TRP - I've been silently lurking for over 2 years now (I think). Tough to say when it happened for sure. It was a slow transition to TRP. I really started swallowing the pill, post-divorce. I have not really been interested in women for anything aside from sex since. And then I met this girl a few days ago, and I know I should embrace the abundance mentality, and not give a shit about her. Yet this almost ruined my day, thinking about her

TRP - do you ever struggle with oneitis? Especially when you know it's not the proper frame of mind? There is no logical reason that I should waste another second of my time thinking about this broad, but I'm having trouble.

The short story, I met this stunning curvy, blond bombshell, from a foreign country. The kind of girl who turns heads everywhere she goes - I love that feeling when you have a beautiful girl on your arm, and everyone takes a look. We spent 24 hours together, and it was like something out of a romance movie. The two of us alone together, swimming under a waterfall in the pouring rain. I fucked up by not escalating faster. We went out for dinner and drinks. There is some heavy kissing during drinks. After drinks, she says she is ready to leave - I say let's go to my hotel (I had many opportunities to escalate before this - I completely fucked up). She tells me no. I drop her off at her hostel, and kiss her good night. I have not heard from her since, and she has not texted.

I spent part of today looking at my phone, wondering If she would text, or if I should text her.

Thinking rationally, I told this girl I wanted to fuck, and she said no. That should be the end of the story, and I should not waste another moment thinking about her. However, I'm stumped. Especially when I consider that some of her comments were big TRP red flags.

Please slap me into shape. I can't talk to my friends about TRP. Does anyone here ever fall into this situation?