wants the things that he wanted when the two of you got this project rolling. I've only let one girl move into…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 05:40 AM
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Yeah - I think she's genuine in that she believes what she is saying, she's been consistent for years now on issues like these. But that being said, there is a significant problem when the only people in society who advocate for men and against feminism are women. Her and Christina Hoff Summers are the only people who take this stance, while men either by force or by choice tend to just steer clear of making a stance. Men have to hold their ground against the tide of bullshit; we cannot just app…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 08:24 PM
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Right, PUA is useful because without the PUA mentality, most of RP guys are just jerking themselves off about self-improvement and monk mode. You can weight train and read all the theory you want about masculinity, but if you cannot walk up to a hot girl, get a conversation going, escalate, and close, then you're jerking off at the end of the night. You do need a baseline of solid game, as well as a knowledge of how to deal with common logistics like AMOGs, a CBing friend, a loud venue, etc.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 08:14 PM
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Well the larger problem is that you're response is clearly you trying to be funny and get a laugh. OPs strategy is better because it's not trying to amuse her with a clever joke.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 09:57 AM
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This is a very selective characterization of PUA. PUA may have an idea like "approach the 10s, approach the girls out of your league, if you're game is tight enough you have a shot" but that does not mean it's unaware of L/M/S or saying a fat slob can get a model. It's saying "you need to build up confidence, social skills, and a little recklessness, so go in believing you can fuck her." It's a good frame for noobies. You're also misinterpreting / selectively interpreting the "girl count doesn't…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 09:53 AM
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Nah people who are violently BP will blow up on you and make your life miserable if you try to RP them. Think about it, you have a dude who's building up anger towards the various types of club dudes who he knows get his GF wetter than he does. When you drop a RP on this guy, you just become the new focal point, a face for what he believes "is wrong with society."
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 09:41 AM
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Strong and independent women exist, but they don't say that they are "strong and independent". Most strong and independent women are functional by themselves - their own life, their own interests, not on antidepressants, not drunk every weekend, friends with hobbies and healthy relationships, etc - but still recognize they operate their best in a relationship with a guy who can lead. Independent does not mean alone; a CEO can be independent as in he has his own opinions and ability to think thro…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 06:19 AM
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Only the ones without strong male guidance in their lives. When you get a girl who has a progressive wimp dad and then goes get P&D, she has no one to show her how to live a functional life and turn her emotional energy into something controlled and constructive. The alphas who could help her wouldn't waste an ounce of energy trying to guide a woman like this, and the betas who want to try to save her do not have the dominance or knowledge of what to do.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 04:46 AM
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Narcissism can be beneficial and in line with reality - ie Michael Jordan's narcissism - or it can be detrimental and based upon fantasy and rationalization. Self-love and delusional confidence play a big role in being able to lead, as well as in being able to approach the hottest girl in the club. But when it's detrimental, it's a form of hamstering, and often manifests in what we would characterize as feminine behaviors. It is not that TRP is "pro" narcissism or "anti" narcissism, but that we …
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 05:35 AM
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It's bad PR. "This discourages real victims from coming forward." News / media would eat it up and NY police have already been under fire for past events related to gender stuff.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 05:26 AM
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She would basically have to be perfect in every other conceivable way. As it is, marriage should really only be reserved for someone is marriage-material. If you're able to meet new women and date them - ie you're not in a bad scarcity, you have other options or the ability to get other options, then you should only marry someone who is so promising in all of the areas that are important to you that you cannot conceive of better options. And if you are at a stage of your life where the best opti…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 11:11 AM
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Yes. Pushing kids to study hard and get good grades is often done to a detriment (with the Asian "tiger mom" stereotype being the extreme example) and results in a preteen who has not had enough time socializing and physically learning how to express himself. When you're ensuring your kid hangs out with other kids and plays a competitive sport, then chances are he will avoid the 'nerd' outcome. Success in terms of career, family, happiness, and so on depend upon "smart" development and "social" …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/15 10:41 AM
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It's a good book. Will it help you actually run game in clubs and bars? Probably not. You need to have a deeper understanding of social dynamics and RP ideas in order to be able to actually put any of these ideas into action. It's not like 48 laws where you can figure "huh, ok, conceal your intentions, I can do that." There's many different archetypes of the seducer, and each "seduction" angle is pretty different - some strategies are very beta, some alpha, some feminine, some masculine. It's ea…
/r/askTRP09/03/15 09:13 AM
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Move to a place where there's girls Approach those girls Quit with the online shit, you lack real world social experience. As a corrollary to point 3, GO MAKE REAL FRIENDS. You say below your two friends at under 21. Go make some dude friends, idc if they are "alpha or beta", just get friends who are social enough, and then arrange social shit with them. You attract what you are. You sound like an ordinary, introverted, skinnyfat Asian guy who gives off an inexperienced vibe, and perhaps a littl…
/r/askTRP09/03/15 09:04 AM
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Let her know that you're happy to do something to make her more comfortable (keep the noise down, keep the place clean, keep her area off limits, not give other ppl keys, etc). But you pay for your space, and you do plan to bring dates over. Roommates are not plates, you cannot treat EVERYTHING like a shit test. Assume there is some reasonable concern here, address the concern. If it turns out that she has no legitimate concern, then you treat her like a child. Let her know that you've heard her…
/r/askTRP09/03/15 08:54 AM
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What will never change is that life's greatest rewards - meaning, achievement, real happiness, financial freedom, abundance in women, the ability to do what you want with your life, etc - will ONLY be something that less than 2-3% of people get to experience. I don't really care if things get better or worse. I care about doing what I have to do to get into that percentile. All that changes as time rolls on is which men get to live in that top echelon. That is really all there is. When you get o…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 04:06 AM
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I have heard about this one but never took the time to read it. This goes balls in. Thanks for sharing
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 11:34 PM
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Damn those titties though... That white dude makes Rick Ross look flat chested
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 11:12 PM
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We need betas for society to work. Please do not interrupt them, they are serving a valuable purpose. People like this jackass think it's noble and beautiful to support the pussy that has been passed around the whole squad, which results in girls knowing they have a safety net. When you get no strings sex, remember that you get that because there's a stream of betas ready to pay the price and accept the strings. She needs commitment and sex; betas who supply commitment create a situation where y…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 11:09 PM
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To get a PhD in woman's studies you have to have produced a thesis; this would mean she actually wrote a book basically on women's studies. PhDs are not a gold standard - the idea of having to create your own idea / prove something / add value to a narrow niche of academia is cool, but realistically, to get a PhD in Women's Studies you just have to buy into the bullshit to an insane degree and then repackage some ideas as your own. That's all.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 08:50 AM
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Millionaires can be self made or inherited. Most billionaires came from the land of connections and silver spoons. There's some exceptions, but generally the elite of elites were born up there already. Reddit overshits on the self-made narrative. Many millionaires I know are humble, hardworking people who honestly do help out when they can - they just can't always manage to. They are not sociopaths, they are not parasites - they just had a good idea that they spun out into a bigger idea, pulled …
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 07:50 AM
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No one is denying anger phase people their god given right to be angry. We are saying don't be angry at women. It is a fruitless endeavor. Being angry at women would be like a fat dude being angry at McDonalds. Be angry at yourself. I know so many poor dudes who are angry at Wall Street or Sillicon Valley or whatever the fuck. They are bad at Obama. Obama didn't make your dumb ass do a stupid major, Larry Page didn't make you use google to search for porn instead of programming classes. Being an…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 07:45 AM
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Well hold up, we can acknowledge OPs point without putting our heads in the sand. Women CAN hold up really well and be sexy way past 30, but on average, most hot girls who aren't fitness/health focused because they are naturally hot... they really hit the wall hard. It is brutal; I was a 20-something, 30 now, and it's true - maybe 1 out of every 5 or 10 hot girls still has the same boner-stirring ability that they did when they were 22. You can acknowledge that and still be focused on self-impro…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 07:31 AM
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We all have selective perception. We see what we want to see. If we want to believe in this popular, but BP "Justice Narrative" where bad people get punished and good people get rewarded, we find examples and distort reality so that we see all the cases that justify our belief system. It is a great human weakness and one key aspect of RP is becoming aware of this tendency, and eventually eradicating it as much as possible. Good girls win and good girls lose, and bad girls win and bad girls lose.…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 07:27 AM
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Women never shame the actual thing itself; they shame the ASSOCIATIONS that the thing has. Women throw a bitch fit about misogyny in tech for instance, because what is the tech scene? A bunch of beta males - nerds - who got their shit together and essentially joined the alpha classes of society through hard work, innovation, and risk-taking. Women throw a bitch fit about gaming because it's association is with beta males. It is not the thing itself, but the participants who women have an issue w…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 06:39 AM
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No, that seems reasonable. Of course, don't let it escalate and don't get a save-a-hoe complex; it is very easy to want to help young plates out with their troubles. First gas money, then food money, then when her landlord is about to evict her she needs a little extra cash... Assuming you can avoid that snowballing effect, then nothings wrong with giving her a little gas money to drive 45 min to see you.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 06:24 AM
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If you have the money to the point where the cost of a sugar baby is negligible, then it's different. If you have significant money, then you want to avoid straight up prostitutes due to the risk of getting caught / scandal / blackmail. If you're an old rich dude, then sure, letting a hot young chick mooch off you in return for pussy is an excellent bargain. You don't even notice the financial hit, it's basically free hot young pussy. Alphas can be thought of as people who pay a minimal price fo…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 09:04 PM
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Yeah, tests come of two sorts. The bitchy obnoxious kind and the "I want to feel how masculine you are" kind. Women test so that they can get an emotional kickback from your reaction, and when women get positive emotional kickbacks, they engage in that behavior that caused them even more often. I think a lot of people think of 'testing' as her challenging / criticizing / nagging you.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 01:08 PM
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SMV is not overinflated; if she's a young, hot 22 year old then she has an accurately high SMV. It's just a price - if men are willing to pay top dollar for a certain commodity, say a high end BMW, then that's the value of that commodity. As much shit as we talk about the wall, it's important to understand that if a girl is truly beautiful and young, AND has the intelligence / game to go after "alpha bucks", she really IS a 9 SMV in that if she plays her cards right, she should be able to lock d…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 12:59 PM
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My GF is not a fan of anal. Way too tight, really painful even with a ton of good quality lube and foreplay, etc etc. She knew I was interested though, so she did it despite not liking it. Taking it up the ass didn't turn her on, but doing something kinky, something out of her comfort zone for me did. End of story. To be honest, I like the pussy better so we only do it once a month, but the funniest thing happened - she started to like it a lot. This has been the case with every single girl who …
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 12:52 PM
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"Online sugar babies"... Read that aloud in your head. Does it really sound like they are for anyone except the most beta-est of bucks?
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 12:41 PM
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That is also a logically retarded argument. No one is talking about a 23 year old obese sloth. If we are talking about women to date, marry, have kids with, etc, then it's already assumed we're talking about a healthy, reasonably fit woman. We are comparing the risk involved with a fit, healthy 23 year old to a 40 year old. This is like if I said "men have greater physical strength than women" and you replied "not a guy who's lost all his muscle mass and motor function due to being in a coma for…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 12:36 PM
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Topics like these show whats at stake in the feminism versus tradition argument. I don't care much for any type of ideological debate and I pity guys who get so wrapped up in MRA that they actually spend time angry, but it is true there's a lot at stake. A generation of women raising kids later and later, hurting themselves and their kids in the process. Women take antidepressants in alarming numbers and spend their prime years caught up in a fruitless endeavors - either chasing a career to prov…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 12:25 PM
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Not very high. If you go to Punjabi areas, do not fuck around with this shit though. Unless you happen to have the sword skills to back it up, and I'm not talking sword as in penis. Punjabis are the coolest dudes you'll meet, but the old school ones do not fuck around.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 07:30 AM
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In every region you can find abundant restaurants that serve you meat. For example, Chennai has a lot of vegetarians, but on every street there will be a good chettinad or fish fry place, and those will actually be the safest options for minimizing bacteria. India is really not that vegetarian at all.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 07:28 AM
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India has a lot of gyms in major cities. In non major cities, no, no gyms. You'll be fine. I would recommend, however, accepting some gains loss and spending time in a gym doing something else... hiking, city-hiking, biking around and seeing shit, exploring nature, etc. India has your big ass LA fitness style gyms, but IMO spending an hour a day in one of those seems like kind of a waste if you're there on limited time. But to each his own.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 07:23 AM
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I definitely recommend travel for all young dudes. (And old dudes). I studied abroad all 4 summers of college to take advantage of my scholarship, which in turn was EASILY, 100x more valuable than the entire rest of college. The key was I lived with normal people, not in special dorms or a hotel, always tried to explore off the beaten path, and always befriended locals. You learn how people are fundamentally identical and how people are different. Yall love to shit on Indian chicks, but take you…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 07:15 AM
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Yeah. An important RP understanding that merits its own post is basically the idea of "there is no such thing as husband-goggles or boyfriend-goggles." Lose value in her eyes, sink in status, get dwarfed by other options she sees around her... your past times and shared memory of you being alpha means nothing. Nothing at all.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 09:26 AM
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You won't have it as easy. I need you to slap yourself upside the head for not being social and fucking chicks in college. Now that's that out of the way and you've learned your lesson, put it out of your mind. It's done, all you can do is do better now. The good thing about life after college is that IF you were not high status / popular / networked in college, your chances are actually higher now. Simply having a good job, dressing well, speaking confidently, and being connected into the right…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 10:03 PM
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There's two possible explanations. One, he loves her because of a history they share. This is how many very powerful, successful guys stay in love with their wife they married young - they have a huge mental map of all these happy memories. It's a blind spot if you will; because you've had these years with the girl when she was in her prime, you are essentially blinded to her aging. Many old guys will speak like this; they honestly see their 60 year old wife as the same 22 year old they took out…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 09:54 PM
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Dude, the end goal is not some grand thing singular thing that all RPers all follow. Pussy is an - not the - but an end goal for me. Fuck all the masturbatory bullshit about transcending and going your own way, that's just excuses not to approach. I prioritize other things ahead of pussy - namely time, money, work, etc - but I still prioritize pussy. And I'm 30, I've had enough sex that I could say "blah I bored of sex, pussy is all the same, game is stupid." I've been to enough clubs in enough …
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 09:02 AM
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Yeah, my GF tried this same shit when my aunt died (my aunt raised me for a few years, probably closer to me than my mother). Going through the process of grief and acceptance is important, and it's doubly important that I go through the process alone. Accepting loss and tragedy and ugliness is important. You can have a healthy emotional process like grief or anger and work through it internally, while externally being the same, disciplined man. I have a few experiences with good friends / famil…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 08:41 AM
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This comes down to a "would you rather be right" or "would you rather fuck more" trade-off. People who use the "I just don't like people, people are stupid, girls are vapid, I could be social / build a circle / approach more, but eh"... they justify it and other people agree, and technically, it's true. But at the end of the day, it's a shortcoming, plain and simple. Nothing wrong with being introverted, but you should be able to switch on the skillset of an extrovert to get what you want out of…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 07:51 AM
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Maturity, intelligence, personality, etc, is not based upon age for women. There's correlation to some degree, but certainly not causation - simply having more years under your belt of being a "city girl" will often strip you of maturity in many ways. Girls think becoming jaded and cynical after getting pumped and dumped a lot means they are now "grown up" - then they get mad when guys go for the girls before that phase. The ones who still have ambitions, ideals, personality, etc, that hasn't be…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 08:56 AM
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The point is that the 90/10 phenomena in China is much more exaggerated than it is in the US. High status guys have a pick of women everywhere, but the specific circumstance of there being a tiny percentile of eligible guys compared to a gigantic pool of women only really happens to this degree in large cities with huge socio-economic inequality. Shanghai for example makes the Wall Street gold digger scene look like Disney.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 06:54 AM
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Yeah, I get bombarded with this shit on my feed. It's usually about how SV's tech scene is this giant misogynist circlejerk. Why do you think it works? VCs ruthlessly evaluate potential startups on the basis of how probable the early-stage product is to create value - emotions are not in the equation. No funding some retarded "women in construction" project because "society needs change." Meanwhile, you have these 80-90% male startups where everyone is generally on the same page - young, ambitio…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 02:55 AM
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Well, there's many more men than women in China, but a tiny, tiny TINY percentage of them are high status. There's massive demand for guys who can afford to live in a good area, drive a nice car, and have a high potential career. High status guys in China have a huge pick of women.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 02:41 AM
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Fair enough. Sparknotes actually covers it pretty well I think
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 02:10 AM
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It's retarded in it's phrasing, but the question is definitely something I see newbies ask over in asktrp or trpgame when it was a thing. No harm in wondering what approaches other guys take.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 02:08 AM
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Two approaches - One, you do not give a fuuuuck. You should be hitting on other girls. When she comes back, you're with someone hotter. If she comes back and says "Sorry that was really rude of me, I just knew that guy from work and felt like I had to say hi" then fine, have her buy you a drink or something stupid and proceed. If not, continue on with your night. Always structure dates in a way that if she no-shows (or is a bitch, or does the above) you can still have fun. I go to a bar in SF th…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 02:07 AM
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Postwall women versus pre-wall are easy and difficult in different ways. Postwall women are desperate for a relationship with like you said, a Mr Right, so if you play upon that, you can be the alpha high SMV guy who selectively flashes just enough beta traits to hook her. By their 30s they are a bit more wary of the pump and dump because it's happened so many times - but flashing enough beta traits to seperate you from the other "fun" guys, while not enough to cripple your game will always get …
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 01:53 AM
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Movie is absolute shit. Book has it's problems too, but the ideas are at least very thought provoking and in some respects, extremely RP. But the movie is a terrible, absolutely abysmal representation of the book.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 09:46 AM
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They are invisible but we generally treat them with dignity, don't lead them on, don't mock them (well, unless they are the obese and in your face about it type), and would not shame them at all if these undateable women tried to hit on us. Women tend to both use and feel a general level of disgust for the betas around them. It's tempting to construct a parallel between low SMV women and men, but the experience is not really the same. Low SMV women for example still get tons of visibility from l…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 08:01 AM
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Betas do become visible when they are needed to provide some utility. That's what keeps so many guys blue pilled - they think "yeah well I know all these other beta guys who got the girl in the end, they all got married despite being losers and nerds. I'll be fine, I'll just wait until she matures and sees what I have to offer." You can be appreciated and cherished for the utility you provide, but not loved. Never loved. Love with its full intensity and passion - the type of love that makes a gi…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 07:53 AM
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Danny is a perfect example though of hypergamy though. The way she drops Alpha A (Francisco) for slightly-more-Alpha B (Rearden) for more-Alpha C (Galt) is just brutally cold but honest. Thats how it is - after she moves to the next guy, she never thinks or feels bad about it or struggles with the transition; now that she's had better, the old guy ceases to exist because he's now a downgrade.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 07:41 AM
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Well, it's also that by even indulging in this faggotry, these men were outing themselves as low status and approval seekers. Women feel nothing but disgust for low status guys. Women can feel empathy for the hardships of men in some circumstances, but they can only feel revulsion towards the type of guy who would choose this kind of degenerate behavior.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 07:34 AM
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Yeah, my GF is half Asian and she sometimes complains about how her mother makes very rude remarks to her friends. (Oh Sally, nice to see you, you've gained weight!) that type of stuff. I fucking love that woman. She instilled great habits in my gf and her honesty is probably what helped my GF start working out earlier in life, before she "had" to. The fact that we have full grown adults in America who get offended and hurt when others - like their doctors, loved ones, etc - try to suggest losin…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 07:25 AM
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Yeah, man, it's rough. The hottest early bloomers - like the ones who had great tits at 14 - are sagging now at 29. I met up with some old high school friends and my friend, this Trinidadian guy who we all thought was the shit because he banged the hottest popular white chick, showed me a pic of his HS sweetheart he married out of college. Bitch went from a 9 to a 6 in 10 years. Poor guy, but hey, they are perfect for each other because they both peaked in status very early in life and thus deve…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 07:16 AM
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Completely, I understand it too. Being short is objectively worse; there are no scenarios where you wouldn't be better off being 6'2". The problem with the "things are so bad for me bc I'm short" argument is that it stems from a faulty understanding of how attraction in women is generated. Attraction for men is determined by her physical traits - it's purely up to her body. Attraction for women is based more upon status, personality, and higher value behaviors. Physical traits are secondary (wit…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 08:40 PM
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All men who are low SMV should go "MGTOW" for 6mo to 1yr. Get in monk mode, improve your SMV, learn discipline and ambition and focus. You will find that as your SMV grows, a lot of TRP game comes naturally. For example, when you advance in your career and you have a hot secretary, how easy is it to get a great, sexual vibe going back and forth? When you become the boss, you naturally will employ boss behaviors. TRP wasn't around when I was in college but in my freshman year, I started working o…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 02:40 AM
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There's no need for a false dichotomy. You can fuck hookers from time to time while ALSO being motivated to go PU girls via cold approach at the club. You can be on your monk mode grind to build SMV to get hotter pussy, and you can spare some of your cash to try out some 9s you don't have access to yet. These things can co-exist, which is what I hope people take away from your last paragraph. The end goal is to minimize the cost of top shelf pussy. There is two paths to this end - you can get yo…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 02:27 AM
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Especially short people. Shut the fuck up already with the whining about how people think of you as a joke, girls won't ever consider you sexually, blah blah. It's way more common than the Asian or MTGOW thing. They all have this "hey its just facts girls dont like short guys it's dat evo bio" attitude and then when you ask them if they have been working out consistently, the convo goes cold. Height-whining hopefully will go out the door along with the other types of pity-me crap.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 12:00 AM
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Article said it best - no one gives a fuck because society has already created such a strong stigma against "deadbeat dads". No one gives a fuck about male problems. End of story. In this case, the judge could have really gone either way - yes he was outside of his window to contest the paternity of the child so according to the strict wording of the law, her insane decision was defensible. She also could have interpreted the case in a way that wasn't intentionally dimwitted - he didn't know tha…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 08:21 PM
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When you try the plate model of TRP - especially if you can get to the stage where you can get a rotation going - most people will find that the only girl worth LTRing is a girl who is SIGNFICANTLY higher RMV/SMV than the girls they are plating. I don't dislike relationships, I just have a insanely high standard for them (as all men should IMO).
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 07:47 PM
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This old chick needs some dick in her life. I guarantee you if she had an alpha dude in her life before she fit2fatted she would maintained that figure. Women do not have internal motivation; they are motivated by earning validation and feeling sexy from higher status guys. No higher status dick in her life = she doesn't get to feel sexy and desired from getting in good shape. The take-away here is that through applying TRP in your relationship - aka being higher value and always raising your SM…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 07:44 PM
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You are both right; his attitude is the only way to look at the situation in a manner that's useful. You definitely can see the opportunity in the slump, and if you have any real hope as a millenial with a liberal arts degree and underemployment, it's going to be through adopting that kind of attitude. Realistically though, your outlook is what most likely will happen. It will not be OK; I am 30 and financially stable in a field I love, but every single time I get lazy or complacent, I remind my…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 10:27 AM
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I rarely smoke, but I use weed all the time as a reason for girls to come back to my house. I don't play the guitar, I don't have "cool photos of my cat" to show her, so when I'm trying to leave somewhere with a girl, I ask if she wants to smoke and watch a movie / listen to some music / etc. College girls especially, as soon as a party is dying down and people are trickling out, you pull them by saying "this place is getting boring, let's go to my place, blaze one, then go to X's after party." …
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 09:48 AM
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It's biological; this argument is extremely simplistic, but a natural represents good DNA. Good, masculine looks and a healthy upbringing led him to be confident as a kid, which led him to make friends and be a leader of his friend group, and his positive behaviors were reinforced and got him attention. He was always one of the cooler kids, so he never had problems getting a girl, so he developed confidence with women as a result of always being able to have someone around due to his physical an…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 09:29 AM
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Yes and no. Do most women use sexuality to gain advantages where they can? Absolutely. Are most women conscious of all the ways in which they leverage their sexuality? No. They are aware of the obvious ways - aka flirting with their boss, a waitress putting on a cute / flirty air when serving a table of men, etc. They are semi-aware of the semi-obvious ways, and they thus retain plausible deniability. For example, she knows that her behavior changes to fit social situations. When she is late for…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 08:18 AM
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The problem with newcomers to any philosophy be it PUA or RP or even something like MGTOW or bodybuilding or paleo is they lack the ability to differentiate between what to keep and what to forget. PUA is a gold mine. The sheer amount of useful info in old school PUA or new school PUA is enough to help any guy get great results in 3 months - 1 year depending on how fucked up he is at the starting point. If you are good at extracting information, you can read David Deangelos original ebook and st…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 04:35 AM
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Bukowski's Women is a fantastic read, but it's important to note that Bukowski (or rather, Chinaski) is a caught in RP/BP purgatory. The pill got stuck in his throat, he never actually choked the damn thing down and learned how to apply it. You see that in that he is essentially a 50 year old man trying to fuck out the pain of having no one love him in his teens and twenties. When he blew up as author, Chinaski's whole deal is that THEN he started cashing in on pussy, but he's constantly bitter …
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 10:49 PM
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The reason for this generally is because that when you are a "nice guy" people can tell you are putting on a mask and they assume you are after something. Think of a salesperson who's shooting the shit with his friend in his normal voice, then when you enter the store, he speaks in the salesy voice "Hi, what can I help you find today!" His "nicer" voice is clearly because he wants to get a rapport going with you, and you know that he wants that rapport going because he wants something from you, …
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 10:13 PM
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If I had to boil down TRP into one most important take-away, it would be watch what people do, not what people say. Watch what women do, not what they say. 50 Shades is the best selling book in an age where no one reads anymore and the purchasers are women. The book has wet more panties than Brad Pitt in his prime. Someone brought up the comparison to Streetcar Named Desire and about how in the 50s, women would literally faint in the theaters due to how aroused they were by the abusive Marlon Br…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 12:03 AM
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This reminds me of a similar attitude switch that I found incredibly helpful. I think it was an Eric Thomas video - "I don't GOT to go to work, I GET to." You don't have to go to the gym, you get to go to the gym, it's a privilege. I don't have to work on building a new skillset to get a new job while I'm already working hard in my current job, I get to. It's amazing that we have this environment where you can find avenues for improvement in any area. Feel sorry for the people who have no shit t…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 11:47 PM
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TRP is very effective in Europe. France, Spain, Romania, Czech, Moscow, I've spent a decent amount of time in those countries and basically in big cities where there's the highest concentration of young, hot party chicks you have a certain normalization of female behavior. Some cities you will find girls are way more honest about their intentions (gold diggers are upfront about it, girls looking for an alpha dick are way more cold about shutting down betas, girls looking for a beta provider are …
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 07:29 PM
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The better question to ask is why do you find yourself annoyed that women don't care about your troubles? Them caring about your troubles would in no way better you, lessen your troubles, or mean anything at all. Going through all of that rough shit you mentioned is about you, it "hardened you up and honed your attitude" as you said. That is a masculine process, and an individual process at that too. You can't be annoyed that girls can never truly empathize. They aren't meant to, they are meant …
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 10:02 AM
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Man yall short motherfuckers are as annoying as the Asian/Indian pity threads that were showing up a few months ago. Millions of generations of short people around the world have managed to, despite their reduced physical appeal, reproduce wildly. This post is just like those posts where people of X race bitch about how Y race of girls isn't into them. Your father of X race and his father and his father found a way to get pussy; you can do the same, there is nothing wrong with you. No one treats…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 09:40 AM
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All very attractive women receive an abundance of attention and validation, as well as some degree of being pursued and sexualized as early as 13. How they respond to this will typically differ based on their individual qualities, situations, and how their parents equipped them to deal with it. They generally lose their ability to accurately perceive reality because everyone around them creates this fantasy lalaland. Special treatment, fawning, envy from other girls, constantly treated like a pr…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 06:15 PM
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Yes and no. Follow this simple rule and you will be OK. Spin plates until her beauty no longer causes you to treat girls of her tier differently, and then you are ready to date in that tier. Spin 9s for a while, they you probably will have the frame you need to date one. Women are women. The 9s and 10s generally make superior plate material because they are so used to every guy falling for them quick. So start it as a plate and understand that you have to get her desperate for a LTR. When you ch…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 05:57 PM
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Plenty of younger girls fundamentally understand this at least subconsciously. That is why they hook up and date down - aka the baby steps of AFBB. They understand they cannot get commitment and love out of the high SMV guys, so they allow mid SMV guys (betas who aren't too socially retarded) to date and tend to their emotions. You cannot take what girls say at face value. When they say they are hooking up like guys and they are just having casual sex, there is generally more to the picture; the…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 05:36 PM
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What can be done here? Grow up. Become a man and leave your wounded boy ego behind. You are trying to speak for all guys who grew up low SMV. Sure, some spend their lives doing what you described. Some choose to just fold and accept their boring beta life and support a post wall hamster. Others choose to grow out of their boyhood phase and accept that they will never get to have the idyllic adolescent phase their cool friend had. They accept that it's gone forever and they cannot rewind the cloc…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 05:14 AM
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This is actually very useful. By creating a culture where women feel that it's cool to brag about sexual exploits, we've made it so that every a unperceptive dimwad can figure out whether he's dating P&D, plate, or LTR material. If you date girls from cultures that are very honest about the fact that your SMV goes down the toilet if you slut around... guess what, you have to be a fucking Sherlock to figure out if she's a slut. It's doable, but for example, you have to really spin a few Indian ch…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 04:36 AM
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Interesting perspective. Reminds me of the "towards" and "away from" motivation idea. Some people are spurred to action by a fear of something that will happen if they do not act - aka if I don't kill it in my job, I'm riding this 94 accord for the rest of my life. If I fail to put in work with my diet and exercise, I'll look like my dad did at 40. I do not think that's the best way to find motivation because that will only take you so far. Avoiding failure and staying above water - aka not bein…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 04:07 AM
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Well done. Even if you were sure you were the father, the thing to do is to demand a paternity test. From your post though - "she liked to spend my money" - you played a role in spawning this entitled behavior. She was used to enjoying your finances so in her mind, it was something she could rely upon getting again.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 03:47 AM
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This should also serve as a wake-up call to guys - if you engage in these behaviors, you will be seen as a joke. Men don't have to know about RP to instinctively feel disgusted by a fellow grown ass man who displays these bitch behaviors. Women can never cut these behaviors out of their personality and you will only screw them up if you try to iron these self-destructive tendencies out of your LTR. Your job as a man and leader is not to reprogram her, but to be unaffected by her child-like tende…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 08:02 PM
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This post highlights something that I think a lot of older guys miss. It's not about the witty fucking banter. Scooping 18-22 y/o hot girls from Tinder, Drake / Lil Wayne concerts, clubs, college bars, or even from Starbucks while they wait for their PSL is not about being super smooth and James Bond-y. You don't need the right words, the right lines... I see so many guys trying to "verbally joust" and flirt from this intelligent, older dude perspective. Your voice is a tool to convey intent, do…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 07:46 PM
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There are 3 types of intelligence - mental, emotional, and physical. I know that sounds like some Oprah shit that mentally-dumb people tell themselves to feel superior because they are "people-smart", but bear with me. Intelligent people have the mental power to create very intricate worlds and webs of rationalization that exist in their heads. When reality proves them wrong - when a fratboy fucks their bitch - they can invent these crazy, convoluted mental frameworks that explain why that happe…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 09:48 PM
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I'm going to offer a counter-opinion even though I agree with 90% of what he's saying - the stuff he brings up like "Don't ever shit-test", "don't ever challenge him", "don't try to dominate the interaction at all", "don't be bitchy" etc. High value girls have two reasons they engage in these types of behaviors. First, it's the only real way to filter out the actual high value guys. Everyone can buy a car, a suit, groom themselves, and learn to speak with a little confidence; you will need to sh…
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/15 09:36 PM
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Here's the thing. Depression is, in my humble NON-MEDICAL, ANECDOTAL experience, created when you are in an overly passive, thinking-mode. You are purely contemplating TRP, you are sitting back and looking at the world through the subjective experiences of other people. Actively apply TRP and I guarantee you will find it actually beautiful. When you get out and go try to apply game with your friends, and your success inspires them to stick with it, and one year later you all have changed... it's…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 03:47 PM
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Ambition, Game, Physique. In that order, just OD on it, you must have insane drive and ambition, and after that, you need great game, and next in importance, you need your smaller frame to look damn good. After those 3, the holy trinity, you need to dress great, have excellent body language, and reach a point in your career where you can at least give yourself a life that looks and feels successful to you. That's enough. She doesn't see your bank account and feel attracted; she sees your lifesty…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/15 07:22 AM
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Couldn't agree more. This has been my experience in education to a T, and this is an issue than spans RP/BP divides, liberal/conservative divides, and so on; across the board people are saying it differently, but education is a a beta-male factory. If you think of the company pyramid, education is aimed at producing young graduates destined for a career starting at the bottom and peaking at the middle. By the age of 30-40, they work themselves into these Michael Scott positions (middle managemen…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 06:56 AM
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The thing is, there is no end game really. What you classify as end game is to another man a disaster he'd rather avert. Many alphas don't care about having a legacy, changing society, marriage to a unicorn, having wealth far beyond the point of freedom from work, etc. What is "true success?" Having a bunch of kids? Evolutionary success is not necessarily the end all, be all - for example, how many of you had beta bitch fathers who found a way to raise 3 kids and enjoy a middle class lifestyle, …
/r/TheRedPill28/12/14 03:22 AM
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This is a ridiculous argument because regardless of what this particular individual does, he's friendzoned and beta as fuck. Keep the picture, dont keep the picture - if he was the type of guy who could jump on this opportunity to run some type of angle and get a flirty thing going, then he would be in this situation in the first place. We are arguing about what makes him "look" less or more beta, but either case is still in the same ballpark of beta. 2% less beta when you are this in the blue i…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 09:35 AM
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Black guys who date white girls get SO much shit from black women. I'm not sure about your scenario of black women / white men, but most of my black friends who are high value get incredible shit from black girls if they date whites or asians.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 06:09 AM
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Seriously, thank god this has happened. If you are any race and any height and any anything, we will strategize with you. Whatever you are, TRP members of varying experience levels can discuss what you can do to maneuver your low-self-esteem penis into whatever type of pussy you want. It's all do-able. You just have to approach it with the "what can I do to get better" attitude. Asians been breeding like no other; if you are Asian, Indian, etc, chances are someone with your genetics a few genera…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 06:03 AM
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It's a balancing act. Too beta and she actually feels such disgust that she rationalizes that she was tricked into being spun out by you -> crazy behavior. Break up too bluntly and coldly -> crazy behavior. I'm a firm believer in the politician's path - don't ever self-deprecate to get her to dump you, just as a politician never ever pins a failure on himself. But also, do not take too "alpha" of a path (alpha is not the descriptor that fits best here, but I'm using it because you get the gist).…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 05:46 AM
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Religion isn't RP unless you're the one cashing in on it. The majority of religion is based upon instilling beta-male traits into men and regulating female behavior so that beta male behavior is rewarded. Being a better alternative than a different type of religion - feminism - does not make "religion RP as fuck."
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 01:31 AM
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This is a realistic, down to earth post about the difference in how genders perceive and fixate on "value". It's also a good lesson in why the gym can only take you so far. Lift, lift, and lift some more, but social capital is king; women are social creatures over visual creatures. The young, hot ones especially; they care most about how cool you are and as your social status rises, they progressively blind themselves to your faults and their pussies get wetter. Women do not only value status, b…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 08:33 AM
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You need to either be strong in many areas, or very, very strong in one or two areas. There's no "bare minimum", this isn't admission to law school where you just fuck the LSAT and you get the pussy. You have to be qualitatively and holistically "attractive" - how high you have to be in any individual category completely depends upon your other areas. Minorities can be part of the top 1%, let alone 20%. As an arab dude you're probably not becoming the next president or making it big in the blue …
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 08:28 AM
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Damn dude, that is crazy. I definitely haven't been stalking you because all my friend's chicks took everything out but the kitchen sink. It is rare that a woman has the class to do that. It's most likely a testament to what you once were that you snagged that chick in her prime and at least for a little while had the idyllic relationship. You've got to give up the regret. You admitted what you did, you do not blame the world or blame your parents for raising you beta or blame her. That's better…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 08:56 AM
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This seems more of function of Australia's faggotry than anything else. Australia is always in the news for having some ridiculous, Sweden-esque feminist shit going on. Australian women are a worse breed than US or UK women IMO. I personally think that feminism has reached the critical mass where it is not going to be stopped. The trinity of feminism, marxism, and large government is going to absolutely ravage us in the next 10-50 years. We really only have control over how fast it happens; we d…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 06:37 AM
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Yes. If you have high SMV and you know how to screen, it's not impossible. Spin enough plates and you'll find it. As long as you are not in a hurry and willing to keep working on being more attractive, it's perfectly feasible. And btw - the girl does have a hope for commitment and exclusivity. It's just a question of sex coming before commitment. As a general rule of thumb, if you can only fuck her after you give commitment, your are in the BB slot. Getting snarky at me won't change that.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 06:15 AM
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So, this is not really answering your post, but it's just food for thought. I'm 30 and most of my friends were exactly like you - fairly cool guys who had their lives handled, met "good girls" through courtship / BP strategies, got married fairly young. They would rave about it just like you do, like "yeah we fuck like rabbits", "yeah she cooks for me.", and so on. The BP strategies took them far, no doubt, and for a good while they enjoyed the results us on TRP would say that "only guys with al…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 01:21 AM
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Couldn't have said it better. OP, be a man, accept she will do what she's going to do. Be high value, have her be the concerned one, have her be the LDR GF who's paranoid you're going to cheat. If you're not high value enough to make that happen, then prepare your exit strategy and come to terms with the fact that you may have to go back to fucking other chicks. If you pulled 9 as you said with this current girl, you can pull a 9 again.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 01:05 AM
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You just have to be higher SMV than her. Girls hook up and date down - aka AF/BB. The best way is to hook up with a chick in a scenario where it's clear you're in the "AF" slot so to speak. If you like her, make her a plate. If she's awesome in that role and has a lot of green flags, then you offer the commitment. If you do it this way, and you maintain your frame without falling into beta behaviors, then you'll have the best shot of getting an attractive, loyal GF. (As loyal as women can be, if…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 01:01 AM
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So ignoring the fact that you are horrified / not sold on TRP, I'd say you need to be curious about other things. You sound like a smart guy, but dude, why are you not curious about anything? It looks to me like your a programmer making good SF money in his twenties who works around the clock, yes? What's the next step, what are you passionate about that you want to get into? Assuming you don't want to write code working Sillicon Valley hours forever. What field do you want to move into by 30? 4…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 12:55 AM
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I agree, this is a black and white, extremist take. That is how I tend to interpret RP - if there are hobbies that are fun and contribute to your SMV, and hobbies that are fun and detract from your SMV (or keep it neutral), then it's a waste to spend an hour a week even in the latter category. Realistically maybe 1% of us will ever get to experience what people on top of the social or sexual pyramid is like. To get to the top, you need an extremist take; moderating between "a little bit of the g…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 12:43 AM
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Right. There are dudes who are winning in life who do all kinds of stupid shit. Some guys wife up a ho (Kanye) and will still be sky-high in terms of SMV - but is doesn't mean wifing up a ho is good or compatible with RP. "Hey buy I know someone who eats a lot of McDs and is still ripped.." Okay, are you that guy? No, you're probably not, so you have to do more than he has to do. "My friend makes 200k, fucks hot girls, and has a job he's passionate about, a ton of interesting hobbies, etc, and h…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 12:26 AM
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Haha, no, I'm targeting games because they engage a lot of your masculine urges on a deeper level that other time-wasters (crappy TV, internet surfing, etc.) I'm singling out gaming because it's popular and something that a lot of people will defend to the death; it's something many people are not even conscious of how it impacts their lives. The argument I'm making can be directed towards porn or excessive sports-following, but not really towards "any hobby or knowledge not critical to survival…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 12:14 AM
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Hahaha, Dwarf Fortress is a brilliant game, back in the really early days when it came out and there was no tilesets or anything I would play it. It's honest in that regardless of what you do, you will have nothing to show for it because something will destroy everything. I am not saying games can't be brilliant, give you a mental workout, or take you through literary-quality themes. They can. But even when they are really high-quality, immersive, thought-provoking experiences, they aren't helpi…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 12:07 AM
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I am not a dev. I'm in game monetization at a mobile games studio. For developers and designers and artists, you do need to play enough to understand what works, what is cliche, and what is innovative. It's an exception, and it's fully reasonable to spend 1-2 hours a day doing "market research." If you haven't broke into the industry yet and you spend your time gaming with the dream of wanting to become a dev, then that is problematic in my mind, because there is a world of difference between ma…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 07:47 PM
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There are other fields in the gaming industry than programmers and journalists. Look at how butthurt your coming across... No where did I blame any of my shortcomings on gaming. If you think this is the same CNN "video games are bad" spiel, then you are reacting emotionally to what I'm saying because you are aggravated that someone said negative things about something you cherish. Look, it's simple - is your life as awesome as you want it to be? You don't have to answer, you will probably just l…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 07:32 PM
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OK, if you're in the success realm of Frank Underwood or any other celebrity who's achieved something, then fine, play an hour a two a day. If not, then I would say, sure, there's no "problem" with playing an hour a day, but I bet I could think of 100 things more useful and productive to do with that time.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 07:20 PM
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What? Red Pill is about success sexual and social strategy. It is not some subjective "all pursuits are created equal, if it makes you happy, it's RP." Some guys would be happy being the emotional crutch for women and buying them things, like it deeply fulfills them to be selfless and validate these women, because they get to feel good about themselves. That doesn't mean what he's doing is RP. I'm not saying RP is solely about success with women or finances or social circles. But realistically s…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 07:17 PM
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Actually it does make you smarter - learning a musical instrument has a variety of agreed upon mental / brain benefits. http://brainconnection.brainhq.com/2001/01/27/playing-the-piano-might-make-you-smarter/ This has nothing to do with my personal feelings towards gaming. I am not blaming gaming for anything, and I am certainly not saying you can't be successful and game. Gaming is objectively worse than other hobbies because the skill provides zero utility (with a few obvious exceptions - if pl…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 10:37 AM
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Can't really argue this since I don't have the firsthand experience being married with kids. But what I'm trying to get through the thickskulls of some people here is just because you CAN do something without it being negative... doesn't mean you should. Maybe there's not actually time for adventures anymore. Or maybe that's an excuse, and there's something more interesting that you can be doing. Maybe gaming is the absolute best slot of that small free time you have, but I'm not buying it. I kn…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 09:43 AM
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Right, but the problem with how most people stave off burnout is it's basically an everlasting see-saw. Tire out your brain from hustling, medicate with TV, porn, games, etc, tire out, entertain, etc. The rebound activity detracts from the specific qualities you need to kill it in the activity that does the "burning out". It's far better to find hobbies that are regenerative without being erosive (reading good shit, physical hobbies, dancing, music, art, graphic design, taking courses, literally…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 09:22 AM
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I work at a fairly high-tier startup, I'm familiar with video games being used as a bonding tool. That is a very minor exception and has nothing to do with what I'm talking about - you can have a pickup game of CoD with your coworkers on a friday afternoon without investing in gaming, being a gamer, or even having an xbox. It's not in any sort of way something you need to spend a meaningful amount of time on to "fit in and advance with the top level." That is ridiculous and many high ranking ind…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 09:12 AM
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What's interesting is not that, but rather why so many people on invest so heavily into it on such a massive level, when it very clearly doesn't get you anywhere. My point is not that it doesn't get you anywhere or even why it doesn't get you anywhere. It's what how to handle the allure that video games present if you're a casual gamer, and what to do to get unaddicted if you are addicted. Most people who game whether lightly or heavily are aware that it's not contributing to any goals or gettin…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 09:03 AM
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Do it dude. DA:I is supposed to be excellent. Think about the # of hours you envision spending, say 100, and think about what you could do in 100 hrs.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 08:55 AM
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Same here dude. I remember thinking "man it's incredible, this area looks just like Yosemite, I wonder if blizzard modeled this area after this mountain range... look at the way that the scenery shifts so naturally as you fly south." Then you realize that your friend just hiked the Appalachian, took these amazing photos of the trip, and each one represents this amazing, cherished memory and challenge... I used to also credit these games with inspiring my sense of exploration, but then I realized…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 08:52 AM
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Yup - couldn't have said it better. The distinction between coordinating a terran offensive and learning to play the guitar or turn a canvas into something beautiful is that the latter situation, you still have poured your love into creating something. Even if it's crappy, even if you won't make money or gain approval off of it, you'll feel more energized, self-confident, and you'll have more rationalizations in your brain for why you should act as a high-status, interesting person.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 08:46 AM
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Interesting question. It's better, because learning the piano likely made you smarter, it gave you a few areas I imagine you're decently knowledgable about (music theory, etc), it trained your dexterity and coordination, your aural sense, and your rhythm. These are all skills. They are objectively perfectly fine skills that many people use in their day to day lives. So think of it like this - IF you can figure out a way to use all of the skills you've developed by really digging in deep into the…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 08:43 AM
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What do they add? So far, I only see the social bonding tool, which I do agree with to a degree. My logic is if something is not helping you improve and having a mild negative effect, then why do it? Even gaming say 2-3 hrs a week... it's not that it is bad, but it's the absence of something good. You can be RP and game, sure, but you're being RP in spite of your hobby. It's like I can eat a McDonalds a few times a week and I'll still be in good shape with no weight gain, because I work out and …
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 08:35 AM
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I would say karma is a simple but effective gamification method and playing the karma game is the problem. It encourages people to spout opinions they know will be popular in order to gain karma and feel good. The writing aspect and sharing of info is something that used to be a social, in-person aspect of our culture, but unfortunately it's not there anymore, and when it is, often the advice is horrible. It's why reddit is a fantastic, shitty place that is both productive and counter-productive…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 08:28 AM
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Yeah, what you mentioned towards the end is key. The depression from the severance to your negative hobby can be worse than the years gaming. When you stop, if you do not find a purpose and long term big picture goal to work towards, then your life post-gaming can be even worse than during the raiding years so to speak. You have to systematically break down what the gaming was doing for you socially, competitively, neurologically, etc, and find positive, engaging substitutes.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 08:12 AM
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Sure - that is the common reddit viewpoint. But different people interpret RP in different ways. If your RP goals are to maximize your drive and optimally pursue long term, difficult goals that require high work ethic (aka, anything that will take you into the real realm of high status), then you might want to evaluate my points and consider if gaming "as a hobby" contributes or detracts. That is all - while a moderate stance to video games (and porn and TV and so on and so forth) is going to wo…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 08:09 AM
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Yes, I have noticed this too. People have forgotten that alpha is really the very top of the sexual pyramid, and beta is everything else. Instead TRPers are looking down and thinking that betas are the very floor of the pyramid, the pathetic excuses for men we see in r/relationships. Then they get to say "hey, I'm better than they, huh, I guess I'm alpha!" No. You're somewhere in between the ceiling in the floor. You have alpha qualities perhaps and great potential for alpha behavior, but that's…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 05:01 AM
3

It's just the nature of the pill and who it attracts. Most of the men here, they have lost their cherishes, their one-itises, etc, to guys like this. Of course they are just going to bitch and moan about how "that guy is just an ass, he's not better than the betaboy! He's just a douche!" It's because they still picture themselves subconsciously as in the betaboy's shoes. They have been resenting the confident "asshole" who jacks their girl - and secretly wishing they were that guy - for years, s…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 04:26 AM
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If I never have to see this cunt's name again, I would be very pleased. Why are we doing her marketing work for her?
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 07:19 PM
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What I found interesting is the reaction of the husband's parents. They know the fucking drill. Their perspective is "Son, you done fucked up and wasted a few years of your life. No biggie, we'll slap some lawyers on this bitch, you won't have to see this trashspawn, you'll completely move on with a clean slate. We'll do a better job of making sure we screen the ho next time." You can picture him giving his son a thwack alongside the head and a "don't be an idiot next time." There's a lot of RP …
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 07:15 PM
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It's a troll. Which doesn't mean you should discount the story, because women do think like this. Just not with the same frothing at the mouth, feminist, buzzword-using (patriarchy, "violent misogyny", etc) language and the attention whoring comments. When women tell these stories, they jam the post full of tons and tons of inconsequential, unrelated information and only get to the actual crux (in this case the decision to not tell the father and to go ahead with the baby) after they've made you…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 06:56 PM
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It's not about denying your own life experiences or pretending the world is full of butterflies and honey or whatever. Everything I mentioned is a choice - one can choose to believe the world is a beautiful place without believing it is an exclusively beautiful place. It's not about being delusional, it's about what the person chooses to focus on. You can love the idea of man and the idea of the masculine - while simultaneously knowing that most "men" are not worthy of the name. It's similar to …
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/14 08:25 AM
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England is full of what you mentioned BECAUSE of the political policies it has applied over the past 40 years. Today's culture in Britain had its seeds planted a long time ago, it does not simply exist in a vaccuum
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 07:05 AM
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Smartphones are awesome. Here's what you can do - Load it up with good audiobooks. Don't listen to radio in the car or the same old tunes in the metro, be learning. Load it up with calorie and workout tracking apps. The best guys count calories like an OCD middle schooler - I've hung out with a few IFBB and amateur natty and non-natty BBers and all the ones who look good, like damn good, they all track everything. Use your phone to harness the power of tracking. Check your stocks. If you don't h…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 07:00 AM
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If you haven't heard, we are in the midst of a massive moralfag invasion. People have forgotten that a lot of behaviors that betas perceive as "asshole" are behaviors that do attract women. There's "good guys" who are alphas, there's assholes who are alphas. If he's the guy who invests nothing in the relationship, but gets the sex, while the boyfriend invests everything (commitment, moving in, dating, etc) and doesn't get sex... the first guy is the AF. Whether he's an insufferable ass or not.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 06:48 AM
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I think it was banned from the point of view that it is similar to breathplay / choking-play. Like people would see this porn, think "hey let's try this out" and there'd be nationwide deaths in the bedroom.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 06:43 AM
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It's because British dudes haven't realized that when you hit it a specific way, she involuntarily squirts. IDK if its that their dicks are too small or their women are too fat to have sex stimulate the skene gland, but it would seem that none of the parliament motherfuckers have realized that it's a part of sex.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 06:41 AM
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Yep, when you get those soft, feminine unspoilt girls... if you fuck it up with them, you turn them into carousel-riders. Or rather, the default is that they are carousel riders, but through some miracle of good parenting and decent intelligence, she's temporarily a high quality girl. BP guys get these girls, mishandle it egregiously, and she thinks "holy shit, relationships are cloying and needy and weird, I want to be free and do all the cool shit now."
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 06:37 AM
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I think what you're getting at is that all men are somewhat different and want somewhat different things at different stages of their lives. We all want to fuck hot women. We all perceive hotness is BASICALLY the same way. But in terms of what we find deeply fulfilling, it can differ slightly. I like to hit up clubs and bars until I strike gold and just fuck / spin the ones on the way. I'm happy to spin and spin until I find the one, I find the nightlife fun and great for developing game. You mi…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 07:57 AM
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If you're in a monogamous LTR before 30, you're fucking up. No matter how alpha you may think you are, if you're not at the stage of your life where you are trying to start a family and create a household, you are not alpha if you're in an LTR. By the definition, you're not in the alpha fucks category, you're not the cock carousel if you're LTRing these girls. Spin the plates. 5-10 years of platespinning and fucking every type of girl you want to fuck, then maybe you have enough experience to le…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 07:43 AM
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Green Flags - She works out without wearing make up, can speak intelligently about her fitness goals, and doesn't need to be a part of a group like CF to go workout. She asks questions and while you are speaking, you can look into her eyes and see she's actually paying attention. Most girls are thinking about what to yammer next (as are most betas, both parties are always thinking of how to make themselves sound cool, which is why dates suck so hard for betas). Tell her a story, she asks good qu…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 07:11 AM
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This is completely how I see it. Men are men - quit whining that you are held to a higher standard than women in the court of reddit opinion. If a girl is trying to rape you and you don't want to have sex with her, push her the fuck away. "But it's for art" - no. Just no. If a chick tries to fuck you and you don't say no or make any move to push her away, it's not rape, provided you are not drugged up. If you make no attempt to stop it because of some gay little hipster idea you have, then you g…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 06:46 AM
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You need Jesus. No, really though, what you need is to believe in something - yourself would be ideal - and believe in it with a certain type of religious confidence. You have to believe you are worth the investment of time and energy. You have to have that X factor driving you - and many people will theorize about what that is. But I think it's best expressed as "you believe that your life is worth doing something with." Why do I work out? Because my body is worth it and I am worth it; I am bet…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 01:41 AM
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The point is that as you become successful, the very idea of "enjoyment" changes. When you are unsuccessful, you think like "I want to get rich, and then I'll relax and chill and play video games." "Let me just get ripped, then I can take it easy." "Let me just set up this great life, then I won't have to work hard." When you are unsuccessful, your idea of success is basically "the freedom to avoid having to do hard work and take on challenges." "Let me learn all this game shit and PU shit and R…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 01:22 AM
2

What is the relevance to TRP? What do you actually want to discuss about it?
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 11:11 AM
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Interact with women to build frame, game, and amused mastery. Lift and eat right. If you don't look good nude, you will not have the confidence to behave as alphas do with women and with other men. Buy a decent, efficient wardrobe that is free of beta bucks signals (like those hip-enlarging khakis and so on). Groom yourself well. Yes you can pickup chicks without it. No you don't need to play this game on extreme yet, let's just master normal for now. Read an hour a day. Incorporate a good varie…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 11:01 AM
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They don't fall for it, but it often prevents betrayals and backstabbing. And last minute deal-backing-out. I've been wined and dined a lot because it's very common in my field, and I always feel it happening subconsciously. Like I see the processes firing before my mind can catch up and identify it. It's evolutionary. In virtually every single ancient culture there is some sort of rule governing food, hosting, offering food, and such stuff. In many cultures, if you break bread, you cannot stab …
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 10:10 AM
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Selective honesty is the most useful thing I learned from 48 Laws. Not the most insightful, not the most powerful, but the one that constant application of will improve your work and social relationships. Instead of hiding all the cards, which makes you look secretive, aloof, and manipulative, perking up everyone's distrust and urge to dig more... you just offer freely from a select pool of information that is trivial. It kept my boss's eyes off me while I switched to a competitor for a much hig…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 09:58 AM
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Debating BP white knight types is even worse than debating feminists. There's only one way to get them to see the light, but it shatters their ego and destroys the relationship if they are weak. (Which they are, because if they weren't weak, they wouldn't react as they did). The only way is to basically hey, look man, let's compare your life and mine. "At 18 we were identical. Now I travel, visit a 19-24 y/o hottie in each city whenever I leave, pay nothing other than a little time for the sex, …
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 08:23 AM
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Of course there is no dignified way to do this. You have to change who you are. It won't be pretty. Dignity comes at the end - through the process, you'll likely be struggling. First, you have to change your perception of yourself. You hear what you want to hear, you attract what you are. You have to forgive yourself for your beta lifestyle up until this point and stop pegging yourself as this "beta bucks" guy and analyzing every interaction like "hey, is this girl thinking of me as a provider!?…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 10:22 AM
2

Google Sean Stephenson. He's a dude who looks like the nerdiest handicapped guy you can imagine - I forget what he has but like 90% of his bones are fucked. Great motivational speaker who did some PUA themed vids with David DeAngelo. My first instinct was no, this dude is lying off his fucking ass about getting laid. But then you see how he draws you in as a speaker and realize if he can draw me in, he can draw in a chick. As for what to do, develop a powerful voice. That is by FAR the best thin…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 10:08 AM
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You're getting mixed up. RP is about being realistic, judging things for what they are, and perhaps you can stretch it to being cynical. This is butthurt. I'll tell you who women treat this way - beta bucks. Guys who do not have the value to sit back, fuck plates, and only LTR the ones he judges to be in the very top % of women. AWALT is a useful concept to teach noobies basic ideas; it does not mean that there is not variety in the female gender. We have alpha males and beta males, we have LA c…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 10:33 AM
1

This is not that different from how you should be using Tinder anyway. Get in shape, social proofed, and looking good. Swipe the chicks. A small % of them will message you first, a smaller % of them will be attractive and not bots. Message these back, push for # and meet, or end the interaction. This is actually pretty useful if you get your ass in shape and take good pics. Spend 5 mins swiping 1k bitches, then just wait for the small % of trickle in with the first word. Make a polarizing photo …
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 10:16 AM
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You have to pre-empt guys like this. I amog guys a lot when I go out as its highly competitive / overly male saturated where I live. Once you get in someone's head, get them reacting to you, get them qualifying themselves, or best of all, get them TRYING to be witty (hint, betas try to be witty), it's a hole they can never dig out of. Once you have been murked in social status, it's tough to generate it in that group again because you're mad, emotional, frustrated, annoyed, etc. This is a 2 part…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 09:01 AM
2

Simple. If she isn't WALKING AWAY or asking you to leave, she's interested. She might not be attracted, but when you approach and she's listening to what you are saying, aka she's not trying to find a way to leave or end the conversation, she's interested at least 1%. If you talk for a little bit and she's not interested, I will give you the secret. Up the stakes. That's it - put her in a situation where she has to either flirt back or reject you outright. This is why it's very important to intr…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 11:24 AM
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This is upvoted because it's not RP. It's upvoted because it is whiny and complain-y, from the "look how hard it is to be a man" angle, and thus resonating with the average sentiment of the beta male. (Dating is unfair, women don't understand us, if I make a move then I risk her thinking every nice thing I did for her was for sex, etc). These are all complaints that every nice guy is frustrated with; every single beta I have ever met will agree with this guy because they are fundamentally upset …
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 07:01 AM
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Planet fitness is $10. They have dumbells up to 50 lbs. Google German volume training and do that with dumbell bench press, dumbell row, dumbell squats, and dumbell shoulder press. Add in supplementary exercises like pullups, abs work, and shrugs, curls, shoulder fly, lateral raise, etc. 99% of the people who dump on Planet Fitness for being gay and retarded are not past the fitness point where they can get a lot of use out of it. You're average dude can get an great workout out of picking up 50…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 10:59 AM
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You always "can". The truth is far less anal than we like to believe. You can complain to your GF about your fears and troubles, and there will be consequences, but realistically, it won't torpedo the relationship on the spot if she already perceived you as reasonably alpha. The question is, WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO. Even if I could get away with not working out and eating bon-bons and still look decent, why would I want to look decent? There is the right way to handle uncertainties and lack of con…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 02:25 PM
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"It's a feat many hope to achieve." These people are known as men. Women who hope to find accomplishment and fulfillment and empowerment through being passed around like a piece of trash by whatever alpha or beta comes her way (look at how this bitch has to stop being selective and take whatever sadsack wants to throw dick at her)... really are the most pathetic creatures. They are like artists with potential who think they have to do drugs and experiment with various addictions to "tap into the…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 02:10 PM
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It is really strange that so many men and women deny its a thing. It's something that even most popular shows pick up upon and many depict quite brutally, like Nip/Tuck for example. Women write blogs about it, NYT op-eds encourage women to "experiment out the crazy with bad boys and then settle with a stable, sweet guy". I have also reached the conclusion that people who don't see it are just mentally unwell. Even before RP, I was acutely aware of this phenomena, especially in cultures where wom…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 10:09 AM
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Definitely agree about monk mode. It fixes your SMV, but it won't teach you how to leverage your SMV into actual social skills, ONS, plates, and so on. Monk mode is kind of like college. You worked hard, you did well, but now you've got the job and you've got to go into the real world. When you do, you realize as awesome as college made you, it didn't really do shit to prepare you for the non-academic aspects of career life (aka all of it). College raised your career value a lot (or a little if …
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 01:20 PM
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It's an ideal you do your best to approach - more successful men get closer to that ideal than less successful men. Even some of the obvious counterexamples, like emotional musicians who are massively famous and wealthy, often went about building their business, networking, and handling everything other than the making of the music in a very logical, strategic manner. Try to make decisions purely based off of logic, and you'll fall short, but land in the area of good decisions. Neurology is not …
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 01:02 PM
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Yup, nothing else to add to this other than the entire system it set up against you, so the only ethical thing to do is not participate in it. Men must step out of this system, because through stepping out en masse, the system will have to change. By marrying, you're just supporting the same system that railroads your brethren; not to get all kumbaya, but this is one of the few situations where men need to think about more than themselves on.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 07:36 AM
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No problem, glad it was helpful. Think of it like internal SMV and external SMV; wealth, physique, good looks, and intelligence will boost your internal SMV, which will make you a happy and fulfilled person. But to get girls, you have to put some effort into marketing that internal SMV into the external SMV, the mirage that she wants to believe in. Like you said, all the internal SMV in the world doesn't help her stunt on her friends and look cool in her social circle, which is the primary goal …
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 07:26 AM
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Yup. My uncle told me "spending money on a woman is the stupidest thing you can ever do, but spending money on women is actually pretty smart. You'll understand." Spending $500 on bottle service to pull that night? Horrible decision (unless you're too wealthy to care, in which case, go for it). Spending $500 on one outfit, which you will use for 5 years to pull time and time again? Very efficient. The question is not "will spending money on this help me get pussy" it's "how much pussy will spend…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 06:37 AM
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I am 30 and it's awesome. I have 24 y/o GF and she's bi, and we've pulled fairly hot 18-22 y/o girls on occasion. I am not extremely muscular, extremely wealthy, famous, and I consider myself pretty damn good at game, but not exceptional. Most of my friends are less happy than they were before. About 1/2 of my bros from my frat who were living it up are now married, get about 5% of their salary leftover to spend on what they want, and are out of shape. A few are divorcees and I cannot go out wit…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 10:43 AM
2

Goddamn this dude is the stupidest chump I have ever seen on r/relationships or r/sex. When a 21 y/o kid posts about his GF fucking some dude in Europe during her study abroad, that's one thing. This guy is 35 and didn't see red flags when the wife opened up the relationship, then shot down his one attempt to get sex. "She wanted the sex to come naturally for me, not for me to go look for it." Did he not realize that guys, minus the top 1-2%, all have to "look" for sex to get it? This idiot acce…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 10:03 AM
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Yup, if you have to absolutely marry for whatever reason in this fucked up country, give her the diamond test. Will she go for it if there's no ring, or just a modest 100$ band? No? She cares so much about how her friends will not be oohing and ahhing over her hand, and about the wedding feeling Hollywood... to marry you if there's no diamond ring in it? Then why the fuck would you marry her. Absolutely essential compliance test IMO for marriage, if isn't cool with it being a simple, cheap weddi…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 01:21 PM
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This is the beauty of the tech world. CEOs and interns can dress the same fucking way if they have the ability to back it up with their work. T-shirts, suits, hawaiian shirts, etc, no one gives a fuck (or gave a fuck I should say). You could pitch investors, demo a product, work late nights, etc in whatever the hell you wanted as long as you delivered. Where I work, we have to tell interviewees to please NOT dress up for the interview - and we mean it. When you have a group of high-achieving ner…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 12:34 PM
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Some men do, some men don't. Some men have never had a "traditional" women or GF, so they say they want it simply because it's not within their frame of experiences. Here's the thing - for most modern guys, a highly feminine woman is beyond their ability to deal with and will be a nightmare. Highly feminine women hamster hard, they are neurotic, they are emotional, volatile, and they NEED a masculine counterpart or they will basically drive you crazy. Most guys say they want a very feminine woma…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 12:07 PM
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The problem is, colleges can only continue the circlejerk of anti-male bullshit so far. You drive men away from your institution, you take your college off the map in terms of STEM / business / other high ROI fields. At some point the guys at the top are going to be incentivised to stop this circlejerk - right now behaving like others gets you positive attention, but when the practical minded young men who are going to become the next tech entrepreneurs, doctors, businessmen, engineers, etc star…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 11:50 AM
1

The only way to win in divorce court for men is by not getting to divorce court. If you have to go as DT as a non-sociopath can feasibly go to win, then that's what you do, end of story, because the alternative is losing 1/2 your wealth and seeing your kids on the weekend. If I was married and in his situation, the first thing I'd do is slap myself upside the head for the lapse in judgment, and the second thing I'd do is isolate her from her friends, cut off her access to cars in my name, phones…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 11:28 AM
1

It basically requires DT game to work. Like you said, she must believe this wooden sword is more powerful, meaning you must essentially force her to detach from reality and forget about her finger laying on the detonator. Marriage only works if you dominate the relationship so thoroughly that she is so focused on maintaining YOU, that she never contemplates how she holds the ultimate trump card. You have to be her God, you have to be the way that nearly all religions instruct a man to be within …
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 02:19 PM
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Guys, if you thinking about marriage, let me help you out to the best support hotline I know of. It's called r/relationships Look at the way married men live. Look at what their wifes who they at one point cherished as beautiful, loving angels have become. Do you want that? Do you really want to spend your whole life dealing with that shit? Even relatively alpha guys I know who hold shit down in their marriage... their lifestyle is a far cry away from the bachelors life. Don't marry; love a woma…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 02:13 PM
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There's many different ways to become "successful" in the sense of having a shit ton of money - but reaching the Bill Gates mega billionaire tier is a whole different issue. Your question seems to be "how do I make sure I'm rich" which is VERY, VERY different than "How do I become the next Jobs / Gates / Ellison / Buffet etc." I'll focus on the middle ground, how to be a "higher end" millionaire - so not a lawyer who breaks his net worth over a few million over the course of his career through s…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 01:36 PM
2

Couldn't have said it better. Attraction from the opposite sex means nothing to a woman unless it's coming from people she's attracted to. A high achieving, high self-esteem, attractive woman is only really looking at the top % of guys to see how they respond to her. The remaining 99% of guys could be ready to amputate a leg to fuck her and she be upset that the 1% she's attracted to doesn't want her.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 06:21 AM
2

Couldn't have said it better. Attraction from the opposite sex means nothing to a woman unless it's coming from people she's attracted to. A high achieving, high self-esteem, attractive woman is only really looking at the top % of guys to see how they respond to her. The remaining 99% of guys could be ready to amputate a leg to fuck her and she be upset that the 1% she's attracted to doesn't want her.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 06:21 AM
1

Speak more. The problem sounds like it's with your speaking skills not necessarily your inner game, meaning you just need to get past the experience threshold. I would consider myself a pretty decent public speaker and it's because in college I signed up for a few classes that didn't really teach anything I didn't know, but instead made every student speak in front of the class every single session. Every day for 2 semesters I was speaking in front of 50 people - often only for like 1 min, maybe…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 09:29 PM
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It's great, because she's living the dream of these reddit post-college losers who have a useless degree and can't get taken seriously (because they have no skills). To be a CEO of a startup and live the "entrepreneur" life and have all these people believe in your potential. And all she wants is to be objectified and fucked right. That's the beautiful thing about women, they can be as high value as they want, but at the end of the day, they long to look up. Without a superior masculine presence…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 09:00 PM
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You need priorities. You have to set goals, yes, but also plan out how you're going to direct that effort. You will never be 10/10 in all areas. When I graduated I had no idea what to do (about 8 years ago) and I did something very simple that made more difference than ANY self help shit (and believe me, I read all the classics, all the PUA, all the info that's out there). Nothing beat this. Pick 2 areas you will devote yourself to being exceptional in and put above all else. I picked my work an…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 01:22 PM
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That's why you don't actually treat them like 3 year olds, more like 13 year olds. 13 years old is when you start becoming desperate to be a part of some collective identity, that's when feminism really preys upon the vulnerable minds of women who werent in the cool clique, didnt get asked to prom, etc. 13 year olds can still be smart in the academic sense, and emotionally they can be perceptive, but they just lack guidance, self-esteem, and a sense of self identity. They are not stupid - they c…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 12:48 PM
2

Don't argue. Next time you two are checking out a girl, go approach while he sits back and keep doing it despite his bitchings until one sticks and you get #s, and follow through. When you bang a chick from cold approach, you open your friends eyes to the fact that cold approach works, it's just hard. If he still is like "yeah but even still, it's wrong", just be like "Ok, let's ask her." If you can't prove the example via reality, you can't get through the BPers. The only way they accept what t…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 12:40 PM
1

Yes, seriously, every time a chick gets frothy about someone underage, we don't need to bring up the whole damn double standard argument. Our #1 tenet is that men and women are different.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 12:31 PM
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You shouldn't. I think newer ppl on RP have forgot this isn't some kumbaya shit. If we see each other in the club, we're competing over the same women, "fellow RPers" or not. Betas getting laid en masse without having to become somewhat "alpha" first arguably wouldn't even be useful for the world.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 12:27 PM
11

This is another reason you don't marry. Women go fucking crazy when they turn 45-50 and realize the last remnants of their beauty and fertility are slowly draining from their body. They always thought they could just ignore the ravages of time with make-up and plastic surgery, like slapping a fresh coat of paint on a 1967 Volvo will turn that sucker into 2015 coupe. But as the estrogen trickles away they gain a rare ability - they learn foresight at last. They see the road ahead of them and they…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 07:23 AM
1

Which is exactly why it's the exact same damn phenomena with Asian / Indian girls. They have tight-knit communities, they cannot ride the carousel inside of their community. I used to work in Cupertino for a while and I noticed this too with Chinese girls; they act like everyone knows everyone within their community because it's true - someone would tell someone and next thing you know, she can't find a beta bucks.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 07:10 AM
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RSD has historically had only one effective form of marketing, which is shock-value / getting shit on by mainstream books. They completely came up from Neil Strauss trashing them, and Jeffy and Julien basically troll to the point where I even think it's a little pathetic, but I understand. It's kinda weak, but it proves how easily provoked women are and how easy it is to garner the desired reaction from them.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 06:46 AM
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Ignore ignore ignore. Look, you're life will be 100x better if you just put your head down, get off the internet, forget that SJW and words like tumblrina and so on are even a thing. Don't be a part of this whole culture. Work out, develop your talents, develop your willpower and work ethic, socialize with the cool kids / learn how to make new friends, and mack on chicks. I honestly think that the best thing about HS for me was just not knowing about this whole shitworld. Girls chase social stat…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 01:44 PM
1

Yeah I know a girl whose 35 and just finished up her philosophy masters, just now making around 40k a year. After a ton of loitering, failed acting dreams, HR work, weird odd jobs, she decided she was going to go back to school to get an MBA and figured she'd at least be at 80-100k after graduating. But, 6 months is (after her husband paid her tuition from their savings, she decides she's not passionate about and instead does this philosophy shit for 2 years where she basically entertains hersel…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 01:35 PM
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I don't really see that many Indians complaining on here. There's been like 5 threads about this, like responding to these imaginary complainers. What I do see is a lot of Indians, Asians, etc etc asking questions of what they should be doing differently, and the answer is basically nothing. Every race has two tiers of pussy available to them. There's provider-pussy, which is the level of girl you can get through just being an average schmuck with a decent job and ordinary body. Then there's top…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 01:20 PM
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Julien is real. I have met a few famous PU dudes (Tyler, Jeffy, Julien, juggler if you guys remember him, etc) and Julien is basically the dude I'd vouch for the most. Don't be a retard and spend 3k on a bootcamp (although if you have money to burn, do it and write a RP oriented report of it...). But if you had to pick 1 dude, I'd pick him and it's for a very simple reason. He isn't about this whole moralfag-seduction angle of "leaving them better than you found them" and he's basically the epit…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 10:52 AM
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The great thing about not getting married is that you get to be with someone who is with you for your dick. Think about that shit, if you offer no financial support, minimal commitment, and basically only positive emotions + dick, and she's choosing to stay with you as a plate or LTR, that is the dream. That's basically a girl who "loves you for you" even thought it's really the emotions she gets when with you that she's addicted to. Plates and low-key LTRs are the way to go. It's a beautiful th…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 10:46 AM
4

the sweetest joy next to gettin' pussy
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 07:43 AM
1

Depends on the situation. Did they actually wrong you or are you being an offended bitch? Will correcting their behavior positively affect your life or is speaking up to them just to make you feel good, like yeah, I put them in their place? If you're trying to get rich, then the evaluation of every single action you take must be "does this produce the result of "more money" at a cost of time that I'm willing to pay"? That is the question - what's the result, what's the money, what's the bottom l…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 07:43 AM
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Reddit's reaction to this has been pretty incredible, in some of the other posts the degree of normalization and dismissal of her behavior is insane. Like "oh kids play doctor, its normal". It's like if they found out a serial killer killed cats as a child, they would say "Oh that's normal, I squished roaches and bugs as a child to watch what would happen." I don't really care if she's an abusive psychopath or just someone who was fucked in the head as a result of having liberal artistic excuses…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 07:21 AM
1

True, progress is progress
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 05:28 AM
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In general when female friends, female orbiters, and female family (aka the groups of women you're not trying to fuck) pull this type of behavior, it's motivated by them not wanting you to "change" and thus no longer hang around / depend on them as much. All mothers I would say do this to a minor degree; mine actually realized she had been encouraging me to not move across the coast & follow my dream because she thought if I succeeded I'd never call home. There's that tiny bit of insecurity that…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 10:11 AM
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the bachelor tax is paying for women's healthcare. It's not as much of a tax on married guys because they presumably benefit by having their wives not need to spend their money / his money. Married couples are in theory unaffected by these men -> women wealth transfers, meaning most of the brunt is shouldered by single men.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 09:48 AM
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When she says "It feels good" she really says it all, doesn't she. There is one thing women think about when deciding who to fuck, what to do with their life, when to have kids, what kind of job they want, what kind of morals they want to have, and so on. Does it feel good? If it feels good, it's right and beautiful. If you are new to RP and wondering why we throw around concepts like "female solipsism", read this article. Her good feeling towards being pregnant and alone at 41 is completely bas…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 09:45 AM
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Most escorts, strippers, camgirls, minor pornstars, etc, have delusions of grandeur about what they do. The street whores don't, but the girls who get into this middle-upperscale prostitution or soft prostitution, like a stripper who bangs her richer clients, etc, they nearly always have rationalized this massive story about how what they do makes them powerful. Women of all sorts do this. For example, every girl who moves to NY or LA to "make it big" and "be a city girl" after college will idol…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 06:08 AM
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Generally the threads will be RP in that they tell the guy "she's a bad one, run away and be thankful you dodged the bullet". But they treat the woman in question like an isolated example, like oh you just happened via bad luck to bumble into a girl like this. In reality we know it's not an isolated example, it's just typical behavior of a girl that lacks respect for her BF, and she's representative of the bigger picture, not this random outlier. An RP comment would be someone pointing out that …
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 05:30 AM
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The problem with this idea of enjoying it when we see women getting treated like a man is that they lack the fundamental faculties to deal with being treated like a man. I know you're not doing that, I'm just speaking on a trend I'm seeing here. Men have it harder, but we also have a greater potential for discipline, ambition, rage, independence, monkmode, self-improvement through hard ass work, etc. We have a path to salvation. You could be a midget, butt ugly dude and you can still develop soc…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 11:56 AM
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Another reason people on here have trouble making friends is very clear to me - they act like fucking vaginas about the smallest differences in opinion. They are ridiculously insecure and get butthurt if you say their point is wrong for X and Y reason, like you're calling them a beta / BP. They constantly complain about things, mock other guys in bitch ways (aka snark, unnecessary sarcasm, zooming in on a semantic argument, reading each others post histories). That kind of unpleasantness comes t…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 11:10 AM
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No need to downvote, these are all valid points. 2 things though - you are describing how I'm sure many people on RP think (aka get pussy to raise my shitty self-esteem, if I fuck the cool girl I'll be cool!). That is feminine thinking and BP that people on here can acknowledge they have, while also trying to move past. I spent my college days chasing sorority pussy, joining a frat, etc that whole scene and I fully agree, it's the fast track to easy, hot pussy and it does feel awesome to fuck th…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 10:37 AM
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Objectively broke 3rd world pussy is generally much tighter than American college pussy. For example when I was in Argentina I noticed most women walk everywhere, racking up several miles per day, and most do it in heels. Meaning they have toned legs and their core is strong, which results in their groin muscles getting exercise. Most other races just feel tighter and more toned than American girls. The reason people want sorority girls is similar to the reason people like fancy clothing. They l…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 09:48 AM
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Yeah, I think most people generally want to fuck inside and outside of their race, but date inside their race. Hormones don't discriminate, but our urge to have someone who we share values and commonalities with leads us towards people of the same community. Even though logically an woman from our race, say a Indian man and Indian woman, do not necessarily share values at all, we subconsciously assume that they will. I'm half Indian and I've noticed this a lot. I haven't seen a lot of racism at …
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 07:45 AM
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Yup. American men created one of, if not the best societies to life in of all time, and they threw it all away because they got lazy, weak-minded, easily distracted with BP bullshit, and filled up with delusions of white-knighting. American boys get their minds murked before they get a chance to grow up and only a small % of them remain as men were naturally meant to be. When we trash women, who are we really trashing? The people who let women become this way.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 07:35 AM
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Yup, I met my GF on a train in after dark. The collective anuses (ani?) of feminists tightened by a few centimeters across the nation as I pulled out her headphones and started chatting even though her nose was buried in a textbook. She wasn't offended at all. I've done a TON of train approaches back when I had to ride that bitch 45 minutes a day to work and back and guess what, women who train alone to work everyday DESPERATELY want to be lifted from the boredom of the commute. Not all, but eno…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 07:10 AM
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Good too see some commenters getting it. "Here in Brazil we say American women are good for sex and bad for love." If the betas in the US/CA/UK/AU would just stop pedestalizing their trash, then maybe our women would have to actually improve, lose weight, get off antidepressants, shitty diets, drugs, and feminism. Unfortunately as long as feminist countries have squadrons of Captain-SAHs, then our women will never change. It takes extreme circumstances and a lack of a beta validation stimulus fo…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 08:32 PM
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This is pretty much true, I spent 6 months in Japan and then South Korea a few years back and witnessed the same thing. People are fucking, young people are fucking, this idea that all japanese men are massive introverts and all japanese girls are saving their pussy to rationally use it as a bargaining chip for the optimal Beta Bucks is a western fantasy. The cock carousel may not be nearly to the extent that it is in the US, but your average Japanese college girl (and honestly even high school …
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 11:54 AM
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Game, frame, and they keep in shape. Old people occasionally have some of the sickest frame control I have ever seen in my life; they literally cannot be phased or embarassed, and they have spent too much of their life to waste any more opportunities. They go in hard, they are completely comfortable projecting their voice, and they are from an era where there was no forgiveness for feminine behavior. They know how to converse and they know how to be firm with a hot girl, because they've seen it …
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 11:48 AM
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The vast majority of data represents BP men employing BP strategies. For beta males, yes, they peak in their ability to pull hot, young girls by random right place / right time scenarios when they are in their 20s. When they hit 30 their testosterone plummets and they gain weight, lose their sharp features, etc. Most men are beta males simply by the definition; we already know alphas have completely different results. So yeah, I completely agree that if you're not doing the right things, your SM…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 11:31 AM
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This is causing her white ppl rage and girl rage and American rage. WTF?! As a woman people aren't putting me on a pedestal + WTF?! The fucked up social norms we have in America aren't shared by every other nation + WTF!? I'm white and I'm not being treated as the highest value commodity on the block. It's got all 3 rolled into one. Japan has it's own share of fucked up social practices and it's own share of hamsters, but no one beats our hamsters. US/UK/AU the holy trinity of hamsterdom.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 10:26 AM
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That works too for different situations. No one who stands at military attention all of the time is your optimal body language model. Leaning back with an irreverent slouch can work from time to time - it is a casual behavior that movies have picked up on and used to show CEOs at the board table. Everyone else sits at rapt attention and the CEO lounges back in his chair. If the CEO always did that though, it would get ridiculous.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 05:56 AM
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The thing is, smiling is both a sign of confidence and a sign of seeking approval. It just depends on how you do it. You should be outgoing, extroverted, social, and in a good mood when you're out with people; you should smile when the situation warrants it, and if you life is awesome, the situation warrants it a lot. Politicians and celebrities are constantly smiling, a great example would be Arnold Schwarzenegger's bigass smile plastered to his face throughout his time in office. What's beta i…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 05:46 AM
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Will's the rare type of guy who can inherit a great deal of wealth and not turn into a retard. That is discipline and true non-neediness; nearly everyone you meet will on some level care about "showing off" what they make to their GF / wife so they can feel successful. This is the level you should aspire to - in fact, if you truly want to enter relationships where you aren't the beta bucks, you have to be at this level. If you are at the point where you'd rather the relationship die than you hav…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 08:06 AM
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I know right, my first thought is we're being hit by a TBP brigade or something. People need to stop saying "RP is all about..." and "Nah, being alpha is all about... (insert subjective moral trait)... being a positive force in the world!" Like fine, you want to legislate yourself out of pussy, fine, that's your protocol, but quit acting like that's the "RP thing to do" now.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 07:21 AM
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I don't think you know what alpha means. Alpha refers to the top echelons of any given 'pack' - aka the top of the SMV pyramid, the top of the corporate pyramid etc. We use it to mean the behaviors that the top % of guys use to reach and maintain themselves on the top. So given that, you want to talk about "alpha", then look up at the people at the top. Who smashes the most hottest chicks with greatest frequency - literally all of these guys are completely OK with breaking a few or many eggs to …
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 08:29 AM
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Yup, had a coworker bitch about his cheat of a GF / ex-GF to everyone in the office recently. He lit up his twitter with that shit too. Yeah, some ppl chuckled with him, some people sympathized, and I'm sure he enjoyed getting to feel like the "wronged" one. Meanwhile every single female in a 50 yard radius is thinking "oh, okay, so this guy's in the category of guys who get cheated on, wow, how pathetic." It's the worst look - for females, different story, but for males, just having your curren…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 08:16 AM
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What the fuck, "you're complicit in hurting another human being"... do you realize literally everything we do hurts a human being. Every superior product in the workplace has trod on competitors, every action you take will piss others off. This is BP fantasy, pure and simple, this idea that we owe it to others to not step on others toes. Plain and simple, if this girl was HIS girl, then you or I or anyone would not be able to fuck her. You see how that works - if he was worthy of being able to l…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 07:36 AM
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Don't buy women things. Push for f-close on first night and don't take her #, create scarcity in that if she's not fucking tonight, she's going to miss out on a chance at getting to know you. Be clear in your sexual intent (ie walk directly across the room to her and open her, be OK confidently showing that you're attracted and you want to fuck. View it as a numbers game. Any given chick who fucks or gets away doesn't matter; sexual strategy, like financial strategy, is about the big picture ove…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 06:13 AM
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What are his results, that is the bottom line. Is he happy with his life, getting quality women, plates, ONS, etc etc? He sounds to me like a vaguely aspie type guy who found out about TRP and hasn't learned how to not make it obvious to those around him - (cool people can keep their ideas to themselves and don't constantly generate friction, they take on the appearance of the day). There is nothing wrong with being obsessive though. The obsessive part of his character - like gyming a lot - is p…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 07:06 AM
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You are not confident because deep down you know you're weak and you are too realistic to have "delusional confidence". You can probably go read some self-help shit that tells you to believe you're the man, but your mind in the moment will just tell you that no, logically, you're not the man. You can only become confident by becoming strong and superior; that way you can look at yourself and have what I think of as "justified narcissism." How does one become strong and develop a frame of referen…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 11:05 AM
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Crossfit gets people solid noobie gains because literally anything will get a skinnyfat dude / chick noobie gains. CF's value is in the fact that most people cannot push themselves without other people there to encourage them and tell them what to do; they cannot succeed alone at endeavors so they need a group. The actual content of CF is worse for aesthetic or performance goals than virtually any other training program. CFers will get better results than unmotivated gym-goers or gym-goers doing…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 09:58 AM
2

You have to consider this has probably been a constant of the child's life. In divorced couples, the kids often witness their parents having these nasty verbal sparring matches in the kitchen over the smallest of issues; they develop a fucking sharp tongue and a good map of where people's vulnerable spots are. Then they have to deal with losing access to one parent for 80% of the time... it is not common for them to unload like this.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 08:30 AM
2

Goddamn these are smart kids. If I ever fall on my head, wake up thinking marriage is a good idea, bust out two kids, and then proceed to get divorced raped, it would be horrible to think about my children having to live with such a horrific, perpetual display of hamstering irrevocably tied into their lives. Imagine my 13 year old daughter having to think about how her mom pawns them off on the weekend so she can have free time to get pumped and dumped... In this case, however, the kids are smar…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 08:28 AM
1

Things like being on the football team at a party school will get you plenty of pussy with groupie chicks of any race regardless of what race you are. You cannot expect his results since you say you're not going to be on the team (aka, you'll have to work to build SMV in the local campus area). Hipster chicks versus traditional college girls... it's all the same, they are trying to trade pussy for status. When you're at that age, it is ALL based on social status. Not finances, since these girls …
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 08:17 AM
1

This motherfucker needs jesus Three Six Mafia
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 07:56 AM
2

What do you mean resolve our differences? Would both TRPers and all non-feminist men including PPers agree that society does treat men horrendously in some ways? Sure. I think most men conceptualize the need for some change in a MRA direction for society to improve. Even the people who believe men have it completely better than women would admit that there are some broken aspects of how our society treats males (prison rape, college attendance gap, false rape accusations releasing accused's pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/14 10:02 AM
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And yet, the vast majority of people cannot sustain the motivation to do it to reach even an intermediate level. Lifting weights whether for aesthetics or performance trains something different - the ability to stick with a routine task for years and avoid falling into slumps, motivation-dead zones, and excuse-making. It IS hard not because of the difficulty, but rather because of the simplicity. It is the holy grail for people who are lazy, weak, rationalizing, and excuse-making (as well as out…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 08:00 AM
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Leagues exist, but they do not exist in the way most men conceive of them as existing. There are two leagues, the 10%, and the 90%. The chubby cute nerdy girl fantasizes about the SAME muscular, lean, rich, charismatic guy that the hot chick in the club or the beautiful 10 fantasizes about. All women want the masculine ideal whether or not they deserve it. Now, women will SETTLE for half-beta / half-alpha middling type guys who are competent, sweet, fun at times, occasionally sexy, and so on. Bu…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 07:51 AM
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Nah dude, you're doing fine, enjoy this phase. If she plays with your dick though, in general, IN GENERAL, that means you should be fucking that night and you can go for it. Here is a basic guide to LMR destruction in what I conceive as a ethical way that doesn't involve cavemanning or any high-risk/high-reward type tactics. This is for the specific situation of things getting hot and heavy and her doing something with your dick like stroking it through your jeans, but saying like a broken recor…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 12:54 PM
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He was impeached because he lied; he presented a complete falsehood initially to a grand jury. Now, sure, every president lies out of the ass about millions of things, many of which have far greater importance than the whereabouts of his penis. Bill was impeached due to #1 perjury and #2 obstruction of justice. You might think it's bullshit and I would agree; dude balanced the budget and although I'm more conservative, he met a lot of conservative issues midway so I supported him. But the crimes…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 12:32 PM
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The problem is, most beta males want a woman for COMPLETELY NON-SEXUAL reasons. They do not want her to fuck her brains out every night pornstar style, they want a girl so they can feel good about themselves. They want a girl so they can feel cool, look cool to their friends, and look like they have "the life". Sure they want to fuck her too, but they want the feeling of not being alone 10x more because they are feminine men who just care about feeling good and looking good to others. That's mos…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 11:05 AM
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No, the reason is that he isn't as aesthetic as Phil. Phil is simply better at being what the judges have decided to be the mass, symmetry, and overall "look" that they want. In the side by sides, Kai is clearly lacking, any bodybuilder familiar with how judging works will tell you that.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 10:56 AM
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Forget this. You do not need a "father figure" you're an adult now, you can't do back in time and get the father figure you never had. You have to force yourself to just be a man; you likely know exactly what you must do. Seek mentors in your career. Seek mentors in the gym. Seek mentors for the KNOWLEDGE they offer - if a BP ass guy is a brilliant investor who's made millions for his divorcing wife... he's worth learning from. Do not look for a father figure as it only enforces in your mind tha…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 10:51 AM
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Eh, he's still weak no matter how you slice it. He may be physically 100x more beastly than you or I or anyone on this sub will ever be, but mentally his actions are weak. Needy. He LTR'd a pornstar and raged when he wasn't the only dick in the picture repeatedly - he could have other hotter women than Mack but he got mad oneitis and lacked the discipline to cut her off. 18 year old beta ass kids can get cheated on, realize they need to leave the ho, and move on with their lives. He may be an "a…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 10:42 AM
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The problem is her influence upon younger HS and college aged women who will buy into the delusion. She might be able to be happy doing this crap, but other women who will be miserable and need drugs to do this (say, Belle Knox the duke porn chick) will see it and think "yeah, yeah! I could do that too and get the best of both worlds." It's kind of like if Lil Wayne encouraged people to drop out of school en masse by saying "I did it, worked for me, I was happy. Got millions, had a great life, d…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 06:54 AM
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It's simple really. They are going to prove how we don't have a life by following us and spending countless hours compiling lists of our names after reading massive amounts of our material.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 06:47 AM
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Fuck educating these hoes, I disagree with that post as a (half) brown man. You can't educate these women on indian culture, it's just not going to work, the media buttfucks their minds with the most unsexy stereotypes of Indians. You'll never see shit Indian equivalent of Olympia Bodybuilding or well-dressed, muscular Indian hunks on TV. We live in a culture that also makes the THINGS indians tend to like (engineering, CS, etc) low value nerdy things despite our society needing them. Just forge…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 06:42 AM
2

I'm from the bay and out of all the chicks here, the Marina type ex sorority ones are by far the worst (other than Mission hipsters). They are hot, but the hot latina, filipina, Asian, mixed race, etc are all better for plates or dating. Sounds like you need to fuck a few and get over it, you shouldn't let your lack of a certain type of attention in your high school days define what type of woman you fetishize as an adult. If you want to fuck the SF girls who think they are LA girls, then the be…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 06:25 AM
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Some black women are hot as fuck. If that's the attention you get, pick one you like and give it a shot, life is too short to not know firsthand. That being said though, TRP is about you personalizing your sexual strategy. I like mixed race chicks the most and I like arabic / Turkish / North indian women in particular. Are they objectively hotter than other women? Who cares, they subjectively make my dick 1% harder than with a equally hot girl of a different race, so my sexual strategy is going …
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 06:17 AM
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One thing I'd add is that SMV can be broken down into 4 core components - looks, money, status, game. Looks are within your control. Give me a race, I'll show you some aesthetic, muscular, toned people who especially when rocking the right fashion will look hot. See a dermatologist, get that face clear, get a good haircut, and work out, eat healthy, etc. Money is in your control. Enough said. She don't care what color the dude in the Ferrari is. Many minorities are either working with positive o…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 06:11 AM
3

Talking out of her ass; intra-gender competitiveness increases in both men and women in co-ed environments. All-male schools for example have way less drama and vying for "alpha position" than males in co-ed schools, because females provide the impetus to sexually compete via scrambling for social status and putting others down. Women do it too - all women groups have less drama and get along better, but nothing gets accomplished because there's 100% catering to everyone's feels rather than firm…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 09:05 AM
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After seeing what most subs get banned for and guessing that Reddit admins likely only want to ban us if they have to (remember, gold does get tossed around here and we do drive revenue, if only a little), I'd imagine there's 3 main risks we have of getting banned. 1) if we get embroiled in some CP shit, 2) if we brigade hard, and 3) if a RP subscribing kid shoots up his school. Just don't discuss underage girls, even sexual strategy to get them in countries where it might be legal. Just don't t…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 09:00 AM
3

Betas who are skyrocketed to fame often behave in this manner
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 08:42 AM
9

I think it's honestly just that our programming for wanting children is very strong. Not just societal, but societal and biological. When you combine that with the fact that children give us an opportunity to pass on our legacy and make our lives on earth feel meaningful... it basically becomes something that most men ultimately want. Men become fathers for various reasons and you could say that most of them are ridiculous, like because society says its "noble" or his "duty". But I'd argue that …
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 08:38 AM
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Boys start to differentiate into the 90/10 as they start to develop into puberty, which is why in middle school is where there's a huge wall between popular kids / unpopular kids whereas in grade school everyone's pretty much equal unless you stick out for some reason. Most 16 year olds are babies mentally because they've never done shit and play LoL all day, meaning no maturity, meaning no frame and game. This guys been in a tough field (drug dealing, even if its just weed to his peers, require…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 08:30 AM
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This is why people hate TRP. My friend posted this status on FB about how horrible RoK is and then I look at his profile page, he just bought a car for his GF who's busy being this local musician's groupie. He drives a 2000 accord and is making payments on her cute little Miata that she drives over to someone else's house. And we've chatted someone and he's familiar with what PU and RP are about. Like seriously? None of this material you encountered made you think about your own situation? You r…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 08:09 AM
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This guy's getting the once per month treatment. If you've seen guys in these situations, it's very clear - being the BB in a one sided open relationship doesn't get you any fucking on a regular basis. I know a lot of couples into poly because I live in the king city of betas (well, after Portland, Toronto and a few other places) and they get basically the minimal ass required for them to not leave the relationship. In the logic that ignores differences in female / male mating tendencies, sure, …
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 08:04 AM
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I would say be willing to switch jobs and aggressively change locations, etc, whatever you have to do to keep upping your bargaining power. Senior programmers in hot fields can start to pull around 150k, which is not exceptional, but you can also get there by 30, get the point where you are managing a team, etc. Then I would say after you have reached that level where you and the team you managed have taken some projects to market or to completion in some meaningful way, say by 30-35, then you t…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 07:31 AM
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The less competent occasionally / often get promoted upwards faster because they are the ones who are not happy to break their backs doing the good, but grunt level work. If you're not happy being a codemonkey paid extra in the form of pizza to get you to stay late and meet arbitrarily ridiculous deadlines, it's a sign of higher intelligence, meaning you should be promoted.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 07:19 AM
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Idk if you're busting on paleo, but if all chicks ate paleo in the US, we'd be like 76% more attractive
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 07:12 AM
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Of course. The point though is that Apple / Facebook believe that being perceived as "cool and progressive" will bring them in more $ than hiring the actual top talent and bringing about additional deadweight loss employees. That cost, 20k here, 200k lost revenue when they have to pay for a woman to abruptly leave during a critical time when they decide they are having a baby on the company's dime, etc, it doesn't mean SHIT for these companies. They need to focus on the bottom line - popularity.…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 07:10 AM
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"SEE A THERAPIST IMMEDIATELY" Husband: "I'm full of energy. I enjoy my job now, I have a work life balance. I work out and am very healthy, and I relieve my stress - which is much less now - in the gym not by drinking." Therapist: "So... So what's the problem here." Husband: "I'm an addict." Therapist: Ah, you've been abusing drugs to achieve these things. Understandable." Husband: "No. I've been abusing SELF-CONTROL! I'm just addicted to not being a lazy slob and I can't help it. I try to go to…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 06:49 AM
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Really though. When you fuck a feminist it feels wrong, like I am penetrating someone who is mentally still in middle school, what is wrong with me? They are really just kids who never grew up and started to think for themselves, kids who never got past the wounding that occurred when no one liked them in middle school.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 06:40 AM
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This is largely a byproduct of the fact that "women at an executive level" tend to be more ambitious and "RP" in terms of strategy. If she's the type who views climbing the power ladder the same way a man does, then she's going to naturally adopt the 'means justify the end' idea. When you combine RP / Gervais Principle stuff with your typical career woman hamstering, you get executive women doing whatever for upwards mobility and hamstering it effortlessly. This is why women on top of the career…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 06:34 AM
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I'll go against what others are saying here with online dating / tinder. You need to go grind it out in the real world like we all did in college and our 20s - go learn the skills to pick up women, retain them as plates, and eventually get the relationship with the top % of them that you actually like a lot. That is part of the male rite of passage - not necessarily the "club" or "pickup" aspect of it, but rather the facing the social anxiety / fear factor and just doing it. Do it until you get …
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 05:33 AM
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Yup. To add - if you make yourself approach constantly, go out 2x a week, etc WHILE you are working on your self improvement goals, you will have real-world motivation to keep killing it. When you go to the gym and go home and do some affirmation to feel good about your going to the gym, that is... a little bit of positive anchoring. When you go to the gym and improve that .1% for the day and then you go to the club and a girl is feeling on your abs, that is MASSIVE positive anchoring. When you …
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 05:25 AM
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Yeah, that makes sense, idk why you're getting downvoted. Depending on the girl and depending on how she reacted to nuclear dread (cheating on her with an upgrade), it's realistic to expect to rebuild some trust. No one can perpetually be casually dismissive in the self amused way for 4 years.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 06:52 PM
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Yeah. Toxic masculinity TBH saved my life. I was balls deep into a gaming addiction in high school despite being a good wrestler / popular kid in middle school. Then in college I joined a frat, one of the douchiest ones, the type of ones I NEVER thought I would go near because I was "smart", and they did all the things we associate with toxic masculinity. Lost weight, got ripped, started spinning plates instead of paying for dates, learned to dress, and got friends who I stay in contact with to …
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 09:47 AM
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Everyone has to save themselves. Unless they are family or a close friend, in which case I'll extend a hand a few times simply by virtue of the fact that as kids, we all loved each other once. In memory of that, I'm willing to try to save them by advising them not to marry the chick with 50k student loan debt working as a waitress when they have juuust become doctors. But really, you can't even save them, so I only really try once. Once they are gone, they are gone. If someone is 30 that means t…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 09:43 AM
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I prefer to not take it seriously, as I think taking it seriously IS the shit test 90% of the time. It's a test of whether you are secure enough to know that her "but Kelly says men should take their girl out once a week to a nice dinner!" is just irrelevant bullshit. Just subvert it, "well go date Kelly's boyfriend. Oh she doesn't have one..." I wouldn't even take this shit seriously. My GF used to get this shitty magazine, decently soft-feminism but just vapid, called Bust, and she would try t…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 09:34 AM
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I have never seen swoleshaming come from girls who are attractive or guys whose lives don't suck. Beta males and ugly women, yeah.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 07:23 AM
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I assume you've tried taking a break / deloading and then returning to it? Also, at some point, it's just age. If you started at 18 and you're 15 years deep, then yeah, you're strength can keep growing, but your recovery will take longer, overtraining or no.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 06:42 AM
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Gotta nip that shit in the bud. Whenever a woman who once was healthy and managed her shit slips into overeating / general lardassery, it generally happens like she starts 1 unhealthy habit to test what she can get away with, then 1 more, then so on. It could even be a response or shit test from her to try to see what your value is and do you have the pride to demand that she put the effort into being a top-notch GF. My experience shows that passively implying through gyming yourself and droppin…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 06:38 AM
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She needs motivation and guidance to achieve a great butt and low bf% - something any chick can do and should want to do for you. If she doesn't want to, then it's because she does not see you as deserving of such. AKA she knows you do not really feel like you could get that tier of woman, so she is not worried about optimizing her appearance to keep you. So the one thing I'd add to the main post is that you have to be higher value / SMV than her in the first place and there must be the mutual k…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 06:34 AM
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Listen, you are under 30 and you speak with the same beaten, "at-the-end-of-the-rope" tone as some guys I know in their late 40s. Shit, I'm guessing you're what, 4 years deep in this marriage and it's already got to this stage? You down for 40 more years like this - because while T levels drop, you still will generally want sex a lot. And as women age, hormonal issues and hamstering both increase. The RP means accepting reality, accepting some women can be changed and some can't. I do not know w…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 07:32 AM
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Yup, my frat had 2 gay people in it, and no one gave them shit (other than typical guy shit from time to time, which everyone gets). Masculinity is very simple; if you behave like a man, you won't get a lot of shit or bullying or anything like that. These 2 guys behaved like other members and didn't make their sexual orientation into their entire personality, so no one had an issue. Guys who I know who are gay and masculine have never complained about any discrimination or anything. And this was…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 09:53 PM
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Your analysis is completely accurate. Virgin brides from a traditional background (ie a backpocket of the US or a foreign country) are the ideal - and given what marriage is in the US, you should only marry if you can get the "ideal". For relationships and LTR, the criteria softens a bit and I disagree with this whole "if she's had premarital sex she's not LTR material" because that is basically all women. Most of the hot girls I knew from across a few different ethnicities matured earlier and s…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 09:39 PM
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You can say that, but as a half-indian dealing with one of the worst stereotypes, I can say you or I wouldn't have had the same motivation to climb SMV, push ourselves, etc, if it wasn't harder. The added challenge of having people perceive me as less sexual, less attractive of a candidate is what in the long term leads you to success. Most black guys who I know who are good with women only became that way because they had to; if they were born white and could get white chicks without being high…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 10:37 AM
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What is special about college girls is that they buy in the most into "YOLO-sexpositive feminism" and if you're above their social status threshold, you get to fuck for free. It's a chick in her prime for free (whereas a post college chick is getting to be past her prime and has figured out than in reality her optimal game is not to give up pussy so easily. College girls are both a challenge for reasons OP mentioned and also great plate potential / easy casual fucks. It's the duality that really…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 09:17 AM
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GDI's don't get shit at all when they game sorority girls or girls who are a part of that scene. I was in a frat considered 'the douchey / cool' frat and GDI's needed to just find GDI chicks and accept they would be less hot. Go fuck the nerdy 7-8s as an athletic, handsome GDI; when you enter the Greek scene, you have no real value because your amongst girls who fetishize this type of world that basically was made up to help us. Outside of that, you'll pull, you just won't get the hottest ones b…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 09:14 AM
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No. There is a conceivable way for every man who's not limited by a crippling mental or physical disorder to get laid, get wealthy, and get in shape. Now, there's certainly people who have gone so far into BP that their brain has degraded to the point where they will never be able to use their own faculties to acquire the SMV they want. This type of person still can fix their shit, but they won't ever do it, because they have just lost all of their self-pride, responsibility, ambition, etc, and …
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 08:58 AM
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It's because marriage is a a national shit-test of males. Do you buy into the societal narrative and dominant view of dating, life, love, the legal system, noble judges, all that shit? Wait, just how stupid are you, okay, you're that stupid, just how much of you, you're time, your life, your money can we take? Do you have the perception to realize it's a bad deal, an invention of those with less power in society to control those who do? Do you feel the social pressure to and then decide that fac…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 08:08 AM
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Truth is, you have no fucking idea what your T level is. You need to get it tested - for all you know it might be low enough to request supplementary test from your doctor legally. The thing is, you're probably thinking "low T means I'm low energy, puffy nippled, and eating Ben and Jerrys" - which is not true. If you are concerned, get it checked, its not a big deal to ask at all even at a young age. I think you need to put on muscle mass to increase your T, and of course, increasing T increases…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 07:00 AM
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You can minimize risks and sides, but not eliminate it. Even with pharma grade (which you wont get) and the control of having a good doctor monitoring your shit while aware of what you're prescribed (which you wont get), there's risks. You know how your average street coke from Mexico is like 43% pure. Your gear from a UGL in Mexico is likely stomped on, could be a different steroid, could be dangerous, could have been manufactured under unsanitary conditions, etc. There is no way to control tha…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 06:56 AM
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Heavy compound lifting. Ample sleep ideally resembling the night cycle we were supposed to have. Keep cortisol down through having low stress Avoiding estrogen-forming substances (pesticides, potentially stuff like beer, white sugars / flours, soy especially GMO soy) Eat enough saturated, clean fat. Not to drive the price up of grassfed beef anymore, but get it. ... ... ... 6) Supplements
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 06:47 AM
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See, from an evolutionary point of view, inferior and superior is not defined by anything other than ability to survive and procreate. The cockroach is evolutionarily superior to the Siberian extinct-ass tiger. Women are going to prosper and thrive - women HAVE prospered and thrived - by leveraging their reproductive importance into virtually whatever they want. If they are inferior, why they have stunted on our fucking faces in the past 50 years. They have DIFFERENT tools than us - we believe t…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 06:42 AM
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Of course. I've recommended it + 48 Laws as the two most crucial RP books before. AS is more RP than TRP a lot of the time.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 06:33 AM
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Well let's break it down. Abusive - People define abuse differently, but the idea is basically harm. You're physically abusive if you physical cause harm to her. You're emotionally / mentally abusive if you cause harm to her emotions or psyche. So people call us emotionally abusive because we do things that could feasibly harm some girls emotions. IE if she's upset and flaring up about something, instead of supplicating to put her instantly in a satisfied mood, we would say just peace out and le…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 01:33 PM
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I used to buy chicks dinner and drinks. I was in college working to pay the bills - and then I would go and blow like 2-4 hrs of wages on some date that would have like a 10% chance of eventually leading to pussy. So do the math, 20-40 hrs of time wasted per lay - and not just any time wasted, but "time-hours" that I needed to for college. Think about that, traditional dating is the epitome of beta and luckily when I joined a frat I was schooled to this shit simply by noticing no one dated excep…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 01:07 PM
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Girls give it away for free because if you give it away for free to a guy with a good job, you don't just get a few bands. You charge a rich dude 500$ or even 5000$ for a fuck or two, he's going to pay you and that's all you get. If you give it away for free to him some, then you might get nothing at all, but you might get a nice house in the burbs, a car, your college loans paid, a ring, and the perfect life to brag about on facebook. Girls front the goods when they think that will get them com…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 08:08 AM
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The comments read like some shit out of Atlas Shrugged. "I hate you stupid rich guys who look down on us. It's just different for us. These words are easy to say at the top. Some people are really stuck and there is nothing they can do, their excuses are real!" I love when Tyrese repeats "You have no bottom line. Excuses sound best to the person making them up." That is truly brilliant and while it's nothing new if you're into this type of self-help tony robbins type shit, he says it really well…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 06:15 AM
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Relative to somewhere like Bolivia, Colombia, Paraguay, Peru, even Brazil. That is why people from a group of northern, poorer countries constantly try to immigrate there, and why historically and today Chile and Argentina need to control their borders. Argentina's poverty rate has always been very volatile, going from anywhere from 16% -> 50% and based on changes to government and various external / internal events, but the vast majority of the past 50 years, they've been better off in terms of…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 09:24 AM
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It's not Cho's fault, but rather a function of the fact that successful people generally are adept at figuring out what attitudes are socially accepted. Someone was all butthurt that Megan Fox gave the typical hot chick answer to friendzoned guys - like WTF, she's a hot chick with a public image to run and contracts to snag, what do you expect her to say? Why does a successful person do an AMA, there is only one reason - to increase his social presence and MAKE MONEY FROM THAT PRESENCE. Who will…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 06:21 AM
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Argentina's situation is very clear. They need international investment to bring in money, and stricter border control so that in the hypothetical where they fix their shit and turn their natural resources into profit, they don't fill up with unsupportable masses of immigrants. But no one wants to gamble on investing in Argentina because of shit like this. They switch up every few years to a socialist regime like in the 2000s that tries to nationalize everything, and in the process puts workers …
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 06:08 AM
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Yup. A lot of people equate "emotionally unstable" with "emotionally unstable because of trauma, disorders, etc". Self-diagnosing lets you blame others for your problems and avoid facing the truth that you're crazy because you're too weak to hold your mind together. I haven't met girls who claim to have PTSD, but I've met so many girls who self-diagnose themselves with ADHD and pop adderall / dexies because they "need it" to get through their workday because of their "condition". No, you just ne…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 05:50 AM
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True. I use unicorn to refer to the top 1-2% of women, the "best that you'll find in reality" or cream of the crop. They aren't perfect and they have the same female / human capacity for all sorts of nastiness.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 05:40 AM
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I would say that in that even, the sad truth is, it sounds like she was raped and it broke her and robbed her of her will for revenge, justice, etc. She's not able to fight back because the pain of how you fight back in our society (rape kit, making a case, reliving the trauma, etc) and as a result, she's failing to help bring the rapist to justice. I do not blame her for this; on some level, trying to get your rapist jailed after the act is an essentially masculine task (confronting your trauma…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 10:32 AM
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I've known 2 real rape victims in my life and yes, that's not a sample size that tells you anything, but what I've noticed is they generally never bring it up, they don't go telling you early on in dating, they don't use it to win arguments (THAT JOKE ISN'T FUNNY, I'VE BEEN RAPED! - they don't do that shit). You wouldn't really ever know until they confessed it, and they only bring it up with people they are really comfortable with deep in the relationship. Which is why I can guarantee you, if y…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 10:19 AM
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You need to learn the art of judging without emotionally judging. Most people when they think of "judging" they have a emotional reaction as part of their judgment and it's visceral - think of a pedophile getting a 5 year bullshit sentence and the feeling of righteous anger and "I have a 50 cent solution for this guy, a bullet" thought that goes through your head. That is "emotionally judging" and it's not inherently bad. But with women, you need to stop having these gut-level emotional response…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 07:00 AM
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The problem here is that RP teaches "the person who speaks the most confidently and assertively is often perceived as right." The strongest reality always wins. Noobies get that basic idea and they either subconsciously or consciously just speak their baby-RP or residual BP-angst ideas as these grand truths, and they state things like "RP is not about sex, RP is about improving your life" as if RP was something they founded. And hey, doing that works, often a bunch of other noobies upvote their …
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 06:23 AM
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Yes, the dude who's made 100+ mil, released plenty of RP songs, and has his latest album talking about fucking other chicks, asking your bitch for other bitches, etc. He's married a post-wall chick, sure, but his music catalog from college dropout onwards is by and large RP. We're judging the music, not what tabloids say about the dude, and his post-marriage music is still relatively RP. If you want to argue the point, argue the point. I gave you 15 rappers that are both mainstream successes and…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 06:05 AM
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If the girl has a alpha father who also happens to be a good person - aka "benevolent king" type alpha rather than dark triad alpha - then yeah, the benefits are huge. A shitty alpha father can screw with his kids as much as a shitty beta father. But in the event of the father generally being a well-meaning person who loves, spends time with, and doesn't spoil their kid... the alpha father will definitely instill good self-esteem, the ability to think strategically about her overall love life, a…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 09:23 AM
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Plenty of new guys have RP - You may not like Lil wayne but he has plenty of RP songs. 2 Chainz, tons of hilarious RP shit, even that shitty "Or Nah" song has a core RP idea. Even some radio shit like Loyal is pretty RP. Eminem just buttfucked like 5 songs into top singles with his latest album, way more commercially successful than most predicted, and they were not BP - a few of them were pretty much in line with RP. Who else is big nowdays, YG, Rich Homie, Kanye, Drake, Migos, Juicy J, Kendric…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 09:12 AM
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Quit worrying about what he's doing. If you're interested in the chick, take the straightest route - build attraction, escalate in socially savvy ways, and close it. If you're not interested because you're trying to kill it at work, make money, and you can get your chicks on the weekend, then ignore it, because who cares what he does? Cut through the AMOG guy by having the balls to just engage with the girls. It's like at a club where there's this half-beta but socially adept guy trying to hit o…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 05:53 AM
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Drake is not indicative of HH as a genre. Pop songs on the radio with a mild HH influence, yes, they might be BP trash. But HH culture is basically the last remaining area where RP ideas are verbalized directly. Check this out: http://redpillguides.com/5-hip-hop-songs-to-exorcise-your-inner-beta/
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 05:48 AM
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The remix with Boosie and too short is great too. Too short's presence makes everything that much more RP. Goofy song, but it's video depicts holding frame well against chicks that would make your average dude supplicate
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 05:45 AM
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Bitterness and envy - nothing rots the soul like either of those, especially envy. Average to ugly girls spend their lives in a state of perpetual hatred and envy aimed towards the girls who, in their eyes, just magically "had it all" straight from the womb. Even some of the most intelligent women who are otherwise unicorns behave like this; they hate younger, hotter, and/or more socially validated women. Women have negative experiences, turn outwards, and look around for who could have been cau…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 07:42 AM
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Step 1 - learn to be alone Step 2 - now you're ready for relationships. You have not done step one, so you're not going to get the type of relationship you want. If there's one thing we can all agree on out of RP, relationships, etc etc - You must be a successful, emotionally fulfilled person who's capable of enjoying life to the fullest all by their lonesome. You must be a full cup of water, not a boy with a half empty cup wanting her to fill it up. When you stop needing her to provide for your…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 08:30 AM
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Honestly, what you need to do is repeat after me - I will NEVER work again for free. If I am not paid in cold, hard cash - like at least typical intern wage relative to your field, usually around min wage - then it's not worth it. Yes there are some exceptions where it's the only way to crack into a field, but 99.9% of the time, never, ever work without pay. Don't do it. Let me tell you the story of 3 interns I hired last year. 2 where on 10$ an hr and one was slightly more talented, but negotia…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 08:08 AM
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Everything means more when you are an adolescent. That is the beauty of it all (and why if you have a shitty experience with women in your teens, it can be so ugly). The first time I fucked it was like I was changing the world with my dick. The first job I had getting a real paycheck, even though it was shit pay, made me feel like a boss. Man, when I was 19 I woke up and started lifting, after 6 months I made minimal progress but dear lord I felt amazing about it; every new tidbit of shape on my…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 07:31 AM
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You need to be smarter and bolder than BFG. I dealt with this with my ex a lot because she had your typical 'hot girl' type of friends and their own pack-hierarchy and issues. They got massively riled up and butthurt about their friend (my GF at the time) leaving their immature club trash group - even though she would hang out with them, they would tell that she now looked down upon them, because she was with me. So they tried this typical "alpha-chick" shit where they use their social pull and …
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 11:53 AM
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All women have negative aspects to their behavior, similar to how most / all men will not be "pure alpha". Women tend to be more in a flux state, oscillating between positive feminine and negative feminine behaviors (ie being emotional is GOOD, being emotionally needy and clingy quickly turns into childlike behavior. A woman who's attractive and has the feminine qualities that attract you will likely be more emotional in general, and thus will occasionally get needy and clingy. Whether it's 50% …
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 06:17 AM
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Not long term dude. Short term, fine. Let's say she's an in-demand, hot actress, and use these rates http://www.businessinsider.com/heres-what-female-porn-stars-get-paid-for-different-types-of-scenes-2012-11 Let's say she shoots 2 scenes a week, which is far more than average, I think Tori Black for 1 year kept this up and said she was insanely burnt out. So $2000 (1000x2) a week minus waxing, products, and whatever else you have to do to keep in pornstar mode. AKA 104K per year - some job relat…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 05:05 AM
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This is not a conspiracy theory. This is straight up fact - prostitution's harshest enemy has always been religious factions and government, both of which have their own reasons to be very pro-marriage. Marriage is essential for the progressive ideal of a consumerist society that most people love, because it connects the spenders (women) up with the earners, and results in what we see today - a world where 75% of purchasing decisions are made by women, nearly all marketing is aimed at women, etc…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 04:35 AM
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This would be pretty useful; a lot of members have posts that have explained things so well, I'd rather just link to them then offering a new version of the same thing.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 08:04 AM
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I changed my mind halfway through.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 07:59 AM
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Yup. Online dating is about managing expectations. There is a reason she is online dating. Always remember that. When her profiles look hot as fuck and her profile sounds sweet and feminine, remember that a woman like that would get an "alpha bucks", the best of both worlds, in real life, or at least something close enough to it to not need online dating. If she's online, it means something about her was not able to earn her either AF or BB. Something is off, usually one or the other, and the tr…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 07:49 AM
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Given what you just said, I'm 100% confident you'll love it and hate it. I go from SF to Palo Alto area every day, so I have a pretty good sweep of what the bay area is like, and you will deal with more liberal PC-force, hipsterism, etc, and when you avoid that, it's because you're in the realm of spoilt rich kids. I wrote a post a while back where I trashed LA girls because I lived there for 4 years and was going out at that time about 1-3 times a week. So comparatively, SF girls are less attra…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 07:37 AM
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Plenty of male feminists get laid. Most girls I fuck tend to have some sort of feminist boyfriend on the side. These dudes get pussy, but the pussy just tends to have been tampered with. Almost every self-identified male feminist I've met has been in some type of one-ended poly relationship, and they have deluded themselves into thinking its fair because in theory they can fuck others too and they have "evolved past the patriarchal need for 'ownership' of their woman." You will think I'm making …
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 05:25 AM
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Ladies and gents, if you plan on raising a daughter and you're from an upper/middle class status, make sure that when you send her to college she knows it's conditional upon her getting good grades in a equitable major. You had a 18 year old a free 200k to go educate herself at a top 10 school, she takes it all for granted. Everyone in my neighborhood growing up would literally kill for that opportunity to be empowered by education, real job prospects, and an ability to contribute to the cutting…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 05:16 AM
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You are arguing using chick-logic. "It's not my fault, therefore, it's not my responsibility." "How am I supposed to do it? -> I'm a victim of my circumstances -> It's not my fault -> I'm not responsible." "It's true, but I hate it and think it's stupid and unfair, so therefore it's not true." What you are saying isn't incorrect, it's just not a useful way of thinking. That's the female flowchart. Yes it may take a while, it might be hard, it might suck, but there really is no other option. If i…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 09:54 AM
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Stay the course, don't back down. Your kids are learning and they will either see a man who backed down, got trod over by their wife, and relented about feeding them healthy food. Or they will see a man who cared enough. As for what happened, I guarantee she felt like you were attacking her choices by throwing out shit food. Do it more slowly and talk to her before you make the decision in front of her kids. Obviously I think she's a shit-tier woman and you're reasonably fucked for having marrie…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 10:40 PM
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No. As satisfying as it would be to send some of these ratchet feminists into combat, I'm not willing to compromise our the safety of the troops. Look at what women have done to every space they've gotten involved in - moderated the shit out of it, reduced efficiency with the introduction of arbitrary, feels-catering policies, bloated the shit out of the HR departments, lowered the standards so the mediocre could pass the bar, and increased the level of bureaucracy. And while I haven't personall…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 10:26 PM
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This is similar to hardball negotiation. A chump who reads a negotiation book will read "be willing to walk away" and he'll dick around a little and try to play the game, but the person making the offer will see through it and keep lowballing him until he cracks down and takes just enough that he won't actively be looking for other work. He wasn't willing to actually lose the offer in pursuit of what he wanted, so he doesn't get what he wants; pretending doesn't cut it. This is real dread game. …
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 10:18 PM
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Yup. When they say that though, as hard as it is, don't think of it as a lie. They don't fuck on the first date for you, and when she's in the moment out on a date, that environment becomes her reality. She likely literally does not understand that last month she got fucked in the club, because to her that exists in her "club" memory, and this is in her "guy takes me out" reality. She probably doesn't fuck on the first "date" in that if it feels like a courtship date to her, she didn't fuck that…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 10:04 PM
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Read better. "From 18-onwards, It's On You" Does that mean you magically transform? No. It means society changes how it treats you, and thus you have the responsibility and no one to blame anymore. Will all 18 year olds - or even most 20-25 year olds - magically mature? No and I didn't say that. Don't be a reading comprehension aspie. You can spend your whole life playing the blame game and rationalizing your decisions as "my parents raised me like this, my childhood left me with a beta personal…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 11:50 AM
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Today we have infinite knowledge at our disposal. This poisonous family probably is also sending OP to college giving him 100x the options his forefathers had. When you are a child, it's all on your father and mother. When you decide to cross the bridge into adulthood (whether you do that at 13 or 18 or 28 or 40 is up to you, but the younger the better) it really is all on you. Parenting largely determines your personality, but people change their personalities consciously. If that wasn't the ca…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 10:37 AM
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There's two type of people. Type 1 uses the pain and trauma in the childhood, whatever it might be, as massive psychological fuel to push all the way through to the other end of the spectrum. Type 2 distracts themselves with little excuses and seeks to numb the pain, rather than AMPLIFY it and be forced to deal with it. Gaming, over-eating, TV, spending money and time supplicating to women, trolling online dating for hours on end in a quest for pussy, and basically looking for all these little v…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 07:16 AM
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This is pretty hilarious. Older brother needs to quit being a bitch / sore loser, if he couldn't outgame a 17 year old, there's no need for resentment and jealousy, he needs to re-examine his own life and be grateful for the wake-up call. All you all saying "nah his older bro called dibs" are deluded. Dibs is not a real concept. If your friend has literally zero chance of landing a chick, it's not dibs to jack her. He wasn't fucking anyways, it's no robbery. If he has actually going to try to ge…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 04:38 AM
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Haha, this is a tough question. I have a nice bachelor pad and I used to get this all the time; they come home from the club and then all of a sudden they want to treat me like they didn't know what the deal was at the club. Do not hide your wealth, it's part of your SMV composite and it's something you likely worked your ass off for. Just do not set the tone as dating; from the get-go make it very clear that you're trying to fuck, get a plate at most, and move on with your life. Be almost a car…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 06:44 AM
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Sorry man, the honest truth is that girls like all that shit, ALL girls like at least 2-3 things from that menu you described, when they are with a guy they subconsciously perceive as alpha. As Juicy J once said, "when she's with you she's a church girl, when she's with me she's a porn star." Rough truth, but hopefully it will save you from wasting years of your life on someone who isn't enthusiastic enough about you to do the nasty shit you want. Most women who do not get wild about sex with yo…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 08:14 PM
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Yeah, this is very important, I've found that if you maintain course with regards to being mildly anal about fitness and food (for yourself), your GF or wife will follow. My GF was always healthy, played Volleyball in college, and then when she graduated, I knew what was coming. Slowly her diet began to change, her stress increased, her workout routine thinned, and the exact same thing occurred - little shit snacks that are marketed as "healthy" but in reality are just horrible for you. Told her…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 08:01 PM
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Women tend to withhold their sexual pasts from 2 types of guys. Beta bucks for obvious reasons, and "stable" type alphas, like a cool, successful dude who she's banging and desperately wants commitment out of. Call him "alpha bucks". See the commonality? If you're providing for these chicks or you are delivering the potential of being a provider, you're going to get lied to. She's not going to reveal her past unless she's young and naive, because she's learned the effect it has on guys. She does…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 10:21 AM
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Exactly. No one has a "good" batting average with women aside from celebrities. You're going to miss many more shots than you take, and this does cause weak minded men to blame the ideology as wrong because they cannot deal with the fact that you can never eliminate randomness and failure from game.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 07:23 AM
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Virtually all attractive women from any nationality, any race, any socioeconomic status, etc, will respond to RP ideas because wherever you go, female attractiveness spikes male interest and validation. If she's hot and in her prime, she's having other guys fawn over her whether in India or Japan or the US. When other guys are fawning, your optimal course of action is to play more disinterested, flex your other options, and do stuff like push pull. The bottom line is that we are all the same, we…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 07:21 AM
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It's very rarely seen victim status claiming in TRP. Claiming victim status might occur within some regions of MR/TRP crossovers, like in divorce court or pertaining to false rape accusations. But when we say "don't get married until the legal system changes" that is the opposite of victim status - we are saying rather than do it anyway and then pity yourself and bitch about society when the divorce roulette hits you, you should proactively do the 1 thing you can do to insure yourself against it…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/14 09:38 AM
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Some females are capable of being a good friend, but if you observe girl / girl dynamics in a large social circle of girls who appear to be BFFs (aka like, say, bridesmaids, a girls who came to the club together, women forming cliques in the workplace), they get on some Lord of the Flies shit real quick. Ask some girls at your college about the female only dorms versus the co-sex dorms - women brutalize their friends to establish their pack-order in ways that scar them for life. Many women who c…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 08:25 AM
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My take is that everyone has a RP side in that as men, we tend to want certain sexual, mental, physical sensations and experiences. We all want to make good money, be stronger, and succeed in our relationships or ONSs or whatever sexual game we're trying to play. So you might not agree that the PATH to a certain type of success may be through RP behaviors (ie, someone may honestly believe supplicating to women and doing the delayed courtship style of game results in a better quality of woman, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 08:39 AM
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Social proof is not set in stone. Go into a club, do a few rounds and meet people, and then if you're cool enough, you'll have people throughout the night coming up to you as saying "whats up" or something minor like that as you bump into the same people. That's enough to make the difference when you're with a girl if you play it right. It is like a snowball, get it rolling early in the night and then it builds and makes the difference later on.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 08:25 AM
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It's not just about age - it's kind of like when a guy nexts a plate who wants more and she rants about how he has commitment issues. That guy is actually probably looking for a committed relationship, but he just knows he can do better. His issue is not with commitment, but with you, but he's not cold enough to give you the brutal honesty. This guy recognizes that this girl is simply just not good mother material - and I completely agree from the way she's posting. It's all about her and her as…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 05:19 AM
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Some women are in camp A, some women are in camp B. If a woman has a healthy upbringing, she's genuinely going to truly love her kids and want the best for them, and sacrifice for them. When you enter a society that trains women to avoid all responsibility and never sacrifice for others, then some women can make the change and some can't. When they have a kid, most will, but many don't. There is a reason why nearly 90% of the posts on /raisedbynarcissists are about narcissistic mothers, not fath…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 10:36 AM
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So stop giving them views
/r/MensRights12/09/14 08:53 AM
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The problem is also that any type of late Child Support or failure to pay winds up in rapidly escalating fees. For example in Georgia, late CS will get your drivers license suspended and charged some 50-100$ fee right off the bat, plus the $95 fee to the DMV for re-activating a suspended license (and keep in mind, you cannot drive during this time technically). Someone who's having trouble making ends meet already can be pretty crippled by this type of thing repeatedly happening. Hilariously eno…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 04:48 AM
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This guy makes the same mistakes that several guys make, MJ involvement or not. Really in this picture the same thing can happen with a chump guy and anyone who is alpha relative to that guy. She actually gave him 1 chance after his first massive beta opt-out. He just had to be willing to put his foot down. All he had to do was stop the ballooning of events, but instead he wanted her to choose him WITHOUT him having to actually put his foot down and force the decision. Guys do this all the time …
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 12:51 PM
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All ethnic minorities are like this. Chinese women and chinese men deal with the exact same thing. I could explain why Indian women are like this, but what's important is what you should do about it. So situation A) you want to actually bang these Indian girls as an Indian guy. Easy - once you understand a girl's stated preferences about who she dates like "eww I don't like muscley guys!" and so on mean NOTHING, you can just approach her like any other candidate. Because you know she already vie…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 11:52 AM
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The problem with PPD being a middle ground between TBP and TRP is that TBP has no real ideology. Here, take this guy who's 25, no sexual experiences, awkward with women, out of shape, treading water in his career, and depressed. What does TBP prescribe for him? I cannot agree or disagree with TBPers until it becomes clear what you guys would do for that guy. Because TRP will have him approaching women, lifting weights, learning enough about male fashion, and encouraging him to take every opportu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/14 10:28 AM
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Feminists really just make it too easy for the world to think of them as a joke. The first sentence is "I'm a feminist" and then she proceeds to 1) dock a sex workers pay for no reason and call him a pussy, rationalize spending 300$ to "order a rape" as empowering, and spends the whole article writing in a way as if she is trying to "bro out" with her imaginary readers about how she is this badass for having done this. This is what a feminist actually looks like.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 06:56 AM
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You can think of "alpha" as anyone who is in the top of the social and/or sexual pyramid that is society. That's the noun and you can decide how selective you want that top part of the pyramid to be. Some people on TRP will present it as alphas are the 1%, old boys on top, the guys who have girls flocking to them, the celebrities, the very tip-top of SMV and power. This is more consistent with the biological view of alpha (the wolf who leads the pack is the alpha, the rest are all beta until the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/14 06:45 AM
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So there's a few factors beyond diet other than the obvious (like, not showering after you work out is the obvious, so I won't cover that). Skin moisture levels - if you dry out your face too hard either due to your climate or because you're basically raping your face with benzyl peroxide type products or retinae, you can overdry your face, which can actually prompt acne as well. By over-exfoliating manually you can also do this - you basically remove all your facial oils so the glands produce w…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 06:07 AM
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This is true with reddit to a pretty hilarious degree. Beta culture runs rampant here and feeding out BP garbage is the best way to accrue massive karma on 99% of the subs - and yet there is such a deep hatred (self-hatred) for nice guys and cringey guys and basically anyone who you can point at and say "yeah, that there is a beta male". As an unidentified mass, betas will circlejerk and basically the BP will rise to the top, and then as soon as there is a specific example of BP (like the "pls r…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 05:57 AM
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Plenty of men are entitled in the same sort of way women are entitled - women feel entitled to resources, commitment, treatment etc that they did not earn with high-quality behavior. Beta males feel entitled to a getting love and sex and female validation in response to their worst qualities (like how they are nice, how they are non-judgmental and "normal / stable", how they are altruistic, etc). Female entitlement is most obvious to us because we are generally evaluating the behavior of the fem…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 05:45 AM
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The Gates Foundation is completely unique as a charitable organization because it's goal is not to break even, but to operate fully at a loss. Gates is giving away 95% of its wealth - aka money is going in from the top, and out through the bottom. Most charities (Susan G Komen for example) have the money coming IN from the middle and bottom (aka middle class folks who are easily manipulated by marketing and societal narratives). Rather than the money pouring IN from the top, you have the top guy…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 09:17 PM
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If you guys remember the 90s, there had basically never been a time of such shitty nutritional advice being pumped on out on a governmental level (due to food, agriculture, and pharmaceutical industries advancing so rapidly. Things like coconut oil were being banned for use in movie popcorn due to its high saturated fat (aka the devil) and replaced by trans oils, people were told to load up on grains while cutting all fat and minimizing protein to get "toned muscle", eggs were told to be worse t…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 09:10 PM
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I'm in a relationship with a girl who would be similar to this RP ideal and I do not come off as misogynist to her despite being what others would perceive as "misogynist". Most of us in relationships, contrary to what you might imagine, don't actually launch into discussions about feminism, gender roles, and our opinions on why American women tend to be shitty. I can't speak for all TRPers, but I expect that most of us understand why it's pretty futile to talk about these types of subjects with…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/14 07:19 AM
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"I see her as the most beautiful, funny, understanding creature I have ever met." This is called oneitis. It is a delusion, it is you being a beta little bitch who does not believe he can feasibly get other girls, so he hyper-pedestalizes the girl he does "have". Of course, you don't actually have her and if you opened your eyes, you'd see that there are 1000s of better girls probably in your city and on any given night, you can meet dozens of them. You are in an emotional state, so psychotherap…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 07:53 PM
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Top response is a rare example of sense coming from women on the subject of marriage. If you translate it and remove the sugar coating, it's A) evaluate why you're marriage crazy, is it because you actually want to contribute to a household, or do you just want to get support, validation and money? B) Offer a prenup and basically acknowledge that marriage is a massive financial risk for men (and therefore represent him risking the past 5-10 years of his work and the time he put into earning that…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 07:37 PM
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The universe disposes with all of us after a relative brief period. We're all going to die. What's unique for men is that there are subtle, insidious ways that society and others will leech upon your hard work and use you up, only to discard you and shatter the "reward" you thought you were working towards. A perfect example is the coal miner who makes mediocre money, has to quit his job in his 50s due to health problems, and has discovered his insurance cannot actually be fucked to pay for any …
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 09:42 AM
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There's this epic British film (Abandon Ship) about this boat that gets stranded and the guy who assumes command on the lifeboat with like 14 other people has to choose who to put overboard in order to ensure the group survives. It's an old 50s movie and this means it actually portrays alpha realistically and does not espouse this chivalric, self-sacrificial bullshit. The guy is RP as fuck and ensures that 14 people make it to safety instead of none by having the balls to cut the deadweight loos…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 09:14 AM
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Depends on what the goals of their sexual strategy is. If they want to get married to a high value guy and keep the relationship healthy, sex-filled, and so on - and they are sure they are with that guy - then the optimal course is to put the relationship as #1. She shouldn't first-mate to an unworthy captain. In the beginning phases of the relationships, it's very important for a woman to have a balanced or even slightly weighted towards her own life goals, because she does not yet know if he's…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/14 06:11 AM
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Men - Prioritize your relationship as #2 after your own personal growth and "life mission" whatever that may be. Women - Find a man who does the former, but keeps you at a close second.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/14 05:55 AM
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Well, look, if you are have both a good physique / appearance, a location convenient for clubs, a little spare change for parking / bullshit covers and whatnot, and game (or the desire to learn game), NOTHING will beat a packed club. If you want girls who have their states already pumped up by the YOLO music and hamster-feedings that the club provides and are dolled up, looking for a casual fuck, and already preselected as having slutty tendencies, just go to hit up clubs. Even the areas on hot …
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 06:49 AM
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There's nothing RP about taking your opportunity to go to college and make something out of yourself and using it to be a piece of trash passed around from 140 guys and up. Being self-aware of her behavior does not all of a sudden make it "RP" - she is nuking her own ability to get commitment out of any sane, reasonably high value man - which means losing the female goal of RP.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 01:05 AM
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This post encapsulates why I mostly read male authors only - "I had a car accident. Lost my job. Was still depressed about family member passing away. My wife decides she really wants a gold watch that costs $999. I tell her I can't afford to spend money on something like that in our current situation. She shuts herself in the bathroom to cry. That was the first time I didn't react to that tactics. She comes out few hours later and asks me outright if I want a divorce. Which wasn't even on my mi…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 10:59 PM
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This guy seems to get it and did the right thing by kicking her out, but the fact that he needs to ask reddit what to do does not bode well. He's probably not going to do shit about it and keep dating this 35 year old who has no qualms about lying / hamstering about why the lies were OK. At least he didn't put a ring on it. All in all though, this doesn't bode well. If he is weak minded enough to seek other's opinions for an issue that should be so clear, he's not strong enough to cut her off an…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 07:21 AM
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He basically wrecked the frame intentionally - it's a pretty common move if you watch some politicians. He knew that what he said was basically a bit extreme and would get blown out of proportion (Saying that a child exploitation ring had "the morals of the Punjab" is pretty facepalm-y for many reasons). If he tries to fight on that front, he surely loses because while I don't think he is a racist, that was a pretty fucked up thing to say given how many Punjabis are in England and how he makes i…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 07:13 AM
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I would say from a RP point of view, doing this gangbang is not "RP" or "BP", but rather how you perceive it and frame it in your head is what can be RP or BP. If a girl wants to go have risky sex, unsafe sex, gangbangs, DP, whatever it is she wants to do, that's fine. But when you start to hamster about how it's actually empowering and actually makes you a brave, better, more fun person - aka you deny that the above behavior is going to lower your perceived value in the eyes of 95% of the men y…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/14 07:53 PM
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It's a combination of both - the physiology does play a big deal and don't let TRP paradigms make you forget about reality. A guy fucking a HIV+ woman has a lower % of contracting HIV than a woman fucking a HIV+ guy - it is biologically different. In addition, you have the 80/20. And in addition to that, you have something that is being forgotten - women are far more likely to have unprotected sex with their AF guy than they are with the steady BB type, and the AF guy often as a result of higher…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 06:42 AM
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You need to change everything dude. Your shit is screwed. Continue at this rate and you're beyond boned. Shit has not been going south, at this rate you're about to be paying out the ass to support your ex-wife while she bones this other guy and your kid calls him daddy. Think about that - yeah it sounds extreme now, but how many posts have we read from r/relationships that sound JUST like that? This is beyond some "use a little dread game and work out" shit. In addition to what bankruptedcasino…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 06:32 AM
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The problem is also that lawyers know how to get clients. If I claim that for a higher price, I'll be able to help you draft a prenup that keeps 70% of your wealth post-divorce, you won't choose me. If I say for a lower price I'll draft you up a contract that will let you keep 95% of your wealth, you'll think "of course, why the hell would I pay the other guy."
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 06:15 AM
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This suggests to me the optimal route for most men (optimal is not really the word, since they did choose to get married, but anyway) is to include in the prenup that she will get a 3-6 spousal support in the event that she is unemployed, and after that reasonable time period for her to find a job, the spousal support ends. Include a clause that gives her a decent stipend for living / income for a short time period and then cuts off. I have no idea if that actually works out more in practice, bu…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 06:12 AM
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This is one of the best lists of assorted random things that are not strictly TRP, but should be done by all TRPers. I'd add though that 1 rejection a week isn't shit. You should be going out at least once a week and approaching a good 10-15 women then, and in your day to day life, trying to fit some sort of challenging approach fairly frequently. You don't want to fall into the mentality of "ok I have to do one risk this week, so since I want it to be over with I'll go do this thing". You want …
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 06:03 AM
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I came over here because I saw an bunch of guys in bodybuilding.com talking about pickup and one guy brought up TRP and how it was better because it actually could face the truth that aesthetics and looks DO matter, and as lifters, we know that's true from how our results have changed as we gained lean muscle mass. I figured it was pretty sensible, but the other bb.com morons were talking the usual "RP is literally the worst thing ever" type shit. I had been in the old school pickup scene and lo…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 06:17 AM
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Once again, we weren't talking specifically about the celebrities reaction to the events, but rather the MEDIA's ballooning the issue into some giant "rape culture" example. I do not disagree with anything you said - but it sounds like you interpretting me as saying "the celebrities are at fault". Which is not what I'm saying - I'm saying fault is irrelevant, but now that this has happened and people have had the wool pulled from their eyes about internet privacy, they SHOULD be taking precautio…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/14 05:21 AM
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You are misinterpreting the point TRP is making. We weren't talking about who is "at fault". Obviously hacking into someone's cloud data is unethical and AFAIK illegal. We aren't arguing that these 4chan guys aren't in the wrong. We are discussing why we think it's such a big issue. People get identity jacked, robbed, and have their technological "possessions" stolen all the time. Women have been getting their nudes shared without their consent since the beginning of the internet - and yeah, fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/14 03:48 AM
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Feminists / mainstream media freaks out when people have the chance to see that your average chick in any random city in Spain or any number of other places in the world beats out half of our "attractive female celebrities". Fuck it, I could go to ASU and meet 100 chicks that are hotter than J Law in 1 night. I've seen 40 year old yoga instructors I'd bang before any of these leaked skinnyfats. Mediocrity has become the new standard - that is what happens when you have women telling men what is …
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 03:15 AM
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Honestly, this is the way it's supposed to me. Reality will drive you insane if you do not accept it. Men who spend their lives knowing deep down what is true or what they must do, but cannot overcome the hump of actually changing who they are... subject themselves to a particularly cruel form of torture. This guy is in pain and he should be - he is trying to hold two contradictory truths in his brain and live one foot inside of a fantasy hamster world and one foot inside of a world that is ugly…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 02:42 AM
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It's not her, I've noticed this in all areas of life. If I'm going to pick a new hire for a tech position out of a pool of Asian / Indian kids from Berkeley who all have similar stats / experience, I'm going to choose the guy who speaks English the best and seems the most like a confident, yet competent extroverted type - the bro / jock who still has that same credential. People look down upon that which is common and cliche. They are intrigued by people who represent the "best of both worlds". …
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 03:53 AM
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When you make millions and clearly seem happy - especially if you came from broke / ratchet beginnings - I don't really care what you piece together to believe in. God, science, spirituality, nihilism, Scientology... If you are successful in application of your beliefs, that is all that matters. I don't even give a fuck about Will Smith or Tom Cruise and Scientology - yes Scientology is one of the stupidest things I've heard, but both have broken into the top crust of society. Believing in thing…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 03:10 PM
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If you want the RP, you have to go to the source of Hank Moody's character - Hank Chinaski aka Bukowski in Women. David Duchovny is the perfect actor for the job and nails alpha body language, attitudes, irreverence, etc, but he's made to be a sympathetic character to BP audiences, so that makes him unrealistic. Anyone who achieves his level of outcome independence / abundance mentality with women isn't going to spend 20 years pining for some post wall hamster. TV always constructs an alpha male…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 03:02 PM
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If you read this sub daily, why do you have this question? People are people - Sexual strategies may be different on a minutiae level, but women being attracted to alpha males, and power / wealth / a sculpted body / confidence will always help you. In any society, a top % of men will rise to the crust and enjoy the majority of the money, women, etc - you could have the perfectly constructed society, but TRP would be still be necessary because men not in the top 10% would still aspire to that hei…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 11:52 AM
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The richest woman in America will be a woman who divorce-raped for the wealth. Livin' the dream
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 09:58 AM
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To put it bluntly, people get CC debt because of addictions. It could be literal addictions to substances, I've lived in LA for a few years so I saw that in abundance and it sure as shit eats through your wallet. But usually it's addictions to the things that let you escape the mode you're talking about. They want to escape this hardcore mode of "grind grind grind, make money, live spartan, no entertainment, grind". Whether it's shopping or drugs or expensive activities, dinners / drinking out, …
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 06:11 AM
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If you're in a period where you are freelancing your work, the whole damn point is that you're income is variable. Maybe you land some great projects, maybe you don't, you can't just assume you have X level of income like you're a full time employee with benefits. When I freelanced, I was putting everything into my savings account, eating chicken and on-sale veggies, and understanding I COULD have enough in the next few months to finance a new car, or I could have zilch. This is why I just can't…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 06:05 AM
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Not to sound like an RSD shill, but they have a lot of really solid videos on self-improvement. Watch - The Blueprint Decoded, Tyler's 3 "truth about success" videos. Other than that, you just need to read good quality books. Autobiography of Malcolm X, Lincoln biography, I, Claudius, Meditations by Marcus Aurelius... read about the great men of history. They are different because they had actually DONE the shit they are writing about. If I write up some shit about how to be this great leader, y…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 05:54 AM
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"I've had 4 relationships and can tell this is a good girl." Yes. Yes, the hamstering has begun. You don't know shit about this person, her behavior is consistent with all sorts of tinderallas I know, some of which wound up being too crazy for platehood, some of whom were good. "She has never texted me first" This is because you're most likely losing your frame and being the first texter. Which is fine, I don't actually buy into the whole "be elusive as fuck on text, wait 5 hrs to respond", but …
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 11:19 AM
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The problem is that when a girl knows she is low quality, self-esteem issues, weak, etc, then what does it say about you when you try to help her? People who have self-esteem issues tend to have massive contempt for the people who reach out to them and deal with their bullshit. Why - because even in their deluded state, they know perfectly well that only someone of low value would try to "reform" or "fix" someone worse than them. Quit dating down and fixing up these chicks because it makes you f…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 11:11 AM
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Start putting her shit outside, if she starts to go crazy, don't call the police, call one of your friends. I have very rarely had a girl who didn't listen even after I started to open the door and tell her she's leaving right now in an "angry-calm" type of way. If shit gets violent, just remember, call a male friend or female friend you trust - not cops. As a 6'2'' guy if I try to escort a chick out forcefully and no one was there to witness it, if she has a little tiny bruising on her wrists, …
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 10:17 AM
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Google "Anti-rape nail polish"and look at the articles that pop up. It's ... strangely in line with TRP thinking. Any male or group of males who devote a few years to helping women appears to women as beta, and therefore has to be scorned. Sell women some skimpy clothes, they praise your brand (as long as you make hippo sized clothing too). Sell women a cheap way to protect herself against roofies, you're a creeper who needs to be educated.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 07:53 AM
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It's true. I recommend all Asian / Indian guys work 2x as hard to separate themselves from the stereotype. Let me tell you the secret to being able to bang all the Asians / Indians you want as a male of that race: be able to fuck white chicks. You have these first-gen Indian / Asians who are trying their hardest to be western and cool and do what white girls do. It's pretty sad when you see it, but it is what it is, a lot of immigrants' kids have these type of issues. When you figure out how to …
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 06:37 AM
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Yeah, nootropics may have positive effects, but honestly I think most people would be best served by switching to good meats, some omega 3s, b vitamins and zinc, healthy fats, and unsprayed vegetables. I left this class out because I was trying to cover what I figured most people mean by "drug" and I think most people ought to fix their diet / exercise before venturing into nootropics / supplements.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 08:58 AM
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It's certainly possible - I am no coke authority, only done it a handful of times. With the best quality product (or what I perceived as such), I experienced the euphoria, illusions of grandeur, narcissism, etc, but my actions were not anymore competent, charismatic, or anything. I know guys who have successfully (well, so far) been using coke as a preworkout and swear by it, and I know a few successful types who do it, so I agree it potentially has its uses. My point with the DT thing - I don't…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 08:54 AM
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Science is science no matter who it blames or implicates. Society needs to understand this about the relationship between age and problems in the child - it doesn't matter who you blame. The science is the science. I have never, ever seen hamstering worse than that one askWomen thread where this 30 year old was asking if it was a good idea to "put off marriage and babies" even though she knew she wanted them. I mean that - I have never been as disgusted, not when reading false rape accusation st…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 07:28 AM
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Beyonce is a very successful marketer. She knows the target market, she tells them what they want to hear, and so on. It is most likely an act - a part of her probably thinks its hilarious that people lap up this shit. It's the best of both worlds - she gets these angry tabloids about how she's letting down all of the girls and how to black America she represents this paragon of achievement, and she's shaking her ass and talking about getting her cherry turned out. Meanwhile, she also gets to be…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 06:08 AM
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This is honestly about your own moral code. TRP is not a moral code - we may spend time on trashing ineffective morals, but when it comes down to it, after TRP razes your bitch-morality, it's up to you what you replace it with (including if you just don't buy into the idea of morals being worth having). I personally would say if my GF was raped I would urge her to try to go to the police and convict the guy. If she made some excuses like oh she didn't want to cause trouble, go through the effort…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 09:57 AM
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Most recreational drugs and non-recreational drugs that can be abused (say, adderall aka speed) are purely escapism. There can be no "RP take on drugs" because every drug is different, technically all medicine is drugs, etc. So I'll give you my perspective on what I think most people mean by drugs Stimulants - highly addictive and tolerance ramps up like a bitch. I do not recommend stimulants because you will easily fall in love - I have fallen into some degree of reliance with every stimulant I…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 09:05 AM
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All women have baggage - our society basically fractures them by enabling them to act however they want because they are "all beautiful no matter who they are" and whatnot. We encourage mediocrity and then make mediocre people feel like they are broken or mistreated or shit on by destiny / capitalism when they fail to do anything but live up to their own ordinariness. Ironically if these women had never been fed fantasies and beta validation, they could probably be "great" in their own way at so…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 06:34 AM
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How is he alpha - being alpha is reaching the top of the social / sexual / power pyramid. He is atop neither of those pyramids from what you've said. Not financially successful, no real purpose / mission to his life, he is not in a position of leadership, spends his life with scum, plays WoW, has no control over his emotions... Yes, some alphas are dysfunctional. But simply being very charismatic does not make this guy one of the "low life alpha" types...
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 06:16 AM
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That's the thing though. The fact that you are worried about doing this in a way that makes you "not look like a pussy" is a clear sign that you have some pussy in you. Trying not to come off as beta is inherently a beta trait. If you are in conflict and you're woman thinks you are primarily motivated by not losing face and "looking cool" to either her or your bro friends, she isn't going to respect you anyway. If you need to bounce, it doesn't matter if those few dudes in the alleyway or your G…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 06:11 AM
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Let's say at one end of the totem is being socially aspie and just blurting out whatever comes into your mind, because you're "alpha" and have no need to tailor what you say to maximize effectiveness. He often creates minor conflict over stupid issues like semantics or uses "straight-talk" in situations where everyone, even higher up guys, are monitoring what they say. He probably believes he is a fresh breath of air, but he is really just socially retarded. Let's say at the other end of the tot…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 06:05 AM
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Or he'll cut her loose in a few years (or months) and go on to learn his lesson too and fuck someone younger chick. I'd recommend avoiding making up these extensive fantasies to make yourself feel better - this is what betas do to maintain their state. As tempting as it is to look for signs he's the true beta or whatever, it clouds how you view reality.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 05:50 AM
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Right. When you understand marriage is essentially a trade of resources, both sexes want to trade when their respective resource has the highest value. If I am a RP college kid, I still am handicapped in value by the fact that I have not earned a position of power, status, wealth, etc, so I am at best around a 7-8. This guy is best served by keeping many plates around until he peaks in value - it could be he makes it big as an entrepreneur and his peak in value is a 10 at 24. Most guys will expe…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 04:49 AM
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Stop trying to intellectually outjoust people and have "snazzy" comebacks. That is beta behavior - it stems from wanting the group watching to think you are cool. Stop caring about having the witty comeback or zinger - this is what "snark" sites such as Jezebel or TBP are experts at. They always cram whatever they are saying full of these tryhard attempts at being funny and mocking in a "ohhh burn" type of way - it is a form of approval seeking. Just say whatever, show that you aren't taking his…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 07:14 PM
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If she isn't arousing you enough to the point where you want sex on the first date, then what's the point? It's not about us deciding if you're a chump or not. What do you honestly deep down want? Do you want to fuck her? If you do and you've not tried to escalate, then yeah, you're a chump. If you don't, and that's why you haven't been escalating, then what are you doing? You're probably just enjoying the validation from having this flirty buddy and are afraid to mess it up, so you've "convince…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 01:03 AM
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I've worked in gaming for 4-5 years. I'm not dismissing the gaming industry as a phenomenally successful industry. PLAYING THE GAMES (consuming rather than being a part of the creation process) is what I'm criticizing. There are over 72 million LoL players. Out of the top .0001% of players, you have your top crust of players, the very best of the best - challenger tier (and the equivalent for dota). Most of those dudes make nothing still. The top 40 players who happen to get on a team and get sp…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 12:53 AM
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Good job breaking the cycle of idiocy. If there's some dude who is rolling with some older guys who he thinks are cool, you can be sure that guy will always try some dumb shit to "prove" himself. It's kind of like how a white knight craves female approval, this guy craves male approval. Maybe his father walked out, who knows. This idiot meets the white knight idiot and 9 times out of 10 it just winds up being some insults and "bro" shoving, maybe a crappy punch here and there. But occasionally s…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 09:37 AM
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The fact is, 1 person has to settle. One person is going to be batting above their SMV, one person below. Women want to bat up, men want to bat up. If I'm a 8, I'm going to hold out for a 8.5+ for a LTR, anything less is plate territory. If I'm a 9, then I'm basically only even considering the top percentile of women for relationships - which is why so many extremely high SMV men will avoid relationships completely. Women do the same. They want to bat up (which is why they bitch about how there'…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 09:07 AM
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somewhere out there, a white knight physics student is on it!
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 11:33 AM
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It's pretty much exactly what you would think from extrapolating RP ideas. Dominance. Sex is about dominance. Not this BDSM bullshit you see in corny porn videos with whips, but leadership of the sexual interaction. AKA she doesn't have to think or worry, because things are being done to her and you've got everything handled. Understand physical domination is hot to most women, but psychological domination MELTS all women. The difference would be A) manhandling and roughly fucking a chick (phys …
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 08:46 AM
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It's not a question of how many partners, but does her objective value outweigh the various indicators of her being a branch-swinging hypergamous hamster. For example, if you're fucking a perfect ten, 21 years old, really cool personality... and she's been with 6 guys, I'd still give her a shot at a LTR. Your average 21 year old 8 with a decent personality... she better be under 3 or 4. Sort of like how guys who are high enough value can get away with a lot, if a girl has enough sexual value, th…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 08:19 AM
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Entertainment is an inherently female concept. Women go out looking for entertainment (stimulation). The clubs, just like TVs, are designed to be a female fantasyland, full of lights, loud disorienting music, alcohol... all sorts of "fun". To be entertained is a hair away from "let me turn off my brain and sit back while stuff other people built titillates me." If entertainment seems ridiculous to you, GOOD! It is ridiculous. Male entertainment is not always better - I mean, male magazines like …
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 07:28 AM
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Arranged marriage is a bad idea NOW. It didn't always used to be, but nowdays even in these so called "traditional" countries like India, you simply do not have the same power in the whole affair. Let me outline what it looks like (I'm half indian, my mom brings this shit up everytime I visit lol) Parents choose a girl. The girl's parents make sure that you are financially set - you are evaluated and seen as a $. You marry this girl. She is locked to you for life now, as she knows that divorce i…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 05:01 AM
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I always assume a girl has a history until proven otherwise. In my experience, you can't really tell by these stereotypes - I know "good girls" from top universities who have real jobs who fuck through more guys than youre typical club ho. The nerd girl you cherish could have a longer history than the sorority chick. When I meet new girls, I'm assuming that due to statistics she is going to wind up being a plate who, if all goes well, stays in the rotation for a month or two. If she proves me wr…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 02:51 AM
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Go solo. You'll become a better person if you can learn to pick up solo
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 11:44 AM
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I worked in sales / marketing before I quit to go write. It was 75% women and it was just ... abysmal. The top sales reps were all guys, maybe 1-2 women out of 400 people would make the top 40 every quarter. The girls typically dicked around, never made quota, ate massive amounts of food to the point we lost our free kitchen, constantly started BS rumors and bullied each other, and constantly tried to gain special privilege by cosying up with the managers. They were not bad at sales, just bad at…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 11:40 AM
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Most people don't because they only want to go to house parties where they know people because knowing people = status right off the bat. If I'm trying to go to somewhere that I have no inherent social status, I'd just hit up a club because there's way more hot women who are DTF / in the "NYE YOLOOOOO!!!!!" mood. But if you are the type who enjoys the thrill of crashing house parties, then yeah it's something people do and it's a decent prospect for lays. You just.. have to be the type of person…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 10:42 AM
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Use protection, don't fuck drunk chicks, don't let chicks drink at your party then drive. Yes, guys have been suedsuccessfully because they let girls drive drunk after being at their party. May these protips save you $/ jailtime / unwanted kids this fine NYE.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 10:39 AM
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The dominant strategy for women in our modern society is to be solipsistic to the extreme. This essentially represses the natural empathy that females have. Women do have greater amounts of empathy than men by biology, but they also tend to only understand the world through how they understand themselves. The latter is not problematic in an ideal society, but it is highly problematic in our society. They can understand and feel empathy - real empathy, not this "Stop Kony 2012" feel good bullshit…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 10:33 AM
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strong first post
/r/MensRights31/12/13 12:29 AM
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Single mom who brags about how she gets alimony / CS and encourages her friends to divorce for the $. Wonders why a young successful dude doesn't want to wine and dine her.... Her hamster is swole as fuck
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 10:00 PM
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Seriously how can he watch his wife go from like a 4 to a 8 and he doesn't feel the desire to even look at a barbell
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 09:40 AM
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Of course. Everyone wants the best they can get. The problem is not wanting better than what you deserve - the problem is wanting better than what you deserve and not being willing to put in the work necessary to improve yourself. If you want a 10 out of 10 and you are a seven, that is not inherently bad, it's human. If you want a 10 out of 10 and you are a seven who feels entitled, lazy, etc and just sits on their ass bitching about how "the women you can attract aren't shit", then yeah, you're…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 03:22 AM
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There's always hope. For a friend or whatnot, I'd probably say fuck it, live and let live. But for your bro, you might as well try to save it. Honesty is the best policy. Show him this post maybe, or just the text, and make him sit quietly and just take in your point. She is worse than your average parasitic branch-swinger, you're brother will be miserable if he is with that. Just because he has the wool pulled over his eyes now doesn't mean he deserves to get juiced for half his money, get chea…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 03:20 AM
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I thought you were making up shit but goddamn... they really say that
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 09:52 AM
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When family becomes toxic, you can love them and simultaneously understand that you aren't letting them get involved in your life. You enable her shitty behavior by giving her so many 100th chances. If you tell her off for being a bitch and explain what she did wrong, and then you come around and act like it's "all good" the next day, her mind can only think "huh well he got over it so... no big deal, I was right, wooooo!"
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 09:50 AM
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Not wifing them is your best bet
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 09:07 AM
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ah gotcha
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 12:42 AM
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I think relationships don't make sense until you are 25, 30 even (As a guy). To choose relationship over platespinning in high school / college is just dumb. You're way better off running train on a bunch of 9s and 10s than trying to turn one of them into a good girlfriend. These are your highest T years and lowest income - you are looking to get the best pussy you can, not commit to one. Then later in life at around 28 or so, I'd say be open to finding a younger chick to grow into GF material. …
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 12:39 AM
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Can't hate her for being what she is. She's right in a way, no point harboring animosity. A ho gon' be a ho, you knew she had a history of branch swinging and cheating. You had the spidey sense saying it was a bad idea to get involved with this chick, then you did anyway due to alcohol. People gotta understand, single moms care more about securing a beta bucks than getting their alpha fucks. (Well, until they do get their beta bucks locked down, then they are back to the AF). This is why 32 year…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 12:34 AM
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This was my assessment of them. Their theory is fine - in reality though the MGTOW dudes I know are not ACTUALLY going their own way. They would rather be successfully interacting with women than not at all, but they do not even believe that such a thing exists, so they choose option B.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/13 01:36 AM
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As TRP gets bigger, it will inevitably split, sort of like PUA did. There will be a core of real TRP, people who actually practice this theory and contribute to the discussion of sexual strategy with their own life experiences. There will also be a massive explosion of watered down TRP theory, the feel good bullshit I call it. Fake online TRP gurus will offer a "red tinted" pill that is mostly still blue, easy for betas to swallow. E-high fives will be tossed around as paper alphas brag about th…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/13 01:31 AM
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She's just being the change she wishes to see in the world
/r/TheRedPill27/12/13 01:07 AM
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I remember seeing a quote by some poster on RPW who said "Men will see a mountain and climb it. Women will declare that where they stand is the new mountaintop". Truest shit I ever read, except you can extend it to a lot of men in modern society too.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/13 01:05 AM
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Alpha does not equal successful in life. It has come to be seen as any successful dude is "alpha", but that isn't true. Betas can plug away at a job, buy a great house in a great area, great car, live a good happy life. They may have the week life you may wish to emulate. They just don't have the SEXUAL STRATEGY you want to emulate. Likewise alphas may be broke. They may be dysfunctional. They may be in jail, they may be on a path to die early because of how hard they work, they may be bums. The…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/13 01:01 AM
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To the question about dealing with chicks bragging about sex as if they are bros, I keep it simple. If my gf, fwb, or even girl I'm interested in banging is talking about "pounding dudes" as if it raises her value, I'll just say, "whoa, you just got way less attractive." Because it's true and she knows it. I don't argue and explain why, because the argument about how slutting around as a girl is different than as a guy is lost on them, and they will just cry double standard. I just say cut out t…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/13 12:44 AM
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If you really distill it down to the point where MR and TRP diverges, it's this: MR fails the greatest shit test of our age, whereas TRP passes. This shit test, of course, is feminism (and to a larger extent, society as a whole). Feminism is a massive societal shit test of extremely great proportions - and by taking it seriously, campaigning against it, arguing with it rationally, etc, MRAs fail the shit test. Not as badly as those who simply go along with feminism because they are white knights…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/13 10:48 PM
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Can we teach boys not to link bullshit articles to trp and give them some ad dollars, and encourage them to continue ridiculous hamster content?
/r/TheRedPill26/12/13 09:48 AM
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Yeah, this is solipsism that has finely aged
/r/TheRedPill26/12/13 09:45 AM
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It's true. Women concern themselves with appeals to authority, argument ad populum, appeals to emotion, etc. Basically if they have the opinion of someone famous on their side, more people on their side, more women on their side, or more emotions on their side, they feel they are right. And they really believe it too, they aren't just being obnoxious - they honestly function on the idea that if 7 women believe X, and 3 guys believe Y, X is right hands down. Which is why in situations where there…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/13 09:40 AM
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Yeah, there's two types of people in this world. People who are only concerned with getting their word in, and people who are genuinely curious about why you are doing / believing the things you are doing. The first type of people... arguing with them will turn them into a broken record, and they will bleat their fractured hamstering logic over and over and over. After all, you treated as if it was more than dogshit to begin with. The second type of people... You might meet one or two in your li…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/13 09:28 AM
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The red pill is the conscious choice to reject the collective fantasy around you in favor of a search for objective reality. If I got one more sentence, I would say that TRP is taking this search all the way down the rabbit hole and being willing to go very deep into the inner-workings of traditionally shunned topics, such as sex, religion, power, gender, law, etc.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/13 09:12 AM
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I disagree with the trend here that's "Oh he's a plate spinner, eject yourself". Any high value guy is going to have other options around. No high value guy is going to offer his full commitment right off the bat. It's been a few weeks - if he's leaping and bounding to offer monogamy (aka he fell head over heels in love in a few fuck sessions) then he's not a high value guy. OP says he is amazing, high-value, etc. If that is the case, you have to be willing to play the game. It's like two high-p…
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/13 10:29 PM
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Just smile at her. If she says something genuinely nice, that honestly surprises me with how it is not fishing for a compliment in return, just stop what you're doing, look over, smile, then look back. It's pure positive attention, a nice direct reward that she will mentally associate with being genuine around you. It's bad if you're always smiling like an idiot, but it's amazing if you generally have a amused smirk or serious intense type of face. She will treasure those moments she melts you i…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/13 09:38 AM
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Plenty of decent chicks just do it as a normal shit test. They aren't serious about it, they want to know if it will make you insecure. So I don't want to next her for the simple type of shit tests that all women will do in some way. She says 3 dudes she will probably never meet in real life, I say 3 girls that deep down she knows would be a trade up for me (and are a real possibility for me). Keep it fun. Of course if she is doing it in an actual "I'm not shit testing, I feel like I a. Entitled…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/13 09:27 AM
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Eat the right # of protein g, carbs, fat s, cals for your goals and minimize estrogenic bullshit in your food. I don't think nutrient timing matters early as much as that.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/13 08:54 AM
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Brilliant analogy
/r/TheRedPill21/12/13 08:49 AM
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It's also a lot of dudes posting shit. "Yeah I like guys who are in technical fields, stable, low sex count, and are middle of the pack in every regard."
/r/TheRedPill21/12/13 08:49 AM
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The way to win that game is to say OK and pick 3 women who are A. her friends and B. skinnier than her. She will never want to bring up that game ever again
/r/TheRedPill21/12/13 08:47 AM
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One of the best sayings I've ever heard, a true classic
/r/TheRedPill21/12/13 08:39 AM
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Thanks man, appreciate it.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 05:36 PM
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Man this really appeals to me. All I want to do is live alone somewhere beautiful. Have a farm, hunt deer and wild boar, fish, sustain myself with a windmill or solar panel or some shit. Sit there and write, read books, work out, learn shit like how to cure meats, make prosciutto and sausage and whatnot. Off grid is the way to go. I think it would do my GF a lot of good too if we did it, but I know she would never go for it. She goes crazy if she doesn't have a ton of social interaction with oth…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 11:03 AM
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The short answer: Because a man who has his life together can get a lot of happiness, joy, sex, and if he wants, fulfillment through having kids, out of a woman. The long answer: Women are worth it BECAUSE they are different. Wonderful in their own sort of way. I'm not white-knighting them - female love is different that male love, but it's still very nourishing in a way. If you don't know what I'm talking about, you haven't dated enough women to stumble upon one who is truly feminine. What you …
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 10:54 AM
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Basically, it's okay to try to balance the two, but you're never going to balance them perfectly. Since that is the case, it's a hell of a lot better to err on the side of too alpha than too beta. Mainly, frame maintenance in good relationships really boils down to her being emotional vs. you being a rock / refusing to get dragged in her negativity. She will come in with some bullshit, like "OMG there is so much shit in the kitchen, I want to tear my hair out when there are a few dishes in the s…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 10:36 AM
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To be honest, women ALREADY have access to this knowledge. Any reasonably intelligent woman has the knowledge that she can get MORE than half if she plays her cards right. Women know that their attorney bill winds up coming from their husband if they win the battle, so they have every incentive to get the best attorney they can get. They get 2-3 weeks to plot everything perfectly with an attorney who knows how to get in bed with the system and buttfuck the guy. The woman doesn't have to know the…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 10:26 AM
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It's fitting that feminists and muslims have been put in the same group by their aversion to freedom of expression and their low opinion of women
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 10:11 AM
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Me too, it never ceases to amaze me. It is kind of beautiful, almost heroic at how dedicated these women can be to denying reality. They have tremendous willpower and mental fortitude - their brains become like Fort Knox. No matter what info they observe or what you tell them, RP truths just ain't getting in. If they accepted their prime was done, they could reach the rational conclusion that they should just find a half alpha / beta guy who has a decent combination of both, and just rock his wo…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 11:16 PM
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Yeah, something that needs to be understood on this sub is women do not smash into the wall, then go into post wall mode where they accept the truths the wall has shown them. They smash into the bitch every single day. Over and over, from like 29->39, they are crashing into the wall full speed, over and over like the fucking mongols. And it is sad, funny, obnoxious, and very draining to the men around them. Shit will lower your T levels by proxy, no joke. She smashes that wall every time she tri…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 11:07 PM
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30+ Women are sexy. They can be phenomenally attractive. They just are never OPTIMAL candidates for long term dating or marriage (not that marriage is optimal). Somewhere out there, there's a younger version of them, who will also be more feminine / less stuck into their ways by years and years of thinking the same way. A hot 34 year old has still been indoctrinated for 10 more years by society. Which is why I'll have sex with them. I've had sex with a 49 year old before when I was 24. And no sh…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 11:00 PM
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Just like any other wall or post wall women. Don't put her on a pedestal because she is older and used to be in a position where she had authority over you. You must still act as though you are higher value. Women are women. The methodology to game one is the methodology to game another. Only slight adjustments are needed to fit different personalities, scenarios, etc. You do need to factor in that on school grounds, she will not be receptive to you asking her out to coffee or something like tha…
/r/askTRP19/12/13 10:23 PM
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Just do it. No pretty way to do things like this. It sucks for both of you, since even if you are RP, you're brain gets accustomed to certain patterns and things like seeing her when you get home, her smell, her pheromones, the validation she brings. Even as a relatively RP dude, you're going to feel some of the lashbacks that come from quitting an addiction. Which is why cold turkey, on to the next one, etc is the ONLY way to do it. Cut the thought patterns, cut out the part of your identity th…
/r/askTRP19/12/13 10:18 PM
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Remember the golden rule. Girls do what they see other girls doing. They rely upon observing the societal reactions to YOU to see how they should react to you. So don't talk about how they dumped you. Don't "spill your heart" - it is a pure shit test. The only valid thing she is doing here is trying to figure out if you have a fucked up sense of women, if you harbor resentment, etc. I don't take it seriously - girls like that because the fact that you won't spill secrets about other girls means …
/r/askTRP19/12/13 09:06 PM
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Never trust roommates. Give a little, they take a mile. One roommate I had in college was stealing my protein for like 6 months before I figured out. Then I started storing my whey in room. Also, if he isn't paying you rent, YOU NEED TO SPEAK TO YOUR LANDLORD IMMEDIATELY and at least start the obnoxious process of kicking his deadbeat ass out. Getting a written order or call from the landlord / renting agency saying "pay up or you're getting evicted within 30 days" might make him give you back t…
/r/askTRP19/12/13 08:52 PM
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How can the MRAs be blamed for false rape accusations? Those don't exist, moron
/r/MensRights19/12/13 08:38 PM
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I'm pretty sure I've seen full labia on girls wearing yoga pants...
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/13 08:34 AM
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I just read the top post on MRA about that dude going to jail because he can't pay his CS, and he is basically getting dicked over by his job... and he's been buying his son jackets and shit because the mother won't spend a dime of the CS money on anything useful to the kid. I'd love to have kids some day. In a different place, in a different time.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 07:36 AM
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If he can't come up with 400$ to pay CS, how is he going to manage to migrate somewhere...
/r/MensRights19/12/13 07:29 AM
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How do alphas need to be "repressed for betas to have access to women"? We don't live in pack societies where one dude breeds all the women like a wolves. There are so many fucking women that alphas could never exhaust the pool that betas have to draw from. It's simply that betas get the lower quality of women or they get women that cheat on them. Even in these historic times of "alphaness", betas still had women, bred, etc. The alphas weren't restrained, and yeah they might sire like 200 heirs …
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 06:58 AM
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The problem is not you turning into a beta when dating, it's that you have one remnant of the beta mindset left that you must get rid of. Scarcity mindset. "Oh my time to find a good woman is running out... Oh it's tough to land a hot 21 year old, I better not screw this up because there may not be another chance this good". Get rid of it. What is happening is because you are dating these younger girls who are about to get on their carousel years, and you know it's coming due to RP theory, you a…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 06:52 AM
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TLDR: Long post, I'll try to explain how to emotionally connect without being Beta. Which is easy once you understand what female emotion is composed of. Basically it's don't force yourself to be logical with her. Be spontaneous and relaxed. If she comes home from work bitching about how Sarah is a bitch who stole her client or whatever, don't be like "well, let's see, what can we correct for next time so this doesn't happen". Just connect with her emotions. "Goddamn I hate bitches like that. Th…
/r/askTRP18/12/13 10:37 PM
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Of course girls display IOIs. The question is, do guys who are constantly looking for IOIs as approval or permission to progress their game actually get laid? From what I've seen, NO. You cannot wait for the girl to give a positive response to everything you say or do before doing the next thing. Making a move because you have the balls to and not because she gave you the "magic sign" will get you more attraction in her eyes. These signs are byproducts of female arousal / attraction, which in it…
/r/askTRP18/12/13 10:03 PM
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If you're on minimum wage and buying him a 200$ gift when he is hung up on an ex... I suspect you are sort of female-beta for lack of a better term. Not to be insulting, just that you are coming from a place of insecurity / desperation / needing the relationship to work and being willing to sacrifice your needs and wants for him. You sound like a female version of the textbook nice guy. The nice guy keeps trying to be sweeter and sweeter to a girl, while she is hung up on her bad boy ex. His str…
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/13 11:10 AM
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A work stands on his own. If Fight Club was written by a woman, and yet somehow all the sentences were the same, it would be just as critical of a book.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 10:41 AM
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? Anything that gets young dudes lifting instead of playing video games (or at least both) and encourages guys to actually talk to women is fine by me. Also he at least didn't try to separate people from their wallets like other bodybuilders peddling supplements and claiming that was what made them shredded. Teens are going to fanboy something. Whether it is getting obsessed with a shitty band, emo culture, hip hop / acting ghetto, world of warcraft, PUA, etc. They will always be fairly obnoxiou…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 10:37 AM
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That hits hard, wow
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 09:13 AM
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You're creating a false dichotomy - aka "you can have $$$ skills or these standard fixer skills". You're talking about respecting an engineer who can't tie his shoes more than a 40,000 a year warehouse drone who can fix shit... And acting like you can't have the perks of both. You can have a great technical or career related skillset... and still develop your ability to fix shit / lift heavy crap / know about masculine subjects. Yes time spent building a table is wasted if you could spend that t…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 09:10 AM
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This is so beta I cannot believe it's real. In fact, I just can't compute the level of betatude, so I'm going to stick my head in the sand and pretend that this isn't real.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 08:57 AM
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Rage isn't necessarily alpha. Betas are some of the most whiny, yelling ragers who are actually pretty ingenious at coming up with clever yet cringeworthy insults. Have you ever seen a WoW rage? There is nothing alpha about laying into someone because YOU are in pain. Especially the way he does it, you can tell he is trying so hard to think of all these clever illustrations of what a stupid whore she is - it is like the stuff of cringe pics. Even a toddler can throw a tantrum. You think a fully …
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 08:56 AM
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With our child obesity rates (and adult obesity rates) sky high, what we need is to ban anything that makes people think being fat isn't good. Fat-criticism is not OK, our children must grow up to believe that fat is healthy.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 01:42 AM
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And to add, even if you don't believe IQ is genetically based, a dumb mother isn't going to be as helpful / useful in terms of educating your child. All the microbehaviors, like reading good books to your child, encouraging them to self-learn at a young age, etc.. you want a smart woman because she is more likely to do those with your child.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 10:05 PM
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Girls should go to college because in this economy, a very small percentage of households are going to want to be one income. Nothing to do with TRP necessarily, but in this modern state of things where girls have easier access to colleges and higher starting salaries in comparable fields, you would be a damn FOOL not to go to college if you can. Might as well go to college and get a decent job afterwards while simultaneously pursuing their "Mrs". Knowing that they can feasibly support themselve…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 10:02 PM
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Generally if a girl is the type to "get very very angry" as you said when she EXPECTS a proposal and it doesn't happen... That is a no-no. She has wedding tingles and entitlement. He sounds like a decent guy, who has at least reached some RP conclusions through his own evaluation. Which means that if he screws this up, he will be fine - just help him evaluate how to correct his strategy for next time. For now though, whatever he's been doing has been working "he has produced a very loving partne…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 05:38 PM
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It is pure hamster fantasyland. It is more a portrayal of how women imagine RP men to be (complete with rationalizations, such as "they must have been abused or exposed to trauma to be alpha) than a realistic portrayal of RP men. Not that it is a bad show, but I certainly lost interest when it dawned on me that the show is simply how women rationalize alphas and alpha/beta and alpha/female dynamics.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 10:12 AM
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I don't really try to ever associate TRP and morality, because I think reality is amoral, and strategy is defined by its success, not its morals. BUT I will go ahead and encourage fellow TRPers and really all men to boycott women who are receiving CS + alimony, like all these examples in the article. I'm not going to validate you and provide your ass with commitment, sex, support, etc while you are supporting the court systems that railroad men. Additionally I'm not interested in crashing in you…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 10:08 AM
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I know right. THAT is supposed to make me want to go date you? The fact that you sound like a horribly immature, inconsistent mother that has never really left her sorority days?
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 10:00 AM
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Well, I would argue there always has been, because who else reads this shit (and clicks the ads on the sites, buys subscriptions, shares the articles on social media, etc) Women, particularly wall or postwall women.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 09:57 AM
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Typically, whenever women say "society" they mean WOMEN. "Society calls women sluts" -> WOMEN call women sluts. "Society hates women who have a great marriage, kids, and a career" -> WOMEN are jealous as fuuuuck of those women who 'have it all' and invent crazy rationalizations to tear down these women. See for example any of these "sexy mom post pregnancy" pics like Maria Kang or that soccer wife. Guys think her story is fucking beautiful, guaranteed. And yeah, it's fitting that when women say …
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 08:45 AM
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Guy is fucked. He still after all this time is saying "WOMEN, please help me understand this." The few cards he has to make his wife actually motivated to change (dread game), he throws away. Wife proposes he can see other women / he can have athreesome, he says "no baby I wouldn't want to do anything to make you sad". Now that she knows he ain't going anywhere, no way is she going to change for longer than 2-3 weeks. A few BJs, he is back to being beta bucks again.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 05:57 AM
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A short guy with game is going to get more women / success than a tall gameless loser. Same applies to the financial world. If you are short and you are a self-pitying bitch that radiates low value, in the career world it will affect you. At investor pitches, people will just not want to take the risk on you. But that is not because of your height, that is your attitude and personality. You have a manlet personality. Plenty of short guys get laid with high quality women, it's just not in other p…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 01:04 AM
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I always act like I have options. I (usually) never VERBALIZE that I have options. The most important thing is to VIBE. Interviewers /recruiters for internship / entry level positions essentially have two basic functions. 1. Making sure your resume / GPA / transcript / references check out. Basically, are you actually qualified. 2. Do you "seem" like a good worker, a good person to have around the office, etc. For #1, you need confidence and competency (and to have been honest in your app). For …
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 10:39 PM
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Extremely important. I was pretty RP as a product of my childhood / college experiences, yet myself and guys like me felt like we were wrong for being what we are. Essentially modern society might produce a RP guy, but it often saddles him with massive guilt for his own "selfishness" or whatnot. People will fundamentally understand concepts like alpha fucks beta bucks, or how marriage is basically a way to railroad men, or how female advice is cancerous to dating success... but they will often w…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 10:20 PM
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Exactly - it also feeds into this idea that you are somehow morally superior to all these hardworkers because you are "living deep and sucking the marrow out of life". No dude, even these great alcoholic writers that you fetishize still sat their ass down and wrote for 8 hrs a day.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 07:26 PM
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Think about it like this: Being alpha = good. Talking about how you are alpha = probably proof that you AREN'T alpha. I have never met a single dude who refers to himself as an alpha... who actually IS one. The application here is that if you have abundance with women it is incredibly beneficial to your relationship with a SO... as long as she knows it without you going out of your way to tell her. It's kind of like guys who tell girls they are doctors / lawyers versus guys who don't, and then t…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 10:56 AM
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I think it's about having a plan of how you are going to turn sex in to commitment. If you have the attitude of "I only will fuck guys who are willing to relationship me before sex" you get undesirable guys, since high value guys would say hell no to that deal. So put out, then do all of the things RPW encourages, and he will instantly see you as different from the girls he usually slut-zones. High value men are not pump-and-dump addicts - that is a BP caricature produced by media. Most wind up …
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/13 09:46 AM
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Yeah fair enough, I agree with all of that, especially the last paragraph. There is a problem with people, even TRP endorsed people, saying stuff that is completely unfounded or not at all TRP. I just think it's important not to treat TRP like a science or religion, because it's really neither, it's an attempt to be objective that will never quite reach. Sort of like how behavioral economics and psychology can be immensely valuable, but will always be wish-washy compared to hard sciences.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 09:33 AM
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The problem is, the theory of red pill IS up for debate. Red pill is not SCIENCE. It is not religion. Red pill is simply "optimizing sexual strategy in society". Some ideas are near flawless and proven by countless real life examples and theoretical backings (Alpha fucks, beta bucks for example), but at the end of the day, optimizing sexual strategy is based upon society. For example, optimization of sexual strategy in LA is different than in New Delhi, which is different than in caveman times, …
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 07:30 AM
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The worst offender is public education. Well, actually the parents are the ones responsible, but even then it's hard for good parents to deal with the intensely beta attitudes the public schools enforce. I was a public school kid and I was always in trouble. I thought there was something wrong with me because I was energetic, I liked to learn independently, I liked to understand the "why" before I did something / believed something, and so on. I remember I would resent my parents because they ta…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 07:09 AM
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Seriously my anus puckered so hard
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 12:48 AM
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This is feminism in a nutshell. As the female investor says "Every time we want to talk about it, you don't want to hear it." The "it" in this case is simply reality. Reality is that they have no evidence that customers want female construction workers over men, or that women want construction training, or that their construction company would be effective at training. This is one of the worst pitches I've ever heard, and I can't go to a Starbucks without hearing a pitch living in SV. Yet these …
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 12:47 AM
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It's like fatlogic... that reads exactly like those memes / instagrams of women who are like 'Yeah at 185 lbs theres a whole lot more passion and vivacity in me than at 130 lbs!" Makes sense, considering fatlogic is simply a form of hamstering
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 12:21 AM
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To this whole 'men age well, women don't' idea, it's important to note this is only true if the men make reasonably good decisions. Most betas wind up burnt out thanks to a life of working to provide for kids and a nagging wife, stuck on TV, fat, sexually unappealing, gameless (haven't flirted with women in years, get all man-tingly when the hot waitress is "flirting" with them) etc. Men age in value IF they resist the BP to at least a minor degree. They do not even have to be alpha or red pill …
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 12:19 AM
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This is beautiful
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 12:11 AM
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The wall in India is brutal. It's perhaps one of the most brutal walls I know of - if you are a woman approaching 28 or if you are a woman of whatever age who is divorced, you are essentially fucked. Indian society has softened in that postwall hamsters can essentially hide from reality by hitting up cougarish clubs, try to find white / non-Indian older guys who are willing to settle for them, etc. No alpha fucks or beta bucks. It's brutal, when I was young and read God of Small Things, I though…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 12:09 AM
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If there's two rap sayings that I think have deep, philosophical truth, it's 1) ho's gon be ho's and 2) haters gon' hate. They belong alongside Aristotle's A is A, and Socrates' "The unexamined life is not worth living". This is a case of haters gon' hate. Which is good. It is optimal for a very small % of society to understand how TRP works. It's like broke people hating other broke people who have found a way to crawl up to upper class. If they sat down and talked with that dude, he would prob…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 09:29 PM
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Not a big deal. Next time don't play these games. You can't win trying to out-woman a woman. I mean, you probably could if you tried, but it's not worth it. If she wants to speak to you, tell her to come closer and say what she has to say. If you hear her, don't need to ignore her. You beckon her. Then if she still wants you to stop your task and get her a drink, you don't need to snap at her, just treat it like you knew she wasn't being serious. "Ha, I'll be done with this in 5 - 50 minutes, pe…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 11:52 AM
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To an extent this is true. To achieve anything great in life, you need singular focus. You have to essentially put all your eggs in one basket and be willing to risk it all on it - no plan B. Think Arnold and bodybuilding, or really any successful CEO / musician / actor / other high status profession. Singular focus on either developing a brilliant product or piece of art, maintained over years. In modern society we have a multitude of tinkerers who dip into a random assortment of fields and dev…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 11:40 AM
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Men establish status in ways that range from masculine to feminine. Especially in modern society with men being feminized, you're going to see a lot of behaviors that TRP has said are "female behaviors" coming out of men. For example, I have 2-3 male beta orbiter guys who are way too invested in hanging out with me. It is cloying. Yet I realized that I was like that with the rare male who I thought was cooler than me. Shit testing is a male behavior too. At the playground we tooled each other al…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 09:44 AM
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In the next 2-3 months if you follow through and actually apply the theory not just read it, you will be in for a pleasant surprise when you realize this girl was most likely a 9 only beta goggles, and in reality, you would have been severely short-changed to have her as a GF. Good luck, and remember when in doubt - GET OFF REDDIT, HIT THE GYM, HIT THE CLUBS, HIT THE BOOKS. Seriously, you need to gain experience or the theory overload will not help you.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 09:37 AM
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I like the story, but I disagree with your application of it to TRP and the final idea you have. Here's why Being the alpha male comes with many responsibilities, anxieties, burdens, etc etc IF YOU CHOOSE TO HAVE THEM. You can be an alpha and not try to optimize the group's welfare and be a father / big brother to everyone. The alpha is not the protector and caretaker by default - it simply happens that often people will try to place the alpha in that role. They rationalize handing over control …
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 09:32 AM
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for a twitter handle called "democratlove" what business does she have discounting a professor from being from a california university? I mean seriously, colleges are probably the main place where liberalism / feminism is considered the default
/r/MensRights15/12/13 07:15 AM
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In this situation I'd say you were doing what 17 year olds do, which is taking issue for no reason and disagreeing for the sole purpose of flexing their "my self respect is the only thing that matters" muscle. See, your mom is saying it was horrible he got shot. It was horrible - she wasn't necessarily saying whether Zimmerman was right or wrong, she was just saying it sucked that a kid had to die. So let her have her opinion, it doesn't hurt anyone. She probably didn't want to have a debate abo…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 06:54 AM
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I recognize I have a great mom in most regards. Still have a good relationship with her. From ages 16-> now (29) I have ignored every bit of advice she has ever given me. Just respect her for her intention, which is to help you have a good life, and accept that she isn't supposed to know how you are supposed to do that. Essentially, if you have a good mom, then appreciate her by understanding she sacrificed a lot for you and always wants the best for you. But you can never depend on her knowing …
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 06:48 AM
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This is similar to inspiring a family member to quit being dangerously obese. They do not believe that there can be a different way. The only way to do it is to lead with example and let your actions speak. I told my mom to get healthy for years and years. She kept getting more fatlogicy and diabetic and excuse-y. Then I competed in an amateur BB competition. I sucked ass. I got like 12th place out of 20, it was my first time. But going at it full speed and having her come see it, and basically …
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/13 03:47 AM
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1) Most people are satisfied with a modicum of success. They deep down just want a decent salary, decent girl that will love them, and one day a decent family. That is a reasonable goal. We fully understand you don't need RP to get any of that. You seem to think that we have these extreme principles and ideas, and you're rightfully saying "Look, you don't need these ideas to get the average amount of sex, success, etc etc." Which is true. What you're forgetting this that the average amount of se…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 02:55 AM
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Never reveal the illusion. A magician never reveals that he works day and night practicing this nifty mechanics to pull off a slight of hand. A rich person cheapens his appearance of luxury and "the good life" if he reveals that he works 16 hours a day for 10 years to build that. You want to be appear like destiny has essentially chosen you. It is purely illogical - we all know that success takes extreme dedication and work, and often times that dedication is what I admire, not the result. But s…
/r/askTRP15/12/13 01:53 AM
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The looks / money not precluding you from sex with attractive women is NOT feel good bullshit. I see far more people using it as an excuse for not trying / excuse for failure. "Nah I'm going to stop approaching until I get my finances in order / lose some weight." Plenty of ugly ass fat guys get laid. Plenty of alphas are broke as a joke. The feel good bullshit is playing up how much looks / money matter as a way of excusing your own poor performance. I agree with the rest of what you said massi…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 12:12 AM
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This is pretty common on MRA and other hated subs. There will be someone posting shit like "YO YO I'M FROM MRA AND YOU BITCHES ARE OPPRESSING ME, FUCK MY OWN KIDS I DON'T WANNA PAY FOR THAT, I EARNED MY MONEY, I GET TO KEEP IT!" People trying to make us look bad as usual. There are some TRPers who I think need to chill the fuck out and relearn the goddamn point of TRP. But I'm 99.9% sure this is fake as can be
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 11:51 AM
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Thisy is essentially an argument I had with a liberal, but smart professor of mine in college, with me representing the libertarian perspective. Let's say you have a society with a select few understanding how to crack into the 1% and make a shit ton of money. Their objective optimal strategy then is to secure this info and never share it, ensuring they remain at the top, continuing to accumulate. But then what happens when society becomes a giant shithole? They didn't share their success princi…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 04:58 AM
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Yeah being introduced made me learn to think of being a father positively again. Society suggests that fatherhood is some massive power sacrifice that instantly turns you into a chubby, beta TV dad. I'm down to be a father now in the next few years (29) once I find the right girl. I think my current LTR might be it, but I'm infinitely picky with who gets to carry my seed. I'm nearing the point where I could see myself sacrificing time and energy to raise a strong kid. Once I realized that you do…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 03:42 AM
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Yeah it definitely is barf-worthy. It's like they view it as some grand valuable duty, and they nobly rise to the challenge. I've been putting in work into forming some threesome strategies and whatnot with a bi-GF, and I think going to these type of parties with a girl is good. It keeps the hen-mothers and white knights away. Spikes your value with other girls, plus she can go with a couple to go hang out, drink, smoke, whatever, and it's not weird. If you're single you can go to these things w…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 03:27 AM
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You'll do.
/r/askTRP13/12/13 02:16 AM
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These things are very simple if you have patience. I usually am VERY against "playing for day 2" or getting numbers or anything like that. The chance of closing is highest on day one, same night. But for meetups, friend party, barbeque, etc game I make a rare exception. 1) Make friends with the ugly girls and guys. Be a bro to the guys, and be sociable and interested in what the ugly girls have to say. Ugly girls will often be "hen-mothers" in these type of situations and guys will self-appoint …
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 02:01 AM
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Exactly - I wouldn't date a 13 year old me either. And that is how women act when they get "entitlement anger", turn on the waterworks, or try to act knowledgable about fields I know they are clueless about. Like a teenage boy raging with his hormones trying to push authority to see what he can get away with.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 11:19 PM
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No. Just no.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 11:13 PM
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The way I see it, TRP will save yall /askreddit, askmen, askwomen, r/sex, r/relationships people a ton of money. You see, we won't you to pay some post-wall woman with a psych degree for "Marriage Counseling" to spit out some shit that is calculated to be agreeable to the wife (and thus, getting her on board with repeat sessions). We won't even counsel you. We'll say here's some info and from now on, based on this info, you counsel your own ass
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 08:08 PM
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I would say as opposed to "acquire more info" responses in this thread, what you need to do is go ACT. So you want to know if TRP really works? I could tell you, or you could go make some changes in your life, and make some changes in how you act around women. The latter is what will really convince you. When you are just hearing the theory, you are able to stay back and hamster, like "oh this theory sounds OK, but I have my little fears, insecurities, and hatred for guys who are cocky, so I'm n…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 07:51 PM
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Yeah, fully agree here. Was going to type out a response but this said it better than I could.
/r/MensRights12/12/13 05:53 PM
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Let the sexual arousal flow through you. It is good, it means you have healthy libido. She wants that. Look, the female body basically is a highly-skilled pheromone projecting device. Her behaviors send pheromones out, they get in your system, you get hard. This does not mean you are a rapist. That is some feminism or christian induced shame right there. Getting hard / wanting to bend someone over and fuck their brains out is HEALTHY, and it doesn't mean you are going to rape them or you are a p…
/r/askTRP12/12/13 11:35 AM
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The fuck did I just read... This is like beyond BP thinking. That hamster is on some roids like this is the tour de France. Cycling and cycling away. And that BF too... goddamn. Can't even feel bad for him because he's probably one of those dudes on askreddit bitching about how TRP is so juvenile and it's ridiculous to even entertain our notions.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 11:11 AM
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I think TRP's take on it is not that love exists or doesn't exist. We don't need to define it - what is important is you choose to think of love (and apply that) in a way that objectively benefits you and your partner. It's about the bottom line - is this feeling / chemical cocktail / spiritual bond / whatever you define it as producing good results? If you're "love" is driving you to be needy, controlling, etc, then I would say it isn't love, just you rationalizing your desire for validation, c…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 11:03 AM
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My friend is one of these obnoxious wedding vendors of which you speak. It's a common sales practice to aim the convincing towards the DM (decision maker) and essentially keep the others out of the loop, because they are likely to be thinking conservatively. This is created by 99% of couples these people see being women with wedding-entitlement leading around spineless husbands who are like "ok whatever you like". Men have allowed women to become the "DM" when it comes to all affairs related to …
/r/MensRights12/12/13 08:19 AM
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At 20 years old, the most important thing for guys or girls is not what philosophy you subscribe to. You don't have to sell her on TRP or game or anything of that nature. For a young person (all people, but especially young) the only thing she really has to do is take action & have a gameplan for herself. A feminist who gets out and does productive shit to better her life will win out over a RPW who spends all day on tumblr, the blogs, TV, etc. Same thing for guys - a "plugged in" dude who has s…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/13 06:55 AM
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Shit I'd hate TRP too if I were them
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 10:30 PM
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Yes. I was an ass in college. Cheated on girls. I could write the bible on how to cheat and not get caught. And I rationalized it horribly. TRP didn't help me out with game, it helped me realize that I had a vicious hamster too. I'm a lot older now and I do feel like they were short changed. Now that I have the perspective of a guy approaching his 30s, I see that ever year, hell EVERY MONTH for a woman in her twenties is precious. No white-knighting here, it's just that women have so little time…
/r/askTRP11/12/13 08:25 AM
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I am loathe to give people in the friend zone advice, because 99% of the time the only good advice is to next her and move on. But because it's been a while since you saw her there's hope. Take her out to show her the city. Get physical early, establish it with a hug, and then keep it going with little kino shit. Tell her you're taking her to this cool place, she needs to get dressed. She will ask how, you will say slutty. Go have fun with her. Don't fall into the trap of "catching up like old f…
/r/askTRP11/12/13 08:16 AM
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But see, this is not dread game at all. Truly potent dread game is to be able to just be you, and let the catty women do all the work. It's not about "reminding her that you have so many other options" - if you are a high value guy, everywhere you two go she will be reminded. Just do the shit you are supposed to do, like working out with intensity, dressing well, etc and dread game works for you without you having to even think about it. She is the one doing the dread game on herself. It's becau…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 08:03 AM
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If you are on this sub and you haven't read 48 laws, stop and read it. If there's 2 books that should be required reading from non-manosphere blogs and books, I'd say it's 48 Laws and Atlas Shrugged
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 07:54 AM
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No amount of money, fame, or power will stop hos from being hos. Think about this - Mike Tyson in his prime, like most dominant motherfucker you will ever see, came home to find his wife fucking Brad Pitt, who at that time was some 20 year old minorly famous kid. Being high SMV allows you to play by different rules. It is very powerful. But you have no power over human nature. Hos gon' be hos. Be happy you figured this out before you got married / invested further into this girl. Captain Save-A-…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 07:51 AM
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Would I LTR a girl like that? Fuck no. But I've had FWB situations with some tenderness even with girls who have done that kind of shit. I mean, as long as I'm not committing to them, I don't care what they've done. Keep that shit rapped tight though. Always remember the girl who is cool with you rawdogging it... probably was cool with all these other alpha types rawdogging it. But look, if you aren't going to commit to her, then who cares what she has done? I wouldn't get in a relationship with…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 07:11 AM
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Great write-up. That's an RP woman as far as I'm concerned. RP has a lot of negativity towards concepts like "love" and "can women ever be more than selfish, ADD tingle-driven hamsters. Good to see a positive take on it. Just because women experience love in a totally different way than men do, does not mean it's not love. Similarly, you do not need to rely upon dread game, push/pull, using commitment / taking away commitment as crack. All of that can hold down a girl, but not as well as simply …
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 07:02 AM
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1 of 3 responses is sure to follow: You don't love me. I feel sorry for you, crazy_idea_express, because marriage is about love and trust, and you are incapable of either. Life isn't a business transaction, OP Edit: To be completely fair though, she might understand it. My gf and I have had the "marriage" talk (which BTW if you must have, have it in person face to face, helps you keep frame and reassure her.) She has a shit ton of wealth in her family and some of it will inevitably be willed to …
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 06:41 AM
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And if a female teacher comes along and "has a romantic relationship" with him in their words, he'll get expelled for good.
/r/MensRights10/12/13 06:52 PM
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It's a bit deeper, you know? To be completely honest with you, I don't know. I don't believe that cynicism is depth. I don't believe that choosing to ignore all the great things about life is noble or deep. And I certainly don't think that choosing to be miserable, and then inventing some ridiculous string of ideas about why your self-imposed misery is justified (successful people do it too! I'm doing whats optimal by Darwin! etc etc) is deep. It's shallow as fuck man. Deep people manage to find…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/13 12:40 PM
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IF, and IF I killed myself in your situation, it would be because I realized I had a hamster on steroids that I could never kill, NOT because of a lack of success with women. Dude, you are rationalizing like a motherfucker. Think about it - you haven't had success in life or with women, but as you confess, YOU HAVE ALL THE INFO / GAME / KNOWLEDGE ALREADY. You know what you need to do, you have all the info. You have all the tools. You are in a good position - all you have to do is APPLY it. A tr…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/13 11:56 AM
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You are young still. You're first 18 years aren't really in your control, you are just a sum of your parents, your environment, etc etc. Some unique people will choose to take charge of their life at a very young age, but this is rare and it's not a big deal that it wasn't you. Basically, you got pooped out beta. Now that you are grown, everything changes. Now, it is up to you. You determine everything, and you can break the patterns of your environment. You are more than the sum of all the ingr…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/13 11:46 AM
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Exactly. I had my TRP pill shoved before this TRP existed really, but it made me so much happier. Saying TRP makes guys bitter is exactly like saying fitness makes people unhappy. Yes, reading up on fitness will create moments in your life where you must strain, suffer, and put yourself under pressure. You will suffer in the sense you won't get to dumbly self-medicate the shittiness in your life with cheap fast food, sugary sodas, and alcohol. But you will have a true net increase of happiness e…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/13 10:39 AM
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Use the 15k to fund a cheap apartment and food while I spend 6 months learning to code well. Then I'd apply to startups that need programmers (all startups) because they don't give a fuck about your college degree etc etc if you can code. Your story about how you learned it yourself in 6 mo will actually help your case, whereas more stodgy companies will reject you on that basis.
/r/askTRP10/12/13 01:04 AM
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Look, in any interaction there is a difference in power. Alpha and beta is just a construct, a crude approximation of what is going on. Here is a few examples - do you have a friend who sort of leads the group? When people are discussing plans, he waits until the end to opine, and then everyone just sort of agrees with what he said, and they do it? That is the dynamic. If you're a "normal, confident guy" then you probably are what I think of as situationally alpha or situationally confident. For…
/r/askTRP10/12/13 12:59 AM
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This is horrible advice. The way to beat a beta orbiter trying to buy shit for your GF is to... out-beta him?
/r/askTRP10/12/13 12:46 AM
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I would argue feminism is neither, it's just a religion, like any other. It has it's own terms and tenets, all of which are rooted in some form of "evidence" that doesn't really hold up to scrutiny. But it appeals to women (and men) searching for an identity. As a high school / college student, you get to go online, complain about your life, and find out that it is not your fault. It's the fault of society, but because you see the light, you can be a part of the force of change. We can change th…
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/13 10:28 PM
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He admitted to trying tren for a month previously to his voice drop. TBH, I am not the dude's asscheek so I have no idea what's being shot up there, but he didn't really gain much size or leanness in that time. If he was on steroids he would either have way more mass or more leanness.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 10:10 PM
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Wait... guys are actually sending GW girls money and expensive shit... wat Are these people aware of porn, where you can see girls 10x hotter than your average GW 7.5 for free?
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 11:01 AM
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Saudi society is not really a RP haven like you may assume, because essentially it is basically impossible to reap the rewards of game, being alpha, the male-dominant culture, etc unless you are in the top financially. In the US I can be broke as fuck and still plow my way through any group of women if I have game. In Saudi Arabia, if you're not loaded and you try this shit, you're get your shit kicked in. Literally, if you go game a richer girl and through your charisma you get her to want to m…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 10:58 AM
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Mothers may be well meaning, but you have to understand - these mothers go through their post-wall and then menopause, and they have to find a way to feel valuable. So they convince their sons that women are inherently valuable simply for existing and deserve respect. Mothers are just people. They see their own deflating lives, their beta husbands that have forced them to take up the throne of the house, and they hamster harder than ever before. They tend to live our their lives vicariously thro…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 10:44 AM
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Build a skill. To become top1% at anything, you have to start early. To be a great boxer, for example, you essentially have to start building the skills and neural pathways at 13 or earlier, or its too late. IDC what the skill is - do something. Just do shit. You're time is so valuable and most HS and college kids piss it away. Build skills -> build your strength and mind (learning, reading, exercise) -> build deep traits (ambition, personality, charisma, "spirit") etc. First just focus on findi…
/r/askTRP09/12/13 08:14 AM
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Don't worry about it if it's a beta orbiter. See, if he isn't a threat, aka a sexual possibility, then you getting stressed and making a big deal about it will enforce in her mind that "maybe he is a sexual possibility". Just keep up. I have TOOOONNNNS of beta orbiters trying to horn in on my current LTR because she's at a predominantly male company. The secret is just let them be nice, and you just be the same old dick she fell for in the first place. She literally will not think of them as men…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 08:06 AM
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I don't hang out old friends and women. I'll hang around women. And I'll hang around old friends. Not both - fuck that. They either want to talk about PU shit for like years on end while we miss out on the chicks, or they want to try to screw with my game by being weird so the chick leaves, so they can confirm in their mind that I am as shitty as them with girls.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 07:45 AM
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Yeah - Eliot Hulse is fucking awesome. He responded to one of my q's personally about 4 years ago with a message, before he posted YT vids. His training advice is solid, but his personal videos are the best. There are all pretty good - the one to a young guy whose dad is dying is deep as fuck. The best thing about him is that he lives what he talks about. His voice dropped like one octave in 2 years and got way more solid and masculine - so when he has a video about getting that sexy deep voice,…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 07:40 AM
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Yeah, sometimes the best advice is bitch-slap yourself for getting into this hole, and never let it happen again. Girl flirting with ex = girl doesn't respect you enough.
/r/askTRP09/12/13 07:34 AM
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Post in all the MR/TRP/manosphere related subs, even /askmen. While they may have their heads up their asses about some issues, this is something guys have to put aside their differences about. All of us are going to basically have to crowdsource this if there is any hope of it happening. Pharmaceutical companies have no incentive to do it - they producing BC ranging from $30-120 a month depending on the make, and the government decrees that taxpayers have to pay for this. This essentially guara…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 07:28 AM
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Because BC is around 30-60$ a month and subsidized by the government in many countries / probably will be in the US soon. It's one of the biggest cash cows ever. (Female BC that is) No one will make comparable money off of guys getting a simple, 1 time procedure done. It is essentially like World of Warcraft making 15$ a month versus a one time payment for a 60$ game.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 07:25 AM
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http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/blogsinternet/57221377-71/kang-healthy-maria-feel.html.csp This mother of 3 was treated like Hitler on twitter, banned from FB, etc for being in good shape after having 3 kids. It has been like 6-7 months since the incident and when she tries to do new things, the same fatties still come to troll her. Even major (and minor) news outlets treat her like she is waging war against "normal" women.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/13 11:11 AM
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Nurses make decent bank dude
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 10:57 AM
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College girls are available to anyone who has any semblance of game... Why wait till 40 lol
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 10:56 AM
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Yeah IDK if he knows what multiculturalism is...
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 10:50 AM
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Think about it. Do you really need to ask this question? Look around. The existence of all shitty social institutions and attitudes that take advantage of a target group is COMPLETELY dependent upon that target group's consent. A simple example, is marriage and the horrendous court system. If men wise up and quit marrying, the entire social construct comes tumbling down. Women lose the ability to have their lives subsidized. Men take less risk, women take more risk. This all happens if men choos…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 10:48 AM
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Miyamoto wasn't your typical samurai. Your point is like if I said "Hey look at Machiavelli's writings on statecraft and princehood, they resound with these RP ideas" and you replied "Nah, Machiavelli was an ADVISOR to a prince. B-B-BETA!!! Disregard all his contributions, he was basically the princes slave!" Miyamoto optimized his samurai career and leveraged it into freedom and power in a time where, as you said, samurais were essentially chesspieces. If you don't agree with a specific point o…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 10:34 AM
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I am 29 and I was broke as FUCK out of college at 21, but now I am comfortable and could live luxoriously, although I choose not to. I'm no millionaire, but I did turn an english major and a shit-ton of hipster-entitlement into a pretty secure, solid career. Here is the 22-28 "what I would have told myself". Read books about finance, investments, etc. SO many people make decent money in that age range (50k-100k) and know NOTHING about what to do with their money. Seriously - a low income investe…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 10:29 AM
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She made a bad investment. If I choose to buy 100k shares of your "next big thing startup" that is going to conquer Silicon Valley, and you promise me it will, and it crashes and I'm out 100k, then you do not owe me shit. I made a bad decision and a severe error of judgment. Maybe you were a sleazy bastard, but I choose to invest my money in that. You should not be required to subsidize my losses if it turns out that our adventure is a flop. This women invested her time horribly, yes. It sucks -…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 09:56 AM
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No rule trumps rule #1. Which is that no matter the situation, the female is the victim.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 09:37 AM
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Good post man, as someone in a 2 year LTR I think it's spot on. From 18-26 I was completely against relationships. I wasted high school being in 3 different horrible LTRs, like facepalm shit. I basically decided to keep my heart closed and just have sex, because love wasn't real. Love was essentially the very essence of BP - taking reality (which is that we have hormones, pheromones, and whatnot that create these feelings to glue a dude to a chick for the time it takes to raise offspring) and cr…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 11:57 AM
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I love the whole "LISTEN" advice that women / manginas always give. Like yes, you should generally be listening to what other people say to you in that your ears take in the information. But this constant campaign to tell men to "listen, not speak" is BS because it's implication is that every word out of her mouth is some deep meaningful truth. It's pure vanity - women feel like they aren't special snowflakes when guys aren't hanging onto every word, and so guys hang on to every word. Yet the si…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 11:36 AM
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All the shallow things in life. Money. Women. A really good video game. I write about video games and recently quit my job at a fairly big gaming news outlet to work for a small one. I like the control I have there over my writing and the feel that if I do good, I reap the rewards and if I do bad, I get the blame. I make less money than I did before but I'm a lot happier because I have power. One day I plan to stop being an employee altogether, I think that will make me happy. So yeah. Basically…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 07:35 AM
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And you raped the analogy. But it was goddamn funny though
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 05:07 AM
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ITT: the same old "how much do looks matter" debate that has plagued PU forums, TRP, etc etc since 1999. OP had a good point. There is no point arguing over to what degree facial aesthetics matter, of if you can pull a 10/10 6 foot model as a 5 foot ugly dude. Who fucking cares. Sexual strategy means optimizing what you have. And if you do that, then pulling tall 9s or whatever won't be an issue. I've seen short Asian dudes WITHOUT TONS OF MONEY who have tall blondes - it really doesn't fucking …
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 05:06 AM
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Haha. Toronto is notorious for this type of shit because there is such a tiny group of places that have a high concentration of hot, feminine women. And it's the birthplace of most of the famous PUAs who went on to move to LA - the shitty, feminist toronto environment gave them the psychological fuel to become good at this PUA stuff. This being said, PUAers are ALWAYS shooting themselves in the foot. When they find a good venue, they essentially brigade it until they have turned it into a sausag…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 01:52 AM
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Yeah, I mean if you have figured out a way to support yourself by writing and sharing your writing on the internet rather than working for a company, you totally should just die. /s
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 01:32 AM
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Yeah - MRA is not immune from all the pitfalls of zealotry. We have to always seek to hold ourselves to higher standards.
/r/MensRights06/12/13 09:40 PM
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No, no, I'm 29 years old, I said that because it has become a bit of a cliche for high school students to become obsessed with Nietszche as they go through their rebellious phase
/r/TheRedPill06/12/13 08:55 PM
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To me, it isn't about vigilance. An alpha isn't in some perpetual circumstance where he can slip up and just start supplicating / being a niceguy. It's about being a fucking alpha, man, RP, boss, whatever the hell term you wanna call in, in the first place. The problem is people will read a little of this shit, understand how to emulate the traits of an attractive man, decide to fake it till they make it (paper alpha), and they get the girl. To them, getting this girl was some master campaign, a…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/13 10:24 AM
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This works if you don't overuse it. I will say "ok no problem, going to get some porn out and take care of this... have you heard of this girl called Tasha Reign? Her head is so enthusiastic". Then just go do it. 2 mins in, if she isn't sucking the skin off your dick in an attempt to validate herself by being, in her mind, "hotter and better at head than those porn girls" then you've lost your frame too much already. But you don't even need the porn. Just doing it will annoy her in a "I hate tha…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/13 10:18 AM
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If you talk about RP ideas, chances are it will be received civilly. They may not be able to compute what you are saying, because they have lived their whole life one way, but they won't be anger, they at worst just won't listen. Like you said in your post. If you talk about the "red pill" as a group that focuses on optimizing male and female sexual strategy and whatnot, you may get the "WTF those guys are misogynist internet trolls!" response. People are generally receptive to ideas that seem t…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/13 09:58 AM
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"You either hate men or you hate women. There is no box marked "I don't hate either group and just want society to be better for both parties." False dichotomies are the tool of cultists and zealots and morons everywhere. You're either support the troops or you hate America! You either support affirmative action or you hate blacks/hispanics! You either are pro-life or you love abortion!
/r/MensRights06/12/13 08:32 AM
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How is this a classic RP article? its complaining about double standards to the point of ridiculousness "when the female doesn't get off, the male gets blamed, when the male doesn't get off, the male gets blamed." Yes that is true, but that is because biology is inherently different. Fucking a girl is getting her to surrender to your lead, and with that you then have the power to make her cum or not, and make yourself cum or not. You're blamed because you should be leading the sex, and she shoul…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/13 08:00 AM
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Not to sound like a cynical high school student, but some of Nietzsche's writings were so RP before their time that it hurts. His whole concept of society, laws, courts, and morality itself only existing to chain down the strong, so that the weak could have power over them was genius for his time.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/13 07:41 AM
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Women base attraction off of personality, men base attraction off of looks. Straight women -> has to stay in shape to get a guy. Gay guy -> has to stay in shape to get a guy. Lesbian -> awwww yeah, we can get fat together.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/13 07:34 AM
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Yeah, I concede that. I agree the movie is a BP movie in terms of how the author portrays the phenomena. I didn't call it a red pill movie, but rather say that, intentionally or not, it depicted a "real" phenomena with accuracy that most movies don't have. The interpretation of the phenomena is inaccurate, but they portrayed the phenomena relatively accurately. It is similar to a movie / TV show that portrays an alpha male type relatively accurately, yet simultaneously demonizes him and contrive…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 09:08 PM
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That 50% versus 17% is based off of the premise that women drop dead when they are 30, whilst men live as if they are 20 until 60. Time spent outside of your sexual prime is not "nothing", it's still time. Her risk is huge in a traditionalist country like India, where in the 1950s a divorced 27 year old would be completely and utterly fucked. Her risk is not huge in a society that encourages women to date / marry / have kids until they are 40, despite "biology saying women should be pregnant no …
/r/MensRights05/12/13 09:44 AM
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This actually restored my faith in humanity. The standards for sex appeal is still high for ads. Young beautiful women are still promoted as the height of femininity. Which is good, because they are. There are still some famous people willing to not bow to the feminist circlejerk and say what they mean. Enough people recognize feminism as a shit-test, with which the only way to pass is to be unashamedly trollish. The magazines choosing to run feminist slanted media like Time are slowly dying out…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 09:29 AM
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Rule #1 of r/sex and r/relationships: You shall not judge women. Whatever has occured, the female is not to blame. Rule #2 - You shall not creep around on other people's phones. The fact that you can't trust her means that you are a misogynist. Not trusting women is a sign you need some therapy to get over your inner issues. Rule #3 - The guy chooses to cheat, the girl is driven to cheat by the guy. Now that we understand how these beta-infested shitholes of subreddits work, we no longer should …
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 09:19 AM
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My Fair Lady (Rex Harrison one) is RP as fuuuuuuuuck. Just listen to that dude's rants, it is so fucking spot on. Yes it is a chick musical with tons of songs and mushiness and whatnot. But the RP takeway is choose a young girl and grow her into a lady, while simultaneously not being too invested in her / not giving a fuck if it works because she is more of an entertaining prospect than love. While he is a massive dick to her, because he is high status, she basically tries to get his approval th…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 08:10 AM
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Yeah, this is something that I feel has been forgotten in this sub. The red pill represents reality - not the positive traits we like to pursue in order to SUCCEED in reality, but plain ugly reality. Most Alpha fucks, beta bucks stories tagged as blue pill are actually red pill - they present reality functioning as it should. The man, women, and r/sex commenters chiming in might be blue pill because they are unable / unwilling to acknowledge what is really going on, but the phenomena itself is b…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 07:58 AM
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Not bad, not bad at all. SimplePickups got to keep their 7k and the charity received 14k, and the feminists lost 14k. While this is pretty shitty of them, this has nothing on the scumbags that are the Susan G Komen foundation.
/r/MensRights05/12/13 07:45 AM
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Whoa, that article should be mandatory reading for all men.
/r/MensRights05/12/13 07:40 AM
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Yeah - this is the best advice I've seen on the general subject. It's just game theory - if you reach big and they reach big, it's a ugly tie, but at least a tie. If you reach small and they reach big, you lose badly. If you reach big and they reach small, you probably will "win" by modern standards, meaning you got what fairly was yours. But female divorcees and her lawyer will not reach small, not when the financial incentive is so high for both of them and our culture makes them feel in the r…
/r/MensRights05/12/13 07:17 AM
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That is so fucked up that the author cannot see the problem with what he is saying.
/r/MensRights05/12/13 07:09 AM
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What? Even if that is true biologically in terms of fertility and whatnot, are you implying the law should value "female time" more than "male time"? Like they both lost 5 years, but because she's female, those 5 years lost mean a lot more than him losing 5 years, so let's go ahead and set things up so he subsidizes her to live at a level he cannot live at? How does that make any sense?
/r/MensRights05/12/13 07:07 AM
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This is a big deal for women too - I don't understand why feminist groups like NOW and so on aren't trying to drum up support for this. In the current status quo, women have to either upon several suboptimal options, such as hormonal birth control (you can forget it, it screws up hormones, unknown long term side effects, weight gain / bloating, etc) or IUD / nuvaring, etc, all of which can be fraught with complications. Some stories I've heard of IUDs will chill your bones. Or condoms, which are…
/r/MensRights05/12/13 06:58 AM
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Because you judge an artist by their art, not their real life. For example, Kanye's Gold Digger is still a grade-A song about why you should protect yourself against gold digging sluts - the fact that he himself has attached himself to one (reportedly without a prenup) does not change that song's message.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 05:40 AM
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Yeah, completely true for guys as well. I've seen plenty of girls fucking around because they BF just won't fuck them. And he's not even fucking around, he is just in a prolonged low-T slump. Generally after settling in to a LTR and office job, quitting the weights, eating shit, you get these guys who scored a hottie back in the day, and now can't muster up to energy to bust their nuts inside of her rather than their own hand. Guys sometimes need a reminder that at a club near you there is a guy…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 11:24 PM
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Of course women want a strong man. The grey area is the morality / benevolent alpha versus asshole alpha debate. My own experience is women don't give a FUUUUCK what kind of alpha you are, as long as you are one. Attraction = higher status, DONE. A weak dickhead will get no girls. A strong dickhead will. A weak good guy will get no girls. A strong good guy will. As far as I'm concerned, that's the end of the story. Being an asshole isn't inherently alpha or beta (or strong or weak). It's that al…
/r/askTRP04/12/13 11:04 PM
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Good job man. I'm approaching the 1000 lbs club and posts like this keep me motivated. It's not about the weight, that's in arbitrary number, it's about the explosion of other good shit in your life that continuing to push yourself will bring. Strength is to a degree, transferable. Take a dude who climbed everest versus a dude who climbed the highest mountain in Skyrim, put them in any situation, like a bar, a war, a board room, etc, and the former guy will just have more to draw from and assert…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 10:55 PM
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"TRP thinks that women are basically children!" "Women are easily manipulated by any village idiot who reads about game on the internet and make decisions against their own will because someone employs a sneaky tactic on them!" "Let's shame men for getting laid, while simultaneously claiming that they are a group of basement-dwelling virgins with no real female experience!" These 3 seemingly contradictory attitudes define reddit. Male feminists couldn't get a woman out of her lululemons to save …
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 10:45 PM
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Yeah, that is basically what I've heard from my GF who is obsessed with these overpriced slut-identifiers. Hot girls wear 1-2 sizes smaller than they need to because it makes their 8.5 ass look like some Shakira level shit. Average girls (like attractive, but not in great shape / lean) try to emulate that and it is OK, it kinda works, but you do have a little ham handles, over-squeezed thighs, etc. Leggings are not compression pants, but most average -> whale girls think that leggings should hav…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 06:36 PM
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Yeah, I worked in marketing for a few years (thank god I got out of it, shit was boring) and basically all marketing is marketing to women, and marketing to women = neg game. Sales too. So much of the western world is fucked because women control 70-85% of all purchasing decisions.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 06:26 PM
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That's fine if you only want male friends, that's your decision. I'm only saying that the fact that women cannot provide the same traits as a male friend does not mean that they are incapable of adding value to your life. They are simply a different type of friend. I'm not going to get into "who hangs out more with real women" olympics with you, because that is fucking dumb. So I'll just keep it at this - a blanket statement such as guys make X type of friend that you want in your life, and wome…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 06:13 PM
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Girls make good friends of a different type. No, they will not jump on a grenade in 'Nam for you, spot you and thump your chest in celebration of your first 3-plate bench, but they do bring something to the table. Guy friends typically are what they are. You have a guy friend who winds up as a whipped, fat, lazy boring type, then that's just what he likely always will be. Girl friends are way more malleable - you can influence them and basically transform them into ideal friend. Typically these …
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 08:00 AM
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But they are adorkable!!!!
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 07:50 AM
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Good insight. Best to never let it get to that point, of course, but if a relationship is slowly turning into a dead bedroom, showing a complete willingness to leave and get your own sex with someone else is the best way to keep it scorching. I went on /DB once (the horror, the horror, the most beta group of people, men and women, and I have ever seen collected on one sub) and basically 99% of the problems there could be solved by the partner not getting any saying "I'm about to go fuck your bes…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 07:49 AM
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Poor guy was so happy when he saw that comment lol
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 11:11 PM
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And the beta of the year award goes to Mr. James Scofield with some Camelot level white-knighting: "Whoever wrote this article needs to take a look in the mirror and realize that HE is the problem in 2013, not the women who fail to live up to his screwed-up, 1960s, patriarchal expectations of what women should be. If you can't realize that women are EQUAL AND INTELLIGENT HUMAN BEINGS with dreams, expectations, ambition, desires, shortcomings, talents, and brains JUST LIKE MEN, then keep your NEA…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 11:09 PM
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You have to master anger. But you will never learn to master anger if you don't accept it and realize it's a natural emotion within you. Just like you have to master fear, guilt, laziness, etc. Hatred too - hatred is an important, powerful thing that exists as an emotion and a conscious choice. The trick is to learn to dominate yourself and shut down the emotionally-spawned hatred, but be able to consciously apply hatred in situations where it behooves you. This is to me the power of the dark si…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 10:26 PM
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For me, it was advice that I had heard for a long time but never understood. My parents had said it for years and I think my understanding it was more aging than TRP, but at any rate I understood it at the same time I found TRP ideas a few years ago. It was something like this: "Forgive yourself for years 1-20. Whatever you did then, that was a result of your upbringing. From years 20-onwards though, it's all on you. You are 100% responsible for who you are now, what journey your life takes, and…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 11:14 AM
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Girl in question wants commitment more than sex. Then she realizes that the commitment of a man WHO WOULD COMMIT TO ANYONE means nothing - less than nothing. So then she decides to just date like a man and be a sex-positive feminist who don't need commitment because that is a stereotype that was cultured into her. After carousel ride #2, she will inevitably wind up with an alpha who gives her even less commitment than the first one did, because she is older and less feminine now. So, since women…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 11:07 AM
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Society worships mediocrity. It HAS TO believe that what goes up must come down. It has to believe that those who rise to great heights have complementary faults (ie, the stereotype of rich but unhappy, or attractive but shallow, or muscular but a meathead). This is why you will never have true alpha males portrayed on TV like they were in the older days.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 10:49 AM
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Seriously, maybe 1 out of every 20 "MILFS" are actually hot. And you certainly don't want to relationship that. Cougars exist and yeah they are sexy in their own way - but they can't compete with a young 9. In fact, most "sexy" cougars who with great makeup and fashion manage a 7.5 or 8 in terms of sex appeal were able to do that only because they were damn near perfect looks-wise in their 20s. And they know it. The hottest milfs are massively insecure because they know you are about to drop the…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/13 11:48 PM
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Helen Smith has some good shit. I recommend it, she is like a more intellectual version of Christina Hoff Summers. You can be as pro-LTR as you want, but never EVER put the ring on it. I'm with a girl now who I've been with for 2 years, shit is beautiful. So I have nothing to gain and everything to lose by marriage. If she treats me perfectly now and we have a great dynamic, why change the power dynamic by giving her the implicit knowledge that she no longer has to try, and that should she fail …
/r/TheRedPill02/12/13 09:36 PM
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What the fuck. You have decided what you believe about life, women, marriage, the wall, etc AT THE AGE OF 19 WITH NO EXPERIENCE WITH WOMEN! You have a distorted unhealthy view of this shit because you are not experiencing it. You are like a teenage socialist who espouses wealth-sharing and government mandated salary-averaging because they have never experienced working and the reality of the theory they espouse. There is a dichotomy here. Action versus contemplation. Which one do you think is fo…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/13 11:47 AM
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Here is my take on Indians (as a half Indian who visits every other year) You have a binary type of situation - half the indian girls are very feminine and take care of their body / home / man and go from hot younger woman -> cougary milf at 45. Indian hair holds up really well, as does Indian skin, especially on a good diet. The other half do exactly what western girls do. The British succeeded - Indian girls grow up with a slight fetishization of the west, meaning they copy American ways. Slut…
/r/askTRP02/12/13 08:27 AM
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Just be honest. If you actually are at a point in your life where you want to commit, fine. Cut the other plate loose, and give it a shot with her. Since you are not at that point, you don't even have to wait for her to ask about commitment. Just flat out tell her she's a grade-A, top of the line FWB or casual relationship, and you like things the way they are. If she has a different guy who she wants to LTR up, then by all means she should pursue it, but since she doesn't, then she might as wel…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/13 07:40 AM
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No. I'd venture to say that 99% of TRP isn't actually a "pure alpha" or whatever. Likewise, it would be foolish to think that simply because a woman chooses to identify with RP ideas (RPW) that she is a living embodiement of those ideas. It's just like most people on r/fitness are not pro athletes, bodybuilders, and top coaches, they are average joes trying to approach the positive end of the spectrum rather than the negative. Additionally, there is a bit of disagreement upon whether alphas / un…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/13 01:18 AM
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You can't really structure the search like you would in marketing. All girls have positive and negative traits, and all girls have a hamster. You have to evaluate on a case by case basis - there is no shortcuts. All girls are going to get exposed to the "ladies blue pill" ideologies in their life and ANY girl can "fall off", the same way that alpha guys can fall into BP. You build your own unicorn. You don't find a perfect woman, you have to make that shit brick by brick. You have to train her h…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/13 11:11 AM
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People will always refuse to be open-minded about things they are religious about. I believe that society essentially constructs a religion about how to treat women, work your life away to provide for others, and constantly seek validation. TRP is an anti-religion, and a very brutal one at that. So of course it's the one thing people cannot and will not even entertain as a possibility. It's like how fundamentalist Christians or any religion will simply not consider the arguments of athiesm. They…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/13 09:40 AM
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This happens a fair amount. There was that asian woman who lost a ton of weight, got in great shape, etc after 3 kids, and looked hot as hell relative to her age of 43. And the internet shamed her to no end because she said that you always have full control of your health and body. Women who have accepted society's mediocrity-worship become worse than crabs in a bucket. While the proverbial crabs in the bucket wind up pulling each other down as a byproduct of each one trying to escape at all cos…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/13 09:24 AM
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I personally don't do it (in the case of friend, not acquaintance). Every situation is unique and you have to apply your own values to the situation - ie if she is your dream girl and he is a douchey friend, they maybe. So perhaps, the truth is that I haven't done it, not wouldn't do it. True friends can be rare, and rarer still if you have high standards. For these people, it's bros before hoes, because if I ever go broke or need something, they will help, whereas hoes... hahahahaha
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 06:38 PM
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mr needs to stop posting random bad stuff that happens in the world and claiming it's MR. That is the exact equivalent of what feminist outlets do, and it's why they are ridiculous.
/r/MensRights27/11/13 12:17 PM
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Yup. This sub needs to stop 1) writing angrily about how women are amoral in terms of their sexual decisions (they are supposed to be) and 2) acting as if it's fault of the guy in the position of "alpha fucks" that we have the AFBB dynamic. The mentality that we owe the betas something is ridiculous - in fact, part of their problem is that they believed that are owed shit, like a faithful, pretty girl just for being a middle marketing chump who puts in his 9-5 and buys her flowers. No, you need …
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 11:55 AM
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This is stupid. You don't live for your "brother men". Often times at a club, the hottest girls will have a man in some sort of relationship. If you are turning down girls you want to fuck because of some self-sacrificial moral, then you aren't RP. You are the equivalent of a nice guy who can't muster up the balls to fuck this girl because of some rationalization about how he has to be "good", and fucking her hard would be bad. TRP gets infested with this "don't fuck a taken girl, bro" mentality…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 08:07 AM
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NP. Remember the distinction between black culture and hip hop culture and "mainstream" hip hop culture. Once hip hop realized it could market itself to white girls, the main consumers of club hip hop, it changed.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 03:10 AM
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I don't get the reference
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 03:07 AM
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In my experience, there's no such thing as a girl that won't give head. There are girls who didn't give me head, and that was because back in the old days, I wasn't bringing enough value / dominance to the table, and thus her arousal did not trump her resistance. Some girls will resist giving head or being too wild in bed, because they think you will judge them as a slut and not give that sweet, sweet commitment away. If you have medium value, she knows she probably ALREADY will get you, so ther…
/r/askTRP27/11/13 12:41 AM
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Rather than "imagine being a man reading slanderous material posted about you", HuffPo has to say "imagine that we lived in a hypothetical world where men created Lulu to victimize women, and in this scenario, how would you feel?" Really tells you a lot. Rather than put yourself into the shoes of a man, you have to reframe the entire situation to fit the idea of the female as the victim
/r/MensRights26/11/13 10:27 PM
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Black culture is essentially an antithesis to white culture or mainstream culture. As white / mainstream culture has become about supplication to women, deferring to female and state authority, etc, black culture goes in the opposite direction. Not to glorify hood culture or hip hop culture or even say that black culture = that. I'm speaking in gross generalities. I grew up in a black neighborhood in the 80s - we had concepts like "beta bucks" and "the wall" and "guy who has to lick pussy all da…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 09:42 PM
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Which is why you have to be more than your body. Same advice we give women. Though with proper nutrition, exercise, etc, you can still be fucking well into your 60s and 70s.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 09:07 PM
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Agreed. In many ways, the lack of support / validation men receive is a blessing. Women can spend their whole lives having other men and women validate their shitty decisions. Because they have such an appeal to authority and their minds are addicted to argument ad populum, they don't even have to hamster. They can just soak up what other people collectively hamster. So yeah, I didn't mean to say it wasn't bleak. I'm essentially saying that the stars have to align for it to happen - a strong mal…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 09:05 PM
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I love that quote. Every time I see it I know that girl, no matter how sexy she may be now, is going to be fat, neurotic, and lazy by the age of 35. For SOME girls, the wall represents the point at which they begin to stop hamstering. Their twenties are gone, they rationalized the clubbing, street tacos, red bulls, vodka-crans, and carousel for their whole life, but now faced with their aging, they are able to actually understand for a brief second that time is the most valuable thing in the wor…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 10:36 AM
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I don't think you know what libido is. You fall into compassion and affection for every girl you come across because you have not yet internalized your own self-worth and high standards. Compassion and affection is GOOD, it should just be saved for truly great women, like the 1%. Everyone feels the temptation to spend all day cuddling with a hot chick. It's nice. Libido isn't making you procrastinate handling your real life in order to wallow in this trap, it's your mind being weak.
/r/askTRP26/11/13 07:38 AM
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Right - I said "I would imagine" about the PC thing, I never said I had a statistical basis to prove it, or even that it was a "claim".
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/13 05:17 AM
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Surveys in this regard would be completely worthless IMO. I mean, they would confirm TRP's theories about hamstering, but not much else. Experiments and observational studies would tell you a lot more. For example, there is a popular survey now about how 70% or so of female employees prefer a male boss, whereas male employees are split. That is a telling survey and not entirely worthless, but I find it hard to believe that men are split 50/50. I would imagine most are answering what they feel to…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/13 09:24 PM
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No. By thinking "oh this girl probably thinks I'm creepy" you transfer that vibe to her. My friend is kind of like that, he approached this one petite girl the other day, she is a little spooked, but not doing the "get me out of here" female eyes yet. He just needs to establish a commonality with her and chill out on "getting her into his frame" so early. Instead to unspook her, he says "look honey, you can relax, I'm not gunna kill ya" Facepalm. Now she's spooked. By talking about how he's not …
/r/askTRP25/11/13 08:46 PM
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There's three reasons People hate the idea that men can "win" at dating, hookup culture, LTR, etc. We go a step beyond seddit in this regard - seddit will say, "Hey, here are some tricks that men can use to win the game against these stacked odds." TRP says "the natural state of things is for man to win in these fields by default. By simply behaving masculine (ie not giving any commitment away until you are getting the sex and personality you want) you win. Which is why people will hate on TRP m…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 08:27 PM
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I agree with never marry. No incentive to it. That being said, for some guys who always wind up with hypergamous partners, it's them doing something wrong. Not saying in your personal case it was your fault you got cheated on, but I definitely know some guys who as a general trend is always bitching about how all their women cheat, and yet they encourage that behavior.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 08:14 PM
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All the people I've met who say "they just aren't a fan" of cold approaching just suck balls at it. Especially when they have the "Ho ho, look at that loser over their approaching that hot girl, look at how tryhard he is!" Like dude, you used to be him, but you failed enough that you gave up on approaching and now you rationalize it. No offense, but that's just my experience. You can't rely on your social / professional / etc circle to supply you with the top % of women. If you do that, you may …
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 10:11 AM
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He really dropped a RP of his own when he said "Lucky me, I married a whore who fucks like a prude." If you absolutely must marry, remember this man's words. Marry a girl who fucks like a whore, but was a prude until she met you.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 09:47 AM
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The real answer is that "mPUAs" often are lazy and seeking to capitalize off of passive revenue streams. So instead of actually going out and improving their rusty skills which were sick in the day, they talk shit about other PUAs. It's why people are always coming up with like "RSD EXPOSED: WHY RSD IS A CULT" or "HOW X PUA PAYS GIRLS TO RESPOND IN HIS VIDEOS!" They do it because all yall click that shit, since you want whichever school of PU you chose to be validated. Guys in 2005 who would com…
/r/seduction25/11/13 07:10 AM
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I don't fuck around with wannabe alphas. Chances are in real life, I wouldn't be friends with most people in this sub if we lived in the same ecosystem. In your words, I do not prefer hanging around guys who "identify as being alpha" because that is basically proof that they are jackasses who watch Glengarry Glen Ross too much. Chances are OP you are using the term alpha way too liberally - by definition of the term, only the top of the pyramid is going to be alpha. Pulling a decent amount of as…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 06:41 AM
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Word. The only women who haven't strung along a guy as a validation-provider are women who are too unattractive to have one. Any 8 or above does this - and if you do not believe that a chick is doing it with someone or the other, then chances are you have them on a pedestal
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 06:24 AM
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Wow this thread is great. To add, it's amazing how the average age of marriage is EXACTLY where we've pinpointed "the wall" happening. Right as women switch, as the comments say, from a buyers market to a sellers market, most men will fold and just take whatever they can. It's crazy. It's like all men own 10k in Google stock, it's 1996, and they have the choice to sell now or hold on to it. Most men choose to sell it, figuring, what the hell, a quick easy 10k is nice. The men who hold onto their…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/13 09:42 AM
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Because we don't live in RP fantasy land. Most thirty year olds are not alphas using their wealth, experience, intelligence, and finely honed killer instinct to run train through your average college campus. Most thirty year olds have low as fuck Test (due to a variety of factors going far beyond age), are not actually rich enough to justify spending time and money at bars / clubs, and are either married or looking to get remarried because society told them that's the only way to get happy. They…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/13 09:22 AM
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When you hookup with a girl and you get her with these typical "player" characteristics, she will often go ahead and assume you want a ONS. She doesn't want to embarass herself by being that girl who tries to keep it going when you clearly just wanted to hit it once. After the hookup, you give her validation. It's okay, the chick earned it as far as I'm concerned if she was a good enough fuck for me to want a FB situation. Don't overdo it, just some shit like "damn you look sexy after you've bee…
/r/askTRP24/11/13 08:57 AM
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This should be somewhere in the FAQ or something, there's so many people climbing in these threads acting as if alphas are some sort of noble benevolent king figure who looks out of his camelot. "If you take another man's woman you are not RP".... like WTF? The textbook definition of the alpha is the one who breeds other dudes' women, case closed.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/13 08:07 AM
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I don't have a problem with that (or even a problem with the guy I was responding to). You have your morals and if they aren't limiting you, then knock yourself out. I have a code that is basically if I know and care about the guy, I won't fuck his girl, end of story. But if I don't know him or we aren't friends, then fuck it. What I do have a problem with is when people pass of their individual, subjective morality as "RP", and if in the bible of RP there is some bro-code that says don't fuck a…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/13 08:02 AM
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Girls go for the highest statuses in the group. A cool rapper / DJ type + 3 normal bros means that the girls are into the cool rapper / DJ guy, and the 3 normal bros settle for the lower tier girls. Now Jay-Z and Kanye invite 5 of their cool rapper / DJ friends out to the club. The highest value girls in the club, the 9s and 10s, and swarming Jay-Z and Kanye and ignoring all 5 of the Dj / rapper dudes, even though on a different night, those same dudes would have cleaned house and snagged the ho…
/r/askTRP23/11/13 12:36 PM
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Lift weights. As Kai Greene said - a man can only put 800 lbs on his back, squat down, and come back up if he has a type of rage in him. Pushing yourself strength-wise will require you to get in touch with your fury, but then you will wind afterwards, you've used it all up. You are just happy, because all the anger is out. Additionally, anger is not always bad. I think of it as emotional anger and mental anger, with the latter being a conscious choice, and the former being for undisciplined peop…
/r/askTRP23/11/13 12:28 PM
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It is immensely condescending how trivial that article is and that it is posted here. It's like if I went onto r/fitness and was like "Did you guys know, that eating a surplus of unhealthy crap and never exercising SHOULD make you gain weight because of science!"
/r/TheRedPill23/11/13 12:20 PM
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Why do you think? A minority of men actually have firm standards and are selective about their mates. Most dudes take whatever bit of affection comes their way and run with it, hoping by date 3 they will score. When they see another guy doing the higher value thing, they flip out because it exposes their own mediocrity to themselves. And women downvote it because most women are obviously average. They resent the idea that guys could feasibly realize that they are average and say "thanks for the …
/r/askTRP23/11/13 09:35 AM
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Sexual strategy either works or it doesn't. Everything done was voluntary. There are a lot of newcomers (not saying you are new necessarily, just a side observation) who come on here as if TRP is a "bro support group" and say shit like "dude, you should never fuck someone else girl, that is for douchebag wannabe alphas!" The reality is that in most modern relationships women don't belong to their men - and if the woman truly did belong to him, as in he was the type of guy worthy of her submissio…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/13 09:30 AM
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What the hell? We can't bitch and bitch about how feminists want to censor and block male sites and groups, and then petition to have Lulu shut down because we don't like it. Lulu is operating within the confines of the law - if you don't like it, take actions to block Lulu as people have stated in this thread. But don't try to get the site removed, MR should be above that.
/r/MensRights23/11/13 09:09 AM
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Women fundamentally cannot admit they like RP behavior because that would mean admitting that their biology trumps their individuality and snowflakiness. Basically, a woman wants to believe she is better and more deserving than other women, therefore she will convince herself that she likes BP behavior (because BP behavior is focused on treating women like unique special snowflakes). She isn't lying either. She actually believes it deeply - calling this a rationalization only scrapes the surface…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/13 05:51 AM
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Dude that quote hits hard. "In the beginning of a relationship, women like you for everything you are. They spend the rest of the relationship trying to change you into everything you're not, and if she succeeds, she will leave you for the guy who is everything you were when she met you." Some of the truest words ever spoken. Her greatest pleasure in life is trying to destroy you and failing. Likely metaphorically, she wants to take a marble greek statue and batter it with every tool available. …
/r/TheRedPill23/11/13 05:39 AM
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The best thing you can do for your dad is raise a good son of your own and show him the "family curse" if you will has been lifted. His father was not the best figure for him, he was not the best figure for you, but in the end it all worked out because you said "the buck stops here, I'm not the sum of my upbringing and experiences, I'm not the average of my parents, etc". It's never too late. Maybe seeing that will give him the peace of mind and redemption he needs to get his life together and a…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/13 05:22 AM
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Whether or not you agree with Ayn Rand politically, she was had a dark red pill attitude towards many, many things. Here's two of my favorite RP related quotes. "The acceptance of full responsibility for one’s own choices and actions (and their consequences) is such a demanding moral discipline that many men seek to escape it by surrendering to what they believe is the easy, automatic, unthinking safety of a morality of “duty.” Now think about the "Pushing 40 and No House Because of Wife: Cost o…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/13 05:14 AM
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Why was he paying 1/3 of her mortage as well as $800 per month if he was the lower earner? I'm not even anti-alimony circlejerking or anything... how was that conclusion reached?
/r/TheRedPill23/11/13 05:02 AM
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You are misunderstand what I am saying - let me be more clear. Women cannot help getting the tingles when another dude comes up and makes her uncomfortable, and her man asserts his dominance, either verbally or physically. Women have a hardwired response to that because throughout the animal kingdom, fights are common to determine mating rights to a women. This is not white-knightism. RP dictates that you are the leader of the relationship and your woman is submissive. NO women will submit to yo…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/13 04:54 AM
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The biggest takeaway from this is that guys should not always be explaining themselves. You shouldnt "convince her not to smoke". Just say "No." You don't have to justify your veto or soften it with qualifiers. My GF used to try to get me to drink with her. I would always explain why with this "I'm getting shredded I don't have time for a 500 calorie influx of shitty cals on a friday night" kind of stuff. She would give me a slightly hard time about it, but relent. Then I started saying "No." or…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/13 11:45 PM
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Are you and your GF LTR material? If there is a corrupting force in my girlfriend's life, I remove it at the source unless it's part of her family. She has this one shithead friend (female) who constantly drags my GF off her fitness plan to go spend the Friday drinking. The friend will hook up with a guy and try to make my gf do the same, because it makes the friend seem less shitty about herself and her sluttiness if my GF would partake in it too. After two times of this happening with my GF di…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/13 10:40 PM
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This is the correct move. The relationship is sliding to shit by being passive and OPs value is plummeting. Best to force the issue the next time he does shit, so either you regain your status or it becomes clear that you have lost too much value in her eyes.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/13 10:38 PM
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Well the thing to remember is that you may be in the top 1% of any given attribute, or even all the attributes. You may be a genius with Arnold-level muscles, who can fight like Bruce Li, and charm like Bond. Yet the reality you live in is the same as everyone else's reality. A bullet to the chest will kill you. People around you will still lie. You can still get aids. You can still get forced into fatherhood. You can still get falsely accused of rape and have your life ruined. I believe I'm ext…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/13 10:16 PM
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I know, man. Nothing is shittier than American dairy, eggs, and perhaps work of all, our deli meats. Compare a slice of boar's head to some Iberian jamon serrano... man, it's just unbelievable. You just can't get it in the US anymore, and that's how it will become with quality foreign women. Cheese too - most French cheeses that are considered the best in the world are reliant upon using raw milk. Most states in the US have gone and outlawed that because it's unsafe - which is true given that ou…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/13 08:38 PM
14

You have to think about status as an absolute value. Consider at this fame , Charles Manson had a "most hated, most infamous" status, so like a -10. Someone like JFK who basically ran train through Hollywood, had a status of 10. Absolute highest status in the world, president of America during what was thought of as the golden age of camelot. Girls don't give a fuck if your status is positive or negative, only that it is HIGH. Obviously they would prefer the 8 or 9, someone like a well respected…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/13 09:54 AM
1

Spot on analogy. To be fair, it works for men too. Spent a summer in Turkey in college - the dudes their are alpha as fuck, like comically so at times. Society puts them through harder experiences, most serve in the military, confront death, and they have the religious patriarchal upbringing without the extremism of other muslim countries. Makes US guys look like weak, untested boys. Luckily, like with all "exotic" or "gourmet" products (wine, olive oil, coffee, real charcuterie, cheese) you can…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/13 09:40 AM
1

Yeah, I completely agree. Each aspect of the "manosphere" essentially caters to some needs of specific groups on men, but not all males. For example, you have Athol Kay who talks about marriage and masculinity, who also uses the RP ideology. I personally think marriage is a broken institution that men shouldn't support. Does this mean Athol Kay is a mangina or a misogynist or a misandrist? No, not at all. He has a lot of great material. Just because he is creating content for men with different …
/r/MensRights22/11/13 06:39 AM
1

This is a common way to try to test the guy to see if he will "beta" up and try to ask her to "go steady" with him or some shit. When she isn't sure, it means that you fundamentally gave her mixed signals about your capability to lead the relationship. Usually onone hand you were alpha but you showed some neediness / something that made her think she could either lock you down or do better. She then must test you to see which one it is. Best thing to do is not take it seriously. "Yeah, I'm not t…
/r/askTRP21/11/13 11:09 PM
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Yeah, people get so boneheaded about all the cliches we have. These terms like "alphas" and "betas" or even terms like cock carousel, SMV, the wall, etc are all simplified versions of larger concepts and theories. Why is there black and white labels? Because that's the only way to explain shit to a newbie. I see this all the time with the Neo analogy. Yes the matrix was a very insightful movie. Brilliant in many ways. Now stop trying to reduce everything to "well, when Neo took the red pill..." …
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 10:59 PM
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Most people who get exposed to a little RP and then rush to "mentor" their friends are full of it. They are doing it so eagerly because they enjoy being the one who is in the "wise mentor" position. Betas are essentially enabled by pity and sympathy. The little bits of "help" they receive from society and little passed down crumbs from alphas and women essentially keep them a few steps above rock bottom. They have to hit rock bottom to change. Transformation only happens when you put a massive e…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 12:04 PM
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As someone who believes in both groups, I'll try to offer an unbiased opinion as to why both can help men. I'm aware I'm in the minority here, but allow me to at least represent both sides. Both groups agree that men are force-fed a shitty narrative about how masculinity is toxic, about how women come first, about how marriage is the ultimate goal that a man must do for women, that women's healthcare is more important than men's, etc. Men grow up with bad ideas about what they should be, guilt, …
/r/MensRights21/11/13 11:44 AM
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Yeah the percentage argument is so dumb. If the guy makes twice as much as the girl because he did comp sci in college and works 9 hrs a day, while she did philosophy and became a TA, working 6 hrs a day if that, then "fair" is the girl paying for 20% of everything? No. This whole being penalized in proportion to how wealthy you are is bullshit, yet that attitudes permeates all of society. Like he should feel guilty for earning more, and just like he pays more taxes, he should subsidize the poor…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 05:35 AM
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Great quote. Age is not an excuse. If you are unhappy at 55 and think you have no chances left for making your dream life come true, think again. It's too late to be a pro boxer or hip hop sensation or to undo your first marriage. But it's not to late to be a MAN.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 11:16 PM
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Basically, younger dudes (and older dudes too) you got to understand 1 thing. No matter how you get tricked, manipulated, or duped (oops, pregnant!) into fatherhood - NO ONE IS GOING TO HAVE YOUR BACK. NO ONE. She could have cut holes in your condoms, lied about BC, anything, and she has full legal and moral high-ground in terms of how society defines morality in this issue. You will get no support. A man controls his dick and his seed, end of story. Biologically you are here to survive and repl…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 11:13 PM
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People, namely people involved in this new "pop-philosophy" craze of "social justice" and feminism, completely have lost respect for individuals. Women like this (not all women, just the ones who have been raised in this mentality) cannot understand individual responsibility because they have none, so they become big govt advocates until the scales are tipped disgustingly in their favor. They take it a step further, crying that all individual behavior is a product of social institutions, so all …
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 10:50 PM
1

The good thing about being alpha is that you can occasionally choose to do beta things and it only helps you in her eyes. For example, if you never get her a gift, and then you randomly get her a gift after 6 months of her being cool, she will flip the fuck out and appreciate it. If you're frame is tight, and she respects you, she will reframe the occasional beta behavior as alpha. (The inverse is true for guys who are pure beta with a gf, who read TRP and then try to act all dominant. She doesn…
/r/askTRP20/11/13 09:40 PM
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Maybe, but a lot of her blowing up was due to 4chan / other groups defacing her wikipedia page, tweeting about how she should get raped, tweeting in general, blogging about it, etc. Then, she was able to say "look at how harassed I get for saying I'm going to analyze some video games, clearly there is a huge misogyny problem in video games - just look at these graphics of me being jizzed on and the hate mail I get." That is when her charade really took off.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 09:31 PM
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And I was clearly being dead serious /s
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 09:27 PM
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Yeah, you really just have to internalize the attitude of "I do not pay for sex." And at the end of the day, money is SHIT compared to time - you can never make back time. So don't pay for sex by sacrificing either - you wouldn't go wine and dine a girl in the hopes of getting a kiss on the cheek, so don't spend a week giving her this dream vacation in the hopes that she will fuck you. That makes you a bitch, a mark-ass john or whatever the street lingo is for it. You won't get strung along if y…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 12:41 PM
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To be fair, men's sites like MR, even TRP, etc do the same thing with the feminist sites we hate. We just lack the mainstream influence for it to matter as much. Think Anita Saarkesian - if we had all collectively just shut the fuck up about her idiocy, she wouldn't have gotten the publicity she needed to wage her war against video games and their "inherent misogyny". As the mens groups grow bigger, we need to learn this rule. Ignore the trolls, always. Every single time.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 12:28 PM
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Let's get serious guys, as someone who's dated a girl with an ED before, it's not all fun and games. It's only a matter of time before they realize that an average jizz-load has about 5-10 calories.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 12:24 PM
1

Yup. This is covers basically all bases of how to want monogamous LTRs without becoming a chump
/r/askTRP19/11/13 10:08 PM
2

Definitely. Realistically, the world has a place for beta males and beta women. You have to accept the tautological nature of RP - if we want to focus in on the traits of the top 5% of men, we have to accept that by definition, 95% of men will not be in that top 5%. Same thing with women. So when I judge a girl, I'm just like "Ok cool, she's not in that top 5%. That's fine, we can still have fun, but I'm not going to commit to her, because I believe that I can do better." It's a judgment, just n…
/r/askTRP19/11/13 09:22 PM
2

"Sexism is institutional and manifests in individuals, you can't be sexist against men." WTF does that even mean? If Sexism is institutional, then it manifests as societal beliefs and attitudes moreso than individual beliefs. And whether you agree or disagree with this nebulous statement of "sexism is institutional and manifests in individuals" then what does that do with not being able to be sexist against men? This is why feminists are ridiculous, they will say the most absurd things and act l…
/r/MensRights19/11/13 09:14 PM
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It's just the same old "should" thinking. We "should" live in a safe society, where I "should" be able to walk home alone from the club drunk. We "should" live in a society where all future rapists can be magically identified and locked up before they commit the crime. I agree. But we don't - and getting mad at the people who say "we don't live in this fantasyland, we live in reality" is just ridiculous. But it's all I ever see.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/13 07:49 AM
2

What the fuck. They will surely have to ban all erotic fiction... oh wait, women
/r/MensRights19/11/13 12:10 AM
3

I don't want my kids to be lazy. All modern society ailments IMO derive from some form of laziness. Boredom and laziness - they are cancers, and if I can teach my kids one thing, it will be to cut out both completely.
/r/askTRP18/11/13 09:23 PM
1

Try to retrieve it in person, if you can't convince her to let you in / you believe she is hiding it, call the cops.
/r/askTRP18/11/13 08:16 PM
1

Since when was that idea a part of TRP? I won't fuck my friends girls, but at the end of the day, TRP is an attempt to objectively identify a man's optimal sexual strategy. If the highest quality girl around has a boyfriend and I don't know him, then fuck it. She has the power to choose and accountability for her actions.
/r/askTRP18/11/13 08:13 PM
1

It doesn't matter. A hairy-faced guy who has 1% better game than you're clean-shaven pretty face will pull more ass than you. It's only a handicap if you think it's a handicap. Whatever you do, own it.
/r/askTRP18/11/13 10:07 AM
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I agree with the "don't accept shit for free" mentality as a general principle. The free lunch is poison. But this being said, the truth behind the idea is not "never accept gifts". It's "don't give the gifts power to influence your behavior or create guilt within yourself." If someone wants to help you, you can accept the help. You shouldn't have a hardline "I NEVER ACCEPT SHIT FROM ANYONE" attitude - that is stupid. You can, situationally, accept the gift as long as you are mentally strong eno…
/r/askTRP18/11/13 10:05 AM
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It seems to me like you were just communicating who you were / what your own boundaries, expectations, and so forth were. Rather than imposing boundaries on him, like "be monogamous now" it was "I've decided that I'm going to be monogamous."
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/13 10:49 PM
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TIL that police cars should not have bulletproof windows, because criminals should be taught not to shoot guns.
/r/MensRights17/11/13 09:22 AM
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Saying stupid shit, like pure retardation, conveys high value because it shows you don't even try to impress people. Like juvenile idiotic filth. Contrary to everything about the "early PUA" lexicon, you can just word-jizz all over her face with dumb, even beta shit. Like I will literally tell girls "I wanna marry you... I wanna put you up in a white picket fence... make an honest woman out of you. Would you raise my kids? Would they be mine though or would you cheat on me? HMM? HMM?" and they w…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/13 07:26 AM
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Set up a trust fund for her and their son. By the age of 30. Made his killing by sacrificing ages 20-30. Believes he is entitled to a day of hitting the gym and playing squash. Honestly though, this is why you never make them too comfortable. He is even saying he will spend time with his son teaching him how he managed to make his money and prevent his son from being mentally impregnanted with the bullshit of public education. People who are negative, jealous, insecure, etc will always find some…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/13 07:14 AM
1

Short answer? Please her without trying to please her. By all means learn about sex and learn how to make it good - but go in with the attitude of "I'm going to fuck this girl hard, because that's how I like it." You will find that women like sex the exact same way guys do. I would say just don't be restrained, there is something authentic about doing it the way you enjoy and just expecting the other person to like it because you like it. But it takes a while to be able to do that and not be thi…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/13 06:37 AM
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Well, seddit's purpose is to get men laid. Single moms are fine for that purpose. I agree deleting it is a problem, but seddit tends to focus on the bottom line, which is "how can a gameless loser stick it to something other than his hand". They are shitty for dating, but that's not seddit's purpose
/r/TheRedPill17/11/13 06:30 AM
2

Quite simply, it works. But you don't need to overanalyze it. Especially in high school. It's just like how in r/fitness you will see people asking about how to grow muscle as a healthy sixteen year old. You will explode if you eat, sleep, and lift, there is nothing else to it.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/13 06:55 AM
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No, you're completely right. The same principles of why its attractive to not give a fuck about her orgasm for ONS applies to LTR and FWB. You certainly can have a fulfilling, alpha relationship with a woman without putting effort into making her come. I'd simply argue that in this case, however, you'll get a lot more out of keeping that dominant frame (sex is about me, she gets an opportunity to get fucked and that's enough for her) while also making her cum on an unpredictable basis. If you wa…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/13 12:59 AM
2

We have judgment whether we like it or not. Good judgment is a great virtue - and yet we only get good judgment by refining our poor judgment into decent judgment, and so on. Judge, but be completely aware that your judgments are not always a reflection of reality, and thus can hurt you as much as they help you. Some guys judge all women really harshly and I'm just like "Dude... maybe you're right, maybe not. But is thinking that all women are lying sluts and whores helping your life? When was t…
/r/askTRP15/11/13 10:56 AM
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Eat 3 then, you PussyAssFaggot
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 10:27 AM
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Pretty horrible article on it, I saw a similarly retarded article about this posted on Jezebel (naturally), which RPW tore apart. But it's insightful. For women, orgasm essentially has no biological purpose. The clit is a penis, a leftover, and is pointedly located outside the vagina. And a vaginal orgasm, while powerful, is not at all necessary for impregnation and can even be undesirable, as with many women it can squeeze a dick / some cum out of her if she has strong kegel muscles or the guy …
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 07:35 AM
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It seems like that's their optimal strategy in our current society, and it many ways it is. However, the problem comes at 28-29 when you want to settle down. No one wants you - not because you are a slut, but because you spend the last 10 years studying a bullshit major, partying, following the "club girl" diet, and are generally unpleasant, lazy and entitled. So all that's left is the betas. Many girls don't even have the luxury of beta bucks - the formerly desirable girls at this point have to…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 07:19 AM
0

Italy Greece and Spain... man I went there 2 years ago for some road tripping with friends, it is amazing. I think it has to do with the fact that roughly 80% of the women there would be in the top 10% of women in the US. When all the women are attractive, there is no need to bitch about whats wrong with society
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 11:32 PM
1

I generally catch the hand as it comes, squeeze tightly but not painfully, and stare her down / tell her to act her age. If it's not in public, I will hold her arm tightly and tell her that I'll let her go once she promises to behave. If in public, I just catch the slap, hold her arm down for 1 sec, and tell her off / staredown, because I know that if I extend the situation, it's Charge of the White Knight Brigade, If it is a "fun-slap", like I'm being kinda assholish in a fun sort of way, and s…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 11:20 PM
2

It doesn't matter to her if it doesn't matter to you. If you have better game than a tall guy, you will get the girl. Additionally, I will say that gaining 20 lbs of muscle on a 5'4'' dude will make you look aesthetic as fuck, whereas a 6'2'' gaining that same 20 lbs won't look as ripped.
/r/askTRP14/11/13 11:10 AM
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This is rationalization. I know so many people who cannot have fun in clubs and thus pull chicks because of some stupid reason like "oh, it's so empty!" or "oh the music sucks" or "the girls are so vapid in clubs". Man, either 1) nut up and deal with it until you enjoy it or 2) don't go to fucking clubs. Stop looking for environments are girls to provide what you as an individual desire. Just go in, do your best to enjoy it, and then put on some jazz when you get her home. Alternatively, you can…
/r/askTRP14/11/13 11:04 AM
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I said better clothes and makeup too. That is obviously a part of attractiveness. At the end of the day though, in western society, most women carry a little extra weight and this can torpedo their attractiveness. If they are fat with good beauty genetics -> exercise and diet If they are fat with bad beauty genetics (ugly facial structure, etc) -> exercise, diet and make-up/style If they have a good body with bad beauty genetics -> make up/style Most ugly women in western society are in the firs…
/r/askTRP14/11/13 10:55 AM
2

Not really. The whole biological division between alpha / beta in most animals like chimps, wolves, and even humans is that the alpha breeds the most women and betas provide support. You may be a douche bag if you don't support your kids, that I agree with, but strictly speaking, in most mammals alpha implies the male who passes along his genes the most, and supporting his kids detracts from his ability to breed more.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 10:03 AM
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HR is a rotting cancer in most companies that have been around a long time. It has had the time to age it's bureaucratic nonsense like fine wine and become so ingrained in every aspect of company policy / decision that it is like congress. It can have a 5% approval rating, how can you improve the department in charge of improving other departments, when the department in question does not want to improve? Unsurprisingly, HR is 90% female. It's a black hole where all the women who never studied s…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 09:58 AM
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Fame trumps all. Fame is high value - that is basically a tautology. And then, you have the emotion factor. A common old school idea in pickup was attraction = higher value + emotion. Hate it or love it, boy bands are concentrated emotion (even if its whiny bitch emotion) and concentrated high value (girl knows her friends will be sooooo jealous if she hooks up with the latest pop hearthrob).
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 01:32 AM
2

Very nice, very nice
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 01:23 AM
3

Well are you actually going out of your way to interact with women every single day? Or are you going out once a week to a club, busting your 10 approaches, then going home? Put in your time. If you suck shit at game, admit you suck shit, but recognize that you still have massive potential. The same way I would tell someone who is broke out of college to admit they are broke, know jack shit about finances / work life, but still have potential to be in the top 1% if they put their time/energy in.…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 11:26 PM
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What you have to understand is from age 1-20, you are just a product, neither truly alpha or beta. Just clay, and you were not really the sculptor at all. If you had cool parents who helped you be self-confident at an early age, received positive feedback from peers and teachers, you probably will have the easy going confidence necessarily to get through college with no problem hooking up, and get into a decent job, yadda yadda yadda. If you had a really rough childhood, then maybe that taught y…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 11:21 PM
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Why do you think society has gotten to this point? Is it the women's fault for the pussification of the American male, the anti-male nature of public education, the societal "feminist" attitudes on dating, the constant white knighting, and the imbalances in divorce / custody courts? NO. They were acting in what they believed was their best interest, and although they were wrong, they were simply doing what RP believes people do - act to maximize their own utility / interests. Men are responsible…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 11:06 PM
3

I was never very deep in BP thanks to a baller Dad who kept his frame throughout a long marriage with positivity and dominance. But I have some of the most BP friends imaginable. Like so BP that I have come to realize that I am infecting myself by trying to help them. They are gone. GONE! But let me tell you why you MAY be different from them and why you may be able to turn your life around. They do not seek out reality and advice. They are bitchy and mean when their own family tries to help the…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 10:55 PM
2

Most people will put it in the garage / basement for this reason. I put it in my backyard and tarp it when it rains. When I kept it inside though, I put pads and towels under the whole set up. The only issue was deadlifts, which needed an additional 2 in of padding / rolled towels to not damage the floor. I don't slam, as I tend to stay in the 3-5 rep range and do it slow.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 10:45 PM
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Yeah this is some of the most BP shit I've ever read. OP and commenters act like he has "learned something" from the experienced but he hasn't learned SHIIIIT. The only person who learnt something was the GF, and she learned how little respect she can get away with having for her man if her man is a passive, reactive bitch.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 10:40 AM
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Buy yourself an olympic barbell and 200-400 lbs of weight. You can snag it all for like $200 used, add in 50-100 for a bench, add in 200 for a good power rack. $500-750 down, and it's a home gym. Saves massive time with going to the gym, about the same price as 1-2 years of gym membership, and lasts you forever. Additionally, you will use it, no excuse. Naked, tired, it's winter time... you aren't going to go to the gym, but you will go do some deadlifts in the privacy of your own home. One of t…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 10:36 AM
4

Yup - bitcoin has tremendous promise, and with all 'tremendously promising investments', don't invest what you can't afford to lose
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 10:25 AM
2

Quit giving shit-tests-in-blog-post-form your pageviews
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 01:32 AM
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First of all, many of those are not more attractive, and second, that's completely irrelevant to the point...
/r/askTRP13/11/13 01:30 AM
2

Most don't, but it's like you said. Why do girls lack discipline and motivation for self-improvement? Because they are forcefed bullshit and treated nice from a young age. The ugly girls don't get that same validation, meaning that some of them will manage to put the time in. It's rare, most will choose to get bitter and hate society for its beauty standards. But for the women who wish to participate in reality but are ugly, it is an uphill battle, yes, but probably the best thing they could eve…
/r/askTRP12/11/13 11:03 PM
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Ugly women can put their time into the gym and their discipline into their diets and make significant, significant progress. A lot of how you look is genetics, yes, but a lot is stuff you have control over. Get your bodyfat down, build some muscle tone, and generally you will find you have improved skin, hair, and nail quality. A good diet will clean up her facial blemishes. With that self confidence boost, she'll get some better clothes and make-up She won't be Kate Upton, but she will be able …
/r/askTRP12/11/13 10:19 PM
2

Yeah, I spent a month in Turkey living with my friend in Istanbul. His bros were some of the most hilariously alpha guys I've met - like dominant but able to all get along in a group by using humor instead of squabbling for top dog.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 10:05 PM
1

I think it's more along the lines of most "new conversions" to religion happen as a result of marriage. And women are generally far more likely to convert to their man's religion than vice versa. Women tend to be more religious / superstitious too, but I think this is more a case of 1) Muslim male / white woman is more common than muslim woman / white male due to heavier societal pressure against muslim girls dating nonmuslims. 2) of those muslim woman / white male relationships, they have alrea…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 10:00 PM
2

Yeah, raw cacao is solid. I have not noticed it with regards to my T, but it's all in all good. IANAN (nutritionist) but I think it's promotion of circulation is what jacks up libido. Also, brazil nuts. Enough said
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 09:55 PM
2

2 applications. You get a ONS with a girl you like - high value girl, beautiful, sexual options, she is not looking to gold-dig, etc. What do most guys do? They slip up and give too much commitment / resources early on, because they want to lock down access to that sexpot. She knows that you want access to her sex badly, meaning she thinks of sex as a treat for you, not her, and she will actually withhold both her commitment and sex. This is what happens in a lot of these "Hit it off great, turn…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 09:54 PM
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False - the "women can get sex any time" argument is cliche and accepted in the mainstream, but it misses one key issue. Most women cannot get sex from the guy they are attracted to at the drop of a hat, because all women tend to want the same top tier of guys. Women don't want what they can easily have, because any sex they can easily have feels like a downgrade, like they are taking whoever would have them because the alpha is busy fucking a younger, hotter girl. You see it every night at a cl…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 09:42 PM
2

The last one... piercingly true.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/13 08:03 AM
1

Dude, get off the internet completely. Get the fuck off FB, youtube, reddit, google, TRP blogs, even self help shit. You're young I'm guessing. As a young dude, what the fuck do you think is your path to accomplishment, action or contemplation? I see the same shit with pickup and fitness all the time. Pick 1 skill at a time and spend 30 days learning it. Then come to reddit and learn about what your new skill will be. For the next 30 days, I'd say work out, fuck bitches, and read good books (not…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 08:01 AM
2

Women are women. Indian culture is a lot better than western in many ways (and worse in others) regarding a girl's "game" for marriage. But at the end of the day, Indian parents want their daughter to marry up and there is a MASSIVE concept of "the wall". Like Pink Floyd levels. In the society that parents and grandparents grew up in, if you weren't married by 25, 26, it was fucking done. And it was a shame on you and the whole family. Which means that traditional indian women will sometimes put…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 07:54 AM
1

While that is true, if a girl isn't fucking your brains out when she is trying to squeeze you into committing for marriage... something is terribly wrong.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 07:49 AM
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Yeah, my god when this happens it is hilarious if it wasn't so sad. If you can't treat this one chump decently, who is paying your rent and taking you out, and would be over the moon to buy you flowers and get an uninspired blowjob, then what makes you think you can hold down a high value man? That's like my friends who suck at their middle of the pack jobs and constantly bitch about their boss, yet brag about how they cut corners, take massive smoke breaks, and overreport their hours worked. Wh…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 07:46 AM
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Only the insecure ones. Most girls are insecure, for whatever reason. Many a comedian has pointed out how it goes - check out Bill Maher (against marriage, pretty RP) skit about it. He says that in the eyes of his married best friend's wife, he is the escaped slave who brings tales of freedom from the north. And it's true. If I was a girl who has schemed to lock down a guy way better than me, you think I would let him hang out around his college boys, the ones who would remind him of the life he…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 07:36 AM
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A lot of guys are saying pure RP advice in the thread, but if I were to refer him to RP or any actual set of ideas that says this type of behavior is a trend, not an isolated incident, the downvotes would rain like monsoon season. Still, gives you a little faith that he isn't buying the "a man should suffer for the good of his family" argument.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 04:35 AM
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Just ignore her. Please just ignore Saarkesian. Never speak of her again, even to mock her idiocy. She is no different than Ann Coulter or anyone who says ridiculous things for attention and money. Cut off the attention, the money dries up, and they die bitter and alone.
/r/MensRights12/11/13 03:41 AM
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It never needs to be. But as a man, you shouldn't expect it to come land on your lap. So many guys at the club wait around all night and then when a girl does talk to them, because they have been waiting for it all night, they are spazzes. If you're interested, you should be interacting with her. If you wait, thinking you are "playing cool" or whatever, your window of opportunity fades.
/r/askTRP11/11/13 09:45 AM
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The good news is the money isn't frozen already. The bad news is the judge didn't dismiss the case. Even if they were married and then divorced, this would be bullshit. But a gf who "claims she bought half the ticket.." I bet she thinks that Vanessa Bryant was shooting half the hoops, or Arnold Schwarzenegger's wife was doing half the bodybuilding/acting/politicking. Just because you are in the picture does not mean you contributed equally. Existing doesn't give you a right to benefit from the s…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 09:42 AM
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You need to learn these things for yourself. It doesn't matter what TRP says, this isn't /askwomen. Our subjective opinion has nothing to do with what your best move is, and it would be silly for us to believe our thoughts on cheating represented the absolute, objective reality of the situation. But since you asked - Personally, if she is LTR, wifey material, then I wouldn't do it. A truly great girl is rare and if you have that and she loves you, then from a purely logical standpoint, the risk …
/r/askTRP11/11/13 06:56 AM
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You are taking things to literally. Swiss Navy over here isn't saying to go enlist and die. He is saying to do something great. You are going to have either a grave or a memorial dedicated to you someday. Which would you like it to be? And if we must be painfully literal, stressing about everything is a definitive beta characteristic and it will shorten your life span. Not all alphas are drug dealers, war heros, and CEOs. Get away from that thinking - many alpha traits will help you simply live …
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 06:46 AM
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The spirit gone, man is garbage. I read Catch-22 in high school and didn't see the point. Read it again last year, and that line blew my head off. The whole book culminates in this one secret, "Snowden's secret", and the secret is his flak-ridden corpse. He's trapped in the air force in WW2, flying mission after mission past his quota, because he's just a tool. He's proved himself valuable as a pilot to his superiors and by extension, to the military commanders and president in charge of the war…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 06:37 AM
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Might I suggest rereading? With some men, it is loyalty down to the bone. And with others, it's pure hamstering - they rationalize it as loyalty, but in truth, the man is just scared to leave. Also, you're apologizing for women - society may have taught them the behavior, but it's ultimately their behavior. Same thing with men. Behavior that produces a bad outcome is bad - regardless of whether society taught someone to do it, or whether they felt guilt-tripped into doing it, or they felt shame.…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 02:49 AM
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Take her phone, tell her you will give it back after you two are done hanging out. She is 18 - basically a kid. Kids push and push to see what they can get away with. Just say NO. If she does it, just punish her for doing it. She won't do it again. But since you've missed the ball on this one, I'd say either next, or make her delete the number and say if you do it again, we're done. She will either at this point be good or be bad, which lets you decide whether to next or not.
/r/askTRP10/11/13 08:57 PM
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This is some feminine shit, IMO. Any guy who does this is just insecure / looking to confirm his worst fears. Focus on being a man, or focus on seeking how a woman responds to a bitch. Which one is going to be effective?
/r/TheRedPill10/11/13 08:54 PM
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OP "What if there's an explanation for this shit?" Sensible commenter: "What she tripped, fell, and landed on his dick?" hamsters: "Yes. That is probably what happened, it was an accident or he forced her to. OP you should talk to her not break up, maybe you're failing to support her properly. Fix your own issues rather than taking it out on her, she's innocent."
/r/TheRedPill10/11/13 08:51 PM
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Love is real. It just isn't permanent, it's fluid. Love for anything, a person, your family, your own damn mother, your country, your hometown... it can all change if the object of your love changes. Anyone can fall in and out of love, love is never secure. The problem is, men want that binary type of love. They want to be able to fall in love, have a girl fall in love, and have that girl love them NO MATTER WHAT. They want the girl to love them when they grow fat, when their work ethic fades, w…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/13 08:47 PM
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Yeah. Tesla, man, Telsa is probably the single best scientist the US ever had, and look at how we treated him. Other businessmen/marketing types stole his ideas, took the credit, paid him 18$/hr, and lampooned him in the media. Brilliance will only make people jealous and uncomfortable - at best they will support you only so that they can share the spotlight. But that's my point, all the the arrows in the world are worthless if you don't have the few that truly count. Which is similar to women -…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/13 08:33 PM
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1) If you have a dominant frame, anything is fine. She could be worth a billion and I could be broke, but if I feel that I deserve her and that I am the catch, not her, then she will believe it. 2) Keep in mind that you are not necessarily going to get half. The richer party will have access to better lawyers and advice. You should be willing to walk away from ANYTHING in life that isn't yours. Be willing to sign a fair pre-nup (most courts will throw out one that leaves either party with too li…
/r/askTRP09/11/13 10:11 PM
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It doesn't matter if men have 1000 arrows or women have 2, or men have 2 and women have 1000. You can slice this up however you want, you can say that men have 1) their self-confidence / alpha set of beliefs and 2) their dedication to their goal in life. That's all, at the end of the day, the greatest men had these 2 traits, and without these traits any level of talents are useless. Imagine a Mozart who was too busy with social media / peer approval to have 2) and never went to Vienna. Imagine a…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 09:42 PM
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Why is this downvoted, it's completely true. Men choose mates (for sex, not LTR) based off attractiveness, women choose it off of personality, with attractiveness factored in, but not the end-all. It's after sex when considering if she has potential for more than a fuckbuddy / ONS situation where you factor in her skills / personality / etc. Whereas with women, they will choose to give sex to those who display skills and traits, as that demonstrates BV, as skills = ability to secure resources, f…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 09:27 PM
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This is what happens when the women believe that they equal men in terms of physical ability: http://www.mid-day.com/opinion/2010/jul/060710-Serena-Williams-Wimbledon-Tennis.htm Serena Williams and her sister both said they could beat any male tennis pro who is ranked 200 or worse, this guy who did not even prepare for the match shows up and destroys them. Biology basically made us to be able to kill shit, run faster, and haul carcasses. While yes, most men are completely disconnected from their…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 09:21 PM
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Thought Catalog is the most hamstery, BP site ever. Whenever it is a guy, it is always some "What I wish I had done more of in college: committed relationships and art classes" shit. And when it's girls, it's always some "letter to guys" bullshit that is anti-ONS, male promiscuity, etc, despite admitting that women also partake in the whole scheme. TC is one of the best resources we have for realizing how not to act, think, or view life. Actually, better yet to ignore it. The "losers" of any giv…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 11:48 AM
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Nothing. People are just dogmatic. A "perfect ten" would be a girl with these qualities above, who is 19, and who is also a supermodel. And foreign. Guess what - you could spend your life looking for that shit and never find it. Enjoy. I wouldn't marry that though, given the age difference, as a lot of women will drastically change at menopause. Even the best ones. Just be aware of that though - some women do a complete 180 at around that time.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 11:33 AM
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Exactly. A bunch of cool friends are not going to get butthurt about something like this. It's a natural understanding - a hot girl does not "belong" to you or me because I have a crush on her. She's going to fuck someone, and if we all want that ass, then game on. The type of people you want as friends are the ones who WILL compete with you, and when you win, will not hold it against you, because they know there is plenty of pussy, and the next night will be their night.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 11:27 AM
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You aren't worried that a breakup will destroy her. You're worried that it will destroy you. You have this idyllic dream of what you want, and breaking up with her would mean you have to put up or shut up - you have to either get that life by any means, or admit that you yourself lack a lot of qualities you know you should have. If you care about her, you will not waste another month, let alone 8, of her remaining childbearing years in this shit. Think about it - she has, as you said, limited ti…
/r/askTRP09/11/13 09:23 AM
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What is push? Any actions, body language, tonality that shows disinterest. Pull is the opposite, displaying interest. So by being conscious of what you are doing, you can easily blend in the other. Ideally without thinking about it. For example, I walk up to a girl in the club and say Hi. That is already demonstrated interest and attraction. Saying "hold up, come over here," is a pull - often you are literally pulling them away from what they are doing, so they know you want them. So, now you pu…
/r/askTRP09/11/13 09:13 AM
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I'm going to go out on a limb here and say RSD, particularly Tyler, is pure red pill. His free videos on societal ideas, like how men get lured into the wrong life path (middle of the pack career, marriage, etc) is spot on. He was pretty RP from before there was an RP, even his old school "Blueprint Decoded" thing is a deep meditation of what it means to be a beta, and how you can claw your way out of that, and how that will trump "pickup" 10 times out of 10 for getting girls. Essentially RSD se…
/r/askTRP09/11/13 08:14 AM
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This shit is why I cringe whenever I see people who are like "yeah bro, I'm just going to mix a little RP into my BP. You know, I'll have the good beta traits too and just enough alpha to fuck the hotties without being a jerk!" FUCK that. Burn the bridge. Torch every ounce of BP in you, become a man, and then decide rationally if you want to allow any BP traits back into your persona. You can't half swallow a pill, you can't half ass this, and if you look around and see what results the "half-BP…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 12:16 AM
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Let's say your boyfriend is fucking that hot waitress over their behind your back. Okay, that is bad, yes? "OF COURSE" Now let's say he is doing it because he is confused about what he wants, and while he is confused, he figures, what the hell, might as well enjoy both pussies. Is that moral? "FUCK NO, that would be disgusting, I would dump him immediately!" So, you're cheating friend is disgusting, and her bf should dump her immediately? "OMG NO WTF YOU KNOW NOTHING ABOUT GIRLS!" .... and that …
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 12:06 AM
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Lotta comments about how this makes you "jaded on how you look at women" or "lost respect for women" or "I don't think I can find a real woman". No. These ARE real women. They are what they are. Embrace reality - girls fuck, guys fuck, we all fuck. Stop hating women for not having masculine traits - It is the SAME as feminists who hate men for not having feminine traits. Don't expect women to value honor, justice, meaning what they say, etc. They aren't Scarface, they don't have balls and they d…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 11:48 PM
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This is completely true. And it does not detract from the fact that Hank Moody has the single best manner of responding to shit-tests that I have ever seen on TV. The thing is, you may completely lack his wit, but if you have that attitude, that literally all female behavior is a giant JOKE, you don't need the ace quote or comeback. Season 4, a pretty bad season, had a very realistic portrayal of seducing a career woman, who is full out "I never stop working, men are distractions." He is a true …
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 11:33 PM
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The best advice, other than lawyer up, that anyone can ever give you, is "play the long game". If you want to be in the child's life, rather than just being daddy beta bucks from afar, then you need to play the long-game. Mastermind everything, never get emotional. Be cool, calm, collected, document everything, and always remember it is better to have her on your side than against you.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 11:21 PM
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Now kick yourself for not bringing home a girl from the concert
/r/askTRP08/11/13 10:30 PM
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I see a lot of people arguing about anger versus calm dominance. Both work if they come from the right place. There is no better or worse, there is only what will work for you. Anger is generally bad because the more you do it, the more it loses its power. If you are the type of guy who NEVER loses his calm, and then she flagrantly misbehaves, and you say "Listen. You're out of my house if you do this again, got it?" Stare her down. She feels your fury. She knows, without a doubt, you would ruth…
/r/askTRP08/11/13 10:29 PM
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"All of the social workers, courts, lawyers, news... were all horrified and outraged by the decision." Well, apparently they weren't. The only people outraged by the decision are the British, who have possibly more biased family courts than the US and Canada. He is an Austrian doctor, who speaks the language of his country, and is clearly all set up to be able to provide for his children. She has no real career path, no real place in Austria because she cannot speak the language, and no way of p…
/r/MensRights08/11/13 11:31 AM
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I'm not a woman, but I was feeling out my GF on this issue, and she actually had an idea that I hadn't thought about, but really made sense. The optimal course of action would be to see if you two can agree upon how you are going to split the resources. In a lot of these "taking half" type of cases, the person paying winds up with roughly 40% of the total net worth, because they pay both legal fees, court fees, and depending upon the state, the alimony / CS gets hijacked for about 7.5% by the sa…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/13 06:39 AM
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talk about appropriation
/r/MensRights08/11/13 03:45 AM
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Yeah, that's how I see it. If someone doesn't have the discipline required to not cheat, how are they going to have the discipline to do be a good life-long partner, father/mother to your kids, etc. It's really irrelevant whether its emotional or physical cheating, because both types mean that the cheating partner lacks discipline, which is a quality you need in a mate, whether female or male
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 03:11 AM
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Man I'm 28 and I learned that shit at age 17, but I still do it. As I've grown older, in many ways the crazy but hot girls have more appeal, because I have the knowledge / confidence to know I can just hit it and next it asap. Whereas as a youngster I was like "huh, so she is crazy as fuck but I don't want to lose someone that hot because I like how cool I look to my friends... oh well, I guess I better go take her out to dinner so that she stays with me!" Crazy girls are smart too. They know ho…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 12:36 AM
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Oh, I see what you're saying. I figured she was saying "not tiny" or "average" was her requirement, not pornstar level. Perhaps her personal standards are ridiculous given that she sounds past her prime, but the idea that girls should assess a guys finances and cock size is not out of line with RP ideas. If you're looking for an alpha who will hold it down sexually and secure you and your future children resources (which is the optimal strategy for females), then these two characteristics are wo…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 12:28 AM
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It's only minimal to zero if you have no game. And if you have no game, sticking to gonewild prevents you from ever developing it. I mean this is a stupid argument, because you can visit gonewild all you want and still go out too, there's no mutual exclusivity. But even the most BP gonewilders, the ones commenting and private messaging the girls... they still stand much more to gain from going out. Because a 1% chance at fucking a hot girl is still better than seeing a bunch of hot pictures. For…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 12:22 AM
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Yeah, in some places in Europe its the other way around. It's just completely arbitrary. Most women are socialized in general to think of dicks as gross (ironically, though, pussy's outer labia are basically designed to trap all the dirt / white stuff (the parallel to smegma) / vagina-expulsions, sweat, etc. So when you go down on a girl after the club... yeah. But everytime a guy is like 'I don't eat pussy on ONS' he is considered a monster. And this is also completely relative to country - in …
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 12:15 AM
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Well, technically, you could have an average dick size of 5.5 inches, with 50% of guys at 8.5 inches and the other 50% at 2.5 inches. The word average does not mean that the majority of data are at that average. Granted, everyone pretty much knows that dicks follow a bell curve, with most of them at the average, and then a small number on the very small or big end, so I agree her comment was kinda dumb. I think she meant to say something like "the majority of men who believe they are packing mas…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 12:07 AM
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Why? It's true. I wouldn't want to spend 2 weeks dating a girl and then finally get to sex and then realize "holy shit her pussy is too loose to feel anything!" A woman wants a sexually compatible partner, which means a guy who has a reasonable dick and knows how to use it. Better to find that out sooner, right?
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 12:03 AM
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I still support MR's overall goals, as things like the healthcare bias in Obamacare, vaginamony, extremely biased family courts / custody, and whatnot do need to be fixed from a top-down level. And men can influence these issues in one of two ways. 1) They can lobby, organize, opine on the internet, whine, and basically do what feminists to do change the laws / societal perception of these issues. Or 2) They can take the individualistic approach, meaning taking actions to prevail in this society…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 11:58 PM
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Imagine her face when she rechecked her post, imagining to see a bunch of supportive "OMG was an insecure asshole BF, you deserve better. Keep looking for a man, a real man would put up with all of this to have you!" and instead got dumped on.... As a side note, I prefer when RP focuses upon RP examples (like this), rather than the low-hanging fruit that is BP examples. This post contributes more value IMO than the "guy whose wife fucked 11 dudes" because there is so much BP in every pore of soc…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 11:35 PM
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What's your point? That gonewild is better than going out because there is no effort / time / money spend on gonewild?
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 11:24 PM
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You don't need the VIP or bottle service to pull. You just need the confidence that you would have if you were in the VIP. At the end of the day, the hamster works both ways. If she wants to get laid, and you roll up reasonably put together, dominant, etc, she will rationalize away. "He must be someone!" "He must be rich..." "OMG he probably knows where the sickest afterparty will be". Don't get fooled by the allure of VIP. It's no different than thinking money = game. By all means, OPs strategy…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 09:52 AM
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The flaw in his logic is that when someone does something indulgent and gets no punishment for it, they always do it again. Men and women too, this isn't a gender issue. If I was married and I could fuck the 19 year old neighbor and my wife would say "oh.. I am really hurt and disappointed, but you're right, you've been there for me for 10 years" then guess what I'm doing once a week. If I can fuck around on one business trip, then I'm fucking around on the next business trip, because there will…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 08:56 AM
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Exactly. You will see a higher caliber of girls at a nice club / party / bar etc on any given night. And with these girls, you actually have a chance to see it in person. It's just a cycle like you said, the guys go there, give away the attention, bust a nut, and then comment because it is the only communication they have with actual women, so they feel kinda cool.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 08:45 AM
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Ambition, pride, realism, self-worth... You can have all the right theory being put into your head, but if you don't have those traits, you will never do anything. If I have a friend who has a good amount of those above traits, but they are mindfucked into believing this blue pill, provide for others and STFU, be mediocre nonsense, I will try to convince them. After all, someone indoctrinated them with this philiosophy - they weren't born with blue pill ideas. This means that putting good inform…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 11:59 PM
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Everytime I hear the word 'toxic masculinity', I know I'm reading a pile of dogshit. It's just a lazy way to say "I don't like men being proud of their maleness. Men shouldn't be men."
/r/MensRights06/11/13 11:46 PM
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Next they are going to say that men have to sit with their legs tightly together on trains, or something like that. Oh wait.
/r/MensRights06/11/13 11:42 PM
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This question has been something I've meditated over for 8 years or so with different girls. I worked as a PT out of college and so I saw some women have amazing transformations. Most, however, had a beta bucks husband at home who would pay for their sessions, and they would come to me and talk about how their husband was a dick who was mean about their weight, and how they couldn't help eating, etc. Most women in relationships cannot be fucked to lose weight, they just can't. Why? Because secur…
/r/askTRP06/11/13 11:14 PM
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Quit overanalyzing social media shit. The way to converse with her over twitter is to get off twitter, and interact with her. She's in your class and she knows who you are, you know who she is. Go talk to her.
/r/askTRP06/11/13 12:41 AM
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Get away from the sterotypes. There's spoiled, entitled women who are low income and feminine, pleasant women who are high income. Basically, a woman's net worth should not be a consideration for her eligibility as a mate - her character, her looks, her biological value, and her hamster size determine that. I dated a female lawyer when I was broke out of college. She did not wear the pants because she was richer. Think about the concept of beta bucks - having the bucks did NOT give the guy any p…
/r/askTRP05/11/13 10:49 PM
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Yeah. I've had women who are like 25-27 be OK and even enthusiastic about a threesome, and then completely shut down and say PLEASE NO THAT'S WRONG when it's some young 19 year old. At first I was like, ok, they are worried that it would be "taking advantage of the girl" because of what society says... But then I realized what it was. They knew that the 19 year old would be a trade up for me. A beautiful 19 year old with less indoctrination and less time to do the whole "young girl in the city, …
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 09:56 PM
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Yes, this is the thing people don't get about poly. You goddamn better be the one in the driver's seat, with a rock solid frame and dominance in the relationship if you get into polyamory. You better also have the game to make use of your freedom. There's no going back. It's only ideal if you are ready to dump the relationship if you feel it isn't serving you.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 09:44 PM
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Sometimes I think guys actually have a more powerful hamster than girls. "She made me feel guilty for being sad when she was out getting DP'd" like how the fuck can you rationalize that? How is this guy not thinking "Okay, so during this open phase you fucked 11 people, I fucked 2. I'm going to fuck 9 more and THEN maybe I'll think about "closing this relationship" like you want." I mean, ok, that was a rhetorical question I know the answer. But the hamstering required to not see what is right b…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 09:39 PM
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kids who will most certainly be taking their mother's name
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 11:24 AM
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I used to share your sentiment. How can I feel pride in men, when I see men being so subservient, so pathetic? How can I love myself for who I am if I know that my kind are screwing up one of the greatest countries ever conceived? How can I reconcile my love of America with the horrible things America does? The answer is simple. True individualism - you do not think about the qualities of your group. Just as nationalism can be unhealthy and lead to dogmatism, racism, jingoism, etc, so can identi…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 11:21 AM
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Great way to find out who to unfriend, lol. Did you see the comments on that article, absolutely disgusting
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 06:29 AM
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Of course. I wasn't talking about that at all. Where did I say anything pertaining to whether or not a broke alpha could score? Finances has nothing to do with seduction unless you're a tool who relies on it. I'm talking about the drive to improve one's position, to become the top dog in whatever your life's pursuit is. Alpha types will naturally seek out different career types, environments and opportunities, and often be willing to take the immediate financial hit if it means more opportunitie…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 06:27 AM
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Fair enough, I was reading from a small sample of what the whole story is. Some girls are just the equivalent a beta male, like sexually boring, but overall well-intentioned and sweet enough. They blind themselves to how they are slowly losing their man in his prime, just like many dudes do.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 10:04 PM
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Completely true. I was commenting on the fact that mainstream news sites tend to promote the idea that deadbeat dads are these "rich/greedy" caricatures who could pay, yet don't want to. People have this idea that CS means "oh, I can't get a benz this year" rather than "well I earn 20k a year, and after all the bullshit I have 10k a year left."
/r/MensRights04/11/13 10:00 PM
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Man you can't talk her into seeing you as the guy she wants to fuck her brains out. You can't lecture her about how she should change, so that she initiates sex on you. You want her to make you feel attractive? What? BE attractive, feel attractive yourself, and she will follow. Want her to initiate sex? Initiate sex on her, dominate the bedroom, then distance yourself. Back off a little after mindblowing sex, do your own thing. The next day, you'll be watching TV and she will just hop on and sta…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 09:08 PM
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Honest question not troll - do you think if you had someone you respected as a friend call you out on this and explain "Buddy, look at how you're had your masculinity stripped, you need to step up and do better" or something, it would have made a difference? Or would you have just been like "fuck off, you're wrong." We can hamster to ourselves, but seeing the way our bullshit looks to an external, objective party can often provide the perspective needed to make a change.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 09:02 PM
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Men advising men has always been a historically important phenomena. Think Aristotle teaching Alexander. You have an opportunity to advise them, give them a bro to bro talk. You cannot change their fate though. Once someone is "gone" to betaness, they are generally completely gone. I don't try to save them, it is an addiction and I can't help them. No point getting dragged down, but you also can make the best of your "advice". You usually only get 2-3 chances to make your point before the friend…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 08:58 PM
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I may be alone in this, but I think you can never change a guy into an alpha. That by default would make him not one. A guy has to do it himself, whether consciously or subconsciously. He has to seek out challenges and grow his confidence and desire to be the top dog. Most guys just don't have that drive - they are satisfied to be in the middle of the pack and don't have a burning ambition to be a leader of men, dominant, or have iron confidence. They are served well enough by being the funny gu…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 07:43 PM
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This has to be fake, this guy hamsters harder than any woman I've ever met.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 07:27 PM
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"You don't work for YOU, you work for society." "You don't marry for YOU, you marry for HER." A man's only value is what he contributes to others. His happiness should come only when he has produces that same happiness in someone else tenfold. And if he realizes down the road his time, his money, his creations, his love has been looted, he should be grateful that he could be of service. It's just the same old creed of selflessness. It's bullshit. A man deserves to pursue his own happiness, and i…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 07:22 PM
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I'm pretty old school, I was into Jeffries way back in the day. This is like the true cringe shit, the NLP / salesman game. It appealed to me because I was fat at the time, but I figured I was extremely intelligent. This old school stuff was all about "you can be a fat Starcraft nerd and emerge from your cave, weave your mental spiderweb of game, catch some prey, and retreat back to the basement." In short, it was all bullshit. But the confidence that I had some special power that no one else kn…
/r/askTRP04/11/13 07:06 PM
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50th law is fucking awesome too. Robert Greene is really keyed in to the idea of life as a power game, in which the winners know how to play it for the long term. Love 48 Laws too. Reading Mastery now, a little long but good too
/r/askTRP04/11/13 06:50 PM
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In my state if you are LATE on a payment, they immediately suspend your drivers license. The normal fee for reinstating your drivers license is around $50 or so, but its $135 if it was suspended due to child support issues. It's just a way for the state to profiteer off poorer men, the ones more likely to miss payments. If you had trouble paying child support or alimony, how the hell is a $135 fine plus a late fee on the CS plus having your license suspended going to help you pay the CS? Then yo…
/r/MensRights04/11/13 06:45 PM
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Apparently in Canada they have legalesed their way around that - lots of people are bringing up the case of Dave Foley, who basically was assigned a massive alimony, experienced a reduction in his income, and then was jailed because he didn't meet the alimony amount. Next time the compounded alimony was due, he had been in jail, so he was unable to meet it again. Rinse and repeat. They calculate alimony based off of expected earnings / earning potential, not your current salary. Quitting your jo…
/r/MensRights04/11/13 06:40 PM
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Under Canadian law, if something happens to him like he randomly starts a successful company and becomes a millionaire, can she sue to increase alimony? I'm sure she can. How on earth can people justify allowing the woman to sue for more if the ex-husband's income goes up after marriage, but not allowing the alimony to go down if the husband cannot earn the same income...
/r/MensRights04/11/13 06:33 PM
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It's only a big deal if you make it a big deal. Girls are too anxious about their own imperfections to give a shit about your imperfections. But you can lose the flab. Diet and exercise man. Commit to 1 diet plan for 3 months and keep tinkering with calories until you find the amount required for you to lose a steady 1 lbs per week. Accept that the first month will not produce great results, but rather identify the caloric values necessary to produce the right results in the following months.
/r/askTRP04/11/13 07:03 AM
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How did the courts determine the 83% value? Did the court overcount how much he earns when calculating his alimony? Or is this typical for Canada?
/r/MensRights04/11/13 06:57 AM
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Honestly I have no idea. Part of RP ideology is DO NOT listen to your GF's or women's advice for how you should be in relationships. If he is ... cultish about this RP stuff, he may have the kneejerk reaction of "this is a shit test, TURN UP THE ALPHA BRO". I would just be honest. Tell him what you think, maybe show him this post. If he freaks out, then you at least know he isn't the guy for you. If he is like "huh, I guess I have turned into a bit of a caricature, maybe I'll tone it down, I don…
/r/askTRP04/11/13 03:41 AM
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You want to never take anything seriously. It is just a shit test. She knows goddamn why she isn't dating that guy, even if she cannot verbalize it. She is basically saying "OP, I like you but I also have these irrational, societally-implanted urges to only be happy if my BF buys me Prada. Please clear up the contradiction for me and demonstrate why I should be ecstatic to have you, as my brain cannot take the conflict of society versus reality". Do you understand? Ignoring is not optimal becaus…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 01:52 AM
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It was almost like he was patting himself on the back for getting a girl to love him because it validated all of his new ideologies This is basically it. I mean, we all do it to some degree, especially when we are young and not centered in who we are / what we believe. The line is drawn around the point of patting yourself on the back versus needing others to pat you on the back because your own back-patting is not quite enough.
/r/askTRP04/11/13 01:26 AM
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It's better than hovering. When in doubt, mentally bitchslap yourself for being "in doubt", and just put your hand SOMEWHERE on her, before she notices that you were being a bitch. If you comfortably and non-nervously plant your hand on her waist, she may think in her mind "oh that's kinda weird, well oh well he thinks its normal and cool, so it probably is".
/r/askTRP03/11/13 09:58 PM
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There are two ways to do something like this. 1) the better way - DIVE THE FUCK IN, 100%. 2) the slow and steady way, take baby steps. Since you choose not to do 1), then do 2). Make slow progress. One of the cruelest pains in live is to KNOW somethiing is right in your head, but to not have the testicular fortitude to act on it. It's torture. For example, if you watch TV all day because you are ignorant about what you could accomplish, that is not so bad. But if you watch TV all day, while simu…
/r/askTRP03/11/13 09:48 PM
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Short answer: TRP is an attempt to be objective, and with all objective ideas, it's how you use it. Like all fields of self-development, it's all on you which direction you choose to develop in. Christianity is an ethical framework by and large, much of the bible is good life lessons for conducting a moral life, yet you can use that framework to justify evil and good. If that sounds like a cop out to you, the good old "no information is ethical or not, it's how you use it", then fine, it is. Her…
/r/askTRP03/11/13 09:28 PM
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What the hell. Anything, hips, shoulder, waist, etc would be less awkward than this photo. Use common sense, this isn't RP, this is just basic sense. It's like asking "What is the correct RP way to do a handshake?" There is none - you just shake the fucking hand. Same concept. Hand -> skin.
/r/askTRP03/11/13 09:11 PM
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Fuck 5 other girls, hell even 1 or 2, and then see how you still feel about this one. Chances are when you have actual options, the following will happen. You will have casual sex with her then leave, and she will start to get a little clingy. You will say "hey, you're cool and all, but we agreed that fucking other people was a-ok." You are expendable. And you should be fine with that - expendable is the definition of casual sex. Come to terms with that (getting some new action helps massively w…
/r/askTRP03/11/13 08:22 PM
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I don't believe in day 2 or playing for the long game or whatever. Fuck that. I didn't come to the club today to fuck tomorrow or next week. And neither did the girls - they didn't spend 2 hrs in front of the mirror to have me call them the next day when they are sweating at the gym with no make-up on. IMO, and this is just me, you can do whatever you want, the only attitude to have is "Always be closing". ABC. It's what defines an alpha to me - my time is valuable, I don't waste it. I would rat…
/r/askTRP03/11/13 08:18 PM
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Any guy who is talking about how he is "alpha" to his girl, aka he needs to verbalize why his way of doing things is right, just to make sure you get it... Does not get it. My younger friends who get into this stuff for example, they have to keep subcommunicating to the other bros and even girls that they "get it", that they have this special knowledge that puts them on another level. This is infallible proof of their mediocrity. Generally guys who introduce their GF to all this red pill, pick u…
/r/askTRP03/11/13 07:39 PM
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All these replies telling you "SHE'S GOING TO CHEAT BRO, YOU ARE DELUSIONAL AND STUPID" really show you how far RP has to come. There's some serious BP replies here, like full betahood. "My gf cheated on me, which means you can't ever trust your girl." No. You can lock down a girl and make it virtually impossible that she cheats. If you're value is that high - and that is what RP is shooting for - then you can make it very unlikely that a girl will cheat on you. It is beta as fuck to come up to …
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 10:44 AM
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it's foreign women, not necessarily asian. And while I do not agree with that - (foreign women hamster and shit test too, they are not docile forever) - I see the attraction. Western women who are too indoctrinated with feminism are usually not great LTR candidates. But you are delusional if you think all Asian women are perfect / submissive
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 10:32 AM
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I would say I differ in that I think that men are generally composed of masculine and feminine qualities and women are too. It's just maybe 65/35 for men, and 35/65 for women. From this sub you get the idea that a man must be 99% masculine all the time, but I think the right combination of masculine and feminine traits is optimal for most pursuits. It's the ying and yang concept. Most women are not pure concentrated feminine essence - although on occasion they love being reduced to it. They have…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 10:28 AM
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The moment you realize that shit-tests are eternal and the best way to deal with them is to learn to honest-to-god LOVE them, you will have fully taken the red pill. Women are hard-wired to shit test. Because there is nothing quite like feeling a man pass it, it is like a miniature orgasm for a woman. Imagine a cold, grey sea of betas, constantly getting butthurt or defensive or annoyed or even just having their pupils dialate, forced into their own heads every time you try to 'flirt' with them.…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 09:21 AM
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Yeah family guy has WAY too many bashes on feminism, direct and indirect, to fit in one thread. That whole episode where Peter turns into a mangina and it takes him seeing Lois + some other girl in a wet catfight to turn him back was hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 11:03 PM
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Yeah, it's the same old "the only way a man can ever be confident and promiscuous is if he was damaged from a young age and carries around this huge, gaping wound that makes him a pitiable character"
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 10:37 PM
5

It does. Non-monogamy can be great. With the right frame - and when a woman is the one pushing for non-monogamy because she "just cannot stand the thought of being tied down, it's just nature teehee" it's the wrong fucking frame. Non-monogamy is horrible for a woman or a man if they know they are getting the shit end of the deal, but feel like they would lose him/her if they spoke up about it. Recently there was a thread "If I lose alpha status, can I ever regain it?" If you agree to let your wi…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 08:48 AM
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It is a massive circlejerk, basically, in the truest sense of the word. Big agriculture fattens people the fuck up, the government produces these shitty studies about how you should drink milk and eat massive amounts of grains, and then big pharma is in heaven, as you have a country of people who are not only fat as fuck, but raised to know nothing of health. Meaning they can be sold any expensive pill, surgery, etc. Each party is jerking the other off and the average joe who eats his "heart-hea…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 07:44 AM
2

The point he was making was not "you should eat conventional cheap meats and bulk beans all day". It was IF YOU ARE POOR, you can still get a reasonable nutrient profile for cheap. Trash-fed pork, black beans, rice, and the cheapest veggies is not OPTIMAL, but if you are poor as fuck and spending your money at McDonalds, it's a giant improvement and cheaper too.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 07:39 AM
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There's no such thing as a free lunch. I wish people would understand that - poor people and college students have this attitude where if they see food that's cheap or free, they have to go all out. But you're paying for it, you always are. The people I see going to costco and buying like 100$ of food and then returning it after the devour the pizza and cakes, you are paying for it up the ass. The time-cost of pulling off the operation is time spent not improving your life. The knowledge that yo…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 07:35 AM
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Find your own data. Not saying this to be an ass, but it is irrelevant to your situation if "someone ELSE has managed to regain their alpha status". It's only important if YOU can. I will say though that it is never the same. This is why you have to actually BE A MAN. You cannot fake it, because one slip up, and it's never the same. Think about it - if you thought you had this great GF and then she cheated on you, but then repented and vowed to be a great GF again for as long as she lived, would…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 07:19 AM
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You'll never find a true alpha male on TV in this decade, never. I thought with Hank Moody on Californication, I was like "Holy shit, these writers get it, this dude is actually it." But it turns out he is basically caught in a lifelong chase to win a 40 year old hamster-baby mama, instead of having his pick of more talented, way more attractive, young starlets. Still probably the best example of someone who will not defer to female or societal authority, ever. But yeah Modern Family is disgusti…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 07:03 AM
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You can take the good advice or find random things to argue about. The fact that you are posting this means that you do not "already know" what Mcmurphy was trying to tell you.
/r/askTRP01/11/13 06:52 AM
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This is true for waiters for sure. Most of the shitty waiters I get are hot chicks - ugly girls and guys tend to realize that they will get 10% or less if they don't refill the water and have a good attitude.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 10:21 AM
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Women, like men, are capable of amazing things and horrible things. They can be truly heroic in the way they face the world. Or they can be disgusting, like so pathetic that it makes you sick. No different than guys in this regard. A girl can spend her whole life developing her abilities to get a free dinner, a free ride, a free house, a free alimony, etc by scheming and backwards rationalizing. She can also spend that same energy devoted to perfecting a skill, and create far more value for hers…
/r/askTRP31/10/13 08:45 AM
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Never use your career / studies as an excuse for not doing what you want to do. You're right, you've put the money in, so you might as well get the degree. Beyond that, you're life is yours to life. You don't have to be a workaholic to produce enough income to make back your debt and create a decent living. You have be a workaholic to be in the top %, to make the real killing, but that doesn't seem like your goal - you will not become a top tier surgeon if you're heart is in starting a family. T…
/r/askTRP31/10/13 08:31 AM
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You need to read the context. She was saying I would be "sticking my dick into a skank heap" and getting STDs, so I was saying condomed sex is safe with regards to getting STDs. I specified in my post she isn't, and wouldn't be allowed to have sex with other guys, which despite being a double standard, is her choice.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/13 06:09 AM
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Exactly. Why is it when someone says "I'm going to go hook up with foreign women" everyone assumes "RAW DOGGING IT WITH PROSTITUTES!"
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 07:52 PM
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Yes. Fountainhead too. If you read it without getting butthurt by it's frankness or caught up in it's political ideas, both books will basically laser in on whatever "beta" traits you still possess and say "quit making excuses for yourself, don't let yourself be mediocre."
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 07:48 PM
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I don't give a fuck about the public vs private (socialism versus cronyism) debate. Whether it's a corp. that has the power to steal shit because they are paying off the government, or the government itself doing the looting, it's all the same. AS was MORE of a criticism of "capitalism turned into cronyism" than it was a criticism of socialism itself. With regards to the topic of alimony, the analogy would be that, yes, it is the ex-wife who is performing the theft, but it's the government (bias…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 07:45 PM
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Layne Norton's PHAT is a phenomenal workout plan. Just follow it to the T for 1 whole year if you are completely new (and if you are a veteran, you can do wtf you want). Do not look at Tnation, do not look at CT fletcher, just put in your 5 days of PHAT and eat right. You will gain disgusting strength and size. Whatever you choose, if you are a beginner DO NOT BE ADHD. This is the #1 mistake guys made in college, myself included. We all would do Wendler for a month, then Arnold's plan, then Dori…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 08:41 AM
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No point. The most fun part of a relationship is when you get to know them and you find out all the little things about them. Being RP doesn't mean you don't enjoy the thrill of getting to know people. At the end of the day, after all the sex and the games and the shit tests, getting to know someone new and experiencing their personality without "knowing" all of the answers is all there is.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 08:32 AM
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This is a good lesson for life. If you are being exploited for anything at all, it is by your own consent. You chose to give your time and affection freely, as if they were worth nothing. Guys coming in here who are bitter at women, take heed. They aren't to blame for "leading you on" or "friendzoning you". You put yourself in the friend-zone and you sanctioned the one-sided relationship that happened. When you accept this responsibility and take full blame, you can then withdraw that sanction. …
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 08:22 AM
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It is a shit-test if we assume that you are as you say, not abusive. You can tell by body language. When you come on too hard to a girl in the club and she is actually freaked out, she will react in an instinctive, threatened manner, which immediately lets you know that you are coming across as a dude released from jail who hasn't fucked in 2 years. It's very clear - humans are like that, if she is feeling PHYSICALLY threatened, you'll know and you will have a "goddamnit I'm dumb why'd I do that…
/r/askTRP30/10/13 08:09 AM
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Can we all agree to quit giving this piece of human filth free publicity? Ignore, ignore, ignore. His living is based upon shocking people, no different than Ann Coulter or any other troll.
/r/MensRights30/10/13 07:53 AM
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It sucks that you basically have to pay for an overpriced service that no one should need, because the law SHOULD be cut and dry enough for you to defend yourself. But you're guilty until proven innocent here, and innocence unfortunately requires $$$ to prove. Beg for the money. Ask your boss for extra shifts. Get a second job. Rent out your living room. Ask your family and friends. Sell everything you have. Your potential for lost wages due to being incarcerated is FAR higher than 10k or whatev…
/r/MensRights30/10/13 06:36 AM
0

BB is a show - it flirts with a lot of themes, a lot of conservative / libertarian ideas even, and a lot of various versions of masculinity, and how various characters perceptions of masculinity are both liberating and damning. But it doesn't espouse one philosophy - perhaps other than the idea of "ambition catches up with you". Just like WW is not a conservative hero simply because he is very "no handouts, I work for every cent I make, charity is shameful," BB does not "espouse toxic masculinit…
/r/MensRights30/10/13 06:28 AM
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Reminds of that one part in Atlas Shrugged where that Oil guy, I forget his name, is demanded by the government to yield his oil fields and machinery to the state. He burns everything and leaves a note saying "I've left it as I found it. Take it, it's yours."
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 05:09 AM
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