How can i spend time myself without feeling lonely,bored,shamed or depressed.

Quaternionz · 2018-09-07T16:19:23+00:00

Read this:

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/929gf2/the_importance_of_solitude_and_a_detox_from_women/

And then read my comment here:

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/929gf2/the_importance_of_solitude_and_a_detox_from_women/e5jdfs3

bluechipmonk · 2018-09-07T18:02:27+00:00

Being in college gives you the best opportunity to meet women. Once you gradute and start working it will be a bit hard. So while you're in college, approach girls, ask them if they'd like to have some coffee. Involve in college activities, join clubs, etc.

MattyAnon · 2018-09-07T18:06:59+00:00

. I am tired of fake friends and thots pretending to be decent human beings.

You are not yet good enough to attract decent people into your life, so you blame others.

Your problem is that you don't feel you are enough or ok by yourself. Some people need others around, and that's ok. Some people need others to feel validated, and that's a problem..

Blackhawk2479 · 2018-09-07T16:37:33+00:00

What’s your mission outside of studying?

Being on your own is much easier when you’re busy and focussed.

imtheoneimmortal · 2018-09-07T18:27:54+00:00

Don't pretend too much from others or don't pretend nothing
Pretend real friends, that they kiss your ass, give money
Appreciate them for what they are

Tehdavie · 2018-09-08T04:07:30+00:00

Bro first off Nice name Im TehDavie. I thought I was the only one!
Anyways, I had alot of the same problems you do. Honestly life can fucking surprise you. Honestly, don't go out looking for love it will find you in time. I found the love of my life on Grindr when I didn't even care about finding someone. We are 5 years strong. Love will find its way to you, just don't looking for it, or closed off to it. I try to look at the good things you have in life appreciate it. For you it will be you are working on yourself and improving yourself one way or another every day. That's awesome dude! Regarding friends, people are fucking shitty dude. Its hard to find good decent people. I think of it as I just gotta sort out the shitty fake people from the decent/cool ones. As long as you try to stay a decent human being you will find some people worth being a friend to. Other times to be honest with you my friend, you just gotta wait out the shitty cloud floating over your emotions until it passes. I usually binge watch a tv show or set of movies. I did start stretching that may help! The breathing really helps calm the mind down. You could also try weed.
Sorry if this was annoyingly long, the words just kept coming at me. I had to type it all out. Best of luck to you my dude!

Corvus_Uraneus · 2018-09-07T17:04:32+00:00

If you like Fortnite, have you considered streaming while you play games? You'll have people talking to you the whole time while still doing what you want to do. May even make a buck or two.

Title	How can i spend time myself without feeling lonely,bored,shamed or depressed.
Author	TehJimmyy
Upvotes	20
Comments	16
Date	September 7, 2018 4:08 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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