Help with shit tests

stickfiguresk · 2015-11-06T03:03:18+00:00

Do it more and don't apologize/admit guilt/make excuses/explain yourself, "because that's just how long it takes."

bl33dingr3d · 2015-11-06T03:33:29+00:00

Just hold frame...reaffirm the truth: you are busy and are not glued to your phone like a teenager. It's a comfort test of sorts...she wants to gain control of the relationship and not feel like a plate even though she is.

moresmarterthanyou · 2015-11-06T05:56:40+00:00

tell her this is the way it is. if you dont like it go see someone else

180_turnaround · 2015-11-06T06:03:16+00:00

This is where the "take it, or leave it" mindset really helps, IMO.

[deleted] · 2015-11-06T19:54:00+00:00

Do not acknowledge the confrontation. Stand up and walk out, escort her out, or hang up. If you have multiple women, why would you take shit from one of them? She found a weakness in your frame and she is exploiting it. Repair it or move on.

Title	Help with shit tests
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	7
Comments	5
Date	November 6, 2015 3:01 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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