Help

Rasalom72 · 2016-03-02T16:22:04+00:00

She's WAY WAY up there on that pedestal isn't she? So hard to see her up there isn't it?

You're not seeing her, or who she is.. you're still seeing and thinking about your romantic version of her. Think about her with your mind. Run through your brain all the shitty, squirrely, pure hamster driven things she did that drove you away. Keep telling yourself that you are better off without her, and that she is not a good fit for you because of [list of reasons].

You still want to connect deeply to a woman, and because you've had all these women, and have had nothing, you are still going back to "the one that got away" from when you were BP.

If you really want to destroy this feeling for her, you should get back in touch with her "as a friend". Don't try to fuck her... but get her comfortable enough with her that she starts to show her true self (how many guys she's fucked, how she likes assholes, how shallow she is, etc).

Once you've seen that side of a woman, you CAN'T feel anything but contempt for them... it's disgusting.

Tauger3 · 2016-03-02T16:19:55+00:00

Good looking guy, never had problems with getting girls.

How is this relevant?

stonepimpletilists · 2016-03-02T17:04:48+00:00

whatever image of her is in your head, there is no way she is actually that person.

your problem isn't the girl, it's your imagination and ego

Coolbeans024ptf · 2016-03-02T16:28:28+00:00

I only think about the past when I'm not feeling optimistic about my future. Stop being a bottom feeder, go for quality not quantity. It sound like you are giving fucks all over the place and trying to prove something. Stop giving fucks.

Title	Help
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	0
Comments	11
Date	March 2, 2016 4:07 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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