I’m not new to trp but am new to actually starting to apply it in my life.

Went to a bar with a girl and her friends. It wasn’t officially a date but I thought it was. Since this was the first girl I’ve been on a date with in over a year, I started fantasising about her and how we would have a great relationship, leading to me getting really emotionally attached.

She recently got out of a 6 year relationship a few months ago

At the start of the night we were with 2 of her friends and everyone was very friendly towards us. This girl was also friendly and touchy, putting selfies of us together on her Snapchat. I then got her to go off with me without her friends to another bar.

Here’s where I f’d up

She was sitting with me being super flirty and touchy. Instead of just making a move I told her that I liked her and said how I felt. She instantly seemed a bit reluctant, but I went in for the kiss and we started making out.

We kissed heaps more throughout the night, but it ended with her telling me that she didn’t want anything serious and I went home.

I should never of said that I liked her. I should’ve just gone for it and said that I wanted something casual if she asked

Since then I’ve told her that I was drunk and didn’t mean anything I said. She has believed this and said that she still wants to be friends.

Is there anyway that I can reverse this situation where I am having casual sex with her?