Hello all, today I am here because I am at a loss in not only what to do, but I am unsure whether the situation is salvageable or not. Been reading TRP for several years now and I am now in a LTR trying to apply these principles for the first time.

So far we have been dating for a little over 6 months, we met at work, she was my indirect supervisor and after a couple months of dating I left for a different job. We spend a majority of our time together outside of work and so far the relationship has been very quality.

The snags have started right around the time of us deciding to move in together, our sex life has decreased dramatically. Now, this could also be in part because she just got a promotion at work and literally has been working around the clock. So when she gets home, little of her attention is given to me. Typically I am the initiator of sex and i think this has been my downfall. I may have overplayed the "aggressive male" card, initiating sex frequently. Now though, her attentions have been lackluster and I have not pursued anything.

So this girl is pretty smart and very perceptive so I find playing mind games with her quite challenging. Over the past couple of days I have disengaged myself and shown minimal interest to her. Problem is, i think she knows what I am trying to do. She is a very independent woman and I think this has been a drastic change from my typical women, which is why I am unsure how to handle this situation.

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Should I continue remaining distant until she initiates anything sexual? Tell her i feel my needs arent being met and that I dont want to move in? Just go ahead and fuck her anyways and stop playing games?