I'm still in the process of swallowing TRP. And whilst i'm learning new stuff, i'm trying to figure out what happend in my past and why.

Last year i dated 4 girls (i'm 21 years old btw). 4 times i aimed for a LTR because that was my kind of interest (didn't like ons). I liked all of them a lot BUT with none of them, have i had any sexual tension. There was absolutely nothing. Thats why it all became boring pretty fast. Looking back this was obviously my fault but at the time i thought they were just boring.

I realized that today when i red the article "How to manage your bitches". He talks about how every girl somehow is sexualy attracted to a guy she's dating. So that had to be the case with my 4 girls even tho i felt nothing. But why?

I figured out that this might have been the case, becuase i stated very early that i'm looking for a LTR and not just for some fun. Has that led the girls to think that they don't have to attract me with sex anymore? and just skip it and go straight to the point of a LTR?

I hope you get my situation. This has all changed a lot by now but im curious about how things went in the past and why. You don't have to answer specific to my questions. Just help me giving a rundown on what happend and why, and how i can prevent this from happening again.