Longtime lurker of TRP. I know what I want, but I'm completely lost on where to find it or how to make myself more appealing. I'm well aware of the draw I have to men that are dominant, in control and appreciate the submissive femininity of a woman. I have made purposeful strides to dress more womanly and modestly, keep my makeup natural, increased my social circles and practice mindfulness over how I come across (ie not bitchy, more soft spoken and less hoe, potential soft place to land, relaxed on useless feminism stances, more substance to my personality that isn't basic bitch). I know I crave the man that will tell me I'm being childish and not encourage my bad behaviour, appreciate nesting and cooking and all of those things. I feel that all I attract at the moment on dating sites is guys looking for a quick root that are quite obviously not alpha and i wouldnt enjoy sex with, and I am never approached in public by men. How do I find/attract what I am looking for? I am trying so hard to be the good girl that a quality man will want.