Would appreciate some advice if you've experienced a similar situation.

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Helping ltr of 1 year apply for relationship visa.

It's a 2 year process and we will be documenting our relationship so we can file evidence that our partnership genuine.

It's a big effort on my part. I'm sacrificing a lot but I dont expect anything in return.

When I first decided to help her, I told her my condition.

My condition was that she trusts I will follow through all the way, and that I trust that she wouldn't do anything that would make me not follow through.

Now although I trust her, you never know what may happen.

I know in my country I could potentially get sued for dropping out of this plan mid way.

What do you guys think? What are some measures I can take to protect myself if she goes psycho on me? Appreciate it.

LTR wants to travel abroad in the future to secure and continue family business relations

Besides, I am aware a lot of foreign girls will get a partnership visa then just go back to their own country having secured a permanent Visa in another country. Unlikely this will happen, but you never know.

If she continues to contribute the way she has, I have no reason to end things.

One thing that concerns me though is that she plans to go back to her country after covid to collect money from her family business. This could be in 6 month 1 year or even 2024.

They are very well off, but her parents want her to learn about keeping their business running and introduce her to some business people.

She will be there for 4 months. I told her that 4 months is a long time to be away from each other and I dont think that's fair for either of us.

I asked her if she thought that was really necessary. Couldn't her parents just hire people they trust to collect the money themselves? Besides she has no qualifications in business herself.

She was adamant that it would be better she went herself because then she could see if she had a knack for it. How can I discourage her if she puts it like that. Besides, I am running a farming business and have no business degree. We left it at there.

I know by going she benefits by acquiring a large sum of money. She plans to use that money to help expand my farming business in the future.

I am young and naive so she could be playing me. I dont assume that, but it could be true.

If you've been in a similar situation, how did things turn out?