I've been with a girl for the last 2 years. Monogamous relationship, she's quite redpill and so it works well. She's quite different from the others, i know i'm talking like i have oneitis, but the main difference it's that i don't have her on a pedestal. However since i started swallowing, i noticed something that could be improved.

She smokes, i dont. She knows i hate when she smokes when we're together.

One week ago we were visiting a small village in northern italy. Medieval town, on the side of a lake, really interesting, and we were having a great time.

Then suddendly she asks if she can smoke only one cig.

My answer? "NO".

She was surprised, i usually would've told her to smoke and that i didn't gave a fuck (not true).

This time i stood still. She tried blaming me of ruining our afternoon together, tried to buy me with "special sex", bluffed she was gonna go home and didn't after i called the bluff. I kept calm, joked, went for a drink while leaving her alone outside. After 30 seconds she was sitting with me. I kept teasing her and played it funny.

Just before leaving she says "well i'm gonna smoke i don't care what you say". I just turned around and started walking to the car without waiting for her. She ran after me, started saying i was making her feel bad, and threw away the cig right after she started it. I kept silent while she said she was sorry, and after a while on the way home i told her i was not gonna tolerate this behaviour anymore. She agreed and said she would've listened to me next time.

Fast forward one week. Yesterday evening i brought her to a great event, we were having fun, and she said "by the way, i didn't bring cigarettes". I was so fucking happy. She never tried asking someone for one, she didn't try to gain something for doing what i wanted. She just did what i wanted and seemed to respect my decision.

Say no guys. It works. It's never too late.

Edit: damn, behavior instead of behaviour :(