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I've actually found that meditation helps with this. I struggle with reliving the past and my brain for some reason replays the highlights of my marriage when it was good (I'm divorced) and neglects to insert the scenes that show the truth of how shitty it was. So I meditate. I focus on NOW, today, this second and after that I fast forward to the bright future I imagine. Once that future is crystal clear in my head, then it's just knocking out the daily actions that will get me there. It's that …
/r/TheRedPill21/11/15 01:46 PM
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Masonry sounds awesome. Building shit with your hands is hugely satisfying. I was a framer (carpenter) when I was 20 and it was a sort of coming-of-age experience for me. Made me act more like a man than a boy if that makes sense, because I was surrounded by all these ridiculous construction workers.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 01:28 PM
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Oh okay. I think in amateur muay thai the headgear comes off after 3 fights though.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/15 01:14 PM
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Oh, I understand. So what are your options if you drop out of school? What about the trades? in the US, the trades (welding, electrician, carpenter, etc.) actually pay stupidly well and don't require that much schooling. They also put you in a testosterone filled environment and toughen you up... just a suggestion.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 01:13 PM
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What's TRT? Why not get a GED?
/r/askTRP15/11/15 02:07 AM
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Just focus on one thing at a time. You have a shitty living situation. Focus on how to generate a lot more income. Your secondary focus should be nutrition and fitness. It's do or die in this life. Complain and things stay the same, commit to daily sacrifices and reap the benefits in the long run.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 01:08 AM
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Yeah for sure, but I think exercising common sense can prevent that. I just think for somebody who really struggles to make any friends needs to lower that shield and show humility.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 10:22 PM
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Consider this: asking people for favors, help, or advice is one of the best ways for people to rally around you and like you. It shows them that you're humble enough to seek out advice in areas they may be stronger than you in but also impresses them that you're willing to lower your shield to better yourself. You can be confident and still ask for help. I suffer from the same problem and I've pushed some good people away in life because I live behind iron walls, but anytime I've forced myself t…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 07:35 PM
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Not afraid of getting knocked out, it's more reading about the long term effects of severe TBIs. But you're right about head gear, I didn't realize that was standard for beginning amateur fights in both muay thai and boxing. Have you done an amateur fight yet or are training for one?
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 07:30 PM
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That's rough! Yeah that's a good point about boxing being for poor kids. I'm a middle class white dude, average as can be but very competitive and I like to train for challenges. I think you're wise and I'll listen to a guy who has been knocked into a coma.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 07:27 PM
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Cool, thanks for the tips. Good point re: the neck. I actually looked it up and in the US typically first 3 amateur fights require headgear anyway.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 07:25 PM
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Wow you are so edgy and tough.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 07:23 PM
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Great post, man. I am curious though about something, as I have trained for a little while in muay thai and am considering training for an amateur fight: Is it worth it given the risk of TBI (traumatic brain injuries)? I wonder if I should be smarter about my health in the long run and focus on Crossfit instead, and just train/spar but not compete in muay thai. I can't stop thinking about how doing at least 1-3 fights would help me grow as a man and gain more confidence in life, though. But I va…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 04:07 PM
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This is hollywood in a nutshell.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 04:45 PM
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A balloon? Jesus...these guys are getting thirsty.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 04:44 PM
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Props for getting out of it. Sooo many guys stay for too long. You had the courage to end a mistake.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 05:39 AM
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Sorry, made the assumption that you were American. It's the second to last year of high school here (before university). You're young, man. I guess the only other advice I can give you is don't go into a long term relationship. Play the field for as long as possible and resist the social pressure to lock a girl down. You'll experience more personal growth this way.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 02:54 AM
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It's mind boggling how retarded a lot of people are. UFOs, ghosts, astrology... It's a good measure of women in my experience to see if they believe in astrology or not. The more weight they place on it the crazier they seem to be.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 02:51 AM
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Are you a junior in HS? Honestly man if I could go back in time and be your age, I'd really focus on finishing school strong to get into the best college possible. Extra-curriculars, volunteering, sports...studying for SAT, etc. I partied too much and focused on girls too much. In terms of more tangible things you could do short-term, what about focusing on your wardrobe? Upgrading it and learning how to dress well is important and it's never too young to start.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 08:22 PM
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Yeah I hear you. I actually don't cold approach like that, but find it easier to have some context like doing some activity together (meetup groups, rock climbing, fitness classes, etc.)
/r/askTRP08/11/15 07:10 PM
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Totally worth it, man. Check out ETC section of craigslist jobs and just pick up little side hustles to pay for it.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 07:09 PM
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Practice makes perfect, man. Just keep doing it and your comfort level will steadily rise over time. Imagine after approaching 1000 women how easy and habitual it will be.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 06:31 PM
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TRP is amoral and drugs aren't really that relevant to the philosophy...that all being said: cocaine addiction is horrible for your health (physical and mental). You need to break that habit, man. Drugs make you weak (in my opinion). Find something healthy to replace it.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 06:30 PM
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Just laugh at anyone who believes in astrology...tease her and ask if she believes in gnomes and fairies too.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 06:25 PM
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How is a gym too expensive for you? A lot of gyms come out to be $25-40 a month. Figure out how to make an extra $25-40 a month and start lifting. You'll understand why this is important after you stick with it for a few months. You'll feel better, look better, and will do better with women. You cannot improve yourself without lifting. Trust me, as a 32 year old guy who changed his life through fitness.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 06:24 PM
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I know it. The problem is, then you break frame publicly and the legal consequences can be pretty horrendous. I try to think of guys like this as the Westboro Baptist Church...the more you express anger at them, the more their power grows because you're acknowledging they affect you.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 03:50 PM
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Same boat. Going no or minimal contact has sped up my transition for sure. Also, forcing myself to stay busy. But #1 for me has been meditating and keeping a journal where I imagine a bright, better future then try to take that image into the present to plan out what I need to do this week to make that happen one day. Super tough work but necessary.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 08:03 PM
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I don't think there is a widespread conspiracy causing all of this. It's fun to theorize but what we're seeing is a messier series of gradual changes that all reflect human nature. Women have always been hypergamous, it's just that now Western society is quickly removing barriers for them to act on it...even going so far as to encourage it! There no incentive anymore to have a ton of kids because there aren't farms that need that free child labor to sustain the family's livelihood. Now we can al…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 07:57 PM
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Oh man, that's genius. Machiavellian even! Nice work.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 07:53 PM
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I agree with you but TRP is already what you have described, and more. Evolving it into a more all-encompassing philosophy of life and you're starting to inject things into it that will create the same divides that politics does. It is ultimately about having a successful sexual strategy as a 21st century man. Trying to politicize it will only divide us up. But I'm with you on identifying and avoiding the bullshit in life. That's why it's great to be able to bounce ideas off of each other and ge…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 07:41 PM
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Judging by the blue-haired whales I swipe through on Tinder each day...we're already there.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 07:34 PM
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I like the way you handled that. Good lookin' out for your girl but still hooking up with the friend later. Everybody wins.... (except the psycho BFF obviously but fuck her).
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 07:27 PM
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Most people on here, I'm guessing, do not live in economically depressed countries. What a "depressed" economy is in the US is different than failed Soviet states in the 90s. But, this is really interesting because it shows how women act when there is a huge economic disparity. So within poor areas of the country, similar extreme hypergamous behavior can probably be witnessed. With the shrinking middle class, I think what you're illustrating here is going to slowly and gradually appear as the to…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 07:05 PM
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You've actually met people in real life who use Red Pill terminology? I feel like that's astonishingly rare... I agree though. Helping young dudes on AskTRP is one thing, because they've already found this place. Everybody else, especially real life acquaintances or friends...they can learn the hard way because it's the only way.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 07:00 PM
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Dude no way should you go! What benefit would come from it?
/r/askTRP07/11/15 05:56 PM
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White knights are so fucking annoying. They want to be the big hero, but in reality are just sexually frustrated beta orbiters.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 03:09 PM
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I don't know about that...You gotta understand I'm back in the dating game in early 30s after a divorce so these young broads on Tinder look weird as fuck to me. The nose ring that goes from one nostril to the other, to me, just looks ugly. Blue hair to me spells insecurity. Maybe I'm just an old dude!
/r/askTRP07/11/15 02:19 PM
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True, but then work to change that by writing a post of your own that's deeper than these lame posts you're seeing. It's easy for people to find AWALT examples so that's why you see so many posts. It does get redundant but it is a good reminder...for all of us.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 03:35 AM
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Personally I swipe left on any girl with blue hair and nose piercings. Other than that, same as any other dude: curvy, fit, and not crazy.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 03:33 AM
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I don't think all of redpill advocates sheer mass over being toned. It all depends on how it looks on you. Proportions are important, like having that V in your upper body. I am lean too, and strive for the aesthetics of what an MMA fighter would look like (lean but shredded). It's kind of a personal choice...5'10 at 145, maybe you could pack on 10 pounds and still be lean though? Could be a good challenge.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 03:32 AM
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Check out the bodyweight fitness subreddit and design yourself some simple workouts. Maybe focus on core strength every other day for a week, something different. Resting, eating right, and avoiding alcohol like another poster mentioned could actually give you more gains than continuing to work out. I've always been a hardgainer, and I learned that I was too ambitious with working out 5-6 days a week. Eating more (and clean) and sleeping more and I bulked up quickly.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 03:29 AM
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I think it depends on if you're willing to burn that family bridge for good or not. Is this you wanting to push them away right now because they are a negative influence on your life? Or is there a long history of them being shitty to you? I feel you in some ways because I got divorced this year too. People act fucking weird about it, family included. You have a goal of being a physician, that's fucking awesome. Keep driving towards that and cut all people out of your life that don't add value, …
/r/askTRP07/11/15 03:28 AM
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I had a girl call me a pussy once on the street some drunken night out at the bars and I used this too. Fried her brain.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 03:23 AM
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You need to find an activity to get involved with to meet people. Crossfit, rock climbing, etc. (meetup.com). This gives you a context to be around strangers and get to know them versus just showing up at bars.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 07:13 PM
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Sounds like you should avoid being around this dude. There's being alpha, then there's being a dick. A real alpha is comfortable enough in his own skin to not have to put other guys down around him. Almost all assholes I've known were insecure at their core, and that was the cause of their behavior.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 07:12 PM
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It sounds like being direct is working for you. Being with women comes with a certain amount of empty chatter you have to listen to...You can limit it by being direct like you're doing and hopefully she catches on. I'm curious, how'd you swing a threesome? Did you ask both girls if they were down or did you already know they were into that sort of thing?
/r/askTRP06/11/15 07:10 PM
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I wouldn't just dip out without saying anything. Escalate as far as you can, and if she isn't down then just let her know you have some things you need to get done before Monday and leave.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 07:07 PM
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I'd skip the exchanging of pics and go for the first date as soon as you get their number. Women aren't turned on by dick pics...the pics in your Tinder profile should entice them enough to meet you in person.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 07:06 PM
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Just hold frame...reaffirm the truth: you are busy and are not glued to your phone like a teenager. It's a comfort test of sorts...she wants to gain control of the relationship and not feel like a plate even though she is.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 03:33 AM
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There's no way YOU are the Private Man...that would be preposterous!
/r/askTRP06/11/15 03:32 AM
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I wasn't trying to be a dick, man but think about your post and the question you're asking... Waitresses, while at work especially, are pretty tip-focused. Unless you're Chad James Thundercock and really grabbing their attention there's not much you can do besides be a bigger spender. Those same girls after work? Might be a completely different story and maybe they'd be all over you. That was my point...I'm not sure what else you're looking for here. These waitresses see dozens of dudes all nigh…
/r/askTRP06/11/15 01:47 AM
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Waitresses are motivated by tips...You're giving them $1 for a pitcher of water...which I assume lasts you the night. I'd ignore you too.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 01:04 AM
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It's just you going against your conditioning. Want to not feel like a jerk? Then respond instantly to everything and watch their desire disappear...You can't have it both ways.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 01:03 AM
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Poker. Steak. Cigars. Cognac. With friends of course.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 11:56 PM
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Yes, agreed. If you have true Abundance Mentality then you won't need to settle for office sluts. Imagine having to see the girl you dumped every fucking day in the office, and her gossiping/creating drama about you. Horrible idea and not worth it.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 11:55 PM
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The way you're responding to it is fine. Just say you appreciate the concern but that you're going about your progress in a careful way. People will always try to bring winners down to their level due to rampant insecurity. It's common and natural...just keep doing what you're doing, man.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 11:54 PM
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Whip out your penis and then stare at her, triggering her fight or flight response.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 11:52 PM
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You need to understand that Anger is a phase for young men when they get burned by the illusion that society places over all of us (men and women). It's not the end goal or the embodiment of what the Red Pill is. It is more about accepting the true nature of women, and learning how to successfully deal with that. Loving women is the goal, but not blind love that results in extreme heartbreak, divorce rape, emasculation, and loss of self as so many men are prone to experience when they follow the…
/r/askTRP05/11/15 11:49 PM
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You need to create a Rite of Passage for yourself. Go climb a mountain. Train for and get into an amateur boxing match. Something that builds confidence because it scared you. When are those times that you are connected with that manly energy? Identify what you're doing and who you're with in those times and create more of that in your life. I've found that working out with my close friends and challenging each other to take it to the next level makes me feel more in touch with being a man.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 11:47 PM
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"You are what you eat."
/r/askTRP05/11/15 11:40 PM
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I didn't poach anything. I didn't even read other comments, i just respond to comments in my inbox. Don't go throwing around accusations like that. If you think my answer is stupid, then fine, whatever I don't care. But I'm not here for meaningless karma, I am here to help younger dudes who are suffering. Good luck to you.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 11:39 PM
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Dude, 9 months in a LDR will 100% guaranteed result in her cheating. And that's understandable. Wouldn't you hook up with foreign girls if you were in a foreign country for 9 months? I say break it off with her and say "have fun, let's talk when you get back and see how we feel". Trust me, man. I've had an LDR go south after 4 months of separation. It doesn't take much. She thinks she wants you in her pocket NOW but when she's around foreign dudes she will THEN want them. It's all about how wome…
/r/askTRP05/11/15 11:37 PM
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I wish I could offer advice from a similar life experience but I can't. You're in a hard place, man. You need to be the rock for your mom and sister but you also shouldn't neglect yourself. Don't keep everything bottled up. Grief is a process and it will start now, given that you know the end is coming. See a therapist if you need to, one that specializes in grief. Take care of yourself as you normally would. Your physical health will affect your mental health quite a bit. Good luck, man, and I'…
/r/askTRP05/11/15 11:35 PM
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What are you talking about? I gave my opinion, i don't need to poach shit. If you disagree, then downvote and move on with your life.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 11:28 PM
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It is too hard to change ANYBODY's position on closely-held subjects such as feminism. Trying to change somebody, especially a woman, using logic will only strengthen their resolve. Lead by example, shut up, and realize that changing the world can only be done by subtly influencing your offspring or your closest friends/brothers.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 11:24 PM
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Then you look at them and tell them you're in the middle of a conversation. If they won't leave you alone then excuse yourself and talk to some other attractive girl. The girl you were originally talking to will naturally see your abundance mentality and try to get your attention again...or not. Doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 07:41 PM
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married red pill sub. Read their side bar material and top posts. There is a 12 step dread game they advocate that is the best chance at resurrecting your marriage. It's not going to happen overnight. You are correcting the direction a huge ship is headed in...it will take time and consistent effort.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 07:38 PM
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Ignore them. Literally don't even make eye contact and just ignore them. Pretend they don't exist. If someone disrespects you then they don't deserve an investment of your attention. Focus your attention on the girl you're talking to, and if she is into you then she'll make it clear that it's OK for her to talk to you.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 07:36 PM
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Oh okay. UK explains it, because you're dealing with higher population density (esp. if you're near London) so I get it. (I'm from the US so I had never heard of this type of extreme living situation as houses here typically are built for families not 12 students). It sounds like a fucking zoo, man! You should keep a journal and document the insanity. It would probably make for some good TRP posts, too. You have basically a social experiment to witness. You can be like a modern day, male Jane Go…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 04:41 PM
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Okay, I understand that and agree. I'm sure there is a lot at the hormonal level in terms of parent-child bonding that happens with a natural birth compared to "picking up" a baby that's already been born from an adoption agency. And as an adopted child I don't actually think I would adopt. It's rolling the dice with somebody else's genetics. You can get a real monster of a kid because they have some random couple's genes.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 04:39 PM
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You have to live in a flat with 11 people during college? Where do you live? Sounds like it will be a shitty living situation BUT with the benefit of learning a lot about the true nature of modern, young feminists.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 02:52 PM
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You just became my personal hero. I mean, she sounded like an uggo-face but still: to close that quickly in a coffee shop while she's at work? Fist-bump. I think the point about non-verbal communication is understated. Body language makes up 70+% of how people communicate. I've realized recently how important it is to talk less, especially in a group setting, and focus more about how I'm standing/sitting, where I'm holding my drink (keep it low), and when I catch girls' eyes and smirk. Subtle mo…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 02:47 PM
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This is a great post because it is controversial. I've always dreamed about raising sons to be masculine beacons in a world of emasculated betas, but after getting burned in one marriage to say I'm reluctant to get married again is an understatement. Can you elaborate on this point? : Adopted children are a constructed family, operating as a divorced family is a "broken family" even when done at its absolute best. I don't understand it (and am curious because I am adopted and had another adopted…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 02:32 PM
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Please for the love of your life break up with her. Dude. You have no idea the world of pain you are in for if you get married to her. Trust me, I have personal experience as I married someone like this and after 5 years, of which I can say only 2 were enjoyable, the heartache and pain of divorce will damn near kill you. Save yourself, brother. Rip the bandaid off. Don't be weak in this crucial point in your life. Don't waste 5 years of your life like I did.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 04:12 PM
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Focus on what you want to become good at (sports, music, hobbies, etc.) and work on that. Then the people will surround you who have similar goals.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 09:44 PM
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try "Hey [insert name of girl". Seriously, desperation is the worst cologne. Using openers or trying too hard is an instant turn off. If they don't respond back, I usually unmatch them, or just type "don't leave me hangin", then if they still don't write back I unmatch and move on.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 09:43 PM
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You just described my lifetime inner turmoil beautifully.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 04:54 PM
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Males take their own lives at nearly four times the rate of females and represent 77.9% of all suicides. This stat right here shows that men are suffering en masse. Pretty fucking heavy realization that shows the prevalence of mental illness and loss of self worth that can happen to a lot of men.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 04:50 PM
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I crack up at all the single mothers on Tinder. Their profile pic is their kid 90% of the time. I'm sitting here clicking "Like" to all these young hotties and then a fucking kid pops up...like WHY THE FUCK WOULD I LIKE THIS? I'M NOT JARED FROM SUBWAY!
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 04:37 PM
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Hey man, I don't know exactly where the post is but search the main RP sub for "depression". There's a really good post on creating a daily game plan for conquering it. Read through it, and develop your own game plan. I'm in the same boat but further along than you. The one thing I've discovered is that by following my daily game plan, over time, each day gets easier.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 09:51 PM
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Props for integrating history into your post. Washington was such a pivotal leader in such a fragile time for our country. These people are usually just projecting their own insecurities and weak worldview. This is understated. People will shit-test you (not just women...men too) for not falling in line. I have buddies bust my balls that I don't have a house, cubicle job, wife and kids at this point (early 30s). I laugh it off or ignore it because I understand it comes from their insecurity abou…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 12:33 AM
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How has it become socially acceptable to shame a man for not wanting to raise another man's child? This shit depresses me so much.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/15 07:42 PM
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Reminds me of a single mother's description on her Tinder account I saw the other day. It said "Debt to income ratio is very, very important".... That's her criteria for a man!
/r/TheRedPill18/10/15 03:36 AM
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A good example of why even being a "top dog alpha" isn't foolproof in marriage. Also, if your LTR/wife wants to have a traveling sales job you need to next her.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 10:40 PM
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How does that make any sense? We tend to imitate who we spend the most time with. Hang out with winners and you'll grow. Hang out with losers and you die.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 10:02 PM
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Who says I'll be jealous? Only insecure guys get jealous. So this whole assumption is based on everybody being insecure.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 09:05 PM
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haha no kidding. Unless he gave rimjobs to his boss at the Christmas party to keep his job he is beyond delusional.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 09:04 PM
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"Never make friends with people who are above or below you in status. Such friendships will never give you any happiness" I disagree with this one...making friends with people of higher status can elevate your status, open you up to new networks of people, and help you achieve your goals.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 07:20 PM
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Never engage with dumb feminists...you will never change their mind, and by ignoring them you are exercising the ONE powerful move that you have to discredit them. It's like debating with members of the Westboro Baptist Church...if you engage you lose, no matter how rational the argument.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 07:17 PM
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Watch what they do, not what they say...this is often quoted about women but I think it applies to everybody. (Including ourselves...don't allow yourself to be unrealistic about who you are)
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 07:13 PM
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IDGAF that she jacked off a bunch of dudes for money. I work in advertising, I've done way worse. This is male hamstering at its finest.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 07:11 PM
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This is a pretty trivial suggestion but just thought I'd throw it out there: what about getting those forearm workout devices (the clamps that you squeeze repeatedly and I think there are others). If you won't be able to workout, at least you can develop some Popeye forearms and a death grip! I've never been in your shoes but my only suggestion is to dump positive, motivational content into your mind and don't allow yourself self-pity. Watch Les Brown speeches, they always rip me out of depressi…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 02:32 PM
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Well the city of Chiang Mai is an awesome place to live, train, and explore (in the north). Never trained there but you'll be able to find a great gym no problem. It's the cheapest part of Thailand so you can train in the morning then order 3 entrees for lunch for $3 to rest up before your afternoon session. It's awesome.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 02:04 PM
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You went hoggin! It will make for a good story with your close friends. Hey at least you learned to never settle for something gross. I'd rather stay in a dry spell than harpoon a land whale.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 05:18 AM
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Where in Thailand are you going? There are gyms everywhere and it depends if you're going just to train or if you want to chill somewhere specific too. I trained at Diamond Muay Thai on Koh Phangan, which is a great place because you're on a fun island but get top notch and highly technical training.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 05:16 AM
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Even if you get a loyal chick, they're just mediocre all around in terms of personality & intelligence. And SMV. I actually see a lot of pretty successful marriages in my social circle but without fail the women are just plain not attractive. They snagged a guy who settled and are holding on for dear life. If that's the solution (settling for a woman who is going to get increasingly unattractive) then I want no part of the whole deal (LTRs or marriage). Call me shallow but I don't think we shoul…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 04:17 PM
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Good for you, man! On all accounts. Do you mind telling me what you do for work? I'm at a pivot point trying to change careers into something more fulfilling/high-paying so doing lots of research. I may need to focus my attention away from white women...I'm seeing the same inflated standards they have that you are. They all think they deserve a doctor with six-pack abs who dotes on them purely because they were born with a vagina in the US.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 04:12 PM
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Oh for sure. The thing is that I know a lot of people my age (early 30s) who are married, and their wives are actually pretty cool and not crazy (or fat). The kicker? Their wives are not hot. Like 6's at best. You can find a great girl if you're willing to settle for a 5-6. And their husbands are studs, too...fit doctors and other successful winner types. They settled for girl's with SMV's 2-3 points below theirs. That's the price many guys pay for a "stable" relationship. In Asia I saw SO many …
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 02:00 PM
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This is awesome. My respect for Ben Franklin has grown tremendously.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 01:56 PM
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No kidding! Now that I've been back a while I've visited the mid-West and good God...it's like people wake up and just start drinking melted cheese.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 07:54 PM
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You have no idea how many times I've imagined that.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 07:53 PM
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Thanks for the tips, I'll try that...sounds brutal. I hadn't even heard of Dutch Kickboxing but I looked it up and see that it's less clinching, more boxing and footwork, and more striking combos ending with a kick. Looks awesome...and like a good reason to travel to Amsterdam besides, you know, the hookers museums.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 07:52 PM
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Yeah I dwelled on that for a long time, imagining myself dismantling that guy. I felt shame but it's good motivation now, so I frame it as a positive experience for me because it drove me towards muay thai. I really want to do BJJ but I'm the same: I'd rather trade punches and kicks than bury my face into some dude's crotch every night. I know I need to just go learn it though because it is good to be well rounded (and most real fights go to the ground at some point as we all know).
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 04:28 AM
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He's an information marketer. This means now he'll sell a book on relationships and make even more money on paraphrasing shit that's been written elsewhere.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 03:15 AM
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I'm curious: what's the big perk about these 40+ MILFs? I've never hooked up with older women, so I'm genuinely curious. I'm guessing the conversation might be better than the vapid zombies that pass for 20 year olds these days...and the sex if they've been putting in their 10,000 hours to reach "mastery" level. Is this accurate?
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 03:08 AM
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I got jumped in broad daylight by a guy taller and stronger than me in Los Angeles because he wanted one of the beers I had just bought from the grocery store as I walked home. He demanded a beer, I told him to "fuck off" and he drilled me right in the chest and then backed up with his hands up ready to fight. At the time I was scared and my gut told me he could fucking wreck me. I talked him down and actually defused the situation by scolding him for being such a dick. He was high and I think I…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 03:00 AM
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I just spent a long time in SE Asia. One of the biggest parts of my reverse culture shock as I walked through SeaTac after flying home was how 60%+ of women looked like walking cheesy poofs. It's seriously cartoonish how commonplace an obese woman is. I get nauseous swiping through Tinder profiles of these cows that think blue hair and a nose ring is going to hide their cottage cheese bods.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 02:48 AM
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The irony is that his wife most likely lives off of money earned from "The Game".
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 02:41 AM
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Good for you, man. You planted a flag on India, next is Mexico, and after that maybe Africa?
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 04:36 PM
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This is related to negative self-talk, which everybody has to a certain degree. Learning how to shut your inner voice the fuck up when it starts in on self-pity or negative statements is critical for personal growth. Like when you set out to do 4 circuit of something while exercising, and on the 3rd circuit you start to justify "dude, 3 times is a good place to stop, 4 is excessive" you need to be able to say "No, you set out to do 4 so you're not going home until it's done you fucking pussy".
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 04:30 PM
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Much appreciated! It looks like awesome stuff and I can't wait to try it out.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 04:40 AM
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How long did it take you to become an instructor in Krav Maga? I train in muay thai and have been very interested in switching. I'd like a side passion like that to master, and enjoy teaching others.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 11:57 PM
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I've traveled all over the world on airline miles earned from putting everything on credit....but I pay it off at the end of each month. You're throwing away money if you pay for everything with cash. I agree that using cash wisely can be smart but it's more about developing a healthy respect for what $1 is, whether it's digital or paper.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 11:51 PM
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Man, you nailed it dead on. We (Western society) need to make masculinity healthy again. As individuals, the most impact we can have is how we raise our boys (and daughters). And yet, a lot of us are too wary of starting a family because of the inherit marriage risks. So the birth rate will continue to falter and meanwhile I'll keep busting my 12-year-old nephew's balls for not being able to do a pushup even though it won't make a dent in his shitty upbringing (single mom).
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 06:03 PM
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I'm the same! Yeah but INTJ's tend to be really successful in life, too...mixed bag.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 02:07 PM
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I don't know man, that's tough to answer. The thing is, most women are raised to believe that marriage is the goal. When we deprive them of that, they will split for another guy who is willing to commit (with some exceptions). I think you're smart for putting off marriage for a while. No need for it...what's to gain? If you start to get pressure from her (or your families) just be firm about what you truly believe, and you can do so in a tactful way by saying that there's no hurry to make a life…
/r/askTRP08/10/15 04:52 AM
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Well that's a long story...to sum it up I'd just point out that you gotta manage an LTR super carefully. Lifting, looking good, having success...I did all that and it still fell apart. Wife had some emotional issues and wanted to run away from her problems rather than face them...so she basically ran away from me. You're young, man. I met my wife when I was your age. We didn't get married until 5 years later, and it was still a mistake. My point is that if I could go back in time I would have du…
/r/askTRP08/10/15 03:03 AM
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Not much you can do in 3.5 weeks but don't treat it like you're training for some event, because then you're pedestalizing this one girl. Go to the event and talk with hot girls in front of this one girl. Dress well. DGAF. Only option at this point because since you already blew it you have nothing to lose.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 02:53 AM
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I was tempted to say "chivalry is dead, keep it that way" but I get it, man. I was raised with manners too and I think a lot of it is classy. So I say do it if it works, but I'd consider toning it way back for plates. You treat a girl too nice then she thinks she's being pedestaled. if you're still fuckin' though then your SMV is compensating for behaviors that would get ugly dudes nowhere.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 02:47 AM
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Why feel bad pumping and dumping? It's not like she doesn't get something out of it too. Just be up front about it, and say you aren't looking for anything serious but enjoy her company...that's an effective euphemism for "friends with benefits". Don't settle.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 02:43 AM
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Check out the stickied threads archive in the main sub. That's all the good shit right there.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 02:41 AM
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That's a great mindset. One big hurdle in the path to being fulfilled, successful, and happy is accepting failure. Learning from failure and improving from it instead of dwelling on it, feeling like shit, and letting it sabotage your future actions. That being said, don't fall too far into the trap of "I'll do my best and that's good enough" because in a lot of endeavors it's either do or die. You gotta figure out how to win at whatever you're trying at, and seek out any resource or competitive …
/r/askTRP08/10/15 02:40 AM
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Look man, if you have a good thing going then enjoy it. However, I would caution you to take into account that you probably have a particularly strong case of Oneitis since this girl was your first. Just keep in mind that just because she's the first, doesn't mean she's the last....catch my drift? You need to internalize abundance mentality. If you're jumping into an LTR you need to go into it eyes wide open. Like super wide open. I say this because I was similar to you (minus the virgin part, w…
/r/askTRP08/10/15 02:36 AM
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Don't make this a generalization about how NZ dudes are naturally more manly than Americans... c'mon dude. Western males are pretty damn similar from Germany to the US to NZ. Don't patronize the young dudes who post here. They are humble enough to come for help, so they deserve honest feedback. Your post adds nothing of value to these guys.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 01:25 AM
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In those moments, focus on deep breathing. You need to build up your ability to not get rattled, aka maintaining frame. Meditation, martial arts, and breathing techniques all help with this. A lot of it will just come with time, too.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 01:23 AM
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In the context of an LTR, actions that boost serotonin (feelings of comfort) are referred to as beta as far as I understand (Married Man Sex Life Primer terms it this way), whereas actions that boost dopamine (pleasure, excitement) are alpha. I agree with you, and the difference could just be semantics.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 10:50 PM
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Or maybe most girls are vapid as fuck who spend 90% of their day staring at iPhones...how many of these girls even read books? You're not working with super interesting people here...not your fault.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 05:44 PM
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Where did I say that I am surprised that it ended?
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 05:42 PM
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I hear you on that. It's nice to build physical things versus concepts. More fulfilling. Guessing you're a MechE?
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 05:18 PM
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TRP is a small voice in super loud, crowded world. Everyone needs to relax and stop acting like a bunch of funny, offensive stickers are going to sink this ship. Anyone who is exposed to TRP theory and GETS it will be an asset to mankind. Anyone else can be kicked out, including SJW trolls. Not that complicated.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 05:10 PM
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"Want gender equality? 69 me." "Two options for fat women: hit the gym or become a feminist." "Single Mothers Will Bring About the Apocalypse"
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 05:07 PM
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Ask them questions and get them talking. They stop, then ask another question.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 03:20 PM
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Their hands are tied from not investigating elder abuse? Jesus H. If it was an old woman this guy would be hung from the Statue of Liberty.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 03:19 PM
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It's an ethical dilemna but it is none of your business. This guy will most likely put his blinders on like most BB dudes with a high SMV girl. You'll damage your relationship with your sister. Let him learn the hard way, it's the only way.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 03:09 PM
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I'm kind of confused by a lot of what you wrote but joking is great if it comes naturally to you. Joke when you feel like it, don't do it as some hokey PUA gimmick.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 03:07 PM
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Your gameplan is great, man. Keep in mind that in 10 years, you'll look back and have maybe a handful of people you still keep in touch with from uni. So focus on WHY you are there and don't let the grades slip. That being said, treat it like a huge game where there are no consequences if you get rejected. Throw parties? Hell yeah! Approach TONS of girls, they are all practice for building you up as a man. Work hard, play harder! Enjoy, man. I'm envious as an older working professional.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 03:04 PM
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Maintain frame. You're not in the wrong here, she is. She's assaulting your character for accusing you of cheating! Look her in the eyes and tell her the truth, and say "if you don't believe me then I can't change that." Go about your business.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 03:02 PM
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You gotta dole out some beta now and again in a LTR. Dating is about passing shit tests, but LTR gets complicated because there are also comfort tests. Don't go over the top, no grand gestures or anything. But little gifts here and there (by little I mean NOT expensive) or surprises and she'll be stoked. Make sure she's earned them and you're not entering her frame as trading comfort-building behavior (aka romanticism) for sex.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 03:01 PM
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Forgive them because they are weak. Insecurity causes people to say/do passive aggressive things to their "friends". Focus on getting what you want and do not ever let somebody else shame you for going after what you know you deserve. I strongly recommend ignoring this girl you study with. I don't mean this in a harsh way but you are her beta orbiter, she's clearly using you for emotional validation. Nothing wrong with that, it is natural for her to do, but you need to break free of that orbit b…
/r/askTRP07/10/15 02:58 PM
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Dude, relax...you just discovered you're an introvert. I am one too, and most people misunderstood what the terms mean. It's all about how you recharge your energy. If you prefer to do solo activities then you're an introvert, if you choose to socialize in your free time to energize then you're an extrovert. You maybe just need to be very selective about how/when/and with who you spend time socializing. I picture it as a tank with only so much gas. When my tank is full I can be Mr. Fucking Grega…
/r/askTRP07/10/15 02:55 PM
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Bro - I've always really dug your posts and would fully support a YouTube channel. It's going to be a lot more work for you to make videos that are as engaging as the written word. I'm sure you know this but you'll need to make content that is engaging, and keep the pace moving at a fast enough rate to keep your viewers from clicking on something else. One concern I'd have for you is are you at risk for getting recognized and possibly jeopardizing your job? Those sunglasses and that hat aren't g…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 02:49 PM
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Wow. This is most dead-on RP statement I've ever seen from a woman. I think internalizing this can help with those of us still in the Anger Phase. It really helps explain why sustaining attraction and loyalty in a LTR is super difficult unless your SMV is 3+ points higher than your wife, social and religious pressure exists, and you mate guard her for decades. (All of which sound miserable, obviously) It makes me feel better because I tried so hard to not get soft after I got married. Muay thai,…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 02:31 PM
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Office environment? Yeah man, it's ridiculous how emasculation has become the norm. Alpha behavior is shamed as "douchey", when it is just called being comfortable with masculinity. I'm assuming office environment because they are the worse. I can't do offices anymore, I'm trying to get the hell out and into a career where I can not censor my language and behavior out of fear of HR.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 08:08 PM
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This is great advice. Something else I've found helpful in being more charismatic and having more of a presence is to slow down my movements. Don't wildly gesticulate with hand gestures, don't make jerky movements, etc. Especially if eyes are on you: focus on slow motion movements. It helps me consciously focus on my posture, movements, and inevitably makes me more careful about what I say and how I say it.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 07:37 PM
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If you take a look through other recent mass murderers, especially ones at colleges and workplaces, they are typically caused by male sexual angst clashing against blue pill conditioning. I think saying these are significant contributing factors would be more accurate. Otherwise there'd be wayyyy more mass shootings because you can't throw a rock without hitting an emasculated, sexually frustrated beta in his 20s. It seems like this collision of BP values, no father figure, and sexual frustratio…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 07:32 PM
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Don't forget: "Well, if you had just shown me your vulnerable side then this wouldn't have happened!" It's an old Disney classic.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 02:16 PM
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Oh yeah, intellectual masturbation is rampant at the PhD level in liberal arts. It's all bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 08:51 PM
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The liberal arts comment is dead-on. A Master's in Psychology or Women's Studies versus a Master's in MechE isn't even in the same fucking galaxy in terms of actual intellectual heavy lifting.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 03:54 AM
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Exactly. So many people I know chose to go to expensive out of state colleges and rack up debt rather than go to a cheap in-state school. Don't even need to go the military route to get a bachelor's from a decent school and graduate with no debt. Just have to be willing to apply for tons of scholarships and work more versus smoke pot and watch Netflix in between classes.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 03:52 AM
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That's awesome. I have much respect for self-reliance and guys that build it or fix it themselves. What you described (buying land and building a shop) is part of my long term dream. I'm in my early thirties so no roots planted yet, though. 700hp?! Damn, man.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 03:20 AM
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True, and it probably partially explains the "redneck" stereotype that mainstream society perpetuates, which is typically not an endearing label. I'm similar to you minus the race cars. You build race cars? That's a badass hobby. What's your favorite build that you've done?
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 01:55 AM
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Haha...wow. The balls on these girls. She wants you to be the photographer for her and her new dude at a concert? Jeeeesus.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 04:12 PM
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Go hang out with married couples now. Holy shit will your eyes be opened to how the modern woman expects her husband to hop to her commands but then passive aggressively resents him for it...all the while making eyes at you if you're fit. Swallowing the Red Pill is the greatest/worst mental transformation for a modern BP man. On one hand you've been liberated from the fog of feminism, free to slay poon with pride. On the other, women's motives become so obvious and they will never cease to amaze…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 01:43 PM
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Thanks for the tip, I'll check his stuff out.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 05:24 AM
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I like how you're giving specific actions of leadership, this is great stuff. I'm not into raves that much but half naked girls on Molly grinding against me has begun to chip away at my disdain for them. One other protip I'd add for leading a group into a huge festival/concert/whatever is right when you arrive announce to everyone what the "rally point" is. i.e. if the group gets split up for long then meet back at some obvious landmark.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 02:33 AM
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That's some deep modern shit right there. Instead of the old saying about trees falling in forests, now it's: "If you do something and don't post it on social media, did it actually happen?" I deleted my Facebook and my friends told me "Dude you fell off the face of the earth!" No...I didn't. Call my phone to verify I'm alive, don't check a fucking website.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 02:28 AM
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Yeah that's just what we need: a disarmed, effeminate male population. That'll make America the shining beacon of strength and freedom in the 21st century. /s
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 05:08 PM
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Good for you, man. I'm earlier in the journey than you are...still in the anger phase. It is great to see the positive effects an abundance mentality can truly have on men who have been burned like us.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 04:12 PM
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So you're advocating censorship of online free speech? I say let people blab about whatever they feel like. Yes, people who love to debate politics online are typically entitled, narcissistic liberals who think that the outcome of elections will actually change their personal lives. You're right that we shouldn't take them seriously... so just ignore it. Life is too short to get flustered at the ramblings of loud mouth idiots. Delete your Facebook, fuck Twitter, and only use the internet as a to…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 04:08 PM
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This shit is one of the many reasons why Twitter is asinine.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 04:05 AM
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You need to make better friends then, man. No way around it. There are fickle and shallow people out there, just gotta be social and be a good friend to others.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 05:39 PM
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Your posts are fascinating, man. Please keep them coming! So you've covered serotonin and dopamine, which are clearly the big two as they cover how we feel about the external world and how we feel about/motivate ourselves. But what about cortisol? I only understand that high cortisol levels are tied to stress. As somebody who struggles with depression and anxiety about the future, I wonder if learning more about how to manage/reduce cortisol levels would benefit me. My main ally in this fight ha…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 04:31 PM
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Yeah but compare the two foundations you could be standing on: one is women, which shift and crack, sometimes opening up into huge chasms that swallow you whole. The other is a core group of close male friends who can forgive you for being weak, or for failing, or will push you to improve yourself because they want you to succeed in life.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 03:49 PM
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Oh for sure...which to me makes them all the more annoying. They live in a world that has a flexible relationship with the reality of the average person, and that soapbox lets them project their subjective opinions far and wide. Then people eat it up, and the average person then in turn has a more skewed version of reality. There are exceptions, of course, and some famous actors or comedians have some pretty insightful things to say. But when it comes to politics I feel like they typically adopt…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 03:47 PM
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That's huge, man. Look, I'm not a psychologist...just some dude who has his own fucked up life. I just know that that's a huge void to have as a man. We evolved working in small, intimate teams with other men against the forces of nature or a common enemy. What about forcing yourself to incorporate that into your life more? Like joining a sports team, or some other activity where you inevitably bond with other guys and make close friends because you share a common goal?
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 03:54 AM
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Do you have close guy friends? Like dudes who you consider like brothers? To me, this has been the common denominator for my state of happiness after learning the hard way about "love" and women. Men can love each other like brothers unconditionally, and this is a great antidote to just analyzing woman after woman and seeing the same childish hypergamous behavior manifest itself in different ways. I get most of my fulfillment now from my brother and close male friends. Women are for amusement an…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 03:11 AM
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You're wrestling with a tough existential question that doesn't have a clear answer. To me, being cynical both frees me from falling into the trap of false hope and can doom me to embodying apathy too much. Especially with women, because I've been burnt by them, I now feel like a sociopath or something when I deal with them because I see the dynamics of the game of chess and its all so predictable. Not saying I've mastered the game at all, just that I see it as a game with predictable outcomes b…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 01:57 AM
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Sure, they enjoy the first amendment like the rest of us, but why do their opinions hold any more merit than a garbage collector or plumber?
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 01:47 AM
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Ugh, mid 30s never-married career women are the worst. Totally warped expectations of what sort of "Prince Charming" is out there for them, but then they have a weird insecurity/competitiveness if they meet men who are more successful than them. You can't win with these kind of women in a LTR, but you can fuck the shit out of them.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 10:42 PM
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I think actors are given way too much adoration and respect as it is. Pretending to be a fictional character doesn't make you qualified to have an insightful opinion on anything.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 10:11 PM
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Godspeed, young man. The hotter they are, the more like riding a bucking bronc they get in a LTR. Outcome Independence is your greatest ally!
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 05:00 PM
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What are you talking about? Animal hunting behavior and small unit tactics aren't relevant to not hanging out with losers and wasting your time trying to coax them to not be pussies.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 08:25 PM
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Most situations newcomers find themselves in don't warrant a quick answer because swallowing the pill requires a long period of personal growth, which is painful, and requires reading and putting into practice the sidebar. The sidebar isn't that daunting...it can be read in a weekend.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 12:53 AM
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Good call on moving out. Either live with guys who will push you to improve yourself or live on your own and be selective with who you associate with. Life's too short to try and coax Billy Beta to stop playing SkyRim and do some burpees.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 12:48 AM
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This goes to show why being "Alpha" in a LTR doesn't protect you 100% from infidelity. If a woman wants to fuck someone new, or an old crush, or whatever then she'll hamster away SOME reason for why it is okay. They're like toddlers who want their candy.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 12:39 AM
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Where are you getting the stat that only 1 in 10,000 LTRs have a loyal woman in them? I'm pretty cynical, man, and I am 100% for the legitimacy of Red Pill theory but if you jump to extremes it discredits the entire thing.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 12:36 AM
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Impossible is a strong word and you're jumping to extremes. I know tons of people in LTRs and marriages where the wives aren't banging dudes off Tinder every second the husband looks away...it's not that simple. "Long Term" doesn't have to equal "Life Time". If shit gets stale after 5 years, then both people can split ways with no hard feelings (just don't get married, obviously). Sure, technology makes branch swinging WAYYYY easier because women can evaluate options, get unrealistic social vali…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 04:35 PM
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wrong sub, go to asktrp
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 04:26 PM
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This is surprising...women were most attracted to men who looked moody and ashamed? Maybe they imagined these men as having just got caught cheating on them with a hotter woman? Doesn't make sense to me. I feel like I get more positive reactions from women if I am laughing or smiling because it disarms them, making it less intimidating if I'm just unemotionally glowering at everybody. Or maybe it is how they perceive still images of men versus how they perceive men in a fluid, dynamic situation …
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 03:48 PM
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Why do you assume all 131,000 anonymous Redpillers "don't understand"? Never been to Pakistan but you're not describing thermodynamics here...AWALT and feminism follows Westernization. This isn't news.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 02:47 AM
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Haha or the single girls who bitch incessantly about never finding a boyfriend, like Betas are fucking unicorns, and the real reason is they aren't willing to hop off the CC even though the wall is approaching. Then they cave and they show pics of their pudgy, pale faced new "boos" that they're so happy they "finally found". Guys like this were there the whole time! You were just trying to lock down Chad and he'd rather pump and dump....it's all a sham.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 01:00 PM
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For sure. That's about the extent of its usefulness. Good way to connect to people you meet traveling, too. But besides that you are probably smart for just chopping all of the low-value people. Linkedin is there for networking...
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 09:58 PM
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Good point. It's a hamster feeding tube, mostly for mothers posting pics of their children (could just be my age group, because im in my early 30s) I'm sure there's a study out there to verify this, but I'm guessing women post at least 5x more than men...constantly seeking validation from beta orbiters. I have 500+ "friends" but less than 20 I could call if I needed help. It's all bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 04:07 PM
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This is just icing on the cake! A pear shaped 4 at best with a plain face has just concocted some not-so-subtle piece to feed her narcissism. She's the type of girl you accidentally swipe right on Tinder and then debate for about 2 seconds on whether to pump-n-dump or not....then decide "not".
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 02:02 PM
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I'm the verge of deleting my FB account anyway. I'm trying to figure out what value I get from it besides being reminded of people's birthdays...which can be replaced with a calendar. Is it anonymous if you dislike a post or will it show "so and so dislikes"? Actually kind of an interesting feature because right now a post gets either social validation or crickets.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 01:53 PM
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Yeah this is why I ignore social media marketing of all kinds and just vote with my wallet. It's a circus of idiotic liberal catchphrases. Twitter is a manic flow of asinine marketing thinly veiled as controversy.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 01:50 PM
1

Men and women are not equals. You don't understand the Red Pill.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 09:18 PM
5

I also encouraged other men to have oral sex with women...I guess my political aspirations are shot!
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 04:14 AM
67

Don't let them see how the sausage is made. Just shove it in their mouth.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 05:51 PM
5

I've found that swiping through thousands of women on Tinder serves as a visible reminder that abundance truly exists. It is anti-venom to my post-divorce oneitis. Killing Oneitis is a step you cannot skip in freeing yourself. Great post.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 05:49 PM
7

If you have an LTR or wife who references her "friend" and is purposefully vague about who they are...9/10 it's her Alpha fuck-toy.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 01:49 PM
1

It's going to get to a point where we'll all wear body-cams to prevent shit like this from happening. As a cab, Uber, or Lyft driver having a dash cam and in-vehicle cam is a no-brainer.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 10:12 PM
1

I don't make the assumption, I have the experience...
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 06:46 PM
14

Integrity, fidelity, and honor...these are all fleeting, ephemeral concepts for women. It's just their nature, they aren't evil because of this fact.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 05:55 PM
3

More money = more choice = more freedom = more happiness. The thing is, most people don't use more money to create more choices and freedoms. They elevate their lifestyle along with increased income, and stay just as dependent on their job as they were before. I'd rather make $50k a year waking up every day looking forward to going to work, liking my coworkers, and not sitting in soul sucking meetings with office drones than make $150k a year being miserable everyday. The caveat, of course, is d…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 03:48 PM
1

Man, you articulated the cycle of relationships perfectly. You're right in that it's not true companionship. I've realized that my male friends and brother are the best sources for true companionship. I've relegated women to people with vaginas that serve a physical need of mine, and potential mates for children should I want to have them. But, having kids scares the shit out of me more because they are a potential anchor to a shitty LTR/marriage more than they look difficult to raise. I think t…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 11:35 PM
1

He lost frame. He should have said "I'll give you some olives..." and then tea-bag her.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 04:54 PM
1

That's a great way to resolve the paradox (giving a fuck about getting laid, just not with any one specific woman). I agree that spinning plates isn't the best or only path for all men to take. It can be very time consuming and if we measure payoff in time actually having sex (15-30 minutes at a time) then maybe the ROI is pretty horrible compared to the rewards we get from other activities. I guess what I see a lot with "MGTOW" guys is that they have a low SMV, and so rather than raising it (wh…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 12:45 AM
1

I firmly believe that happiness is not the end-game. It is a by-product of being engaged in life. Immerse yourself in experiences, not sitting idly by, and get involved in things bigger than yourself. You're dead-on that self-pity is cancerous. It's an easy trap to fall in to but difficult to get out. Cultivating gratitude for being a free man in the 21st century is key.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 06:48 AM
1

By not getting married, and instead focusing on a life mission outside of a woman. "No encampment to take care of" could mean not getting sucked into suburbia with everybody else. Just my take on it.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 06:36 AM
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Reddit is a form of escapism. Shit's dangerously addictive, and that includes spending too much time on TRP. Less analysis/consumption and more action/creation can greatly improve our lives. (says the hypocrite)
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 05:22 PM
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Man you are dead on. My passion as an NFL fan waned after being around too many other NFL fans, especially at live games. So many fat losers that acted like THEY played for the Bears, Packers, Niners, whoever, and arrogantly argued the superiority of their team to me as they stuffed their faces full of cheesy fries. In reality, they/we were consumers of a form of entertainment, and memorizing the minutae of said game somehow made them perceive themselves as Men. Bunch of pussies.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 05:19 PM
1

To me, OI is not about getting laid at all. It's about taking action towards you desired outcome, but not staking your self-worth on the result. Success is about failing quickly, and learning from each failure in each iteration. So Outcome Independence doesn't mean not to try in the first place, it just means that if a woman doesn't meet your standard then you won't derail your life to still be with her. Desperation is the worst cologne. Of course we should all try to get laid by attractive wome…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 10:16 PM
1

I don't think Marcus Aurelius would have advocated to do nothing when faced with a village tormented by wolves. I think the spirit of the passage isn't to remove the willingness to take action to improve circumstances. The Christian slave-morality aspect is really interesting, I hadn't considered that before. Maybe I'm just looking at this through the lens of pre-Christian stoicism, which makes it more about accepting that which we cannot change. We can take action to destroy obstacles but we ar…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 05:26 PM
2

Thanks for the tip, that's much easier to read.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 05:20 PM
1

You phrased it well and it sounds a lot like Abundance Mentality.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 04:45 PM
5

Did you take the brown acid? I'll be honest, I read it once and then thought about giving you shit and telling you to take this to the writingprompts subreddit, not TRP. Then I read it again and really liked it.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 08:24 AM
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Hey man, that's a rough situation. I'll hope for your wife's recovery. You're dead on about close male friends, they are critical.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 08:18 AM
1

Well, think of it more in terms of Oneitis. Say you have a plate that you are developing feelings for, against your sense of logic and reason. You know that she isn't LTR material, but that desire is still there. Praying to not have that desire is more in line with what you KNOW to be right versus praying that she'll somehow grow a horn and hooves and trot over a rainbow with you.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 07:15 AM
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Yeah, it's actually completely human and in their nature. From Alpha Widows with kids to women who tried to branch swing and their branch broke. Bottom line is, wrap your dick and never raw dog. That's fucking sketchy.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 05:01 AM
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Unicorns develop opposable thumbs and then branch swing. <-- One of the crazier sentences I've ever typed but I'll stand by it.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 04:32 AM
2

I say focus on that social circle first. I can relate to you in a lot of ways and one thing has become abundantly clear to me is that, without a social circle of close MALE friends, I am going to be a bitter angry monk who lifts, reads, and has a lot of lonely nights. Take up Crossfit or MMA, like another poster mentioned. Or maybe rock-climbing. Some activity where you can be productive in your own development while making friends at the same time. Give it time, man. You need that social networ…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 04:18 AM
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Gotcha. Yeah, it's crazy how everybody just brushes it off too...like if you switched this manipulative strategy to a guy promising commitment in exchange for sex up front...and then not committing, he'd be a sociopath. But the default, psychological fuckery that women naturally employ is something that society just accepts.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 04:13 AM
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You are in massive danger of developing oneitis for her, and she sounds like she is potentially Borderline Personality Disorder as other have mentioned. You need to withdraw, regroup, and analyze your situation from a high level. She doesn't sound like LTR material, so why not just ride the wave and enjoy it while it lasts?
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 04:00 AM
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Victoria has already gone out with 20-30 guys within the span of a few months. She had sex with none of them. If AWALT, then I'd guess you're wrong on the no sex part. Or maybe she hamstered away taking it up the poop chute or swallowing their stepchildren as not having sex. But, what you're describing is so common...it's just a classic, manipulative "negotiation" of not giving away sex until commitment is given.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 03:55 AM
2

Every shit test you fail in a LTR tips the power balance in her favor. It's usually a cumulative process of lots of little failures.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 11:20 PM
1

Holding the door open for somebody, if they're following at a not-too-awkward/far distance, is just common decency. Running in front of somebody to open the door should be reserved for the disabled or the elderly...that's it.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 11:02 PM
1

That turns on women so much to pull fresh tampons out of your pockets. This kid is on to something... /s
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 11:00 PM
2

My favorite thing about reading ancient philosophy is that a lot of these guys already figured out and articulated the wisdom that we otherwise would have to make a lifetime of mistakes to learn. It's on us to apply it to our lives.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 10:59 PM
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Oh for sure. Aikido is worthless.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 10:33 PM
2

Insecurity explains SO much human behavior. I have chubby friends who bust my balls for being in shape....because it's much easier to talk smack than to do deadlifts.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 05:38 PM
1

Much appreciated, your concern is probably valid.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 05:18 PM
1

I disagree...Sure, after 6 months you're not going to be competing in amateur MMA but for people who don't know how to even throw a proper punch, or who have never sparred/grappled before the increased confidence they'll gain is better than nothing. I'm not arguing that 6 months makes you a stone cold killer. But have you ever seen videos of street fights with jacked guys who look like they'd crush people, then they start swinging wildly like a girl? It's pathetic. 6 months of regular training w…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 05:17 PM
2

Hire a lawyer who specializes in this type of situation. Delete this post and say NOTHING about the situation to anyone besides your lawyer.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 08:30 PM
1

That's my go-to method of spreading STDs...way better than sex.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 08:27 PM
12

I think it should be added that some knowledge of martial arts goes a loooong way. I've seen jacked body builders fight and it is pathetic. They punch like they are a bear swiping at a bee hive. Of course, people don't fuck with them 99% of the time in the first place because of their ability to do damage when they DO connect. But, just 6 months of muay thai training, boxing, jiu jitsu, or krav maga combined with a big, muscular physique? Your confidence in how you CARRY that muscle will be expo…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 05:49 PM
2

I think you phrased it well. I think newcomers confuse RP with some fancy new PUA theory whereas if you dig deep into it, it's obviously much more than that. RP is a paradigm shift in perceiving the relations between men and women...that shift is fucking TOUGH to make and, in my opinion, requires a painful experience like getting cheated on, divorced, heartbreak, etc. to serve as a catalyst.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 05:40 PM
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Hey man, I am 31 and wish I would have been exposed to the wisdom of TRP a decade ago...however, the lessons I learned by failing and experiencing pain only solidify them. I suspect it will be the same for you too.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 05:37 PM
2

Well, that's the nuclear option...but really effective too.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 05:36 PM
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Those are really good ones. My favorite RP country song is this one by Merle Haggard: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1RsycsYGjN0
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 05:39 AM
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Good for you, man. It's great to realize that by simply not making women a life goal or obstacle, and instead just something to enjoy along the way of completing your mission that life becomes much more enjoyable.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 05:38 AM
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Yeah now I filter country as either Red Pill or Blue Pill. Unfortunately, it's mostly BP but if you look hard enough there's some solid RP lessons about women. Johnny Cash can't be beat but also there's Merle Haggard: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1RsycsYGjN0
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 05:36 AM
2

Point taken, I guess it could be rephrased as "smart and ambitious enough to seek guidance."
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 02:56 AM
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Best way to end these manic shit-test attacks from a woman is the Fight Club method: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QI5wg2atSL8
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 02:45 AM
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I think you're reading too far into how he used "cheat" and "short-cuts". Even if a man lacks a moral compass of his own, if he is smart and ambitious his strategy to improve his station in life will not involve fucking over friends, scamming people, embezzling, etc. The reason being is that these methods have absolutely horrible returns on investment and involve risks with social and financial penalties that are too great. Getting caught embezzling once means your name is mud for life. Whereas …
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 02:10 AM
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This is a great example of why external status (career, money, and looks) doesn't equate being an "alpha" or a man of high value. I'm willing to bet the husband tolerated this shit in the past and his cologne of desperation reeks like sour milk. She smells it, and it's a turnoff. But the perks (money and vacations) are incentive enough for her to stay...especially if she can sneak in some Loch Ness Dick every once in a while.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 09:40 PM
1

Trust women as far as you can throw them.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 09:33 PM
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Was I supposed to shove it up my ass like a suppository? Because this isn't working.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 09:21 PM
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True, it can have unwanted effects on a Stoic man. I use it as mental fuel when working out and find myself preferring silence the rest of the time.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 06:45 PM
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Oh for sure, and a lot of it is just marketing to their demographic. I'll bet that Jake Owen and Kenny Chesney have a fan-base that has a large segment of young, female listeners. I've found myself naturally gravitating towards Rock, Metal, and Rap now versus country. Country music seemed to be my soundtrack when I had a "happy" marriage but now it makes me sick. Guess I am naturally seeking a soundtrack for my anger phase. Just added IOU Nothing - Coal Chamber to my playlist. Damn man, now I wa…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 06:44 PM
2

Good stuff. Just listened to "If I Needed You". I appreciate the tip, never heard of him before.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 06:38 PM
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You're so right. SMV is one of the biggest, if not the biggest, factor in a relationship in regards to who holds the power. Not always, because sometimes mentality, confidence, etc can raise or lower a man's SMV. I get so frustrated because I'm one of the only people my age I know with a failed marriage. But, when I start to visualize all of my friends and their wives...my wife was hotter. The friends with average looking wives who are at least 2 points below their husband seem to enjoy a marria…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 06:33 PM
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Country music is hilarious to me because songs tend to follow two themes: 1) Gushing with love for a woman. 2) Drinking away heartbreak because of a branch swinging woman. Seems like there's a big, fat, glaring correlation here! I still relate to a lot of the values put forth by SOME country music (cultivating masculinity in an increasingly feminized society, hunting and fishing with friends, respecting the military, serving your community, etc.) but the sexual relations that are embodied by cou…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 06:11 PM
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Yeah, that's a cringeworthy song alright! Thanks, man. So true re: indecision. Making ANY decision, even as small as "where are we going to eat tonight?" quickly and with conviction is an important character trait to develop. Hell, not just with women but with coworkers, friends, family, etc. I feel like so much of life is wasted hemming and hawing over insignificant decisions, like everyone is so scared of making a mistake. It's been part of my own personal development to focus on "make a decis…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 06:08 PM
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The beta men who weren't warriors would stay at home and take care of the encampment while the alphas enjoy slaughtering and fucking. Dead on. I will now dub the next phase of my life "Slaughtering and Fucking".
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 07:10 AM
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You're going to drive me to drinking whiskey linking songs like that. George Jones is the man. But damn if this song isn't the embodiment of one-itis...
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 07:09 AM
1

The most dangerous activity in Thailand, statistically, is probably riding a motorbike. For somebody street-smart and cautious, it is wayyy safer than the U.S. (depending on the lifestyle you live there, obviously). I guess it depends on how you "play" in Thailand, because getting hammered in Pattaya every night will probably yield some sketchy situations versus chilling on one of the islands. Have you been to Vietnam? I thought Thailand was annoying with the little ripoffs and scams but Vietnam…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 03:59 AM
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You've got balls, dude. Good for you for having the courage to have such an adventure. I highly recommend anyone reading this to consider training at a muay thai camp in Thailand for 1-3 months. You'll build confidence, learn the deadliest striking martial art in the world (some may debate vs. krav maga but whatever), will get in stupidly great shape, and will build mental fortitude that can only come from pushing through two-a-day workouts that involve boxing and grappling with other men. Plus,…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 11:22 PM
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Hey man, you're experiencing something brutal, psychologically. I feel for you, as I've been there. You're going to see a lot of comments with a hard edge, saying "cut all contact, fuck other bitches, burn her things, kick her out, etc." I'm sorry to say that this is all valid advice. Here's the cold hard truth about cheating: If you forgive her and take her back, making her promise to be faithful forever and ever, then the slow death spiral of your relationship will begin. She'll automatically …
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 08:41 PM
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As Red Pill Theory and followers grow, I think that it will give the whole theory more validity if it doesn't rest upon "laws" that people can easily see are scientifically faulty. OP has clearly laid out why Briffault's law is basically just a made up principle that has some anecdotal evidence gleaned through confirmation bias. Why should we continue to cite Briffault's law, then? How helpful is it, even? I've never seen Briffault's law as particularly helpful to my own personal development. It…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 08:32 PM
8

TIL I live inside a tupperware.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 07:07 AM
2

You unwittingly have applied dread game, congrats. Switch gyms only if you want to, but don't do it on her accord. BUT, if you want your girl to get in better shape and going to the gym together will get her there? Might be worth it if it doesn't detract from your goals. Up to you, this is a pretty minor issue in the grand scheme of things.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 06:39 AM
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Well, I'm in full on monk mode as I'm studying for grad school entrance, and figuring out where I'm going to move to (left the city I was living in and am holing up at my parents in a small town). The girls here are not attractive and to be honest I don't give a fuck about women right now. Once I settle on a city and move there then most likely I'll have to get up to speed on Tinder, OkCupid, etc. (and start approaching). Hopefully will be at a large-ish university with an abundance of girls.
/r/askTRP15/08/15 02:36 AM
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I think incendiary rounds will do it. Gotta be wayyyy far away though and behind a concrete barrier just to be safe. I haven't done it but it's on my bucket list.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 02:22 AM
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The only option at that point would be mass suicide (via blunt force trauma since we'd forget the ammo).
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 02:18 AM
5

Society likes to hammer the nail that sticks out. I like the Shadow Self concept, because so many people are clearly suppressing their individuality in order to conform to the standard. I decided recently to delete my Facebook account. I realized that its primary value in my life was a way to obtain social approval and validation. It also dehumanizes friendships...instead of a friend calling or writing you to find out what's new, they just check your profile and update their mental file of you i…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 06:24 PM
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That's a good point and I appreciate the wisdom, man. I think being an emotionless robot is a pretty repulsive trait to women, so I get what you're saying. I guess I was taking a one-dimensional look at the concept of vulnerability in that it isn't just sobbing and whining about life's hardships. To me, that's the challenge of a LTR or marriage: women need to FEEL. Being 100% stoic and maintaining frame always can sustain attraction but also push them away as you said. I failed so much in my fir…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 06:11 PM
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I appreciate the push for the creation of offline men-only groups. It's critical. Especially once you get into your late 20s and early 30s, and see so many good men let their LTR's or marriages suck up all their free time. They let once important male friendships turn into mayyybe once a year fishing or Vegas trips. It's critical for our mental health to have a group of close male friends. Not just anecdotally, but it's been proven by scientists. This study found that: In humans and obligatory s…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 05:58 PM
4

Sex = validation for girls with average to low SMV. Sounds like Kelly fits into this massive category of average females.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 07:21 AM
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She'll have the shortest ride ever on the CC at 30, then will panic when she gets infected with babies rabies. I predict her trying to rekindle it with you unless you not being a millionaire truly negates your "beta" image in her mind. I can't date rich girls. Fuck 'em, yeah. But anything more and it's like dealing with somebody who grew up inside the Disneyland theme park.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 07:15 AM
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I can totally see this is an artificial market being created in order for vendors to come up with all sorts of services and info products aimed to "protect" women from this extremely unlikely event (rape) to happen to them on a college campus.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 06:58 AM
2

Good for you, man! I know exactly what you mean by flashback memories. Funny how our minds create this highlight reel of distorted memories that conveniently leaves out all of the negative aspects of the relationship... Everything I read from Redpillers who are even further along in life than myself tells me that as long as you maintain the belief that things can get better in life, that time will heal the pain of heartbreak. Time itself isn't magic in that it will just make regret and pain go a…
/r/askTRP14/08/15 06:39 AM
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Great list, but I can think of two key concepts not listed: Outcome Independence. Have a mission in life other than any particular woman. There are a multitude of reasons for this, not the least of which is the fact that women find it unattractive when men sacrifice too much for them. Maintaining Frame. Stand your ground and don't give in to emotional arguments with women. Don't apologize. Act, don't speak. Stick to your guns even if she is upset. Women SAY they want you to "show your vulnerable…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 06:32 AM
1

That's awesome. Guess that gives me hope in life (should I ever have a daughter) of actually having love reciprocated.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 03:28 AM
1

Good point. I guess I was focusing on receiving love versus giving it.
/r/askTRP13/08/15 09:24 PM
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Point taken. I didn't mean to say that everybody should take a year off to travel. But, it is important to break free from that paycheck-to-paycheck trap so that when life requires a massive change you can afford to make it (like switching careers, starting a business, moving across the country, etc.)
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 09:22 PM
1

I didn't mean to imply that you were unemployed, I meant to say that you need to force yourself to socialize. Do you work with other people? Ask them questions, get to know them. Practice just socializing. If you have an inferior mindset, you need to flood your brain with some positive programming. Watch Tony Robbins or Les Brown videos on Youtube everyday. Don't feed your mind negative thoughts.
/r/askTRP13/08/15 09:20 PM
1

The only woman who will ever love you unconditionally is your mother. Tough realization but true. Expand your social network of available women, plain and simple. Then you'll realize that the rush you get is from all women...not a particular one (all non-land whale women, presumably)
/r/askTRP13/08/15 04:51 AM
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Hey man, I'm in a similar situation (but older than you and dealing with divorce). The bottom line is that you need to keep the faith with the steps you've taken to have self-discipline. Everything you listed that you're working on was awesome. It will keep you from dropping into a more depressed state. I divorced my wife and thought I'd be stoic and rational throughout the process. The regret I felt was insane. Like soul-crushing regret. The thing is, a relationship can be like an addiction. So…
/r/askTRP13/08/15 04:48 AM
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You don't feel comfortable with a realistic look at interpersonal male and female relations? C'mon man, don't look at this sub as a doomsday cult. Believe it or not, it is possible to learn the true nature of women and still love them. It's just loving them without the Disney glasses on, and understanding how to TRULY achieve personal growth and not just pussy-ass PUA strategies. Focus on your physicality. Lift like it's your #1 priority in life. It will lead to a frame of mind more amenable to …
/r/askTRP13/08/15 04:42 AM
1

No quick fix for an antisocial lifestyle. Force yourself to socialize. Focus on your own personal development. Get a job that requires a lot of interaction...you'll find you'll adapt to new environments and learn how to be comfortable in your own skin.
/r/askTRP13/08/15 04:39 AM
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Dude you're young, relax. Digest the sidebar material and focus wayyy more on major life decisions like what you're going to do after high school. Focus on your own personal development and women will always be there.
/r/askTRP13/08/15 04:38 AM
1

Join a crossfit gym or other athletic club. Meetup.com is a great place to network by trying different groups out.
/r/askTRP13/08/15 04:34 AM
2

You seem to be early in the process of growing into a man with abundance mentality, which is totally normal (everybody was there at one stage or another). So you had a crush on a girl and she has kept you in the friendzone? The only possible chance EVER with her is to focus on spinning new plates that are at least as hot as her. That's the raw truth, dude. Bros before hos is a saying for a reason. If you value your friendship with this other guy, let him have a crack at it and realize that you j…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 04:30 AM
1

D)Finally, back to the gym. Knowing the right clothes for the right situation help you command respect. I know, I know. This sounds crazy and mental but if you walk into the gym wearing a polo change into your workout clothes it's telling all those armchair warriors trying to get fit that you have a job. Changing clothes is necessary to show dominance. The clothes make the man holds some truth for sure. I think that at the gym, your physique is the #1 differentiating factor from everybody else. …
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 04:27 AM
1

Nice approaches, man. I think people forget that it is just talking to other human beings. No crazy scientific method needed.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 04:23 AM
4

Really well said. If the male equivalent of the female imperative is cultivating a harem of competing women, then the man must not idolize any of them. Like the old saying goes: desperation is the worst cologne.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 04:16 AM
1

“It must be remembered that there is nothing more difficult to plan, more doubtful of success, nor more dangerous to manage than a new system. For the initiator has the enmity of all who would profit by the preservation of the old institution and merely lukewarm defenders in those who gain by the new ones. ” ― Niccolò Machiavelli
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 04:11 AM
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Too many people think that the American Dream formula is set in stone. A soul-crushing cubicle job + debt + a house (which is often a huge illiquid asset trapping you in a geographic area) + a wife + kids is all optional. Working too much to buy shit you don't need is a trap. And it's not mandatory to fall into that trap. I strongly suggest younger (early 20s) red-pillers to make it a goal to save and invest such that by the time they are 30 they can afford to take an entire year off from workin…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 04:07 AM
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The whole dog and pony show is a joke. Vote with your wallet, and work hard to make that a fat fucking wallet. Only way to enact lasting change in this country.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 03:55 AM
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You're dead on. I think the destruction of our egos and pride is what it really takes to grow. I remember growing up, realizing what made my dad different than me was that he did what needed to be done. Period. No matter how he felt. That's, I think, the core of being a man. Not doing what you feel like, but completing the difficult tasks, having the difficult conversations, and doing shit that scares you...all for long term success.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 10:45 PM
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Married twice. Knocked up another. Ouch...I can hear the dollars being squeezed out of that man.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 10:38 PM
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You're definitely the voice of reason on this, I was just spit-balling. I think any transaction of this nature is super risky, in a variety of ways. (no legal recourse, risk of blackmail, etc.)
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 10:37 PM
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Sure, getting burned is not a requirement for seeing the true nature of human sexual relations...but man does it sink in quickly when coupled with pain.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 10:34 PM
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Well said, man. I'm in the midst of a divorce and while not getting burned in the financial sense because luckily she isn't a gold-digger (plus we're young w/ no shared assets, kids, etc.), it's still a pretty extreme life change. Getting burned can be, like you said, of seeing a woman's actions separate from her words via lies and misrepresentation. Loyalty, integrity, honesty...these all fall away in the face of hypergamy. I'm a fucking catch but my wife found someone probably 1 SMV higher. Th…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 10:33 PM
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Hahaha well a lot of that comes with the territory of spending a ton of time together with somebody. You get comfortable with each other enough to shit while looking at them in the eyes. I think it comes down to who holds the power in the relationship. If she perceives you as a confident man with options then you earn the right to relax a bit. If you find yourself feeling insecure about the relationship at any point and fearful that she'd cheat, then you know that things are slipping and it's ti…
/r/askTRP12/08/15 05:22 AM
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Lucky guy. Seriously, getting burned young is a blessing. Can't swallow the red pill without pain, and better now than at 40 via divorce rape.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 03:23 AM
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It's a numbers game...you found a bad apple. Just keep moving forward. Be glad you didn't make that drive to her town...sounds like a crazy bitch.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 03:03 AM
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You know, I used to be of the opinion that you should "test drive the car before you buy it", meaning live with a girl before you commit to a long term relationship or marriage (don't do that one). My ex-wife moved in really early in the relationship. We lived together and nothing changed after we got married...and that was part of the problem (ended up in a dead bedroom situation). Living together can KILL attraction. You gotta always be on your game, and when she sees you farting around in you…
/r/askTRP12/08/15 03:01 AM
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Sounds like you're losing frame too much. I know it's easier said than done but you need to just not take these bitches seriously, and show no emotion. Develop a true IDGAF attitude, meaning always keep your cool and master the facial expression that says "Are you serious?" (complete with Alpha SmirkTM) Raise your SMV and focus on where you're taking your career. All the rest is background noise.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 02:55 AM
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Maintain frame. You're in a weak physical state. Just be direct and say "I need to recover, I am sick." Ask her to do things for you...even if you don't need her to. She'll feel valued, and it's also a test to see her true character.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 02:48 AM
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In hindsight I think there are redpill attitudes/ideas floating around a lot of places. I can now think of former friends that had the "pimp" mindset, that would talk about the true nature of women. I'd even agree with them but then, of course, not apply those truths to my unicorn.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 02:41 AM
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Even if I read this stuff at 23, I would have still screwed up for pussy. I am convinced that to truly swallow the pill, you need to get burned hard. Intellectually grasping the concepts is much different than having your world come crashing down.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 02:30 AM
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Dude. If this isn't some ridiculous troll bait, then I think you need to look at yourself pretty hard in the mirror and ask yourself if being a gay male prostitute is something you're going to be proud of as an old man on your death bed. Money is great. It buys creature comforts, thrilling experiences, and gives you higher status in society. But mental health is priceless. At the end of swallowing some dude's cock for 6 months, are you going to feel like you worked hard to EARN what you have? Or…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 10:53 PM
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Story Musgrave is rarely mentioned but the guy is one of the few modern-day Renaissance men. He was a Marine, a physician, a test pilot, and an astronaut. He has several degrees and crushes everything he sets out to do. Now he's late 70s but led a life to emulate.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 01:20 AM
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"Every girl's dream man" = every girl's dream beta. All the warm fuzzy comfort feelings but no rush of dopamine like they get when Chad texts them three letters ("DTF?").
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 12:37 AM
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I'm in the depths of depression right now post separation from my wife and am fighting my way out. One thing that is helping immensely is to create three "Must Do" tasks for the day. I check them in the morning and highlight them as completed at night. No matter how shitty I feel, I have to complete them to fight my way through this hell. 1 is my workout for the day. I track everything and seek to exceed what I lifted or how fast I ran last week. 1 is to complete a study goal (I'm studying for G…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 05:43 PM
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Part of growing up and becoming a man is realizing the fact that we are disposable. Not just intellectually grasping the concept, because I think a good portion of teenage guys start to see this fact in high school, but actually BEING disposed (i.e. sacrificing and then expecting a reward for it, only to sit empty-handed and full of rage). I'd rather be disposable, with my life a blank slate only to be filled with the results of me applying myself to hard work...and even failing...then to be bor…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 05:30 AM
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Great advice, thank you. I'm trying to keep momentum going and create a daily plan of action going forward. Will definitely keep busy and not wallow too long in self pity.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 04:31 PM
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Yes, you read correctly. I definitely won't.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 09:01 AM
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Hey, thanks a lot. Will read those books and I appreciate all the wisdom you've posted in this sub, I've read a lot of your submissions. I don't think active posters and mods here are appreciated enough, the wisdom I've seen is staggering.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 09:00 AM
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Thanks a ton for your response. It is more helpful than you know to be able to bounce my situation off of guys who have been in a similar position. I've enabled her selfish behavior, and that's a tough pill to swallow. She's so used to being able to "live for today" and stubbornly decide what makes her happy that at this point I realized that I had no viable way of inspiring her to actually sacrifice something for once in our relationship. I had to work myself up over many months to man up and p…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 08:57 AM
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I really appreciate you sharing your story, especially since it is so similar to mine. The timing of your comment is extremely helpful to me as I'm trying to envision a bright future and not lose hope. I know rationally that everything you said is true and to me it all comes back to truly committing to the mindset of outcome independence, which I thought I achieved (hence splitting up) but the immediate aftermath of that decision is emotionally wild. Intense regret and remorse of feeling like I …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 08:50 AM
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I couldn't conquer my resentment. It was maddening. I'd face myself in the mirror and even acknowledge that I allowed our marriage to get to this point, and take responsibility, but her covert betrayals proved to be too much for me. Now I'm reeling in regret for having pulled the trigger on our marriage even though my rational self for the last year knew it was the right thing to do for my life, long-term. I'm a fucking mess.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/15 08:55 AM
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"Manic pixie dream girls" describes her perfectly. It has driven me crazy and has been the source of a lot of conflict in our relationship. She has this fear of being "normal and boring". She thinks us having a home and kids, working at jobs that fulfill us will make her just like all of the boring moms her age posting toddler pics on Facebook. I'm even all about having adventures, I've been with her to Africa, South America, and Asia...but I'm not a wandering hippy or aspiring digital nomad. I …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/15 08:50 AM
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The spin cycle has certainly begun and I appreciate your tips. How long did that cycle of doubt, regret, anger, acceptance last for you? I'm a complete rookie when it comes to heartbreak, my wife was my first serious LTR.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/15 03:40 AM
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I appreciate your point but I'm too far gone mentally to even play that game.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/15 03:38 AM
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Hey, thanks man. I appreciate the blunt honesty in your response. I won't deny that I have beta issues still. I recognize now with painful clarity where I failed to maintain frame and to say "no" in the relationship. Also, my dread game was weak and I failed to create opportunities to successfully instill dread in her. The strength of hypergamy combined with my weak dread game was the death blow. I'm trying to look on the bright side here, and I'm going into the future with eyes wide open. To ev…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/15 07:54 AM
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