Summary: Way older, "out of my league chick" I've been talking to let me take her out because I've been acting the TRP way. Everything went well, but she refused to come over in the front of my house.
Background: 19 yo, college student, part time job, lift and do martial arts, take care of body and mind, good with communication
This is a girl from a language class I've been taking. She's 24, I'm 19, and there was always sexual tension in the air when we made eye contact in class. After talking for a while, both in person and on facebook, I asked her out, but she dodged it. She's much older and obviously thought of herself as superior to me. I didnt give up, kept talking to her, teasing, cracking jokes and keeping frame. After a while she tried to talk to me about my sex life and girls I was hooking up with. I told her I dont talk about my private life unless shes a part of it, than I ignored her for a week. She asked me if I wanted to go get drinks with her. We went out to a bar, got drunk, I played the game and kept my frame. We hooked up, intense make out session on our walk home, pulling hair, slapping ass etc... However, when we got to my building, she brought up all the excuses she already established in the beginning of the night. "I have a trip tomorrow at 8" "I'm already hooking up with two guys, I feel so bad"... I tried my best convincing her, tried to lead her upstairs by her hands and stuff, none of it worked. I told her fuck the trip, come over next time then.. She said "not gonna happen". I wasn't gonna beg. I said, "Ok, bye" an walked away.
I felt like walking away from a girl that is still shit testing me, after all this time, was my best option. I could have tried to convince her for longer, but I felt like that would break my frame. I do regret not trying to pick her up and carry her upstairs tho... Anyway. before, whenever she would do/say something stupid, I'd ignore her, and it worked. I'm not sure if it will work this time, I'm waiting on her message, definitely not gonna message first. What do you TRP brothers think of this situation?
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