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Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/15 04:02 PM
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I don't understand what flair is. Not a hardcore redditor. I found MRP through TRP simply because I've been reading Roissy and Rollo (and sometimes Doosh V) for the past few years. I like this sub and I think it is a great community for married guys. Bluepillprofessor, I like your podcasts. Your presentation is good. I have some ideas I'd like to PM you.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/15 05:17 AM
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I think Facebook is great if you're using it for business or marketing a product, otherwise it's mostly for chicks and faggots.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 10:52 PM
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They're all mine. If you say so. Though I don't think a man in your situation can say that with 100% certainty, unless a paternity test has been conducted. I'd refuse to punish any of them for the bad choices of others. So you'd be okay with potentially paying child support for another man's child?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/15 06:08 PM
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What I'm thinking is that she's been cheating on me with another guy from work What makes you think that? Besides her giving you the cold shoulder.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 05:47 PM
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Have you thought about getting paternity tests done to make sure that all those kids are actually yours?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/15 05:16 PM
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You can account for every single hour of her day? How? When you checked up on her in the past, what was it that made you suspicious?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/15 02:00 AM
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How do you know this for a fact?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 11:44 PM
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She's a great mom most of the time but she's a slut and acts like a fucking teenager. No. She's not actually a great mom... Blowing a random bouncer and fucking strangers from bars/internet when she should be at home with her children? Yeah, she's Mom of the year! You're right though, she is a slut and acts like a selfish teenager. Fuck waitressing and law school, she ingests so much cock already she should start charging. She's a horrible wife, that's for damn sure and probably has done a lot m…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 08:48 PM
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Dude, you're in college right now and you've tied yourself down in an LTR? The fuck? Wait til you're in your late 20's to do something like that. My advice to you is to plate this chick and then go plate some more. This is not the time for you to have a girlfriend.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 11:49 PM
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I agree with what you're saying, but you missed my point entirely... There is no reason for a wife to keep passwords/access to phones, email or social media accounts private. Since this is MRP and we are all aware of women's hypergamous nature and the fact that they don't hold the same qualities of honor, honesty and fidelity that men do, I thought it would go without saying. You have nothing to hide from your wife and she should have nothing to hide either. You can have an air of mystery and un…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/15 05:11 AM
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This made her more angry and she told me she'd be sleeping in another room that evening and she escalated her shit tests by saying "I was too naive to marry so early" and telling me she wouldn't wear her wedding band. partly as I want to make sure she's OK for our weekend trip next week, that's already been paid for. She said all that shit to you and you're still planning on taking her on a weekend getaway? Fuck that shit. What you should have done was laughed in her face during her little tempe…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/15 09:50 PM
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I think telling a wife who refuses sex that you're just going to go jack off seems pathetic... It doesn't inspire dread, instead it seems like it's almost trying to inspire sympathy from the wife. As someone mentioned before, it'd be a better move to just whip it out and jerk it all over her, but not saying anything at all and leaving to go do something else (without coming off as butthurt) is the right move. That inspires dread.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/15 06:09 PM
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Good stuff... Though in my opinion, there should be no such thing as "privacy" in a marriage. Everything should be shared between a husband and wife. This includes passwords/access to email accounts, social media, phones etc. If something needs to be kept "private" from your spouse, chances are it is something that will be detrimental to the marriage.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/15 05:13 PM
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She says: "all you ever want is sex" You say: "thats not true, I also want blowjobs" Never tell your wife you're going to just take care of yourself. If you have to do it, just do it without saying a word.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/15 05:53 AM
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Talking too much is always a bad move. You just go out and do what you want. Talking to her about your plans is almost like youre seeking her approval and women deep down hate that. If she's not down for you the way she used to be, go and find a new one who will be
/r/askTRP28/05/15 03:52 AM
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It is ok to care for a girl, but caring for a girl who is suddenly starting to turn on you and playing games is not ok. This guy is concerned with the way this girl is behaving so he came here for honest answers. The honest answers werent nice. If you want nice, check out r/relationships where everyone lies to each other and the hamster runs rampant. You may not like the truth, but it needs to be said. A lot of guys here have been burned by a woman in the past, so they know what to watch out for…
/r/askTRP28/05/15 01:44 AM
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So whats the problem? As a man with options you shouldnt care about her little phone games. What if she never contacts you again? Would you get all butthurt?
/r/askTRP28/05/15 12:31 AM
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"you shouldn't have done it all." Follow it up with: "Don't you ever fucking hit me again". Then find a new place to live as soon as you can and never make contact with this cunt again.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 11:51 PM
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When she talks to you, does she ever drop casual amusing anecdotes into the conversation about what a particular guy friend said/did?
/r/askTRP27/05/15 11:43 PM
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From 18 to 24 it is best to spin plates. Don't get tied down into a monogamous LTR before the age of 25.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 10:47 PM
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Am I pedestalizing her Yes, sounds like it. What are the chances she will change a lot in the next 7-8 years or so as she matures? Imagine one day 8 years from now her hamster wakes up and tells her that she's unhaaaappy because she missed out on the party cock carousel scene in her early 20's that all of her slut friends enjoyed. "I've never had a life! I never got to have a drunken Jizzillion cocks marathon! I never got to #YOLO!" She might start to resent you. After all, it is all your fault …
/r/askTRP22/05/15 10:11 PM
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I get a txt a few minutes later that she is going back to her home country (2000 miles away) Good riddance. Sounds like you'd be better off without her. Tell her to send you a postcard, you can read it while you're balls deep in one of your new plates.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/15 07:58 PM
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A lot of people who watch excessive amounts of porn report the same issues you're having. Depression, social anxiety, feeling disconnected from people/reality, laziness. All of those side effects will keep you from becoming the best version of yourself that you can be.
/r/askTRP21/05/15 11:03 PM
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Alcohol lowers your inhibitions.
/r/askTRP21/05/15 10:58 PM
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Stop watching porn, if you haven't already. Porn will seriously fuck you up.
/r/askTRP21/05/15 10:05 PM
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I don't really have much advice for high school other than don't let people disrespect you. If someone doesn't like you, what you do, or what you say, you shouldn't waste your time and energy trying to figure out why.
/r/askTRP21/05/15 06:26 PM
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Have you had sex with her? If not, then you really shouldn't care about what she says to you, or about responding to her. Instead focus your time and energy on a chick who isn't a complete cunt and wants to fuck you.
/r/askTRP21/05/15 06:22 PM
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You wanted to move on and now you're going back on what you wanted. Big mistake. Don't ever do this again. You do what you want to do always. Stop apologizing, stop everything. Don't contact her again. Delete her contact info. This is what you wanted after all.
/r/askTRP21/05/15 06:20 PM
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More info. Also, are you currently banging this chick? If not, who cares if she's pissed off.
/r/askTRP21/05/15 06:01 PM
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"Honestly, I'm not really into guys who do really immature things. I'm not stupid and naive, guys do their stupid little 'tbh' thing to hunt for girls. Which is fine you can do whatever you want to do. But it's kinda a major turn off when guys are that immature." Perfect responses: "lol" "K" "I'd buy that for a dollar" "Bring da moviez" Or no response at all, ever again. Who the fuck does she think she is?
/r/askTRP21/05/15 05:57 PM
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However my question is, will my history deter women from me? Nah. It's better to have a reputation as a player, than to have a reputation as a pussy. If you ever get questioned about it (which I doubt you will) just shrug it off. Don't confirm or deny anything and don't try to defend yourself. A&A works pretty well in this scenario.
/r/askTRP21/05/15 05:52 PM
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You call them and tell them to come pick you up because you're too drunk to drive. Have them go through the drive-thru to grab some food. Head some place where you can eat and then plow the puss. Then have her take you home and say goodnight.
/r/askTRP21/05/15 05:32 PM
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There's one girl I'm really attracted to which I know I could never get as an LTR Why are you thinking about LTRs? You're 18 years old. Too young for a serious relationship. Spin plates. she's a solid 10/10 No woman is a solid 10/10. That implies perfection. A unicorn. No such thing. Get that shit out of your head right now. I know I just couldn't sustain a relationship until I reach that 'ripped' and successful point in my life This is the wrong way of thinking. You're not just going to magical…
/r/askTRP21/05/15 05:26 PM
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Get off the dating sites. Tinder and POF are validation machines for chicks.
/r/askTRP21/05/15 04:33 AM
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Ride the wave and enjoy it. If it becomes no fun for you in the future, bail. Just remember to stay in command of the relationship. Respect is worth just as much as gold.
/r/askTRP21/05/15 04:29 AM
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Most days she'll go out with him to get a drink and chill out, she'll always mentions him to me sometime or another, they sometimes call each other and she's been over to his house once with a female friend of hers for drinks. Yes you should be concerned about this if you're planning on taking this relationship seriously. Why would you let your woman hang out solo with another man? Gay, straight, I don't give a fuck. You don't allow it. If she has a problem with your boundaries, then you walk. I…
/r/askTRP20/05/15 09:57 PM
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she'll have to do something I won't like which is to call the ex FWB and ask him for help She really had NOBODY else in the whole fucking world who could help her besides him? Bullshit. Yes guarantee they have been in contact with each other the whole time. She lied to you. You'll need to next her. If she had any respect for you, she would know that even entertaining the thought of talking to this guy is disrespectful toward you and your relationsip
/r/askTRP20/05/15 07:21 PM
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Would you want your buddy to tell you if he saw your wife had a tinder profile?
/r/askTRP20/05/15 06:36 PM
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It is good that she is honest and up front with you, but the best policy when it comes to the past is "don't ask, don't tell".
/r/askTRP20/05/15 06:22 PM
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I'm literally on antidepressants now because of this Seriously? Dude, you need to either get over this or break up with her if it's just too much for you. Just remember AWALT. Even the seemingly innocent women who won't tell you all about their pasts probably ridden the cock carousel into the sunset and/or have done some awful things.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 06:13 PM
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Uh oh, maybe you've run into a case of this: http://www.reddit.com/r/nosleep/comments/29kd1x/my_dead_girlfriend_keeps_messaging_me_on_facebook
/r/askTRP20/05/15 04:40 PM
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You're on the right track bro. Glad you're here.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 04:15 PM
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It's not fucked. Married men and women should not have friends of the opposite sex, especially if those "friends" are single.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/15 04:05 PM
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I wouldn't just next a girl over being moody and distant for a couple of days after a fight and being difficult over getting naked She wasn't being moody or distant. She was acting like a fucking bitch. Telling OP she never really loved him!? That's something that a chick who has checked out of the relationship says. Her refusing to get naked in front of him is the cherry on top and indicates that she was probably cheating. she was shit testing you and by kicking her out you didn't hold frame an…
/r/askTRP20/05/15 03:50 PM
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Do i just need to stop trying to make sense of the argument? Is this simply a case of "whatever, next"? Am i overthinking this because it all happened last night? You can't make sense of this argument. Mainly because it doesn't make any sense. You knew there was something else going on behind the scenes and she refused to disclose what it was. My guess is she was fucking someone else, or thinking about fucking someone else, and probably felt guilty about it. Of course because she's a woman she h…
/r/askTRP20/05/15 02:39 PM
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Rules like No friends of the opposite sex Yes stupid Whats so stupid about that?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/15 11:54 PM
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I read your updates on how she's blowing up your phone now. Perfect. The guys saying wait 12 hrs are right. Respond and say: hey psycho, I saw that you blew up my phone last night ya creepy stalker, what's up? She might try to give you shit about not responding in which case respond with just an "lol". Then go radio silent until she texts you back. If she's being cool then make a date, if not next her as and lose her number.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 12:58 AM
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handjob artists Haha. I wonder if anyone out there is a sandwich artist by day and a handjob artist by night.
/r/askTRP18/05/15 11:53 PM
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"he's not, he was just stressed today" She thought her "platonic guy friend" was just generally stressed. In reality it sounds like he was threatened by your presence and tried to mate guard a chick that isn't even his mate. This guy is a grade A, pussy-ass orbiter and he pissed you off? You should have been laughing at the way he was acting. You also should have picked up on the fact that this guy is balls deep in the friendzone right away when she didn't introduce him as her boyfriend/fiance/h…
/r/askTRP18/05/15 11:46 PM
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sex workers Is that the new term for prostitutes/whores these days?
/r/askTRP18/05/15 11:04 PM
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How?
/r/askTRP18/05/15 10:55 PM
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Any time spent working out other than the percentage that could be argued for health should be included in your "pussy time" Any time/money on clothes that are stylish - the cost of clothes as a utilitarian necessity. The same for vehicle, haircut, housing etc. All these items you listed should be things that any man should be focused on for self improvement. Free pussy is just a side effect. Hence the whole point of TRP. Apparently paying for pussy is acceptable now? Ridiculous. I've never paid…
/r/askTRP17/05/15 06:23 AM
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Bright side: At least you didn't marry her. She actually did you a favor, she showed you that she had zero respect for you and the relationship. You now no longer have to waste your time on an unfaithful bitch. Now is the time to reflect on the relationship you had with her. Not the good times or any of that bullshit, but the times where you fucked up as the man and leader of the relationship. How you're going to handle things differently with your next LTR, which you will have. A year from now,…
/r/askTRP17/05/15 12:00 AM
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Depends on the type of person you are. Are you a stoic man of few words? Then ignoring stupid shit and worthless people who waste your time is the way to go. Are you a jokester? Then laughing along with them and roasting them right back is the way to go.
/r/askTRP16/05/15 11:52 PM
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Pussy can only be free if your time is worthless, unless you dispute that time=money You must have spent a shit ton of time getting free pussy in the past. Haven't you ever knocked it out with a chick you just met (for free)? If not, then you came to the right place. You also must be really raking in the dough to drop the kind of money needed on a stellar escort. Do you do that multiple times a week? What a waste of money (time).
/r/askTRP16/05/15 11:44 PM
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Pussy isn't free, ever. If you don't know what you're doing.
/r/askTRP16/05/15 10:53 PM
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Paying for sex is one of the most beta things a guy can do. It's the ultimate way of putting pussy on a pedestal. Spin plates and get pussy for free.
/r/askTRP16/05/15 08:47 PM
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I only do fwb is because I got cheated on and I'll never trust another woman again You said too much. Even though it might not have been true. Don't say shit like this to a woman again. Her marriage question was fucking dumb and/or crazy. Pay it no mind. You probably won't even be talking to her a year from now anyway. Also, how are you going to let a bitch shake your frame and turn you into a beta? If that shit happens, it's all your fault. Basically as long as you're enjoying yourself while yo…
/r/askTRP16/05/15 07:29 PM
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its my boss and coworkers who started this rumor Time to get a new job, or better yet start your own business. Again, start lifting
/r/askTRP16/05/15 07:01 PM
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You're not in an LTR with this chick, so if she spots the hickeys, who cares? She'll either walk, or she'll get turned on. Either outcome doesn't matter to you.
/r/askTRP16/05/15 06:50 PM
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should I agree to a second meeting? Hell no. Why are you hanging out with a chick who is unavailable when there are a ton of single chicks out there you can bang? Unless you like the idea of turning into a beta orbiter, then by all means, agree to hang out with her again.
/r/askTRP16/05/15 06:36 PM
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Do you lift? If not, start. That will help. Also, in what social situation did this bullshit rumor start? Are you able to remove yourself from this situation?
/r/askTRP16/05/15 06:22 PM
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Always remember that you are the company you keep. If you look around at your friends and you realize that you are the smartest one in the group, it's time to find new friends. QPO: Quality People Only.
/r/askTRP16/05/15 06:04 PM
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She's moving out of the city in a few weeks so there is the current topic of whether we will remain LTR. I'm willing to give it at least a try, but she's confused as to whether she wants to. No. Absolutely not. Let her go. There is no way in hell that an LTR will work out for you guys. Maybe you could have worked out something where you remained fuck buddies when visiting each other, but I think the pooch has been screwed on that one. You're too emotionally invested in this girl now and she view…
/r/askTRP16/05/15 05:42 PM
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Sounds like you might be coming down with oneitis, bro. Remember, you're using a shotgun, not a sniper rifle.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 11:13 PM
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I dunno man, this chick sounds like she's a virgin. I know a lot of guys love the thought of popping a cherry, but it doesn't do much for me. I'd probably next her. Too much of a hassle to get her to open up and a waste of time when there are a ton of other chicks who'll get down sooner.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 10:51 PM
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Good going man. Keep it up.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/15 03:46 PM
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Glad you're back. Unplugging is tough. Were you the guy who said you sneaked a peek at your wife after she got out of the shower and saw that she had shaved dowstairs, then she immediately rejected sex with you?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/15 01:16 AM
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"don't take me for some dumb bitch" You should take her for some dumb bitch, because well... She is one. Man how the fuck did you have the time and patience to put up with her stupid shit? Seems like you're through with her completely. I hope so. Don't ever talk to her again.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 12:01 AM
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talked about a trial separation for the summer You know, usually when a woman suggests a trial separation, she's really saying: "There's another guy I'm interested in fucking and I'd like to do it guilt free". That coupled with the fact that the's blaming you for having some kind of imaginary affair is fishy. Do you suspect she's having one or thinking about having one? That is, if you even care at this point.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/15 10:51 PM
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Yes, that's exactly what I realized. Don't know why it took so long. Sounds like you've been officially unplugged. A lot of guys get upset when they first see everything for what it really is. Don't get upset, get better and realize that you can actually manipulate the system to work for your benefit.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/15 10:56 PM
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She's your wife, text her whatever you want, whenever you want. The idea behind the 2/3 rule is that you don't come off as a needy, clingy bitch. Don't come off as needy and you'll be fine.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/15 05:11 PM
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Find a new pussy to put your penis in, that will feel much better.
/r/askTRP29/04/15 05:49 AM
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If you have time to sit and listen to some chick, who isn't your LTR, whine about some stupid bullshit, then you have too much time on your hands.
/r/askTRP29/04/15 05:40 AM
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Ignore that shit. Do you care about vest shopping? I hope not. Only text to set up a time to meet face to face. Or you can go crazy mode and reply: "you know what else is hard? My cock". The choice is yours.
/r/askTRP29/04/15 05:34 AM
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Yeah, punch him in the face as hard as you can... All "kidding" aside, laugh at him and ask him if he considers himself a big tough guy. Then laugh some more, while adding in "watch out everyone, we got a big tall bad ass over here".
/r/askTRP29/04/15 05:26 AM
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You live an hour away now and you'll only be visiting part time to visit your buddies, so it really doesn't matter what you text this chick. Text her and tell her you're coming to town and crashing in her bed for a night, if she doesnt like it, no loss.
/r/askTRP29/04/15 05:18 AM
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Who gives a shit what her therapist says. Your plate is a big girl, if she thinks your relationship with her is unhealthy, she's free to walk away at any time. Just like you are. She's not your wife, she's not your girlfriend, she's a plate. If she stops spinning then move on. Bottom line is this: are you enjoying the time you spend with her? I'd say no, otherwise you wouldnt be posting this shit about a stupid ass therapist. Walk away. Or be invited in for couples counseling.
/r/askTRP29/04/15 04:59 AM
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Any indication that she's planning on leaving you after she finishes school? Something tells me she might just be biding her time until then.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 11:08 PM
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She sounds boring. Think that might be the problem? Also, no more text conversations.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 10:08 PM
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Lol, one of the girls fainted?
/r/askTRP01/09/14 11:46 PM
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"Lol" that's all you should say
/r/askTRP31/08/14 02:00 AM
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Like everyone else has told you, find some pussy elsewhere. This bitch is crazy and her husband has most likely seen your exchanges. Let this be a lesson for the next time a woman is telling you she's going through a "divorce ".
/r/askTRP30/08/14 04:15 AM
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You aren't in any legal trouble, you're fine in that sense. Watch your back though because sometimes jealous husbands can do some stupid shit. He's trying to mate guard, unfortunately he's being a pussy about it by questioning you instead of literally telling you to leave his family alone. Gotta almost feel sorry for the guy.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 01:49 AM
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Read the title and the first few lines. She doesn't need to go to another guy for advice about anything. She needs to go to YOU. Tell her to go to the party and have fun, then downgrade her to plate status shortly thereafter. She's not ready for a real LTR. She seeks too much validation from guys outside of your relationship. You'll wind up breaking up eventually, why not get the ball rolling now to save you time and energy.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 12:22 AM
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"No... I'd just show you the pics" She might be cheating on you, or thinking about it. Just a heads up.
/r/askTRP28/08/14 11:45 PM
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It's because you're texting chicks who aren't into you. Stop doing that.
/r/askTRP27/08/14 05:30 PM
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Drop the subject. Keep an eye on her behavior and who she communicates with. Trust but verify. Are all of her lines of communication open and free for you to view at anytime (phone, social media, email etc)? Or is everything on lock down?
/r/askTRP27/08/14 05:23 PM
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Just saw this. Don't reschedule. She's told you in womanese that you're already on beta orbiter "friend" status. A chick who is into you would never behave this way.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 12:38 AM
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One word reply to her: "gay" or "lol". Then cut contact. Move on and find someone who is into you. Clearly she isn't.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 12:36 AM
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If you're right about her doing this shit to get back at you, then that is some childish passive aggressive bullshit. Do you really want to spend your valuable time with someone like this?
/r/askTRP26/08/14 12:04 AM
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Don't say anything. Plate her. She's too young for serious LTR. Go spend time with other chicks.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 12:00 AM
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It's all bullshit man. She'll never finish the way she started. She's doing all these things for you because she desperately wants a committed relationship. The second you give her what she wants (without applying TRP for an LTR), she'll get lazy and the sweet, caring, loving girl, who loves to do things for you and fuck you silly, disappears and is replaced with a frigid bitch.
/r/askTRP24/08/14 04:19 PM
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Yes, you're right. I think the only option now is to play it cool and cut out the texting. She'll come back around if only out of curiosity.
/r/askTRP21/08/14 01:47 AM
1

Abundance mentality. Do you care about being nexted? ...Hm.
/r/askTRP21/08/14 01:43 AM
1

If this is a serious post, then she isn't a plate. She was a one night stand that you managed to scare away.... Hmm I wonder how. You didn't refer to her as a fish did you?
/r/askTRP20/08/14 10:53 PM
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"So you can make sandwiches all night"
/r/askTRP20/08/14 10:43 PM
2

Your buddy needs to accept the fact that you got her, not him. Whether you're threatened by him or not isn't the point. If he's really your bro he needs to back off and sniff around for pussy someplace else.
/r/askTRP20/08/14 09:48 PM
2

Does your girlfriend know these dudes want to fuck her or is she oblivious? Oh and your buddy being "friends" with your girl is wrong, only because you know he'd fuck her first chance he got. Time to reexamine that friendship.
/r/askTRP20/08/14 08:02 PM
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Forget it. Don't communicate with her unless she hits you up first. She's either a flake or has another dude on the line. If a chick is really into you, she will do anything in her power to spend time with you.
/r/askTRP20/08/14 07:19 PM
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Most women don't know how to handle control or power. A lot of them, when given a leadership position either quit, or turn into raging dictators because they feel they need to prove something.
/r/askTRP20/08/14 05:56 PM
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She knows damn well why you're interested in her. Of course she knows you want to fuck. Why else would a guy half her age be talking to her. Don't play the text game, you did well limiting your responses. Older chicks are super easy to get in the sack. All you literally would have had to do with her is text her "shots, my place, right now" and she most likely would have shown up. Then you know the rest. Older chicks make it easy on young guys for the most part.
/r/askTRP20/08/14 05:04 PM
1

I think you fucked up with your follow up text of "I don't think of you like that". That was wrong. You should have either not replied, or replied with "lol". Even something random would have been a better response. I also think your first reply of telling her you want to fuck was wrong. Sometimes being subtle before you physically make a move works well. I think you made her feel like a whore and it turned her off. Who knows she sounds like a crazy slut, so if you don't get to bang her you're p…
/r/askTRP20/08/14 01:25 PM
3

It's hamstering. Rationalizing their behavior. All women do this. She did what she did to save herself from feeling guilt. Learn from this experience.
/r/askTRP19/08/14 03:54 AM
1

You should handle your shit around the house like a boss without any complaining whatsoever. Give her tasks to do, don't let her be the one delegating tasks. You tell her what needs to be done, reward her with your attention if she completes the tasks. If she doesn't complete the tasks, punish her by withdrawing your affections. Also, never do something for her (that you don't want to do) that she can do herself.
/r/askTRP16/08/14 06:28 PM
0

Your gf gets strange cock, too. She just lies to you about it. Son, please. But it works for us. That's great. How old are you guys? 20? 21? Wait till she starts fucking someone more "alpha" than you then decides to sink your relationship for a chance at monogamy with him.
/r/askTRP16/08/14 05:48 PM
1

Your gf gets strange cock on the side? Man, something tells me you're heading for a train wreck.
/r/askTRP10/08/14 07:02 PM
1

You shouldn't be in an LTR with this chick for multiple reasons. Downgrade her ass to plate status and make her come to you.
/r/askTRP10/08/14 06:57 PM
2

They're the ones who give power and control to women and it's been demonstrated time and again that women have no clue what to do with power and or control over anything.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 03:10 AM
-1

Paying attention to anything that comes out of a University nowadays is not a good idea. Educational institutions are not quite what they used to be.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 02:07 AM
-2

I'm guessing she dumped you. Or needed a "break"? If you can't get a refund, Take her on a fabulous vacation but make it the worst experience of her life. Be creative and take lots of pics.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 02:05 AM
1

Silence is golden. Find someone else.
/r/askTRP02/08/14 06:33 AM
2

Because women don't grasp the concept of what a true friendship is, most of them anyway, especially when it comes to being friends with a man. She wants to keep you around as a validation machine, at least until she gets into a serious LTR.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 02:56 AM
1

Ever hear of Sutter Kane?
/r/askTRP29/07/14 05:53 AM
-2

So you're one of these assholes who abhors rap music? You know, a lot of Johnny Cash's songs are quite similar to a lot of rap songs out there. If you don't like what TRP has to say then get the fuck back to /r/vaginitis and play the part of white knight supreme.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 05:41 AM
6

Bullshit. Get the fuck out.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 12:58 AM
4

how I can be sure that she won't be cheating on ME You can't. If she cheats, she cheats. There's literally nothing you can do about it in an LDR. Unless you lock her in a cage and refuse to let her leave. No, the relationship isn't sexual -- proper christian girl, remember? she's abstinent until marriage Just wait till she gets to college.
/r/askTRP23/07/14 06:53 PM
1

I myself am not very tall, around 6 feet That's pretty tall for a 16 year old bro.
/r/askTRP23/07/14 06:41 PM
1

Don't be afraid of making mistakes. Just do what you think is best. If you make a mistake, take ownership of it and learn something from it. Also don't be afraid to talk to people. Talk to everyone you meet, not just women, everyone.
/r/askTRP23/07/14 06:21 PM
1

He shouldn't cheat. That's something that "unhaaaapy" married women do.
/r/askTRP23/07/14 12:45 AM
11

Vitamin D
/r/askTRP22/07/14 10:24 PM
2

Move on, you have oneitis. Go fuck other woman, that's how you cure it. I keep seeing all these posts about these so-called "redpill women". I think true redpill women are extremely rare and even then I think that most women cant actually truly grasp what TRP is about. TRP is a way for men to manage a woman's biological imperative.
/r/askTRP22/07/14 07:44 PM
5

I'd just next her, but that's just me. I'd prefer to get pussy that's closer than an hour away. Even then it sounds like it would be a wasted trip for you.
/r/askTRP22/07/14 07:25 PM
2

American women are just as bad as British women, maybe even worse. When I saw what happens to that dude from London when he gets to America in the movie you're referring to, I laughed my ass off because in real life he'd have ended the night with his dick in his hand or with a landwhale at best.
/r/askTRP22/07/14 06:58 PM
5

Pay attention to a woman's actions, not to what she says. Do you think her behavior indicates that she's into you? She does own a car, right?
/r/askTRP22/07/14 06:46 PM
10

Means she's not into you. If you gave her the tingles she'd move heaven and earth to spend time with you.
/r/askTRP22/07/14 06:18 PM
6

Only use texting or calling to set up a time to meet face to face. Stop with the useless chatter and questions.
/r/askTRP22/07/14 06:16 PM
5

"If you don't get out of the kitchen, I'm going to have my way with you right now in front of your sister"
/r/askTRP22/07/14 05:54 PM
0

If they have a boyfriend and are giving signals that they want it, then yeah. If they're married, no. Even if they blatantly ask to be put on the table and stuffed like a thanksgiving turkey, still the answer is no.
/r/askTRP22/07/14 03:52 AM
1

So she knows he's out to get into her pants?
/r/askTRP22/07/14 03:48 AM
1

And your girl is completely oblivious to all this?
/r/askTRP22/07/14 01:58 AM
7

Forget about him, he's a bitch and not worth even a second of consideration. If your girl cheats on you with him, then she's a retard and you're better off without her. He knows she's with you right? If he persists to come on to your chick after she's given him a hard no, he's crossing the line and disrespecting you. At that point you come at him like a man would and tell him to back the fuck off.
/r/askTRP22/07/14 12:38 AM
1

I stay away from saying shit like that. Works for some guys though.
/r/trpGAME21/07/14 10:02 PM
1

Agree and amplify. Make her feel like she's your bratty little sister.
/r/trpGAME21/07/14 07:29 PM
1

You're comparing what this dude's wife is doing to a woman asking a grocery store clerk where the cereal is? How naive are you?
/r/askTRP21/07/14 01:48 PM
0

Yes
/r/askTRP20/07/14 01:18 PM
1

Yeah man, apparently TRP now condones vomiting feels and having a conversation as a remedy to bad female behavior. If this place continues to become more like /r/relationships I'm out.
/r/askTRP20/07/14 04:27 AM
0

Donnie, you're out of your element.
/r/askTRP19/07/14 08:36 PM
3

Actually a lot of times women will hide their affairs in plain sight. If she posts pics of her and the man she's fucking on the side, it gives her plausible deniablity because he's "just a friend".
/r/askTRP19/07/14 07:30 PM
0

Why would his wife feel the need to post pics of herself with random men while she's away on a "business trip"? Do you think these men are new "friends" of hers and she wants to share that with all of her friends and family via facebook? Don't you think her actions are at least a little bit questionable? All that being said, her taking pictures of herself embracing strange men while her husband isn't around and then posting them on facebook is highly inappropriate and something that a woman who …
/r/askTRP19/07/14 06:37 PM
1

Stay out of the clubs and chat up everyone you meet throughout the day. You'd be surprised how many chicks you can hook up with by just walking up and introducing yourself during the day.
/r/askTRP19/07/14 05:57 PM
2

Treat her like a child.
/r/askTRP19/07/14 05:35 PM
2

Awful advice bro.
/r/askTRP19/07/14 05:33 PM
-3

My blood boiled just reading your post. Not only is she disrespecting you and your marriage, she's doing it on a public forum for all your friends and family to see. Consult with a divorce lawyer immediately.
/r/askTRP19/07/14 05:30 PM
2

Blatant disrespect on her part. She's playing games with you, why else would she send you a pic of some faggot holding a teddy bear. Tell her you're not ready for a serious relationship and downgrade her to plate status.
/r/askTRP19/07/14 04:31 PM
23

Watch out, he might also be a navy seal with over 100 confirmed kills and a 360 no scope expert.
/r/askTRP18/07/14 03:55 PM
1

Do I, Doctor? Tell me more about myself.
/r/askTRP17/07/14 07:11 PM
1

You haven't been studying. Go back to /r/relationships
/r/askTRP17/07/14 06:32 PM
1

Has she actually been diagnosed with depression by a real doctor? How often does she pull her disappearing trick where she wants nothing to do with you. And like most are saying here, fuck adoption. You don't want to raise lazy/stupid people's children.
/r/askTRP17/07/14 06:02 PM
-3

Buy cats.
/r/askTRP17/07/14 05:41 PM
-2

I'm sure you do. Just remember your value drops with every single cock you ride. You may not think this is true, or even care, but trust me you will someday.
/r/askTRP17/07/14 05:33 PM
1

Something tells me she has another guy on the side. If she's not fucking him yet, she's thinking about it. Fuck this list shit, tell her you'll talk to her later.
/r/askTRP17/07/14 04:51 PM
2

So who's walked into the picture recently? A co-worker? Classmate? Guy you met at the gym?
/r/askTRP17/07/14 04:34 PM
2

You know she broke up with you before specifically so that she could fuck your friend and her ex guilt free
/r/askTRP16/07/14 11:17 PM
1

Sounds like she's testing you to see if you'll get jealous and change plans to make sure she behaves herself. You passed .
/r/askTRP16/07/14 10:53 PM
2

You know what'll make you feel better and forget about that shit? Putting your dick inside of a new pussy. Works like a charm.
/r/askTRP16/07/14 10:12 PM
2

Nope. Cut contact with her. Delete all line of communication and block her on phone and anywhere else.
/r/askTRP16/07/14 08:05 PM
0

Tell your plate you're down to meet her girlfriends, no guys. Then make your way towards making them plates and getting threeways.
/r/askTRP16/07/14 05:59 PM
6

"I'll bet you did." Then whip out your cock and put it in her hand.
/r/askTRP16/07/14 05:56 PM
1

Are you striving to be the best version of yourself, or are you trying to be a super edgy serial killer minus the actual killing?
/r/askTRP16/07/14 05:47 PM
12

Bottom line is if a woman is in a serious LTR and a conversation she's having with another man turns flirty or sexual, it's her responsibility to end the conversation and cut contact if she respects the relationship she's in. If she doesn't do that, OP has every right to question her motives and move on to the next woman if he feels disrespected.
/r/askTRP16/07/14 04:34 PM
5

If she's chatting with a loser and is going to hang out with losers, she's a loser. Next
/r/askTRP16/07/14 04:27 PM
1

She's probably chatting with other guys and placating you and your boring conversation about height
/r/askTRP15/07/14 09:57 PM
0

That's right.
/r/askTRP15/07/14 07:58 PM
1

This shouldn't shock you. He's a bitch and he agreed to allow her to show her naked body off to other men and interact with other men. What resulted was inevitable, even though he believed he was in a beautiful egalitarian relationship. Hypergamy... It's a motherfucker.
/r/askTRP15/07/14 06:43 PM
0

I've never met a gay man who practiced safe sex or monogamy.
/r/askTRP15/07/14 06:21 PM
1

No that would be impossible. Unfortunately there is no legal or sane way to deal with the problem.
/r/askTRP15/07/14 05:51 PM
0

It is true that gay men are a public health threat though.
/r/askTRP15/07/14 05:38 PM
-7

Stop being a pussy.
/r/askTRP13/07/14 09:16 PM
-11

Nah, chances are you're ok. If you're worried get yourself checked. I almost never used rubbers and never ran into a problem.
/r/askTRP13/07/14 03:49 PM
-1

No shit.
/r/askTRP12/07/14 03:15 AM
19

Funny that she had to live in her car for a few days. She couldn't even get the asshole she was fucking behind your back to let her stay at his place. And guess what? He's probably still fucking her.
/r/askTRP11/07/14 08:49 PM
1

Did she just say no when you made the move? No explanation or anything?
/r/askTRP11/07/14 07:53 PM
1

No
/r/askTRP11/07/14 01:37 PM
14

The playing hard to get thing is bullshit. If a girl is into you, she will respond to you accordingly. You move on, you don't have time for idiotic games. You're using a shotgun, not a sniper rifle.
/r/askTRP10/07/14 10:54 PM
3

her: smoking at my apartmentttt wbu You: about to head to your place. Give me your address.
/r/askTRP10/07/14 10:00 PM
1

Nah, cut contact with her until she communicates with you again.
/r/askTRP10/07/14 07:45 PM
0

Sex healer is good, or bank robber. Just as long as you don't give a straight answer. Fuck meeting her on Sunday now. Reframe and pic another day and check her response.
/r/askTRP10/07/14 03:50 PM
1

You're too far in your own head, bro. You also sound like a raging narcissist. Do you have good relationships with friends and family?
/r/askTRP09/07/14 11:47 PM
12

An excuse for her to come back. Also marking her territory in case you have other women over.
/r/askTRP09/07/14 11:40 PM
4

She invited you over, you could be in if you don't royally fuck things up. Keep the texting to a minimum this week.
/r/askTRP09/07/14 09:39 PM
1

What kind of signals are you getting? Be specific. This could either be all in your head or a shit test to see how loyal you are. Either way break up with your gf or plate her.
/r/askTRP09/07/14 08:03 PM
3

So many pop songs have bluepill messages in them, especially the love songs.
/r/askTRP09/07/14 07:40 PM
1

Sounds like she's a virgin. I'd drop her because I'd get bored.
/r/askTRP09/07/14 05:58 PM
9

She's a plate. Don't take your relationship with her too seriously. Keep things light and fun. Get pussy while you're abroad. She may ask you not to. DO NOT agree to this shit test. You'll regret it in the long run. Tell her if she's not cool with the way things are, she's free to walk at any time.
/r/askTRP09/07/14 05:48 PM
2

No they're not lying. They actually convince themselves of this shit. I knew a chick who told me she was bi-polar, had aspergers, a touch of Tourette's and was addicted to morphine. It was all complete bullshit of course.
/r/askTRP09/07/14 05:00 PM
2

Why is your SO off put when you make a move?
/r/askTRP09/07/14 04:49 PM
6

Did the women you dated have real mental disorders, or did they just suffer from snowflake syndrome? I've known tons of women who have all these self-diagnosed ailments they dream up for attention getting purposes.
/r/askTRP09/07/14 04:25 PM
1

You have no control over wether she cheats or not. So stop worrying about something you have no control over. You also sound too young to be in a serious LTR.
/r/askTRP09/07/14 01:46 PM
3

Well said.
/r/askTRP09/07/14 03:03 AM
16

Do you get mad at a dog for barking? Do you get mad at a fish for swimming? It's just what they do.
/r/askTRP08/07/14 11:34 PM
1

Then go do it. Also you've been given great advice in this thread. Use it.
/r/askTRP08/07/14 11:24 PM
1

Is she a virgin too?
/r/askTRP08/07/14 06:22 PM
1

No wonder you have a hard time with women, you're annoying, boring and unoriginal.
/r/askTRP07/07/14 03:22 AM
1

Right. Stupid Europeans form their opinions from media and political propaganda and they watch too much American television.
/r/askTRP06/07/14 04:32 PM
1

Nice job. Was it with that fat black chick?
/r/askTRP06/07/14 04:29 PM
2

stupid US retardation Have you ever been to America? Have you ever even met an American?
/r/askTRP05/07/14 10:54 PM
1

A chick who is into you will damn near break her neck to spend time with you. Is that the way she's behaving? Cleaning? You believe that shit? Really?
/r/askTRP05/07/14 10:27 PM
1

What makes your profile successful? All you've shown are strike-outs and one chick (who was probably a landwhale, or had low SMV) looking for any dude with a dick and a bag of weed. Are you saying they're successful because the girls are actually responding back when you contact them?
/r/askTRP05/07/14 03:33 PM
1

You two are not together. Your plans could fall through for any number of reasons. Do what you will until the time comes for you to move. And if you do move, don't forget to pay your fucking taxes.
/r/askTRP05/07/14 04:59 AM
5

What's wrong with the relationship?
/r/askTRP04/07/14 02:03 AM
1

Girls change their minds about pushing and pulling you on a minute-to-minute basis Not if you're doing everything correctly.
/r/askTRP03/07/14 02:41 PM
1

Interesting number. Why the .9 and not just a 6 flat?
/r/askTRP03/07/14 02:36 PM
2

She doesn't want him to be her "rock", she's pushing him away. You can't be there for someone who doesn't want you there.
/r/askTRP03/07/14 01:35 AM
1

Typically a woman isn't going to push you away over stress. I'm thinking you either have gotten too clingy or she's interested in someone else. All the other stuff she's telling you sounds like bullshit to me. Back off from her and don't push her to communicate. Also don't vomit your feelings all over her. Next time she contacts you, tell her you think you and her would be better off as friends. Then cut contact and find another woman (or 3)
/r/askTRP03/07/14 01:29 AM
12

Meeting in a group doesn't mean shit. We're talking one on one. Also you may be texting too much and coming off needy. You have to stop with the text chat. Make plans and escalate right away. Taking weeks to do this will freeze any girl out.
/r/askTRP02/07/14 11:49 PM
2

Is she at least attractive, or is she just a mouth and a pussy?
/r/askTRP02/07/14 11:45 PM
2

I'm curious, how much are you paying her? How much more would it cost to fuck her?
/r/askTRP02/07/14 08:00 PM
0

She sounds annoying as shit. Do you really want to be her friend? Flake on her or send her a text saying something came up and you can't meet. Respond to any future texts with one word. Or not at all. She'll either go away or try to suck your cock to get your attention again. Stop hanging out with your friends that she weasled her way into.
/r/askTRP02/07/14 07:43 PM
3

Some do, you are correct. In fact most women love it when their husbands get hit on (minus the cock stroking). It would be interesting to see her reaction.
/r/askTRP02/07/14 06:28 PM
1

She's going to start going to the gym with you regularly and ruin your routine. Then she'll get lazy and stop going.
/r/askTRP02/07/14 05:54 PM
2

"I think we need to take a pause." Whatever that means - I assume she wants to bang other dudes? Yes, she does. In fact, she's probably already doing this. She says she needs to go back to therapy to fix her issues around relationships. Her therapy sessions would include cock in and around her mouth and/or pussy. Next time you see her, tell her you've thought about what she said and that you guys need to cool things down because she's not ready for a real relationship. Hold firm on this decision…
/r/askTRP02/07/14 05:48 PM
1

Air Traffic Controllers make a pretty good living I hear
/r/askTRP02/07/14 05:38 PM
2

Don't try to communicate with her until she contacts you again. If you don't hear from her for a few days, take a different chick to the movies.
/r/askTRP02/07/14 05:36 PM
1

Maybe she is shit testing, maybe not, either way if she is shit testing is this going too far? Absolutely. Her allowing another man to put his hands on her is a marriage ender. Her lying about it happening just to get a rise out of you is also a marriage ender. Basically, either way, you can't trust her. Trust is what any good relationship is built on. What do you think her reaction would be if you came home tonight and told her some random chick started stroking your cock.
/r/askTRP02/07/14 05:19 PM
2

Why are you guys separating?
/r/askTRP02/07/14 03:33 PM
2

TRP may become mainstream one day, once it's invaded by women and completely bastardized to fit their "standards". Just like anything else that has been male dominated in the past.
/r/askTRP02/07/14 03:28 PM
1

I'm interested in seeing the results of your experiment. Sounds like it'd be good for a laugh.
/r/askTRP02/07/14 03:20 PM
1

didn't see a good enough result to point me right to anything related to sneezing. That's because it's classified, next level info for professional players only.
/r/askTRP02/07/14 02:50 PM
-2

8.25 you say? Take her to a bar then stick your dick in her big nose. She'll be sneezing out cum for a couple days, but she'll see you're totally alpha.
/r/askTRP02/07/14 04:34 AM
1

Depends on your frame. Be the cool James Bond type guy and tell her with a smirk to get out there and shake her ass for you while you sip your drink. Or be the crazy guy who goes out and dances horribly yet confidently with no fucks given.
/r/askTRP02/07/14 02:25 AM
0

Let me get this straight, you're in a long distance relationship with a chick you met online? How much actual time have you spent with her face to face. Break it down by hours.
/r/askTRP02/07/14 12:30 AM
0

She's 19 and I'm 8 years her senior She's a virgin her current boyfriend is being deployed this weekend Stay away.
/r/askTRP01/07/14 06:33 PM
1

many of my sneezes are booming loud and frighten the women According to Mystery Method, isn't this a form of kino?
/r/askTRP01/07/14 05:55 PM
4

Whip out a speculum and a flashlight and tell her to hold still. Seriously though, are you screwing someone you suspect may have an STD?
/r/askTRP01/07/14 05:42 PM
3

You're not her caretaker and her problems aren't your problems. I'm betting she's being an attention whore with these "suicidal stunts". Are you really friends with this girl? Or do you have oneitis and are secretly hoping she turns around one day and wants an LTR with you? Make yourself unavailable to her and see how friendly she is toward you then. And if she is actually suicidal and successfully does it, it'd be sad, but it's not your problem.
/r/askTRP01/07/14 05:22 PM
8

Don't cheat. Cheating is something that "unhaaaaappy" married women do. Sounds like you're not in the best LTR. I wouldn't be able to put up with sex just once a month. Plate her and just simply explain that you've decided you don't want to be in a serious relationship at this point in your life. Do you live with your GF? she's a 10, she has made my relatively boring daily grind worth the while atm.. she gives me a rush, a natural high. in truth she makes my whole day feel great which wasn't rea…
/r/askTRP01/07/14 03:36 PM
5

Try sticking your dick in a beehive. Seriously though, just approach and say hi and strike up a conversation.
/r/askTRP01/07/14 03:26 AM
12

Your first mistake was checking in with her while away. Don't ever do that again. If a woman is into you she'll break her neck to see you, even if she's operating on zero hours of sleep. You're heading into emotional tampon territory with her. Cut contact and move on to the next one. The Prince Charming she found who gave her the high hard one at the wedding is who she's focused on now. Also when a woman tells you she's not looking for a relationship, what she's really saying is that she's not l…
/r/askTRP01/07/14 12:37 AM
2

That's right get back out there. You're learning from your mistakes. Get better. Faster. Stronger.
/r/askTRP30/06/14 05:40 AM
4

Now you realize what's wrong though. Be happy you don't have mindset of one of those incel faggots. You're going to be stepping it up.
/r/askTRP30/06/14 03:59 AM
3

Eye contact is a good step in the right direction. Next step is to say hi and strike up short conversations with everyone. You could have said hi to her then asked if she knew where they kept the bull's milk in the store. Whatever it doesn't matter. That would have started a convo.
/r/askTRP30/06/14 02:50 AM
1

If you can pull off dark triad shit, you could become her pimp. You said she was emotionally attached to you. That's the first step.
/r/askTRP29/06/14 10:52 PM
11

Next time she tells you to sleep on the couch, tell her you'll do her one better. Grab your keys and leave without telling her where you're going. Check into a hotel and go Comms dark for the night. Next day come home like nothing's wrong. If she brings it up, tell her she didn't want you there, so you didn't want to be there . Don't tell her where you stayed, be vague and change subject.
/r/askTRP29/06/14 09:18 PM
-1

"Study university? I'm talking about real world shit"
/r/askTRP29/06/14 01:55 AM
2

You don't text her unless you're arranging a time and place to meet face to face. You are playing the needy/clingy game. Which you will always lose.
/r/askTRP28/06/14 11:58 PM
0

A woman who keeps going back to her husband or boyfriend still has feelings for him, but the minute she actually falls for a man better than him, she's out the door. The girl OP described was using him for side dick and had no intention of starting up a relationship with him. When a woman totally loses all love for you, you won't ever hear from her again.
/r/askTRP28/06/14 03:34 PM
1

You may not be the only guy she's fucking behind her BF's back. She might have another guy on the line she's hoping to branch swing to. You could have just been a fun side fuck.
/r/askTRP28/06/14 05:58 AM
-1

What planet are you from?
/r/askTRP28/06/14 05:54 AM
2

Only because Chewbacca was paid like a boss. If the cash flow stopped, he would have ripped Han's arms off.
/r/askTRP28/06/14 03:11 AM
1

This so true. All the plates I had I met during the day at various places. Never really pulled a plate from a bar or club. I think maybe one or two at the most years ago.
/r/askTRP28/06/14 12:38 AM
5

Tinder chicks tend to flake from what I hear.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 10:25 PM
10

Strike up a short conversation with everyone, not just chicks. It'll help.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 09:58 PM
1

You lost from the get-go and continued to lose even harder with each reply. Just talking to her on pof. I don't really give a shit whether we meet up or not. I'm just kind of messing with her. I know a guy who says the exact same shit when chatting with chicks on dating sites. He does it because they reject him from the start, so he says this to make himself feel better. I always ask him if he'll ever take it seriously, because it seems like he's just "messing" with every chick he chats with. I …
/r/askTRP27/06/14 08:48 PM
1

Female bartenders always flirt with male customers. It's how they get good tips. Find a chick who is available and actually into you.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 08:02 PM
2

Interesting. Do you think Chewbacca was alpha?
/r/askTRP27/06/14 07:42 PM
1

Listen to this man, OP. He's spot on. Although... you: Hey beautiful... hah how many times did you watch that shit, be honest now... So anyways, I'm free thursday 8pm, let's go out to our lil place? I'd love to see you. Calling a chick that you haven't fucked yet "beautiful" is a risky move. Even if you have fucked her, calling her "beautiful" should be done sparingly.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 06:31 PM
1

This. I knew a guy who was rock solid muscle, tall and decent looking, who would always complain that women never approached him. Had to explain to him that most women don't approach men. Does it happen from time to time? Sure, but it's rare. Even in the instance where a woman approaches a man, he still has to do most of the work to escalate.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 06:21 PM
2

This. Fraternity days were some of the best days of my life. Good friends, good parties and good pussy. the only thing bad about joining a frat is the price you have to pay for friendship Just like most clubs you join, gotta pay dues. A lot of which goes toward the parties and events anyway.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 05:43 PM
8

She says "no wonder nobody wants to hang out with you"? I'd say "So what the fuck are you doing here?"
/r/askTRP27/06/14 02:09 AM
5

Bring other chicks back to the place and fuck them in the living room. Leave the jizz rags or used condoms on the coffee table. If you don't smoke cigarettes or cigars, especially inside, start. This will be super effective if she doesn't smoke herself.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 01:38 AM
1

Nah, you've been off doing your own thing. If she gives you shit about not talking to her, tell her you were too busy with your new hobby: bank robbery.
/r/askTRP26/06/14 11:27 PM
2

Just trying to survive lol Seriously, what a fuckin' dumbass thing to say. The reason she didn't leave was because she wasn't able to find another man to branchswing to. Had she found another guy on the side she would have jumped ship with no fucks given about everything you had done for her.
/r/askTRP26/06/14 10:22 PM
3

Imagine what would have happened if you never got your shit together. She probably would have left you despite all the stuff you did for her.
/r/askTRP26/06/14 09:48 PM
2

I actually have found, in my experience, pushover pansies make pretty good lovers. I mean, I'm compatible with them. They may be more willing to let you show them what you like in bed because they don't have a lot of experience. So if you like being the "teacher", more power to you. Outside the bedroom though you would get sick of guys like this because they have a hard time making even the most simplest of decisions. You'd get sick of hearing "whatever you want, sweetie".
/r/askTRP26/06/14 09:31 PM
3

"tbh I dont really want anything to happen atm ive got too much going on and it just stresses me out" This is her way of saying "I want to be fucked silly... Just not by you, nikalii". Kind of like when someone says "I have too much going on right now and I'm not ready for a relationship". We all know that's bullshit. I'd just cancel the plans I made with her and cut contact for awhile.
/r/askTRP26/06/14 09:00 PM
2

This right here. I've seen it happen countless times with many different types of women. If you bang an intense orgasm out of a woman and it makes her cry, you're doing something right.
/r/askTRP26/06/14 08:39 PM
2

Great story man.
/r/askTRP26/06/14 08:05 PM
3

Get over it, her old man likes you. It's his credit card, of course he's going to keep tabs on the statement.
/r/askTRP26/06/14 05:58 PM
5

She may be a giant cock-tease. If you do this and she doesn't put the dick where her mouth is cut contact.
/r/askTRP26/06/14 03:46 AM
3

Well said. Hope OP is paying attention.
/r/askTRP26/06/14 02:10 AM
8

This. A couple of years from now this will be a distant memory. Make sure you've learned something from this, OP.
/r/askTRP26/06/14 02:08 AM
78

She's interested in one of her co-workers and has been fucking him or thinking about fucking him for awhile. My guess is she probably fucked him the night before she broke up with you. If this is the case, she's a deceptive whore and did you a favor by breaking up with you. Be glad you didn't marry that slag. DO NOT under any circumstances try to contact her or reply to any communication she might try with you. Delete her from your life now. Completely and forever.
/r/askTRP25/06/14 11:38 PM
3

Polygamy is typically associated with commitment and marriage. Plate spinning is fucking multiple women without any form of commitment.
/r/askTRP25/06/14 10:54 PM
11

What the fuck? I wasn't feeling sexual because it was my first time Please tell me you didn't tell her you were a virgin at that moment. How can I get her back? what should I text her and when? You can't. Don't even bother texting her at all.
/r/askTRP25/06/14 10:48 PM
5

This is hilarious. Of course she knows it was you, why else would she have followed you? Strange that she didn't send you a text after seeing you asking what you were doing.
/r/askTRP25/06/14 10:24 PM
2

Most polyamorous relationships don't work out well from what I've seen. If you want to bang different chicks, spin plates and don't ever get into a serious LTR.
/r/askTRP25/06/14 10:14 PM
1

Who knows man, women do stupid shit like this for various reasons. She could be butthurt that you spent time talking to that other chick. Which leads to... she'd put her head on my shoulder waiting for her turn She wants to be your official LTR. Don't be surprised if she starts to deny you sex more frequently because she's not getting a commitment from you.
/r/askTRP25/06/14 10:02 PM
2

In most cases it's not possible for men and women to be real friends. Are there some exceptions? Sure, but it's rare. Typically one of them develops feelings for the other and is secretly hoping that one day their "friend" will realize they have the same feelings. Also, the majority of women have no concept of what a real friendship is.
/r/askTRP25/06/14 08:13 PM
3

I read what you wrote. How far away does she live from you? Do you two have a concrete day set for when your relationship will no longer be long distance?
/r/askTRP25/06/14 07:22 PM
3

Don't bother sending her another text. Go with your original plans. She never got back to you about hanging out with her, so you figured she was busy and had other plans. Btw, she's not your girlfriend.
/r/askTRP25/06/14 06:52 PM
1

Tell her to get a fuckin' job and then tell her to move out. File for divorce and quit one of your jobs.
/r/askTRP25/06/14 06:36 PM
2

Strike up a short conversation with everybody you interact with throughout the day. Do this consistently and it will work wonders for your game and your personality.
/r/askTRP25/06/14 05:53 PM
2

3 times you say? Maybe you should change your username to "MrstelMYgirl"
/r/askTRP25/06/14 05:05 PM
2

Tell her that the only way she can fix this is to prove her love to you by doing something she's been unwilling to do in the past, such as anal or have a three-way with you and another woman. After you've done the thing she's been unwilling to do, you tell her you've changed your mind and no longer want to be in a serious relationship with her.
/r/askTRP25/06/14 05:03 PM
1

Hopefully one day when you have an LTR, she doesn't fuck other dudes behind your back.
/r/askTRP25/06/14 04:45 PM
30

Yeah, they got needy and clingy, which is not attractive at all.
/r/askTRP25/06/14 04:22 PM
2

Crossed a fuckin' line? She's still your wife. Seriously, how do you know 100% certainly there isn't another man?
/r/askTRP25/06/14 03:18 AM
1

Who was the first to suggest the separation? Don't say it was mutual. Someone brought it up first. You also said too much in your text reply the next day. She fucking loved what you did but is playing it off like she didn't. I can almost guarantee there is another man in the picture. Your text reply should have been short and sweet. "Gay" would have been an apt response. Who gives a fuck what she thinks now?
/r/askTRP25/06/14 02:18 AM
2

http://therationalmale.com/2012/01/13/just-be-yourself/
/r/askTRP24/06/14 10:54 PM
1

Yep, just like that. If she blows you off, oh well. Go find another one.
/r/askTRP24/06/14 10:30 PM
1

Why are you deleting your replies?
/r/askTRP24/06/14 10:29 PM
1

Don't ask, just tell. You: "Hey, it's southguy, let's get together and catch up"
/r/askTRP24/06/14 10:13 PM
2

A happy medium is best. The girl that OP is describing is a classic teasing attention whore. Spending the night with him, "letting" him kiss her but her not kissing back and punching him when he tried to make a move? The fuck is that shit? How is a girl honestly going to come over and spend the night with a guy in his bed and not expect him to make a move?
/r/askTRP24/06/14 09:53 PM
2

I think where the OP fucked up the most is trying to hook up with a chick who clearly is a tease and an attention whore. She has no interest in fucking him. Perhaps if she were actually interested in him, she would have given it up that night. Especially if she's "crazy". They typically give it up the fastest.
/r/askTRP24/06/14 09:29 PM
2

I dunno, I've seen some pretty beta sofas before.
/r/askTRP24/06/14 08:30 PM
4

I want to understand why women never seem to assume responsibility for themselves Because they don't have to. There will always be someone else to take the blame and usually it's a man. What kind of problems is this friendzoned guy causing in your mother's current relationship?
/r/askTRP24/06/14 08:20 PM
3

When your father is actually God himself though, I'm pretty sure you're going to want to do as he commands.
/r/askTRP24/06/14 08:01 PM
1

It is strange. The only reason why I bring up another man in the picture is because that can be the cause of a sudden change in behavior. She may not be fooling around behind your back, but it's good to consider all possibilities without instantly dismissing them. How's the sex life? I'm guessing it's non-existant at this point.
/r/askTRP24/06/14 07:11 PM
1

If he was actually the son of God: Yes. How so?
/r/askTRP24/06/14 04:46 PM
1

Anyway I felt insulted and explained why. Don't ever explain yourself to a woman, that fucked up the whole thing. You could have responded that she seemed like she could suck a good dick. You probably would have gotten a better response than an explanation of how she had the power to insult you. "Yeah, I'm always very "nice" to girls". With a sexual side tone and facial expression. Maybe lick my tongue or something like that. No, for the love of God, never do this.
/r/askTRP24/06/14 04:41 PM
0

If her behavior is caused by medical conditions, that needs to be addressed right away. If it's not medical, then there's something else going on (besides the trauma that she's been through in the past). Are you being the husband she needs? Is she involved with anyone else outside of your marriage? These are things you need to look into.
/r/askTRP24/06/14 04:30 PM
0

Do you think Jesus was a beta?
/r/askTRP24/06/14 04:21 PM
2

She was talking to (and maybe even fucking) that guy behind your back well before the break, her pissy attitude with you suggests this. Anytime a woman flips and starts behaving the way she did it's most likely because there's another guy in the picture, not because of bullshit work stress. Next her or plate her. Don't even think about having an LTR with her.
/r/askTRP24/06/14 04:04 PM
1

Bail. She's a cock-teasing attention whore. I think she's carrying some heavy emotional luggage I've known chicks who are EXACTLY like her. They have all sorts of "issues" and talk about how they were "almost" raped one time. They think it makes them sound more interesting and special if they have all sorts of things wrong with them. Usually happens if they grew up with a crazy mother. Her tough exterior is a facade.
/r/askTRP24/06/14 03:43 PM
3

What's crazy though, is that you increase in value to other women. They see that ring on your finger and they see you as the unattainable. Women always want what they can't have.
/r/askTRP24/06/14 03:31 PM
2

does your woman look at you with less value in her eyes? Only if you lose frame. If you maintain your frame as the leader of the relationship and don't beta backslide, it'll significantly improve the quality of the relationship. Your buddy needs to keep the mindset that he is still willing to walk away from the relationship if it turns to utter shit. Doesn't matter if there are rings on fingers or kids involved.
/r/askTRP24/06/14 02:42 PM
1

She won't, but if you pay close attention, she won't have to say anything.
/r/askTRP24/06/14 05:12 AM
1

OP is the catch, not her. That is ultimate RP logic. If you really want to get down to the nitty gritty, nobody "deserves" anything. So stop using the word "deserve".
/r/askTRP24/06/14 04:27 AM
0

Could be more subtle this time. Like I said before, his current supervisor might have an agenda to get your husband to quit or fired. She might be very calculating when it comes to shit like this. His job may be in jeopardy. Don't let your marriage be in jeopardy as well.
/r/askTRP24/06/14 01:20 AM
-8

Throw it away. She's not available.
/r/askTRP23/06/14 10:57 PM
0

that one acted like he's describing the current one Surprise surprise. I think you need to trust your husband's judgement.
/r/askTRP23/06/14 10:55 PM
-1

Because of the way you're behaving. You're doing the complete opposite of what your husband would expect you to do. Instead of giving him back rubs and blowjobs, you cut out the sex and act emotionally distant when he needs you the most. Pretty much the way most women would act when their husbands become emotional, stressed out or complaining about something. So he needs to stop doing all these things, start being stoic, cocky and funny, neg you and agree and amplify all your shit, then your thi…
/r/askTRP23/06/14 10:46 PM
0

Is this the first time you've seen him have to answer to a woman though?
/r/askTRP23/06/14 09:58 PM
9

It's great when you make a girl cum and afterward she's lying there trying to catch her breath and telling you you're the fuckin' man.
/r/askTRP23/06/14 09:54 PM
0

when it seems like he went to extra effort to exaggerate something I feel like we need more than a cold beret o really help It doesn't sound like he's exaggerating. You said so yourself that he's having to now bring his work home with him because of his new supervisor, which nobody would enjoy. As far as him having to re-do work because it wasn't done to her specifications, it sounds like he's used to doing things a certain way, then suddenly she comes along and wants him to change everything up…
/r/askTRP23/06/14 09:11 PM
10

Now I have agreed with her that as soon as we will see each other again, she will write me a list with every possible guy that could have fucked her, that she has had make out with, every blowjob, every pussy fingering and for most: every single fucking guy she has actually ever slept with Do you realize you sound like a gigantic nutcase? You're crazy obsessed with this shit. You never bring up past fucks. Most of the time it just causes trouble.
/r/askTRP23/06/14 08:38 PM
-2

Like someone mentioned a little bit ago, you're questioning his masculinity and his leadership abilities. You find him less sexually desireable, most women would react this way. Because you're a "RP'd woman" though, one would think that you could zero in on why you're feeling this way and have the presence of mind to change things. Also just because you and his boss exchanged make-up tips doesn't mean she's a good boss, or even a good person. Why did you feel the need to bring up how her fiancee…
/r/askTRP23/06/14 08:29 PM
3

Hey man, let her go and don't say anything about it. You can't control whether or not she's going to cheat on you at this club, so don't worry about it. If she does decide to do something stupid, you dump her and let her know that she's lost the best thing that ever happened to her.
/r/askTRP23/06/14 07:59 PM
0

I just feel like things were held from me and it really hurts It sounds like you're changing the story now, that's not what you said in your original post. Also, way to make this all about you instead of being there for your husband during a fucked up situation. You've just proven a major redpill point. AWALT.
/r/askTRP23/06/14 07:29 PM
6

Do you think her farts smell like cotton candy?
/r/askTRP23/06/14 05:55 PM
-2

There's something else going on isn't there? Are you unhappy with your marriage for some reason? Suddenly finding yourself attracted to and fantasizing about another man you know? A co-worker perhaps?
/r/askTRP23/06/14 04:30 PM
0

I doubt he made up anything. Perhaps this woman knows he was close to having her job, so she feels threatened by him. Maybe she's piling shit on him at work because she wants him to quit. That's a tactic that has been used time and time again in the workplace. Just because she was decent at work to you and other co-workers were talking about how happy they are (which might be bullshit), doesn't mean she's treating your husband the same way. Personally, if I were in your husband's shoes, I'd feel…
/r/askTRP23/06/14 04:04 PM
0

This is why husbands and wives shouldn't work together, especially when they're working for someone else. You need to never go back to his workplace or interact with his co-workers again. I sympathize with your husband. It's bullshit that this woman got the position she's in just because she has a pussy between her legs. We can all thank feminism for the awkward situation that your husband now finds himself in. Yes she really is that bad. It sucks having a woman boss. They always feel like they …
/r/askTRP23/06/14 03:01 PM
-6

Stupid chick bullshit. She feels guilty for some reason. You could try agree and amplify to make her realize how dumb she's acting, or you could ignore.
/r/askTRP23/06/14 02:26 PM
1

You need to be the captain and she the first mate. Google Married Man Sex Life.
/r/askTRP22/06/14 06:52 AM
4

I could see a half hour late, but 5 hours with no phone call telling you what's going on? Super fishy. What was her excuse?
/r/askTRP22/06/14 05:19 AM
2

Maybe, but why even play into her stupid shit? There are millions of other women out there wanting to be creampied. Why focus on her?
/r/askTRP21/06/14 04:27 AM
3

Because it takes just as much energy and passion to hate as love does. Maybe even more. Regardless, if someone hates you, you're on their mind.
/r/askTRP21/06/14 03:37 AM
3

Nah, forget it. Take hate as a compliment. Keep fucking new pussy.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 11:40 PM
2

If she dumped you? Probably not. In fact most times when a woman dumps a man she's been in an LTR with, usually it's for another guy. I'd say the only way to turn an ex into a plate is if you were the one that did the dumping, thereby having higher value than her.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 10:57 PM
2

Then you get a gold star for doing the right thing.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 10:40 PM
0

You're annoying. No wonder you've gone 45 months without sex.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 07:32 PM
1

Probably a good idea. Why did you take out a fat, ugly, old single mom anyway?
/r/askTRP20/06/14 07:11 PM
2

I'm 12 years old. Do you even know where you are?
/r/askTRP20/06/14 07:09 PM
4

who will put out in a short six months MIGHT put out in six months. You're also forgetting that there are plenty of 18-20 year old chicks out there that aren't virgins and won't make OP wait 6 months for sex.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 05:58 PM
2

Sounds like you have the green light to penetrate her. You're not emotionally invested in her and she didn't dump you, so it should be all good. Just don't get oneitis and you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 05:51 PM
2

A lot of my male friends made it out like I was way out of order That's easy to do when they aren't the ones it's happening to. No, you can't just brush this disrespect off. Don't conversate with her about it, don't pour your feelings out on her, just break up with her and never get back into a serious relationship with her.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 05:50 PM
1

they demand cohabitation straightaway That's where you have to be firm and let them know straightaway that you're not looking for that. If she's not happy with your answer, then she can walk. i was on a couple of dates with fat ugly old single mother Did she at least give good head?
/r/askTRP20/06/14 05:36 PM
4

If he plays his cards right he does. Especially if he's into women in their late 30's or early 40's, they love fucking much younger dudes.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 05:24 PM
1

Unhaaaapppy middle-aged women get plastic surgery.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 03:04 PM
1

What about fat bitches?
/r/askTRP20/06/14 02:57 PM
1

Most guys aren't great looking, average at best. The dude in the pics needs to shave that shit off his face and grow his hair out, but overall, he's a decent average looking guy who should have no problem pulling puss.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 02:47 PM
4

Who knows man, she's a teenage girl. Find a woman who isn't a teenager, and doesn't have a release date on her vagina.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 02:32 PM
2

Who broke off the relationship?
/r/askTRP20/06/14 02:27 PM
-1

You could have just walked up and stuck your cock in her mouth, she probably would have loved that.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 02:21 PM
1

Ruling out medical conditions, you're right. She doesn't enjoy sex with the man she's with, which would lead her to contemplating sex with someone else.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 02:56 AM
2

Ok... But OP's girlfriend said she would go home with the guy and you defended her actions.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 02:54 AM
-2

Nah, if we were in an LTR I'd move in with you, then you could work while I drink beer and smoke cigars all day
/r/askTRP19/06/14 05:57 PM
2

Next time you're hanging out with her, kiss her. Don't say anything, just go in for the kiss. You'll know right then depending on how she reacts.
/r/askTRP19/06/14 05:32 PM
2

You openly say that you would go home with another guy (implying you want to fuck him) in front of your boyfriend and he lets you get away with it?
/r/askTRP19/06/14 04:41 PM
4

She's your girlfriend? That's some serious disrespect, especially coming from an LTR. I hope you either broke up with her or downgraded her to plate status. You need to tell her you aren't ready for a serious relationship right now. That you need to experience more in life before you settle down into an LTR. Tell her that you guys can still hang out and fuck, but you will be seeing other women. If she's not cool with this, she's free to walk anytime she wants.
/r/askTRP19/06/14 04:27 PM
26

Post pics? Kidding aside, who cares if those betas are staring at her. They aren't fucking her, you are.
/r/askTRP19/06/14 04:04 PM
2

You have a drama-drunk on your hands, which is no fun at all. Be prepared to baby-sit her at parties and bars when she's had too much to drink because you never know what she's going to say and/or do. Having an extreme personality change like that indicates a problem. She needs to stop drinking. Be careful and don't start taking this relationship too seriously. I'm guessing you're in your early 20's? You should be spinning plates, not tied down to a relationship.
/r/askTRP19/06/14 02:38 PM
3

The answer to question 2 is no. Otherwise you wouldn't be posting about her here. Find another chick. One you don't work with who is actually into you.
/r/askTRP19/06/14 04:37 AM
-2

The majority of women enjoy sex. Is there possibly a small percentage that don't? Sure, but that's the exception. Probably because they've never experienced good sex. She may not be fucking you, she may not be fucking me, but she's fucking somebody.
/r/askTRP19/06/14 02:48 AM
-1

If an LTR isn't fucking you, she's either fucking someone else or contemplating it.
/r/askTRP19/06/14 01:10 AM
6

Good you passed on it, especially if you value your job. You could have landed yourself in a drama shit pile and been fired.
/r/askTRP18/06/14 01:37 AM
1

Yes, especially if it's an "ironic" mustache.
/r/askTRP18/06/14 12:30 AM
3

This. Also saying things in an email to a chick like "Good day, m'lady. I would like to ask you out on a date" is classy as fuck.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 11:27 PM
1

Why 2 to 4 weeks? Depending on how what goes? Does your wife have any male friends? Especially one she's made recently?
/r/askTRP17/06/14 03:46 AM
1

Who got physical? You or her? Did she start the fight out of nowhere? Why are you allowing your mother in law to mediate?
/r/askTRP17/06/14 03:07 AM
1

You know that for a fact?
/r/askTRP17/06/14 03:04 AM
1

Her and her mother... Pay a surprise visit to her parent's place one night. She might not be there.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 12:49 AM
1

Who brought up the idea of giving each other space? You or her?
/r/askTRP16/06/14 11:31 PM
1

If he buys you a drink first, you know he's beta. As far as an alpha streak goes, maybe he'll punch a hole in the wall after he's creampied you.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 04:48 AM
3

Girl game? Sure, it's simple. Walk into a bar, find a guy sitting by himself and tell him you'll fuck him if he buys you a drink. Done and done.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 02:57 AM
7

1k per client? You're overcharging by a thousand dollars.
/r/askTRP15/06/14 11:52 PM
7

Why are you wasting your time? Get off your boyfriend's account and do something nice for him instead of acting like a bitch online.
/r/askTRP15/06/14 10:14 PM
1

Take the new job man. Fuck working 60 to 70 hrs a week, unless your current job is your passion and you love it. Doesn't sound like that's the case though.
/r/askTRP15/06/14 08:43 PM
2

If she's being disagreeable, laugh at her. Treat her like you would a spoiled child. She goes into meltdown mode, whip out your phone and record it on video. Always remember you are the captain of your ship. She's the first mate. If she's not happy, then maybe you need to find another first mate.
/r/askTRP15/06/14 07:04 PM
1

Wasn't trying to insult you bro. Sounds like you have the right mindset. I've been in relationship where the girl lived about 30 mins away. Didn't work out well because we didn't get to see each other that often. Looking back I should have just plated her. I'm sure she's hot, but seriously there's no such thing as a 10. They can come close though.
/r/askTRP15/06/14 06:40 PM
0

Start by realizing she's not a dime. You've already put her on a pedestal just by posting here about her. Low partner count? You only know this by the info she's disclosed. She doesn't shit skittles and her pussy doesn't taste like honey. Make her a plate. Don't attempt LTR with her. Go for local puss at the same time.
/r/askTRP15/06/14 07:12 AM
-2

A 7.7/10? Nah man, wait for the 7.8/10 or even a 8.3/10, then make a move.
/r/askTRP15/06/14 05:30 AM
2

I dunno man, but I hear a lot of people telling the same stories these days. 100k in student loans and they're waiting tables making 20k a year while hoping for a better opportunity to come along. Won't be long until that bubble bursts. Might be the kill-shot for this country.
/r/askTRP15/06/14 04:07 AM
1

250 thousand dollars in student loans? 25k a year? Holy shit bro, what the fuck are you guys doing?
/r/askTRP14/06/14 09:21 PM
1

Good job.
/r/askTRP14/06/14 08:01 PM
1

You're on the right track my friend. And yeah, she is full of shit.
/r/askTRP14/06/14 07:59 PM
9

You THINK you're about to have sex. Women have a tendency of changing their minds at the drop of a hat. Be careful, what you do in the next few days could leave you with your dick in your hand that night.
/r/askTRP14/06/14 02:15 AM
6

Hope you've set up plans to get together for drinks by now instead of engaging in bullshit text conversation. If not, you're blowing it.
/r/askTRP14/06/14 02:01 AM
14

Yeah. It's ok to get misty eyed at a movie. Happens to me from time to time. Just don't make a big deal out of it and she won't either. In fact women love it when you get a little misty eyed during a movie. Shows that you do have a level of sensitivity to you. Just don't cry like a bitch or do it too often. If she makes fun of you for it, tell her you caught a whiff of one of her armpits and it made your eyes water.
/r/askTRP14/06/14 01:55 AM
3

"Don't worry, when you're in the trunk of my car, I'll keep it under 90"
/r/askTRP14/06/14 12:44 AM
1

Rational male www.therationalmale.com is a good one Roosh www.rooshv.com is alright if you're looking for pua field reports, never liked him much though.
/r/askTRP13/06/14 11:27 PM
1

she means the female definition of "abusive", which is "unattractive and creepy and everything he says feels like he's trying to manipulate me." "And he's controlling, he won't let me go get drunk with my guy friends, then he gets mad and raises his voice when I tell him to stop being a jealous pussy."
/r/askTRP13/06/14 05:04 PM
2

Your ego is a big part of all the problems you're having with women. I advise you to drop the ego, things will get easier from there.
/r/askTRP13/06/14 04:49 PM
1

I was the only guy she was attracted to physically No, you weren't. What she's really saying is: "Because of my low SMV, I get rejected by guys on OKcupid, I'm going to make myself feel better by pretending that I'm not attracted to them anyway". If she was the type that's into booty calls ALL women are the type that are into booty calls, especially women like her. Don't let her fool you. You're going the wrong route seeking validation from a woman to boost your confidence, especially a chick li…
/r/askTRP13/06/14 03:44 PM
6

Bitch. Shut up. Just this alone would have been a good response too.
/r/askTRP13/06/14 02:52 PM
1

All doll heads and porcelain Marilyn Monroe masks neatly lined up on the mantle.
/r/askTRP13/06/14 12:49 AM
36

He's a pussy. Stay out of the whole thing. Instead of paying attention to what this stupid skank does at the festival, focus your attention on the other hundreds of women there that are looking to get creampied. Btw, what the fuck is a "secret relationship"?
/r/askTRP13/06/14 12:38 AM
2

"Interesting. I'll have to think about that while you're sucking my cock sometime"
/r/askTRP12/06/14 07:16 PM
1

This. You can't get mad at a fish for smelling like fish too.
/r/askTRP12/06/14 05:49 PM
1

it's depressing if this is true It is true. She showed you a glimpse of her true colors when she fucked your buddy when she was "drunk". How can i ever trust women again? You can trust a woman to be a woman. this girl was my world sadly I know the feeling and yes it is sad. YOU should be your world.
/r/askTRP12/06/14 05:31 PM
1

If a girl is wet and tingly enough for you, she won't give a shit if you're living in a bomb shelter.
/r/askTRP12/06/14 05:21 PM
1

You need to cut contact with this girl and never speak to her again. I can almost guarantee you that every time she broke things off with you it was so that she could ride a new cock. She said she needed to break up with you to work on herself? More like to work a new cock. Never go back. Ever.
/r/askTRP12/06/14 05:19 PM
6

Get off of facebook. But if you decide to stay on, don't put captions on your photos. Let them speak for themselves.
/r/askTRP12/06/14 04:44 PM
2

Forget about her, she's unavailable. She's also not your "friend" if you have oneitis for her.
/r/askTRP12/06/14 04:15 PM
6

http://youtu.be/wDk6fvkEp2k
/r/askTRP12/06/14 03:18 AM
2

What do i do without coming off as an asshole? Who cares if she thinks you're an asshole? Forget about this bitch, she's using you. She's not your friend.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 10:56 PM
1

You still believe that our votes actually count toward something? Also, the majority of women tend to vote for the most attractive candidate instead of voting for them based on their policies.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 10:42 PM
1

What eventually happened with your wife and all these GNOs?
/r/askTRP11/06/14 10:33 PM
1

It just doesn't work like that. There's a lot of guys here that would beg to differ.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 09:27 PM
1

Funny, they stop going to the clubs when they hit 24 or 25 because they've gotten married, then they hit the clubs again when they're 30-35 when they've gotten divorced.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 09:20 PM
4

I don't think you have anything to worry about, but you never know what'll happen once she's had a few drinks. Imagine all the pussy you could be getting at this rave you'll playing at... Damn man.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 07:22 PM
2

It is a little odd that she's inviting mostly guys (all single I'm assuming) to the party. I know they're co-workers, but still... Does she hang out solo with any of these guys outside of work?
/r/askTRP11/06/14 06:00 PM
2

It's a good thing that this awful relationship is now over. I was in a similar situation like yours years ago and I was a fucking mess when it happened. Took me a long time to get over it too. Now, years later, I can honestly say that her breaking up with me was one of the BEST fucking things that has happened to me in my adult life. I thank the Lord above that I didn't marry that stupid piece of shit. I know you probably won't feel like doing this, but get it together and go out and fuck at lea…
/r/askTRP11/06/14 05:53 PM
9

If you want to play live at the rave, go play live at the rave. That sounds like it would be awesome as fuck. So go do it. If she's going to cheat on you at her party, she'll cheat. You really have no control over it, so don't worry about it. You'll know if she did too, most likely if she's acting weird when you come home. Do you live with her? How long have you two been together?
/r/askTRP11/06/14 05:33 PM
20

Sounds like you caught her off guard. Hang out with her again and go in for another kiss. If she backs away again, next her.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 05:26 PM
1

Indeed. This is the reason negging a beautiful woman works so well.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 04:59 PM
4

Avoid talking to chicks on the fucking internet. The social media bullshit is a validation machine to them. Interact with women face to face in the real world. That's where their Facebook and okcupid and Instagram likes mean absolutely Jack shit to anybody.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 04:03 AM
1

You need to work on your confidence and personality right now. Talk to EVERYBODY you meet. Make eye contact while you talk to them. You'll be surprised at how this will help your personality. You're in high school so get involved with activities. Always be busy doing something. Sports, clubs, student council, whatever. If someone acts like an ass if you try to talk to them, laugh and walk away like you don't care.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 11:31 PM
3

You're offended by that? Don't be. Matter of fact, don't let yourself be offended by anything. Of course people don't want you to do better than them. It's much easier to sit on the sidelines and criticize the players than to make an effort to get into the game.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 11:00 PM
10

I dunno man. I knew a blue-pill guy who struck out with women left and right, this guy was the real life friendzone Phil. Anything I would tell him would either fall on deaf ears, or he thought was completely crazy. I told him one time before he went on a first date to make a move on her. He said he refused to make a move on the first date because he was a gentleman... That was his first and last date with that particular chick.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 10:23 PM
1

Just don't speak to her anymore. Order your ticket and go to the festival by yourself if you want to.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 10:14 PM
2

I know I'll probably not be going to that festival, but I feel she'll bring it up sooner or later : how do I tell her? You think she'll bring up the fact you guys had plans to go together? I doubt you have to worry about that. Cut contact with her completely, erase all communication methods you have of hers.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 09:53 PM
1

If you really value your job, ignore her.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 09:44 PM
1

Are you sure she's not just being friendly toward you? How does she act with the other male employees?
/r/askTRP10/06/14 08:59 PM
2

I think someone needs to get an actual marketing budget.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 06:01 PM
1

The truth is, it really doesn't matter what you say to women. In fact, if you pull it off right, you can say shit that makes no sense whatsoever and they'll eat it up. Here's what you need to do. Start making eye contact with everyone you meet and say hello. Have a short conversation if time permits. At the store? Ask the little old lady cashier how her day is going. Do this with both men and women. Keep doing this for awhile and you'll see how immensely this will help your game and personality.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 05:55 PM
5

Very true. My rule was this, if I picked the restaurant (which I usually did) I would pay. If she wanted to pick the restaurant, no problem but she's paying for dinner.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 05:44 PM
11

Everybody has a different take on this. If you want to pay, then pay. If you want to split the bill, then split it. Basically do whatever the fuck you feel like doing without giving a shit what she thinks.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 05:37 PM
3

I'll bet her "boyfriend" is bullshitting her, telling her that he and his wife are divorcing, but holding off on it for some reason or another (kids in school, medical reasons, financial reasons, etc.). I'll bet his wife doesn't even know they're divorcing either. Regardless she's still a dumb skank for screwing a married man, but you know how it goes. A woman would rather share an alpha with other women than be in a monogamous LTR with a beta. Forget about her, she sounds like an idiot and woul…
/r/askTRP10/06/14 05:25 PM
3

Stop being so angry and realize that what she does when she's not with you is out of your control. You can't blame the guy who raw-dogged her, most guys would have done the same thing. It was bound to happen at some point. You can't really be mad at her either. Look at it this way, she was honest with you about it. A lot of girls would have lied just to save face or avoid an uncomfortable situation. I doubt she was black-out drunk though, that's just her rationalizing her behavior, as you said. …
/r/askTRP10/06/14 05:00 PM
0

That's not fucked up at all, that is great.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 04:46 PM
14

Say "finally" then smack her on the ass. Don't stand there and complain.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 03:15 PM
0

I agree with you, if he's looking to eventually pimp her out.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 02:59 AM
2

Read the first few sentences of your post. Leave. Next her and never look back. She's a fucking crazy drama queen.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 02:58 AM
2

Now, she is quite pissed at me that I deleted her on FB Fuck her. Who cares if she's pissed. You know why she's really pissed? Because she just lost a valuable accessory: A beta orbiter. She's a nice good-girl? Sure she is, just ask the last guy who stuck it in her ass and came in her mouth in a public bathroom. Don't ever talk to her again.
/r/askTRP09/06/14 10:59 PM
2

Are these chicks that are all over him quality women? I knew a beta as fuck dude who used to have chicks chasing after his nuts all the time. They were all fat chicks, but they were still technically women.
/r/askTRP09/06/14 10:45 PM
2

Either she's got a man already, she has an alpha fuck buddy she's hoping to turn into a relationship, or she's hoping to get back together with an ex-bf who dumped her and is still hanging around for pussy.
/r/askTRP09/06/14 10:35 PM
2

Sounds like you're too far deep in the friend zone to even try to date this chick or have her respond to a move. You will not be able to have sex with her. Move on to someone who actually wants you. The only way you can even hope to hook up with her is to cut contact. Go complete radio silence without any explanation. Work on yourself, get more experience with women, then maybe years from now, when she's closer to hitting the wall, you'll run into her somewhere and she will respond to your confi…
/r/askTRP09/06/14 09:01 PM
1

Is that so?
/r/askTRP09/06/14 08:23 PM
1

An easy way for you to get a guy to go home with you at a bar is to tell him that you want to take him home and fuck him. Bingo!
/r/askTRP09/06/14 07:07 PM
2

My first thought was that she watches gay porn (guy on guy) and doesn't want to weird you out. Either that or she enjoys watching land whales getting nailed by midgets.
/r/askTRP09/06/14 05:56 PM
1

Next time you're in the shack together alone. Say that you've seen her tits, now she has to show you her pussy. When she shows you, start playing with it and kiss her.
/r/askTRP09/06/14 05:39 PM
1

If a woman is into you, she will do practically anything to spend time with you.
/r/askTRP09/06/14 05:28 PM
0

Virgins are boring. Also, what's the difference between a virgin and a washing machine? After you dump your load in a washing machine it doesn't fall in love with you.
/r/askTRP09/06/14 03:12 PM
1

Sounds like something out of a chick flick or romantic comedy.
/r/askTRP09/06/14 12:07 AM
1

Either make a move or find another chick to make a move on.
/r/askTRP09/06/14 12:06 AM
1

The odds of you contracting something like AIDS is low. There was an article on this on the Rational Male site not too long ago. Pretty much just have to watch out for herpes. The rest is all curable.
/r/askTRP08/06/14 09:09 PM
2

She enjoys the attention he gives her. That's why she's still talking to him. Make fun of her stupidity for assuming this guy is just her friend, when he clearly wants to get into her pants. If she asks you if you want her to delete his info and cut contact with him, tell her to put on her big girl panties and make her own decisions.
/r/askTRP08/06/14 04:40 PM
2

Keep working toward your goal. Take a look at Notorious BIG in the mean time. Did he tell women he was out of their leaugue because he was fat? Hell no. Women called him big papa. Even before he made all that money. I'm telling you, some women LOVE a big papa with good game.
/r/askTRP08/06/14 03:57 AM
1

Arranging time to meet up with a guy she knows has a thing for her? Nah brah, nothing to be concerned about there.
/r/askTRP08/06/14 01:47 AM
6

She and him are having problems. He's been around for awhile, you just didn't know about him. That's most likely the real reason she broke up with you; to get new cock. He doesn't know what she's doing. Ignore her. Never go back.
/r/askTRP07/06/14 02:24 AM
2

A BP man will love a woman unconditionally. You see it all the time when they talk about how they've been cheated on but really want to work things out, usually with a counselor, to keep the relationship stable. Which brings up another point. Do BP Men simply seek stability and comfort in their relationships, even going so far as to overlook the most heinous indiscretions and disrespect perpetrated by the woman they love? Where a RP man will just walk away from the situation altogether.
/r/askTRP07/06/14 01:25 AM
3

Wouldn't you agree that romantic love is conditional, while love for your own children isn't?
/r/askTRP07/06/14 01:19 AM
1

Older women are easy as fuck. Don't hesitate when making a move on her. Be sure to make that move on your first outing together. Be decisive and ALWAYS act like you know what you're doing even if you don't. You'll be balls deep in 34 year old puss in no time.
/r/askTRP06/06/14 11:25 PM
0

...Yeah. Fake as fuck troll post.
/r/askTRP06/06/14 09:57 PM
1

She was like i don't give out my number just like that! Plus i have other plans tomorrow, maybe another time. NEXT
/r/askTRP06/06/14 09:38 PM
1

Here's the thing, if you act like it's a big deal, she'll follow your lead and then it WILL become a big deal. I've known unemployed, lazy-ass, bums pull prime puss from chicks who had great jobs. Never bothered the women one bit that they didn't make any money and these guys weren't even that great looking. They just had some tight game.
/r/askTRP06/06/14 08:56 PM
1

This is the absolute truth right here.
/r/askTRP06/06/14 08:10 PM
1

Her interest in my in real life is fairly high How do you know this? Have you had sex with her yet?
/r/askTRP06/06/14 07:48 PM
1

good night treasure Unacceptable. You tell her to tell him to stop texting her and lose his number or else she'll lose you. Plain and simple. No exceptions.
/r/askTRP06/06/14 07:38 PM
7

Being a nice guy = bad Being an asshole = bad (but not as bad as being a nice guy) Being a confident, good man who doesn't put up with anybody's shit = Perfect
/r/askTRP06/06/14 07:32 PM
2

I just don't want to have to be an asshole. Then don't be one. You don't have to be an asshole. Be confident, cocky and funny, assertive, command respect and treat everyone with respect. If someone disrespects you, cut them out of your life. A lot of guys make the mistake of thinking they have to act like assholes when they start learning TRP. It's like they feel the need to put on their asshole mask before they leave the house. Then they go out and act like complete douchebags to everyone they …
/r/askTRP06/06/14 05:58 PM
1

DO NOT tell her you're a virgin. Don't even bring up the fact you've never kissed a woman.
/r/askTRP06/06/14 05:22 PM
3

It sounds like she's just busy and not all that invested. She's definitely not invested. If she really really liked OP and wanted to hook up with him, she would damn near break her neck to make that happen. If a woman wants to fuck you, she'll find a way to fuck you. No matter how busy she is.
/r/askTRP06/06/14 05:15 PM
10

So they met just this past year and she considers him a "really good friend"? More like a "friend" who secretly wants to fuck her. aka beta orbiter. This guy is going to try and sabotage your relationship. They're no longer in class together, therefore there is no reason they should still be communicating.
/r/askTRP06/06/14 05:09 PM
-1

Next her. She's crazy. Never stick your dick in crazy.
/r/askTRP06/06/14 04:46 PM
1

Sounds like she might have another guy on the line. Maybe an ex that she's hoping to get back together with came sniffing back around for some pussy, or a fuck buddy that she's hoping to be in a relationship with. You might have just been a back-up dick for her for a little while.
/r/askTRP06/06/14 04:41 PM
1

i'm thinking 3 might come off as too needy/clingy as this is only ~once a month activity (she might think im overreacting). True. Don't go with 3. Do you live with her? Still is strange that you've never been invited to these hang-outs. One would think that if she were happy to be in a relationship with you, she would want to show you off to all of her co-workers, especially the female ones.
/r/askTRP06/06/14 03:36 PM
-8

"If I ever do hurt her, I'll LET you kick my ass bro" Then laugh and pat him on the back or on shoulder.
/r/askTRP06/06/14 03:25 PM
3

Combination of 1 and 2. She's just your GF, it's not like she's your wife. Do you live with her? You know you can downgrade her to plate status in the blink of an eye if you wanted to. Boozy co-worker hangouts where SO's are prohibited are a recipe for disaster. Does she seem to be really buddy-buddy with a particular male co-worker? If so, watch out.
/r/askTRP06/06/14 03:01 PM
1

Too busy banging bitches and hating women to respond to everything you wrote. All joking aside, you do bring up some valid points. Men find TRP mostly because they either just got out of a shitty relationship or were cheated on by the princess they held in high regard. You want to know how all this relates to love? I've explained it. Self love is the greatest love of all. If you don't love yourself then how can anyone else love you (to the best of their abilities)?
/r/askTRP06/06/14 12:52 AM
1

If you don't like what TRP has to say, why are you still here?
/r/askTRP05/06/14 11:12 PM
1

Actually haven't seen a lot of hatred towards feminists on this sub myself. I've seen a few discussion posts on them every once in awhile. There is a general disdain for feminism in TRP though. You can see why when you watch the videos on YouTube of feminists shrieking and cursing at random men on the street. As far as hatred for beta males, I think a lot of men here are recovering betas and they loathe the way they behaved in the past. TRP is really all about loving yourself, because at the end…
/r/askTRP05/06/14 10:04 PM
3

Ignore a warning about a crazy husband? That's a great way to catch a bullet or two. Be careful.
/r/askTRP05/06/14 09:05 PM
1

Focus more on the positive than the negative.
/r/askTRP05/06/14 08:19 PM
1

It's good for a laugh
/r/askTRP05/06/14 02:24 AM
2

Generally the advice on r/asktrp seems pretty solid though. Much more so than that shit-festival called r/relationships
/r/askTRP04/06/14 11:23 PM
1

there are neckbeards abusing it and making everyone feel awkward Please tell me you have sources for this. I feel like having a good cringe.
/r/askTRP04/06/14 10:59 PM
1

Just like a feminist to paint something as hateful and angry. They unknowingly project their own traits onto the groups that they bash. TRP isn't all about hate, it's all about love. They will never understand it, so therefore it must be destroyed.
/r/askTRP04/06/14 10:58 PM
1

when I wanted to cheat on this girl and had the opportunities, my manly characteristics stopped me from doing it because it was the right way to live Good that you didn't cheat. I could have cheated multiple times on my ex too, but never did. Guess who eventually cheated? Men shouldn't ever cheat, that's something "unhaaappppy" women do. Most men exhibit virtues such as loyalty, honesty and morality. Most women have no clue what loyalty, honesty and morality even really mean.
/r/askTRP04/06/14 07:51 PM
7

Not all women are whores, but theres a whore in all women. Good way of putting it.
/r/askTRP04/06/14 07:25 PM
0

Yes. Paying for pussy is the ultimate way of pedestalizing it.
/r/askTRP03/06/14 07:19 PM
-4

Not by much
/r/askTRP03/06/14 07:13 PM
0

Paying for sex? Especially a single mother? There's nothing RP about doing that.
/r/askTRP03/06/14 05:59 PM
11

I'll bet the argument that ended the relationship was started by her. She needed an excuse to break up with him so she could get with the other guy. There's a good chance that she might come sniffing back around once the endorphine cloud wears off with this new guy. You need to try and keep him from getting back together with her when this happens. I know, easier said than done.
/r/askTRP03/06/14 05:06 PM
2

just tell her I dont think it would have been a good idea for her to take me home drunk and I would rather take her home sober Keep any explanations to a minimum. In fact, it's even better to not explain yourself at all.
/r/askTRP03/06/14 03:56 PM
2

You did the right thing. Had you dropped your coworker to get with the bartender, you would have entered her frame and come off like her puppy dog following her around. The odds of you being able to bang the bartender are actually much better now than they ever have been before I think.
/r/askTRP03/06/14 03:49 PM
3

You need to treat everyone with respect This. Also, don't just chat up attractive chicks in public. Talk to EVERYONE you meet. It will help your personality and game immensely.
/r/askTRP03/06/14 03:25 PM
1

Looking forward to it being up and running.
/r/askTRP03/06/14 01:32 AM
-2

So essentially she says French men are more masculine than American men? That's a laugh. You should have reminded her that the French men bent over for Hitler and his army back in World War II.
/r/askTRP03/06/14 12:57 AM
17

No. Typically men and women can't be friends. Also, one of the top rules of TRP is to never take advice from a woman, especially dating advice.
/r/askTRP02/06/14 08:34 PM
1

This. NEVER hold a woman's purse. If she hands it to you, drop it on the fucking floor.
/r/askTRP01/06/14 11:10 PM
1

It's been stated that women don't truly understand or exhibit certain virtues such as honor, morality and honesty. They may have a general sense of what these things mean. They may even attempt to practice them to the best of their abilities. But do they truly have these qualities?
/r/askTRP01/06/14 09:11 PM
1

Next time if everyone is acting indecisive, just calmly say: "I'm going to X, if anyone wants to join me, then let's go". Then you leave and eat dinner like a boss, even if you're by yourself.
/r/askTRP01/06/14 03:00 AM
1

No because women don't even know how they themselves work. They aren't logical, which is why a young man should never take dating advice from a woman, including his own mother. The father is the one that should drop RP dating knowledge on his son. A good woman will realize this.
/r/askTRP01/06/14 01:44 AM
4

If a woman declines an offer to see you and doesn't offer up a raincheck for another day, next her immediately. Remember, a woman who is into you will damn near break her neck to spend time with you.
/r/askTRP31/05/14 11:07 PM
1

Just cut contact completely. Erase her. And never stick your dick in crazy again.
/r/askTRP31/05/14 07:37 PM
1

Dude you fucked up by opening your mouth after sex. Don't ever do that again, you came off as needy and/or clingy. Then you texted her? You probably won't be feeling the inside of her pussy again. Delete her number and move on. And don't forget, in the future keep your fuckin yap shut.
/r/askTRP31/05/14 05:25 PM
1

I don't know what to tell you bro. This whole thing clearly bothers you yet it seems you lack the balls to do anything about it. Either put an end to the situation or keep doing what you're doing, the choice is yours.
/r/askTRP30/05/14 03:30 AM
1

Doesn't matter if she made the first move or not. Your "friend" fucked your mom and he keeps hanging it over your head like he has some kind of power over you. I'm telling ya bro, it's only a matter of time before he fucks her again. Did you tell your mom you know what happened and how much her irresponsible actions have embarrassed you and your family? If not you need to.
/r/askTRP30/05/14 02:40 AM
3

It's a good reply and the look on a chick's face when you say this is priceless. For bonus points, if she brings up the fact that you and her have been fucking say "Oh... You don't count" with a smirk.
/r/askTRP30/05/14 02:26 AM
13

"Zero. I'm a pure Saintly virgin and proud of it" Only say this if you've fucked her of course.
/r/askTRP30/05/14 12:32 AM
1

So what's the current situation? Odd that you responded to this again after all this time.
/r/askTRP29/05/14 11:33 PM
1

If you've tried to make a move and she rejected you, cut contact and go for other girls. Haven't had the opportunity? Dude, anytime is the right time. I don't care if she's surrounded by all her friends and the president is there. You grab her and make a move. If she resists, then next her.
/r/askTRP29/05/14 02:28 AM
1

It's like holy shit calm the fuck down. Yeah I'm pretty good, but christ you're coming on like a needy little cunt. And that's just where you want her, mein friend. Why aren't you fucking her? Edit: forgot to add the fucking part.
/r/askTRP29/05/14 12:02 AM
1

Typically means she's head over heels for you. Usually happens in a fuck buddy type of situation where she's trying to win you over.
/r/askTRP28/05/14 09:42 PM
0

Add a long sigh and a shake of the head for maximum awesomeness.
/r/askTRP28/05/14 09:40 PM
1

"For the same reason I love McDonalds. Fast, cheap and easy"
/r/askTRP28/05/14 09:38 PM
1

The way she's acting May be a sign that she herself has been cheating, or thinking about cheating. A lot of times women won't sink a relationship unless they have another one lined up to jump to. Does she have any guy "friends"?
/r/askTRP28/05/14 12:51 PM
6

This man speaks the truth. Though instead of screaming yelling, it's better to laugh at the situation and say something along the lines of "I don't have time to deal with your stupid shit". Then leave without another word.
/r/askTRP28/05/14 04:32 AM
1

Like I said, there's a time and place for everything. I heard a story about a guy who discovered his wife was cheating on him via her secret diary. He tore the pages out and stapled them all over the walls of their living room before she came home from work. When she eventually came home and saw what he did, she started going into bitch mode, so he slapped her in the face with her own diary and left. Do you consider that RP behavior?
/r/askTRP28/05/14 03:40 AM
5

There's a time and place for everything. Best course of action for when you get pissed is to just leave and cut contact for a bit. Don't make a production out of it. Don't threaten, don't punch walls or shit like that. Just simply grab your keys and leave.
/r/askTRP28/05/14 02:23 AM
2

As often as you want to. Remember, with a plate you call the shots. The key thing is to not act needy or clingy.
/r/askTRP28/05/14 02:18 AM
6

Guy asks if you're gay, best response is: "Dude, are you hitting on me?" Then laugh at any response he gives. Rib him for the rest of the night about him being gay and hitting on you. Call him "princess". He'll get pissed and lose frame. Laugh at him some more when that happens. He may want to fight. Just tell him it's not your fault that he's upset about being a decadent faggot. If he tries to hit you, beat his ass.
/r/askTRP27/05/14 10:22 PM
3

Laugh at her like she's a scared child. If she gets pissed take out your cell phone and video her. Make a mini documentary called "Mouse in the House" with her meltdown as the intro. Narrate the video like you're Steve Irwin. Once you catch the mouse get it on video and edit it all together. Hopefully she'll realize how ridiculous she's acting.
/r/askTRP27/05/14 09:15 PM
1

I disagree with everything you just said. Married women demonstrate hypergamy like crazy. They might tell you they're just looking to fuck around, but that's just talk. Keep fucking a married woman long enough and she'll start telling you she wants to leave her husband because she has feelings for you. Good luck with married chicks though and have fun. It'll only be a matter of time before shit blows up in your face
/r/askTRP27/05/14 05:17 AM
2

Is she married? If so, then yeah it's pretty fucked up. Fucking around with a married woman can be dangerous. That's how guys wind up getting shot. If she just has a boyfriend? Meh, she's fair game. Still can be a sticky situation though. Moral: stick to single chicks. Less drama.
/r/askTRP26/05/14 09:07 PM
1

No no no. Keep doing what you're doing. If she bitches again about the texting thing, tell her to send you a pic of her pussy and/or tits with every text she sends and then MAYBE she'll get a quicker response. Say it with a playful devilish grin and that settles everything.
/r/askTRP26/05/14 08:14 PM
6

Exactly. She fucked up. Her loss.
/r/askTRP26/05/14 06:38 PM
1

Sounds like you're doing great. Even if your current plates aren't ideal to you, keep them spinning if you enjoy being with them. Continue to look for other plates as well.
/r/askTRP26/05/14 02:22 PM
22

Don't confront. She slipped up and clearly isn't totally into the LTR. Tell her you don't want to be in a serious relationship right now. Downgrade her to plate status and go fuck the other chick you have waiting on the sideline. You'll regret it if you don't.
/r/askTRP26/05/14 02:13 PM
-1

No shit.
/r/askTRP26/05/14 02:05 PM
1

Down voted because I brought up some harsh questions instead of placating to this bitch like all the other white knights... Figures. Ask trp is becoming an emotional tampon.
/r/askTRP26/05/14 04:37 AM
2

He's new to RP logic. A lot of guys read RP stuff for the first time and think "ah hah! I have to go out and act like a complete asshole to everyone I meet". That aside, you mentioned you wanted him to go out and engage in sports with your friends. Do you have guy "friends" you want him to hang out with? That could be a problem. Not just for him, but for any guy you plan on being in an LTR with. You're quick to point out all of his flaws. Don't you think you have any of your own? Because you kin…
/r/askTRP25/05/14 11:31 PM
1

An app where women rate and select pre-written comments to describe their ex bf's? Fascinating. Could you imagine the shitstorm if there was an app like this for men?
/r/askTRP23/05/14 01:13 AM
2

"Nice" girl persona. Yeah she acts that way toward you, while she just might be acting as someone else's filthy whore. You ever seen one of those pornos where the girl in the beginning seems like this sweet innocent girl, then she winds up being used as a human toilet by the end.
/r/askTRP23/05/14 12:17 AM
3

Best is to agree and amplify. 2) You've hooked up with lots of girls haven't you? "Lots of girls? I dunno, I lost count"
/r/askTRP22/05/14 10:06 PM
2

I am trying to be assertive, confident and sarcastic Assertive and confident is good. Sarcasm can make you just look like an asshole if you do it incorrectly. Make sure to have a good balance so that way everything that comes out of your mouth doesn't make you seem like a negative douche. Otherwise people won't want you around. Also it sounds like you're trying too hard to be dominant. Chill out.
/r/askTRP21/05/14 10:50 PM
3

I think i might have a sever case of faggot, any advice? Yes, stop acting like a faggot. Butterflies? Seriously? You're on your way to Oneitisville, bro. Have you actually met this girl in real life, or is this some tinder shit? Also, stop chit chatting with chicks via text. DO NOT text her just to see how her day is going. Only text her if you're making plans to hang out and see each other face to face.
/r/askTRP21/05/14 10:35 PM
3

The same shit will keep happening for awhile. What will eventually happen though, is she will meet another guy. She'll plan a date with him and will be vocal to you about it. Act like you don't care. Tell her to have fun. She'll keep coming back until she gets a boyfriend.
/r/askTRP21/05/14 10:20 PM
1

Shit. What was her excuse for doing all this?
/r/askTRP21/05/14 08:45 PM
1

How did you find out all the places they fucked?
/r/askTRP21/05/14 07:59 PM
1

Yeah, let me see what she sent you.
/r/askTRP21/05/14 07:21 PM
3

Cut contact with all of them and look for better quality friends.
/r/askTRP20/05/14 06:47 PM
10

One would hope, but I don't see it happening. He's probably rationalized the near-sexless relationship like this: "she doesn't like sex, but it's okay because sex really isn't that important to me (even though it really is). I'm different from that last douche she used to hang out with. All he cared about was sex. I actually care about HER! I love her!" I would probably ask the kid if he's aware that his wife to be is still in contact with a guy she used to fuck around with.
/r/askTRP20/05/14 06:44 PM
1

She ordered drinks for herself and even told me she doesn't day drink often Bullshit. She ordered multiple drinks. Someone who doesn't normally drink during the day would have maybe ordered one drink. You invited her over and she said no without suggesting a rain check. If she were really into you, she would have responded to your text right away and then would have had your dick in her within the hour. Cut contact. Next.
/r/askTRP20/05/14 06:33 PM
23

Mind your own business bro. The kid wouldn't even listen anyway. He's in looooooove.
/r/askTRP20/05/14 06:16 PM
1

All women want an alpha. It's just a question of whether or not they can get an alpha to committ to an LTR with them. If a woman has low SMV, she'll have no choice but to go for a beta.
/r/askTRP20/05/14 05:48 PM
1

it's really hard to dump them without making them suffer. Have you ever been in my situation? What did you do? I went and fucked another one of my plates.
/r/askTRP20/05/14 05:30 PM
3

You just want to bust that cherry so bad don't you? You have oneitis for a kissless virgin. In my experience kissless virgins are boring. I know I'll get shit for saying this, but I personally prefer a woman who has experience. Forget the unicorn virgin fantasy. Go out and find other chicks who are actually into you. Shotgun method, not sniper method.
/r/askTRP20/05/14 05:21 PM
3

Her ex sounds like a bitch. Maybe you should point him to ask trp. Though in reality it's best to ignore him.
/r/askTRP20/05/14 05:09 PM
2

She replied "I think it's best to wait until after school is over." You should have totally stopped at this point and completely cut all contact outside of class. She wasn't beating around the bush, she told you no in a way that most women say no. They do this because it helps them to not feel guilty for hurting your feelings. Hamsters HATE feeling guilty. I was in a similar situation that you're in years ago, except I was actually fucking the girl that wound up friend zoning me. I was BP as fuc…
/r/askTRP20/05/14 04:58 PM
1

There is always an exception to any rule. Keep in mind though, "honor" is a virtue that is typically exhibited in men. Most women don't know the first thing about being honorable.
/r/askTRP20/05/14 02:22 AM
2

Even if you blew it with this plate, who cares? She's not your wife, she isn't even an LTR. Go find better pussy elsewhere. Btw, the two of them moving in together with all those kids is a fucking train wreck waiting to happen. What is this? The fucking Brady Bunch 2.Hoe?
/r/askTRP20/05/14 12:37 AM
1

Yeah tell her that her friend needs to keep her cunt mouth shut, otherwise you walk.
/r/askTRP20/05/14 12:18 AM
2

Was that her friend that sent the initial text? If so that would have pissed me off. Make sure to tell your plate, when she comes back and apologizes never to let her friend text you stupid shit again .
/r/askTRP19/05/14 09:06 PM
1

it's like a hooker for your brain Lol. Now if we could just find a sexy shrink who gives a happy ending we'd be golden.
/r/askTRP18/05/14 11:12 PM
-1

Yes, this is true. Especially if you're married. I'm under the impression that OP is not married, nor in an LTR. In which case he should be spinning plates. Using vulnerability game on a plate is a risky thing to do and should be avoided I think . Edit: grammar
/r/askTRP18/05/14 10:19 PM
4

You need to stop thinking this way. You're being reprogrammed now and what you've read goes against all the BP bullshit you've been spoon fed by romantic comedies, TV shows and female advice. Yes. You are alone in this world. You are the most important person in this world. Act accordingly. Chicks don't want to be with a man who is "in touch with his emotions". What the fuck does that even mean anyway? Nobody cares about your super dark nasty secrets. Nobody cares about you "opening up" to them,…
/r/askTRP18/05/14 08:23 PM
8

If you feel the need to talk about your fears and weaknesses, get a shrink. Don't talk about that shit with your woman. To your woman you should have no fears and weaknesses.
/r/askTRP18/05/14 07:16 PM
1

Yikes. I can see why she wouldn't want that thing mounted on the wall in the house. Would probably look creepy as fuck in the dark. Some guys get a kick out of having to ask their wife's permission to do shit. Like because they see it on TV, with dumbass shows like Everybody Loves Raymond, that's the way it should be
/r/askTRP16/05/14 08:11 PM
1

I made a cup of tea while I was there before I took off, kinda like a one last look around before I drove the van away. I don't know why, but I got half way done with my tea, threw the cup in the sink, just to see what it would look like broken. I liked reading this. Almost poetic.
/r/askTRP16/05/14 08:00 PM
0

"If Judy's hamster is traveling 45 mph on it's treadmill and Jessica's hamster is travelling 38 mph on it's treadmill, how long will it take Becky's hamster to rationalize fucking that guy in the club last night when she was drunk?"
/r/askTRP16/05/14 07:50 PM
17

once slept with an ex girlfriend of mine 2 years ago because he thought he could get away with it You're still hanging out with this guy?
/r/askTRP16/05/14 07:45 PM
2

No. Chick shows are pure BP fantasy bullshit that glorifies hypergamy.
/r/askTRP16/05/14 07:34 PM
1

There ya go, well said. Get together all the evidence that you have of her infidelity to use against her in court if you can. How'd you find out she cheated?
/r/askTRP16/05/14 06:42 PM
2

wife tells me she loves me and that she will not give me divorce in the court Why are you getting a divorce?
/r/askTRP16/05/14 05:50 PM
8

I think you need to tone it down a bit with an LTR. You still want to lean more toward the asshole/cocky side, but not to the point where you're making her cry. If you feel like you've done something wrong, apologize for it, but only apologize once. Don't sit there saying sorry over and over again.
/r/askTRP16/05/14 05:31 PM
1

Typically when a chick says that, it means she doesn't want to have sex with YOU. Five minutes later some "totally hawt" guy could come along and get her in bed without her caring about this relationship bullshit.
/r/askTRP16/05/14 05:10 PM
1

Did you even watch the video OP posted? Nobody cares about what you do.
/r/askTRP16/05/14 05:03 PM
0

I'm female and I've been told I'm intimidating. Stop going out with guys who are pussies.
/r/askTRP16/05/14 04:50 PM
1

Pimping for Dummies Also (as someone mentioned before) "The Way of the Superior Man". You can find the audio version on YouTube.
/r/askTRP16/05/14 02:50 PM
1

Doc Love, I believe.
/r/askTRP16/05/14 02:47 PM
1

Do you seriously think woman shouldn't be allowed to work? Nah, I think they should be allowed to work. Though I think most of them don't make for good supervisors in the workplace.
/r/askTRP16/05/14 02:18 PM
3

"Gay"
/r/askTRP16/05/14 01:52 AM
5

Drop her like she's hot. Next. Go out with the other chick and make your move to kiss her sooner. Also, don't ask permission to kiss her, just do it. Finally stop the text chit chat. Only text or call a chick if you are making plans to meet face to face. And dear God, stop overthinking things. Play it cool, they're just girls.
/r/askTRP16/05/14 01:37 AM
1

I would think that being boisterous would be a good trait to have. Do you have a problem with filtering words from your brain to your mouth? If so, you probably want to work on overcoming that.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 10:46 PM
-1

I fail to see why this is in ask TRP.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 10:35 PM
11

Man you're still talking to this guy? He will always bring it up from now on. He enjoys hanging it over your head. If this guy keeps coming around, believe me, it will only be a matter of time before he tries to fuck your mom again. She'll probably let him too. I'd cut contact with this guy for good. I'm thinking you should tell your mom that you know about it. Let her know how he won't drop the subject and how her actions were embarrassing to you and your family.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 09:14 PM
1

I tell her to do something, she responds "No, you can do it" - Should I complain that she isn't doing something? (Complaining is bad right?) or should I tell her that "I do this and that and you're just laying there, come help me" Don't complain to your woman. Ever. About anything. Your wife is really spoiled. You let this get out of hand, but I think the situation is fixable. You need to start treating her like she's a spoiled child. I tell her to use this wipe to our baby, she responds "No you…
/r/askTRP15/05/14 08:41 PM
2

Do i just approach girls say hi and start a conversation? Yes, it really is that easy. You HAVE to come off as confident though. If you come off as awkward, then yes, they will think you are creepy. Also don't ask for her number, tell her to give you her number.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 07:15 PM
3

Check out Married Man Sex Life if you haven't already. Good stuff.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 07:00 PM
2

Women in the workplace, especially in supervisor roles... What can I say? Thanks feminism.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 06:48 PM
1

Why do girls want to be friends with guys so much? Do they seriously need the constant validation of beta orbiters or some shit. Yes they do. A beta orbiter is a highly valued accessory to a woman. An endless source of validation and an emotional tampon that she can unload all of her stupid issues and drama on. She could do this with her girlfriends, but it's so much more satisfying to do it with an orbiter To be honest, I don't think most women truly grasp the concept of a true friendship be it…
/r/askTRP15/05/14 06:43 PM
2

I knew a woman in her mid 40's that was in full blown carousel mode. She'd been married since she was 20 and her husband had been her one and only. When she got divorced, she got tattoos, started going to bars and parties and riding lotsa cockas. It was actually quite pathetic.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 05:29 PM
1

Yeah, don't tell her you want to fuck her "tonight". In her mind it's almost like you're trying to get her to agree to having sex with you, like it's some sort of contract or something. Just go home and when she's getting undresssed, walk over to her, stop her and say "allow me", then you start undressing her, seduce the fuck out of her. If she stops you, just simply go do something else in the house, preferrably something manly. Don't act upset, don't act like a sad puppy, just act like nothing…
/r/askTRP15/05/14 03:38 PM
1

A plate is a term for a woman that you are fucking non-exclusively. Read this: http://therationalmale.com/category/plate-theory/
/r/askTRP15/05/14 03:07 PM
1

What should ones response be when your girlfriend tells you: "You are so hot, way hotter than me" or "you're so hot, you have no reason to stay with me"? Treat just like any other shit test. Agree and amplify, or just laugh and change the subject.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 02:48 PM
2

Yep that's the one. Hilarious and true.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 02:21 PM
4

Unless you plan on living in a foreign country for the rest of your life. Bring her to America and eventually all the bullshit will rub off on her. I believe Eddie Murphy touched on this subject in the 80's with his "what have you done for me lately" bit.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 02:05 AM
3

Bravo sir.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 02:02 AM
2

Oops got you confused with OP, DAD_FISTER. Do this with a plate? Hell no! Don't ever be the one to bring shit like that up first.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 12:01 AM
1

She's your wife right? Do you see anything wrong with sending her a text every once in awhile saying "I've been thinking about grabbing your ass all day long. I love you baby"?
/r/askTRP14/05/14 10:57 PM
2

Pimping for Dummies Seriously. Excellent read.
/r/askTRP14/05/14 09:06 PM
11

"Alpha Fucks and Beta Bucks: The Musical"
/r/askTRP14/05/14 09:00 PM
1

If I'm not mistaken aren't Rollo Tomassi and Roissy married? The guys that write the Rational Male and Chateau Heartiste blogs? I know Athol Kay obviously is (married man sex life). Not sure if the guys from RSD are married, but I thought I remember seeing that a lot of them are in LTR's.
/r/askTRP14/05/14 08:54 PM
6

The thing of it is, when you have a plate that is really really into you, and wants to have an LTR with you, she will always put her best foot forward. She'll do damn near anything to please you because you are the unattainable and she wants to try and "win" you. The occasional shit-test might pop up from time to time, but those are super easy to get around because you have the mindset that you can tell her to walk at any time. You have other options and she knows this. Had we actually labeled o…
/r/askTRP14/05/14 07:38 PM
5

Various things. My mindset at the time. She had a few kids. Drama with ex husband and her family. If we had met each other in another timeline where things were different, we probably would have been together.
/r/askTRP14/05/14 05:59 PM
1

Read Pimpin For Dummies You need to be making decisions, even simple little ones that don't matter. If she asks you what you want for dinner, make a decision. She asks you which couch pillows you like better, make a decision. Never utter the phrase "I don't care, whatever you want". That's putting her in the captain's seat, which you never ever want to do. Women need to be told what to do. They crave it. I know you don't give a shit about the layout of your new living room, but you should be mak…
/r/askTRP14/05/14 05:46 PM
8

I had a plate that would come and pick me up when we'd hang out. I'd always pick the restaurant and usually pay for both of us, I really didn't care. There would be times where she would want to pick the restaurant and I'd say "cool you're buying tonight", and she would. Then we would go fuck. I knew she wanted a serious LTR, but I didn't. I told her this from the get-go. She said she was fine with it, but I could tell she really wasn't, especially after we had spent a considerable amount of tim…
/r/askTRP14/05/14 05:01 PM
2

I didn't realize this chick lived 200 miles away from you. Do yourself a favor and find plates that live closer to you, preferrably in your own zip code.
/r/askTRP14/05/14 02:45 PM
1

Make sure you have other plates while you use her for stress relief though. Also be sure to let her know that you are seeing other women.
/r/askTRP14/05/14 03:24 AM
1

Exactly. Commercials do this all the time too. Portraying a husband as a bumbling goofball who screws everything up and then his wife swoops in to save the day. If only they showed the reality of a relationship like that. The commercial would end with the wife leaving to go on a girls night out and the oblivious husband telling her to have fun. Cut to her getting railed from behind in a seedy motel room by some other dude.
/r/askTRP14/05/14 01:15 AM
2

So my gf (2 yrs) has been going through some stressful stuff recently regarding work She's using this as an excuse. She's been talking with her ex and is contemplating cheating on you. This has nothing to do with talking out her problems. The fact that she's been talking about him to you (telling you he's ugly) is a bad sign. Means he's on her mind. I immediately said hell no, that's not ok at all. She agreed to immediately drop it Good job. Though this is still a major red flag that she even th…
/r/askTRP13/05/14 09:54 PM
3

Clearly there's only one solution... You have to fuck his mom.
/r/askTRP13/05/14 05:44 PM
1

"Sure, come on over and do some squats on my cock"
/r/askTRP13/05/14 04:54 PM
2

I wouldn't ever speak to him again if I were you. I'm thinking he fucked your mom because he wanted to have something he could hang over your head. Either that or you have a hot mom.
/r/askTRP13/05/14 04:08 PM
2

I wonder if he rawdogged her or used a rubber. Just playin' man, but seriously if you knew he was a player and HE was the one that wanted your mother to be at happy hour, didn't you have kind of an idea of what he was up to?
/r/askTRP13/05/14 03:14 PM
8

Take a look at the latest Disney film "Frozen". If I recall correctly, the men in the movie acted more like children and really didn't do much except provide comedic relief. The villain (who was sort of tossed in at the end) was a man who manipulated the main character into thinking he was in love with her. The women in the movie were the heroes. The snowman that followed the main character around acted like a beta orbiter too.
/r/askTRP13/05/14 02:55 PM
1

Ha. I dunno, you seem to have the rage of a thousand suns right now, so I'll respectfully decline that offer.
/r/askTRP13/05/14 05:01 AM
1

"What the fuck is your problem all of a sudden DAD_FISTER?", so I could just shrug and say "Why don't you try getting cheated on and see how you deal with it?" and then watch as they begin to understand. Then, maybe they'd spread it around our social circle so people would see what was going on. I've been reading and replying to your posts recently bro. Listen, nobody around you in real life gives a shit about your situation. Nobody around you will understand. They're too busy with their own liv…
/r/askTRP13/05/14 04:26 AM
2

Gotcha. If she doesn't like you in non-party mode, then that's her problem, not yours. Though you should still maintain a cocky and funny frame no matter where you are.
/r/askTRP12/05/14 11:33 PM
0

If you're funny and know how to make people laugh, why would you suddenly change and not be funny anymore?
/r/askTRP12/05/14 10:40 PM
3

I know the feeling. My ex and I had been together for almost 6 years when she dumped me to ride the carousel. During the time I was with her, she became a land-whale and went from being the sweetest woman I had ever met to an ultra shit-testing mega cunt. I was massively blue-pill back then and had no clue what was happening. I was devastated when we broke up. That was years ago. After everything I learned and having the experience of spinning many plates at once, her breaking up with me was the…
/r/askTRP12/05/14 10:24 PM
5

Man, her leaving you sounds like the best thing that could have ever happened to you. Congratulations, bro. Now go out there and spin some plates.
/r/askTRP12/05/14 09:41 PM
1

You apologized for that? She blew up over something that really wasn't that big of a deal. You should have just laughed at her for acting crazy, which probably would have set her off even more. At that point you take out your phone and take video of her acting like a brat.
/r/askTRP12/05/14 09:01 PM
1

Good job
/r/askTRP12/05/14 08:41 PM
1

I also think it sounds like she's met someone else. Don't be surprised if she starts talking about another guy to you as if you're her gay best friend.
/r/askTRP12/05/14 08:16 PM
3

You're free to do whatever you want. You should definitely go to that prom.
/r/askTRP12/05/14 08:06 PM
1

How did you respond to her?
/r/askTRP12/05/14 08:01 PM
1

Go and have a good time then if she's not officially your GF. Does your GF know that she's not officially your GF?
/r/askTRP12/05/14 07:59 PM
2

Your wife cheated on you and then left you for the other man? Is that what happened? Are you in the process of divorce yet? Get yourself a lawyer and collect all the evidence you have of her infidelity and use it against her in court, if you can.
/r/askTRP12/05/14 07:47 PM
-1

People jump 180 degrees from being a manipulative doormat who gets cheated on and dumped by every girl he looks at and begin acting like serious asshole douchebags. This. Some of these guys think: "Better put my alpha face on", then they go out and act like complete fucktard tough guys, failing to realize that alpha does not equal asshole.
/r/askTRP12/05/14 07:42 PM
0

What if your GF was going to prom with a guy that you knew had a thing for her and flirted with her all the time? Would you be cool with that? I'm guessing not. I'm guessing you would break up with her or downgrade her to plate status (which would be the right move). Why do you have a GF right now anyway? Why aren't you spinning plates?
/r/askTRP12/05/14 07:39 PM
2

You know she's most likely in communication with the ex? You know that they've been planning on fucking when they go to the lake right? She also told me that she did not want anything to happen, but if it did, would tell me It's not a question of if it's going to happen. It WILL happen. You won't know about it either, unless she thinks you're bitch enough to stick around after she admits to it... No, most likely she'll come back and trickle truth you: "we got drunk and we kissed, that's it!" (wh…
/r/askTRP12/05/14 07:03 PM
2

she said 'sorry for not responding to your earlier text, I was really busy' If a guy she was totally into texted her, she would have texted him back instantly. Have you made a move on her yet?
/r/askTRP12/05/14 05:46 PM
6

I experienced something similar to this with a chick one time. She told me to stop as my dick was literally at the brink of going into her pussy. I stopped and she told me she wasn't ready for sex yet because we had only been on two dates. She said she would be ready after the 3rd date. There was no 3rd date. I nexted her for that shit.
/r/askTRP12/05/14 03:16 PM
1

There's definitely one guy she may have already slept with. No way to know, but it probably doesn't matter anyhow at this point Actually, if you haven't divorced her yet, you might be able to use her infidelity against her in court (depending on your state's divorce laws). See if you can collect any hard evidence that she is/was cheating. Text messages, emails, voice recordings. Give it all to your lawyer.
/r/askTRP12/05/14 02:57 PM
2

Lick nuts and suck the dick, faggot.
/r/askTRP11/05/14 04:32 AM
5

Next time that milf hits on you simply say "Look, let's stop beating around the bush, come back to my place so I can nut in your pooper." That should do the trick.
/r/askTRP10/05/14 06:42 PM
8

Yes and I also receive back rubs. Give a woman a back rub because you want to do it. Don't do it just because you think you will get sex out of it.
/r/askTRP10/05/14 06:35 PM
1

Interesting. You said she had been with a good number of guys before you married her, which would indicate to me she hit the party scene and cock carousel in her early 20's. Strange that she has this teenage party mentality now all of a sudden. I'm sure she doesn't realize that there's nothing more pathetic looking than a woman in her 40's trying to act like she's 21 again. That's the road she's headed down. I still think she has a specific man lined up that she may or may not have been screwing…
/r/askTRP10/05/14 05:57 PM
1

So take your pious attitude somewhere else. Your post was great up til this point. No need to be hostile.
/r/askTRP10/05/14 04:38 PM
1

she is leaving me for a "party" lifestyle saying that she wants to be polyamorous and be with other men She must have had another man (other men) lined up before she left you. Out of curiosity how old is she?
/r/askTRP10/05/14 04:01 PM
5

Are you using Tinder? Or did you actually get these chick's numbers? Also, stop trying to chit chat with them via text. You should only text or call them if you are making plans to meet up face to face.
/r/askTRP10/05/14 03:09 PM
5

Forget all this sigma, alpha, beta crap. Focus on bettering yourself and not caring what others think about you.
/r/askTRP10/05/14 02:42 PM
5

I was in a fraternity and those were some GREAT days. Good times, good people, good parties and good pussy. People will give you shit like "blah blah you're paying dues for friends" but the people who said that typically sat alone in their dorm rooms playing Halo, eating Cheetos and jacking off. You have to pick the right fraternity for you. There are some that consist of a bunch of douches and there are some that consist of nothing but dorks. Go to the rush events and see for yourself.
/r/askTRP10/05/14 03:27 AM
1

Depends on what do you do with the selfies. Do you post them online?
/r/askTRP09/05/14 08:54 PM
4

Why'd you wait 5 months to start thinking about this? You waited too long to do anything. I don't think you're ever going to see that cool $500 and you'll never get your TV back.
/r/askTRP09/05/14 08:19 PM
1

You've never really talked to her? How'd you get her number? Does she know you have her number?
/r/askTRP09/05/14 08:00 PM
1

That's right, brah.
/r/askTRP09/05/14 07:41 PM
1

I just can't imagine others fucking her...and I'm sure it will happen in at least a week I wouldn't be surprised it's already happening. When a woman suddenly flips her behavior, it most likely means she's cheating or is thinking about cheating. she doesn't give a fuck since she knows she can get another bf in a week Tell her to get the fuck out and go find another bf because you're sick of her shit. I don't care how hot a chick is, I'm not going to let ANYONE treat me with disrespect. Then tell…
/r/askTRP09/05/14 07:39 PM
2

She's a mom who is probably about 40 years old and she's married. Really? You're trying to fuck another man's wife? After what your wife did to you?
/r/askTRP09/05/14 07:20 PM
3

Calm down bro, you don't know for sure if you have it yet. Go to the doc and then write an update afterward. If you do have it, which skank do you think gave it to you?
/r/askTRP09/05/14 06:57 PM
-6

Looks like you got some good advice already, let me tell you a story. I knew a guy who dated a virgin for weeks. He did everything in his power to get into her pants, but she just wouldn't let him. She kept telling him that she really liked him and wanted to take it slow, that way when they did eventually do it, it would be special. He took her with him to a party one night. She ended up disappearing into one of the bedrooms with a guy she had just met that night. He popped her cherry. She gave …
/r/askTRP09/05/14 06:29 PM
1

You did everything the right way AND she's still DTF. Bravo, sir. Be careful though and watch out for signs of crazniess from her. I've had to cut plates loose in the past because they became too clingy/crazy.
/r/askTRP09/05/14 05:53 PM
2

Stop doing these things. This type of behavior is shit test fuel. She may comfort you when you feel down on yourself, but deep down this sickens her. Your wife's love is not (and never will be) unconditional. Have you read up on hypergamy? At the end of the day, the only person you can seek comfort from is the same person that looks back at you when you look in the mirror. The most important person in the world to you. That's the hardest part to swallow, but it's true. Edit: spelling
/r/askTRP09/05/14 03:01 AM
4

when a woman says "don't try anything" what they mean is "fuck the shit out of me" just an FYI. This. I met up with a chick I hadn't seen in years. When she showed she said "I just want to chill, no funny business ok?" We ended up fucking 30 minutes later.
/r/askTRP08/05/14 09:12 PM
1

Might be the best option actually.
/r/askTRP08/05/14 09:03 PM
3

Shit tests are an indicator that there needs to be a change-up in your behavior. If your wife is ramping up the shit tests, it means you're doing something wrong. Are you apologizing excessively? Do you talk down about yourself, including self-deprecating humor? Do you whine or complain to her or get emotional and cry in front of her? Do you ask her what she thinks you should do in certain situations? Check these resources too: The way of the superior man (audio book. You can find the text versi…
/r/askTRP08/05/14 08:30 PM
7

If a guy she thought was "totally hawt" asked her out, she would damn near break her neck to do everything in her power to spend time with him. Is that the way she's acting with you?
/r/askTRP08/05/14 01:51 AM
1

You never know!
/r/askTRP08/05/14 01:38 AM
1

You wanted to seem above jealousy, clearly you aren't. Truth is nobody is above it, as much as some say they are. Everybody gets a twinge of jealousy from time to time. It's how you react that is important. If it hadn't been over the ex, it would have been over someone else down the line.
/r/askTRP07/05/14 11:52 PM
2

Yep, I'm afraid your "relationship" is doomed. I don't think you'll be able to have a serious LTR in the future with this woman. And you suddenly can't announce that you want it to be monogamous, she'll bail on you eventually, or keep seeing other guys behind your back. You can keep her as a plate, but make sure you have more than one plate going, otherwise you will get super oneitis for this chick. Correct your behavior and thoughts now before this happens to you. I wanted to seem totally above…
/r/askTRP07/05/14 11:03 PM
2

Good Lord, you've got oneitis for a plate. How do you act? Like you don't give a shit because she's a fucking plate, not your SO that you have a monogamous LTR with. You're the one who is putting yourself in this situation. You can walk away anytime you want. Out of curiosity, who suggested your "relationship" should be an open one? You or her? Don't tell me it was mutual, one of you brought it up first.
/r/askTRP07/05/14 10:39 PM
1

I have a feeling the next installment would go like this (via FB chat or email, of course) Him: "would you care to accompany me on a date, m'lady? Pls respond" Her: "I'm not looking to date anyone right now" Him: "Oh ok, :-)"
/r/askTRP07/05/14 10:28 PM
1

If he is a troll, I must say he put a lot of effort and detail into his post.
/r/askTRP07/05/14 09:46 PM
11

I explain Never explain yourself to a woman. You should have just responded with "lol whatever", or even "gay", or an irrelevant picture would do as well. That aside, she sounds like a fucking baby getting all offended over stupid shit. I personally wouldn't have the patience for a chick like that.
/r/askTRP07/05/14 08:19 PM
2

How bout a really long winded email where he talks about how beautiful she is and how he thinks about her constantly? Then finally saying "would you like to accompany me on a date, m'lady?" Think that would work?
/r/askTRP07/05/14 06:23 PM
1

Interesting article. That concept seems very strange to me. Having a woman come to you and say "it's 9 pm, time for me to confess what I've done wrong today and have you spank me for it". Weird, but to each his own. I do know women like to be spanked in a sexual way. I spank my woman all the time and she loves it, but I do it in a sexual way, not as a punishment for something.
/r/askTRP07/05/14 05:48 PM
2

If she declines, punish her by ignoring her. Yes, but don't act upset. Just get up and go do something else.
/r/askTRP07/05/14 05:27 PM
1

I tell my girls flat out; they find someone better than me go for it I hope you follow that statement up with "but the truth is, there is nobody better out there".
/r/askTRP07/05/14 05:20 PM
3

Most women should be naturally submissive if you maintain your frame as the leader of the relationship. As far as going full 50 shades of grey mode, I would imagine you would have to get her extremely turned on and be confident in everything you try with her. Don't ask, just take. I think though in real life, a woman who allows her man to spank her because of something like a meal being prepared wrong is probably afraid of him. I think most men want to be respected by their women, not feared by …
/r/askTRP07/05/14 04:32 PM
8

This morning I tried to lay her over my knee and spank her "because she stole an orgasm from me" and she was having absolutely none of that You have to put her in the right mood first before you can do something like that. You can't be just sitting at the dinner table with her and say "my steak is over cooked, bend over my lap so I can spank you" and have her happily do it... Though I'm sure some guys here would love to have a woman that subservient.
/r/askTRP07/05/14 03:35 PM
1

It's okay man, the most important part is that you learned some valuable lessons when it comes to women and relationships. I'm glad you changed your tune. "You know I really have nothing to say to you right now since I have seen you every day this week." That's a pretty disrespectful thing to say to someone. That is an instant break-up line. It's amazing how women can be downright vicious and vile given the right circumstances.
/r/askTRP07/05/14 02:58 PM
1

How does she act now that you guys are together? I'd still be wary of her and not get too serious.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 10:46 PM
1

How do you know this for a fact?
/r/askTRP06/05/14 10:28 PM
1

She came back 4 days later and called off the engagement but wanted to remain together, just didnt believe in marriage. Yeah she cheated on you at the festival. When a woman pulls something like this out of left field, typically there is another guy behind it. particularly one dude, who she would be at his house til 2 on a sunday watching movies You were ok with this? Wow. I hope you've changed your tune.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 10:22 PM
1

Nope, she didn't meet someone during the summer. I guarantee you she met him while she was dating you the first time around.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 09:46 PM
1

Did she say no to the proposal? What eventually happened?
/r/askTRP06/05/14 09:42 PM
2

She'll bring it up soon then. I guarantee it's on her mind. No matter what you do, do not bring up that conversation yourself.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 06:28 PM
2

Awesome. That is a great book and it will help him tremendously.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 06:14 PM
1

Ah, it makes sense now. And yes, you are much better off without her, my friend.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 06:13 PM
2

I can't imagine a universe in which I would cry in front of a woman, though. Good to hear. I cringe everytime I hear of a man crying in front of his woman. Maybe when you got down on yourself she took your cue and lost some respect for you? Which may have grown over time. As someone else here mentioned women will stay in relationships where the guy is a complete bum with no job whatsoever and they worship the ground he walks on.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 06:02 PM
2

I was going to tell you to get him to read "The Way of the Superior Man" and "Pimping for Dummies", but if he's not a reader then that's that. You should really encourage him to read those books though. You can find them both online for free. Side note: be careful dropping too much TRP stuff on your wife all at once. Don't refer to it as "the red pill" when you're talking about it to her either, she will think you're a nutjob.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 05:58 PM
1

You never got down on yourself or cried in front of her? Did you complain about your situation or ask her for advice?
/r/askTRP06/05/14 05:51 PM
1

It's a feeling that only a princess can provide. Oh man, that novel of a text you wrote her was cringe supreme. Her reply was odd. I have a feeling she met someone else while you guys were together and left you for him. Chicks don't normally behave that way unless they have someone else lined up. Then she got dumped and came back to you! Congratulations, you received another man's trash! Your problem is that you're starting to get oneitis again. Question: Are you in highschool or college?
/r/askTRP06/05/14 05:43 PM
1

What did you do to make her feel like she had to console you?
/r/askTRP06/05/14 05:22 PM
2

If you're not having any problems with her, I see no reason to let her go. You lost your job, so what? You're doing what you think needs to be done to rectify the situation. The best thing to do is maintain your frame while you're rebuilding. Always be in control of the relationship. Don't ask her what she thinks you should do, don't vomit your feels or get down on yourself in front of her. Always have the frame of "I know what I'm doing" at all times. Keep fucking her good too. Do all this and …
/r/askTRP06/05/14 05:19 PM
2

she stops right before the actual act and cites any myriad of reasons but the recurring major ones that I don't think are bullshit are her history of being assaulted (perhaps sexually...) and the fratbro + having just exited a relationship. No, this is all bullshit. I kept feeling like she was "trying" to play me. She is. Do you think she had all these hang-ups when she cheated with the frat bro? ...NEXT Girl 2 just sounds like an idiot.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 04:55 PM
4

Typically from what I've encountered, when a plate behaves like that, it means she wants more from you than just sex. She wants an actual LTR and is seeing if you can spend time with her without the need to fuck. Has she brought up the "so what are we?" talk yet? If not be prepared for it soon. If you and her have already had that discussion and she says she's cool with the FWB thing, she's in denial.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 04:36 PM
3

Why are you chit chatting with her via text? Stop doing this. If she's one of your plates you should only be texting or calling her to make plans to meet up and fuck... But she's not one of your plates. You haven't even fucked her yet. To top it all off she has a really shitty attitude and you're playing right into her frame. Stop doing this. My guess is that she has zero plans to fuck you and she enjoys having you as a beta orbiter, dangling that carrot in front of you and you keep on chasing i…
/r/askTRP06/05/14 03:35 PM
8

Do what you want to do with no fucks given. I don't have ED, but if I did, I would eat pussy like a madman. I know that it's commonly said that we shouldn't care if the girl gets off or not, but I love eating pussy and making a girl cum. To each his own.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 03:00 PM
1

I'm curious how she brought this up to you.
/r/askTRP05/05/14 05:12 PM
1

I think they have the right attitudes, albeit a bit on the extreme side. You should always be seeking knowledge and studying, however are you enjoying your life? If you're not, then whats the point of being here?
/r/askTRP05/05/14 03:33 PM
1

Cool story bro.
/r/askTRP02/05/14 10:27 PM
2

95% certain this dude is a troll.
/r/askTRP02/05/14 10:26 PM
4

Just say "thank you". Flash a smile and wink.
/r/askTRP02/05/14 07:00 PM
2

Who cares what your ex is doing. You shouldn't be in contact with her at all. Delete her information that you still have on all forms of communication.
/r/askTRP02/05/14 05:15 PM
5

Some chicks actually dig glasses on a guy. I think subconciously they equate glasses with intelligence.
/r/askTRP02/05/14 04:53 PM
3

If your friends get butt-hurt that you're banging her and they aren't, inform them of the concept of beta orbiters and point out to them where they went wrong. I know, attempting to red-pill your blue pill buddies is a tough thing to do, but give it a shot.
/r/askTRP02/05/14 04:38 PM
7

"Yes you are, you just don't know it yet." Sidenote: Fuck tinder. It's attention whore central... And don't chit chat with chicks via text. Only text to make plans to meet up.
/r/askTRP02/05/14 04:28 PM
1

Take the hate as a compliment. They're the ones using their time and energy to hate on you. Fuck em.
/r/askTRP02/05/14 04:23 PM
4

Keep her spinning. Let her know she's free to walk at any time if she's not enjoying herself. You've made no promises or committments to her.
/r/askTRP02/05/14 04:17 PM
7

Sure she might cheat some times and so will you but that's ok in TRP world. Cheating is something that "unhaaapy" women do. It is never ok in a monogamous LTR. You do need to balance the alpha and beta, but lean more towards the alpha. Don't ever go full retard beta though if you want to keep your relationship a good one. Never ask your woman what you should do, never vomit your feels all over her and never cry like a baby in front of her. Basically, never let yourself appear weaker than her.
/r/askTRP02/05/14 03:15 PM
6

Tinder is for lazy attention whores. Go out and meet real women face to face.
/r/askTRP02/05/14 02:20 AM
2

extra points?
/r/askTRP02/05/14 02:04 AM
0

For future reference, refrain from stating you're a woman in the first sentence. Nobody cares.
/r/askTRP02/05/14 12:45 AM
1

"Do you always ask dumb questions?"
/r/askTRP01/05/14 10:49 PM
1

That's correct.
/r/askTRP01/05/14 08:56 PM
1

This. Now you have no choice but to play it cool. Do not text her until next week like you said you would. Only text her to set up plans, no chit chat. Make sure she leaves her beta orbiter behind too. lol
/r/askTRP01/05/14 08:31 PM
1

Chicks will pretty much all react the same way to good game. Though some you may need to be more gentle with when it comes to negging or teasing and some need to be hardcore teased and negged. In my experience there are two types of women, ones who run hot and ones who run cold. Find out what type you're working with and act accordingly.
/r/askTRP01/05/14 08:23 PM
1

She said during an argument (which pushed me to swallow TRP) that she didn't see me as her husband anymore. Hope you didn't get all emotional when she said this. Best response would be to A&A. I personally would have been damn close to nexting her. Which you should be.
/r/askTRP01/05/14 06:59 PM
1

Blue pill thinking at its finest.
/r/askTRP01/05/14 01:42 AM
1

Do they? Tell me moar...
/r/askTRP01/05/14 12:03 AM
2

If he hits you up again, simply direct him to /r/TheRedPill
/r/askTRP30/04/14 06:45 PM
2

The guy who wrote that sounds neurotic.
/r/askTRP30/04/14 05:28 PM
1

The ultimate hamster.
/r/askTRP30/04/14 05:03 PM
2

Yes it is. Most breaks are initiated by the woman, usually so she could get some cock on the side without feeling the guilt that accompanies cheating.
/r/askTRP30/04/14 04:58 PM
0

Should have fucked him after the first date. Maybe then he wouldn't have talked about his ex on the second one.
/r/askTRP30/04/14 04:53 PM
1

Sure keep in contact with her, see each other when you can. Just don't try to make it a serious LTR. You're free to do whatever/whoever you want, just like she is. Don't get oneitis either and you'll be fine Who knows what'll happen in the future. Enjoy yourself right now.
/r/askTRP30/04/14 04:43 PM
-1

You actually have to be quite intelligent to swallow all the nonsense society bombards you with. Seems to me that the opposite would be true. Intelligent people tend to think for themselves and form their own ideas/opinions instead of just going along with the popular ones.
/r/askTRP30/04/14 03:57 PM
1

If you do things the right way, then both you and your woman/women will be happy.
/r/askTRP30/04/14 03:21 PM
2

Did you next her yet, or did you pussy out? I hope you do what needs to be done.
/r/askTRP30/04/14 03:19 PM
2

Exactly!
/r/askTRP30/04/14 02:11 PM
2

Ignore it all. Get with other chicks. If she wanted to be with you, she would be.
/r/askTRP30/04/14 03:54 AM
1

Did you read my entire reply? Read it again and let it sink in.
/r/askTRP30/04/14 03:06 AM
-1

Play it the right way and you won't have to spend money on them if you don't want to.
/r/askTRP29/04/14 09:31 PM
2

If you were rich you'd be able to fuck the hottest chicks on the planet for free.
/r/askTRP29/04/14 06:45 PM
1

Too tryhard. Make it way more simple, especially because there is a 95% chance she will delete your message if she doesn't like your pic anyway.
/r/askTRP29/04/14 05:56 PM
1

She likes the attention she's getting from you, it seems like your chances of having sex with her are slim to none. I'd say next her, especially since you work with her. You obviously want more than what she is willing to give to you.
/r/askTRP29/04/14 04:59 PM
-1

Paying for sex is beta as fuck.
/r/askTRP29/04/14 04:46 PM
2

Mate guarding is essential at times... Some guy says something inappropriate to your woman in front of you, you'd better damn well stand up and say something to him. In this case though, your attempt at playing aloof was definitely the wrong move. Being aloof can be effective, however it has to be done carefully and under the right circumstances. You just came off like a douche in front your girl. Best answer would be something along the lines of "Yeah and I'm about to take her in the tent and s…
/r/askTRP29/04/14 03:41 PM
1

Doesn't sound like the break-up was very mutual to me. Something tells me you wanted to break up and he just went along with it hoping you would change your mind one day. But yeah he behaved like a bitch.
/r/askTRP29/04/14 02:21 AM
1

Out of curiosity, how many have agreed to meet up versus the ones that have blown you off?
/r/askTRP28/04/14 10:45 PM
2

Keep the plate spinning until it falls off, or you get bored. Usually it ends with me dropping them because they get too clingy/needy and want a LTR committment. Either that, or they start hanging out with some simp to try and make me jealous, in which case I next them. Build a team of women. 3-5 spinning at once is optimal. Any more than 5 can get exhausting, for me anyway. Never make her think an LTR is possible if you don't want one. Be honest and up front with them at all times. Let them kno…
/r/askTRP28/04/14 07:56 PM
7

Instead of wasting any more time and energy on her, why not put it toward something good, like putting your dick in a new puss?
/r/askTRP28/04/14 07:48 PM
3

This. Not to mention the fact that it sounds so highschoolish.
/r/askTRP28/04/14 07:44 PM
11

...And you care about this because?
/r/askTRP28/04/14 07:41 PM
9

Like you said, trying to explain TRP to blue-pilled friends is a waste of time. Forget it. Let them live their lives and be how they want to be. One day if one of your buddies asks you for advice about their relationship, that would be the perfect time to start slowly dropping some redpill wisdom.
/r/askTRP28/04/14 07:34 PM
28

100% no contact is right. Block her number/on facebook, delete her contact information. Don't ever talk to her again. She has zero respect for you.
/r/askTRP28/04/14 07:13 PM
2

Did she respond? If not, I'm guessing she read your email, said "wat?" and deleted it.
/r/askTRP28/04/14 06:15 PM
3

I've seen my fair share of gaping anal cataclysmic events too. Stop watching porn.
/r/askTRP28/04/14 05:36 PM
7

Don't ever use the word "date" when making plans with a woman.
/r/askTRP28/04/14 05:30 PM
1

This. You should never pay a woman for sex. Them paying you is acceptable though.
/r/askTRP28/04/14 05:16 PM
31

This. Make her put her money where her mouth is. If she says anything except for "ok", then you'll know for sure that she's just trying to get attention like a whore.
/r/askTRP28/04/14 03:24 PM
5

Stop doing it. Flirt with other chicks if she refuses to reciprocate.
/r/askTRP28/04/14 03:06 PM
9

You made yourself too accessible to her. Don't text her again. Don't ever do the small talk text thing with a girl. The only time you should be calling or texting her is if you are setting up plans to meet face to face.
/r/askTRP28/04/14 02:56 PM
11

No, she's playing games with you, whether she realizes if or not. Best to move on and find greener pastures. The moment you reciprocate and fall back into her bullshit is the moment you lose. In a nutshell, she's bored and hasn't found someone that actually wants to be with her. Don't feed into her behavior.
/r/askTRP28/04/14 03:55 AM
2

How is she crawling back? Give more info.
/r/askTRP28/04/14 02:55 AM
0

Welp, sometimes there's just no cure for crazy.
/r/askTRP28/04/14 01:35 AM
10

"I like a lot of people and you just might be one of them" Say it with a playful smile and you're golden.
/r/askTRP27/04/14 11:59 PM
2

Wow...
/r/askTRP27/04/14 10:56 PM
6

"Yes I admit it, I fucked another guy, but it's okay, we were on a break, remember?"
/r/askTRP27/04/14 10:35 PM
2

The best reply would be the following: "gay" That is all.
/r/askTRP27/04/14 10:29 PM
2

There's a difference between a "nice guy" and a "good man". Nice guys are known to let people walk all over them, including their own women. A good man commands respect at all times and doesn't put up with any shit, all the while treating his woman the way she needs to be treated. Remember not all nice men are good and not all good men are nice.
/r/askTRP27/04/14 07:43 PM
2

It's because bad-boys are oozing with confidence and have other options available to them, which are two qualities that women can't resist, even if he's beating the shit out of them. Quoting Ice Cube from the song Dopeman: "You'll sit and cry if the Dopeman strikes you, he don't give a fuck he got 2 just like you"
/r/askTRP27/04/14 07:26 PM
3

Don't ever tell the guy you're with to "be a man". You have no idea what it's like to be a man. Coming from your perspective, I would agree that you should tell him that you don't want to talk about exes and the shit they pulled... Sounds like you're already losing attraction to him because he's acting like a bitch.
/r/askTRP27/04/14 05:16 AM
1

You did the right thing. Also, if you guys are in a LTR, then she shouldn't be talking to her ex, period.
/r/askTRP26/04/14 11:02 PM
2

Sounds like she's got something wrong with her brain. Clearly you've spoiled her rotten and never called her out on her bad behavior. But I'm wondering if she has also has some sort of chemical imbalance. Maybe, maybe not. I'd get out and find someone who will actually be respectful and loving. Fuck being miserable, life is too short for that shit.
/r/askTRP26/04/14 07:36 PM
2

Whatever you do, don't verbalize this to your girlfriend. That would be like trying to negotiate desire, which can't be done. The only thing you can do to make her hot for you, is to make sure that you are the best version of yourself that you can possibly be. Be the leader in the relationship, don't be indecisive and don't act like an emo bitch. Also, don't whine, beg or have a heart to heart conversation if she denies you for sex. Just act unfazed and do something else. Women will initiate sex…
/r/askTRP26/04/14 06:53 PM
0

Tell her she'd be better off talking to one of her girl friends about guy problems. You don't deal with guy problems.
/r/askTRP26/04/14 05:54 PM
1

What would benefit the guy is for you to drop him so he can find someone who is actually sexually interested in him. He's going to have a hard time doing that if you're keeping him around as a beta orbiter. Would you keep a female friend around if she was saying sexual flirtatious things to you? Or would you feel weird about her and cut contact?
/r/askTRP26/04/14 05:40 PM
4

Just change the subject. Get her to think about something else. Chicks love to talk about their exes. Don't take it personal. Best is to start telling a fake funny story about an "ex" of yours, but make it clearly over the top, like how when you used to date Hillary Clinton, she had the most annoying laugh in the world. Something like that.
/r/askTRP26/04/14 05:31 PM
2

Hey man, you never know. When you suddenly cut contact with a chick, sometimes they get curious and hit you up.
/r/askTRP26/04/14 04:43 PM
2

Yeah don't text her again. You shouldn't have texted her last night. I think you blew it, but if she texts you then you might still have a chance. Remember, only text or call a woman to set up a date. Stop with the useless chatter.
/r/askTRP26/04/14 04:36 PM
2

You were popular had lots of friends and even a FWB, but now everybody hates you? How'd you manage to screw all that up?
/r/askTRP26/04/14 03:01 PM
1

I dunno, I'm pretty sure everyone has encountered an asshole who thinks they are a witty jokester at some point or another. If you are a scrawny small dude they may like the feeling of being a bully, or conversely if you are a big dude, they feel like they have to try and get one over on you. Either way, I think people who act the way that you describe are insecure. Pay them no mind. They are the "extras" in your movie. Get it? Though if it's a chick saying that stuff to you, she may be flirting…
/r/askTRP26/04/14 04:46 AM
5

Smirk, chuckle, then walk in like a boss without giving it another thought. Assholes will always be assholes, there's nothing you can do about that. Best thing is to bypass them because they don't mean shit to you.
/r/askTRP26/04/14 04:18 AM
1

If you feel like you won't be faithful in a serious LTR, then don't get into one. Spin plates for the rest of your life... Cheating on a partner in an established monogamous relationship is something "unhaaaappy" women do. As far as her cheating on you, first step is in all who you select to be your LTR. After that, the chances of her cheating go up if she's either A) a dirty skank (which you could avoid during selection process) or B) you start acting like a bitch, or not giving her sex on the …
/r/askTRP25/04/14 11:51 PM
3

Whatever you do, make your move very soon, otherwise you will have waited too long. Waiting too long to make it known that you are sexually interested will confuse her and ultimately will lead her to thinking of you as just a friend.
/r/askTRP25/04/14 08:22 PM
2

yeah, tell her she misunderstood. You weren't asking for her number, you were telling her to give you her number.
/r/askTRP25/04/14 07:34 PM
1

Glad you're getting divorced from her. That was going to be my next question, because I was wondering if you were going to remain married to this woman. How'd you come to the conclusion that she was being unfaithful?
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 07:06 PM
1

Good idea. Glad that made you feel better... In the past when I used to experience one-itis, usually putting my dick into a different pussy cleared that right up. Also, glad you aren't acting on your suicidal thoughts. Committing suicide is THE most blue pill thing a man can ever do. Letting the matrix win. Fuck that. Question: Are you still married to this wife that you suspect is cheating on you?
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 06:41 PM
1

Tell her if you didn't care about her, you wouldn't be talking to her. Ask her how she could possibly feel used if you are both enjoying yourselves and having a good time. Explain to her that the minute she's no longer having fun with you, she's free to walk at any time.
/r/askTRP25/04/14 05:45 PM
1

First things first, stop thinking of her as a 10. She's not a 10. There is no such thing as a "10". 10 implies perfection and no human being is 100% perfect. Second thing, when you go out with her, hand her the bill when it's dropped on the table. She might give you some shit about doing that, but just laugh it off and say "I paid last time, you're buying this time". Don't give in. If she goes into bitch mode, get up and leave.
/r/askTRP25/04/14 05:12 PM
3

This has bad written all over it. Find a woman who is available. It's situations like this that cause people to get shot, btw. Be careful.
/r/askTRP25/04/14 05:03 PM
1

Next. She threw out the word "friend". By her actions, she's clearly not interested.
/r/askTRP24/04/14 10:45 PM
1

She wants a boyfriend, she's just not labeling it that way. Do you want a girlfriend? It doesn't sound like it. Just tell her that you aren't looking to be exclusive and if she's not on the same page as you, she's free to pursue other options. I told a girl this once and she decided to walk, which was cool with me. I cut contact. About a month later she was texting asking for NSA sex.
/r/askTRP24/04/14 10:39 PM
1

Online dating is great, if you don't mind fucking lazy fat chicks... I'm betting you do get choosing signals when you're out, you're just too far in your own head to notice them.
/r/askTRP24/04/14 10:21 PM
2

Try and keep it to where you are just going over to her place. This way you can leave whenever you want. Sleepovers are bad because she will try to cuddle with you at some point like you're her boyfriend
/r/askTRP24/04/14 10:12 PM
5

The girl will eventually bring it up after you've screwed her a few times. Simply tell her that you aren't down with a serious commitment right now. That you are just looking to have fun. Tell her if she's not cool with that arrangement, she's free to walk any time she wants.
/r/askTRP24/04/14 09:47 PM
1

The bright side is that he could be spinning multiple plates right away if he plays his cards right. To top it off he won't have to raise the child of a lying slut either! That sounds like a win.
/r/askTRP24/04/14 09:39 PM
3

Yeah... Next her. Something tells me she'll be asking for another "break" somewhere down the line.
/r/askTRP24/04/14 07:01 PM
5

Side question, who initiated the break? Was it her? If so, I'm pretty sure she did it so she could get some side cock without feeling guilty about it. Then when she got back together with you, she didn't feel like it was important to tell you any of this.
/r/askTRP24/04/14 06:46 PM
0

Having access to her lines of communication wouldn't make you an insecure person. It's normal for a couple in an LTR to have access to each other's phones/emails and passwords, especially if they are living together... Unless they have something to hide. Like I said before, trust but verify. If you really choose to have her stay, she has to rebuild your trust. By the sound of things, it sounds like that might be pretty much impossible at this point. You may just have to next her, otherwise you a…
/r/askTRP24/04/14 06:02 PM
1

"This is Christine, I put my penis in her vagina from time to time." How's that?
/r/askTRP24/04/14 05:27 PM
4

Not many women are willing to grab a sword and fight off monsters with her man when the shit hits the fan.
/r/askTRP24/04/14 04:44 PM
0

Try not be pissed about her lying and fucking other guys. That's like getting pissed off at a dog for barking, it's just what they do. It does suck that she lied to you, but you guys were broken up when she screwed around and you were fucking another chick at the time, right? Hard to say what I'd do in this situation. If you can't get over her lying to you about fucking other dudes in the past, then next her and tell her to go back home... If you want to work past all this and stay together, tel…
/r/askTRP24/04/14 04:41 PM
6

It means don't be clingy or needy. Be outcome independent at all times. Don't seek validation from a woman. Basically if you are texting a woman everyday saying "Hey how's your day going? Hope you're having fun :-)", that is the opposite of being aloof.
/r/askTRP24/04/14 04:07 PM
3

Because the red pill is all about waking men up to the reality of male/female relationships and the hypergamous nature of women. As Kyrzar above pointed out though, you can take some lessons from TRP when it comes to improving yourself and putting yourself first in a relationship.
/r/askTRP24/04/14 02:49 PM
-1

Nope
/r/askTRP24/04/14 02:22 PM
4

Definitely don't get into an LDR with her, spin new plates in the new city and keep her as a plate too. That way you can get some if you are ever out visiting your old city.
/r/askTRP23/04/14 10:42 PM
1

Good idea. Why waste any more energy on this cunt?
/r/askTRP23/04/14 10:31 PM
1

It's a shame that she doesn't realize her bff secretly wants to fuck her. I don't think most guys would hop on a plane to go hang out with a chick if they weren't going to get some poon out of it.
/r/askTRP23/04/14 08:42 PM
1

Only text or call a girl if you are setting up plans to meet face to face. These stupid texting convos asking how her day is going and using smiley faces is DLV to the max.
/r/askTRP23/04/14 08:08 PM
3

Next her. If a woman is interested in you, she will damn near break her neck to spend time with you.
/r/askTRP23/04/14 07:34 PM
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