Hi so I have slowly been getting unfiltered with my co-worker in my new job (6 months) regarding my thoughts. I sometimes let them know the books I'm reading (non-redpill titles) and have slowly been asserting myself and letting them know my opinions about topics like economics, lifestyle, music and my approach to women.
I never used redpill terminology, but today I got into a conversation about women with a male co-worker (beta mindset). He tried to tell me that ultimately the girl is the buyer and decides if you are getting with her so you have to go on many dates and win her over on the premise that women do not approach. I agreed that it was true that men approach but that is the wrong mindset to come from. I explained RSD-Julien's analog in his PIMP series of (Become the buyer, not seller, like going in to Best Buy and buying a TV. You know you want a TV/girl but you want to know more about it/her and you have a lot of options. I even prefaced it with, "Why is it such a crime to think you are valuable enough for a woman" (Really just explaining abundance mentality and being non-needy).
Now in the same room, there was this indian divorced single mother (45+ year old) living in an apartment alone with her dog. (I should have expected it) She heard our conversation and flipped the fuck out over the comparison to Best buy TVs and started yelling at me calling me "like ignorant Indian men from small villages in India" (aka: misogynist), and said "I clearly have a low opinion of women", and that "You deserve to be slapped, and I would slap you if you were my son". She continued on to say "You are a child", and if I ever talk like this again she would call HR and report me.
I tried to say "Im sorry that I offended you" (cause I'm not sorry for what I said), but she cut me off and the only part she heard was "I'm sorry", and she said, "you're not sorry, you're just trying to run away" (I was just not trying to make a scene cause she was getting pretty loud). After that I just walked away.
Either way I have decided I am not going to socialize at work since everyone is just fucking beta; they are the kind of guys who won't back you when shit hits the fan but will agree with you in other cases/talk behind your back, basically passive aggressive bitches . And the women, are brainwashed feminist ball cutters.
My question is other than developing my ability to cold-read people, and avoiding talking about TRP truths.(1) How can I avoid situations that put my work and reputation in jeopardy?
Really I don't go out of my way to talk redpill, it just comes out cause I act on my belief and all my opinions aside from entirely functional thoughts are red pill.
Also I'm really concerned about how this will effect my job prospect. (2) If I isolate myself from my co-workers aside from the entirely superficial, how can i build the relationships necessary to advance in my career?
I feel like i'm ultimately restrained by a type of "girls club".
(3) How would you have prevented this issue? And how would you deal with the situation after it happened?
Lastly, I'm sure that my conversation can qualify for sexual harassment under "Hostile Work Environment", which has the loose standard of, "did the girl say she felt uncomfortable at work" (Very similar to rape charges). (4) So how can I do legal damage control seeing as she will likely "have it out for me"? And really if she wanted to she can report at any time.
Thanks, I know that was a mouthful. But I would really appreciate this advice for this and future situations.
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