Question.

I was reading a post in /asktrp and one of the commenters had a statement that was pretty enlightening to me.

"Most women love sex. Almost all women enjoy when men come onto them and make moves on them. What they don't like is when the man mirrors their own insecurity, shame, givafuckitis, and fear of rejection back to them in any way. If he steps his toe into that kind of frame of mind......their "fun" goes right out the door. What they don't like is when they feel desperate for responding to him."

I think that I'm starting to truly understand TRP and getting past the idea of scoring a bunch of chicks, rather, becoming a higher-valued man in the present day. "You build it and they will come."

So I question — would you say that some qualities of a beta male are that of an immaturity in manhood and that immaturity is seen by some women as weakness. I always hear women complaining about how they don't want to be someone's fuckin mom. Is being a healthy, well-adjusted man, with passion, intrigue, drive, and confidence really what women desire? Do women want a man — not necessarily a dickhead or asshole? The tendencies of a dickhead or asshole somewhat mirror confidence and self value, but do those people have drive, passion, and are they intriguing and exciting?

I'm wondering if women really want a strong man. No games, no fuss, straight forward and knows what he wants in life and won't settle for shit. Does what he wants to do, does it really fuckin well, and is at the top of his game. A guy who will stand up for what he values. Doesn't take things too seriously but they can tell he is a boss when he needs to be.

Am I starting to get it? Am I progressing out of my blue pill self because I'm starting to realize if I get my shit together then the chick doesn't matter. I'm what matters. I just want to see if she compliments me and what I want to achieve in life.