I think that's the term you folks use.

I dont seem to command a lot of sexual interest from the majority of women (ioi's, flirting, etc), however the ones who do express interest in me are objectively very attractive.

I feel if I'm attractive enough to date/sleep with good looking girls, I should be turning quite a few heads. Or perhaps, I'm unknowingly pushing them away..

Is there a litmus test to get a grasp of "where I'm at", so to speak?

As always, thanks