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[–]TheTittyBurglar points points points 56 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
more proof that girls go fucking batshit crazy when they don't get the closure they want lol.
Move on. I'm with him on this, hes found better pussy or his girl is enough for him. deal with it and if you care about the dude you'd leave him be and not try to give him more of a headache
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Make new fucking friends? He's n o t your friend anymore. You'll move on once you meet new people. This is the best advice I can give you
[–]CrawlAtopMe 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I just want my friend back.
No you don't. You're a batshit crazy girl who thrives in dysfunction and self abuse. Whether you're aware of it or not, every action you take leads to more drama, more suffering on your part, more ammunition for you to complain, adding more and more substance to the white knight mating call that is your existence.
[–]zrobsgirl3 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
You care too much about what he is doing and he couldn't care less about you. You don't get him back. You move on. You are only making it worse for yourself. Take care of you and your family. It's one dude.
[–]GreenPiller1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You sound like a mess and going back to that guy will fuck you up even more. You are basically a headless chicken at this point. Get your shit together and try to become a pleasant and feminine female. Hopefully it's not too late.
[–]spliffgang points points points 56 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
you are a crazy bitch, dont try to be something you're not. He's doing the exact thing all of us would do
[–]MusicSports0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
You don't miss him, you miss feeling attractive because a guy who was higher SMV than you was sneaking out on his girlfriend to cheat with you, and you felt like the girl he really wanted to be with. Listen to "The Weekend" by SZA. That's how you felt.
If he came back to you at this point, after a few months or even weeks you'd see him as a punk and start taking advantage of him. You'd feel like he realized he was better off with you than without you and think you were worth more than him. You'd probably end up leaving him, getting bored, or cheating emotionally or physically on him. Now that isn't your fault. It's not. It's just how women are naturally and unconsciously. Which has to be accepted for what it is and isn't something to hate. It's just nature in the same way plants use sunlight for photosynthesis. Whether you believe that or not, it's not the point. So don't focus on "what if he came back."
Now for your advice/medicine. You're acting crazy as fuck. You have children for fucks sake. Do your kids deserve watching their mother starve herself and slowly become an alcoholic because her little college aged dildo/"friend" doesn't desire her anymore? He's a dude in college. He's nothing special. You need to get your life and priorities in order for your children but most importantly you. Stop drinking. Eat a nutritious and healthy diet. Learn about calories and macronutrients to figure out how to eat healthily. Go to the gym and get in some good shape to be able to see improvement on your body so you catch more guys staring at you. Try to stay off social media a bit. Get your career/finances in order so you're comfortable and working towards goals and doing SOMETHING that makes you happy. If not possible with career at the moment pick up a hobby while thinking about how to aim your career in a positive direction. Take all these things one step at a time but START TAKING ACTION NOW. For your kids, for you. Move on from him. He's nothing special. You can do this.
[–]MusicSports0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
If you keep making these excuses for yourself you'll get nowhere. If you didn't think he was higher value than you then you'd already have realized you can do better. Quit making excuses for him and yourself. You're starving yourself, you have no friends, no hobbies, you're a grown ass MOTHER getting yelled at by the mom of a college boy for stalking him to his house, and you're a shut in. Get yourself in order.
[–]MusicSports0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I was a mess but im not anymore. I live alone and have spent the last 2 months talking to my dog. School doesn't start for 2 more months. I just cant think.straight now but what is more i don't have anything to look forward too. Nothing else i do alone makes me happy. Ive been getying really suicidal but i haven't told anyone because i dont want to be that fucked up.person that says love me or ill kill myself. I dont want to die or anything i just wish for it to be night all the time so i can sleep.
I was a mess but im not anymore.
I live alone and have spent the last 2 months talking to my dog. School doesn't start for 2 more months. I just cant think.straight now but what is more i don't have anything to look forward too. Nothing else i do alone makes me happy. Ive been getying really suicidal but i haven't told anyone because i dont want to be that fucked up.person that says love me or ill kill myself. I dont want to die or anything i just wish for it to be night all the time so i can sleep.
You need serious action, introspection, counseling, support, and a change of thought. Tell someone you're feeling suicidal. Family if possible.
I can't help someone who doesn't want to help themselves. Get over this guy. I had an ex girlfriend just like you at one point. Exactly where you are now. Suicidal and everything. I got back with her because I missed her the whole time we were apart and I wasn't mature enough to walk away knowing she was crazy/ hurt me more than helped me/ using me. She was elated when we got back together. She was happier than I'd ever seen her. She got into better shape, got out more, made a ton of new friends, improved her life, improved her grades, got new hobbies, and then dumped me when she started feeling like she was worth more than me. I'm telling you that I'm 100% positive you don't miss him as a person. You just miss your life raft on the sinking ship that is your life. Instead of sinking because you don't have him, learn to fucking swim. And after learning to swim, build a better ship.
[–]jackandjill220 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nice.
[–]LordThunderbolt0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Girl you're fucking nuts. You made your bed, now sleep in it. You should've just stayed in your lane.
[–]Originalitysux0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Move. On. Go see a THERAPIST. Take care of your kid. Take care of yourself. Do not contact your friend.
[–]beta_no_mo0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This post should be on the sidebar. So many confirmations of TRP tenets regarding female behavior.
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