Hey guys. I'd like to start this by saying I am a good looking dude, but my frame and game are weak. I like to think this is because my father passed away when I was 6 (21 now) and I was raised by my mum. I have never had a positive male role model in my life and TRP has been my teacher for the last year. I have much to learn still.
Tonight I went out to a club, at the start of the night I noticed numerous women to be into me through IOIs like eye contact and opening me, I was talking to one girl(HB7) in the smoking area, she was rolling her eyes at everything and in general had a resting bitch face 24/7, but despite this she stayed beside me even though I wasn't putting any effort into the conversation and kept called her out on her bullshit, I took this as a sign she's interested so I kissed her and she reciprocated.
I leave and start to other people because after kissing her she goes back to resting bitch face and dim conversation. An hour or so later I see her and her friend looking at me a lot on the dancefloor so I start dancing with them. Rejected, she walks away immediately. A few mins later I try her friend because she kept making eye contact afterwards, and because I matched with her on tinder some months back, she also turns me down. Her friend ends up approaching my best Bro(dude is on same level as me looks wise but has better game) on the dancefloor and kissing him and giving him her number, she even told him to tell me sorry.
At the end of the night I went home alone, obviously. My friends saw me get rejected so I feel like I have lost status in the group, despite the rejection I did not take it personally and tried my best to maintain frame
So, no hard feelings about any of tonight, I'm still learning. Since I'm in good shape and noticed IOIs at the beginning, I'm assuming the problem lies with my frame/Game.
What should I have done differently? Where did I lose frame? Honest advice appreciated brothers. Thanks.
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