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Bit of background been reading TRP and lifting consistently for a year but I haven’t really applying it properly, only bits and pieces like AAing sometimes, apologising less, little things like that. Recently I have been applying it properly, but a lot of it feels kind of awkward. I’m not sure if that’s how it usually is or if I’m just sperging out. Heres a few examples:

  1. Had a date the other day and I was leading the whole time. I didn’t ask her if she wanted to do anything or if she was comfortable just said ‘let’s do this’, picked the seats, venues, times, everything.. At some points she didn’t seem super eager to follow, especially when we were walkjng back to mine through some sketchy area. Was this because I wasn’t being an effective leader or because I wasn’t confident enough in my choices or something else?

  2. Similar shit happens when I’m hanging out with my sister. I’ll say ‘we are stopping here for lunch’. She never complains but she never seems overly comfortable with it.

  3. I live with a mate and up until the last month I have been very careful with how I help out, I have made sure everything is split 50/50. In the past month he has been driving me around a bit so I have been doing little things like if I am going to the laundry (external) I will put his stuff in the dryer if it’s already in there and being more leniant with the 50/50. He has been a bit less responsive, less willing to hang out but I feel like a nazi when I’m making sure everything is 50/50.

Thanks in advance would really appreciate some advice.