I've fucked up and I need help.

I've been fucking this girl at work. I know. Dumb move and I admit it. Even worse? I've got oneitis. It's making things weird and I'm having trouble controlling it. You guys are the only ones who can help me stop this wreck. I need to get my shit in order asap.

I've already sent resumes out looking for a new job. Currently working in the service industry so moving from one job to another is not hard with experience. In the meantime, I need a strategy to stop the oneitis before it gets out of control, and maintain the (already volatile) situation, until I can secure employment elsewhere.

I fucked up guys, I know. I'm humbly hoping you guys can look past that and help me get my shit back together.