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Naw dude just no gtfo.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 08:01 PM
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Honestly, i just started doing push-ups while my shower warmed up, maybe 20 reps, every other day. Then after about a dozen people I know had made comments about how buff was looking after a month or so it motivated me to build a pullup bar and start with a few pullups. Now, 10 weeks later maybe I’m not ripped exactly but I’m the buffest dude everywhere I go about 90% of the time and thats all that matters. Seriously minimally effort on my part, even now after ramping up its maybe only 1 hour to…
/r/askTRP02/08/20 10:15 PM
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I feel like there is a muscle threshold and after a certain point women will just turn on around you. I’m close without working out but a few weeks in the gym and it makes a huge difference. I was just at walmart and a hot blond saw me walk in wearing a cut off t shirt, she about broke her neck going for the extra look before she had time to think. Its super important to be strong looking, its harder to look good and not get laid than to get laid. Girls just straight up want to fuck you and will…
/r/askTRP02/08/20 07:27 PM
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I’m a middle child with an overbearing step-dad from a large family and a huge extended family. My people skills are simply on a higher level than most. Because of this skill I can exert higher levels of control over all my relationships and steer them where I want them. This opens up many more potential matches because its a chameleon type skill. It doesn’t mean I always want to use this skill but I dont enjoy being alone for long so I’m not.
/r/MGTOW206/07/20 03:31 PM
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This is a prime example of why you need to be the leader and not her. She simply isnt in control of herself. Stop seeing her as equal and stop treating her as equal because she simply isnt. Her lack of emotional control is damaging to her relationship and to the extent that you allow this behavior then you become the one responsible for allowing it. Because ultimately the responsibility for peace is falling on your shoulders then you need to be the one to fix it. Here is how you fix it. Step 1, …
/r/MensRights06/07/20 03:17 PM
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Stop the poly cuck bull shit man, it only works if you are the chad and even then you would be better of “dating” as opposed to “poly”. Find yourself a better girl, this one aint into you.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 02:51 PM
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The good is the enemy of the best. You won’t remember her when you are trying to keep up with the next girl. Give it time.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 06:46 PM
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In my teens and twenties girls approached me regularly, sometimes groups of them. Often I would leave parties because too many girls were following me around and not letting me hang out with my friends. Sometimes they would wait for me outside a bar or club and offer sex or oral. For the most part it was annoying and unwanted. Maybe I was a super chad or whatever but girls are desperate especially drunk girls in packs competing with each other. The more you dont give a shit the higher it makes y…
/r/askTRP03/07/20 01:18 PM
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Only married men and men who father children, are are led to believe they fathered children.
/r/MensRights23/06/20 09:45 PM
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Bad breath?
/r/askTRP23/06/20 09:41 PM
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Not enjoying girls is due to you still clinging to your old vision of what you thought was happening. Now that you know different you dont value women in the same way you did before. It sounds like you miss having a pedestal to put girls on because now you know they aren’t worth as much as you had previously believed. They will never love you the way you wanted them to but that doesn’t mean you cant value them it only means you have a more clear path to get the results you want.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 09:40 PM
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I regularly mine gold from the unpopular comments, the masses are largely stupid and readily manipulated. The truths are there is you know how to sus them out of the data.
/r/MensRights23/06/20 09:30 PM
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“Hate speech” is anything they hate hearing, and censorship is now dictatorship. There is a massive social constipation going on and somehow someway it will be birthed into the world regardless of censorship. The question I have is why would anyone choose to use a platform that disallows free speech in the first place? Where can we go to speak freely?
/r/MensRights23/06/20 09:27 PM
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All people are amazing at putting other people in a pecking order. As a result we are always looking for feedback that we have been valued more than normal for any reason. Its important to be valued especially for women because they are smaller than men and traditionally rely on men to bring them needed value. From a woman’s perspective she is getting dopamine spikes every time a decent smv man shows interest in her because it offers the hope that he might eventually fall in love with her and ex…
/r/askTRP23/06/20 08:49 PM
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The other guy dumping her sends a signal that he has higher smv than she does but it also sends the message that since you will still fuck her that your smv is lower than the guy who dumped her too. So soft nexting is the answer as it will help recover your smv over time and keep her as a potential plate in the future.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 08:31 PM
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I think what you are talking about is a natural side effect of creating value by pleasing your partner while simultaneously understanding your value and insisting that you are valued in return.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/20 04:19 PM
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Dear god get custom sized condoms, game changer for real.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 06:06 PM
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Yes, i think they want a world where women have 100% of the power and a world completely unrecognizable from the current world. A world that hopefully wouldn’t have men at all but if there were men, they would be smaller in stature and controlled chemically. The men would have to travel in pairs to because the word of a man would never be taken over the word of a woman. Men would fear women and Men would have to pay for everything and a woman would be free to have anyone sexually but they wouldn…
/r/MensRights20/06/20 10:03 PM
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Marriage is a horrible gamble, do not get married unless you have nothing and she has wealth. Otherwise there isnt a good enough reason to marry. You can have a family still and everything that goes with that. Marriage is simply a one size forced on all business deal where a 3rd party can change all the rules 20 years into it that you never agreed to. Marriage laws change all the time, you have no way to mitigate those risks so simply dont ever marry
/r/askTRP20/06/20 07:54 PM
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Lack of attention sends a clear signal that the man may be just out of her reach. The message is that she should lower her standards to find a matching value to hers but women want someone higher value than them because it might also mean that they are also on that level which gives them more options and greater chance at survival.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 08:28 PM
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Marriage destroyed my entire life. Please don't do it and tell your friends not to either. I can't even go to weddings without feeling guilty for supporting such a sick institution.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 06:00 PM
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Ultimatums are essential in the presents of tantrums. You only have time for a lady not a child especially if you yourself are a gentleman. The faster you ghost her after a tantrum the faster you will never have to deal with tantrums again.
/r/askTRP01/05/16 05:11 AM
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I get restaurant owners to sign a contract allowing me to install frames above urinals and sinks. I never pay them but I will design a website or help them with social media or even trade the ad space at other non competing locations. Once I had enough locations to offer some variety I found other business willing to pay to put their ad in bathrooms. And boom passive income. The only expense is buying the frames and ink and web hosting. The lack of expenses is actually an issue with taxes so I m…
/r/askTRP24/04/16 07:15 PM
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Smartpassiveincome.com is a great start for tech related stuff. I tried that route but for me it wasn't as passive or secure as I would prefer mostly due to the rapidly changing web space and the fact that most of the online passive income schemes are completely dependent on google rankings. That said there certainly are many opportunities if you are clever. I don't believe it takes money to make money but it helps. After spending way too much time an attention and failing at the web business th…
/r/askTRP24/04/16 04:47 PM
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Better than ever but I've been dialing in my food a lot and running. Still far from perfect but hormonal health is the foundation of mental health. Flooding your body with too much dopamine causes you to shut the receptors down so you literally can't feel what your body is rewarding you with. They will come back but the time in between sucks, hang in there it will get better.
/r/askTRP17/04/16 07:49 PM
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If I smoke now I feel noticeable effects on my ability to think for 2-3 days from 1 hit. It will get easier with each day but the mild lengthy depression sucks. Be healthy and you will be fine.
/r/askTRP17/04/16 07:24 PM
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It wasn't like every day was hell but it was sort of like living in black and white when you love color but I wasn't exactly a beacon of health at the time either so I'm sure that didn't help.
/r/askTRP17/04/16 07:20 PM
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Took me about 2 years to feel emotionally recovered from a 10 year daily weed habit. Less is more with that stuff. You can speed up your recovery by boosting your health. Workout, eat well etc.
/r/askTRP17/04/16 06:42 PM
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Theoretically yes. I think the Dom/sub thing is just a spectrum so if you are more dominant than her then her submitting would be a natural thing to do. We all automatically file every relationship we have in terms of a pecking order. If you spend enough time with her this will happen automatically if you are I fact more dominant than her.
/r/askTRP17/04/16 04:37 PM
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Yeah, for a year till I found out she was still in regular contact with the person I forbid her to have any contact with ( big surprise I know I know). Then I set up a few cameras and caught her stealing money out of my car every morning. The lies are crazy and she will lie to my face repeatedly and only give in when she is sure there is proof against her. I really wonder what else I don't know. I'm in the middle of divorce now but still sleeping in the same bed it's weird but I have my reasons.
/r/askTRP15/04/16 11:48 PM
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There are 4 main sources of energy. Body fat, muscle glycogen, whatever is in your stomach and I muscle mass if you aren't careful. Your body will burn sugars and carbs as long as it can but you only get about 4 hours past the time you ate those before they are completely processed. As the carbs disappear you will start to burn muscle glycogen mainly which is like a carb in that it is easy energy but your muscles only store a few hundred calories worth of energy and as that disappears you will s…
/r/askTRP15/04/16 11:52 AM
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It depends, there are 2 main factors. Nature and nurture. Genetically you have a set point that can only be recalibrated through working within your genetic confines. Hacking your health to boost testosterone and your self confidence along with changing how others react to you in your new body is part 1. Part 2 is changing your training to have better habits and command a higher level of respect. Both can be hacked and augmented and I think any amount of faking dominance won't last. The only las…
/r/askTRP14/04/16 03:56 PM
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Maintaining frame is my current obsession as it seems fairly minor but packs Jedi level punches with all people and settings.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 12:38 AM
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The full story is a lot worse but basically she went to visit her ex out of state (as friends). She got pregnant with me right upon her return. 12 years later she admits to sleeping with him and that his dick was so huge that she bled for 4 days. The funny thing is I knocked her up a week after she returned. So basically within hours of her pussy healing from the mega Chad railing I was all up in that thing. I was freaking out on many different levels but did a dna test so now I'm 99.9% sure my …
/r/askTRP12/04/16 08:14 PM
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Yes, you have to be her best option. No one looks backwards if they love what's in front of them. She is keeping him as an orbiter in case you don't work out. If she knows you don't tolerate that then she won't do it again but only if you are of high enough value in her eyes.
/r/askTRP12/04/16 01:57 PM
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You have 2 problems, one is logically what to do and the other is emotionally how to process. Logically you know you can't be happy with her and sooner or later you will need to dump her because you will never get over this hump. The emotional side is the bitch, frankly I think time is really the main thing that will help. As you move forward you will not be such a basket case over this. Like most men, you value chastity but western women are short on that these days. In the end you will have to…
/r/askTRP12/04/16 11:57 AM
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Girls don't meet up with exes they don't still like. You have a lot to learn. Been there man, got the trickle truth for many years, in the the end my girl banged her ex till her pussy bled (her words).
/r/askTRP12/04/16 11:38 AM
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Be realistic about your smv and see if you can find someone close to your smv to get with. Improve in the mean time.
/r/askTRP12/04/16 12:55 AM
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It works on all men and all women.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 09:40 PM
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The goal is to choose what emotions you feel not be a robot. Don't let others choose your emotional state.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 08:23 PM
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Broccoli and bacon should be in the fridge at all times. Make a big batch and add other veggies for variation.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 08:17 PM
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I generally avoid this topic but if pressed my general thought is that females are the ultimate slut shamers. The fact that they consistently lie and downplay their sexual history is itself an act of admitting shame for their activity. Besides that, I can like whatever I want and if I value chastity that's my choice. Men value chastity it's not a secret. It's just that women don't want to face the fact that there are side effects to sex beyond avoiding pregnancy and stds.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 02:10 PM
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As an efficiency nazi I've been thinking about how hot is hot enough? You need to be a girls best option to expect her to stick around and not cheat. One method of doing this is to date down but how hot is hot enough? It's sort of like sports cars vs a daily driver. Sure the sports car is fun to drive but in the end it's just not ideal. If she gets the job done to your satisfaction isn't that enough? You don't want to be embarrassed when your friends see you driving her around and she needs to b…
/r/askTRP11/04/16 02:00 AM
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In the end you will lose her because I doubt she feels the same as you which means you value the relationship more than she does. She owns the relationship. You must own all of your relationships, you do this by being awesome and working a life strategy that removes people who have the ability to eject you from your lifestyle. Bankers, bosses, parents, cops, wives, tax men etc. when you have a high degree of control of your life you won't need to be as clingy. Also dating a little below what you…
/r/askTRP09/04/16 08:43 PM
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Invite her over to your place but tell her she can't hang out just sex then she has to go because you have a lot to do.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 08:36 PM
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Study hormonal health, you feel however your hormones tell you to feel. Feelings are just a specific mixture of chemicals in your blood. Your brain controls them based on stimulus and many other factors but if you lack certain compounds you will change the available feelings. Hack your testosterone, modern men are far more deficient in t levels than their ancestors, you are not set up genetically to be so feminine. Women are genetically trained to be around more dominant men because for centurie…
/r/askTRP09/04/16 03:38 PM
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Classic example of not maintaining frame. There was no way for you to benefit any faster than removing yourself from that environment.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 08:39 PM
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I think tats and piercings are a turn off personally.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 08:26 PM
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Attention withdrawal is the most common punishment. It may not take a ton so you might test it lightly at first.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/16 01:56 AM
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Self esteem my man, yours is low so fix it. That's why they invented monk mode. Educate yourself and then work on it. Your feelings are accurate because she would be a catch from your low smv position. Your abundance mentality feelings will also be accurate when you raise your smv to actually have abundance and not just pretend you are that way. Fix yourself and the rest will fall into place on its own.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 01:41 AM
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Maintaining frame is the golden rule. Do not tell her to do stuff in anger or for trade. In fact I would keep words to a minimum. Instead, take action. Punish her with actions in a calm and collected way. The problem with being married is that there is a good chance you value her more than she values you, if this is the case then you will only spin your wheels. It's a catch 22 because ideally you want to value your relationship but in reality it will suck if you value it too highly. You need to …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/16 01:30 AM
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Playing with fire, but I like your style.
/r/askTRP05/04/16 08:10 PM
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Tell him the truth and then get out of his way. I'm so anti marriage anymore that I'm debating how I feel morally for even attending weddings. Maybe we should make it a thing to not participate in weddings in any way.
/r/askTRP05/04/16 01:03 PM
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You are essentially reality checking their sexual market value and then they are desperate to convince themselves that you were wrong by getting you back.
/r/askTRP05/04/16 01:21 AM
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You are setting the bar and they don't like it.
/r/askTRP05/04/16 01:06 AM
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That is the hard part, the thing you want isn't possible. It's s dream, when you feel like it's true and someone loves you unconditionally it's just a feeling. Enjoy those feelings but don't make decisions based on them. To the extent you act on trp you can foster a loving atmosphere but to keep it going you have to be hard and define your borders well. I think you can have something similar to what you want but not exactly. Men are the romantic sex, women want a man to be in love with them beca…
/r/askTRP04/04/16 10:59 PM
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Fuck no, I cook my ass off because I care about nutrition enough to make sure it's right.
/r/askTRP04/04/16 10:47 PM
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Get fixed and tell her you want to try for a baby because you love her so much.
/r/askTRP04/04/16 10:46 PM
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It can work, by can I mean probably not but it's possible. You need to make a more efficient system to quickly weed out worthless girls. But in the end it's probably easier to just create abundance around you and only let women who provide you with a benefit share in your life. Most guys are too nice though and allow girls to walk all over them. Don't do that.
/r/askTRP04/04/16 10:20 PM
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Men aren't going to stand up and claim victimhood. Women will be the ones to fix many of men's rights issues because every time a man is victimized a women somewhere feels the pain.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 09:22 PM
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Ideally you can each benefit from the "extras" that the opposite spouse has. She benefits from the added security of the man which costs the man nothing and he benefits by having regular access to sex which costs the woman nothing depending on contraception. There are many many more trades if you will where you get to trade something of little value for something of more value. The main issue is marriage laws that convert equitable arrangements into non equitable situations where the goods of on…
/r/askTRP04/04/16 08:35 PM
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It's called testosterone, you need to research it and hack your levels. If a woman feels she is more powerful than her mate it's a huge turn off. You need to be in charge.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/16 10:36 PM
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You are giving fucks, simple as that. Stop giving fucks and start being the guy not returning her calls while she waits by the door. You won't be with this one for long if you don't stop valuing her more than she values you.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 10:29 PM
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It depends on how you are demonstrating idgaf. But generally people want you to give fucks because they benefit more that way. It should come off as natural not you being a bitch. It will likely be easier with new people who aren't used to the old you but be prepared for people to bail on you that only kept you around so you could serve them.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 06:45 PM
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Let me guess.... You are a 4 that is jealous of the 8s and 9s.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 12:09 PM
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In a nutshell my personal manifesto is that there is no point to life, and no good or evil. In spite if this we are here and anything we do here will not matter unless it matters to us. If it matter to you then it matters. Life isn't about getting, it's about wanting. It's not about being content it's about always wanting more. If you are content for yourself then want more for your family, community, county, world etc. When you find something you want you will find purpose. What you want isn't …
/r/askTRP30/03/16 12:40 PM
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Illinois just changed all their divorce laws so alimony is way worse than child support. It's actually very sexist and in my case says my soon to be ex needs more support than 4 children. In the end I'll be paying her 2k a month and I only make 70/yr. But still, it's cheaper than living with her and having to take her wants into account. I've lost so much more than that dragging her through life already. She isn't worthless, she has negative value and I'll gladly pay to get her out of my life. T…
/r/askTRP30/03/16 12:30 PM
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Exactly, she is a ditz, if she can run all over you then you have a lot to learn.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 12:11 PM
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Use the company website to complain about her. Pretend you are a customer, make a fake email if you have to and type up a complaint. Make sure to lightly threaten to go elsewhere so they feel a little pain. I've done this in the past to give me and my coworkers a pat on the back from upper management but it would work just as well to bitch slap someone depending on the company.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 12:02 PM
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Been there... You will spend the next several months adjusting to the idea and by the time the kid comes you will have accepted it. The part you may not expect is that kids are great. I felt like I was missing out but after awhile I had so much more fun and satisfaction playing with my kids than with my retard friends. The woman is the real issue. That part hasn't been very fun for me. My advise is to take the father role very seriously and not marry this girl. Child support is a small price to …
/r/askTRP29/03/16 11:37 AM
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Overall very worth it and would do again in a second. Had some dull occasional testical pain for a few months but not super bad. It took me a full 3 weeks to even pretend I was recovered but I would say 5-6 weeks before I started to forget it was done. The operation was in fact surprisingly painful and the smell of cauterized ball sack was interesting but overall go for it man just be prepared to chill for a couple weeks. The peace of mind that you no longer have to trust your partner won't get …
/r/askTRP26/03/16 04:48 PM
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If she isn't making herself available to you then don't bother trying hard to get her. You need to work on your smv. Girls won't pass up good opportunities to be with high value men. If you feel that you are as good as you can get then maybe she is just out of your league or its poor timing. In which case work on your approach and then let her be. If you orbit it's over anyway. Follow up if possible with her after you have demonstrated that you aren't desperate by walking away.
/r/askTRP26/03/16 03:50 PM
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Smart drugs my man not adderal. You should check out Bulletproof Radio podcast for all the geeky biohacking stuff. As a fellow cosmonaut the older I get the more I'm turning into a nutritionist and less of a drug addict. Look into the racetam family like piracetam and aniracetam. Both legal, effective and safe. Unlike speed though so it's not a high but very effective at cheating at life in my experience.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 09:07 PM
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Get more experience
/r/askTRP24/03/16 09:05 PM
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I sought revenge against a fool and became one in the process.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 12:19 PM
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Sounds like typical low self esteem talk. He needs to feel pain of some kind every time he does this. It won't take long but he will stop if you kindly remind him in front of everyone what an ass wipe he is. Chances are the others will agree. You could even ask them in front of him if they thing he is a douche nugget. The important part is for you to maintain frame and do this kindly with a relaxed mindset and not is a bitchy way.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 09:34 PM
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I gave up on commenting on the female subs as I always get deleted, even my comments that are very nice and kind. It seems like any comment that isn't in agreement with the feminist agenda is banned. I don't think comments should be allowed to be deleted. Isn't that why we have the down vote thing? Often the only comments that speak real truth are laying at the bottom but at least they are there.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 09:29 PM
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I experimented for several months very unscientifically. Sometimes I'd take just one or sometimes more. Some of them take time to build up in your system before they work and some have super long 1/2 life like provigal (15 hours) which for me is a deal breaker. I bought a bunch of them in bulk and make my own capsules so I can adjust and tweak to my hearts content.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 09:16 PM
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Yeah, it's not like I'm high or jacked up although some compounds may have stronger effects depending on dosage and what else you take with them and the contents of your stomach. Mine are just now kicking in this morning and I feel like I could effectively write a term paper and have good focus and mental clarity. It's like my mind is flowing more easily but not racing. Smart drugs are just 1 part of a larger puzzle for better mental function. I'm sure it helps that got plenty of sleep in a blac…
/r/askTRP23/03/16 04:04 PM
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Google nootropics, there are many cognitive enhancing compounds my personal stack consists of piracetam, aniracetam, alpha gpc and matcha which has l- theanine in it. Combine these in the morning with some bulletproof coffee and congratulations you are now cheating at life. I've tried many other compounds and continue to experiment but it can to too much to where you feel like your mind is spinning out. But having suffered from horrible brain fog in the past it is so awesome to be on task and ab…
/r/askTRP22/03/16 11:59 AM
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Sprint training, takes like 5-7 minutes per day and is crazy great at energy boosting. Cutting out processed foods. Lifting as it builds more mitochondria which are where you get energy in the first place. Smart drugs work for me, not so much for energy but for mental clarity. Good sleep is key. There are many more hacks but those are the basic ones I use.
/r/askTRP22/03/16 02:31 AM
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Leave an anonymous note on her car saying she should get tested for AIDS and see if she tells you or is quietly freaking out.
/r/askTRP22/03/16 02:21 AM
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You must be willing to leave her or you can't make progress. If you are willing to leave her then you need to start drawing some borders and if she crosses them you leave. It's that simple. Be awesome and expect to be treated well. If not move on. She will either fix herself or let you go and either way you will be happier. I don't think her sickness means you need to be a doormat. It's possible that her sickness will kill the marriage or that she is using it as an excuse not to put effort into …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/16 12:16 AM
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Marriage laws are utterly broken and any marriages that work only work in spite of the laws the serve to undermine the relationship. I believe there is a war against marriage because more taxes are generated the less efficiently people live. The result is a stronger government and weaker people. We are in the middle of a economic war and don't even know it.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 05:22 PM
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The power equivalent is to trade her for a girl that puts out. Don't marry her dude, never marry anyone. Marriage = castration for men.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 11:59 AM
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You have no idea what you are doing.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 11:55 AM
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I would probably smoke first and then eat and shit but to each their own.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 05:16 AM
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For sure: Smart Passive Income Podcast for modern business models, for efficiency read 4-hour work week or check out Tim ferris podcast. For health your 1 stop shop is Bulletproof radio. Podcasts have changed my life in so many ways. We live in an Information Age yet are surrounded by ignorant masses. There has never been a better time to use information to not only gain control over your life but position others to bring abundance to you. I've been learning at a much greater speed than the aver…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 08:14 PM
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It's about standards for yourself and the people you allow in your life. It has little to do with women but it seems that way since it attracts men of the lowest caliber after they hit rock bottom. You need to filter the hate and pickup artist crap out to get the real message. For the average man this entails a paradigm shift to reprogram the lies they have been spoon fed since birth. It requires a certain level of acceptance that you will no longer be able to express this truth openly but you w…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 07:30 PM
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If you are high value and know it, it will be natural.
/r/askTRP19/03/16 02:41 AM
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I personally don't think marriage is an accurate word to describe what it really is. Like you the idea of a lifetime partner is appealing but marriage is not a path to what you seek. Marriage is a business, it's a business where you have to have a partner and the agreement you have with your partner is a cookie cutter agreement that is the same as all others in your area (prenups don't always work). This would be shitty already except that even after you agree to the one size fits all business a…
/r/askTRP16/03/16 10:41 AM
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I kinda doubt you will be able to tell who is a true sociopath and who isn't. I'm very sociopathic and I'm also generally popular in all social settings and typically very well received and loved. Even if I admitted to everyone I was very sociopathic they still wouldn't believe me. It sounds so negative but it's typically a win win in most situations which is why I'm so well liked I think. Most people can't see past their own point of view. Sociopaths understand your logic they just don't care a…
/r/askTRP16/03/16 01:10 AM
0

Your problem isn't that you are a slut it's that there are so many sluts that when you say your number is 4 most men will put that into a female to male n count converter which will tell him that your admitted 4 is really 9 because most girls only count the guys they liked not the jerks. They definitely only count sex so 9 actual sex partners and 16 blowjob partners and 20 hand job partners for a total dick count of 45. Every guy you ask who says his n count is 4 will be counting everything but …
/r/askTRP15/03/16 11:48 AM
3

Soft next them all
/r/askTRP14/03/16 07:47 PM
1

I can't tell you how many times I've heard that I am emotionally abusive from my wife. By any standard if I am emotionally abusive then she would be the Hitler of emotional abuse. I've tried to understand this more but the standards are so vague that virtually every relationship is emotionally abusive somehow from both sides. I think it's just a term to get a pussy pass and claim victim hood in all situations where the male does not agree with the opinion of the female. As far as I'm concerned e…
/r/MensRights12/03/16 09:51 PM
9

We always say lift as the first step to trp but maintaining frame is worth more than a six pack to me. I want both but a six pack doesn't put me in control over the people around me. It never fails to amaze me what a positive effect self-control has on my day.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/16 02:12 PM
1

I'm not saying not to do it but just last night I took a good friend of mine out to an off grid cabin site to chill because he was frantic that people were going to get him. He was sober too. He was sure his mail was being opened and his computer was hacked and his phone was recording all his conversations and every car that drove by was the bad guys. He called dcfs on his father in law because he was sure he was molesting his daughter, then he said he was sure his wife was having an affair and …
/r/askTRP08/03/16 08:25 PM
1

One day you will die, life is like getting paid every morning and having to give back and money you didn't spend before sundown. Start buying different shit. Kinda sounds like an addiction when the drug isn't good enough to offset the pain like it used to and you keep going back hoping it will be like it was but you just wind up not fully enjoying the experience.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 11:05 PM
1

It was from the mono, there are lots of weird symptoms that most people don't get, I had about 1/2 of the rarer symptoms. In a small percentage of the population it causes them to lose their mind and have to be institutionalized. 2 weeks prior I had taken magic mushrooms for the first time and I tested negative for mono until I had need sick for 2 months. So for weeks I just thought that I had fried my brain and after my first mono test came back negative I really thought my new norm was trippin…
/r/askTRP06/03/16 10:56 PM
3

I got at at your age and was sick for 6 months. My hair started falling out and I had mild visual hallucinations that I think I still have years later but just got used to. I didn't know who I was emotionally and was so worn down to nothing that I felt like a different person. My advise it so get sunlight, eat lots of veggies, drink water and sleep. Your body will get it under control but it's nothing to think lightly of.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 09:00 PM
1

Time, energy, resources, commitment, knowledge, connections, protection, entertainment, stability and emotional support. A shoulder to cry on as you say.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 07:54 PM
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Fairness can be legislated but equality cant be. People aren't born equal and as unfair as that is it can't be changed. We can only try to foster fairness to the extent possible.
/r/MensRights06/03/16 07:46 PM
1

I don't really have anything but bro science but a good opiate reference point would be Courtney Love. Find some clips of her and listen to her voice. Not all opiate addicts sound like her but you will notice them after you hear her cadence and how she rolls her words around. Speed geeks just talk fast and have a raspiness in their tone. Rather abrasive speech patterns. My reference points are my dad and an old boss I had who were both speedsters. My dad was Coke head years ago but his voice sti…
/r/askTRP06/03/16 06:39 PM
0

This is a passion of mine. Most people walk around with signs on their forehead spilling all the personal details of their life out. My favorite tell tale sign is the painkiller/opiate voice or the speed/Coke voice. Long after their use may have ended you can pick up on their secrets. Also a girl with a super high voice is likely an abuse survivor, the higher the voice the younger she was when the trauma started. As to your question, I think this skill is one of guesswork and assumption that is …
/r/askTRP06/03/16 04:49 PM
2

I think the procrastination on his part may just be a luxury he can afford as you said he is a good provider. It may be that he can handle any problems faster and easier than you and as a result it's just not as stressful for him as it may he be for you. I'm that way. I'm not saying it's right or wrong but stressing the little things takes a lot of effort and it's just not efficient to do that depending on the situation.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/16 02:39 PM
3

I once sought revenge against a fool and became one in the process.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 09:05 PM
2

She sounds like an alpha widow Next her as you are already wasting your time.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 08:15 PM
2

I think you may be confusing his political views with his natural dominance. I bet he isn't a pushover and doesn't carry her purse and ask her for permission to play with his friends. You can be dominant enough to be attractive and be pro feminist. Also they sound young, it's hard to hide your true nature over time and things change. My views are the result of years of abuse not only by my wife but by my government. I would say the latter enabled the former to occur.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 08:11 PM
2

Feminism is a very vague concept that sounds progressive and positive which in many ways it is but it has a dark militant side as well. It doesn't matter if you identify as a feminist or not, the power dynamic of relationships effects everyone. Reddit is full of stories of so called feminists girls who are in every other way acting as submissives to their pickup artist boyfriends who are writing the rest of us to say AWALT is real.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 12:30 PM
1

You just very rudely discounted my opinion. I assure you my opinion is held by a very larger percentage of men. Most of them are too kind to ever voice it publicly for fear of reactions like yours. Beliefs like mine are a growing problem and one that should not be brushed off. I wasn't born this way, my attitude is the result of my experience with women. Maybe I was just unlucky but there are a ton of us and more every day. That's why the red pill exists. Change is afoot, feminists are growing w…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 11:47 AM
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I'm not trying to be a jerk but honestly the main reason to tolerate the drag of having a woman in your life it to get sex from her. I don't think most women realize how little value the bring to the table. If it wasn't for sex men wouldn't have much to do with women. A good woman is of course worth so much more than sex but most guys haven't met one.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 04:42 AM
3

Are you kidding, a red pill man would never buy a car to attract chicks, how pathetic.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 11:01 PM
3

Sleep, zinc, no stress, meditation, no soy, no plastic bottles.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 10:51 PM
6

Each sex has strengths and weaknesses. In poorer times it was essential to understand how to work together synergistically. Our technology, wealth and hormonal drugs has given women the dream that they can do everything a man can do without a man and to a certain extent it's true but when it really gets down and dirty an empowered strong woman is still going to have a very hard time doing many tasks I've had to do as a man. Actually as a man of average build I don't believe 1 in 100 could walk t…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/16 02:43 PM
5

It doesn't really matter, what you communicated loud and clear is that you have zero tolerance for bullshit and you are more than willing to next her. It makes you off the charts attractive, she will make herself with available for you anytime for years to come and if you allow her back she will give you vip treatment for a long time. Or she is now your alpha widow.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 03:43 AM
1

Keto, sprinting and lifting. The healthy you will make more money easily and effortlessly.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 03:36 AM
-1

That's a pretty creep move, kind of a spam approach and frankly annoying but I'd say own it. I bet you will get more dates from the negative publicity than the shit strategy. At least you are getting out there but I'd think of a better way to go about it.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 03:29 AM
1

Dude, slap some sense into yourself. Men have all the advantages, the only reason we don't trade women like slaves is because we love our moms and daughters. We could buy and sell women tomorrow if we wanted to. Even with heavy handed legislation women still just don't measure up to men. How would you like being dependent on the opposite sex for everything? Being born naturally dominant over 1/2 the planet is priceless. You have lost sight of your true value. Everything women have is ultimately …
/r/askTRP04/03/16 02:04 AM
2

Exactly
/r/MensRights04/03/16 01:08 AM
2

It did give me some satisfaction knowing I wasn't tricked into raising someone else's kid.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/16 02:27 AM
2

It works on all relationships, men and women, young and old. It's the same for the most part. Be the best version of yourself you can be and expect others to treat you as the valuable person you are. If they refuse you next them. You can and probably should next your boss even but this requires that you really bring value. If you aw the kind of worker who will excel anywhere then you should have an abundance of options and not suffer from oneitis for a shitty job. You get the point.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/16 02:17 AM
1

Maintaining frame is just defense for manipulation. It is refusing to let others control your emotions. The next level is choosing your emotion at will so you can better control the emotions of people around you. The art of this is that it should happen in a way that most of your victims enjoy your manipulations and welcome them. The most talented among us have their way with us and we thank them for it. The chess game of manipulating people involves reading people instantly and knowing what you…
/r/askTRP03/03/16 01:39 AM
2

Yeah of course man, I'm 99.9% sure he is mine
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/16 01:03 AM
1

All the women related subreddits delete comments that are contrary to their agenda. It really defeats the beauty that is Reddit. It also prevents readers from learning other valid opinions. I've learned to take poplar comments with a grain of salt as often the gems are closer to the bottom of the feed.
/r/MensRights02/03/16 04:44 PM
1

Yeah man, she is your piece of meat and if she valued you she would be proud to be your piece of meant and climb all over any other girl who want to take that prized place in your life. You have an uphill battle to change her view of you. Good luck
/r/askTRP02/03/16 04:35 PM
1

I only think about the past when I'm not feeling optimistic about my future. Stop being a bottom feeder, go for quality not quantity. It sound like you are giving fucks all over the place and trying to prove something. Stop giving fucks.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 04:28 PM
6

I unfortunately have tons of experience with a woman like this who was so threatened by me having friends and family that supported me she would have melt downs every time I tried to spend time with them. In hindsight I let it go way too far for way too long and my relationships suffered for years. My advise is to maintain frame at all costs, never ever lose your cool no matter what bullshit comes it of her mouth. She will amplify possibly to suicide levels but it's just a front. She has to find…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/16 04:20 PM
5

I only look back at my past longingly when my present kinda sucks. You won't ever feel the way you do again after you build your life into something better than your past.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 02:02 PM
-1

Marriage laws have changed since I was married, I could see maybe being forced to abide the the law at the time of my marriage but I essentially signed a contract that changes without my approval. There is no point in a contract that can change without either parties approval at any time. It would be like the state saying that all business partners need to have identical arrangements that the state can change at will 10 that have drastic consequences. It would be the fault of the state for busin…
/r/MensRights01/03/16 10:48 PM
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I lay awake at night churning over the facts hoping my mind spits the answer out but so far nothing. I hope to not hurt others in my mad dash to freedom but I fear my children will be worse off if I even try to be free. I've never been victimized like this before and it's profoundly disturbing. I'm not sure who should be the target of my retaliation. I don't think my wife is to blame. Is it the feminists? Is it the law makers? Is it a diabolical plan or the result of ignorance? What am I going t…
/r/MensRights01/03/16 02:35 PM
2

Girls don't know anything they feel everything. Their feelings are like a fog that they can't see out of and they aren't able to remember ever being in any fog but the current fog. When the love you they love you as if they always have and always will and when they hate you...
/r/askTRP01/03/16 12:59 PM
3

Be great and demand greatness from others. Know your value and don't waste it.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 02:45 AM
1

Podcast, smart drug smarts
/r/askTRP01/03/16 02:39 AM
2

I heard about them via podcasts like bulletproof radio, Tim ferris and smart drug smarts. I ordered a shit ton of different ones from sun nootropic a couple years ago and I make my own with a capsule filling machine . There are lots of them but I would start with the racetams mainly piracetam and aniracetam both are less toxic than table salt and impossible to overdose on. They aren't speed, the best way I can describe it is that it's like greasing the gears of your brain. I remember things easi…
/r/askTRP01/03/16 02:38 AM
1

I've learned a lot of things the hard way, I hope you can avoid some of this mistakes I've made by simply being better and understanding how that alone has a trickle effect into everything else.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 02:09 AM
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It means you have a scarcity mindset not abundance. For low value men, pussy is scarce so they value it higher which women pick up on as a clear indicator that they have chosen a low quality mate. A woman is evolved to choose high value mates as a matter of survival. A high value man has pussy thrown at him, so much so that he has to have systems in place to deflect unwanted attention (much like a hot girl). The result is a man with a very different attitude that women are attracted to. The prob…
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 08:43 PM
2

Belly fat is a sign of insulin sensitivity which basically means you need to cut carbs for the best luck.
/r/askTRP27/02/16 11:35 PM
3

Keto is great and should help cravings once you get going. I would look at carb cycling also. Lifting is good because it builds muscle which eats more calories and it builds more mitochondria which will make you more energetic. I would focus on lifting and maybe a short jog but mostly for the sprint to get your heart rate up. Honestly yoga is good because it will help to keep you from building your body in an unbalanced way from lifting and keep you limber to avoid injury, also it tends to reduc…
/r/askTRP27/02/16 11:33 PM
0

"Who Sarah?"
/r/askTRP27/02/16 09:13 PM
1

What is your end goal and what do you have to work with?
/r/askTRP25/02/16 12:56 PM
1

Lift, and do hiit, yoga. Live on veggies and meat. Go keto with carb cycling. Only add 1 new habit per month or you will burn out, lose the weight slowly and the skin should be tighter in the end. If you have a huge gut then you are likely insulin sensitive which means low carb will be more effective for you. Sugar addiction will be a bitch but I've found that electrolytes are the key to getting over that hump. What I like about keto is that it is the only thing that gives me control over my app…
/r/askTRP25/02/16 03:08 AM
1

As a man you must strive to remove all people from your life who have a controlling power over you, parents, landlords, tax men, bankers, women and God himself. Take their advise and input if it's warranted but do not take their orders if you can help it.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 02:53 AM
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Honestly women are kind of boring and the ones who arent are crazy. It sounds like you need a new challenge, master a new skill or break some record etc. there are so many interesting and worthy things you could do, it's not all about chasing tail.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 02:49 AM
1

Jerking off seems to help if it's really that big of a problem. But I think not jerking off will help you get actual sex easier because you will be more likely to be more sexual in how you approach girls.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 02:44 AM
2

The knee jerk reaction is to ghost her but as a man who has been in your shoes I can tell you that having children is fucking awesome. The distance sucks but you do have an opportunity to show others and also yourself what sort of moral fiber you are made of by choosing to either play an active role or at least a financial role in your offsprings life. Maybe it is a close call, if not have a paternity test done and see it as an opportunity because that's what it is. I'm not blowing smoke up your…
/r/askTRP25/02/16 02:12 AM
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It depends on everything, first and foremost it depends on what you want. If you know what you want then it depends on if that is realistic and how you measure up to any competition. Social situations are dynamic and constantly changing and most of the things going on are completely hidden from all people involved so it's an ongoing shit show. If you are against stiff competition you might just need to be an expert in timing. I assume you are talking about sex so it depends on what kind of sex y…
/r/askTRP25/02/16 01:53 AM
1

You have all the control, not only could you beat her to death with 1 thumb but you also have the self control not to. She is almost powerless against you. I think you should use your voice recorder and get her to say some super dark shit and then you will own her and you can do whatever you want with her. Filing a complaint would make for a level playing field if she tries make allegations you would have a paper trail showing your concern long before she went after you.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 01:31 AM
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I think this is spot on and have used iPods as cameras to catch my wife cheating. This video also gives me leverage in a situation where everything is against me. The tables can turn quickly as a man and you will be seen as a criminal just on the word of a woman. My current thoughts are that I should do some checking up on people close to me just to what is going on. Besides spy shit is just cool.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 01:12 AM
1

Yeah man, I'm learning the art of divorce as we speak and from what I gather, it's best to plan everything forward and backwards but also be ready for shit to hit the fan. You will need all your trp stuff more now than later. Maintain frame at all costs. Divorce is a process. 95% end out of court and not at the hand of a judge so sooner or later you will need to agree her somehow. By planning it in advance you set the stage and minimize damage hopefully. That said to the extent you can maximize …
/r/askTRP23/02/16 03:37 AM
4

Yeah dude, fix the body and you will fix the mind. Fix the mind and body and you will fix the girl problems.
/r/askTRP23/02/16 03:29 AM
1

Yeah dude, you're beta as hell. Start by telling her in the morning how horny you are and that she better be ready when she gets home. Literally pick her up and haul her ass to bed and rip her clothes off. If she stops you then it's time for mega dread game but it won't be a game because you will lose her ass if she doesn't provide a benefit to you. As the man you can pretty much get the things you want and you are fine being alone so sex is like 75% of what a typically woman has to offer you. W…
/r/askTRP23/02/16 01:25 AM
1

The very idea that you could afford to engage in such a taxing emotion like empathy means you are super resourceful and have an abundance mentality. People of low ability can't afford to maintain higher emotions. The trick you need to learn is that you need to have boundaries and not waste your resources on unworthy subjects. Don't pretend you are a jerk just learn to not be a doormat.
/r/askTRP23/02/16 01:11 AM
1

From now on its all about you, what you want, what pleases you, what makes you better. Personally I've found nutrition to be overlooked. We are living in a testosterone depleted world so by boosting T levels you will automatically feel like the person you are trying to be and things will fall into place much easier. Step 1 lift, and sprint training Step 2 eat well and sleep well Step 3 dress well Step 4 have an interesting hobby Step 5 be good at your career and crush it Step 6 be of such high v…
/r/askTRP23/02/16 12:50 AM
1

You must always be the first one that is willing to eject her from her seat next to you. She must live in fear of being replaced at all times. This requires you have options which means you need to be bringing your A game and not rocking the dad bod. Kids will spin this around as she would likely be able to manipulate your love for them into a form of bondage. It's ugly and not something I recommend unless marriage laws become highly customizable. Or maybe if she makes bank.
/r/askTRP23/02/16 12:09 AM
2

Yeah for sure, people just believe you know what you are talking about and respect you more.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 07:10 PM
-1

Hood rats (all races) are typically the most easily scared type of men out there. They talk big game but when the slightest bit of resistance comes into the picture they bounce. I say come on strong like a hurricane and they will be so surprised that they will leave you alone for life. You could just break a bottle over one of their heads out numbered and all and talk smack like a pro wrestler. Or with a little planning you could stage an event where you have an actor that you fake fight complet…
/r/askTRP21/02/16 11:36 PM
-1

Yes but as women move up the Corp ladder they fall victim to the marriage laws that enslave the higher wage earner. Many never consider that they are starting to be owned by their betas unless he matches her income. Women pretty much get the short end of the stick no matter how they cut it because you can't legislate equality. None of us are born equal. The most you can accomplish via legislation is fairness. Women will always wind up with less than men no matter how you cut it.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 08:17 PM
1

Don't get me started on the deflated testosterone levels adding to this effect. Personally I think as a man if you keep your health up and frame your mind properly and avoid the marriage trap that you would rule the herds of shemen not to mention the females who as confused as most of them are are also suffering deflated power due to hormonal birth control zapping their natural testosterone as well. Nevermind the increasing toxic environmental aspect that causes most of us to not feel as good as…
/r/askTRP21/02/16 08:11 PM
2

As a married man, I expected being married would be hell and it is however there are lots of things I enjoy about being married. I think men and women are natural allies. Women aren't the problem with marriage, draconian marriage laws are mostly to blame. It's a business deal where the contracts are not customizable and it basically says that whoever makes less money owns the other person not just while they are married but after as well. There is no way to void the contract if there is cheating…
/r/askTRP21/02/16 05:51 PM
12

Logically I understand and agree with you but fuck is it hard to not solve problems. This is the reason I prefer the company of men to women typically. Meditation and generally learning to calm myself has helped. I always feel like an asshole when I bite my tongue and let someone continue down a dead end road.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/16 04:46 AM
1

Sounds good, but for real watch out for women. Preventing a marriage is more valuable than a business from my experience. Unless you are lucky in which case it would be more valuable than a marriage but most modern women are not worth wasting time on much less marriage.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 03:16 PM
6

This was a very wordy way to say, be the best version of yourself you can be. Life isn't a game and the best man doesn't always win.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 01:46 AM
1

Response to a playful insult? Comedy is good, make it a joke. Usually only insecure people insult others but insults can be a way to say you like someone so it really depends. It's all very dynamic. I would need a specific scenario to be able to help.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 01:27 PM
2

I use an app called Robinhood to invest in stocks with no fees. Volatility is a good way to make money but it's very much a gamble and there are very sophisticated things in place to get your money away from you so proceed with caution, however if we do fall into recession this year it will likely be a much safer playground during the rebuild. I own a cash business that I run on the weekends and have for 10 years it has been very helpful in giving me a leg up on my peers but comes at a great tim…
/r/askTRP18/02/16 01:22 PM
2

The United States government man, not only do they have the most productive slave force that ever existed but they have conned the rest of the world into accepting money that they print out of thin air and borrow to buy a largest military that ever existed. We are well on our way to taking over the world, it just has to be done slowly to work. Any country that wants to compete had better have a far more diabolical plan than we do. The noose is ever tightening.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 04:22 AM
1

I've been in sales for many years and I'm no expert but the truth is that sometimes I go weeks and basically do nothing productive because my head isn't in the game. And other times I'm on fire. Over the last year I've really learned the importance of my hormonal health in terms of not only getting my head in the game but crushing the game with ease. I have become a nazi on my nutrition and employ several strategies to boost testosterone and remain calm at all times. I also take smart drugs to g…
/r/askTRP18/02/16 02:44 AM
3

It's sounds like you are already set pretty much. Just keep working and don't blow money on stupid shit. I'm not sure what to say. Buy a used car? Live at home unless you see that as mooching? Why do you even need anything from your family at this point?
/r/askTRP18/02/16 02:32 AM
1

As you build larger muscles you need more repair time. Less is often more.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 02:29 AM
2

It is the way it is for the same reason that taxes are so high. It's part of a defense/ offense strategy for the country. Basically we did away with 100% slavery because it wasn't as efficient as 50% slavery. By arranging our society to ban multiple wives and by providing tax incentives to married people we highly encourage marriage and are essentially motivating men to be super productive then we tax the hell out of them. The problem is that this system allows for pools of resources to accumula…
/r/askTRP18/02/16 02:02 AM
2

To be honest I can't help but spout out trp shit everywhere I go and I know I shouldn't, I'm working on that but women surprisingly agree with me a lot. Men mostly act confused and start ignoring me. Sometimes people come back to me later to tell me they agree and have seen proof since our talk. Feminists aren't bad in theory but in practice they are like children running with scissors. Sooner or later they are going to hurt themselves. In fact they already have.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 02:02 PM
0

Penis envy
/r/askTRP17/02/16 03:21 AM
3

There is a silent war going on against testosterone in men and women. It's not just sedentary lifestyles and lack of sunlight. For women hormonal birth control alone is causing immeasurable hormonal consequences and trickle effects that are very far reaching. For myself though and most men we are living with more toxic environments than humans have ever lived with and arguably more stressors than humans have ever had to deal with. If you employ strategies to combat these problems you give yourse…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/16 03:00 AM
3

We can argue about the best way to get ripped all day but the reality is that food matters way more than any workout ever will. The guys in the ideal male pictures are actually not very buff, they are mostly just thin guys with a little bit of well defined muscle. The ideal macros depends on your body style, workout plan and your strategy. If your goals are to be the best version of yourself possible you shouldn't waste your time in the gym if you haven't first spend a huge amount of time learni…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/16 09:59 PM
7

I agree with you but we always overlook nutrition. Abs are made in the kitchen. I would argue that if you take twin males with average bodies and diets and put one on a strict paleo diet with no lifting and the other on a standard diet with a solid lifting routine that the paleo twin will look more like your ideal pics at the end of a year. Ideally they would both lift and eat well. The more I learn about testosterone production and health in general the more I think we should be telling men to …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/16 12:47 PM
1

How do you see it?
/r/askTRP16/02/16 12:19 PM
1

Morality is a luxury, the fewer resources you have the lower the level or morality you will maintain. Men have more resources so generally they maintain higher levels of morals automatically. Trp exists because the evolutionary autopilots of the sexes shows different moral levels again and again. It's not that men are good and women are bad just that women have great difficulty maintaining certain moral that most men never imagine would ever be a problem. I would argue that no being has more res…
/r/askTRP16/02/16 03:04 AM
2

The irony is that will make her want you more.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 12:52 AM
1

It's all about what you want. If you want her, take her if not then don't. Indecision is unattractive and frustrating. Make your decision and rock it because once your set your mind on it the action plan will be clear.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 11:07 PM
2

You got the feelz all over the place, that is incredibly unattractive and feminine. Women understand that more than anyone. They don't know what they want but I can tell you what works and getting the feelz does not work. She will never be more attracted to you than the day you start ignoring her.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 03:30 PM
1

She is your alpha widow man. Let her go, soft next her. She will always be there if you change your mind but you won't so what's the point?
/r/askTRP15/02/16 02:51 AM
1

When in doubt, monk mode
/r/askTRP15/02/16 01:44 AM
3

Congratulations you are still in the anger phase.
/r/askTRP14/02/16 10:45 PM
1

You can't save the world man, let it go.
/r/askTRP14/02/16 08:45 PM
4

Be a rock and build your life up to where you are more stable in every way than your mom. It may seem hard but judging from her attitude you won't have to make very many positive decisions for very long before you are the new patriarch of sorts. A real man is a person who is so stable in his effects that he can easily provide stability for those around him. Be that guy and don't talk with irrational people, just take action and let then play defense. If it's that bad it you mom may lead by negat…
/r/askTRP14/02/16 04:53 PM
1

In my teens and early 20s I had women chase me very often, to the point it was a problem and scary at times. I'm not sure what I did to get that reaction but I was in a band for part of that time. I used to have girls call my home phone nightly and hang up over and over. Sometimes they would hang out outside the house and cry if I didn't come out. Lots and lots of notes and small gifts. Once I was followed by a car full of girls and they chased me running stop signs till I was able to lose them …
/r/askTRP14/02/16 03:34 AM
1

I'm not really into that to be honest and she isn't interested in me being there either. I asked.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/16 06:49 PM
1

I live in a rural county, how do I know if a lawyer is good or not?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/16 10:22 PM
1

She cheated on me 3 months after buying our dream house, I do have an appointment with an attorney that specializes in getting men custody of children but he is booked pretty solid so I'm trying to school myself for the next couple weeks till I can get in to see him.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/16 08:10 PM
2

Mind if I ask what you spent on lawyer fees?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/16 06:28 PM
1

This gives me hope and is exactly what I was hoping to hear. Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/16 06:27 PM
2

I have an appointment with a local lawyer known to do well with getting men custody of children. In the mean time I've been education myself and getting the lay of the land. Thanks for the help!
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/16 02:09 PM
2

Yes but my life, family, network, job and businesses are here. Moving would cost me more than alimony and child support combined.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/16 05:48 AM
1

Have you read my other posts on testosterone? I've been hacking my T levels for some time now. They may be screwing our testosterone but they are also screwing women's testosterone too and much more so for women because hormonal birth control destroys their natural power most of the time. Have you noticed that there isn't really a common word for the opposite of feminism? There probably is but I've not heard it. Women are fighting men and men aren't fighting back because we don't need to, women …
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 12:38 PM
1

I'm making progress man, it's not easy to escape from slavery. It takes good timing and a good plan otherwise they will just string me up worse than I am now.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 12:26 PM
1

All bullshit aside, are you really 13? If so I commend you for even finding this place, you will be way ahead of me by the time you hit 35. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 02:01 AM
1

I will advise you yet again to work on maintaining frame as it is clearly a weak point for you. I noticed how you dodged my question as to your age but you cleared any doubts I had about your maturity level. I hope you have good guidance on your journey from boy to man.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 12:45 AM
1

I'm not really sure why you are attacking me if you agree with me. Truth is power, I can tell from your attitude that you lack in the emotional control dept. If you can't maintain frame you have nothing. Asking how many girls I pull only further makes my point that you have a lot to learn and aren't as "alpha" as you have convinced yourself that you are. Stop talking and start reading and maybe people will think you are smarter than you are. How old are you? Under 30 I'd guess as your remarks la…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 12:22 AM
0

The truth, no matter how ugly is still the best place to start. There can be a more elegant partnership between the sexes that is amicable for both sides. Victimizing men hurts women more than men because women are much more dependent on men than men on women. The pain boomerangs back to them and because women have fewer resources it's more harmful to them. Marriage laws are a great example of this and have turned good men into modern slaves to unscrupulous wives. Men are viable businesses for w…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 04:43 PM
0

There is a reason women are shorter and weaker than men and a reason why they mature faster than men. There is a reason why they are more susceptible to Stockholm's syndrome. Men have owned, traded, sold, and stolen women for ages. The smaller weaker women were bred with more, thus creating a weaker women as compared to men. Young girls were being raped before they were menstruating and the ones who started menstruating earliest had girls who matured faster. All of this is ultimately the fault o…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 03:58 PM
1

Money is most defiantly an alpha maker all on its own, the primary different between a rich alpha and a rich beta is that the alpha only lets women see the results of his wealth and maybe enjoy some of it provided the female is trading sex for his attention but as soon as they marry he is a beta and she gets his money with or without his consent. Money is like a car, let her ride bitch is she behaves but never let her drive.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 07:31 PM
1

My health guru is Dave Asbury of the bulletproof radio podcast. Start listening to his podcasts. I'll give you the quick version... Have a blood test done to check your blood against the 200 most common allergens, often people are having mild allergic reactions and don't know it which can cause all kinds of issues cost $200. Check your environment for dust and mold issues, do your best to avoid chemical exposure that is unnecessary and make sure you are breathing clean air at home. Often our bod…
/r/askTRP05/02/16 12:24 AM
3

Modern men are a sleeping giant collectively, you can spend decades legislating the power of men away from them and handing it to women while at the same time creating a culture that undervalues men and the sleeping giant won't even notice the slight annoyance of this effort. We can undo all this so called progress in a day if we were so inclined because we are endowed with actual power that can't be removed no matter how unfair that advantage may be it will always exist. I've learned first hand…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 11:16 PM
1

You don't have to say it, you simply reward her for behavior you enjoy and punish her for behavior you don't enjoy. It can be very mild and unspoken and still work. She wants your attention so only give it to her if she puts out. No putting out= no attention. Don't be a bitch about it, keep your cool but simply take corrective action in good spirits and always be ready to next her. If you can't handle losing her then you already have.
/r/askTRP04/02/16 04:31 PM
1

She is just not sure where her smv is and is checking to see how much of a deal breaker the kids are. You should make her feel like that is a negative but maybe if she makes up for it in other ways you will give her your attention. Or better yet, find a girl without kids.
/r/askTRP31/01/16 10:24 PM
2

If (key word if) you are a valuable man and have an interesting life and all the bells and whistles that hard work brings a man you have to demand that any lady in your life bring something to the table. They have to make a deal of sorts for you to allow them into your cushy kingdom. When they no longer are sweetening your pot so to speak you next them and allow another girl to try to please you. Any other arrangement is just you being a charity case and a bleeding heart. Nothing is free, not fo…
/r/askTRP31/01/16 10:04 PM
-1

I think it's an evolutionary problem. For millions of years life itself would punish slutty girls with pregnancy which would keep the slut fest in check and at the same time preserve much of the innocents that make women attractive in the first place. You are genetically predisposed to live in that world but unfortunately you live in a world of slut fest where that behavior is encouraged and expected the result however is that no matter how hot the girl is she just can't be as valuable to you af…
/r/askTRP24/01/16 04:25 PM
3

Marriage for a hard working man these days is quite literally a form of slavery. She owns you not just today but into the future as well. If you divorce you will really feel the sting of this modern form of slavery. What do you do? First follow trp, that alone might fix things or at least give you control over her and her weaknesses. I've been of the mind that marriage is war for several years now. My kids and I are being held prisoner by a selfish, artificially empowered witch who is drunk on p…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/16 03:45 PM
1

I think I got mine from sun nootropics? I bought powder form and make my own caps but that kinda sucks although if you want to make your own secret blend it's kinda fun but now I keep each one separate so I can experiment with different levels but honestly I've settled on mostly just piracetam and aniracetam and alpha gpc in addition to a ketogenic diet which further enhances mental clarity. Nootropics are just 1 instrument in what should be an orchestra of health but they certainly work at a no…
/r/askTRP20/01/16 03:21 PM
1

Mine was way worse than I was led to believe it would be, pretty much needed to be on the couch for 2 weeks but 3 would have been better. I would hold off man but you would be hands on with her if you wanted or maybe act really sick and make her care for you.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 10:52 PM
2

1- sleep well in a blacked out room, slightly cold and for 8 hours. 2- don't be a fat ass 3- make sure you aren't spending time in moldy or high dust/chemical rooms 4- don't touch soy products of any kind 5- eat plenty of health fats and cholesterol 6- stop jerking off completely 7- take zinc 8- lift and do sprint training 9 meditate and check resting heart rate reduce stress when possible 10- take piracetam and aniracetam for the brain fog it's like magic 11- be fine with yourself even if you a…
/r/askTRP19/01/16 10:50 PM
1

It's fine, you can get nearly the same rest in less time but taking short regular naps. However, as you cut 8 hours into say 8 1/2 hour naps it becomes critical that you never miss a nap but what you are doing is fine and you may personally not need as much sleep as some people.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 05:00 AM
1

Where I'm from each dick counts for 10,000 miles so she is a nice high mileage car, Same car with 20,000 miles has very different value for me but some guy who's been hoofin it will pay top dollar for it sure as shit but he isn't lifting and being awesome like you so maybe it's worth more to him and his scarcity mentality. But to each there own.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 04:48 AM
2

All this alpha talk confuses people. All it means is that in every relationship there is a pecking order and you must not be under your woman. You accomplish this by being the best you can be. Understand that men are superior to women, at least real men are. Women know this but men are trained to think and act like women are equals. You must internalize this idea that you are the prize and if she isn't being a lady and providing value to you then next her without another thought. If done right y…
/r/askTRP16/01/16 03:57 AM
1

Because whores are whores, while AWALT is true there are different quality levels of women and a high quality women is vastly superior to a whore. I'm not saying to go all blue pill for the right gal but if you demand and deserve a high quality girl you should have one. But if you want to be a fat fuck who has $300 and wants to skip the hard work and still bang hot chicks then go for it. Red pill women exist but you better be the best you can be and keep it up and then you will be fine. More tha…
/r/askTRP15/01/16 01:46 AM
3

Google a few of these terms: Intermittent fasting Ketogenic diet Bulletproof coffee Carb cycling Basically carbs make you fat so limit them and time them. Put butter and good fat in your coffee, make large batches of bone broth and have a thermos full for lunch. A few cashews for a snack and then make a meat and veggies meal at home. You will feel shitty for a couple weeks then start meting away if you do it right. Good luck!
/r/askTRP07/01/16 10:44 PM
1

Has been discussed.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/16 07:00 AM
1

I have not, what's it about?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/16 05:15 PM
3

The similarity is that both of our wives love other people and we both have kids and make way more money than our wives. There is no solution that is desirable. Stay with someone who doesn't love you or lose everything good about your life so you can be a part time dad that is broke. It's shit either way.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/16 07:08 AM
0

I'm very much in a similar situation and the people here pretty much say that I'm a pussy to keep a woman like that in my life but as you know, it's not like you can just remove the bad part and keep the rest. You can toss a ton of great things in your life to get rid of one bad thing or you can tolerate the shit and keep the good parts. You are in a lose lose situation. You have also screwed yourself by letting her stay at home. She owns you and you are legally enslaved to her. She can get knoc…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/15 09:31 PM
1

Welcome to earth, enjoy your stay!
/r/askTRP30/12/15 02:40 AM
2

I think they are so low on the attraction chart that you fail to boner up. They literally have no sexual value for you because they are sluts. Sluts just don't have the same level of value that you want. Not that the same girl couldn't be attractive if she lied about her sluttiness and put her good girl act on but you crave substance and just aren't getting it. Your question really amounts to "how do I lower my standards?" And I'll ask you why would you want to. If you just need to get laid and …
/r/askTRP29/12/15 07:22 PM
3

Do what serves you best. Just don't be a bitch.
/r/askTRP27/12/15 01:15 PM
15

You are still giving away fucks, stop giving any fucks. Worry only about yourself and what you want. Build your body, mind and career. If I girl has value, let her tag along, if she shit tests you drop her. Next... You are the source of value, women are not. The girls around you are in their smv peak, you are just gearing up for your peak. Always position yourself to immediately eject a girl from your world that doesn't cater to you. Do not split rent and phone plans and get married. She joins y…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/15 03:00 PM
3

The world is just a whore waiting for you to have your way with her. Fuck it.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:46 PM
10

Too bad you act like 15.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/15 02:38 PM
16

You were this guys fuck toy that he was ashamed of and would only fuck in secret. Now you have a complex over the fact that you had this relationship with a man of such high smv but the reality is that you never had a chance with this man, he just used you as a cum bucket and dumped you when he had better things to do. You were lower than a prostitute because he never paid you, you just swallowed his cum because you are a low quality woman. The silver lining for you is that you have a low qualit…
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/15 05:10 AM
1

I call it the survival vs thrival mentality. Women lack the power that men have physically. Men can more readily afford to pay full price because their strategy typically is geared toward earning more money (thrival). Where women have to make the resources they have stretch because it's harder for them to get what they have because they are weaker (survival). It seems silly and wrong and it is somewhat wrong in our modern culture but throughout our evolution it was very true and that mindset is …
/r/askTRP26/12/15 04:27 AM
1

Weight loss is surprisingly complex. It's possible that your weight issues stem from mold in your house or weird food sensitivities jacking with your hormones, or you just eat shit. I recommend listening the the podcast Bulletproof Radio. But short of obscure things like gut microbiome issues you likely are fat because you eat too many carbs. If you store your fat around your belly then it's a sign of insulin sensitivity which means you need to be eating low carb or at least carb cycling so that…
/r/askTRP26/12/15 03:54 AM
22

She is preggo so all bets are off and probably will be for another year. Keep up your game, pregnant sex kinda sucks anyway at least toward the end.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/15 03:37 AM
4

So if a dude did my tattoo (I'm a dude) does that mean I'm like gay or something?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/15 02:46 AM
2

Stop listening to her words and start interpreting her emotion. What did her emotional state communicate to you? It probably just said, "I'm grumpy and I don't want to fuck you right now, and that's all I can think about or remember at this moment." Also it might be a sign that you need to upgrade you game a bit to create an environment where she can be turned on by you.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/15 02:41 AM
3

You may be a nerd but you sound comfortable in your nerd shoes. Sounds like confidence to me. You know who you are and give no fucks about it. It's a good start. Or maybe she has horrible self esteem and thinks you are more in her league and will be less judgmental of whatever flaw of hers she is obsessed over. You are safe.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 02:16 AM
3

After doing everything wrong for over a decade and basically being in a prison camp type marriage so I could still be an active father I caught my wife cheating (surprise I know). Now I think I'm getting close to being out of the anger phase but the last year has been tough. Still married but Mr. Nice guy is gone. I do what I want when I want. I don't ask, I just do. I decided that cheating or not I'm not letting a low class female keep me from living with my 2 sons. If she gets her act together…
/r/askTRP21/12/15 08:50 PM
2

Tell him to knock his block off.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 09:06 PM
2

No jerking Sprint training Lifting Zinc Eggs yolks Good sleep No soy products (it hides everywhere) No plastic bottles Possible culprits: Mold in the house Carpets that hold dust and vents that hold dust and general air quality issues. Not enough nutrition slowing down mitochondrial efficiency Too much body fat You may have a mild food allergy that isn't critical but does make you run like shit Gluten and wheat are huge problems for many people and all of us would be better without them. Too muc…
/r/askTRP18/12/15 08:45 PM
1

Basically, you party with the best of them while minimizing actual drug consumption, you may wind up drinking a beer or 2 and a shot or 2 but everyone else is completely smashed. It also works with weed, the weed these days is super strong and if you don't smoke everyday you are going to be in your own world while all the real stoners are just buzzed. Just pretend to hit the joint while maybe taking a 10% hit and faking the rest of the hit. It's not really that fun to hangout with wasted people …
/r/askTRP16/12/15 01:02 PM
1

It's the rewards for your shitty dread game. She values you more than you value her. That was fine till you introduced competition. She is responding by upping her game and trying to compete for your attention. You kind of dumbed your way into it but you should learn and improve on your system.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/15 10:40 PM
1

Also, try to eliminate bosses or the possibility that you could be ejected from your ability to earn money. Build passive income streams. Do some creative tax planning as it literally is a form of slavery. Keep cash on hand as well as some gold/silver. I think you can pay off debt and save an emergency fund at the same time. Work 2 jobs and put the second job all away, do the math on what your current disposable pay per hour is and what it would be with another job and you will see a huge differ…
/r/askTRP13/12/15 05:10 PM
2

Only marry if she is far more wealthy than you otherwise it's a bad idea.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 05:05 PM
1

I'm experimenting with keto diets. Basically when you consume carbs you shut down all fat burning until those carbs are processed. Eating m&ms is like dumping gasoline on a wood stove. It's impressive but not practical. Fat on the other hand is like putting a huge log in the stove. It burns slowly and steadily. There are several problems that you are fighting: There are bugs in your gut that live on sugar, when you stop eating sugar they start to die off and they release a hormone that makes you…
/r/askTRP13/12/15 04:51 PM
2

Time and doubling down on your workout and nutrition should be a good start. Focus on yourself and indulge in life's pleasures instead of trying to please anyone else.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 09:18 PM
5

From the tone of your post I'd say you've learned far less than you think you have. Proceed with caution, your future is dim until you change your shit attitude. Try not to be such a tard face in the future, we have enough douchery as it is. You are welcome for the sound advice 👍.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 09:12 PM
2

You have already lost my friend. You have built her a pedestal for 4 years without contact. Do you think she has been saving herself for you or is she getting busy with more alpha type guys while you sit and dream? Move your ass and steer your life. If it sucks where you are then move.
/r/askTRP11/12/15 02:14 PM
3

Do not ever lose your cool, you must always maintain frame, preferably be in a good mood. I'm in sales and I love a challenge so the crazy people are my specialty. Her mood and attitude will change based on the day and you will be constant, so it's really a matter of time. Proximity and frequency are the ingredients to all relationships and you have both of those covered. Happen to her, in other words don't let her live in a bubble and boss you around, there is a social politeness game that she …
/r/askTRP09/12/15 02:33 PM
6

Family reunion!
/r/askTRP09/12/15 04:01 AM
2

If you are angry then you aren't maintaining your frame which means you really haven't actually started.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 12:21 AM
6

It saddens me how much I agree with your post and have learned very similar lessons. I don't believe marriage will work overall as long as we keep pretending that men and women are equal. They have been granted far more power than they are capable of yielding effectively and in the end it mostly makes their lives hell and our life's annoying. Men are simply superior to women at nearly everything, to the extent that I have catered to my wife's wishes and desires my life has suffered and to the ex…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 04:10 PM
1

Being angry is another way of saying that you aren't holding frame. I think many guys here, myself included have been caught off guard and are beginning this journey from a hole in the ground essentially. That said I think the cure is to build yourself up to the point where you are so strong and independent on your own that the actions of a woman or anyone for the most part don't shake you house off of the foundation. Minor setbacks should be the worst case scenario. This of course requires a hi…
/r/askTRP05/12/15 07:01 PM
1

It's tricky not because of the nature of women so much as our current marriage laws are anti men. If it was you and a woman in a cave somewhere you would not have much trouble or risk but marriage is a business transaction. You should only marry if she has equal or greater earning ability. If you out earn her you are a liability to yourself. The laws aren't anti men as much as they are anti money maker. In short it pays to be a gold digger lol.
/r/askTRP03/12/15 10:23 PM
1

Just ask questions, that way they are the ones who will have to know something.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/15 02:31 PM
1

Generally showing any weakness is not good but it happens. I think it would depend somewhat on the maturity of the woman and her overall place on the survival/thrival spectrum. The closer she is to a survival mindset the more she will lose respect for your weakness since she is more reliant on you. If your woman is more self-sufficient and capable with or without you then you may have a little more wiggle room for small lapses in emotional stability especially if they are for good reason and tem…
/r/askTRP30/11/15 03:39 AM
1

Wtf? Next her like yesterday. You have oneitis, pull that bandaid off man. The very idea that you aren't willing to let her go is what gives you such low value in her eyes. Had you dumped her for the smallest infraction months ago you would have sent her a clear signal that you are out of her league. The fact that you eat the same pussy that another man jizzed into while that pussy belonged to you is like you wearing a sign that says pathetic. This girl will never be happy in a relationship, the…
/r/askTRP22/11/15 04:00 PM
1

There is a ton of variation on the effects of hormonal birth control on women. My concern is that often a natural woman will be attracted to a more masculine man or a more wild, risk taking man while this same woman on birth control may be much more attracted to a more feminine "nice guy" (or even a woman). It's not natural for the body to think its pregnant all the time and there are a ton of risks if you choose to invest in a woman on the pill. For example there are lots of women here on reddi…
/r/askTRP21/11/15 11:35 PM
16

There are 3 primary ingredients to gaining control over your life and control is what dominance really is. You should seek to have all three ingredients in abundance at the same time. Here they are in order of importance: Health Time Wealth You should play your life like a chess game where the goal is to eliminate the positions of people who control (dominate) you. Parents, landlords, government officials, bosses, bankers, tax collectors and women etc. The goal is to be fit mentally and physical…
/r/askTRP18/11/15 02:07 PM
5

I don't disagree with you, I just found trp 6 months ago so it's hard to undo a decade of doing things the wrong way but the point of my comments are that marriage laws had a huge impact on the power dynamic of my marriage and forced me to only have poor choices the moment I said "I do". In trying to learn where I lost my footing I always come back to the marriage laws as the main fault because my wife could effectively control me by threatening divorce. You can be as alpha as you want but if yo…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 08:32 PM
1

By the time they are 18 I will have over 15 years of marriage which is the point that alimony for life kicks in. :-)
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 07:40 PM
10

Tell me about it, I've tried to incorporate her into my business so we can be true partners in business and in life but she just doesn't have the drive though she does have the brains. I don't blame her really, it comes down to efficiency, it's just a waste of her energy to work hard as she knows that I will work hard enough for both of us because I am naturally driven. Why work if you don't have to? She had a job for a while that was far below her ability and potential but lost it on purpose an…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 03:30 PM
16

Marriage laws are so anti men.... I can work 12 hours a day 7 days a week while my wife maxes out secret credit cards and has sex with other people and gets knocked up and tells me the kids are mine. She is under no obligation to have sex with me or provide any benefit to me. The entire time she can scream and kick and punch me and verbally abuse me. If I manage to make decent money and pay off the house and build a good business she can still divorce me for no reason and I will have to pay chil…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 01:44 PM
8

I'm guessing you are too self centered to even be curious about what other people are thinking. Everyone wants to talk about themselves, your job is to find relevant ways to get them jabbering, read their minds, read their body language, call them out, listen to them and ask them to connect any dots that you don't understand, laugh and throw in a funny one liner. Even dumbasses are interesting if you allow them to be. Focus on others and you will be rewarded by them. Remember their details and y…
/r/askTRP16/11/15 03:56 AM
2

Needing validation is a sign of low self-esteem. Are you really just lonely and seeking companionship or are your needing their attention? Also do you jerk off?
/r/askTRP16/11/15 03:48 AM
7

I'd like to have her get a decent job which would balance things better or better yet start her a business that becomes more successful than mine but that isn't likely to happen. It just sucks to not be able to really cut loose without hanging myself.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 03:44 AM
1

She needs you more than you need her. She will likely go atomic in an attempt to put you in your place but there can be no room in your mind for equality. You must tattoo in your mind the fact that you are superior to her and that even though no woman would ever admit it, they want a man that is above them and a man that can control them and calm their storm. The natural order of things is men over women it has always been this way and it is the only way a woman can be happy with her mate. You a…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/15 02:53 AM
62

I try to avoid any business venture involving partners and certainly anything involving married business partners. Getting married was the worse business mistake of my life. The problem is that I enjoy being married but the laws are so anti man that it's really too bad that i will have to advise my sons not to get married. Our courts have destroyed the value of marriage for men and essentially made it into a trap for any high value man. I have 2 business and I purposely prevent them from making …
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 02:15 AM
2

You're fine man, better than fine actually but the depression thing is something you need to figure out. Do you have a legitimate reason for the depression? Breakup, death, laid off etc? Are you on mood altering drugs? Are you naturally bi-polar or just depressive personality? Do you sleep well and long enough? Is your life high stress? Do you suffer from low-self esteem? Are you eating shit food full of sugar and lacking in green veggies and healthy fat and protein? Are you jerking off everyday…
/r/askTRP16/11/15 01:37 AM
2

I love to remind my wife that she is a little dog that thinks she is a big dog. When she gets her attitude going I calmly walk up to her and remind her that I don't like to bite little dogs because I have better things to do. I also use my physical size advantage and body language to communicate my superiority over her if she gets to wrestling or pushing me around a little ill hold her arms behind her back. Or if she punches me in a flirty way I'll laugh like it tickles. I generally try to under…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/15 01:20 AM
1

First things first... Kids? Do you make all or most of the money? Are you fit? Is she fit? Who is more attractive? Women desire a man this is almost out of their reach, this puts them in the position of having to work for the valuable mans attention. The fact that he is so valuable they have to work to keep him makes them horny to breed with such a high value and deserving partner. In order to even start being this high value guy you must be the one most willing to end the relationship first. Yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/15 01:09 AM
1

Yeah, I hate typing on phones, sorry.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/15 11:23 PM
1

Be nice at work and don't respond very fast to her texts. She will be back if you want her though. It's hard to resist a man in high demand.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 09:16 PM
2

I've found chains and handcuffs to be far more effective than rope (chewing issues). Also basements are better for isolation as you have fewer windows for them to escape from.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 09:13 PM
5

I would start with learning practical skills: Trouble shooting car issues General construction skills Knowledge of weapons and experience with them Hunting Survival skills Self defense Learn and instrument Find something that you can obsess over and something that will make you so enthusiastic that you can't contain yourself and don't care what others think. I have acquired a lot of skill just by having jobs in different fields from bartending to sales to construction to restaurant work to engin…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/15 08:44 PM
1

Germany
/r/askTRP15/11/15 07:54 PM
3

It was tongue in cheek. My basic advise it to build the girl up so that even if she hits the wall without a man she is capable of providing for herself, which is something many women struggle with. If she can provide for herself she won't be in a survival mindset and can afford to choose a man based on factors other than how much money he makes. She will also set herself up to be a better partner to this man and have a better chance at happiness. Empowering herself simply puts her in a better po…
/r/askTRP15/11/15 07:53 PM
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I think it's mainly fear that they will lose status with the other girls. Like they weren't hot enough to get a solid white guy which just highlights the underlining problem of racism among American women. It's really the forefront of entitlement minded thinking. American women are world leaders in pecking orders and social proof.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 07:40 PM
8

That's funnyish, let's have coffeeish tomorrow ish around 9ish.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 07:10 PM
8

Next please! She will likely come back around after she realizes you aren't going to come back so hang tight but move on and then you are covered either way.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 05:46 PM
2

Just ghost her till she apologizes or you find a local gal that treats you better. Don't mess with the back and forth talk, it only gives her hamster more energy. Just be simple and direct and don't reply to every text or bullshit she spews on you. It's strictly nice talk or no talk good day!
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/15 05:17 PM
2

"Funnyish?" (Her) "Yeah I was going to put seriousish but i try not to make up words that I can't spell or pronounce. Why? Are too seriousish to date someone funnyish?" (You)
/r/askTRP15/11/15 03:47 PM
-4

Just get knocked up like all the other girls do. If Chad steps up put a saddle on him on ride him to an early grave. If not lasso one of the smaller ponies that would raise the Mustangs pups with pride. She can always keep Chad around for breeding if the pony bores her. For real, though she should move on to a better man provided she earns enough money to pay her bills on her own and can be a decent companion otherwise she should work on that first so that she isn't in survival mode and can affo…
/r/askTRP15/11/15 03:43 PM
5

Unfortunately for men I think the love feeling is involuntary, it happens naturally and I believe it also happens for women although in a much different way. If an attractive girl has a pleasing personality and is catering to you making you feel like you are her top priority it sets the stage for love provided you are in a position in life where that feels great and no one else is outperforming her. It's pretty easy really because you will be pending more and more time with the her and by doing …
/r/askTRP15/11/15 02:16 PM
-1

I can't help but tell everyone what I'm learning here which I should not do but it seems overnight I've become the relationship expert for many of my friends and family, even my wife tells me about her friends dating life's to get my opinion. It's just too easy to see the dynamics, I really should keep my mouth shut but now I'm interested in how trp relates to platonic relationships like other male friends and bosses etc. I think it is simply about pecking orders and not allowing yourself to be …
/r/TheRedPill15/11/15 01:48 PM
1

Chill man, work and money ain't everything plus you are young. All old people envy young people especially bright young people that know how to snag young hotties. You are the future and the future starts now. Be confident and talk more about them than yourself. Sounds like a decent chick too so good luck.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 01:30 AM
2

I actually agree with you but I don't think your plate was thinking that far in advance but the results would have been just like you said. It's sort of a natural action that just happens and most guys just don't pick up on it.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 08:46 PM
1

I would advise you give the bulk of your attention at first toward the least attractive girl of the bunch. Just try it and tell me if I'm wrong.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 08:04 PM
2

He was building the relationship and trust with her by opening up with personal info. He probably wasn't out of frame. It's not about not showing emotion, it's about controlling what emotions you show and maintaining frame. Imagine how hard it would have been for her to not get sucked into his frame as he was telling her these things. Do you think she was like "oh that's sucks your dad beat you... Let's get pizza"? His story had an emotional reaction with her. If you can stir the emotion of your…
/r/askTRP09/11/15 04:23 AM
1

Ok, next...
/r/askTRP08/11/15 09:24 PM
1

Bulletproof radio is my all time fav. I've been at this podcast thing since it started too.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 03:15 AM
1

I was pretty much like you 15 years ago and I did exactly what you are trying to avoid. Having babies is a bloody and unfortunate mess, not because of the kiddos but because it requires a women. All in all it's worth the hell of having a woman in your life that more or less owns you just for the satisfaction of fatherhood,
/r/askTRP03/11/15 03:19 AM
1

I have some theories about the level of self esteem that a girl has being a factor. You may think she is an 9 but if she feels like she is a 3 you will likely run into trouble because she will be an attention whore as she constantly looks for validation. If you had a good way of discerning the general self esteem level of your potential date and you focused on getting girls with healthy self esteem levels and girls that are within or slightly under your sexual value level I think you will have m…
/r/askTRP02/11/15 10:23 PM
2

They would prefer not to share an Alpha ideally but will if the only other choice is a beta. Ideally they would trap a beta to secure his provisioning and then open the relationship so they can still breed with the alpha.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 02:01 AM
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None as long as you embrace it and don't have a combover or try to pull off haircuts like you aren't bald. It's kinda nice actually and the shorter your hair is the more masculine and badass you look. Play with facial hair too and you won't have to worry about looking like a smooth face pony tail faggot boy.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 05:30 PM
7

This and more this, women don't share anything they value. You are a paycheck to her not a sexual being. Sharing you sexually means nothing to her. Run like the devil.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 04:09 PM
21

This is a great example of just how different men and women are. It's also a great example of what every guy feels when he thinks of his girl fucking someone else. He calls her a slut but she is a nun compared to the girls I know.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 09:53 PM
1

No, the duff knows you aren't going to sleep with her. You wouldn't really even be flirting with her, just accepting and acknowledging her and paying a token of your attention to her. If done right the duff can deliver the target girl to you without you putting much time into that girl. The duff often has the keys to the castle, but it depend a lot on the specific situation.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 02:52 AM
1

Better taste
/r/askTRP30/10/15 10:03 PM
0

Anger is just you not holding frame. If you are angry you are an amateur still.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 01:14 AM
2

The duff is the gatekeeper, the troll under the bridge, you got to pay the troll man. She would have been happy if you had just been nice to her and gave her 1 little extra morsel of your attention.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 12:57 AM
1

Zinc and eggs always put more lead in my pencil. Also cortisol the stress hormone has an inverse relationship with testosterone so mediation and good sleep help. Sounds like you have the bases covered though. You know about l-theanine which is more than most guys here.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 12:24 AM
1

Kombucha dude, it's way better. I make my own.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 12:20 AM
3

This is great, I did a similar excersize for my son where I told him if 100 years was 3 feet, our genetics go back 2.5 miles, and what happened back there had everything to do with how we are today.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 12:01 AM
1

This and more this
/r/askTRP29/10/15 03:25 AM
1

This is my specialty... The trick is to frame it in your mind not as a problem but as a challenge. Instead of getting butt hurt and playing defense you need to play offense. If you can control your own emotions you are only 1 step away from controlling the emotions of others. I suspect you would have the most success with killing her with kindness, it will work because she isn't used to it and doesn't have experience navigating kindness. Tell her a secret, give her a heads up, compliment her, in…
/r/askTRP29/10/15 02:57 AM
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It's a well documented thing called trickle truth. The problem isn't if she fucked 1 of the many dicks she sucked while you were busy loving and caring for your princess, the problem is that you would stay with your princess even if she took 10 dicks bigger than yours in her ass. She knows you are pathetic but you don't know you are pathetic. She is incapable of respecting you but she is a master of manipulating you. Since we all know you would never leave her, throw an atomic dread game her way…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 01:33 PM
2

It sounds to me like you are still giving too many fucks about your wife's feelings. You are the leader so you can't rationalize your actions based on her actions. You have to scout new territory and lead her there. Also good job on the weight loss, I had to quit drinking to quit smoking. Health is vital to everything and most of us have no idea how great you can feel just being healthy. Keep it up.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/15 03:29 AM
2

Exactly, that's how I keep myself in check. If she is getting upset about my actions I ask myself if I would be upset if she did the same thing.
/r/askTRP25/10/15 02:02 AM
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Yeah dude, you did great. Sounds like you held frame and still did what you wanted. You are creating a new norm where you do what you want and she doesn't control you. If it had been the other way around would have cared is she went without you?
/r/askTRP25/10/15 12:07 AM
1

It's a sign of maturity when you begin to lean on your own understanding over the advise of others especially your parents. You seem to know what it is you are after and what the value of a promising young man is. It's probably better in the long run to get with a new girl that only knows the rp version of you. Also I think you made an alpha widow of you ex because even though she dumped you when you were a loser what you just did to her is even worse. You refused to date her in the first place.…
/r/askTRP25/10/15 12:04 AM
1

Sounds like you are too nice. Be bold in your statement to them as to your intention. Be ready to hard next at all times. It's your way or no way. They are still holding hope that you are bullshitting them. If you are more straight forward you will have to hard next a few more but you won't have this problem with the ones who will put up with it,
/r/askTRP23/10/15 07:58 PM
1

The good news is that you are well on your way. The fact that you are owning your problems shows promise. If I were you I would triple down on health by lifting and sprinting yoga and meditation. As you improve in that arena you will be more inclined to get other shit together. Control your emotions, the past is gone. Take what you have learned and use it. Get your shit together for school/career. Spend some time putting together a solid 5 year plan. As you health increases so will you natural c…
/r/askTRP22/10/15 12:03 AM
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Yeah it is. You should stick to minecraft since you missed the train.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 11:56 PM
3

It's because she is at least open to the idea of replacing him. Options stay open if he isn't mentioned.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 11:55 PM
1

This is actually more tricky than it seems. First off it sounds like you are just not in the habit of going to the gym. For that you need to simply go to the gym but not really work out hard. Just go for a month until it feels normal but the workout is not the goal at this phase just going to the gym is the goal. Once that becomes a habit the workout will fall into place nicely. If you are lacking energy to do the workout but are fine with actually making the time then you may be suffering from …
/r/askTRP21/10/15 03:50 PM
7

I think you did fine but could have done less chatting. Actions more than words but either way you got your point across loud and clear. You underestimated her confidence in your beta ness. She knows you are a push over and has 20 years of experience to pull from. You are now starting to lose frame when you need to have resolve more than ever and be fine with her walking away from now on. Also, is she on the pill?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/15 03:12 PM
0

Don't get too hung up on the 9 inch dildos, you need to factor in that she would probably need a couple inches to hang on to so the effective length is closer to 7 in but the girth is really the main thing.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 07:16 PM
1

Being stoic isn't the end move, it's just a sign that you know where your emotional brake pedal is. You won't hit pay dirt till you can control your emotions to the point of being in the mood of your choosing regardless of your surrounding influences. In your case I imagine you chilling with your buddies scowling and not enjoying the emotion of their company and challenging them in a way that benefits the group and pulls the people around you to a higher level of your choosing. Holding frame is …
/r/askTRP14/10/15 12:17 AM
1

It's impossible to control a man if he can get laid somewhere else.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 03:51 PM
2

Sounds like you didn't read her very well. You were probably focusing on your technique and forgot to keep your eye on the ball. She was most definitely giving you clues that what you were doing wasn't working for her. Had you been properly reading her you would have seen that and changed your action plan.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 02:17 PM
1

Depression makes you emotional which clouds your judgment and lessens your ability to maintain frame. So yes I would say depression makes you less alpha than you would have been but not necessarily beta, that depends on how you handle it.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 01:54 PM
1

You need to focus on the logical solution of deleting her from your life. You know you need to hard next her. You are letting your emotions stir up doubt but you need to bypass that part of your brain that gives consideration to new ideas. There are no new ideas with this girl worth considering. From now on every time you see or think of this girl ask yourself if what you are doing looks like a hard next. This thought should be nearly automatic and go straight to taking actions in line with the …
/r/askTRP11/10/15 01:51 PM
3

You made her feel uncomfortable.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 01:42 PM
9

You have no idea what you are talking about.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 01:36 AM
0

You can get the female competition thing working for you by giving your attention to one of the less attractive girls. The other girls will game you just to validate their position over the ugly one.
/r/askTRP10/10/15 06:24 PM
1

The anger phase is nothing to downplay, it's a powerful feeling that clouds your judgment. Logically you know that your decision making is shit in a heightened emotional state. You my friend are in a long term heightened emotional state and it has clouded your view. The reality is you are a man and you are responsible for your attitude. Essentially you are failing to maintain frame against life itself. You are being reactionary not actionary. You should be happening to the world with a smirk on …
/r/askTRP10/10/15 03:39 PM
7

If you are happy it's amusing, if you are angry it's condescending.
/r/askTRP10/10/15 02:37 PM
4

I'd say you fucked up by having her walk into sex room without an all day flirty warm up and anticipation building. Forget all the bedroom prep work, just keep flirting with her until you know she is ripe for the picking and then pick her up and carry her over your shoulder to the bed and rip her clothes off. Also you are sounding pretty bitchy and dependent on her actions for her happiness, you need to cut that shit out and learn to be content with or without her cooperation. Cool as a cucumber…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/15 01:20 PM
2

Marriage is just a business contract. I agree with you and as a married guy with kids I can tell you that kids are so much more satisfying that nice toys. I would argue that it's impossible to know if you are indeed a man until you have raised a child into a solid adult. The marriage thing is an unfortunate legal problem, marriages should be customizable business contracts with terms agreed upon up front that are negotiable and spell out what a dissolution would look like. Instead they are vague…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 01:10 PM
1

I have the same problem you have. Honestly I think it has to do with the following factors... Level of physical activity Length of sleep Temperature in the room you sleep in Level of light in sleeping room Diet Timing of meals Any chemicals you may be taking If you had sex before sleeping It's hard to constantly live each day ideally but when I do I wake feeling awesome, I'm personally torn between wanting to get up at 4am and crush it in life vs getting the extra sleep I need to be fully rested…
/r/askTRP10/10/15 12:45 PM
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Cortisol the stress hormone drives testosterone down. Rather than try to sexualize him you should try to calm him and slow him down so his testosterone has a chance to raise and he will respond much better to your sexual advances.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/15 07:12 PM
1

You played perfect dread game by keeping your cool the whole time. She will pull her head out of her ass and start kissing yours and be ecstatic to have such a valuable ass to kiss. You can let me know if I'm right or not but I expect she will be happier than ever that she has the attention of a man so far out of her league that he would consider sleeping alone. Prepare to reap the rewards of trp.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 10:26 PM
5

Are you kidding me? She is a worn out beat up bitch and you are thinking of bailing? She had her time, it's your time now. You are a man, not some being that can be pushed around. Maintain frame, and be a gentleman but make it clear you don't have time to be bothered by worthless fucks.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 11:52 PM
1

Yeah but you can't really do it yourself, you just need to let the gossip queen suck it and talk about it and you will find out when girls want to see if it's true.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 09:07 PM
5

My mission is to have health, time and wealth in abundance at the same time. It's the trifecta of ingredients for life. These are the primary colors needed to paint your life into a masterpiece.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 12:50 PM
7

Frame frame and more frame, hold that shit like the stoic stud you are!
/r/askTRP30/08/15 09:34 PM
3

I think a combo of both is healthy, make her feel hot and sexy and talented sexually but at the same time don't go jumping through hoops because there are other hotties waiting for you.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 09:28 PM
2

Approach and escalate then bounce. Rinse and repeat. Also approach the obviously less hot girl of the bunch as often times she is the gatekeeper and it will make the hotter ones want to nab you up to verify that they are still hotter than the ugly duckling. Otherwise have fun at all times and don't be a douche. Also wear a piece of flair that stands out so if a girl wants to talk to you she can tell you how much she likes your pink shoes or whatever you choose. Always be escalating and make your…
/r/askTRP30/08/15 09:00 PM
2

What's your smv would you say?
/r/askTRP30/08/15 06:50 PM
1

In order to be the leader you need to have leadership qualities. You need to be great and demand she follow your lead. Part of being a leader is having a plan and a direction. You clearly have that because you want to stay together. Do basic man things: Early to bed early to rise, make money, fix shit, don't get drunk, expect her to take care of her shit, be willing to leave her at all times or she will control you. Have plan A but be ready to switch to plan B and be ok with that in your mind. M…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/15 03:22 PM
1

I've not acted on any of this but after several discussions most of which were brought up by her not me she has pitched the following scenario: I get weekly bj from my bj fwb. I can do other stuff but no vag or butt sex. She wants to play solo with a busty white girl once a month without any oral sex. She wants to suck on titties and finger a girl but not orgasm herself and them come home and fuck me. She says she is in love with my cock and just wants some boobies too. I thought maybe I could u…
/r/askTRP30/08/15 03:03 PM
1

Also one of my business is all cash based so I've been working to expand that one beyond good spending money income levels to living on money levels but I need to invest another $20,000 to get over that hump.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 02:45 PM
1

Lol I did exactly what you said I should do, I blindfolded her and was using some toys on her and then stuck my dick in her mouth. I didn't really get a bj but it was something I guess. I've been testing her a little to see if she responds to any dominance/submissive sexual stuff but no luck so far.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 02:43 PM
1

In my state cheating doesn't matter in court and even if it did I have video footage of her in the act with the girl she cheated with a year ago. It isn't worth anything in court according to my lawyer. The only thing she could use it for would be to get support from her family but she is going to have her work cut out for her to have better evidence than I have on her. I really think a lot of this has to do with birth control. I know her testosterone is surging now because she is breaking out a…
/r/askTRP30/08/15 02:28 PM
1

If she is lesbo I'd rather know sooner than later and while that would suck it wouldn't really be her fault. In that case I would hope to end things on good terms since we do share children together but I am the golden goose as far as where all resources come from so not getting the life squeezed out of me would be a trick. I am working on a solution for the golden goose problem but I'm at least 1 year from gaining the upper hand and more likely 2 years out unless I can get her income up in the …
/r/askTRP30/08/15 01:34 PM
1

I delete my conversations for the most part just in case someone is able to get into my account. Fetlife mixes all the profiles so you are forced to look through countless dick pics to sort the girls out manually. I go through groups of people by location and be sure to look into all the little towns near you. Some of the hotter girls will have warnings not to friend them or that they aren't looking for new partners at the moment etc. ignore all of that and treat them all like they are your baby…
/r/askTRP30/08/15 11:46 AM
1

I've been waiting to see what the effects of quitting birth control are. Some women have a change in their preference of men from wanting macho men to wanting beta provider type men or even women. Then when they get off the pill find they are no longer attracted to the person they are with but in my case we got together before she went on the pill so I'm hoping she will be more attracted to me after her system adjusts and so far it has made things much better but she changes with each cycle a li…
/r/askTRP30/08/15 02:36 AM
2

I already met with a lawyer he said I'm pretty much screwed unless I can boost her income to match mine. The fact that I've been busting my ass for years only sets the par for what level of lifestyle I'm required to maintain for my family after I'm effectively removed from it. Every $100 I gross will net me $37 for up to 10-12 more years. Frankly I think my quality of life is better with her and my kids than it would be trying to live on scraps and be happy driving by my old house where my kids …
/r/askTRP30/08/15 12:51 AM
1

Yeah, there are plenty more that would too. I basically just went down the list of any female that looked good enough to get a bj from and tried to say something witty. It took a little while but it wasn't that hard really.
/r/askTRP29/08/15 10:16 PM
2

Yeah it is a sausage fest but I met her in person so there are real women on there but you kinda have to sort through the cocks to find them.
/r/askTRP29/08/15 09:02 PM
2

I've allowed her to take advantage of me and exploit the love I have for my sons against me. The truth is that our legal system forced me out of my natural position of power. By making a system where the more money I make the more of a liability I am to myself. Marriage is war all too often. I have a no man left behind policy, there is simply no way that I will not be living in the same home as my children. I can chew my arm off and escape her but not without them. So when you say not to forget …
/r/askTRP29/08/15 08:05 PM
2

This is what I'm concerned about, it's not natural to share something you value sexually. So I must not have sexual value in her eyes.
/r/askTRP29/08/15 07:10 PM
0

Yeah, whatever her life was before the whole boss's granddaughter fling it is something entirely different now. For a few months I was checking on her to make sure she hadn't killed herself. It was ugly but now the dust is settling and she is a pile of useless mush with no purpose or direction. It seems to fit somehow with my new rp ways. So I've repossess the reins and am moving forward with purpose and strategy that includes her if she can prove to be useful.
/r/askTRP29/08/15 06:06 PM
4

I've been somewhat prepping for the divorce scenario, I have some money set back and have been sorting my belongings to get rid of shit I don't need. Been lifting and meeting new people. Mostly though, I've finally wrapped my mind around losing everything and being ok with that. While not my first choice I am willing if that's what needs to happen. I learned from Rollo T. That the person who is most willing to leave owns the relationship and that is definitely me now.
/r/askTRP29/08/15 05:28 PM
6

I'm not game to share her with a dude for sure but somehow a woman seems less of a threat. It's possible she is a late blooming lesbo and some alone time with a girl will start her down a new path but if that's the case it will happen sooner or later anyway so maybe I should turn her loose to figure that out. I'd rather bring a girl into our mix than send her off alone.
/r/askTRP29/08/15 04:20 PM
1

I will definitely set the rules but at this point I'm still trying to figure out what she is interested in exactly.
/r/askTRP29/08/15 03:52 PM
2

Meditation and high sleep quality are a good start. Also by accepting her new plans you are buying into her frame. I would continue with plan A and rip her clothes off when she gets home. If she bitches, calmly walk out and sleep elsewhere unless you are a real boss and then you should kick her out of your bed. Women are not the only ones allowed to get upset, the difference is that when you get upset you still keep your cool and say things you mean. Calm collected deliberate and purposeful. Kee…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/15 01:19 AM
1

Monk mode man, you have to start somewhere. Educate yourself, apply yourself, clean up your act, be better than you have been. Demand more of yourself not to please anyone but yourself. Then keep doing it.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 02:51 AM
2

You have low self-esteem man. Why give any fucks what others are doing at all? When the actions of others have such effects on you it can only mean that you lack your own foundation.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 01:55 AM
2

Mostly focus on them and read them. You can read most people like a book through their body language, facial expressions, tone of voice, clothing. If you pay attention to those things you can navigate people and have your way with them without them even knowing and often times they will enjoy the process.
/r/askTRP22/08/15 10:49 PM
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Do things that boost testosterone, get sleep, eat eggs, take zinc, skip processed garbage, meditate, avoid soy products, don't jerk off. By boosting your testosterone levels you will start to feel more powerful and then you will act exactly how you feel. Also stop focusing on yourself and mind fuck the people around you, find their weaknesses.
/r/askTRP22/08/15 10:08 PM
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It's a good thing, don't worry about it but also don't let that pressure you into doing things you don't want to do.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/15 03:17 PM
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I think you should introduce a little competition and let her see you have other options. Also your wording sucked, this whole are we hanging out yes/no thing is pretty low. I would state what you are doing and invite her to join if she wants, you make it sound like you are catering your life based on her wants, fuck that, have better shit to do than ask her what your plans are, it stinks of desperation.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 12:55 AM
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You have to be alpha not act alpha and the difference lies in how you feel about yourself not how everyone else feels. If you feel alpha the rest will believe and fall in line. I've come to hone in on hormones being the primary driver for how I feel about myself. Work on raising testosterone and lowering cortisol. And while being ripped will help, your advantage will lie in your mental cunning and between your obvious superior intelligence and the way you carry yourself because of how you feel, …
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 12:16 PM
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I think if you are getting laid at least once every week or 2 then yeah the no fap thing is great but if you aren't getting any action at all it's probably best to let the steam build before you relieve yourself instead of just jerking as soon as you can get your next boner.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 12:39 AM
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It's amazing how improving yourself bleeds over into the people around you. Good job man!
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/15 07:01 PM
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As someone who quit smoking weed everyday after 10 plus years I can tell you that it most certainly has negative side effects. It took me well over a year to feel happy and positive in my day to day life. I love weed and it has its place but now if I smoke even 1 hit I can tell my brain isn't right for at least 3 days. That said its not all bad, I'd say it's sort of like asking if eating every meal at McDonald's is bad for you, yes but there are worse things and moderation is really the best ans…
/r/askTRP04/07/15 07:36 PM
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Maybe it's bullshit but on days I plan to have sex I eat an egg for breakfast and take zinc and meditate throughout the day, more of a continual destressing mindset really. a workout the day before with plenty of sleep would be ideal. Also you got to let the jizz tank fill up a little so no beating the meat all the time. But the effects are very noticeable, I'm assuming it's testosterone but whatever it is it is a great way to be.
/r/askTRP27/06/15 03:23 PM
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Health, time, and wealth are the 3 primary ingredients of a powerful life. To have all 3 in abundance at the same time is my personal goal.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 02:32 PM
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A mans got to do what a mans got to do. Be firm, hold frame. Tell her the facts to move on. Men think if a woman is crying it has meaning, women know that a woman crying means nothing. Don't coddle her.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/15 12:26 AM
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Sounds like he is so out of shape that he is living as a crappy version of himself. He would bang you to oblivion if he wasn't so out shape that he doesn't even recognize himself. Check his resting heart rate, if it's over 70 I bet he feels like a turd every moment of every day. Does he consume soy? Soy and body fat aren't good for testosterone. You both should be eating paleo, low carb, slow carb, Keto or anything that cuts out sugar, wheat, gluten and any processed garbage. Just 5 min of sprin…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 03:00 PM
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Your missing the point if straight dudes were able to form business contracts that gave them many financial benefits and prevented them from having the same arrangement with a female then they would probably each be better off in the long run. I guess if they wanted to corn hole each they could but that would just be gay marriage then.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 11:46 AM
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Thanks for this post, as someone who was a performing musician for much of my youth I agree with you that "being alpha" or whatever is much more about confidence and having your own sense of direction than being an uber jock. Chicks can't help but love musicians, having girls throw themselves at you is something every man should be able to experience.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 01:02 AM
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I don't believe in morals or right and wrong but I do try to not do things that will result in negative consequences and I think banging married chicks falls under the possible negative outcome category.
/r/askTRP24/04/15 12:36 AM
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It's shitty to sleep with a married person and people have been killed for less. However there are circumstances like open marriages and people who married gay people or other unique times where it's a grey area. If you don't someone else will, but you should let them. Real men don't need to sneak around other people's backs. Dating though I think I pretty fair game. As someone who has had someone seduce my wife I can tell you that I truly nearly killed them and I still am on the fence about if …
/r/askTRP24/04/15 12:22 AM
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I so wish I could not relate to you but I created 2 side business's just so I could have untraceable money but again I have kids so the only reason it got so bad was because we both knew I would be screwed in a divorce. I just this week told her I was going to open a new checking account so I will have to sign for all money I earn. And I'm creating a budget this week that won't include my business earning or day job bonuses so her spending will be tracked by me and she won't see mine. This didn'…
/r/askTRP22/04/15 01:26 AM
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Thanks for pointing this out, your health is the single most important thing you can have. Training yourself to choose your food with purpose and not let the world choose for you is a skill that directly transfers to many other things that require discipline. I would add mediation for helping to maintain frame and getting up early 7 days a week will improve sleep by keeping the same sleep cycle.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 12:45 AM
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I'm in somewhat of a similar situation and I know it's hard but I have kids and you don't so there's nothing to keep you there. Why not keep up the workout and dump her when she goes overseas. No sex no deal, my money is that she will be begging to fuck you as soon as you say goodbye and tell her it's over. If you don't at least make her believe you are willing to walk away she will walk all over you. When she looks at you she does not see someone worth fucking. Only someone who has better prosp…
/r/askTRP22/04/15 12:06 AM
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She is not using any medication but there is a backstory you can read here if you want: http://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/31qpvx/married_with_kids_to_a_lesbian_cheater_now_what/ But basically I caught her cheating with a high school girl 6 months ago, she lost her job over it and all social status in our small town, I've witnesses a group of school girls snickering and pointing when she walked by them, and I suspect my kids may face more scorn than my wife from school teasing and n…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 11:43 AM
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Ideally both at the same time!
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 11:34 AM
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You sound like you aren't having fun, tease them and fuck with them a little. Mimic what they say and twist it. When she says she doesn't do casual hook ups anymore say yeah me either I was into casual sex but it just didn't seem right so now I do more business casual sex. Talk some smack, tell her you are used to hearing that which is why you learned how to striptease which has proven to make business casual night much more fun. Bet her that if she sees your business casual strip tease and does…
/r/askTRP14/04/15 12:41 AM
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Why limit yourself? If you believe you got it then so will girls of all leagues.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 12:22 AM
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I don't think you get the picture, I wouldn't marry a man who wouldn't be my wingman. I always look for that in a life partner.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 12:20 AM
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There are 6 "red pill" podcast but all of them suck as far as I can tell. Someone needs to start a high quality trp podcast. If you find one please let me know. I did figure out a makeshift solution just 2 hours ago that seems to be working ok. First make an Instapaper account and install the add on to your browser. I saved the entire rational male blog to my Instapaper and installed the app on my iPhone. If you go to iphone settings and general you can activate voice commands and set it up to r…
/r/askTRP13/04/15 10:12 PM
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As a man who took the RP about the same time you did, and a man who is currently in counseling with a "communication solves everything" type counselor I can tell you that a month is not long enough to be comfortable with RP and a marriage game is sort of like single game except the punishment for failure is extreme, you don' t get to improve by failing and move on to the next one. I have found using a counselor to be like using a referee in an argument. I can tell your wife doesn't play nice in …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/15 01:14 PM
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I have been trying to come up with an actionable plan based on the things I'm learning here. It's easy to learn and not do. Good to see people getting down and dirty putting rubber to the road. Keep us posted on your progress.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/15 02:01 PM
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I heard it awhile back on the fatburning man podcast, here is an interesting article though http://www.menshealth.com/nutrition/soys-negative-effects/page/1
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 09:34 PM
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Truthfully, after 12 years of being beta this is my chance for a land grab. I am out of practice and I'm aware of that. I need to systematically maintain frame and iron out the new norm. I already see her shit testing me to see how much control she can regain. Unfortunately I know that uber drama is uber effective as much as I hate to engage in it, it may be time to do into dark mode for 48 hours without notice so she will not forget that I'm the only thing keeping her from falling into her own …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/15 01:54 PM
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I don't believe she is cheating and in fact has fallen from her dream world to land in a pile of shit with me being the only thing good in her life. I am in somewhat of a time quandary because if I stay 4 more years my sons will have a father but my business momentum will be split. Also at 18 years of marriage mandatory alimony sets in. The laws have hamstrung my work ethic by making my overachieving a liability in a divorce setting. It's a chess match and I've yet to think of an elegant move. I…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/15 01:40 PM
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All of what you said I agree with however, how do you factor in my 2 sons that are on the brink of puberty and in daily need of a father figure. That is the pin that holds this train together. That's the part I can't solve. I cannot escape with my men and I can't justify leaving them behind.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/15 01:06 PM
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Been there, it was good in a put the rest of my jobs into perspective sort of way but fuck being trapped all day every day with a bunch of women in a box. Fuck that hell, I hope you are making bank at least.
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You are too emotionally charged to worry about anything other than regaining your composure. Go monk mode. Don't expect to be better until you are in shape. Don't skip steps, or take shortcuts. Your moods will improve with your level of fitness. If you are fit, work on your non female related social life and hobbies and your career. By the time you get that sorted out you will no longer be angry you will be excited at the prospects to navigating this awesome thing we call life.
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I know it's hard but it's hard to go wrong keeping your mouth shut.
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You probably need to have sex with more girls and or generally boost your self esteem. That said, for me and I think most men, every time a hot girl adds a notch to her belt she becomes less attractive than she was before she let another dude jizz all over her. I also think your line of thinking is a sign that you are still putting pussy on a pedestal. Your disgust in slutty girls is somewhat based on jealousy that sex comes easier to them and because it's so easy to get laid they are not valuin…
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Some lessons cost more than others. Attempting to raise a family is risky business for men and women. What have you learned that can help the rest of us and what could you have done differently to have had a more desirable result?
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This is rough man. Putting you in a shit spot will end up hurting your child more than if they had put you in a more reasonable position. You could seek cash jobs or tipping jobs or start a cash business but you are just a walking paycheck to your ex as I suspect you always were.
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All women want guys almost out of their reach until they can no longer afford the risk of that kind of gamble. You not giving fucks if she leaves and having other options is a clear sign that you are out of her league. The next guy will commit right away and she will lose that good old fashioned feeling you gave her. I think you will hear from her again, its hard to set someone down that is of such high demand.
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As a fellow trp guy and drug enthusiast I have lost a girl who found out I did acid but I've also had lots of fun with girls on various drugs together. Ironically Trp has nothing to do with women, it's all about being the best version of yourself you can be. In that sense drugs arguably don't help in that quest (there are exceptions). However we all know how smart young hotties will bang the hell out of douchy druggie guys so I think the idea that doing drugs makes you into a risk taker does add…
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Fix your life and things will improve for you.
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Who care about her, what about you? Are you fat? Are you making things happen in your world. I can't tell you to next her till I know how valuable you are. Maybe you deserve her and aren't crushing it in life. Would you fuck yourself if you were a girl?
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Mostly I take piracetam, aniracetam and alpha gpc but I do play with others like foreskolin, huperzine a, l- theanine and many more exotic ones
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For me it starts with sleep, same time, blacked out room with white noise. I wake via a sunrise simulator for a half hour. Coffee, vitamins, smart drugs. I check my todo list that I prepare once a week and add to is as needed. I do keto diet mostly so that with intermittent fasting cuts way down on eating time. I try to train people around me as much as possible not to waste my time but that's usually the biggest hurdle. Basically, I'm always checking things off my list and hit a kind of flow st…
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If you are quick on your toes then you can spin it around with a snarky retort but either way do not lose frame. They shouldn't have much to call you out on in the first place if you have your shit together. Generally I advise not doing anything that would let the other person be seen as a victim of your actions. Usually people who hurl insults are very easy to manipulate. Remember it's all about what's best for you and creating enemy's isn't a solid strategy. Challenge yourself to turn this per…
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Basically, yes do those things and anything else you feel makes you more powerful and positioned better. Don't do them because I said to, do them because you think and know them to be effective. Toss them if you with your own intellect don't find them effective. You are a man and as such are more valuable than most women and if you want to be you will be more valuable then most men. When you can call bullshit on supposed leaders and learn to lead yourself you are starting to get it. Be in contro…
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I can tell you are way too nice. Apply some discipline to your life and don't waste time on people who don't serve you in some way. Who cares how hot she is if she isn't putting out and even if she is putting out who cares? She is just a chick and as such she should be lucky to have a solid disciplined man in her life, this mean you need to be awesome to work properly but basically one word... Next!
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As a man I mostly need a woman for sex and any additional benefit pales in comparison to sex. My wife in comparison needs me for basic essentials like protection and money and fixing everything and all the man things I do that keep her from living in misery. She would be offended if I told her that her primary purpose to me is sex but it is. Without a woman I would be horny but without a man she would have major problems just living life. This difference is the foundation of the playing field an…
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AWALT isn't based on fear or insecurity, it's based on hard lessons learned by guys who assumed women are capable of the same moral character of men. So while she may not cheat it will be because it just didn't happen but if she does cheat it will be because "it just happened" not because she set out to cheat. That's the problem, if you bring it up then you are an insecure loser and she will genuinely despise you for assuming she could not be trusted. If you trust her then you run the risk of be…
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As a bio hacker I'm torn because the knee jerk reaction is to say no to the weed but at the same time reducing stress and cortisol is good for testosterone levels. So my opinion is to use extreme moderation which is the beautiful thing about weed, a little goes a long way if you want it to. Take 1 rip a day tops with regular days off and I think you will be in the sweet spot.
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As a fairly sociopath person I must interject over the notion that sociopaths are antisocial. The first step to learning to manipulate others is self control or maintaining frame, this comes naturally to sociopaths but resisting the frames of others is just defense, the real power of a true sociopath is faking your emotions to have desirable effects on others. Lacking empathy is a huge help when it comes to maintaining frame. I think of Ted Bundy who was more of a sadist but must have also been …
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Yep, I also buy shots of water for me to slam and shots of rumplmintz for any assholes to slam that I'm trying to knock out. I've been known to line up 5 shots if anyone is fucking with me and down my water while they choke down the strong stuff. I used to be a bartender so I don't have a ton of patience with drunks.
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I would argue that you should drink at least to experience being drunk and know what different drinks taste like. You should also try other drugs. Try is different than use. Sobriety is ideal or perhaps 95% sobriety. Master the art of fake drinking for social reasons. Learn to dump beers as you piss and spit shots back into beers. You can walk the line but you should also experience a few things.
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Be the one most willing to end the relationship. Make decisions don't ask her what she wants to do. Call her only after she calls you. Pick her up and carry her to bed Don't buy her anything Be her best option Treat her like a child Or just next her
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You have it all wrong my friend, if you have a dick you are already on top of the pile. You have power like they can only dream of. They have the keys to sex and you have the keys to the world. Never forget that. The only reason women aren't treated as property is because men didn't want their daughters and mothers to live that way, not because women possess the power to stop it. Stop whining and start attacking each day like its war.
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It's on man, I've never had so many hot girls approach me in my life. Pretty much everywhere I went. They are so much more aggressive than American girls. Many didn't even know I was American but once they found out it was like I was made of gold or something. European girls are more likely to fuck you vs giving you head which is unlike American girls who seem to think giving head is just the polite thing to do after a date. I suspect it's the foreskins as I hear they have their own odd smell bu…
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Why the bathing vs showers?
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I read this awhile ago and believe me it made an impression and is probably the reason I've been dropping hints about bjs to her for some time now. She should be giving herself to me completely, clearly I'm doing something wrong. I don't particularly enjoy employing dread game but it is effective every time I do.
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I'm afraid you are right, been working to wrap my mind around that.
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Fuck no I'm not paying them lol.
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I have 2 boys who have 5-6 more years to go that need me around on a daily basis and not some lesbo wanna be dad.
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Fetlife.com There are more girls out there that would do it as well, I just don't have time to invest in flirting with all these girls all the time. Some of them are too weird for me or have conflicting schedules but I found one that is all about a weekly lunch break bj session. I'm still on the fence, half tempted to say fuck it and just go for it but there are no free lunches are there?
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I live in a fuck men over state, especially since I am the only one working now since she lost her job and I own 2 businesses and have a job. I'm trying to build up her income to a more balanced level but right now if I got divorced, I would lose my home, my kids and my money for the foreseeable future. Legally speaking she literally owns me. It's so fubar but don't get me started I'm trying to stay out of the anger phase.
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I've been lifting and showing improvement but the fashion comment is spot on, I've been putting off the wardrobe upgrade to see if I can shave a few more lbs off first.
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I have not played with the bj friend, I don't really care to most of the time to be honest. It smells like a trap to me, I just can't seem to sort it out.
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My wife is not fat at all, I'd say if you were just looking at us she would be a 7 and I'd be a 6. But if we were talking and interacting I would be a rung above her when you factor in personality.
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You are the gatekeeper of sex and you let not just another person in but the single most hurtful person possible. You need to dump the man because if he keeps you in spite of this behavior then he is an ultra beta and you will lose any respect you have left for him in short order.
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First off, are you on any medication? Are you a fat ass? Could you run a 5k tomorrow and finish? Are you stressed? Stop jacking all together till you are a walking boner. Cut soy products out and eat some eggs, get rested. If the above doesn't work see a doc.
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Freeing yourself from God just means to not allow yourself to be corralled into living a certain life based on dogma and the social effects that has. So really it means freeing yourself from any religious culture and customs if they aren't something you believe in.
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I'm glad you have realize trp has nothing to do with women though that's all we seem to talk about. It sounds like you are on the right track but be careful not to make more changes till the ones you have already made are cemented in. It's fun to go crazy with self improvement but from my experience slow and steady wins over sweeping change. I think you are missing the elephant in the room though, why are you quitting these activities? They eat up your time and resources and don't leave you in a…
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