So I'm MRP started all this about two weeks ago from a place dried up sex life. I came to realization that i was the problem indeed I'm the typical nice guy. Anyways joined the Gym and a crossfit class to increase my SMV and so far she has complimented my improvement I have began to feel stronger everyday that goes by. I have a difficult time holding my frame. As my sexual initiations get denied I tend to take them personal.

I have been practicing Stfu and so far it has been working her arguements have been less and less. Anyways a specific situation tonight I was feeling bold and initiated she hit me with the I'm tired and I need to go to sleep I kind of took it as a blow to my ego. Then she proceeded to walk out of the bedroom and into the spare bedroom. It took everything I had to calm my anxiety and stop trying to fix her problems like an average nice guy and hold frame by staying in the master bedroom. Was this the right move? Is there any hope I just have a tough time applying these principals and holding my frame. Should married men spin plates?