Out of the 30+ girls I’ve gotten numbers from (cold approach) I’ve ended up meeting with 4 of them.

I think it’s gotta do with my approach in setting up the date (keep in mind I build a little rapport first and messages are usually 1:1)

Things I’ve tried:

1) Telling them “Meet me at X on Y day at Z time” about 1/3 of the time they’ll say that time doesn’t work for them but Y day will. Ill text them on that day and something came up outta nowhere. I tell them “cool, lmk when you’re free and we’ll meet up sometime” and next until she does

2) Saying “Hey you free X or Y day? We should meet up and get coffee” to which they’ll say they’re busy with school\work or whatever and I tell them to hit me up when they’re free, they never do.

3) Most recently (girl I helped at my on campus job): telling her I’d like to meet up sometime and she said she’d shoot me a text when she comes back on campus. This was 3 days ago and classes are online so I doubt she’ll come back anytime soon let alone remember to text.

Does anyone have any better suggestions? I know some girls are gonna flake no matter what but some of them seemed pretty interested until when it comes to meet up and they bail.