Hey everyone,

I believe a lot of the guys going here are in need of having a practical way to practice being bold, and in other words de-program those beta traits that keep hanging on from our BP/beta programming.

I tried reading NMMNG, which was kinda helpful, but at least to me was a stimulation on the very basic level, and not really something that directly changed my approach.

I'll admit I didn't follow the whole excercises-part of the book talking to random people on the street - that's because I don't have any problem cold approaching, but rather my main problem includes coming off as a "non-threat", unexciting kind of guy.

I'd love someone who feels like he actually went through that de-programming process to share his knowledge and how he got to where he is today. I believe theory reading is always good, but when it comes to actually implementing it.

TL;DR : Theortically know how I should behave, but niceness is programmed way too deeply in me. What steps should I take in order to adopt a more alpha mentality?