So I met this girl in my hometown around New year while I was visiting my folks. We hungout and she was smitten, I could feel it. She was sending all kinds of choosing signals.
But I work in another city so as usual I fucked off when my vacation ended. We tried to keep the spark through msgs and calls (bad idea) and it eventually fizzled within 2 months as I couldn't come back to my hometown(big surprise).
Now I was going back for a weeks holiday. And decided to hit her up before and set up a hangout she was cool with it. The day of the hangout I text her to set up the time and she says to keep it the next day because all good places would be crowded due to some festival. So naturally I declined. So she offered anyday of my choosing except that day. So I told her I'll let her know.
Then I wait 2 days to set a new time on the sameday (I let her know 2 hrs ago that I'd like to see her today) She was game and was on time.
Now the kicker, a couple of hours into our date she mentions that she was dating. I kept stoneface/remained unperturbed and asked her how was it? She said it was ok. Then she mentioned a couple of times during our date that there was never a dull moment when she hangs with me. Then she goes on to respond to this guys texts without telling me who she was replying I told her it was inappropriate and she said sorry. Then this nervous guys calls her to enquire where she was and she picks up and tells me it's the guy she was dating. They have a 30sec chat. And then we resume.
I followed the rule of keeping the date moving from one place to another all over the city to provide an experience. She goes ahead and buys me a gift without telling me to congratulate(I recently learned a new skill) Also she paid for all of our dinner because I paid for the last one 8 months ago
After the end of our "hangout", while I was dropping her off, a girl with whom I am sleeping in my city where I work (she is pretty cool too and it's getting pretty serious) called me up to chat in front of her. I picked it up in front of her because at this point I didn't care/I read it here this was part of dread game, to make her jealous. She made a weird face as if she was annoyed that I was being chummy with the girl on the phone. She later didn't ask about her at all but I rubbed it in by discussing her a bit (15-20secs). She didn't ask any follow up questions. I dropped her off and she again said the same thing "there isn't a dull moment with you".
Now how do I read this. I'd like to make her a plate but how do I go about it? What do you guys make of her behaviour. Also she told me she'd be visiting my city in a month for some half marathon and would stay a couple of days more so we can hang but now I doubt the boyfriend might also visit with her What's my play here? How should I read her behaviour? It's very contradictory.
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