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How do I develop the confidence to do something like this?

MaintainPlantain

May 28, 2021
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Title How do I develop the confidence to do something like this?
Author

MaintainPlantain

Upvotes 0
Comments 7
Date May 28, 2021 1:40 AM UTC
(5 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/nmmw1w/how_do_i_develop_the_confidence_to_do_something/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/how-do-i-develop-the-confidence-to-do-something.775083
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[–]blender821 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What commit a crime and be annoying as hell. Thats not something you should aspire to do.

[–]St31nway 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Why would you want to do this?

[–]MaintainPlantain[S] -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Well I was using it as an example. I just want to be confident enough to not be afraid of doing something like that. I would never actually steal though. His confidence would be amazing to have.

[–]St31nway 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The feeling of confidence comes after action. There’s no secret trick to becoming confident other than acknowledging your fear, anxiety, whatever and doing what you want to do anyway.

Being good at something and lifting/looking your best will obviously make you feel more confident but confidence generally comes from taking action and stepping out of your comfort zone often.

The Confidence Gap touches a lot on the stuff I said. You should read it or at least check it out. It helped me realize a lot about what confidence is and where it comes from.

[–]breakupstrategy 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Have autism.

[–]Msworld2031 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That’s not confidence, it’s just lack of impulse control 😬

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