This won't be personal about myself as my wife knows I'm on Reddit and don't want to reveal too much about my own RP discovery to her just yet suffice to say, I/she/we are good.

Tomorrow night I am meeting up with a friend who is going through a tough time and possible break up of his marriage (wont say the D word yet, but not far off on this trajectory). I'd like to recommend to him some good resources for him to deal with his current situation, ideally that will give him strength to get through the next phase of his life.

They are: Married 5 years or so, 2 young kids. She is main bread winner (works in HR) He is a Chef (bad, bad hours in terms of family compatibility)

They have been up and down for the past couple years and kids did not help the situation. Only recently have our friends realised they had problems as a couple, and only once it got to the point of moving out etc.

He is not much into online research like myself so pointing him to a blog or "wordy" stuff is of no help. I was looking for youtube clips or podcasts that could speak to his sitch with a RP slant to try and get him to bunker down and try for one last attempt at salvaging something workable just for the sake of the kids and his own good self.

I will probably delete this original post after a day or so (as I said, my wife is on here and she is not ready for RP yet ;)

tldr: Help a brother to get his head right as the long term inevitable comes crashing down around his world.