hi help

effyouasshole · 2018-05-05T17:40:33+00:00

> My family (parents, 3 younger siblings) are currently living in my house, me as the sole provider

Why the fuck are you letting yourself get utterly used by your family? This is strongly related to the problem you posted about: you have no boundaries, nor are you enforcing any.

Step one is stop being a chump. Stop letting your family use you. On your own, come up with a reasonable time frame for them to move the fuck out. Then tell them of this time table. Do not ask them to leave. Tell them.

Once you stop being financially abused, your parents will likely start respecting your choices as an individual, and won't pester you about your personal life.

HotStickySemen · 2018-05-05T17:34:24+00:00

Tell them strictly to stop bringing it up again.I don't mean hurting them,but they have to know when to stop.

Title	hi help
Author	KitchenWhile
Upvotes	1
Comments	2
Date	May 5, 2018 5:24 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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