I’m 19, I live in our house while on lockdown and I’m stuck with my family. I miss living in the college dorms, I could do whatever I want. I live in PH btw, not the west. Where “asian women are wives” yeah right lmao.

This all started when I was assembling the electric fan a couple of days ago.

My mom told my dad “let him be a man and fix it”. It’s all good to me, after all it’s an easy job. She then told me “you should know how to fix things your own so that your future wife would be pleased”.

I told her “Haha I have no plans on getting married anyway”. Now I know I may have broken the first rule of trp, which is to not talk about it. But in this case I was just kidding around..oops

She asked me why, and I told her “I think I’ll enjoy my money on my own. Women today are stressful, I’ll just focus on my path on becoming a pilot”. She seemed delighted when I said I’ll just stick on my career, but at the same time puzzled. She told me that there are quality christian women like her who are ‘wife material’.

I responded: “I don’t want to go home all tired from work, while the wife would do nothing and nag, at the same time do all the chores on my own. Wives are not worth it, very expensive too”.

My dad was smirking while sipping coffee and reading news from his phone, but then my mom was starting to be mad at me.

She argued: “Why? Do you think I’m lazy in this house? Your dad did nothing in the house while I was busy taking care of you when you were little!”. I was very confused as to why she acted this way, I wasn’t even talking about her. I told her: “But dad’s job is to work while your job is to take care of us right? Why is it a big deal?”.

She was furious and went on about how she ‘sacrificed for the family’ and my dad’s company would be bankrupt ‘if it wasn’t for her saving it’.

Before you comment, I’ll give you a little background about my parents. When they both met my mom was 19 while my dad was 31. My mom was at college and does modelling, singing at events, and tv shows. While my dad was already a contractor with two degrees, civil and electrical engg. They met through my dad’s sister. I won’t get into much detail.

My mom often received “date requests” from guys (sons of drug lords, politicians, rich guys). But her manager refused, and is always on guard. Her manager wants her to “make it to showbiz”. While my dad had two exes when he was in college and only dated a decade later. He asked her sister to find “the right one” and would reject mediocre women. (I don’t believe in any of this, I knew deep inside my mom discreetly fucked high smv men while my dad probably spinned plates, or didn’t)

My dad impregnated my mom but the “baby fell”. Then they fucked again and tada! I was born. I don’t know if that counts as my sibling. I guess my dad went full BB and supported us. We were struggling at that time, but my dad managed to work it out.

Fast forward to 2017 my dad was having a financial crisis in our company and my mom opt to sell everything “for the sake of our survival”. The car, condo unit, assets, even my phone and nice clothes wtf. The most absurd thing was that my mom is trying to sell our ford everest for only 50,000 pesos ($1000) “for the sake of our survival”. But that didn’t happen because my dad stopped her. We only lost the condo due to collateral from the bank, and all our nice things.

My mom left him, we stayed at her friend’s house and manipulated us that our dad was a bad guy. The only good thing was my dad finding a new contract to save the business. After that my mom’s back to spending my dad’s money on unnecessary bullshit. That redpilled me a bit because I would see my mom staring at attractive guys but would treat my dad like shit.

Here’s another thing, all of my dad’s assets are under my mom’s name. The car, house, titles, jewelry are all hers. He’s even paying for my grandmother’s house!

I found the redpill when I broke up with my ex, now I can see that even my mom is no different from her. My mom really did her job on making us naive of female nature while playing as the victim. She even told us that going to the gym is useless, and all the other bluepill bs. My dad and brother believes that but I don’t.

I can’t redpill anyone, I tried it out on them but it backfired on me. I know I had a mistake but if you were in my shoes, what would you do NOW? Not in the past since we can’t fix it anymore.