It all started about a month ago. I slept with a married woman. It was a one night stand. She is 54 and I am 28. She is a beautiful woman. Does not look her age. Anyway she gave me her number afterwards. We texted for a while. She said she was not single but had really enjoyed the time with me and that she really liked me. She agreed to meet up again. I then texted her to come out a particular night and she said she would let me know. She never did. So time went on and I forgot about her. The thing is she is my step mom's best friend and I was invited to the same social occasion as her last Friday. She explained to me that she was with her husband and that she was sorry that she couldn't see me but that she really wanted to. She then proceeded to touch me in a flirtatious manner. I then sent her a text saying she was beautiful. When she received it she said that she didn't know whose number this was. She replies with a thanks Which means she deleted my number. Again we have a quiet moment and she asks me did I change my number and begins to flirt with me again. I then make my excuses and go out with friends as I am not really that comfortable in her presence at this moment in time. The thing is I have a few drinks and end up texting her at 3 in the morning that I find her beautiful and want to meet up with her again. No reply and I've deleted my number. Now don't get me wrong, what I have done is pretty sketchy morally. She is married with two children but I do like her. I have known her for a long time and never thought about her in that way until the one night stand which was done on her prompting. What I really want to know is if she has led me on in any way?? I obviously know that I am in the wrong as well. Is she equally to blame?? In my opinion she liked the fact a young man was giving her attention and was willing to take it further but then stepped back when she realized that her marriage could be in jeopardy. As a result she deleted my number so she could not get in touch with me. I don't really want to see her again in social situations as I don't want anyone finding out and I don't want to get in any situation where we potentially end up sleeping with each other again. I do like her but realise that their are lines that are crossed. Just a bit confused as I have never had this sort of situation in my life before so I was wondering where she stood.