Still can't stand the "you need to reply" as fast as I can when doing texting

It's different when it comes to messaging in swipe apps or dating sites, I try not to surpass a day without replying. It generally goes well but if I reply after a day or 2, they just disappear

Wtf is up with that. Message platforms are for messaging, I wish it can just be like crows taking our letters back and forth so I don't have to pull my hair getting all anxious because of the need to "reply" instantly. It's a fucking waste of time and it drains my brain energy lol.

Especially in texting. So what I'm trying to do, is either compliment or send back open-ended positive statements such as "that's sexy." and try not to start a convo.

But I feel like I'm running out of ideas. Ping texts only work for semi orbiters, such as sending them photos of a random dog, ice cream etc. but it can also be time-consuming.

For longer known plates, and I'm not sure if it's just me or them but I'm trying my best not to converse through text. I'd rather call and talk with the Bluetooth while I do my shit or do work when I actually see them.

I should just probably put it out there, I'm just a fuckboy atm let's converse when I can be on a call. But that's not so subtle.

Do people literally be on their phones 24/7?

The worse is when they send you photos, material, or paragraphs of text. It feels like I have to compensate and write a long paragraph to match theirs. I like getting their sexy photos but sometimes it's just distracting, especially if they try to get you to expect that you need to complement it, every single time. The worst are the ones who haven't had no-co dependency training or

Okay, I sound like an ass but I'm also here to do work and sometimes I just can't be bothered, leave me alone for a moment. But at the same time, I don't want them to break from lousy texting, time management...

Is this something that I really need to invest in? Or can I just form a mindset that I only reply with one or two sentences? Or is this something that I need to subtly social engineer between us? When I do find a girl whose, not a text fiend, she would literally have a similar mindset, she'll get bombarded with messages but she chooses and prioritizes. Funny enough, I have a harder time getting them from my experience.