I think I came some way because today I was deadlifting loud as usual and one skinny adult told me to quiet down. Normally I would say okay, and rant when I get home but today I told him the noise is normal because I’m not benching 90lbs like him but deadlifting 270lbs for 7 reps.

I think I did a good job there but I still get passive aggressive sometimes. How can I get better at this?