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[–]TRPCops[M] [score hidden] 6 years ago stickied comment (0 children) | Copy Link
Perma banned per apollos remarks. Appeal in MODMAIL.
[–]fart_699 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
quit making excuses
[–]heretherenowthen4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I'm 5'6"....and I've had quite attractive partners in the past.
That being said, yes, it is obviously more difficult.
And yes, height is more important than muscles, but does it matter which is more important? You have to deal with the cards you're dealt.
I lift, i'm ambitious, I've been told I have a good sense of humor, and I consider myself humble and confident. This isn't an attempt to show off as I have tons of flaws too. But my point is there are so many other factors that go into whether or not a girl will give you a chance. Height is a major factor, sure. But there are so many other areas and if you can do exceedingly well in these other areas, then it sure as hell helps make up for the lack of height.
[–]twinpeakhotel666-1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
yes but the taller guy doesn’t have to do shit but be tall. when you’re short you have to do everything in the book to be looked at. unless you have a 9-10/10 face, but even then the discrepancy cant be too great.
[–]heretherenowthen2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah I acknowledge being tall is easier, although you're exaggerating when you say don't have to do shit. I can tell you firsthand when I go clubbing with my best friend who is significantly taller than me, I get better results than him. Why? Because I'v eapproahced enough where I no longer have any fear and I am more confident. So, again, yes, height makes things signficantly easier, definitely. But I don't think it just means you dno't ahve to do shit. Also, specifically when it coems to relationships, if you're tall but don't have a well developed personality, you're much more screwed tahn a shorter guy with a better personality. Imagine a tall needy guy VS a shorter guy who is more independent, ambitiou etc. One will be able to be in a much healthier relationship.
Secondly, I don't get the focus on this. Becuase we don't control our height. We can alll copmlain about that type of stuff. "Oh, my life would be easier if I looked like Zac Efron" Well yeah, no shit it would. BUt our job is to make our lives as good as possible with what we are given. For the betterment of ourselves, those around us, and society at large.
[–]heretherenowthen1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You are right the tall guy has it easier though. Again I'm not disputing that. I actually think its a good thing that I as a short guy has to work harder. It forces me to develop myself more :).
In fact, there is a very popular PUA instructo rwho said often times, its his 5'7" shorter students that end up exceeding his taller students because they had to develop themsleves more to overcome the adversity.
[–]Protocol_Apollo3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
u/Dboy2233 meet u/TRPCops
This guy is an ask-hole, black piller and has previously had a 14 day ban for...you guessed it....black pill.
[–]TRPCops[M] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thx perma banned. He can appeal in modmail
[–]fillorkill6624 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This post is nonsense. Height is definitely an advantage but it’s not everything.
[–]Sergelano2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Water is wet, looks and height is the most important factor in attraction.
Personality, confidence, game and money come after that shit.
[–]Dboy22330 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It’s crazy man women’s standards getting beyond belief. Sooner or later if your not a 6’5 nfl or mba player you won’t even get looked at. Tinder and bumble has seriously fucked the game up. Leaving a very good bit of men to end up with their dicks in their hand the rest Of their life
[–]heretherenowthen0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're not wrong that in the days of Instagram/Tinder and other dating apps women's expectations have become increasingly ridiculous.
So for most men, dating apps work against us. However, if you can make it into the top 10% category on dating apps (not by just looks, bu ta good bie, displaying being a high value perosn, etc) then all of a sudden dating apps will work in your favor.
But yeah it does suck and i'm not disagreeing with you. I do think you're exaggerating though. Again, think about what you cna improve on, not what isn't changeable. I get the feeling you may be using this as an excuse to not bother tryign to become a high value male.
[–]beigesun1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’ve seen plenty of short swole alphas bro, get to work
[–]LucidBananna1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So you’ve never seen a women with any men besides like less than 4 percent of the population? Dude you know that isn’t true and sounds stupid af lol. Also it doesn’t matter if it matters more or not you can’t change your height you can certainly put on muscle.
[–]Dboy2233-1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
To get mogged by a 6’4 dude who hasn’t touched a weight in his life Lmaoo.
[–]tikitheman1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Cant fix height can fix muscles soooo fix muscles and shut the fuck up.
exactly!
[–]throwthisTFaway010 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Money over height and muscles. If not you might have to just pull a Tory Lanez
[–]Darkknight54220 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Lol all these guys will say you’re making excuses like little robots when you defy the unbreakable codeee.
But yeah as a dude who is 5’9 in the African American community I’ve noticed the pattern also man. But they’re right in that fact that it’s an advantage, no the end all be all. In my opinion, in our culture the flashiest things and tall athletes seems to set you apart from other guys. Accomplishments, intelligence, and responsibility falls at the waste side. Media and pop culture is who you can thank for that. But all in all man remember it’s an advantage like being educated is an advantage and being fit is an advantage. I got a friend who devotes less effort in pulling girls cause he was lucky enough to have a tall dad fuck a tall woman. They just look up with a huge grin and ask how tall he is in awe lol. Dude is 26, plays video games all day, and been in school for about 6 yrs still working on a 4 yr degree and living with his parents. Lol just a big advantage man.
Yep you can sit around on your ass all day but If your 6’6 it doesn’t matter bitches get wet over that shit.
So? What is your point man? Guys ignore ugly women all the time. It's the same damn thing but in reverse.
Or do you go out of your way to talk to ugly women?
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